Shuler King - She Doesn’t Like Her Hair

[@EvolMuzik4ever]

That's how she feels about herself. It's a shame that people think the hair growing out your own scalp doesn't fit you. It's really a shame.

[@adellamiller6971]

Sweetie, speak for yourself!!!!

[@Siouxsi-Sioux]

Black women wearing blonde wigs look HILARIOUS 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂​@@adellamiller6971

[@49ersfoldem]

SHE… look like what she talking bout that’s why she mad. It’s scary how somebody don’t love themselve.

[@ShawnCman]

So you don't think the hair growing out of your scalp doesn't fit you? ​@@adellamiller6971

[@practicalgenius1798]

Right don't bring all of us into this mess 😂😂

[@kali1yoga]

Femininity is an essence. You can be bald headed and bring women and men to there knees with strong femininity. Somebody help the baby girl.

[@angelacleveland75]

THIS! Think Chris Brown's "Under the Influence" video."

[@highlovevibration]

Yess! this comment is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 woooh!

[@aprilrsilverAKILAWORKSONGS]

FACTS

[@DeeDee_Stands_On_Business]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@tormentanoire4914]

Absolutely

[@BenGrimm52]

This is one of the most ignorant things I've ever seen another black person say. We have to love and respect ourselves before we expect anybody else to.

[@fudgybabe9127]

Yes!!! Embarrassing.

[@eriknephrongfr8847]

What’s with all the wigs, extensions and hair straightening, then?

[@prayerpower1585]

@@eriknephrongfr8847 People are so dishonest. They should leave the lady alone. I feel most comfortable in my natural hair and I have gotten a lot of pressure from other black women to straighten my hair. I like myself natural, and several other black women treat me as if I am weird for liking myself the way that I am naturally. Why are people bashing this woman?

[@shea5287]

​@eriknephrongfr8847 did you even read the comment? It clearly says we need to love and respect ourselves

[@tommywilson3415]

Exactly 🎯

[@uscitizen1035]

With the high number of women wearing lace front wigs and other artificial hair, its obvious that this woman is not alone in this belief. She just said it aloud. Very sad to see so many women think this way.

[@crystalmackle5829]

So true I see it alot with these high school girls with the wigs.. when I was in school I had braids, press and ponytails..😅😅

[@uscitizen1035]

@@crystalmackle5829 yes, these teenage girls are emulating the adult women covering up their own hair hair taken from other cultures.

[@simplydifferrent]

You hit the nail in the coffin because there are a lot of women that can't live with fake everything 😅

[@KenishaBarker]

Internalized racism. God gave us hair that is the most unique. Don’t insult His creation.

[@smcdade4577]

HalleluYah!!!

[@joycecarr1661]

💯

[@Queenxmarquise]

But then why do we cover it up in weave and wig then?

[@deonsthumbring5511]

​@@Queenxmarquisewe😒

[@NicoleMcellroy-zw1tv]

​@@Queenxmarquisetrying to please black men who are the ones calling black women masculine

[@MalcolmHex369]

Nobody is finer than a Black woman FLEXIN her natural hair ❤❤❤

[@angelasmith7335]

She’s delusional!! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@farrahc7055]

My feelings exactly.

[@jaeeluv]

💯

[@eriknephrongfr8847]

I know you didn’t make the emoji, Angela, but it kinda makes the point. She’s a victim.

[@Siouxsi-Sioux]

​@@eriknephrongfr8847Victim of what? Ugliness?😂😂😂

[@sistachristian660]

Or high on something 🤦🏾‍♀️....

[@breonsellers6554]

You have wooly hair just like Christ you have the best hair in the world APTTMH

[@audreylane8747]

Not only does a black woman’s make her hair look more feminine, it makes her look younger, and more attractive!

[@theSatanicNaturalists.]

And white

[@JazzyTlove]

Right!

[@Chocougar]

Anyone who thinks that a black woman needs a straight wig to make her look feminine is just stupid and demented.

[@TeeSantanax]

@@theSatanicNaturalists.audrey is talking about natural hair not the wigs…

[@simonpure109]

Period

[@dartsiwinellis1976]

For me, being natural is part of my pride.👩🏾‍🦱

[@sexysenior8934]

All day .. Everyday...❤️💚🖤😁

[@sameerwilliams4054]

Feel more feminine wearing other people's hair?!¿ Can't be life😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

[@jaeeluv]

Or plastic 🥴

[@misskay46]

at all🥴🥴

[@peterssister421]

This...😮

[@anonnnymousthegreat]

She must’ve not seen the one sista who broke out all over and had to go to the ER after wearing one of those wigs she got from amazon.

[@apriljohnson7447]

Exactly

[@juliehaley3627]

She is speaking for herself.

[@mobutter2879]

Clearly!😂❤

[@RobertSmith-ru1ck]

She said Most Black Women Don't Look Feminine With Natural Hair, she need to speak for herself because it's alot of Black Women that look Feminine and Beautiful with their own natural hair.😂😂😂😂

[@gwendowdell-mcintyre2655]

Why does a black person or woman think she can speak for us all. That her low self-esteem and how she see her self. Stop it I say

[@vtaylor21]

In reality, most Black women's actions agree with what she said. They just don't dare to express it because of denial. I remember the Milwaukee police shooting of Sylville Smith. His sister said to rob other stores but not the Beauty supply stores because WE NEED OUR WEAVE. Black girls got picked on for showing their natural hair. Even Chris Rock's documentary hair video showed how many Black women feel. We are in denial if we act like this is not how most Black people feel about Black women's hair. We would see more Black women with their natural hair. We know we barely see Black women's natural hair.

[@mzinformation8602]

Thank you. I cut the relaxer out of my hair almost 5 years ago and have been rocking it natural. I love my soft but kinky coily hair. Especially when it's picked up into an afro with a rhinestone headband. She needs to find herself, then learn to love herself

[@allenwhitaker3496]

Yes lawd. My wife gave up the "creamy crack" 15 years ago and hasn't looked back. About a year in, she said "You didn't run your fingers through my hair like this before." I told her l like it better natural. Wifey is very feminine.

[@Ladykyra101]

I'm sorry she feels that way. But honestly, I can kinda understand. Growing up in the 70s & 80s, I was told my hair was nappy, which, as a young, impressionable child, I equated to mean bad and undesirable. Plus, I was what the old folks called, "tender-headed," so wash day was an ordeal, to say the least. Then, like magic (😒), in the mid-80's, my mom found this "Just For Me" Kiddie Perm, the outside of the box had little black girls with smiling faces on it (so, of course it works!). It touted to straighten thick hair and make it easier to deal with. Yeah, it would rid me of my unwanted, nappy head, right? 🤔 Well, before this, I had thick, long braided hair; after the "treatment," my hair became brittle and fell out. 🤦🏾‍♀️😂 Mom didn't know; she just thought it would make things easier. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Now, some 40+ years later, I wear my natural hair and African headwraps (on cold days). And let me tell ya, it's wonderful! 🤗 It's gentler on the wallet, too. I used to wear weaves (and wigs) for years (2004-2018) and would easily drop between $500-$1,000 for weave hair and installation. Now that that's over with, I discovered just how versatile black hair really is. It can be styled in so many different ways. Plus, I learned about my hair, the type, the porosity, how it responds to certain products, and what it needs to be healthy. Today, I can honestly say with full assurity that black hair is 2nd to none! 🫡

[@dollyscott-payne7488]

*And, your hair looks stunning in your avatar here 👍👏!*

[@h.peters]

When you let television, social media and magazines tell you what is beautiful, instead of your mirror.

[@SOUL-KING-93]

True brother

[@ThatGurl-eo2es]

Or even the ppl around you.

[@user-ud1mr7dt6i]

I think she's doing that to herself. Lots of women with Afro wigs 😂

[@MarieJones-eb7bi]

Not all women or men agree with her. OUR HAIR DEFIES GRAVITY. REACHING TO HEAVEN TO GOD. OUR NATURAL KEEPS US WARM IN THE WINTER N PROTECTS US FROM THE SUN BURNING OUR SCALPS

[@foxtrap614tango8]

The most beatiful hair I have see on black women is when the natural hair is DONE correctly. No other race has that hair. It is a unique blessing.

[@eriknephrongfr8847]

Why do most of us straighten it, then?

[@sistachristian660]

Right we put the S in styles cuz we can have our hair in so many beautiful ways 💕💕

[@katodd2925]

​@@eriknephrongfr8847 I'm 24 and never straightened my hair. Plenty of naturals. Most are natural outside of USA too. There's no "most". You must be a troll because I see you under every comment

[@TheeOne4.44]

​@@eriknephrongfr8847You should answer that question since you included yourself. I wear my hair naturally- I receive a lot of hate from other Black Women because I don't have 4c type hair.. As if that's my fault. It's always Black Women like the one mentioned in this video who hate other Black Women with features that are not identical to theirs. That's self-hate and their problems.. None of my Business; I'm confident in my Gorgeousness!

[@willjohnson5042]

Preach 🙌🏾 we gotta love the hair and skin we in. And a black woman's natural hair is gorgeous 😍

[@estellejohnson1977]

Number 101 million reasons why I love Schuler Wisdom. Keep it coming King💜👑💜

[@spezialgurl77]

Looking like Pearl from 227 with that wig on. Ma'am throw your phone away.

[@robinb.4699]

😂😂

[@Mrs.Lina313]

I can't "unsee" it now. 😂😭 The window Pearl used to be in. 😂

[@n.s.b.7348]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@BlackQuills]

😮😅

[@irideaunicorn1620]

Stoooppp 😂😂😂😂

[@mannyfrencha5736]

What did Malcolm X say, "Who Taught You to HATE YOSELF?!" Some of the things I been seeing in regards to natural hair is ABSOLUTELY ABSURD to say the least!

[@markeshiaanderson6781]

Prime example of how the colonizers have conditioned us

[@lymarie1974]

My first thought. Brainwashed to think and 😢feel we are ugly because of our texture of hair and skin tone.

[@diannesanders1910]

Preach!

[@888job]

Now u allow urself to accept their ways

[@johnny2bi4]

Please stop this coloniser bs. It has nothing to do with them. Is it the coloniser that made 99% of all successful black women wear wigs. In the 80s and 70s black women were rocking their fro’s. Most of yall just want to be popular so bad that you follow trends until you lose yourself and identity

[@888job]

​@lymarie1974 stop it it was ur on family tht taught u tht mess

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

Love how you spoke and did not need to bring black women down. Some of us or many of us can learn a thing or 2.

[@kennyking4554]

Sistas who shave and embrace their short hair, or those that got kinky natural hair or dreadlocks, are some of the most burruful* women, fasho!!!

[@dawnbedingfield1159]

Right! Talk to Joshua Jackson about it. He clearly has a type. And I dare someone say that Jodie Turner-Smith doesn't look feminine.

[@karmencummings9754]

Thanks ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@missmusic2k]

“Burruful!!!!” I love it!😂😂😂

[@KeleWele23]

​@@dawnbedingfield1159 I have been natural for over a decade. For years I kept it short & I never lacked the admiration of men of any ethnicity. During grad school a handsome professor walking ahead of me was so busy looking back me that the brotha accidentally walked into the glass door! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@kimmyb504]

😂❤

[@vyapahyasharahla6335]

Speak for yourself. I've been natural for 20 years (dreads) hair almost to my ankles and LOVE it. Ain't nothing like embracing your natural beauty 😍 Love the skin you're in.

[@erikas9945]

She doesn’t love herself. That’s all

[@tjudah9022]

It's much deeper. She hates herself and it's sad.

[@dfoster4001]

Agreed sir. Husband of natural Black wife who styles her own hair and our 3 natural Black daughters’. I told her that when I first saw her over 20 years ago, her main feature that captured my attention was her curly TWA that made her stand out from the others in our midst. Her wash and go is still my favorite look of hers. ❤ Angie Stone meets Tracee Ellis Ross.

[@AprilHarmony9]

I work in public and I wear my own hair (with or without a flat iron to it); if others have a problem...then thats their problem. I love me💯

[@fudgybabe9127]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👍🏿.

[@felinechanel]

Or I just leave it in a bun for days at a time. I really don’t have the energy or patience for it

[@lidiashimelise5409]

I love my hair and my beautiful black skin color. I cannot imagine being any other color.

[@Them_kids_momma]

Not her putting her insecurities on the rest of us. 😭😬

[@eriknephrongfr8847]

Then what are the reasons for wig, extension, hair straightening for everyone else who does it?

[@pilstonkhh3801]

Alot of people do that and then get in public or online and "speak for everyone". No ma'am,keep that over there

[@Them_kids_momma]

@@eriknephrongfr8847 why do you change your hair? I’m sure the same reasons apply.😒

[@eriknephrongfr8847]

@@Them_kids_momma Thanks for studiously avoiding the question. I’m 59, and have had the same balding fade for 25 years.

[@niasmith3680]

@@eriknephrongfr8847 to change your look is making a personal choice. Not everyone chooses to wear wigs, extensions etc.

[@AlexisSimpson-j8h]

And that's been the problem. Some black women don't like themselves because they refused to accept who they are. If they can't accept who they are, neither will a real black man. To me, beauty is all natural, nothing fake. The real beauty starts from within'.

[@Falcon2609]

Facts

[@simplydifferrent]

It's crazy because being all natural is so cost effective. Natural beauty is the bomb it's a way to do everything!

[@CowboyNation4Life]

Say it loud...um black and um proud! Self love ❤

[@angel_numbers]

THIS 🤌🏾💯🏆🎯❤️💫🍫

[@turquoisepurple7sky151]

That has not worked. It is an anthem. Too many never felt proud

[@j.robinson1130]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🗣️ Preach ✊🏾💪🏾

[@ishotthesheriff5686]

It's OK to wear wigs and whatever. What's not okay is talking down on yourself!

[@joemomma3208]

like my dear brother Malcolm X said “This is the H8 that H8 created!” 💯

[@AprilHarmony9]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@fudgybabe9127]

RIGHT ON!!! ✊🏿👊🏿👍🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@lorddj9910]

I was just reading the autobiography this morning….crazy how prevalent that shit is still to this day

[@mh1970]

​@@lorddj9910"who taught you to hate yourself?"

[@heathertea2704]

💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@saraw7050]

Thanks for the encouragement and affirmation, Shuler!

[@lakerrimack]

Thank you Shuler King for speaking love! We appreciate you! Our natural GOD-given crowns are VANGLORIOUS 👑👑

[@JLoveG578]

AMEN❤

[@KevinHunter-jt2rd]

Then why all the wigs?

[@linedanzer4302]

I cry for her logic. Femininity is innate. It comes from within.

[@eddieteague2991]

Poor thing--she's confused-lets just pray for her😊

[@leonakinglion3210]

Prayers got going to help her lol

[@lmac5902]

I might as well throw my two cents into the conversation because as a Black woman, I know the insurmountable pressure we face to conform to the European standards of beauty and submit to the negative stereotypes images that melanin is bad, our hair is ugly, our noses, lips and buttocks are anomalies. So our mothers, and womenfolks hot combed our coarse coils into straightness, and harnessed our buttocks in girdles the indoctrination that we were flawed and ugly. And the cherry on top of that negativity is interracial biases within the culture: if you're light you're alright, if you're brown stick around, if you're black get back; ostracized, broken spirited, denied opportunities from within.

[@kkroyu]

And it's called Blue Magic and Palmer's Cocoa Butter people... Use it!

[@sistachristian660]

U on the Blue Magic too 🤣✊🏽💯

[@kkroyu]

@@sistachristian660 Just like I am with black women always and forever my dear🥰😘

[@froberson41]

Blue Magic is the truth 🙌🏾😂

[@MissJazziBri]

Blue Magic Indian Hemp has helped with my hair growth.

[@RobertSmith-ru1ck]

This Lady is "Wigging" Out.😂😂😂😂

[@Mookaron]

😂💀

[@sistachristian660]

On this pic it's just thrown on her head 😭

[@adenbaby324]

😂😂😂

[@leonakinglion3210]

​@@sistachristian660 She's looking like Caesar lol

[@misskay46]

😂😂🤣

[@carolbrandley1080]

Thank you Shuler, you know exactly what to say.

[@ButterflyBree]

As a Black woman who wears my natural hair, I've always felt feminine. She needs to do the work to love herself. 😮😮😔😔

[@PennyMsElite]

She do, but that's not going to happen.

[@kimberlyechols7280]

❤

[@hildaqueenb9067]

I came from El Salvador 🇸🇻 in 1974. Beautiful Afros we’re common back then. I so badly wanted to have an Afro, I bought myself a wig and would wear it proudly. I loved it. Being Hispanic my family thought maybe I was off my rocker, but I didn’t care what anyone thought 😊 I have naturally curly hair and I love my crown! 😊

[@TheConnonedrum]

Self-hate is real. Way too many of this generation watching too much television 📺 that telling them what beautiful is.

[@brandyfuller3787]

I agree that 100 percent

[@fudgybabe9127]

& also, the magazines, billboards, posters, advertisements, cards, & the like. She needs to get her mind strong💪🏿 & keep it strong 💪🏿.

[@eriknephrongfr8847]

I’m 59. When has it not been so?

[@tammieupton6257]

Facts! Most of the problems in the black community today is from following bad examples some of which aren't even black aka feminists in the 70's telling us we don't need a man, now look at us & our children 😩

[@luxury-style6905]

EXACTLY 💯💯💯💯 ITS ALWAYS BEEN LIKE THAT

[@kimberlycaraway740]

Thanks Shuler for keeping it real!!! Everything you stated is on point. Yes , let our babies hair GROW before you start messing it up. Learn to love and appreciate YOU for who God created you to be and things will be better for you!

[@nicolec4290]

LMAOOO! I look like a lady with my NATURAL HAIR and its down my back. People got identity issues and they try to push that shit off on everybody else. Thank you Shuler! Accept your own beauty! 💞💞💞💞

[@MissThompson]

She is not speaking for me. I love wearing my own natural hair and I don’t have to be told that I look good because I already know it!

[@nicolec4290]

@@MissThompson Beautiful Lady💘

[@ShadesofSage]

So sad, the people in her life really failed her if that’s how she feels about herself. But as for me and my house… 💃🏿!!! We LOVE our natural hair ❤❤❤! And I’m very grateful that that’s all my daughters see, from grandmas, aunts, cousins, friends. Wouldn’t have it any other way ☺️!

[@azbeautifullwoman5712]

Thank you Shuler for those beautiful words spoken.

[@ladystarfish531]

Very honest answer hair is a very complicated subject for black women ..men don't try to understand

[@1limited669]

She's 'CONFUSED'...End of story....She's known for serving dinner at 4:30 in the morning!😂

[@ErikBlack-dy9ip]

😬😬😬🤭🤭🤭😶‍🌫️

[@valeriemurray6719]

🤣 LMAO

[@HighlyBlessedAndFavored]

😂😂😂

[@mckinleylouis7691]

😂😂😂😂

[@smcdade4577]

😮😂😮😂

[@divineeternally2502]

Thank you Shuler! Sister's (and brother's) needed to hear this! I wear my hair naturally (always have), but I feel like sister's don't feel that brother's don't find them attractive in their natural attributes. So thank you, again for these words of affirmation.

[@sayitaintso7544]

"I feel more feminine wearing hair that imitates another race of people"? Wow so self esteem comes in a bag?

[@LetGoStressFree]

Why do you think so many women wear makeup?

[@eriknephrongfr8847]

As above…plus straighten, extend their hair…Let’s not forget the dangerous surgeries.

[@sistachristian660]

She could at least wear the Afro ,locs or braided wigs that represents Blacks and only enough makeup that enhance yo beauty 😍❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jeffrey-Epstein00]

​@@LetGoStressFreemakeup and wearing another race hair is 2 different things lol

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@jeffrey-Epstein00 My comment was about self-esteem, not the difference between hair and makeup.

[@pennyck9468]

This is a result of conditioning. Worst part is, it begins at home. The black community is quick to pick on a young woman with natural hair like it is on a young man with locs. It’s easy to think you are not enough until you grow into yourself. The Black community needs to heal and start taking actions against the negative stereotypes engrained into us, enough to where we have young people embarrassed to be happy in their beautiful black skin. We need to do better as a community.

[@CocoButta]

If she ugly with natural hair, she will still be ugly with straight hair. My point is, we were born with hair that suits our features. Our crowns are meant to be as strong, as natural, and as beautiful as we are❤. The irony is, most other races of people LOVE our crowns. We were brainwashed into hating our hair and features because of hate and jealousy. I guess it worked because we are destroying what makes us different and beautiful. Our hair grows upwards to the sun, hence a crown like look. These sisters are lost and need a history lesson about why our hair is so special and why we were taught to hate it. I loooooove my natural hair because it's soft, plush, and strong. It's the perfect representation of me!!♥️Also, it's the attitude that counts. Peace ✌🏽

[@HisbeautifulTruth-nl1ch]

I've noticed that straight wigs and permed hair don't actually fit most of our phenotypes, including the sister in the video.

[@CocoButta]

@@HisbeautifulTruth-nl1ch 💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Thank you! I agree . Hair texture is meant to balance our aesthetics.

[@smcdade4577]

Well said!!!

[@marygill5010]

Say it again 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯❤️🖤💚

[@michellea6113]

Love this❤ I too am natural and love it

[@anonnnymousthegreat]

Our hair defies gravity as well. Everyone else has to use all kinds of chemicals and products to get their hair to lift up. Ours do it naturally.

[@hopewilliams7081]

I've been natural for the past ten years and I love my hair now. Never going back to straightening.

[@Tlovemom]

I agree with every word Shuler! I love wearing my twists and locs. I have two daughters and I praise them for the beauty of their natural hair. Our hair is exactly as unique as it should be❤️! It definitely feels beautiful to be natural.

[@marygill5010]

Speak🙏🏾 Also, thank you for the simple, affirming word "locs" as a description. 💚🖤❤️

[@searphhoney]

I understand where her ignorance stems from. I wish her the best.

[@simplydifferrent]

I feel her too I've come a long way from loving my natural hair but I've always felt feminine and sexy and I've been plus size my whole.

[@Butterfly1798]

You have ignorance and blind. This came from slavery times and everything in the world. Relax

[@aprilrsilverAKILAWORKSONGS]

Preach, Shuler!! You even said #BantuKnots. That's a million more cool points in my book!!

[@taylorthenatural5509]

I thought we were in 2024? This type of mindset is still rampant with the C.R.O.W.N act in play? She needs to speak for herself because this is crazy.

[@RillaLord32212]

Rrrrrriiiiiggghhhhhtttttt.... She's fluent in Capanese gaddamnit.... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@katcole4779]

I rock my natural hair and rock it well!

[@Jas-sq5er]

She don't speak for me!!!not I was never into wigs, weaves. Not my style. Sisters who wears them looks so beautiful having versatile styles. Even without.

[@MelaninCosplay]

Self hate is real. I feel like people need to stop speaking for people as a group or community and just speak for themselves. Self hate is evident in every ethnicity and culture, but just because you hate yourself, doesn't mean that everyone else within your community hates themselves. Stop projecting.

[@fudgybabe9127]

Well said! 👏🏿👏🏿

[@eriknephrongfr8847]

What are the alternative, non-disease related explanations for our wig-wearing?

[@tdomonique504]

Yes cause I’m very annoyed when statements are made using the word “we”… like wth is “WE”?

[@pilstonkhh3801]

Exactly,also tired of people blaming another race for "brainwashing".

[@Falcon2609]

​@@eriknephrongfr8847Exactly

[@theadrenalizedartist6843]

As Prince would say, “The Colonized Mind.” I have a wig on in my thumbnail but 99% of the time I wear my natural hair. Having options is one thing, hating your hair or anything about you is another.

[@reneelb7]

Amen Shuler!!!🙌🏾❤️

[@fudgybabe9127]

Yes! I like when Shuler make jokes & know how to break it down and get serious, too. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@mthrfinis4194]

Amen, Schuler❤❗❗🙏👁❗💥❗

[@ricileigh88]

I'm a black woman, and I think our natural hair is more flattering to our features. A lot of the women I see with the straight hair down their backs look like drag greens to me.

[@KevinHunter-jt2rd]

🎯

[@cynthiaholland13]

That's true

[@bawnfordays73]

Especially with those ridiculous lashes.

[@KeleWele23]

​@@bawnfordays73it's delusional drag queens that started the extreme lashes & baby hairs!

[@keimorgan5654]

@@bawnfordays73those lashes gotta go. 😁

[@angelahenderson4213]

I must admit I felt this way after wearing wigs and sew ins ALLLLLLL the time until I began to work on myself and truly began to love myself from the inside out that’s when I truly saw my God given beauty natural beauty. My sister has some work to do

[@ms_sassy19]

I 😘😘😘 my natural hair

[@DennisDaniel-if5rl]

I was a freshman in college in 1975. The afro and natural hairstyles were the order of the day. WoW the women were beautiful

[@truthspeaker3728]

Skin,Hair an d Nails ours is Beautiful Just take care of them Love them they will shine shine shine!

[@AlisaJackson-b6u]

Shuler, I just love you! Thank you for affirming us because we so often receive different messages, even from one another.

[@nglaw5706]

This is sad.😢😢 When I had hair (alopecia) I received more compliments when I wore my hair natural than when I wore it processed. But it's her opinion and how she feels.

[@Lady-pr9el]

This wool here is beautiful yesss! 😊

[@3threesmiles]

Shuler that's u but I see a lot of men on social media would look at a pic of a black woman and say she ugly or manly looking but I see em googly eye at a lighter woman and these same women will like to hear the words you saying from a man that looks like august or shamar terrible stuff but it is what it is and thank you for feeling that way but this topic runs deep

[@erind2261]

Finally, an honest answer in the comments! Ppl act like she's an anomaly when there were/are so many women who felt the same at some point.

[@theblushingbookworm]

I’ve been given more compliments when I wear my natural hair. My husband loves it. Occasionally, I put on a wig for certain purposes, but instead of being mad at her or roasting her, I will acknowledge that years and centuries of seeing what “ so called beauty is” can do a number on any person’s self esteem. Secondly, overtime we’ve destroyed our hair due to what our parents did to our hair. Some of us are just now trying to retrain our hair. Yes, our hair is stubborn. Yes, it requires more care. But boy, when we embrace our hair and learn it, it is supremely beautiful!

[@sayitaintso7544]

She feels more feminine? But the curtains dont match the carpet.

[@leonakinglion3210]

Looking like Caesar 😂😂😂😂😂. I thought they say black is beautiful? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@smcdade4577]

Dannnnnggg!😂

[@KeleWele23]

​@@leonakinglion3210 Black is Beautiful that's why whyte folks spend billions of dollars on TANNING products to cover their pale pasty skin! 😂

[@vivahabbitvanassen]

I’m one hundred percent natural and love it. Been in it for years thank you brother tell the truth.

[@soniapinkney1342]

I wear my natural hair !! I Love my hair I get compliments on my hair from women and men.. Black women have doing our own hair for thousands of years w/o wigs or weaves ..

[@naressamenser6798]

Mr. Comedian Shuler King! My birthday is today and my wonderful and thoughtful husband bought me tickets to your Greensboro show this Friday, April 5th. I will see you there sir. I can’t wait to share laughter with you. ❤

[@margaretsmith6097]

She does not speak for all. Love my natural!

[@leonakinglion3210]

I love my hair and my beautiful light skin

[@anaiyasmommy1]

I feel sympathy and empathy for her. She’s been conditioned to see herself through the colonizers lenses. Natural hair is beautiful. Being Black is beautiful. I pray she’ll take the step to decolonize her mind.

[@tonteaux1]

When we are having "adult relations" and both facing the same direction, I would rather not grab a handful of something that will come clean off. After all, she is the one that said "pull my hair".🤣🤣😆😆

[@BlackQuills]

💀 💀

[@dawnbedingfield1159]

💀💀💀

[@cynthiaholland13]

,😭😭😭😭😭

[@cactus9838]

😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏

[@principtounenmondesir]

Love natural African hair

[@bennettbombshell]

Ok I know EXACTLY WHATS SHE SAYING. yes I love my natural hair but as a 46 year old women I was trained to not love my hair so I understand exactly and I have said this before it’s hard. So I get what he’s saying but that’s easier said than done.

[@kendra_patrice]

She better speak for herself! I LOVE my natural hair and get plenty of compliments on mine.

[@lindahubbard-brinston6741]

Way to go, Shuler!!!! Thank you for your support, my dear brother 🙏🏾 ❤ Blessings & Aloha 🌺🦋

[@jaiafrica6112]

Welp. The wigs wouldnt be popular if she was the only one who felt that way. She just said it out loud

[@jeffrey-Epstein00]

Sadly you're right

[@eriknephrongfr8847]

It’s about damned time someone said it.

[@eily1150]

Exactly.. Confident people who loved their 'true selves' wouldn't go through extreme lengths to change every single thing about them - from their hair texture to surgeries changing their facial features or enhancing their "assets".. a lot of these comments are on the defensive and are not looking at the big picture that she feels the way she feels for a reason. I even see people making fun of her looks. Same people giving people inferiority complexes are the same people complaining and angry that she hates herself.

[@crystalcain6367]

Thank you, Shuler, for acknowledging the beauty of natural hair on black women. Looking forward to your show in GSO!

[@terrifields3014]

Just because she feels that way about herself.Don't put those feelings off on other black women!! Just keep those negative thoughts and feelings about yourself to yourself!!

[@crackerjacks6789]

Her mind has been conditioned by colorism it may have stemmed from intentional racism from her family..I think that this topic should be brought up and talked about her courage inspires others because let’s face it if what she said did not have some aspect of truth to it. Women would never buy wigs, weaves, lace fronts. I can honestly say that what she says is false because I at one point used to think the same-way . Respectfully this is a problem that took courage to open up a discussion about. I applaud this woman for speaking her truth so tat she can get the help she need to build up her self esteem and confidence. Let’s think out side of the 📦 for example I have never seen so many women in their 20’s, 30’, getting BBL, breast implants, it’s alarming that these women with young bodies are going under the 🔪 they haven’t lived long enough to get any body issues. Where do we think this kind of thinking comes from? It’s unfortunate that many of us are not willing to do the internal work to better ourselves. Some think that the way to correct these problems is to change the outside of ourselves. Iyanla Vanzant said we must do our internal work first once we do this it would not matter what hair style makes us look feminine or not. 😅

[@marygill5010]

I feel for this young woman. We are living in a society that subliminally and overtly attacks our essence as a people. At the same time, will co-opt those attributes for their own misuse. I hope as we reflect and comment, remember a few things: 1) this has been passed down for many generations, ( not to blame- its all an indoctrination!) 2) Another part of that indoctrination is to turn on each other and tear each other apart- especially publicly. We can address issues lovingly, firmly, and respectfully🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Please, my brothers AND sisters. ❤️🖤💚

[@carolyneasley8980]

I can't remember the last time I saw a black woman with a perm (straightener) you don't even see commercials for "Dark & Lovely" etc perms anymore BECAUSE NATURAL HAIR IS BACK WITH A VENGEANCE!!! 😂 😂❤❤❤

[@tonimartin8547]

You're right all the blk women in the commercials and billboards have natural hair.

[@queenprincess4life]

@@tonimartin8547that’s marketing but in reality most just wear wigs nowadays.

[@Kiki-jx6by]

I was asked by a man “dont’t men wear locs?” when I started wearing my hair locked. I was confused because it was the hair I was born with that was some years ago though I’m pretty sure they are retracting what they said to me.

[@LowRCS]

I"m slow. I'm still trying to figure out the "SAW" symbol on the foreheads......matching too! 🤣

[@yardieprincess]

Been rocking my natural fade cut for 10 years, and I feel fabulous

[@AdarraCharis]

They're trying to conform to what their men gravitate towards

[@crystalmackle5829]

That part..😅😅

[@shojogrl]

Exactly. Everybody wanna act obtuse in the comments section. If more BLACK men celebrated and gravitated towards natural type 4 hair, then straight and loose-curl extensions sales would drop.

[@jeffrey-Epstein00]

​@@shojogrl😂 it's always someone else's fault

[@tonimartin8547]

​@shojogrl I'm sorry I never seen a blk man gravitate to a woman with a wig like hers. I agree if more blk men promoted more bw with natural hair then women like this would wear their natural hair.

[@ScreamTatumRiley]

If that’s how she feels so be if that makes her feel better than so be it I can’t shame her for what makes her feel good life is too short to care what ppl think

[@selfmadeX410]

She want a different face to go with her different hair 😂😂😂

[@satisfiedcustomer2444]

I'm with you Shuler King! We have so many options to style our hair, curly, straight, braided etc. If you take care of your hair, your hair will take care of you. Eat right and get your mind right...beauty comes from within. Now go love yourself ✌🏽😃

[@Ladykyra101]

Remember that documentary Chris Rock came out with all them years ago called "Good Hair"? And what was considered good hair? Certainly wasn't the ones with "nappy hair." 🤷🏾‍♀️ Look, a lot of those toxic perceptions on hair were perpetuated in the black community. I mean, it just was. Whether through laziness, ignorance, or acquiescence, the facts remains many people never got over those stigmas. I mean, the negativity comes from the outside, sure, but it's more damaging when it comes from within, from your own people/family. That's why it's paramount to unshackle ourselves from toxic beliefs and toxic people (whether family or foe).