Reflection on Bar and Club Experiences - 00:00:00 Chasing the Night: Common Bar Experience - 00:00:28 The Cycle of Disappointment - 00:01:47 Creating Your Own Good Time - 00:03:03 Embracing the Present Moment - 00:03:26 Final Thoughts and Advice - 00:04:07

Duuuude. Amazing wisdom!!!

Glad i found u shogo

Who's here in 2024?

Someone find this wise man, he vanished!

Anyone know what happened to this guy? He vanished

Based

Spent my whole life with anxiety thinking I wanted a girl. Once I started doing it I realized I don't even want a girl, they're annoying and a waste of time.

Wherere u on tedtalk shogo

I go out by myself all the time. Just don't even be desperate to meet women. Trust me they will approach you. Your energy will let them know that you have some value to offer. Just sit back and relax. Just have your hygiene on point because most people at bars or club stink

- its her success and your success - set goals

- exertion rest (journey, destination changes) - be grateful enjoy

just do it not future

This was kinda eye opening....never heard this point of view. Wise man

Is true, when you drop the agenda and instead tell yourself "I just want to get to know this person" it becomes SOO much easier

Can you actually give examples of being present. You have a good example of the past. “My sister was a nurse “. What would one say to be present?

The hesitation is the worry that she probably really doesn't want to be bothered by some stranger. It is just so presumptuous to think otherwise. Imagine from the attractive girl's point of view. Let's assume she gets approached more or less nonstop, like many times per day. Men have zero idea what that must be like. Annoying, I'd say! So she probably learns to despise this endless long string of guys coming up hoping to charm her ultimately into the bedroom. I never got good results from trying such approaches out of the blue. And, despite the existence of dozens of channels promising to help guys face "approach anxiety", I don't think they help very much.

This poor guy is 50 now

Domt ask if they are enjoying themselves. Don't ask what they are thinking. Just enjoy the silence or just ask questions to create conversation. Remember, if they cant hold a conversation, be the one to walk away. You will not be happy with someone who looks at their phone when you talk.

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The key take away here is that you should live in the moment. Don’t focus on the future of what could happen.

this guy knows what he is talking about

Much respect 🙏

That's definitely a different way of thinking. So what about if you're doing something now for your future... like planting a garden, let's say. Is there still no future?

I have a huge problem with mumbling an stustusteder....it hinders my dating game....ive looked into speech therapy

Just now seeing these great videos..hope everything is good with you

How to spend 6 mins saying so much but at the same time saying nothing lol. Not a single concrete solution was given, the title is how to avoid awkward silences not whether we should avoid awkward silences.

His videos are great, what happened to him lately?

it is one of the points that freak me out when I start a conversation in English. I know I need to overcome this fear in a way to become a better English speaker.

Next video, don't get your mate to hold the camera

So today I just felt really anxious in a full group of people. We exchanged conversations and honestly, at some point, having these silent moments I felt so anxious and might have stuttered something to someone in a way I really didn't want to and probably wasn't best moment to even say it, ending up feeling more awkward. This is one of the reasons I just hate attending these events, because after I beat myself over it.. God. Thank you however for this lovely video and explanation, it put me at ease. Next time I'll embrace the silence❤

I needed this now ...in the future 😸

Actually people are only self conscious around people they thinknare better than themselves in one way or another. If u think u are better than everyone else u dont overthink how people see you but u have a narcissism issue. Thats why people should just accept who they are with whatever flaws they have without trying so hard to apeal to others but genuinely try to improve themselves. (Not embrace the flaws which causes degradation)

Having adhd makes this super hard

I don’t chase girls anymore. It was the most dumb thing to do when i was younger and i got burned. A lot is changed now and what i see is that woman are looking for attention. Instant gratification and entitlement… the only thing i chase now is my life, my health my wealth and my piece of mind… I deeply understand why men are going to go their own way eventually once they realize how beta it actually is to chase pussy instead of their dreams… i even question if there are quality woman going to bars and clubs i might think to go look in other places for quality!

Tip 1: don't just talk into someones right ear

Dude where have you been? Are you still alive :/

Hey man, i don't know if you read any comments anymore but i just wanted to thank you. Some of your videos have really helped me out in life and you got a lot of good stuff to share. The video about saying and acting awkward is something that helped me though the bigger part of my young adult life

I can image one can develop this mindset, this way of living the world instead of the one portrayed and constructed for us by the media... ..if one has grown up besides the Dalai Lama or around those circles, I dont get how you dont get twisted along the way? This is certainly purity

I just sit at the back bench waiting to be noticed I don't look at anyone so I don't come across as thirsty because of my nails I get attention from the ladies

The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. (2 Peter 3:9) Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. (1 Corinthians 6:9-10)

I went solo last weekend had a blast I had wasn't worrying about girls but I went out last night with mindset of gotta find a girl didn't have a good time at all so man speaking facts don't go just for girls dance and have fun

I'm too high for this but it was exceptionally pleasant and I watched it all the way through.

"You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free." When a well packaged web of lies has been sold gradually through time to the masses over generations, the truth will seem utterly preposterous and its speaker a raving lunatic. It’s easier to fool people than it is to convince them that they have been fooled. No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth. This truth will free you to seek for the Living God in the Spirit and to truly KNOW GOD instead of just knowing ABOUT HIM. The GOSPEL is NOT written with ink, nor on tablets of stone, but on our hearts by the Spirit of the Living God. The gentiles who have not the law, do by nature the things contained in the law, then they are a law unto themselves. Under the New Covenant we are to be led by the Holy Spirit, not the bible. I was searching for truth when Jesus told me, "The bible is an idol" which completely changed my direction. After that I only sought for Him in the Spirit and He has taught me many things on life's journey. The most important of which is that He died so we could be regenerated by the Holy Spirit into sons and daughters of God. The gospel is simple, repent from living after the flesh, ask Jesus to fill you with the Holy Spirit and then be led and controlled by Him through the Spirit. The bible is only history and has absolutely no authority from God to control us, the outward law was under the old covenant. Jesus died to redeem us from the curse of the written law because we were unable to keep it. Have a great journey through life with the Living Christ guiding you. When Jesus words are written down and Satan is using them, then the bible becomes the word of Satan. Constantine (1st) beast compiled 50 bibles, legalized Christianity and set up the false prophet (pope). King James (2nd) beast, born 6/1566, 6th of Scotland, authorized a bible in 1611 that now has 66 books to control people with, an image of God's word they make to speak (the bible says). By having faith in the bible which has been made into an idol, they break the new covenant of having faith in the Living Christ through the Holy Spirit, who is the true word of God. THE BIBLE IS THE MARK OF THE BEAST Ask Jesus -Yeshua for the Holy Spirit. Link To Blog Site Book: Book 1 THE BIBLE IS THE MARK OF THE BEAST bibleismarkofbeast.blogspot.co... BOOK 2 THE BIBLE IS AN IDOL bibleismarkofbeast.blogspot.co... KZbin Channel: kzbin.infovideos 🕊💖•••

the thing is, when I'm in public im so quiet but in group chats, Im 100% talkative.. I'm more comfortable communicating through social media... and then I will think "why am I so annoying in group chats but in public im so quiet" people are definitely gonna talk about me like "he's like this in social med but not in public" you get me? 😭

You know, I used to be really easy in talking in group chats until I come into certain diplomatic stuff I didn't really like. Now it changes me completely :( I can't even talk in groups and think normally. Help 😔

You're the real master guru

BIBLE BELIEVERS LIVE BY THE SWORD. They say United States of America is a Christian nation, THAT IS A LIE. What kind of Christians go out and fight/live by the sword In the name of Jesus? This country is built off the lust of the flesh. The devil was the one that built it. Bible believers do NOT want Jesus as king, they want kings that will live by the sword. When you vote for somebody that person represents you. You elected a king to rule over you. So when that king sends a bunch of missile's overseas and kills a bunch of people and other bible believers, who gave that king power to do so? The person that voted for him. You wanted him to do your own will after the flesh. You people wanted a king that would live by the sword. You will be held accountable for the murders you help created. You bible/thugs wanted safety and security fleshly devil. Today all Bible believers do is destroy each other because of the lust of their flesh. They destroyed the world, they helped destroy people's souls, they helped send people into hell. They truly belong to the serpent seed. Matthew 26:52 52 But Jesus said to him, “Put your sword in its place, for all who take the sword will perish by the sword. John 18:36 36 Jesus answered, “My kingdom is not of this world. If My kingdom were of this world, My servants would fight, so that I should not be delivered to the Jews; but now My kingdom is not from here.” This country and the rest of the world is nothing more warmongers. This 1st beast "Constantine" legalize Christianity. He did what satan did in the garden though subtlety. He brought Christianity down into the flesh (the wiles of the devil). Jesus does not go into battle with swords. He told Peter, "Put up your sword, they that live by the sword must die by the sword." They rejected God as their king 1 Samuel 8:5-7 5 They said to him, “You are old, and your sons do not follow your ways; now appoint a king to lead us, such as all the other nations have.” 6 But when they said, “Give us a king to lead us,” this displeased Samuel; so he prayed to the Lord. 7 And the Lord told him: “Listen to all that the people are saying to you; it is not you they have rejected, BUT THEY HAVE REJECTED ME AS THEIR KING. This beast "Constantine" legalized Christianity. He did what Satan did in the garden through subtlety. He brought Christianity down into the flesh (the wiles of the devil). Jesus did not go into battle with swords. He told Peter, "Put up your sword, they that live by the sword must die by the sword." "You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free." When a well packaged web of lies has been sold gradually through time to the masses over generations, the truth will seem utterly preposterous and its speaker a raving lunatic. It’s easier to fool people than it is to convince them that they have been fooled. No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth. This truth will free you to seek for the Living God in the Spirit and to truly KNOW GOD instead of just knowing ABOUT HIM. The GOSPEL is NOT written with ink, nor on tablets of stone, but on our hearts by the Spirit of the Living God. The gentiles who have not the law, do by nature the things contained in the law, then they are a law unto themselves. Under the New Covenant we are to be led by the Holy Spirit, not the bible. I was searching for truth when Jesus told me, "The bible is an idol" which completely changed my direction. After that I only sought for Him in the Spirit and He has taught me many things on life's journey. The most important of which is that He died so we could be regenerated by the Holy Spirit into sons and daughters of God. The gospel is simple, repent from living after the flesh, ask Jesus to fill you with the Holy Spirit and then be led and controlled by Him through the Spirit. The bible is only history and has absolutely no authority from God to control us, the outward law was under the old covenant. Jesus died to redeem us from the curse of the written law because we were unable to keep it. Have a great journey through life with the Living Christ guiding you. When Jesus words are written down and Satan is using them, then the bible becomes the word of Satan. Constantine (1st) beast compiled 50 bibles, legalized Christianity and set up the false prophet (pope). King James (2nd) beast, born 6/1566, 6th of Scotland, authorized a bible in 1611 that now has 66 books to control people with, an image of God's word they make to speak (the bible says). By having faith in the bible which has been made into an idol, they break the new covenant of having faith in the Living Christ through the Holy Spirit, who is the true word of God. THE BIBLE IS THE MARK OF THE BEAST Ask Jesus -Yeshua for the Holy Spirit. Link To Blog Site Book: Book 1 THE BIBLE IS THE MARK OF THE BEAST bibleismarkofbeast.blogspot.co... BOOK 2 THE BIBLE IS AN IDOL bibleismarkofbeast.blogspot.co... KZbin Channel: kzbin.infovideos 🕊💖••••

I wanna stop using my phone too much and meditate 15 minutes a day + focusing on studying for the exams

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