Shwetabh DESTROYS feminist calling housewives maids

Shwetabh Gangwar reacts to a girl's post bashing housewives
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[@rohitbhosale8302]

How Can we fight sexual urges with out having girlfriend

[@AyanKeGayan]

domestic violence and exploitation and less flexibility of women as compared to men can be happen in this scenerio

[@Jdiodkdndggs]

Totally true!!! Housework and housewives are underrated. People should live and let live. I'm working, can't think of simultaneously doing house chores. It's really exhaustive.

[@damn7637]

​​@@upasana4124can you explain how to convience my wife for no kid.... She becomes arrogant and senseless when I say I don't want kid and we both shouldnt have kids bcoz is not worth it .. We can lead a better life without them, far better...I earn much more enough to have babies but I can't exhaust myself and I have been saying this to her for years now... We are married for 2 years... Can you say how your partner convienced you??

[@happinessyt5481]

@@upasana4124 my mother is one such you described in your last sentence

[@freezingmoon5415]

Well, but think if your husband was an abusive one and you had to leave but can't because you were not financially independent then your life will be destroyed. You need to have an earning to stand on your grounds.

[@saurabhdixit1987]

I am in USA. Everyone guys and girls are trained from childhood to do housework. Everyone does it here by themselves and much much better than average Indian households. People here also keep there environment clean

[@souventudu2]

​@@saurabhdixit1987 They're more civilized This sentence came up

[@carbonic9115]

Hey shwetabh i wrote this comment because there is a higher chance of you seeing this, as you uploaded the video just now. I admire and respect you a lot, and you are the one who taught me "how to think". Your video on suicidal thoughts saved me from self harm. Thanks a lot for everything you have put on youtube.

[@arsh6572]

I hope you're doing well buddy, take care. Don't ever hesitate from reaching out for help or talking to anyone about this obviously given that you're comfortable enough with the other person. Cheers!

[@carbonic9115]

@@arsh6572 yes i am at a considerably better place right now , thanks brother :)

[@Qwe-lg1ej]

Lol she's crying coz her untalented friends married rich guys n she didn't coz of her feminist pride induced by Western women😂😂😂😂

[@arsh6572]

@@carbonic9115 good to know that man, keep on growing

[@TheCosmopolitanHefty]

good luck my G. do great things and make it big. Cheer from Uttarakhand though!

[@manumudgal4988]

Neither being a housewife or being a maid is a matter of shame. Both are service providers in families and many people would not be able to do a thing about them.

[@aerah76]

Being a housewife is much more than that. Doing the household chores and cooking for the kids and the person you love. Housewives need to be respected. Of course along with maids. Edit : I feel bad for the people replying in this comment section who believe job is the only thing based on which a person should be respected. Having moral values like integrity, loyalty, kindness deserve respect as well.

[@brokepeopleshouldneverlaug1576]

yes very true

[@indiangenius8574]

​@@aerah76correct

[@souvikmitra6161]

EVERY profession, including housewives who actually work on their family and house to maintain it beautifully should be praised. My grandma was a housewife but she LITERALLY built her family of a rather timid and pushover (and sexist) husband and three daughters, raised them by her own strength, then had to face the horror of losing two of those three in different incidents and yet raised me. There's a reason why I'll NEVER take housewives lightly. She's my inspiration.

[@uvuvwevwevweossaswithglasses]

Skilled professionals and Blue collar MUST be treated with respect more than White collar workers. That's what they teach in Japan in KG schools. Moral values in early-stage childhood go a long long way in creating a very good society

[@hayatbai8460]

*Serving your corporate boss is empowering but doing household chores for your husband and kids is demeaning,feminism alright*

[@freezingmoon5415]

Nope, that's not the point the girl wanted to make. Her point is financial independence. Lol, can you get money by doing household works??

[@tutul6918]

Rightly said how can working for someone be empowering. You are doing slavery to your company. Hw can slavery be empowering?True independence lies in being mentally and physically fit and be ready to get out of toxic corporate work culture and work as an entrepreneur

[@diptiranjannayak8892]

@@freezingmoon5415so basically u r saying u want to get paid to raise your kid ?? Good luck lol 😂

[@freezingmoon5415]

@@diptiranjannayak8892 Lol, typical Uneducated North Indian here. I never mentioned I or the person want to get paid for raising kids. I will do job or business to get money so that I will become an independent women. I won't depend on my husband and can even feed myself if I have divorce.

[@prateek18837]

​@@freezingmoon5415wow... You wanna get paid for raising your own kids & doing housechores😂😂😂😂 wanna get more low ??? Maybe say same thing to ur parents or firstly save a bunch of money to get ur mom paid first !! She didn't fot her salary since years you've never helped in your home & why not keep an housemaid for 24/7 service😂😂

[@gauravgvn9229]

Swetabh posting consistently is honestly motivating

[@aneiy]

Fr fr!

[@itsDhruvChauhan]

True 👌

[@togireall]

same man!

[@aryansingh-zc8wb]

shwetabh bhai ne Attack mode liya hai isiliye systematically kaam kr rhe hai

[@swapnilsharma3727]

Real

[@leo-zh4zv]

Woman1: i work for my boss who hates me. Feminist: such a strong and independent woman! Woman2: i work for my family who loves me. Feminist (jealous mode): You're being oppressed and degraded!

[@ruhashashayed8245]

Leo , aapke boss aapko hate karte hain eska matlab ye nahi ki saare boss waise hi hain , aur job karne se paise milte hain , aur house wife ki kitni izzat hai India me ye sab jaante hain , urban area ke amiro ko kuch nahi jhelna parta wo apni marzi se zindagi jite hain , jab maao ko khana nahi banana hota ghar kaam nahi karna hota to wo sochti hain bahu le aate hain ghar ka kaam bhi karegi aur khana bhi bana degi pair bhi daba degi , bina paid permanent maid .

[@debjyotimandal6661]

@@ruhashashayed8245 how many maids can afford middle-class lifestyle? So how is housewives not paid when all her bills are paid by husband long after she have stopped working! About respect..on a family function if husband wears 10k worth of garment wife wears worth at least 1 lack worth of things! In court only the wife's testimony is believed! Dogs are grateful! Women are not!

[@ruhashashayed8245]

@@debjyotimandal6661 Agar life style me hi jana hai to majority of Indians zameen jaidad rakhne me believe karte hain wo sochte hain aisho aaram karne se aacha baccho ke liye ya future emergency ke liye rakha jaye , aur ghar kaam me help karne wali helper 2 time sirf khana banana ka 8 se 10 hajaar leti hain jharu pocha alag aur ye gav ki baat kar rahi hoon Main, pati apni kamayi se muft me kuch nahi deta dahej le chuka hota hai , aage bhi patni ke maike se gifs aate rehte hain festivals ya Shadi function, party me, kaha dekh liya aapne ki pati apni patni ko itne mehnge kapre Dila raha hai kuch gine chune log wo bhi muft me koi kisi ko kuch nahi deta pati hi kyu na Ho, patni thakne lagti hai to bahu le aati hai ghar ka kaam karne ke liye aur jinki bahu nahi hai wo Marne tak apne pati ki seva karti hain muft me , unko eske badle pyaar bhi nahi milta farz hai kehke use kiya jata hai unka , jayadatar pati galat hote hain phir bhi court saboot pe chalta hai bina saboot ke kuch bhi sabit nahi hota, aapne Apni maa ki bhi tulna kutte se kar Di aur kis chez ke liye aurat greatful Ho aapke jaise nalayak ladke ko paida karne ke liye maa paida karke paal posh ke bara kar Di kya mila aapki maa ko kutta sunne ke alawa shame on you , kutta se shadi karne ke liye badhayi/Mubarak, kutta paida karne ke liye congrats aur puri zindagi kutte ke saath bitane ke liye all the best.

[@ibnebatuta4868]

being a business woman and being the boss of your own business, or freelancing too sometimes is the ultimate greatness when it comes to personal independence And what if one is working under female boss, then it's a bit fine too Lastly, I think love is the responsibility, the person you love, their body, their soul, their heart, their necessaties, their money necessaties all are your responsibility, the responsibility to protect them etc etc, each and everything is your responsibility, of course they can themselves take care of them but it's your responsibility too Be it your brother, father, mother, husband, son, daughter, friend or anyother person whom you say you love But they are your responsibility till they don't take you for granted, And thing is it's not feminists who talk bad about housewives, it's the people, society, husbands and children who take their housewife highly for granted, the amount of powerlessness housewives used to have for centuries, we all know that shitt Society lowers the value of a human when they take their job and responsibility lightly and for granted For granted means for granted and less amount of respect than the husband, less amount of power and authority over children and in the house than the husband, and likewise children respect their housewife mothers lesser than their fathers, and debate with me on that, we all know deep down that it is similar to what I said, these all things plays small parts in making the position of a housewife lower Similar to what a position of labourer is in comparison to CEO It's the fact, I'm a Muslim, and even in my religion Allah has made the position of a housewife lower than the bread-earner So, just go and earn, that's your responsibility to your own self and coming to love, take it as a responsibility too and the people who claim to love you in return should also not take you for granted, and should care about your mental health in return, simple 💯🙌

[@kumarabhishek1064]

​@@ruhashashayed8245 Pooray dunia k boss say kya matlab agar Mera boss toxic hua to?? Ameer chahe urban ho ya rural, dono life jeetay hai. Akhilesh yadav ki biwi kya Ghar may jhaadu pocha karti hai kya?? Ghar k kaam karne may jisko Sharm aati hai wo wahi log hai beemaar padne pay 5 logo say expect karte hai ki unki dekh bhaal kar de. Har cheez ki importance hai....job karne waale ki koi izzat nahi karta....paise waalo ko karte hai.... Paise to gunday badmash drug dealer bhi kama lete hai....politician bhi to saare log wahi ban jaaye?? Jisko housewife Banna pasand hai unko banne do....jinko nahi Banna hai wo baney Jo usko banna hai....lkn har jagah ye feminism bol k dictatorship ghusaana badtameezi hai

[@meghakumari6137]

I use to have similar thoughts like the girl in my teenage years...but now after doing house work daily, maintaining everything, not ignoring the micro details ...i have great respect for my mother...and now i can see the monetary quantification of what mothers do...

[@freezingmoon5415]

The thing is you can't earn money by doing household works. But, you need money to feed yourself and cover up the expenses for basic necessities of life Lol.

[@ibnebatuta4868]

being a business woman and being the boss of your own business, or freelancing too sometimes is the ultimate greatness when it comes to personal independence And what if one is working under female boss, then it's a bit fine too Lastly, I think love is the responsibility, the person you love, their body, their soul, their heart, their necessaties, their money necessaties all are your responsibility, the responsibility to protect them etc etc, each and everything is your responsibility, of course they can themselves take care of them but it's your responsibility too Be it your brother, father, mother, husband, son, daughter, friend or anyother person whom you say you love But they are your responsibility till they don't take you for granted, And thing is it's not feminists who talk bad about housewives, it's the people, society, husbands and children who take their housewife highly for granted, the amount of powerlessness housewives used to have for centuries, we all know that shitt Society lowers the value of a human when they take their job and responsibility lightly and for granted For granted means for granted and less amount of respect than the husband, less amount of power and authority over children and in the house than the husband, and likewise children respect their housewife mothers lesser than their fathers, and debate with me on that, we all know deep down that it is similar to what I said, these all things plays small parts in making the position of a housewife lower Similar to what a position of labourer is in comparison to CEO It's the fact, I'm a Muslim, and even in my religion Allah has made the position of a housewife lower than the bread-earner So, just go and earn, that's your responsibility to your own self and coming to love, take it as a responsibility too and the people who claim to love you in return should also not take you for granted, and should care about your mental health in return, simple 💯🙌

[@PartiallyAnonymous456]

​@@freezingmoon5415lmao so now you want money to raise your own baby ?

[@bosepooja]

Kudos to you to explain the importance of a homemaker so perfectly... TRUE FEMINIST 👍

[@Nixter636]

You are doing best thing you can see your child grow job walo ke baccho ko dekhna most of time they don't have connection with there parants house wife valuable asset hai

[@purvii2371]

​@@Nixter636 Ohh c'mon, you can't decide what's the "valuable asset" of women on internet. You can't judge working women and decide worth of women bruh. Everyone has their own choices and have their own definition of "valuable life". For me, being financially independent might be hard but it's more worthy as women are receiving respect, freedom, can get out of the torture, cheating or any wrong situation and can make their own decisions.

[@Vdesd]

​@@purvii2371true sister❤

[@ByakuyaKuchiki006]

Clearly the female author is jealous of her classmates

[@RamanSingh-zo5hf]

Stop disrespecting authors by calling that dmbfck an author 🤣

[@jijoignatius6212]

She is clearly jealous that her friend is living comfortably than her

[@ByakuyaKuchiki006]

@@RamanSingh-zo5hf can't afford to be out of words 😂

[@souventudu2]

No It's about women who don't study

[@PartiallyAnonymous456]

​@@souventudu2 no it's not, the way she is projecting and disrespecting people who don't align to her status of "work and contribution" , it clearly indicates she is butt-hurt because of the happiness of her peers .

[@littlemissmuffet1239]

I was working for fifteen years and was earning very well.I gave up my job to take care of my babies and husband .It is extremely exhausting and as I am settled in Europe it is really expensive to keep a maid .My husband is European and they don’t have the culture of keeping maids until old age and start to help doing house chores since small and so he is very good in helping me because he was raised like that.I really appreciate how you understood the wives especially who don’t go to work but working the whole day at home.

[@Shaurya1203]

thats what ppl dont understand the value of work which housewifes do . i hve been seeing my mom from childhood and the work she does without any money or salary is great. i hve immense respect for my mother how she has sacrificed so many things for the happiness of her family!

[@rajkanwar7051]

A female should only be housewife when the husband is also supportive and not exploiting or downplaying her role . In such cases she must earn her own money in case husband mistreats her or harasses her she will have the courage to leave him as she is a earning woman.

[@d-e-v-esh]

The same husband who is caring and supportive at 30 can become abusive and emotionally detached at 45 after life gets into a routine. So we cannot judge how a person will be in the future based on how he currently is.

[@SBH3356]

Every woman should have her own money

[@Futurebanker6666]

​@@SBH3356Indian women have gold jewellery and money with them it's our tradition

[@agustinad1447]

​@@SBH3356 yep true makes you feel confident to look in the eye of people who mistreat you

[@SBH3356]

@@Futurebanker6666 how far do you think jewellery and money can take her? Also it depends how much her parents could afford to give. That jewellery will be kept in the locker and will be used only during emergencies.

[@adityasarda5118]

Huge respect to all the caretakers of our homes. It's been 8 months since I have moved away from India for my further studies and trust me guys when I say this, HOUSEWORK is the probably the most time consuming and tiring out job & still I am not able to keep my home clean even close to my mother standards. Shewtabh is right when he said hame apne aas paas ki cheezo ki kadar hi nhi hai. And watching this just saddens me ki we have forgotten our values and becoming so individualistic and self-centered. Thank you for the video Shwetabh!🙏🙏

[@lonewolf8644]

Ok toh apne mummy ko diary milk gift karo

[@seeker8453]

As a young teenage girl I always thought that i would never do a housework (I didnt see it respectfully) my grandparents always used to taunt my mother that she do nothing. They used to force her to work on the fields . My mom couldn't live peacefully in our house. She was forced to move out nd start small businesses, open her Parlour nd manage House as well so that she could find peace there. . As I grew up I realized where my biasness is coming from. Now I see housework as a most respectfull job. In fact I believe one person should stay in house nd other should work. It is called a balance sadly which is going away these days. But the harsh truth is that deep inside girls know that fact that nobody will respect them or acknowledge them for staying nd taking care of house.. I still believe in this thought process that one should stay in home ( be it men or women) nd the one who stays at home and create positive environment should get the same respect as the other who goes to earn income. These days both men and women are hustling I live alone in my home both of my parents work. I would always want my mother to stay with us. I know the situation of my house there is no peace. Everyone contributes in housework (my father, mother, me nd my younger brother) as there no single person stays at home. But there is always a sense of instability which I felt in my home.

[@jeestudyhard7041]

its great to see youngsters still having this mindset!

[@kailashsingha4073]

It's good to do housework but don't forget to have some time for yourself. It is the duty of your husband to make sure that you or anyone else get some break from house work as well to enjoy some hobbies maybe.

[@cyborg6282]

Wrong house work should be done both should work.

[@one_incident4426]

Great point 👍💯

[@seeker8453]

@@cyborg6282 I said the same thing bro

[@rashminegi8328]

A woman should her own money . No matter who your dad is and your husband is

[@PartiallyAnonymous456]

Lmao clearly you are a privileged and tier one city person

[@chanchalsinha-tv4ir]

Now our gov is also trying to include house works under paid work, And already mentioned all the points related to it earlier👍

[@arsh6572]

Thank you bhaiya for the course, it's literally making me work and set realistic goals

[@Khushie_singh]

My mother is a housewife but lemme tell y'all she inspires me the most because If I'm able to dream about achieving goals and work on it , it is mostly because of my mum that she never tells me to do household chores and that's why I am able to fully concentrate on my studies , I can't imagine myself doing household chores along with studies she is not much educated but she's the most inspiring women for me in this whole universe! It's easy for people who have no responsibilities and money to say these things but people like me can understand the value ! I hope people realise that success is good but being blind while being successful is not good either!

[@purvii2371]

The society, husband family itself degraded the value of housewife lol, we can't blame feminists on that. Feminists are talking about the reality though, it's 100% true that housewife receives less respect as compared to working women!

[@fixerrr98]

Meh, Even as a guy I do housework as well as studies while still being top in classes.

[@Shaurya1203]

same here brdr i understand ur pov

[@himanshujha807]

even though I am of the opinion that male or female should earn for themselves otherwise they will never have a dignified life and their self respect will be shattered but calling housewife a maid is outright outrageous as I have seen my mom she as worked harder in times of crises to fulfill all my families need by managing the house in whatever she had in her hand. In my opinion being housewife is a job as well a very thankless job.

[@karadparth]

But why does dignity and self respect attached to only earning money. Asking for clarity on your first line

[@freezingmoon5415]

@@karadparth Because you need basic necessities to live a life which you can only afford if you have money Lol. If you can't afford these and rely on other person to live then you're literally sacrificing your happiness, your life to the other person which is very dangerous. Even before marriage you can't know a person because true colours are shown after marriage.

[@classnclassics7252]

Exactly - it’s a thankless job. You know what’s even worse ? Earning in lakhs but still expected to do ALL the housework instead of sharing the housework responsibilities …

[@classnclassics7252]

@@karadparthunfortunately that’s how the world is ..

[@ibnebatuta4868]

being a business woman and being the boss of your own business, or freelancing too sometimes is the ultimate greatness when it comes to personal independence And what if one is working under female boss, then it's a bit fine too Lastly, I think love is the responsibility, the person you love, their body, their soul, their heart, their necessaties, their money necessaties all are your responsibility, the responsibility to protect them etc etc, each and everything is your responsibility, of course they can themselves take care of them but it's your responsibility too Be it your brother, father, mother, husband, son, daughter, friend or anyother person whom you say you love But they are your responsibility till they don't take you for granted, And thing is it's not feminists who talk bad about housewives, it's the people, society, husbands and children who take their housewife highly for granted, the amount of powerlessness housewives used to have for centuries, we all know that shitt Society lowers the value of a human when they take their job and responsibility lightly and for granted For granted means for granted and less amount of respect than the husband, less amount of power and authority over children and in the house than the husband, and likewise children respect their housewife mothers lesser than their fathers, and debate with me on that, we all know deep down that it is similar to what I said, these all things plays small parts in making the position of a housewife lower Similar to what a position of labourer is in comparison to CEO It's the fact, I'm a Muslim, and even in my religion Allah has made the position of a housewife lower than the bread-earner So, just go and earn, that's your responsibility to your own self and coming to love, take it as a responsibility too and the people who claim to love you in return should also not take you for granted, and should care about your mental health in return, simple 💯🙌

[@neetaspirant8822]

If you are talking about lower middle class housewives then it is true.. but If the girl marries to a rich background then now she has no housework she can keep maid in her house for laundry, washing dishes and other works.. so all she does is just sit on couch and binge watch or just looking after babies... Moreover when she remains at the house she is dependent on her husband for everything... She doesn't know about the outer world.. so if anyhow she divorce her husband she has nothing to survive.. So every housewives is not good for everyone...while for men do marry a worthy girl not just someone who just enjoys on your hard earned money

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

well, in that case, she will receive a hefty alimony and child support as per the laws of our country. So yeah!

[@KajalKumari-qp8dy]

​@@ShwetabhGangwar1i never expected this much immature answer bhaiya.। Bcz all the domestic violence.. All the sexual abuse women are facing bcz of this mentality of being housewife.. I thnk u should listen to acharya prashant on this topic

[@user-vz8xp3ff9g]

​​@@KajalKumari-qp8dywomen have small brains so yeah I can understand you are not getting what he is trying to say

[@KajalKumari-qp8dy]

@@user-vz8xp3ff9g firat go and scan ur brains

[@Trueneutron]

#LODULOGIC@@user-vz8xp3ff9g

[@illuminati343]

My mosi ji who is a veryyyyyy much traditional wife is married to a husband who is a drunker and a beater and her mother in law fully supports her son. I had literally seen her crying soooo badly in front of my mom that even my mom wasn't able to control her tears and I was sent out of the room. Yet she had to spend her whole life with that Same person. I haven't met her after that, just hoping and praying that she is alright and doing well🙏 Don't want to say anything more just be independent everyone In a way that there's no need to tolerate abuse of any kind😔. Can't see any other man or women crying like my mosi cried that day!

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

well, people in your family should come out and support her to leave. Nobody deserves abuse at all.

[@illuminati343]

@@ShwetabhGangwar1 that's the whole point. Our family doesn't want her to have a tag of "divorcee". And they think that once a women is married, after that she should live at her husband's home only, that's her only home. Though she can visit her parents and all but again she need to go back to her husband's house

[@user-vz8xp3ff9g]

​@@illuminati343 that's why women should study and earn without financial security they always will be abused

[@KajalKumari-qp8dy]

​@@ShwetabhGangwar1in which world u r living.।। No one stands for anyone

[@Trueneutron]

In my family they does, Talk about yourself , maybe you never seen but I have.@@KajalKumari-qp8dy

[@B-W.]

I have changed four jobs in life. Including a job at a prestigious bank, that required me to commute to work for about 90 minutes, one side. I am a Stay at home mom (because we have resources and we can afford it). Doing household chores and bringing up a kid, is the most difficult job, compared to all other jobs i worked. It's Non Stop, repetitive, boring and doesn't offer fulfilment. Now, if i expected my husband to do all this (he supports me everyday, doing dishes, cleaning bathrooms, i never touch trash) If i expected him to do everything (and there is a lot), he will be burnt out and i will be too. We live peacefully, find time to love, pull each other's leg about various chores and have a happy home.

[@freezingmoon5415]

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[@garima9719]

Bro you are right household work is really very exhausting and draining 😥😥 I am realizing this now, when my mom is out of station from last 2-3 days

[@adityajha2451]

Sir u are mocking american capitalism like if india is a completely socialist country and their is no capitalism here in india......I understand that one should not say that housework has no value and being a guy I have done it myself.......I know its really hard....but I did it because I didn't had any choice......our mothers do it because they are taught by the society that its their responsibility to do house work.....once a girl marries an indian guy do u really think she is left with any time to do things that will give her satisfaction.........their are many more problems with those females who don't earn anything and and are housewifes.........I come from a place in india where once a girls gets married to a guy chosen by her parents.......her entire remaining life is left with doing only housework and baby sitting.......I understand that paisa sab kuch nhi hota.....lekin agar aap ek gareeb ghar se ho.......aur aap paise par focus nhi karte to jis satisfaction ki baat aap kar rahe wo aapko waise bhi kabhi nhi milta chahe aap ladki ho ya ladka... At last I want to say please agar aap kisi aise sensitive topic par video bna rahe ho to aap har perspective ko include karo uske......although i know its hard Meri behen jo ek gareeb family se aati hai she watches your video......she is struggling in her life to acheive something.......taaki uski society uski kisi gadhe se shadi na kara de......aur aap beech me aisi video le aaoge to kya hoga meri behen jaisi ladkiyon ka

[@sg042]

mujhe ladki ki baat mai kuch point lagta hai. I agree ki apne maa and grandma ne housewife rahke bahut mehnat ki hai before marriage and after marriage. But aajkal there are many girls which I know jo kuch padai bhi nahi karti because they understand ki badiya ladka mil hi jayega(as most of them are beautiful) and ghar ka kaam bhi nahi karti because unki mummy khud housewife hai. I met them through various arrange marriage meetings, mujhe to yahi laga ki ambition nahi hone ki wajah se unhe finance, politics, science kisi ka bhi itna knowledge and interest dono nahi rahta aur mostly time gossip karne mai hi jyada time spend karte hai. Not generalizing but mostly mujhe to yahi laga, Jab koi ladki job karti hai padai mai mehnat karti hai, to usse bahut kuch sikhna padta hai.

[@KajalKumari-qp8dy]

U r the sweetest man and a most caring brother.।। I must say,...

[@SeemaJaiswal-gp4kv]

Apke jaise ladkiyo nahi dekhe mene😊

[@shraddhasingh9993]

@adityajha2451 The only comment I have found to be sensible is yours.

[@shivam_nagar69]

next time "......" itna use mat kario, serr dard karidya🥶

[@TheCosmopolitanHefty]

She is just salty because people are having fun, if there is somebody who loves a girl and is willing to provide her a luxurious life, I don't think this OP is in a state to speak for others. She chose a life of hardships or she is having a life of hardships is her own issue, and undermining the contribution of a women who is actually a good housewive/homemaker, is cheap from this girl's side. It is actually underrated how greatly housewives contribute to the household, raising kids and looking after the husband. It is a humungous task and must not be disrespected. Most of us have been raised by our mothers and we can vouch for them but this girl is just sad and salty.

[@shefalisabrina7679]

But these are the kinds of girls boys like

[@the1stmetalhead]

​@@shefalisabrina7679 which ones? Because I'm sure it's not based on her ability to become a housewife or slave at work. But more on how attractive she is and how she is a person i.e., her personality.

[@shivamsingh-cl4zw]

The job of house wife is very easy and doesn't lead to any kind of intellectual or even spiritual development in order to grow a person must face hardships and that kind of hardships needed for growth aren't there in housework so whatever that girl said was completely right

[@sebastianbeiber3776]

However, I don't understand why always women has to sacrifice her career , she can also be working. Both man and woman must learn the household and could help the family

[@mayanksaxena01]

@@shivamsingh-cl4zw "job of house wife is very easy " REALLY 🤣

[@rashminegi8328]

Women should be financially independent .more than eighty percent women in India are abused and they can't leave their marriage because they don't earn and they care about their children

[@PartiallyAnonymous456]

Cant site the statistics for your claim . 80% ?

[@sebastianbeiber3776]

I am not disrespecting housewives just like the girl did, I am just wanna make a point that a economically independent women has more freedom . Household work is not only very exhaustive in nature and very repititive therefore it can be outsourced easily if a man and woman both are earning. In a society a working woman contributes more to her development of herself and the country as she will be in the work force.

[@KajalKumari-qp8dy]

Exactly... That's true....

[@mayanksaxena01]

also more tax for the govt

[@masteroogway9060]

Best comment 🎉🎉

[@sebastianbeiber3776]

@@masteroogway9060 thanks

[@ankitchaubey1293]

​@@mayanksaxena01 correct this more profit to banks more increase in consumerism women non taxable audience thi to Inhe freedom ki ghutti pilayi gayi taki family break ho aur taxes aaye

[@Nazeela28]

Being an independent woman is very important, but I realise how underrated the job of a housewife is . Growing up I had my mother by my side all the time and I wonder how drastically different it would be if she was a working woman . She raised us with abundance and was so selfless. Losing your own individuality for your kids is not healthy. But the kids deserve the love , care and emotional support of their mother . One must fulfill their responsibilities. Being a woman is such a divine thing and not offering the feminity to thw world that it needs is not justified. Life needs balance ❤️

[@catcat63527]

There are real criticisms to being housewife, such as not being allowed to have a break, having to work even when you are suck, having to ask permission to go to your parents' house, no help from husband in the endless chores, being vulnerable to abuse from his family and him and not being able to leave cause you are financially dependent on him. This woman clearly doesn't know how bad it is. Such surface level bs. My dad cheated on my mom for years, even after I was born. His family encouraged the bs and they are all still abusive af to my mom. She couldn't leave cause she was not financially independent. That is the most important reason to get a job, to be able to make your own decisions and not depend on others. I'm terrified of getting married because of how trashy most men I've met are (most are government servants, so obviously their wives won't even get support if they try to leave), but that doesn't mean that being a housewife is inherently bad. It's a good life if you get good enough in laws and husband who understands you are his equal, not beneath him.

[@PoojaMishra-ys9vh]

Can feel her frustration she is thinking that others are getting things without any effort and she has to work hard for the same Life is unfair as shwetabh said in hi suhana khan video.

[@the1stmetalhead]

I mean, she also has that choice to become a stay at home wife and live the life of luxury in her early to mid 20s with a husband who's more established financially. But she deliberately is making the choice to work hard and slave away compared to a life of comfort and relaxation. And I'm not saying that being a housewife is easy. It has its own struggles like taking care of kids and dealing with grandparents. But she cannot complain because she herself made that choice to go through with college and not settle down.

[@user-vm8lr2hr7d]

@@the1stmetalhead getting married in a rich household is never a choice atleast not in india. very firstly you have to be good looking and you should already be coming from a very well to do family and the caste matters too all of which is never in your hand and you cant change any of that. just see the marriage market you will know and these things also apply in love marriages too

[@PrakritiSenpai]

Yup

[@PrakritiSenpai]

@@the1stmetalhead jaruri nhi ki sab ko highly highly rich people hi mile 🤦🏻‍♀ Have you ever stepped out of your room

[@PrakritiSenpai]

@@user-vm8lr2hr7d you are correct

[@ananya_kathak]

Thank you for this video ❤ all I can say is thiss...much needed

[@rickenrique6665]

Before comparing salaries of maid in Europe, don't convert Euro to INR Blindly. You forgot Purchasing Power Parity. In India cost of living is low as compared to EU.

[@shubhamrana41999]

A very very important argument needs to be addressed 👏👏👏👏 Salute to all mothers and women 🫡🫡🫡 for their sacrifices.

[@sci-fi7484]

This Topic needed to be addressed. Thank you 👍

[@chanchalsinha-tv4ir]

This called using the power of feminism in wrong way , Thank u shwetab bhaiya for clearing misinformation in society

[@nalday2534]

"power of feminism" lmao sit tf down

[@ghazifilms5933]

Shwetabh, I think you missed the point by a huge margin. So here's where you went wrong: 1. Being a housewife DOES NOT quantify to anything really, not even to the economy (please present an evidence for your economy contribution statement otherwise its just misleading). When a significantly large chunk of 50% of the population decides to stay home, it's counter productive. Women are needed in STEM sectors, and THAT would significantly add to the economy and the society and overall growth of a nation. 2. When a woman decides to stay at home, she simply becomes a consumer or indulges in consumerist mentality. Doing housework is no big deal, stop making it that. In China, woman contribute to the labor force significantly and both men and women look after the family and homes together while preserving the family system. 3. First you say looking down on housewives is a western concept and then you say calling them maid is an Indian concept. Make up your mind dude. Either ask people to be global or indian. For God's sake make up your mind and stop acting like the chic who can't decide where she wants to go on a date. 4. Promoting housework puts forward a wrong impression to younger women in similar ways being an IG model sends a wrong message to younger women. Making them think that there is always a safe route of escape which brings down the stake of their existence and their activities. There are no indicators or yard stick that tells how an organised home or home management looks like as a house is a personal/private affair and no one is gonna come and see to determine if the house is smoothly working or not. Its a different case if you say that the job of being a home maker falls under the unorganised sector. It is counter productive. 5. The Idea of taking pride in being a wife doing housework (which is to be shared equally by both men and women) is a really misogynist concept and sets a wrong precedence for women who really want to study and work outside home and have ambitions. The same concept can be put to the other end of the spectrum where IG models who shows tits and ass earns more money by objectifying themselves than the ones who study their ass off to become something and earn a living while preserving their dignity. 6. Home maker is an outdated concept and puts a lot of pressure to earn on men. In Indian context, the income is going down while the consumption is sky rocketing, only one member of the nuclear family bringing home the income puts the family in danger of going broke. This is not the 80s or 90s where income was higher than the consumption (and hence out fathers and mothers could successfully run on one person income) as there were not many avenues or need to spend money. 7. We need more quality doctors, engineers, architects, scientists, economists, teachers and business professionals and not so surprisingly, we have a large pool of people who are women, who could be put to use for all that. RUNNING A HOUSE IS SUCH A BARE MINIMUM THING. By glorifying home making you also enable the patriarchal mentality of the society that "shaadi karle, tera dhyaan rakhegi". Abhi tak mummy dhyaan rakhti ayi hai (senior bai) ab ek aur bewakoof ko ghar le aa (junior bai). 8. Bhai, jis ladki ko kuch aur nhi aata and she was trained at home to be a wife, uska to theek hai. She doesn't have a degree or education. But if you're receiving higher education just to become a housewife later, to please don't waste the university seats by applying to it. Ghar pe baitho, kitchen me raho, education lene ki koi zarurat nhi hai.

[@jiminsjams1477]

In india even if the girl is working and earning same as compared to man they are still expected to do the household works as well because nobody thinks that household work are work nowadays everyone wants working women who brings money in the family but the expectation of doing the household work is not changed at all

[@d-e-v-esh]

I agree with most the things you said you but as you stated yourself that the happiness of the woman goes down after the kids are born, and the work she is doing is not going to be recognised by the society and sadly also her family as "important" so I think they should definitely strive to be independent in some sort of way. If not for the family then at least her own sake. In society girls are often discouraged from picking up difficult jobs because they have to get married and have kids later in life that later leads them to be extremely dependent on the husband which leads to very unequal power dynamics in the family specially during important decision making instances. This can be extremely traumatic in some cases pushing the women even further downward. So do I think that housework is extremely important and vital to the proper functioning of the family unit and should never be belittled like the girl did, it definitely should not be glorified in society for future generations. What you said might fully apply in a perfect world but not this unfortunately.

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

didn't say that at all. Phew! Happiness goes down for the first years, then progressively picks up later. Women in the later years are extremely happy and proud about being mothers and look at those developmental years of their children with great fondness. (is what the research and studies tell)

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

also, that unhappiness can be buffered by distributing house-work. Simple solution provided by psychological and economics literature.

[@d-e-v-esh]

​​@@ShwetabhGangwar1 I agree with you, but my point is that there is a very big distinction between parenting and housework. A woman can handle a 8-10 hours job per day with parenting their child (after the kids are old enough and are going to school) while the housework can be shared between the two or outsourced to a professional/servant. Infact she might even be a better mother when she alone doesn't have the burden of whole housework.

[@freezingmoon5415]

@@ShwetabhGangwar1 I'm not saying women shouldn't do household works. I'm saying both women and men should earn money as well as doing household works. A woman can never know a person before marriage either it's arranged or love. True colours are shown after marriage. So, what if the husband turns out to be an abusive or lazy or some idiot??

[@HairySweetMango]

@d-e-v-esh I am so glad you said this because this is so true. And I don't disagree with shwetabh but there is alot of power dynamic in this situation. There are very rare instance when a man really think about the women and share house work. This is not a perfect world but we need to face reality .

[@Yash.Srivastava]

4:17 recently my mother went for a knee replacement surgery, 2-3 months unhe koi bhi household chores nahi krne the. bhaiyaa jeevan ke L lgg gae the kaam krne mai, roz ros whi same cheez krne mai itnaa mentally tiring lgta thaa. Tbb jaake asli value samjh aai housewives ki. Salute to all the mothers out there.

[@RajatPatel85]

I completely agree with you. Housework is something you must do on a daily basis and cannot be avoided. I have not thanked my mother, sisters, or wife, but I will as soon as I return home. I've done some housework throughout the holidays, and it's a tiring and never-ending task.

[@asadahmed7965]

Boss Im grateful I clicked on this video.. I appreciate you for giving me a new way or line of thought ❤

[@aerah76]

Feminism is all about respecting a woman's choice unless the choice is to be a housewife and take on the nurturing and caretaking role. That being said, fellas don't marry a woman who shows signs of being a gold-digger and uses you for your money. There needs to be contribution from both sides in the relationship whether same or different contributions.

[@swatisaini6447]

Housewives deserve respect too.

[@mathematicalmonk1427]

How do you argue against this To a women money is same as beauty for a man

[@swatisaini6447]

@@Hajun_Hermesia girls job karti hai but kitne boys ghar ka kaam karte hai ya bacche sambhalte hai?

[@Gunpark829]

​@@swatisaini6447girls ghar ka kam karne vale boys ka respect nhi kar sakti Dusra boys pregnant nhi hote sirf girls hoti h Agar finance ka bhar wife par daloge pregnancy k douran ghar me pesa kaha se ayega? Kyuki husband to lambe samay se ghar par bethega to jo skills usey ati hogi wo bhi bhul chuka hoga tab tak

[@aerah76]

@@mathematicalmonk1427 So a woman doesn't care about a man's beauty at all?

[@Bhakt-TheDevotee]

This girl is taking things for granted. But because of this girl my respect has increased for all the housewives who handles their housework on their own.

[@marvel.4kShorts]

Same here...

[@utsav.mittal]

I agree with everything you said, but I think every girl should have one monetizable skill so that even if she is a homemaker, one can not say that she does nothing. A skill will make her powerful and she would be able to say fuck you to her partner if she is in a toxic relationship, but if she doesn't have any monrtisable skills then she is more vulnerable to abuse.

[@atz1091]

Watching this on Day 3 of 18 when my mom is on a trip with her friend. Bhai, I'm holding the fort for Dad and my brother at home now - IT'S EXTREMELY TIRING! Aint gonna give up though, I have to learn these things. + my expectations from my future wife has changed so much already.

[@AnkitYadav-3Op]

I bow down to this man's wisdom. 🙌 We need these scoldings to realize and again remember the sacrifices our female counterparts make. Thank you 🙏

[@vinay249]

There is no wisdom in these video. He just romanticised a lifestyle which causes a lot of social issues like female infanticide,foeticide,dowry domestic abuse ,financial independency etc He didn't even touched upon these issue which are caused by our idealisation of housewifing.

[@36rishikasinha43]

Aaj kal log har cheez me sensitive hote ja rahe hai. Matlab agar unke opinion se match nii ho rhi tab woh samne wala/ wali devil hai. Are.... Bewokuf tum feminism ka matalab puri se demean kar rhi hoo ( choice). Glad I follow people like you 😊😊😊😊 Can you please make a video on self control 😔😔

[@sheetalseth6334]

Thanks for doing this young girls really need this to hear at this point. My friend used to call me maid when I was 17-18 because I used to do all thr house chore because my mother have spinal problem while my dad and mom prepare meals. I never respond to this but I start effecting me somehow. One day my mother read his text and got angry not because he was saying this shit but because I didn't realize that no one is maid in there own house at all. She make me understand when you do this for your family than no matter what you are doing it for family.

[@vinay249]

Doing it under adverse conditions is alright and understandable but willingly choosing this lifestyle is like digging your own grave . Plz Don't fall for that. housewifing is a prime example of the wastage of human intelligence.

[@sheetalseth6334]

@@vinay249 first of all no my parents focus on this fact that I'm capable to handle myself for day to day routine without any support. I know all the house chores and I'm educated and doing job. So they make sure from there end that no matter what is the situation I won't be heavily depend on someone. Also my parents support each other alot in house chores. My dad never did a shit that I'm a man why would I take care of such things nor my mom pull this card that I'm the one who is earning that obey me. Both of them always discuss and make decisions so that's what I have learn.

[@kalpanaarora7214]

Ek maa ya wife ke kaam mai aur ek house helper/maid/babysitter ke kaam mai boht boht jada farak hota hai logon

[@2007krishnan]

Absolutely..no one will understand except those who have experienced it..

[@d-e-v-esh]

Ek bacche ko acche se pal kr bada krna aur roz 10 ghante ghar ke kam mai kamar tudwane mai bhi bahut bata farak hota hai bhai. Ghar ka kam to naukar bhi kr sakta hai.

[@AdityaSinghRajput-c6f]

​​@@d-e-v-esh Bhaiya iss video ka point tha ki House Hold work asaan nhi hota, Usse karne wale log bahut respect deserve krte h, Aapka topic hai ki ladkiyo ko force kiya jata hai household work krne ke liye jo ki obviously galat hai.

[@poojaanimallover8720]

Excellent speech n massege....what a thoughtful man u r.👏👏

[@Nidhisingh-os7ke]

I think most women don't want to become housewife just bcz their fellow partners don't recognize housewives' work.many men came to home after work and said to their wife that what have u hv done whole day just eating nd watching tv nd taking rest.even many of women started thinking that household work is not enough to get respect nd then started hating these work.if all of us including men and women have started giving respect to that work then these arguments would not exist

[@ArshitSamkria-fk7sh]

4:09 One example for Housework's value could be those 3 days when your mom is out and you have to handle the whole house. You have to spend time out of your schedule to do that and in the end you don't receive anything. (in a sense not gained anything productive) That's a reason why House chores shall not be taken for granted.

[@monikavaid5083]

I think that girl was not shaming on housewives. Our mothers are housewives and we respect them a lot. There nothing to be ashamed of that. The point that she is trying to bring is that these women who failed in studies and had zero goals in life are having paris trips on husband’s money and they should not be respected. And I agree with this fact because these women are not housewives. An average working woman does more household chores than these wives of Rich husbands. They have got maid, cook and what not services at their house. On the contrary, an average working woman of india, let it be a cop or a doctor or an engineer does her job and takes care house and children as well. I am not in support of shaming any woman. But I definitely believe in respecting a working woman more because she puts food on the table for family. She neglects her physical and mental health for her family. This is the message that this girl was trying to give.

[@trueword4971]

But housewife is not a good option for women. They should avoid being housewife and focus on earning and they should live with full freedom. Because marriage is bondage and compromise

[@shreyas1995]

And who are we to say that these women who are wives of rich husbands are not actually real housewives? What do we know about the work she is doing inside the house? The problem is. We want to make hypothetical situations and keep conditions on what qualifies as respectable and what does not based on what we think. Maybe we are projecting our own insecurities on others ? It's a shame that it's women who are doing this to other women. Let's stop trying to control what everyone does and focus on our own

[@potatobowmaster5396]

There are no free lunches in the world the husband is taking her to europe because she makes him happy. There is no price you can put on happiness ppl make millions just to be depressed

[@PartiallyAnonymous456]

​@@trueword4971 stop projecting lmao . "Saar marriage bondage suffering Saar"

[@user-vm8lr2hr7d]

in upper middle class house holds(as said by the girl that they are enjoying paris maldives etc) housewife have close to no work as the cleaning and dishes are taken care by the maid and their only task is to take care of the baby which they send to schools for 6 hr and then coching for 2 hr and for the rest of the time they give them phone and laptops so all in all they take care of baby for very little time rest of the times they are busy with their kitty parties and tv shows and now insta reels.They do close to no work for providing for the family and nail on the coffin is they cant even take care of themselves for their own tasks such as documents updation and bank related things which either their husbands or their male child if he is grown enough takes care of. They view which you were coming form is perfectly applied to middle class and lower middle class house holds and i cant even talk about poor ones and what their females go through . But what the girl was talking about is upper or upper middle class which i somewhat agree with but not everything like the last lines or the grades thing.

[@rashmii_kashyap02]

Each and every point in this video is so 100% true☺🙂🙂🙂🙂

[@freezingmoon5415]

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[@arupchatterjee4045]

On This Point I Will Disagree With You. Females Should Contribute in Our Workforce. Even PM MODI Also Stated On 15th August Speech That We Have to Use Our Unused Women Workforce To Achieve The Economy We Dream Of. Otherwise Forget The 5 Or 6 Trillion Economy Target By 2026, With Only The Males in The Workforce.

[@prathmeshgawde9510]

I think he not saying that women should not work if somebody doing housework it doesn't mean she/he is not working she/he helping husband/wife to earn more by free him/her from housework if both partner is completely busy in work then no time for kids and house will be unstable.

[@as_a_tester]

Shwetabh means that women should have the choice of working/staying at home and both choices should be respected.

[@Dushyant_Verma406]

4:06 absolutely

[@hrithiksingh7648]

Totally agree to shwetabh bhai Earlier, I used to think that my dad works much more than my mom. But now, after taking a one-year break from studies, I stay at home, and I've realized that my dad only works 8 hours a day for 5 days, while my mom works the entire week. 😔😔 Respect the ladies who work as a housewife ❤❤

[@Tattwamasih]

Huge Respect, Brother. . . Became a Fan of Yours. . .

[@somakun1806]

Loved this video Shwetabh ....nicely dismantled the mentality of this girl.

[@nalday2534]

dismantled mentality by making comments behind a keyboard waah

[@somakun1806]

@@nalday2534 who hurt you 🤣🤣

[@nalday2534]

@@somakun1806 you and your oppressive system did

[@somakun1806]

@@nalday2534 lol sure kiddo ....keep malding 🤡

[@nalday2534]

@@somakun1806 ganja phek ke marunga neech jaat ke

[@swastikmukherjee6867]

I shared this video to my mother & now also she is your subscriber...

[@Papasyko]

true yarrr, there no peace in house if everyone working and nobody stays at home, at this point of time i mean NOW 9/1/32 12:18PM im in my home alone have to go collage, my sis goes to school, i go collage(and trying to do some freelance), father and mother both work, MOM 10am-7pm, DAD 8:30am-10pm(whole day from waking up till sleeping), both are exausted, house is a complete mess, fights, arguments etc.... im just so tired of this shit, just want to retire both of them so that they could have some time for themselves, enjoy their life from the money ive earned, and no fights etc.... i remember when my mom used to be at home, and my dad whole day he used to be out working, there was that unknowingly peace in home, mo used to cook nutrious food, clean house, fresh and positive most of the time, we used to be poor, now as both are working we can save and afford few things-still i ask myself at what cost? what's it worth! but from when mom started doing fulll time job its just a mess and i hate it. i want my mom to stay at home, take care of us all and just be happy!! as mostly none stays at home most of the time, everythings is messed i try to be helpfull as mush as possible, maybe sometimes doing the dishes, washing cloths(washing machine), sweeping after cleaning the bed, and pooja for positive energy etc.. its tough ik, but cant be done anything at this point of time. all i can do is help, work, pray.

[@freezingmoon5415]

Lol, that means you're not peaceful within yourself and seek others to have peace.

[@Papasyko]

@@freezingmoon5415 others? You treat family as others and not as one of your own? Duh?

[@freezingmoon5415]

@@Papasyko Lol, Are you and your sister in the same body?? Are you and your brother have same body?? Do you and your brother, sister, father and mother have the same mentality?? Has everyone of you lived the life in same way? Do everyone in your family have the same job? Lol, you and they are different human beings 😂😂🤣

[@freezingmoon5415]

@@Papasyko You seems to live in a fairytale Lol 😂😂. You must be a kid. Love is just fairytale. In real world you need to have self-respect, you need to be peaceful within yourself, you have to be happy within yourself. Self-love is the most important. Stop watching movies and stay away from social media. Get in the outside world and experience the reality.

[@Papasyko]

@@freezingmoon5415 bruh💀💀💀💀!!! To love someone is it necessary for them to be in your body? What are you smoking? Cuz clearly it's not something from this world! Jus cuz they've different mentality and different jobs and obviously diff body🤡 doesn't mean we should disown them and never care about them or love them! You need a therapist...

[@traveldiary00]

This is my first comment on youtube. what u said about having a child i am feeling exactly same after becoming mother. I was feeling depressed lately for not earning.. but your words gave me a different perspective.. you are truly a mentor who speaks from heart and with life experience. Thanku ❤

[@freezingmoon5415]

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[@kapishjamwal5270]

Raise your child with good character girl. Because aage ki generation ke toh L lagne waale hai , thanks to this pseudo feminism

[@aks9817]

i agree with your points but still women in india should be financially independent cause we dont know what kind of uncertainty hits their lives

[@ankit7805]

I think housework is like backend programming. Like a normal human being is just looking and interacting at the user interface of the program but completely ignoring how much complexity is behind that program to work well, and flawlessly

[@shashankkulkarni993]

Well said bro

[@Prakashsati19]

Yes housework is very tough, time taking and responsible task, but it doesn't worth to be done by a person in his life long.. it destroys person's life.

[@nidhi0racer]

My mother is housewife, nd i m proud of her, we got other house near our home my mother went to other house to check living conditions there all family members went to that house following here, can't even imagine a home without her. Now, whenever she got angry with anyone she says get lost from my house, no one get out 😅, even we got other house few mins away. That's that power of a mother, housewife, house size doesn't matter all matter where my mother living. I hope she have a long healthy life. People need to recognize the value of work house wives put into making house to home.

[@sanjana3218]

isn't this what Sonali Kulkarni also implied just wrapping it in a better language? I've seen so many families looking for women who will be housewives or maybe "school teachers" so that they can give enough time for their family. A lot of men desire the same. Especially after becoming mothers, you realize that "mothering" is a full-time job and it's painful to cut that short and outsource it partially to a babysitter so that you can go earn money from another full-time job that you hate. you also realize the privilege of being able to hire a babysitter, who also happens to be a mother leaving her kids behind with some non-earning member of her family which could be her mom, or her sister-in-law whatever. The truth is, a house doesn't just run on its own. kids don't grow up on their own. certain things in life can't be automated or outsourced, not without losing its quality. Even with a 6-fig salary the food on my platter isn't half as good in nutritional value or in taste as it was when I was young. My house isn't half as pretty as my mom kept it despite the fact that i have a full-time house help now. what a housewife does for her family is priceless. Yes, I'm envious of the sense of security they have, in not earning for themselves. The onus of giving her the sense of security is on her husband and her family. to not make her feel useless just because she isn't earning money. I'm sure, this lady's jealousy also somehow stems from such insecurities.

[@shashankkulkarni993]

Very matured/ nice thoughts of you 😊😊

[@sanjana3218]

@@shashankkulkarni993 thanks

[@Studyingwillchangeyourlife]

We have 3 house-helpers coming to our house everyday to do the basic chores, yet my mumma has to work continuously from 6:30 in the morning. She has vericose in her legs from standing such long hours every single day. It's because of my mumma that all of us in our family are able to do everything that we want to do, 'cause we know that mumma's taking care of everything else. The rest of us have to go to offices, yet we try our best that we help her in any way possible, that's because we know, we understand her role in our lives and we know that it's impossible for us to even exist without her. My mum didn't go to her parents house for five years, because both my brother and I had our tutions even during vacations, so she knew that if she goes away, our studies would get hampered. She has sacrificed so much for us, and I don't think any of us would ever be able to repay her for what she has done for us and continues to. Actually it would be a shame to even try to repay her. Thank you so much Shwetabh bhai for making this video and putting the points in such a powerful way. I can only wonder how clear your thought process must be to be able to keep your arguments in such a calm way. All I wanna do is put her head through the wall.

[@ShwetabhSenpai]

bc hotel ya ghar

[@Studyingwillchangeyourlife]

Hai toh ghar hi but kaam toh unlimited hi hai Kitchen ka kaam kabhi khatam nahi hota.... it's never ending. I'm sure it's not with all households, and I hope slowly things would, though I don't see it happening anytime soon

[@anchitmahajan1901]

Difference in male and female thinking, Male knows it's an unfair world, females have to learn it the hard way and then start the feminism warcry.

[@PartiallyAnonymous456]

Absolutely true

[@itz__pankaj17]

sir u r great aapne to faad kr rkh diya ye video hr kishi tk pohchni chahiye aur housewife ki value pata chale as a guy meri bhi aakhe khul gyi hai 🙂 Thanks u so much ❤

[@VinodKumar-nu1sf]

Hi shwetabh,how are you? Household work is damn hard work to do,yet I feel you are misunderstanding the remark putup by this lady.Will get back on this.

[@sanchita_156]

❤❤❤❤ this video is amazing and eye opening

[@futuregoals6718]

Except few things I somewhat agree to her though..don't waste your talent ..what if the husband loses his job or dies or Mets with an accident... suddenly for the women working for the family with no skills developed over the years will be so difficult and losing your job is common these days..these women definitely regret later that they did nothing outside the household chores..I'm not saying like a radical feminist or something that I must be independent or I don't need a man..a women will always need a man but the confidence you get when your doing something on your own is something different.Their sasural wale will somehow always give her more respect of the women doing something and it's a fact just look around you...housewives surely not maids because managing house is most difficult and tiring job to do but woh to working women bhi krte hi dono sambhalti hai woh bhi bahut accha se but looking at the post it seems like they marry only to have a luxurious life on husband's money..I have tons of examples like this around my house who are not independent but regret it as they have to beg everytime to their husband even to buy a biscuit

[@purvii2371]

Exactly, I am assuming that shwetabh is only showing one side of the coin here and making the whole topic baised.

[@subhamkumar16]

Swetavh brother i hope you remember i commented in your video in 2018 too ..I started following you from MENSUTRA, IN 2015 ..thanks for saving my life

[@SMc-1235]

I've spend two years alone outside home for college and I've to do every little bit chore by myself. That experience taught me a lot about my mother's sacrifice. ❤

[@Mukesh-oq8dx]

feminist don't call housewife maid. They call-out the fact that housewives are treated as maid. And by default, in India maid are treated as sub-human, no-respect, no-dignity.

[@gaminguceyt]

The New Generation Is Worsening Themselves Due To This Thinking

[@penguine4166]

clearly people in India look down upon maid type jobs and this is where lack of respect and ignorance about real housework done by our moms is coming from

[@IshaSharma0301]

In this generation all individuals must be financially independent not because of any empowerment but just to standardize their life , every man wants to reduce the burden of father and every girl wants to stand out and take care of family....if the man earning and women wants to help him then what's wrong in that ....if for some reason any one fails for sometime the other one will hold the rope. Isme feminism kaha se aaya?? And being a house maker is no where less then any cooperative job but then society doesn't value that. A man and women both should earn... should complement...should value ....should help in home....should raise the children togather ....should keep the family happy...and ignore those those nasty comments but society,....period! I being myself would never want my family to eat food cooked by a cook.... I believe in working out and also balancing out family really well.

[@aniketpatil3322]

Aj to aasu agye yaar ye video dekh ke.. Suchme me bohot productive productive krta tha suchme mujhe aaj bohot sari chije samjh aai just because hume sub mil jata he toh hume kaddar nai rehti chijo ki..thanks for educating us shwetabh bhai.

[@CountyAsleep]

I am not gonna completely blame this woman. I remember watching a podcast of shwetabh with salil jamdar where he said something like women who presents such arguments in the shadow of feminism might be coming from a very just place. Maybe her argument have wrong points but what she is saying even unjustly so can be coming from a past experience. Obviously how she demeaned housewives wasn't right but somewhere along the lines i feel she is kinda right about the self dependent stuff. A working woman can support herself and be independent. I have seen such marriages in my family and around me where the husband casually says that his wife is nothing without him. Saying stuffs like "she will be helpless if something happens to him". The writer's jealousy and all those comments she made on housewives completely defeated her purpose of writing this post.

[@PrakritiSenpai]

You are correct If u getting opportunity yet choosing to become financially depended Then you will regret (no matter what) I'm not disrespecting housework but becoming self dependent is must in nowadays generation

[@PartiallyAnonymous456]

​@@PrakritiSenpai stop projecting. Please cite the statistics of "regret" please

[@ifinditinteresting.8709]

It's not just the feminists who call housewives maid, the men in the house call their wives that exact thing when in an argument, lmaao.

[@icecreams214]

Success needs time too . I can understand her emotion. Some girls get luxurious life by giving good Dahej to potential husbands, its the bitter truth. Most probably they are all arranged marriage, arranged by families, they didn't even for their relationship.

[@nicksworld6290]

Wow thanks for acknowledging the value of housework.

[@sanjanasuresh5565]

Hello Swetabh sir, Thanks for making this video. House work is a voluntary full time job and a housewife should be respected. Even a maid should be respected. Being a boss bi*t*h is BS. Because in corporate job, we should be compliant with boss. From my limited experience, I believe that - 1. A woman should be employable. Because, a woman could be in an abusive marriage and being financially dependent on a man can be very restrictive to leave that marriage 2. Even if it's a happy marriage, the couple should be prepared for the worst - if the husband falls sick/dies, the woman should be able to support the household financially. 3. Similarly, a man should also be able to manage house work if the wife/mother falls sick. So, it's beneficial if a man knows cooking/cleaning. In short, earning income and house work is gender neutral. 4. Dual income can make retirements/savings more relaxed. 5. Even if a family is stable and the wife is not working (which is ok), doing some voluntary/social work outside can give a person a lot of exposure.

[@purvii2371]

He would never reply you bruh and he would never reply to those people who write sensible comments. I literally used to love his videos and use to enjoy it and used to think that he is unbiased but now I am assuming that he is biased or might be becoming biased. I learned a lot from his videos but after watching this video and few of his replies in comment section, I'm guessing that he's biased and only showing one side of the coin. Just because he is older than us and read many books or more mature than us doesn't mean that he's right in every aspect of life (writing this because he also judge people who are in their 20s and call them immature)

[@classnclassics7252]

No matter how much your wife would earn - you would still want her to do the house work !!

[@theunstoppabllle]

Baat ye hai ki agr ladki study me achhi nhi hai ya apna career nhi bna payi, to usko koi na koi bnda ya simp esa mil hi jayega jo uski khwaisho ko poora krde pr iska ulta hone k bhot hi kam possibility hai. Obvious hai bndi dukhi to hogi ni, ki bina mehnat kre muje sb kuch mil rha hai. Pr personally I will definitely the respect the woman more who built herself from the scratch and working hard daily to fulfill her dreams. Though, the woman who wrote this paragraph should not demean her just bcoz the other woman is a housewife.

[@WalidtheNoematicsguy]

Same here.... my respect to girl who work their ass off for their dreams... The only mistake this girl made is showed a bit of jealousy and demeaned other girl who is housewife

[@vibhashakkarwal7957]

Thnk u so much shweatabh .......u r giving us a ryt direction to think and live.........😊.....so happy to have u as life coach.....

[@ankurpandey3845]

Seems the girl has been blindly followed acharya Prashant without using his brain

[@Rahull43]

Following *

[@Rahull43]

Her*

[@user-fy2fx8fx4t]

First learn to spell following then comment on this girl and Acharya Prashant.

[@PartiallyAnonymous456]

​@@user-fy2fx8fx4t lmao grammer Nazi got triggered because someone made a comment on his favourite alcoholic

[@ASTHA__AG]

Great job bro❤eye opening video

[@rashminegi8328]

What if your husband dies or something .phir karte rhna ghar saf

[@b-6870]

That girl still makes a lot of sense. Even if some points of her sounded mean like comparing housewives with maids and stuff. But still, she makes a hell lot of sense.

[@humanityfirst5228]

EXACTLY

[@sg042]

mujhe ladki ki baat mai kuch point lagta hai. I agree ki apne maa and grandma ne housewife rahke bahut mehnat ki hai before marriage and after marriage. But aajkal there are many girls which I know jo kuch padai bhi nahi karti because they understand ki badiya ladka mil hi jayega(as most of them are beautiful) and ghar ka kaam bhi nahi karti because unki mummy khud housewife hai. I met them through various arrange marriage meetings, mujhe to yahi laga ki ambition nahi hone ki wajah se unhe finance, politics, science kisi ka bhi itna knowledge and interest dono nahi rahta aur mostly time gossip karne mai hi jyada time spend karte hai. Not generalizing but mostly mujhe to yahi laga, Jab koi ladki job karti hai padai mai mehnat karti hai, to usse bahut kuch sikhna padta hai. There is good reason ki why these type of girls are more confident generally then former.

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

if you remove all context, biological reality, human psychology, and nuance, yes, her arguments in a total binary oversimplifying way make sense. However, the dangerous thing about stupidity is it appeals to the largest audience because it is so incredibly simple and stupid and syllogistically easy. This is why morons will almost always win.

[@GeraltofTrivia111]

Like what

[@Vagabunda-z9m]

@@ShwetabhGangwar1lmao bhai chill 😂 aag lga di hai aaj

[@shwetapawar8839]

So proud of you... Thanx❤

[@animetldr4044]

L take shwetabh bhai, i don't interpret the post like bashing house makers, but as bashing trophy wives who could not accomplish anything in their lives and are now enjoying / going on foreign trips on their husbands money / ancestral wealth , while "working" as a house wife is absolutely exhausting, we can see many many girls who "surrender" to be a house wife (with multiple house helps) , because they have the luxury to do that, as a man , i don't have that luxury, i can't just say f it and relax ..... women want men to share the house load but (realistically) how many women want to share the risk os providing for the family unconditionally and without fail ,how many women actually want a equal partner (not some one with more wealth than them)

[@the1stmetalhead]

Bhai we have to make the best out of a situation with the cards we're dealt with. Aurto ke paas choice hoti hai. Due to biological, social and cultural reasons to either have freedom and become a slave at work. Or lose freedom and become a housewife. Men don't. It is what it is.

[@b-6870]

That's what that girl was saying But people focussed only on a small part where she sounded wrong. Her whole point was that many girls live the best of lives on their husbands' money while many hardworking women don't.

[@the1stmetalhead]

@@b-6870 so? The world is unfair. Complaining doesn't get you anywhere. That guy must have sacrificed so much to be able to earn that much money to support a luxury life for two people. Can't the girls who choose a life other than housewives do the same? Or do they want it served to them on a platter. It's a simple thing. Your actions have consequences. If you choose to get married at a very young age. And live a life of luxury with servants to take care of your children and housework. And relieve you of any real work. That might sound good on paper. But in reality you're also giving up your freedom to a certain extent. And have to entertain your husbands request and he'll be the one who's usually going to be making the decisions. As compared to a woman who slaves away at work all day long and comes home tired. But she doesn't have to get ready for someone. She has actual freedom in her life. To do however and whatever she pleases. Whether it's eat a full ice cream tub till 4AM in the night. Both lifestyles come with their own pros and cons. And it's up to the individual to make the choice for themselves what matters more to them.

[@keshavraj6186]

​@@the1stmetalheadgood explanation

[@animetldr4044]

@@the1stmetalhead > But in reality you're also giving up your freedom to a certain extent. And have to entertain your husbands request and he'll be the one who's usually going to be making the decisions. Then how the f are you a woke feminist and not a cog in the wheel, who happened to win a lottery, how have you earned that right/ trip ?, also how are you both equal in the relationship (who is the feminist here ?) > As compared to a woman who slaves away at work all day long and comes home tired. But she doesn't have to get ready for someone. She has actual freedom in her life. To do however and whatever she pleases. Whether it's eat a full ice cream tub till 4AM in the night. and this woman actually has the rights to say no, and not be on the street the next day !! (A Feminist !!) ^^ this is the whole point , it is a feminist choice to be a home maker, not a trophy wife !!, that is what i, the lady in the article and @b-6870 said and shwetabh did not acknowledge here

[@x00tox01]

One of the best i have ever seen in the context of Family/House mgnt. Thanks Sir for such great video

[@The_WarriorsWay]

I disagree, apart from degrading housework she is right, in India we had gaslighted mothers to next level to do housework , she is totally dependent on us , yes we do love her but just imagine a situation when your father cheated on her, is she able to resist hard, there are several instances in rural parts where womens suffer domestic voilence and kept quiet bcz she has never able to develop his own independent identity separate from his husband and family, money plays important role in anybody independent existent, doing housework is everybody responsibility but thinking that you don't have to earn anything and other person will provide everything without taking anything in return is nonsense. This is the root reason for male dominated

[@d-e-v-esh]

Agree

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

let me tell argumentatively what you did: a) called ALL HUMAN WOMEN POPULATION that register as mothers = morons (epic start for forming your arguments) b) took the worst case and most extreme examples, pieced them together, thereby selectively 'creating' the worst conditions to suit your argument c) if your argument was any where even close to the majority reality, humanity would have been suffering on a level that almost every child born would have had ptsd or c-ptsd d) this video had nothing to do with: should women be educated (yes they should 100%), should women have choices to do what they want with their lives? (yes because they are humans), should women have all human choices in a nutshell (YESS) but you made it so because the cues (women, housework, feminism) in the video triggered all your biases which as topics are not even talked about, challenged, or questioned. e) lastly, human, your arguments are brutally simple. There are MULTIPLE factors behind the things you have mentioned, a lot of which will take time to solve. f) we live in a country where the laws dominantly favor women to ensure their safety against violence or abuse g) are there problems? 100% but this video is talking about specific topic. Several other videos of mine address those problems too.

[@design-breakdown]

Outstanding video... It's enhanced my thoughts process

[@satirthapattnaik5006]

Every glittering is not a gold. Just because they seem to be happy currently, we cannot assume the relationship is all okay. I am going to expose the dark sides of such fairytales with an autopsy to get to the root of such relationships. It is simply based on the exchange of sex and money. The longevity of those things that usually make us happy can't be guaranteed. The spark in such relationships will be vanished once the sexual attraction fades away. I have some simple questions for those relationships glorifiers including Shwetabh- 1) After getting failed in her carrier, what's the easiest way to get money for a luxurious life for a girl? 2) How will you perceive the relationship where the girl gets married to a man for money? What kind of positivity will a girl bring to the environment where she herself married for money? That fake toxic positivity? 3) Just check the TV serials that are broadcast in the afternoon. At what level do they pollute our mind and how dumbly are they scripted. How can a human being with a 60+ IQ watch such serials? Aren't House wives the targeted audiences for these kinds of low IQ serials? 4) You said that life's value can't be measured in a capitalistic manner to which I agree. But ask those failed house wives whether they had asked their fiance's salary before marriage or not? 5) If a girl doesn't earn her own livelihood then she will definitely expect from her husband. You are talking about the values of life but fail to acknowledge that love doesn't have any expectations!!! The same girl will show the real Colour of her love once he doesn't earn. 6) Maid is for House work and Nanny is for child care. Total cost 15/month at max. Ask Devi ji to get a job with 40k/ month. See how economically mature you are. 7) Minimum wages for maids and cooks can only be introduced to developed economies where salaries are also high. So please don't blend those economies with the Indian scenario. 8) You are trying to reverse the process!!! Just ask a successful girl to maintain a man who failed in his career? 9) You can't even forcefully ask your wife to do the house chores if she doesn't do it. But your maid has to. 10) Emotional support!!! What kind of support to take from a girl who is with you merely for your money? If you are yet to get emotional support from such a girl, you are an emotional fool. 11) Individualism is not at all capitalism. There are instances where men work their ass off to maintain their divorced wives as per the court's order in India. Doesn't it support consumerism and capitalism? 12) Materialism has eaten up Indian marriages more than the west. Don't you know what a jobless girl searches for a man when she goes for marriage and what a girl with a good career searches in a man ? 13) Definitely, that girl was jealous of her classmates. She should be pacified. But that doesn't mean we have to glorify those girls who don't do any struggle but just get married for money. Then no girl will work for a better career. 14) Have you ever seen a lady from a rich family sweeping the floors and washing utensils? If these house holds are so glorious, then why do women stop doing these with the increment in Husband's income? I admit that the girl is a little jealous. At the same time she is honest. Her jealousy should be pacified but not by glorifying those idle women who are sitting at home and completely thriving upon husbands' money. Unless more girls will be encouraged to marry without working upon their careers. The girl who wrote to Shwetabh is a true feminist. I noticed some toxic audience bashing feminism in the comment section however Feminism is a good idea but pseudo feminism isn't.

[@indiangenius8574]

Females use it as a backup plan.. career nhi bana padhai nhi karni toh kya husband toh mil hi jayega... If female is good looking beautiful and has sexy body then why does she needs to work.. she will get husband... Morever ye jo complains females karte hai jaise ye text hai ye vhi karte hai jo ugly hote hai.. because they can't use their beauty so they have to work hard and establish their career.. so basically they are jealous

[@satirthapattnaik5006]

​@@Dstoicpehle ye FUCK IT wala language apni jeb me daalo. Aur insaan imperfect hai bol k saare action ko justify nei kr skte. Baki mere kuchh sawal hai upar, agar jawab hai to thik hai nei to jaldi waha hato 📢📢📢

[@slayyingit3371]

Yes true agar itna maza aata hai to ghar ka kaam karne me to sbni karte

[@nalday2534]

chalo koi toh hain jo shwetab ka choos nhi rha

[@nalday2534]

@@user-xw1hf everything you said sounds horrifying

[@AayushLath]

Near the end mai pata nahi kyu mai thoda emotional ho gaya, ye baat realise hui ki abhi mujhe bohot kuch seekhna hai. Thank you so much Shwetabh bhaiya🙏🏼