Shuler King - Female Maintenance List

[@RCurry-yg3il]

I’m married and even I’m tired of seeing this type of sh*t.

[@dr.robertbennett3452]

💯💯💯

[@sharlenemullins1030]

Sick if this!

[@sweetcountrybear]

Same.

[@indigoGoddess7]

I’m not married, but I’m tired of seeing these posts. It just screams attention and they always think that they’re speaking for the collective.

[@deebrown4877]

Right?!?! I hear ya on that!!

[@IggyZgalf]

Things women need for maintenance - 1. their own job 2. their own job 3. their own job 4. their own job 5. their own job ………

[@rachelr3230]

This!

[@tatheblkpaladin]

Straight like that

[@nowwhat5888]

Exactly 😂😂😂😂

[@romoniaroman7306]

...and know how to keep it!!

[@dyaela]

😅😅😅

[@cpjohnson950]

When did a woman’s personal care become the man’s responsibility?😮

[@KeishaMs]

Questions that need answers Sis! Im wondering the same thing..

[@scholasticsigridagren794]

Since Barbara the builder and pickmeisha

[@latishabuckner8231]

Some men don't want their women to have a job 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Bunay84]

Facts

[@Ann-hm7gj]

So they send them out to go and beg another dude? To look good for him though?? SLACK

[@45bombom]

Learning to do that list yourself “Priceless “

[@timafiggy]

Ok , what she said was my bank deposit.

[@OrganicallyYahs]

Facts

[@cpjohnson950]

So is she paying for his haircut and shave? 🤔

[@deidrajackson6502]

These lil girls expect so much and don't have a sensible conversation to offer

[@LKS-M9323]

Don't even got a signature dish 😂😂

[@tatheblkpaladin]

Straight like up

[@tamm145]

And nothing else to offer except spread legs. 😢

[@terrencealston370]

Exactly

[@ckantrel1977]

Hopefully they're offering what they do have to guys their own age😅 Who also can't speak or spell 😂

[@joemomma3208]

“going viral” was one of the worst things that could have ever happened to us as a people!

[@TheConnonedrum]

No lies told.

[@benl4707]

would you say it is making you ....SICK

[@MusicManSeanB]

Sho you rite fam!!!

[@niasmith3680]

You have to look at the age group that’s going viral - young & mentally defective! Real women are doing these things for themselves!

[@lulamcrae2851]

Well said.

[@RobertSmith-ru1ck]

That sound like a personal problem to me, she better get a Job and go buy it herself.😂😂😂😂

[@kathleenking47]

We USED to do our own...😂 especially nails My biggest problem..like my mom, was HAIR. Mom wasn't good with hair, since her sister's didn't have afro type hair She was the only one

[@cordeliaclark-howard377]

Right, her personal problem 😅

[@ursomajor4038]

🎯

[@carrollandfionaadoptedcat8133]

Exactly. I still do my own nails (hands and feet) cause I have a job and I can take care of myself! 😅😂😊

[@Ayo-zz6gq]

You said the smartest thing on here

[@fitness_roofer3379]

There's a huge reason why Natural Women will forever be #1 and it's not even close 💪🏾💯

[@AnthonyBeles]

I want my natural black woman

[@uniqueib76]

My mom always told me "Don't depend on No man or nobody else! Do it for yourself. The bible even says take refuge in God. Ultimately ppl are human & can disappoint, But God is Always there!

[@PRB-c5w]

Amen!!!🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@truffaut650truffaut6]

Your mom helps to save a man's money.😊

[@charismagibson12]

Amen 🙌🏾

[@chellesocray]

I must be getting old because one of the most relaxing things for me to do on a Sunday is to do every single one of those things on her list myself. Hell you can’t beat free R&B, wine, and ambience. Nothing like self care Sunday in the comfort of your home. ❤

[@nomargins]

In your home 👍🏽👍🏽

[@usernameisunavailable8270]

Exactly. The only time I go in and get any work done is if I need my hair cut. To be fair, facials seems like a very particular treatment that may be good to do every once and a while for that true deep pore cleansing.

[@CC-xw7lx]

Say it again girlfriend! Peace praise and pamper!!!!! 🙌🏽

[@Mahmoodelsaid-i6x]

They call it DIY in England.. Do It Yourself

[@Lee-lc1fs]

I'm almost positive these aren't coming from your average dating girl. These thoughts and kind of posts are from ladies (and I use that weird very loosely🤣🤣) of the night The men who respond and pay the cash are what's known as tri*cks. They must have their own rules,standards, and codes that I don't even want to begin to understand, but that's got to be why so many men pay and so many women ask 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Shes_Sew_Amusing]

She left out the $17 shein shoes and the $10 temu dress. I bet she use 87 at the gas station too. Fellas, some of us ladies will appreciate the $100 you sent.

[@TOMFOOLERY334]

It would be much cheaper if she learned to do most of that herself.

[@MusicManSeanB]

You took me out with the Shein shoes LMFAO!!!!

[@HoneyCaramel]

I can do A LOT with $100!!!

[@whois5991]

You seem grown, these 20-30 year old girls forget that money the day after you send it

[@IWearACrown]

That $100 ain’t shit..plz stop lying to these bums

[@kristinaparker5597]

Credit score three question marks.....I CAN'T BREATHE!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mrs.sherry3200]

KMSL, as a contract tax consultant, we all know what the !!! means...Only 2 reasons you get them, 1. She don’t have any credit history OR 2. Her credit history is too old.

[@tammymcclure7814]

Shuler be k!lling me with his reads 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Thisisjustname]

Never seen a credit score over 450, and think some sir is supposed to spend that 780 credit score on them.

[@truthgirl72]

that took me out too 😂😂😂

[@debraramsey8043]

😂😂😂

[@freeme7861]

The best feeling in the world is being able to support yourself and make your own money. I will never forget the feeling of pride when I bought my first house.

[@sharonwiggins1585]

I agree!! ❤

[@ritahenry3204]

Absolutely!

[@wanda01141]

Facts.

[@AJ-ii4tf]

If I choose to waste money, it will be on myself!

[@thefinancialnavigator]

Simply ridiculous! This is wild! My father taught me to pay my own way that way you don't owe any man "anything." My dad called it, "having respect for myself."

[@legbelekpata]

Are these women jobless? These are self care things, since when did it become someone else’s responsibility to foot the bills related to YOUR self care? It’s the entitlement for me.

[@gojosgirl6487]

They only date people based on what they can get from them, completely selfish. I would be way too ashamed to ask a random man I'm dating to send me money for stuff

[@Falcon2609]

​@@gojosgirl6487Facts

[@redzoom7857]

Right sis!

[@Melissa12175]

This is not self care. This is superficial nonsense. Self care is a good diet good skincare exercise and mindfulness.

[@peacebalance8067]

Yup! Exactly. And this is why I do a lot of my self care maintenance at home because these salons and spas were taking a nice chunk of my salary at years end. When I did the math and saw how my stylist was living versus myself....no shade, but I kept my own coins and upgraded my rust bucket car to something a little nicer. It brought serious perspective to my life and I'm better for it.

[@RobertSmith-ru1ck]

There's a big difference between "Need" and "Want." You need Food, Water, and Shelter but you don't need $400 Hair.😂😂😂😂

[@indoora]

Well said.

[@BlackIsBeautiful-qg1lx]

Say that 💯

[@anniea1385]

That's it

[@user-nd3tg5zn1b]

Use your own hair!!

[@awalker8371]

Or buy them $20 wigs at the Chinese store and yes 🙌🏾 I said this LOUD because when I wanted to save money and maintain guess what I did. Y’all playing is it me do women work at all anymore 🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣👩🏾‍💻👩🏾‍💻🤣🤣

[@ceedee7647]

I maintain cars not lazy women

[@indoora]

Well said.

[@anniea1385]

That's right

[@petrellegino7202]

Haaaaa thank you Sir!

[@ursomajor4038]

🎯

[@sarahbethea9425]

🎉Lady get a job WTF

[@burnettaallen2492]

I must say Shuler, I sent a man a list just like this after his comments that what I do isn't glamorized enough for him. I have a mortgage, utilities, household expenses and two children that I was raising on my own. So when the simple natural look that I maintained myself that attracted him to me was deemed insufficient, I let him know that if he was buying I was scheduling the appointments. Otherwise kick rocks!!!!!!!

[@crystalsingleton8993]

And I am so happy you did that. Don’t complain about women wearing their natural hair, nails, etc. , if you are not willing to pay for what you like. Bye 🤡 because I am handling the most important parts in my own and that speaks volumes.

[@denisehale153]

Show you Right! 💯❤

[@ritaagbor7487]

You're right Lady. Pay for what you like

[@PRB-c5w]

This!! He's too materialistic. 😂😂😂😂

[@annehedonia156]

Sounds like a man just looking for something to complain about to see your reaction, and eventually beat you down with the constant criticisms.

[@dlhamlin3]

WOW, this is crazy. I'm glad I taught my daughters to care for themselves.

[@ursomajor4038]

With the time she used to put up those numbers, she ought to get an accounting job. 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@patseyjohnson470]

I know right...

[@Roses-Peonies]

I am an accountant and her numbers are overstated!

[@janrose4776]

😂😂😂

[@uniqueib76]

😂😂

[@TapAgain65]

[@monaj4079]

Every women should be able to pay this themselves!

[@LorettaGray-n1l]

EXACTLY, if this is what they require! smh

[@joemomma3208]

Common Sense, Femininity, Personality, Intelligence, Integrity, Domestic Skiils & sensuality are all free! ( The best things in life are free!) 💯

[@TheConnonedrum]

But, stupidity can last a lifetime...

[@joemomma3208]

that is also free too! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@mskay1980]

That's why people like this cost so much.... they're lacking those priceless attributes you just listed.

[@carrollandfionaadoptedcat8133]

True Joe. Sounds like a man who pays for all that she's asking for wants a performer in the bedroom. This for that! I'm just saying!🤔🤫🤗

[@10RexTheWolf01]

Too bad that stuff doesn't get posted enough to sway the audience like these do. I mean women are always being posted looking like this but how much advertising is there for working women, women who look like they just got off work, without make up or good looking hair? People do show more value on the esthetic and not the actual person and the lack of it never made them less of a woman.

[@lb9395]

If the man isn’t your husband he’s NOT obligated to do anything for you. Have your own money.

[@darlinebryant2990]

Things like this is why we can't be taken seriously.

[@michaelhemingway6677]

Social media is going to be the end for some of our people...

[@gequitaroper1531]

It already is

[@AnthonyBeles]

I mean criminals don't even know how the criminal anymore Without posting on Facebook

[@downwiththeclique7239]

She’s not wrong. Those numbers look pretty accurate; however, if you can’t afford it, don’t pay for it. It’s ridiculous to expect a man to supplement your income for things that are not even essentials

[@masterresonax6642]

She’s not wrong in the sense of the cost, of course she knows how much something is she wants, what is absolutely essential is that men don’t buy these things because women need to earn their money if they want to live like the costs

[@sparklesp9304]

I don't agree. Men mean babies and children for women. If she's going to take the risk of him impregnating her, she needs to know that he's going to take care of her.

[@foodiegal9923]

Came to say the same! While I don’t do all of those things, I think her estimate was reasonable. But you are ON POINT that if you can’t afford it, you can’t get it done. Don’t expect a man to pay for that.

[@AnAdorableWombat1]

The chicks asking for it, can’t afford it themselves but want men to take care of it 😂

[@crystalmoon81]

Exactly! Those are the prices for female maintenance... that sh!t is expensive.

[@NaturalMackie]

I don’t know why people like to embarrass themselves like this. 😂

[@dianep6791]

Kids wanting to go viral with this foolishness.

[@tinytt854]

She doesn't have enough sense to be embarrassed.

[@mostunclean6619]

In her warped little mind this is a flex. She is mired in the Lost Value System where all her relationships are transactional. 304s always have a PRICE but they don’t have any VALUE.

[@missantrafalgar782]

Embarrassed with what? These prices are accurate

[@JACQUEZ23]

​​@@mostunclean6619gone used thisnext time I agrue with a woman

[@gmshagnosanastrophe1670]

Key words "maintain self"

[@hanyhash2218]

My maintenance is mine to maintain. It's called 'WORK' & pride in self.

[@jem2789]

We know what she needs........ A CLUE, AND A JOB!🤗

[@ChocolateJaii]

As a woman I refuse to pay those prices 😂 that’s why I learned how to do all that myself and get hella compliments. More money in my pocket for vacations and shit

[@nextwehave]

Thank you. Everyone talking about 'get a job', 'pay it yourself'... Those prices?!?! I would never!!!!!

[@kaylawaters2691]

Same for me except for my hair. I'm hair styling challenged and have a wonderful cosmetologist that keeps my hair looking great.

[@care4me7]

I am your cousin...I do the same thing. I took the time to teach myself and I love it

[@Roses-Peonies]

Same here Sis. I live in CA so, those prices are double to triple what she posted! I do all my beauty treatments myself and always, always get compliments.

[@Ah-mi1mp]

Lmao as a lazy girl people always tell me how beautiful my hair and skin is, my hair is super long and extremely straight. I literally do nothing, i think thats why its healthy and pretty, cuz no chemicals, no heat😂 im just lazy to be honest, im a mom to 2 young boys and full time housewife i am way tired from all the meals, laundry and cleaning. My self care is my shower at night 😅 and i have oily skin but never brokeout so i have smooth skin i just got lucky i guess cuz im forreals lazy 😂 aint no way im paying for any of that stuff that i can do myself at home

[@mskay1980]

80's baby here... I thought my body was my bill & his body was his. Now if you choose to donate God bless you. A woman & a Lady are two completely different. If you know you know.

[@NikoTheDunn]

#Respectfully 🤞🏽

[@dorawilson4902]

Why do y'all continue to entertain these little girls, that are bored with themselves. Then you get upset when they ask u to pay? It your clue she's not for you.😅😅😅😅

[@blackbolt57]

🤨👍🏿

[@rachelr3230]

Another 80s baby and There it is!

[@Lalito401]

If that one traps you with a pregnancy,man you're finished.

[@ES92-]

No way ur smashing her for free in the first place

[@GMcAllister-e3y]

Schuler Kings advice -FREE! Don't cost you nothing 😂

[@Prob1017]

These women on social media are no different than panhandlers

[@Ayo-zz6gq]

They are panhandlers period that's why they belong on the strip, Pimpin is never dead. It's just these Lames messed the game up..

[@calebhenderson6507]

It's prostitution without the title.

[@neshasays2573]

Yep they just got a new platform 💯✌🏽

[@gtgargon]

I was thinking the same thing. They turned into beggars .

[@Ayo-zz6gq]

They are panhandling

[@patseyjohnson470]

I'm so happy I'm able to work for what I want and keep myself up with what I got.

[@r.9874]

You suppose to. No one is responsible for your feet but you.

[@patseyjohnson470]

@@r.9874 Most definitely

[@allthingznatural5592]

And don't see a man as someone to beg and bum from! Handling your business!

[@SistaJenkins]

💯

[@Destroyer-Grizzly-BIH]

High maintenance but downtown getting public assistance n sheeeeeeeeit!

[@SpiritDetective-jd7wx]

Millions of Americans received public assistance, men and women of all colors, you better believe that!

[@Ayo-zz6gq]

Make it make sense to me sway

[@skello4105]

@@SpiritDetective-jd7wxregardless of who it is it’s financially irresponsible to where 400 dollars wigs but anit no food in the house but hot dogs and apple sauce 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@allthingznatural5592]

[@debbiemaccabe1929]

Well said. Love this guy. lol 😂

[@sandragriffey4869]

ABSOLUTELY CORRECT Mr. Shuler King

[@larryfoster8820]

Paying for someone to look nothing like their natural self so you’re happy around them is wild.

[@tonyayvette9057]

This is the most underrated comment. Your words are so true!!!!

[@GEAUXUNA]

Like the policy states "We don't negotiate with useless people" 🤣

[@Bigga_Velz85]

Those are things she wants not things she needs...there is a difference

[@crystalsingleton8993]

“TIME AIN’T FOREVA!” That part!!!

[@r.r.5146]

She needs tp get herself a damn JOB 💯💯💯💯😳

[@kae6250]

Mothers of little boys and upcoming young men, please talk to your sons on a weekly basis about women like this. The world is getting overwhelming getto.

[@crystalsingleton8993]

Amen! Amen! And I am really over it.

[@rosehampton2901]

Top of her list should be her career! High maintenance no problem as long as you don't expect someone else to foot the bill!

[@angelheaven2826]

Just medical insurance will do for me.😂😂😂

[@wesleysmith5580]

Put your phone down.

[@angelheaven2826]

@@wesleysmith5580 😂😂😂

[@honeywest39j95]

@@wesleysmith5580🤣😂😅

[@HumbleBeauty679]

So funny. I maintain myself.

[@ginnym7806]

“Time ain’t forever”. Gospel

[@1203jeremy]

How about $0 and you maintain yourself... that's enough for me PERIOD!

[@r.9874]

True! Nowadays women just want to put their feet in someone's face. All that money can be saved.

[@Digitizeddragon]

The internet is teaching men and women a lot about what they dont want.

[@terencew7716]

My wallet My choice

[@purplesoul9927]

I am a woman an I 💯agree❤

[@MusicManSeanB]

👊

[@Trollzarefunny]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ursomajor4038]

🎯

[@misterlexx2721]

The only thing on that list that piques my interest is the " Facials for $60-$150". I could literally give her a facial free of cost. Now check that one off the list.😅😅😅😅😅

[@lhazel2]

Oh somebody gone pay but just make sure you ready pay it back on your back

[@fya-boilev2298]

I have something i can send her. . ...A JOB APPLICATION!

[@toobossedup]

It’s called date in your financial bracket 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman]

A lot of women need to take that advice. How do yall feel like yall better than somebody when yall constantly begging somebody to fund your lifestyle. You’re clearly just as broke as the men you hate so much.

[@maddielu5286]

Thank you

[@r.9874]

Or it's called "blk women are pretty much every day s*x workers and side chicks not to be taken serious as marriage material".

[@Jerry-qc4kd]

Nah it’s called maintenance yourself instead of needing someone else to do it

[@RepentImmediately]

What makes you think she makes good money. Usually women who present themselves in the way she does do not.

[@1limited669]

She can pay for ALL that herself, with a good job ( Fed Ex, Amazon, Post Office, Maybe not DoorDash) lol

[@TheConnonedrum]

That's too much like right for some of these women. The entitlement factor has reached record levels I'm afraid.

[@1limited669]

@@TheConnonedrum ..."Too much like right"...that's an OLD SCHOOL saying!🤣🤣🤣

[@nessinay1535]

Amazon and Fedex are good jobs? Lol yeah okay.

[@nicandrews1370]

@@nessinay1535 I was looking high and low for this comment! This mentality explains why people think her list is outrageously expensive; FedEx, Amazon, and Doordash are hobbies and extra money for the summer. Not a career.

[@DarlingNikki2]

@@nessinay1535 Well, Jeff and Raj aren't doing too bad with their Amazon and FedEx jobs, respectively lol.

[@debnewton9567]

Did Shuler just call her a liability?. Wow she needs to work on being an asset😮. Lol😂 yes. He said it😊. lol

[@Ayo-zz6gq]

She is a liability, put her on your income taxes

[@equarles8825]

Not the three ??? mark credit score. 😂❤.

[@naydorsey1398]

How much for lashes?!!! Have mercy!

[@cynthiaholland13]

If my HUSBAND of 26 years sent me $100 out of the blue I would be over the moon. Be appreciative!!

[@crazymusicgrlcheesecake]

Yall have like no standards. Married for 26 years and get happy meals. I hope yall live in a very poor country.

[@Trollzarefunny]

⚔️💙❤️💙⚔️ N yet ? She’s still a prov 31-🌹

[@tabclarke]

That’s why you have 26yrs because he knows that you are a QUEEN !!

[@gojosgirl6487]

Yep, key word there is HUSBAND not "random guy I'm dating". She trippin

[@crystalsingleton8993]

Me too!

[@ritaa7198]

Smart grown women handle those expenses if within their budget and keep it moving. It ain't everybody's business how much you spend on those luxuries.

[@vaughnthorpe9800]

We men don't need another bill

[@Ayo-zz6gq]

You said the smartest thing on here, you ain't never lied

[@r.9874]

I learned that women are a bill from birth. I was in grade school and learned you can't separated girls and money.

[@prettypractical3372]

Supporting a family is a bill…

[@Ayo-zz6gq]

@@prettypractical3372 we not talking about a family though, we talking about a hoe.

[@r.9874]

@@prettypractical3372 Supporting a family is a legacy. Supporting some chick who is not your wife to get her stink feet done is a bill that she can do herself.

[@Sup3riork1ng]

Only if thats your ladie and if she grateful and sharing too

[@gisannramharack6332]

She better be working to do all that

[@Dani-np1gt]

Idk what this woman is on. But I’m grateful for whatever he decides to give me. !!!

[@purplesoul9927]

I am a woman and I don't negotiate with terrorists ❤

[@care4me7]

❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂 yessss facts

[@tristc6909]

Crabs

[@lovedoctor519]

I'm a man, and I don't negotiate with Obesity.

[@patc.420]

Grocery are high as hell and you only bring cookies to the table😂😂😂😂😂 it's called a JOB!!!!

[@Alexa-uk8lj]

The list is accurate.

[@RobertSmith-ru1ck]

She want a man to spend $890 for something he can get for $40.😂😂😂😂

[@msbronzegoddess3166]

What a crackho?😂

[@Trollzarefunny]

Don’t forget the 3$ fah dah condom 😂

[@marymonds2634]

Amen!,now that's hitting below the belt!😅

[@phillipayoung10]

At least $30

[@indiaannarie6023]

Below the belt probably smells like fish​@@marymonds2634

[@adeina777]

I love when you make that face at the end and your eye's get big😂😂😂😂

[@lindahines9380]

me too! 😂

[@gambinored81]

JOB $15 -35 an hour. UPS is hiring

[@vanessaladson1312]

Maintain yourself! Love it!

[@staceyrenee5816]

NONSENSE UNMATCHED!!

[@richiexp2]

The way he opened his eyes at the end is the best 🤣🤣🤣...

[@jknight1984]

Who said I was going to send $100? Be lucky to get a bag a Hot Cheetos from me acting all snooty and high and mighty.

[@MusicManSeanB]

Damn that, she will get nothing and like it!!!

[@ursomajor4038]

@@MusicManSeanB Facts!

[@sandylunas2815]

😂

[@jacqueline9001]

She left off the rent.

[@ckantrel1977]

& Birth Control

[@RepentImmediately]

If you're spending $400 on hair and don't OWN a home outright, you really have it backwards.

[@mariahardy1201]

She speaking for herself & her crew clearly!🙄 I maintain myself with *_my salary_* so what needs to get done ALWAYS gets done regardless of my relationship status.

[@NativeAmericanSwag]

And here is my list of my lady needs! 💁🏻‍♀️ Wax: $0 ( I got my wax pot from Amazon, it pays for itself) Hair: $10 (I do it myself) Nails: $0 ( baby I work, ain’t nobody got time for that!) Lashes: $0 ( I don’t need them!) Eyebrows: $0 ( again not necessary) Facials: $5 ( dollar tree is my plug!) With a grand total of $15 or less gentlemen you can have a a grown woman who is low maintenance, can cook and clean, Christian, hard working, with an excellent credit score, no drama, and no kids!🙅🏻‍♀️🤣🤣🤣

[@ZoraDelaney]

And a lot of them will cheat on you with a high-maintenance chick just like this one.

[@nessinay1535]

​​@@ZoraDelaney100% Zora. They yell and scream for "All Natural Women!" But will cheat with the glam girl and get mad at the natural girl for not changing! These men don't know what they want or they want EVERYTHING!

[@Alumnikiid]

⁠​⁠@@ZoraDelaneyWhats your point? I mean a lot of provider men. Get cheated on with broke dudes. So when I see man who want to be providers I should leave that comment. Pass on that trauma

[@dafnenoel9825]

Facts

[@lanese8176]

Facts lol

[@tonyablankenship1261]

I don't think these type of women are speaking to broke men or stingy men. They're speaking to the men who don't mind paying for eye candy.

[@Echo-tk8pz]

Absolutely 😊

[@JayBrown-xs9ps]

They speaking to insane men like them

[@OneNiftyBoi]

The man "who don't mind paying for eye candy" isn't "trying to send her $100." He pays full price for what he objectifies, and treats it exactly that way, as an object.

[@RepentImmediately]

They're speaking to men who aren't attracted to how they look, naturally.

[@p.o.b.naturally6128]

Listen to mother (me !). I'm a high maintenance woman, BUT I can afford to maintain myself!!! ;)

[@kattiedeanthomas8409]

If you can’t afford it don’t do it!

[@moguloperations3863]

When you bring value to the relationship, you wouldn't have to ask for these so called maintenance costs. It would be provided, hands down, no question. Whether in moderation or abundance, men like to provide for someone deserving and appreciative, not demanding or commanding like they owe you something.

[@Isaiah11823]

she made me laugh 😎

[@priscilladawson5313]

I don't agree with women who expect this from men, but at the same time, a woman who does all of this is what a lot of men chase.

[@unanuevapecula]

This. Didn't men coin the term fit and feminine?? How they think that happens?

[@Mookaron]

If she's single then why should a random man pay for that? I don't need no random woman to buy me a damn thing. I dress nice because I like to look nice, not because I'm waiting for a female Santa Claus. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@PRB-c5w]

Yes, they do.

[@annehedonia156]

Why? Men chase women who try too hard? Fake everything and pounds of makeup, too? I can't WAIT for the false eyelashes to FOF! Ugliest things ever.

[@RepentImmediately]

​@@unanuevapeculado men not approach you when you're natural? Feminine doesn't mean fake lashes, fake hair, and makeup.

[@Cheray_]

Money not well spent! Trickin out a pinto🤦🏾‍♀️

[@22Chrisbrad]

All i can do is offer her a job application if she doesn't have one.😂

[@rubysapphiremeraldiamonds]

PREACH ON!!!!!! He is right. It's ok to be this high maintenance when you got your own!!!!!!😂😂😂

[@73starrdiva]

English class has taught me that an apostrophe plus an ‘s’ shows possession to the root word…sooooo 🤷🏾‍♀️ that’s on you, sis. 😂(and that’s sistah to sistah)

[@gurukid08]

"If you broke just say that". That would be the response from women if a man had a list like this of things he wanted women to pay for in order to be with him. So I know the best response for this... *IF YOU BROKE JUST SAY THAT*😂😂😂😂

[@sandylunas2815]

Maybe they not broke. They just don’t wanna throw money away

[@purplesoul9927]

Speak for yourself lady. I appreciate whatever comes my way❤

[@lesliebell3635]

"Maintain yourself," Shuler said a mouthful right there! Help the babies sir!

[@jasssssssful]

This women dosent speak for all of us thank you. I do all of this on my own for less than a 100$ and I look bomb!

[@MW-od8vu]

Thank you JAS! 😉

[@tonteaux1]

My niece got that whole list covered for seventy five dollars and a fifth of Henny. Only drawback is you might get to her house at 8:00am and don't get serviced until 7:00pm. Five dollars off if you change her baby diaper at least once during the day!😆😆🤣🤣

[@Trollzarefunny]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Heiress08]

NOOOOO 😫😫😫🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bigsmurf7725]

That's why she by herself 🤣...even a sugar daddy won't touch them prices 🤣🤣🤣

[@courtenay725]

That part 😂😂😂

[@DrMK-sy3wq]

​@@courtenay725😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Cosmicstargirl8787]

😂😂😂 these the women getting married and dated. All I wanna do is go to the Cheesecake Factory 😂❤. If I want something done I pay for it myself.

[@julioferreira4261]

I ain't payin sh*t😅

[@user-nf7nu3bl6q]

He's right. 💯 Self maintenance is self care. It's your personal standard and expectations for yourself. "No value at all" but have expectations on the level of Paris Hilton.

[@lesg5270]

Us natural women will become really popular

[@crazymusicgrlcheesecake]

A man who doesn't believe you're worth is over $100 is winning for you? Let me go and get weave right now.

[@themenacingsloth]

​@@crazymusicgrlcheesecakeHair bein' worth $400 ain't no win, $860 is HOUSE rent money, not 3 WEEK FACE rent money

[@sexysenior8934]

We ALREADY ARE...😁❤️

[@rickymcdonald2669]

You already are priceless and rare in the black community. I have been told by black women that I don't like black women because all I date are natural black women.

[@crazymusicgrlcheesecake]

@@themenacingsloth She. Doesn't. Want. You. I don't even understand your worry

[@smoke2668]

That's not maintenance, that's called sweeping the dirt under the rug, appearing as a 8, but lose all that stuff, and you're a 2 at best. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kathleenking47]

That could also look "drag"

[@1cosmicdebris]

That part!

[@RJ12347]

She's isn't an 8 appearance wise tbh

[@smoke2668]

@@RJ12347 yeah, I was just speaking on all women who are like this. 😅