Use Slavic girl energy - less smiling, no fake talk, no need to people please, detach ❤
@ShaniOnSinai3 күн бұрын
My daughter is Slavic. Extreme roasting is on the menu.
@RSPY-ko8ki7 сағат бұрын
lol nice
@lou151769 күн бұрын
You are bang on the money with this one ☝️!! I’m a nervous twitchy little rodent type, it definitely leaves me open for people to take the piss. We give so much away through our energy and body language. I’ve had to stop speaking to people for a bit so I can practice the smile without the psycho 🤦♀️ I’m 49 ffs 😂
@warmdusk9 күн бұрын
Girl it’s ok, sometimes it’s hit or miss for me. I started getting confused because some people say “smile brighter” cuz I was scared I was too dry. Then I felt like a crazy for cheezing too hard 😂
@lou151769 күн бұрын
@ cheezing too hard 😂😂😂 I do the cheese smile along with that erratic nodding of the head as well. But actually a little less with the people pleasing is helping me with the nodding 😂😁 👍🏻
@amyj.49927 күн бұрын
I got that strong INFJ eye contact that makes people nervous
@amyj.49927 күн бұрын
I love speaking in metaphor and riddles sometimes like an Aquarius ♒🌠🩰😁💯
@amyj.49927 күн бұрын
Yup I'm definitely not afraid to walk away from disrespectful people. You mentioned everything the men in my family have Also taught me growing up. No spell work needed
@karmicsoul44448 күн бұрын
One of your BEST videos ever because you didnt talk about your courses during the first few minutes which can be distracting & throw us off with what youre saying. Nice one Alex...thanks.
@mysticzyoga4 күн бұрын
@wellnessbyheartandsoul you just made me remember something: The difference between Belly dancing and Flamenco dancers, (flamenco dancers do not give away their smiles!) No need to please. Also this video reminds me that my "so called" love language is a version of quality time, it is "quality time in silence!" :) Awesome good reminders in this video. We don't need to give all our enthusiasm or "cheerlead" for strangers. Save it for those we are invested and connected to.
@mimilovesme9 күн бұрын
I've picked up on a few of these along the way but the struggle had been real! Thx for teaching me how to human 😂
@listeningtoyou5 күн бұрын
I feel like I mute my cues quite a lot when I’m out in public. And I feel being muted in my non verbal cues can push people away. Since I’ve been changing my cues in public, I’m getting asked out a lot more Just subtle as turning my mouth up into small smile (I usually have resting birch face) I am walking slower, I’m taking slower and moving slower. Just feeling into my own confidence and it’s working.
@lbm13629 күн бұрын
So weird, but this subject was exactly what i was contemplating today. Thank you for doing this video!
@DeniseLavender-t7v9 күн бұрын
“Hey Quinticia.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Bianca28029 күн бұрын
In greece its common to have a serious face expression to demostrate beeing a serious person. When we see tourists from UK or germany etc we think to ourselves " why are they smiling all the time, looking a bit ridiculous"
@δενέχειςμπέσαπίστη9 күн бұрын
I'm from Greece and this is not true.
@Kleillaa9 күн бұрын
I've been non chalant during my whole dating history Still if the guy has vices you can't be chill And most importantly you appear as " the loser " if you are single because men do x,y,z that is not socially appropriate
@user-fl6ko9do5y2 күн бұрын
lol, i have Never heard of germans smiling and being over espressive in the scope of cultures. thats funny, even if you didn't mean it. the greeks I know can be very controlled in word and expression but also very enthusiastic and gregarious with those they know and like.
@Bianca28022 күн бұрын
@@δενέχειςμπέσαπίστη of course its true. From where in greece are you?
@Bianca28022 күн бұрын
@@user-fl6ko9do5y Yeah, its kind of funny. I live partly in greece and partly in germany. When i m in greece ,i can tell from Miles away if someone is from germany,just by the expression of the face and body language..
@carabelledaniels2 күн бұрын
“Im closing the channel” 😂😂
@JulietCrapulet4 күн бұрын
i love the way you explain things! haha so happy to have found your channel.
@lilitrm67959 күн бұрын
Transforming words into visuals leaves a lasting impression on our minds. Keep it up🍬
@MagnificentSails8 күн бұрын
Don't make eye contact with people you don't want to talk to 👁️
@shayla86239 күн бұрын
I watch and enjoy a lot of your content, but this one was excellent Alex! I watched it twice so far.
@evapawlowska9 күн бұрын
Hahaha father Alex always cracks me up
@mattanderson66728 күн бұрын
Fantastic discussion Excellent analysis Thank you Sir
@Lija92129 күн бұрын
This is brilliant 🎉
@scarlettohara8439 күн бұрын
Ohhh he’s BRILLIANT!!!!! Big time!!! He KNOWS how to teach women to handle men!!!
@Laloudia9 күн бұрын
Love the visuals!
@lillieknight9 күн бұрын
Thanks so much. Do you have a PO Box? I still use checks, envelopes and stamps. Your delivery of all this is great. The easel, the drawings, the pointer all make it clear.
@zainabrose96Күн бұрын
Big fan
@user-fl6ko9do5y2 күн бұрын
parables. almost like a metaphor, but not quite- much deeper.
@nanafatimalouassef8089 күн бұрын
like always useful tips in a funny way ❤
@dprssn_chrryshow9 күн бұрын
Quintisha lol
@Chunkypooch9 күн бұрын
These videos are so cute I like
@Innovativefocus8 күн бұрын
I dunno father Alex, love your advise but tbh i tried to slow down s3x with last two guys and they were the most disrespectful jerks of all the people I’ve dated. They pretended to be nice because they wanted to sleep with me. In the past, I was more loose and I had better luck with guys.
@Irisazart8 күн бұрын
indegestion 🤔 vs indecision.
@ivyke3668 күн бұрын
Teach me how to draw
@tulipanegradesign9 күн бұрын
lol, you’re always talking about shutting down your channel.😊
@lou151769 күн бұрын
It’s a ongoing threat 😂
@magwambui82519 күн бұрын
Alex 💕
@MagnificentSails8 күн бұрын
What state are you in?
@Sunflowerdn8 күн бұрын
Alex, I would either like the seasion I payed for or I would like a refund. Thanks.
@MindfulAttraction2.08 күн бұрын
What happened? You should have gotten an email asking you to schedule the call. Every time you purchase a session you get an email where you go book the call and once I'm notified I call you. But you have to book the call. Did you get the email? You should see my email there so just respond
@Sunflowerdn8 күн бұрын
@MindfulAttraction2.0 and we spoke once but I purchased two, by accident? I don't remember. You asked if I would like to refund the second one or save it for another time. I said we could save it. My phone had the black screen of death and I lost your contact info.
@Sunflowerdn8 күн бұрын
@MindfulAttraction2.0 Thanks for getting back to me Alex. My phone had the black screen of death and I didn't know the password to that email. It was tied to my old number. I'm currently not in the US. We had one session, but I accidentally bought two. You asked if I would like a refund on the second one and I said we could use it another time. This was over a year ago. I'm in Israel. You told me I talked too fast. I was worried about the time limit... But your advice did help my state of mind a lot and I thank you for that. I don't think I will need it at this very moment anymore. I think I have come to a resolution regarding something, but it would be nice to be able to reach you next time I do.
@Sunflowerdn8 күн бұрын
@MindfulAttraction2.0 Thanks for getting back to me Alex. My phone had the black screen of ☠️ and I didn't know the password to that email. It was tied to my old number. I'm currently not in the US. We had one session, but I accidentally bought two. You asked if I would like a refund on the second one and I said we could use it another time. This was over a year ago. I'm in Israel. You told me I talked too fast. I was worried about the time limit... But your advice did help my state of mind a lot and I thank you for that. I don't think I will need it at this very moment anymore. I think I have come to a resolution regarding something, but it would be nice to be able to reach you next time I do.
@jqthegirl9 күн бұрын
Yeah. You better talk slowly
@kris_ty6859 күн бұрын
What's with the white board YT fad?
@MindfulAttraction2.09 күн бұрын
Hey I needed a way to show my art on my KZbin videos LOL this helps
@ReeRee1111God9 күн бұрын
🎉🎉🎉@@MindfulAttraction2.0
@kris_ty6859 күн бұрын
@MindfulAttraction2.0 You, Nero-knowledge, and countless others doing the white board thing lol 😆 ...just giving ya a hard time....I watch too much YT.
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes9 күн бұрын
🎯
@SistahJay279 күн бұрын
I’m jelly 😢 you are outside with a hoodie on, the sun is shining and the birds are probably chirping. We wearing winter coats & boots 😂 🤦🏽♀️ to be honest I do a lot of the things that you are talking about w/ out even knowing it, when I’m upset. Thanks for always creating great content. You went from toxic to healthy. I can see your growth. I’ve been watching you for about 5 yrs
@Glammflamingogirl219 күн бұрын
Funny
@qendresakrelani26907 күн бұрын
You should go back to only talking and not lose our time with these drawings because all we need are words' advice. Before, you were so simple and not complicated with those writing and drawings so please go back to the original adviser you were, funny and simple because that was the reason I subscribed to your channel. Thank you and you are the best