Should you STAY SINGLE or FIND A LIFE PARTNER?

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

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[@softsignals5787]

Hey man ,how can I get your book in California?

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

@@softsignals5787 through amazon.

[@diwakarisonyoutube]

@@softsignals5787 buy it in audible. I find audiobooks better.

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

also, a second edition is coming of the book, which is much fatter, more descriptive and full of illustrations and stuff. And a NEW cover.

[@Orange-tc7ro]

@@ShwetabhGangwar1 i cant wait

[@rs5004]

Being a 30 yr old guy.....i can tell what its feels like.... sometimes you feel lonely when you see your friends in a relationship or getting married.... but when i see this the other way around the occurrence of the feeling of loneliness itself shows how much spare time i have or zero responsibilities and can use that time to enjoy or grow more in life.... Everything has its own pros and cons i guess

[@optimisticgirl5420]

Exactly 💯👍

[@footballmania5185]

Ekdm bhai👍

[@beastmotoz]

So you say that you have zero responsibility. Does that means you fear the responsibility? A true man doesn't fear any responsibility he faces them head on and wins it. Don't run away from it.

[@beastmotoz]

@Capt Ranvijay Rana I guess that depends how person thinks. But once you are in a committed relationship you develop those qualities. If someone doesn't wants it then its cool. No worries:^)

[@rs5004]

@@beastmotoz A true man is someone who never runs away from his responsibilities , not by the number of responsibilities he has undertaken.

[@wp7342]

Its' better to be alone than with bad company. - Lord Buddha

[@VIKASSHARMA-sy9nz]

Yes.but you have to keep finding the right person👍🏻

[@Amit-jz6me]

Nicee

[@saqlainnn465]

itna context ke bhar kya kheech rahe ho bhai🙄

[@inkeduchiha851]

You don't know the pain of forever loneliness ... When one is alone for a very very long time but he/she longs for some company , he/she is ready to be with an evil person .....the person just don't want to be alone..... I know it's toxic to be with bad company , but your this buddha quote is good for ears ( no disrespect to Lord Buddha ) , but fails when comes to people who are very lonely....they just want someone to be with them....no matter what Peace :)

[@wp7342]

@@inkeduchiha851 when u are trying to find happiness and support from someone to get rid of your loneliness then you are not happy in your own company. Simple. You are dependent on others for your happiness which ks very dangerous

[@rajkittur1998]

"Everything is temporary" in life always keep this thing in mind and act based on this.

[@emmqat5739]

yes but today affect tommarow ..

[@sage8521]

Me a 17 year old introvert that says I will never marry in my life watching this video. Hmmm interesting

[@kartikaymusic.]

True af ...I tell everyone that I'll never get married .. After watching this video - Bhaiiii😶

[@jhashivam28]

Me being a 21 year old also thinks , hmmm interesting

[@mih_chayan8900]

Me being a 15 year old Thinks the same. I'm Gonna Remain single for the rest of my life.

[@raxitkaria]

13 year old introvert thinking the same 😊

[@mih_chayan8900]

@Tunir - About KZbin right My family and my friends are more important in my life than these so called "girlfriend".

[@RadiantFractal]

Being alone is not being lonely. And most married people still feel lonely living in the same house with their spouses. A bad marriage (which most marriages are) is exponentially torturous than being lonely.

[@kabir294]

Correct!

[@Vergil1233x]

Right❤

[@GurjantSingh-lg1ju]

Im also scared of marriage.

[@HamdanHafeez-sm4wq]

We do,😊s,d in b,,,😊f

[@mohithart3824]

I think its worse for men, you have more sexual desire when you're living with a woman and if it's not going well she will not entertain you.

[@Snippetswithclare]

After reading these comments I realized that so many single people are there in this world. Basically, this inspired me more to stay single. 🤣😅😂...

[@ayushmishra3758]

I could un inspire you

[@jeppy4021]

I dont want to stay single, yet Im scared that my life would be ruined because of a wrong person.....life is such a gamble

[@FestivaLagoon]

True bro. It feels like a gamble.

[@smitparmar2136]

Ha bhai specially in arrange . Muje nahi pata me kya karuga es problem ka muje single rehna nahi he arrange karni nahi Love karne ke layak koi milti nahi😂😂😂😂😂

[@LilMatrixBeats]

Same here.

[@vipulsemwal124]

Gamble mai he toh Maja hai bhai no doubt in the end kuch matter nahi Karta ..but gamble bhe wisely khelna padega..

[@kumarabhishek5652]

Hahahaha.... Life is no gamble until and unless u tries to make it one. Do not attach your conscious to any external thing and u will feel nothing about it, partnership should be based on mutual relationship.

[@pvr10]

You can have 5 friends still you can feel lonely

[@ashya1]

Yes bro it happens with me ive many friends but still i feel lonely

[@pragyankhare1223]

Bro u feel loneliness because u think like that🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ Once u accept that reality in fake world is just u and u have only u 🤷‍♂️ then u will never 🤔 may be

[@aniketjaiswal3147]

Maybe 50 friends also

[@nomusic3223]

Brother I have that do what you like because if you are seeing things someone others point of than you trying fake yourself because if something bad happened than you see things by other point of view and you cant become someone completely other than yourself so it will make thing more pity for you so Just try be yourself because if you can't get a girlfriend because stupid but you not being fake with yourself and you dont have to wear a mask when every time you her so just try to do your thing even if it is stupid do it

[@iamqafka]

Depends on how you look at life

[@harshreview2882]

Single + No tension= You are KING 👑💖

[@rwikhabasumatary8538]

and commitment to goals.

[@ashuvijay7031]

Lekin budapa akelapan or sex ka kya socha h

[@Aditya__17037]

Introvert allergies: :Social obligation :Phone call after 6pm😂 :Group of more than 3 people :Talkative hairdresser :Hosts that force u to stay

[@sudeshnadas4995]

Talkative colleagues

[@amitkar292]

Phone call wala sahi th yr.. 😅

[@ayushsrivastava1672]

I didn't get the phone call part

[@shivam673]

Ugh 😒 talkative barber 💈💇‍♂️ is so relatable.

[@Rajxixix0108]

Those Colleagues who do bina sir pair ki baat

[@aman-ru5hw]

Was waiting for this video always

[@manasshukla20]

*unknowingly ❤️

[@GARY7575]

Me too

[@manishkamath4911]

[phone]

[@mahanidhibanakar3019]

When u look at disadvantages of getting married, you'll definitely come to know why it is not essential. It's just a few days of happiness. It doesen't make u satisfied in ur life. Stay single be happy 🙌🙌🙌🤘🤘🤘.

[@deepphilip6971]

are u married?

[@Haseeb10008]

@@deepphilip6971 of course

[@prajju8114]

true

[@mahanidhibanakar3019]

@@deepphilip6971 no

[@spellcheck5393]

True -_- plus you need to get pregnant and pop out kids wtf no

[@Rohit-tt5xe]

I am 32 and still dont want to get married. I want to live for myself

[@bibekthakulla.]

I'm 22

[@charlottefx7163]

24

[@MultiHardrock12]

Selfish😂

[@shubhammishra6128]

Single reh ke agr kuchh Ukhaad sakte ho, to behtr h single rhe, But Single rhte huye kisi couple ko dekh k Regret/Greed na ho tabhi

[@Sachin-pt1op]

Point hai !!

[@simamishra5442]

Power division hota h

[@shubhammishra6128]

@@simamishra5442 could u elaborate

[@thedarksterbhupi540]

Wo apni life me khush he or hum apni kis baat ki regret / greed 🙂

[@shubhammishra6128]

@@thedarksterbhupi540 you didn't get my point;I said that if someone decided to stay single but still crave for couple or feel facinating whenever he/see look , in that context

[@saurabh60292]

I am 30, divorced, making enough to live with modern resources, but I can say that there is no formula whatsoever to stay happily single. Grab a pen and a paper, tick the boxes which makes you run your days being single and happy. Do that for a while to see the pattern. Observe and then visualise yourself in next 10, 20 , 30 years. If your visualisation is consistent for being happily single , just go for it. But never make decisions just because you're feeling it strongly at some stage of your life. Pretty much you'll end up regretting.

[@espestudypal7190]

this is good, I also believe if you are happy single there is no need of getting married than having failed marriage

[@ROHITKUMARRAY-ni8zi]

Yes marriage n relationship is not necessary in life

[@mohithart3824]

Yeah no one to come back to and no one to go out with or share meals, you'll try again bro?

[@hiding4ever298]

This is the best relationship advice i've ever received. 🙏 Lonliness is my biggest fear. I wish i will meet that person.

[@Tushar_Sawant]

Perfectly explained. As an introvert this gives whole different perspective towards looking at marriage and loneliness.

[@shreyakhaire883]

I have never seen such a real personality on KZbin. Oh shwetabh you are the best man. You deserves 10 mil subs bro. Raw and Real❤️

[@aamadm618]

Baapre tum itni khobsurat kese ho bhi

[@sriharshakanduri3449]

@@aamadm618 arey bhai😂😂...voh South film industry ki heroine hai jo profile pic mein hai 😂😂

[@aamadm618]

@@sriharshakanduri3449 bhi janta hoo ase he firki le raha tha isiliye toh shreya ko bhi bola ..hint samajna tha na yaar 😅😅😅

[@alfaraz6679]

@@sriharshakanduri3449 😂😂😂😂😂

[@thegameking3931]

@@sriharshakanduri3449 hawas mein logo ko pata nahi hota

[@iamfire869]

Life is a gamble , when you get married , you will get tired of responsibilities , for girls especially cooking and jobs, kids , family and property , money , finances, job , fights and much more like adjusting time etc and if you stay single , you may think you are missing out something like good when you see couples and when family will always tell you and pressurize you to get married .

[@espestudypal7190]

so true. in my case, my marriage got fixed but now I am seeing the red flags the family is involved and I am in the middle of nowhere now

[@KRN000]

@@espestudypal7190 bhai, ek saal ho gaya hai. kya ab shadi ho gayi hai aur ab happy ho ya sad? i am Karna a 22 years old boy, General COTOGORY. bro, mere chacha ne shadi nahi ki hai, aur mari family me Dada, Papa, Chacha aur chota bhai hai, kya mujhe shadi karni chahiye agar meri puri family ki net worth 25 Lakh se kam hai aur income 60K se kam hai?

[@shrujaigupta1803]

The Important Point To Be Taken From Video:- " Sirf chehre ke peeche bhagoge, looks, sex in sabke peeche bhagoge, toh Initallly shayad acha lage, par baad me sirf emotional support hi kaam aata hai"

[@shaikharfat1923]

Baat ekdum sahi h par thodi mushkil bhi h

[@namitmandhyan]

Perfect epitome of the video.

[@ayushsrivastava1672]

Perfectly put

[@realnoobgaming6273]

But start hamesha looks se hota hai its a fact. After your nature is needed to run relationship long.

[@NagpuriStoryVideos]

Isiliye don't go for looks , go for compatibility , will be worth it.

[@sbofficial7]

18 years old boy from West Bengal India, decided to stay unmarried forever…… I didn’t watch this full video my bad. I have confidence I can do that. I’m not happy in my life but I don’t need to get married

[@andyhandy7841]

im 58 now.. i decided to be single life long.. i took the decision at 18..and im still a virgin

[@akrobetoray5694]

So ever felt lonely as he said?

[@thenameisfaiz]

It's really a achievement...I too want to stay bachelor forever

[@sidb2725]

🤣 no way you're 58 piss off

[@VP-qg4uy]

How does it feel sir? Do u feel lonely? 😅

[@aadiliqbalkhan8216]

lmao asexual 😂

[@tarunchhabra3074]

Feeling Mature With 117 others 😎

[@christiandare2697]

I decided not to get married in 2004. I am 40 years now. Still I am very happy

[@deepika4466]

Serussly?

[@umashankardas2295]

"MGTOW" is a real gift today. And saves men's lives too.

[@leo-jr3mu]

True

[@thomasshelby7482]

True🤗🤗

[@rupamsarma3248]

@@thomasshelby7482 what's that??

[@mohitsrivastava5442]

True

[@jamesmathew9501]

Yes. Staying single means less family issues and expenses.

[@SurajMapariPrivate]

Make a video on how to stop Obsession after getting rejection from a girl.🙏 Also tony robins said Rejection breeds obsession and that happened to many people

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

coming already

[@ansh0709]

Hii

[@SurajMapariPrivate]

@@ansh0709 after live we will talk

[@ansh0709]

@@SurajMapariPrivate ok bro

[@YashTanwarr]

After rejection, the simplest advice is to get zoned into something(getting zoned into your work is the best). But it won't work for you because at starting you won't care about it but after some days you gonna encounter with sudden bouts of anger when you miss that person. Then sometimes you'd think of going back to that person and sometimes you will feel worse for going back or think that you didn't need it. Later you'd come to a stage when gloom surrounds you and now as you have been through all these pains. And this was the best part of all, you're stronger now, more of a learned person about life and people. You are healed by time and you'd come up as a full fledged person to beat this world. Remember, HEERA BANTA HAI DARD HO NICHOD KE. Been there

[@caddythanks6712]

being single is the best only for a short period of time . if you're wanting to get into relationship , then mutual understanding is neccesary and socializing comes before that .

[@AshTheDuke]

Yes mutual understanding, respect compromise

[@raahul336]

thanks daddu

[@Amit-jz6me]

Don't foget the monetary element after marriage or in a relationship.

[@orion615]

humans normally 60-70 years jite hai abhi inte saal koi akela kese reh sakta hai

[@namanchawla6188]

@@orion615 Salman Khan sa pucho

[@prashantmule8868]

life is a gamble if u get married u will fed up with lot of responsiblity... if u stay single u will get free life but everyday u gonna think about companianship n feels alone and sometimes happy as wel

[@And_I_am_ironman]

Bhailog apna samajh kar decision lena kyunki agar shadi kar ke pachhtawa hua ya koi dikkat hui to ye Shwetabh help karne nahi aayega. Isliye soch samajh kar karna Shaadi karne aur na karne ke aapne pros and cons hain. Khud decide karo ki kis pros ke liye tum kis cons ko jhelne ko taiyaar ho. 👍👍

[@YashTanwarr]

Ranveer in his latest video : Top 10 horror movies jo aapko sone nahi dengi Shwetabh Gangwar viewer : Ye toh entertainment ke liye Bachpan me dekhta tha

[@raj17247]

Bro this is so true. I was that who used to mock my committed friends for their stupidity and proclaim that I will never fall in love and act so stupidly. But, now I am deeply in love and I have acted so stupidly that I am ashamed of myself. Don't mock people who do stupid things in love cause one day you will act like them. And don't think you will not fall in love cause you will.

[@adityakanu1415]

So relaxed after watching coz ... I may be still 18 just in class 12 but I too once feared getting married or even relationship because of the examples I saw in life...my parents , relatives, neighbours, none seemed to me a successful relationship. Each of them were a blunder. But I too deduce some reasons by analysing why their relationship was screwed and it matches all of your theory... And I learned some more facts that were unknown to me till now. Arigato Gozaimasu Bhaiya looking forward to analyse and learn more concepts from you.

[@shessayingg]

I'm a girl who want to stay single lifetime and wanna enjoy my own company..🤗 And chasing my dream ❤️... And I fantastically vibe myself.✌️

[@trueword4971]

Good appreciate your decision.

[@Rakesh-vq9zm]

Nice 👍🏼

[@RomyaRana]

How old are you?

[@dmeditz8100]

@@RomyaRana she definately young from the way she write her comments.

[@aadiliqbalkhan8216]

@@dmeditz8100 young nd ugly

[@SavyMind_Studio]

Single life is better life , I accept living alone but I never get marriage in my future ,

[@GoodVibes-yj4sb]

​@@valor_i4156 modern wives jese bhut bda seva kregi

[@ashuvijay7031]

So what u do to spend yr day ? Old age or sex ka kya socha h ?

[@girishsaxena1]

It's High time we need to break this steriotype of "Marriage is mandatory " in our indian society ...it's time to remain single and enjoy life

[@MedfactsbyVanessa]

I totally agree with you. Why don't more people take this concept of not marrying forward?!

[@niteshsaxena1066]

Aap mat krna shadi fir Bakio ko to krne do

[@And_I_am_ironman]

@@niteshsaxena1066 Aap kar lena shaadi fir Inko to mat karne do

[@kai-sk6de]

Ok let's start an anti marriage community now

[@kai-sk6de]

@@niteshsaxena1066 kisne roka bhai tuze kar le na

[@aradhyagaur9691]

Bhai ye banda legend hai, yehi ek aisa banda lagta hai mujhe jo asli me mature hai...

[@sarthakkmishraa]

Everything is a transaction in this physical world. Everything comes at a cost and has its own advantages and limitations. It's up to us to decide how much are we willing to pay and for what? If you want to be single, it has a cost. If you want to live a married life, it has a cost. Neither of the two is perfect. Both have some advantages and some limitations. It's our choice and our responsibility to decide what works for us the best. There are people who are happy and content in their married life and there are people who are happy and content being single as well. It all depends from person to person. It's all about choices. That's it. As far as loneliness is concerned, it is relative. One can feel lonely in a crowd and one be joyful being alone too and vice versa. Though we can't control others, the best we can do is to try to find a way to be joyful within ourselves at least. If we can simply do this, then the chance of being the source of joy to others very much becomes a possibility.

[@maqsabre]

if you engage with someone to cure your loneliness, you may still find that loneliness has not left you.

[@dragoncat5767]

But sometimes that someone cure loneliness

[@karthikchand]

I am 21 years old and I will remain single and unmarried in my life, I decided this when I was studying in 6th class, all Indians are my brother's and sisters. Being single is in my blood, I love to live alone and I'm proud that from childhood till now I don't have any friends, I'm always single and I will happily die as single😊

[@karthikchand]

@CocLegend317 So what?

[@charlottefx7163]

same here😀

[@karthikchand]

@CocLegend317 I am still single and I will stay single forever, I am following Bhramhacharya from childhood. Being Single is a great experience for me. Let others get married I don't care.

[@SandeepTudu-p2t]

​@@karthikchandIsko sound system de do bhai ye batane ke liye puri duniya ko

[@ravidhanshetti9999]

Being single is always better than being in an Unfaithful Relationship.........

[@jugantasaha1000]

Pehle relationship to hone do gareeb o ko.

[@thejodprogrammer6166]

The most difficult part I suffer is lack of social group or someone who we can talk to after a tiring day ! And share our emotional feelings with them . I think the phase of 20-25/26 is the time we suffer from lonliness ! I want help or advice what should I do I work hard during the day but I find there is actually no one to describe how the day went ! Thanks

[@possessorofgreatness7620]

Find a hobby or something where you can find ' your ' people. After 25 only possibilities you have is either work place or a hobby space like acting theater, yoga or any weird thing you like.

[@sarang446]

Do journaling

[@onlinevideos7442]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/pWnPk4V6frZrr7s 😍😍

[@thejodprogrammer6166]

@Anurag kabtak rahoge workholic , a time will come you will definitely regret not being able to develope social kills , don't have someone to talk to and moreover experience , you will need a female for sure . 100 percent ! You learn 50 percent from opposite gender !

[@thejodprogrammer6166]

@Anurag don't say that bro ! It's not going to help you , start taking initiatives , indulge in small talks and grow slowly people will accept you. I also think the same , you are not alone . Believe me life can be beautiful with right kind of people around You ❤️

[@mamta6029]

I prefer to live alone in my whole life without any relationship because according to me relationships are useless

[@debanikgoswami4834]

I decided will stay single unless I find someone of my type. I will not get into a relationship just because I am feeling lonely.

[@NeelamSharma23500]

Exactly... Same decision 😊​@@debanikgoswami4834

[@siliconvalleyceo1059]

Feeling like a third person from this camera angle. How many people agree? Btw it's not bad at all.

[@harshsameer9440]

it’s really great..😄

[@blackdiamond5090]

Nice observation :-)

[@rockbob7587]

It is form a live podcast

[@lolxdmekaisemaanlu]

It was TOO DEEP for me. I am just 17, I think I will understand these concepts when I will be 25 or something.

[@chiragjoshi1719]

You don't need to set an age to understand things bro, experiences and the will to learn from others matter.

[@shivakshsharma3536]

You can very well try to understand these stuff at your age, but the real-life experience part will come at a very later stage.

[@cr7isbest447]

Its not like that bro , age is just a number. I am 19 but I completely understand shwetabh bhais point. When I was 16 I had a girlfriend and it was a very serious relationship. She had everything I could've ever imagined in a person. I was very happy and so she was but I used to be very immature back then. I was a kid and I used to fight with her on silly things and I was fuckin overly possessive. It's bad to say but I kinda made her my slave. She was still holding on to it inspite of all the bad stuff I did to her because she loved me and she was more mature than me. The relationship lasted two years and it was me who broke up with her. And you know why ? Just because I was influenced by instagram and I wanted a "sexier" girlfriend. My mind got pretty fucked up due to all that and I ignored the fact that personality should be the first priority. Fast forward to now I am a much more mature person and I am not influenced by the social media shit anymore. I still regret that I made her suffer even when she never did anything wrong but it's too late now and I've kinda moved on. Experience teaches you alot !

[@kartikjain336]

@@cr7isbest447 bohtt sahi bola bro. Experience teaches you. I'm 18 and I can relate. I never had a relationship but I also feel that I never felt like getting into it. Just staying in the present and going with the flow..... Jab jaisa zaroorat lage vaise mud jayenge

[@lolxdmekaisemaanlu]

@@cr7isbest447 Thanks for giving advice.

[@prasadp37]

Marriage counselling is a very much required thing in India. You have all the capabilities to make a person know what he/she is looking for in life partner, though it's easily done by self evaluation, but hard for most of us.

[@trueword4971]

Ye sab bakwas hain naa shaadi karo . Naa hi inn sab main fasso

[@aadiliqbalkhan8216]

@@trueword4971 single life is best life

[@Tannudada]

fantastic bhai

[@manishtak1847]

Are tannu Dada aap yaha bhi🙈🙌

[@softsignals5787]

Tannu dada ji wisdom aur knowledge me fark batao na

[@om7720]

@@softsignals5787 wisdom envolves broad aspects unlike knowledge (knowledge can be gained, wisdom is earned)

[@the100radsstalker93]

😂😂The legendary Tannu Dada is here..

[@harshitsahu3822]

By the way you have good mimicry and acting talent 😂

[@amitmehta2701]

मैं जिंदगी का साथ निभाता चला गया हर फिक्र को धुएं में उड़ाता चला गया, जो मिल गया उसी को मुकद्दर समझ लिया जो खो गया मैं उसको भुलाता चला गया मैं जिंदगी का साथ निभाता चला गया। Never say Never ❤️

[@hemanshupansanyia5784]

I am 38 and I honestly tell you that being single is the most pleasure. Getting married is like inviting the problem which actually doesn't exist and then pretending to resolve it together... 😂😂😂

[@rajureddy1333]

I am 21. I discovered that I want to pursue my passion which is music. I want to dedicate my whole life to it. Due to this, I dont want to get married. I know I am talking about this too early. But I am really serious about my decision. But my parents want me to. What should I do? I know at old age it may create problem, but I really don't want any relationship. For me music is everything and it will be forever. This is the reason for me to stay single. I am not of the type who want to look cool by staying single. P.S : I watched the whole video. I now realised that If I am able to find that right person ( huge task)who will tune with me. I think I can make my dream come true.

[@lovelychauhan664]

Brother I promise u can be a artist too ❤️

[@dragoncat5767]

Are bhai, marriage ke baad bhi music ko passion banao

[@aadiliqbalkhan8216]

@@dragoncat5767 bina marriage ke bhi music ko passion banaya ja sakta hai, na bache na wife ki problem only music 😍

[@dragoncat5767]

@@aadiliqbalkhan8216 wife problem nahi hoti,woh tumhare sabse accha dost aur parivar hota hai joh tumhe support kare,aur baccha karna necessary nahi hai,bohot husband wife bina bacche ke bhi rah rahe hai

[@worldwideinfoblogs]

Marriage is a gamble of taking additional responsibilities in life and can be dangerous to spoil life of happy single person.

[@avinashsirwani2107]

I am no against being in a relationship but the truth is that we are living in strange times where initially people put their good face ahead but hide their true self and then when time brings the true side partners are not ready which ruins everything. People are not truthful which ruins relationships. I feel that a purpose defines us which can keep us going life time, example APJ Abdul Kalam. It can also be marriage as it gives an individual A purpose to live. Golden Advice:- Find your purpose on a consistent basis.

[@RohitKumar-pi7hu]

Maybe 60 year shwetabh would say something else . If you like someone just live with them until you are happy. My parents actually sucked their married life .they barely talk half an hour in a day .my dad don’t even stays 2 days at home . I saw many couples, who barely living their life happily unless its an occasion.marriage affects their dreams, their likes, their needs and many. And if you have kids then that is next level… you couldn’t even escape from marriage.

[@anishashaji4133]

My parents fight all the time. They cuss each other most of the time. My mom comprises most of the time.

[@zade-wq9kb]

​@@anishashaji4133same here.... This unsuccessfull married life of my parents always motivate me to stay single. 😢

[@sanjuro0010]

Same my parents marriage is also very bad they hate each other.. fuck marriages

[@theodiatraderjay]

If you are truely Pacimistic, enjoy yourself being single,dont want to make a family and don't want to be in a confused situation. I think it's a better option to be single.

[@anonymous..-_-..]

Are you an Odia?

[@theodiatraderjay]

​@@anonymous..-_-..yes

[@ashuvijay7031]

What about old age and sexual needs ?

[@ishitapaul9397]

My father inspired my mother to do LLM first and then PhD...My mother inspired my father to become an officer from a clerk. Aren't they couple goals? 😍😍

[@dhammdeepbhagatdd]

👌👌

[@sagniksaha46]

Lol

[@dishwas_her1160]

nahhh, they messed up

[@sharmisthabiswas7468]

Yessss yes they are❤👌

[@sharmisthabiswas7468]

God bless you all

[@devbhardwaj946]

This guy always tells the reality of society 😂🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@harryg5566]

Girl in thumbnail her name is angelina danilova from russia...thanks me letter

[@SurajMapariPrivate]

Thank you 💓😊

[@Msmithjonesraven]

bruh

[@MannanGoel]

Sorry but bahot khujli ho rahi hai - S.I.M.P. bano launde

[@harryg5566]

@Abhimanyu helping is my passion...

[@shab-re5334]

aaaaaand subscribed!

[@rutujaajadhav]

Shwetabh bhai please front profile rakho, it gives the feeling where you are talking just to me. Side profile mein lag raha hai ki tum kisi aur se baat kar rahe ho, i feel like i can't reach you this way, compared to front profile.

[@yatirajphene597]

@SAYAN 183 Immatured people like you are not a part of this group.If anyone should get lost it's you.

[@peterpace3379]

@SAYAN 183 He addresses women as well if you actually bother watching his videos. No need to be a douchebag here, or anywhere.

[@pritam9873]

@SAYAN 183 wtf? Who the hell are you to say her? That's really rude n disgusting.I can't believe people with the intellectual standard like you watch this channel.

[@atharva302]

Ok boomers

[@yatirajphene597]

@@atharva302 Bro do you even know the meaning of boomer.Google it of you don't know.There are so many wannabes like you nowadays using any word out of context 😂😂

[@shab-re5334]

my answer before the video premieres, don't find, you'll just get (only if you work on yourself)

[@YashTanwarr]

Exactly, kaam karte raho launde

[@squ34ky]

_"don't find, you'll just get"_ That usually doesn't work out well. I know in India, parents will marry you off to someone once you reach adulthood, but that's like gambling with your life. You need to take an active interest in finding the person that *you* would want to live with for the rest of your life.

[@possessorofgreatness7620]

@@squ34ky be good enough that they can either treat you as a human being who have his free will to choose or you could leave and live separately.

[@gauravtributes5023]

@@squ34ky Exactly, this line that 'keep working or you will find one" isn't practical advice, just like we have to find jobs when we are ready to work, we need to work hard to find a partner as well.

[@realnoobgaming6273]

This line only works if you are a good looking guy with good money. Otherwise it's a cope only☠️☠️

[@darkforest488]

I know this is an educational video but that the jokes were awesome. I genuinely put a smile on my face while sharing those viewpoints. Doing an awesome job man.

[@Hrnews2.0]

Right find that video

[@rajdeepkashyap5766]

"So Swetabh any last words for your this presentation?" "LADKI MATKA NAHI HAI" *Clapping all around*

[@vishwasmeshram9241]

The way he emphasized on loneliness, he wanted to convey that the person who's issue is being solved suffers from loneliness. No one can live without people in their life, it's just the way it is.🙏

[@michaelcorleone7297]

Sometimes loneliness is majboori

[@dubberdude1354]

So then lieve with your parents .....why need a girl

[@erenjaeger7342]

@@dubberdude1354 why do you want to stay as a financial burden to you parents? Let them live happily

[@dubberdude1354]

@@erenjaeger7342 I think u didn't get what I want to tell.. lieve with your parents .. doesn't mean you are depended on parent financially ...I mean earn money and enjoy life with your parent

[@VP-qg4uy]

@@dubberdude1354 Till when..?? At some point of time.. they wont be there.. what after that?!

[@rahulattree7383]

Me 30 Saal Ka Ho Chuka Ho Aur Me Aaj Tak Totally Single Ho Wo Bhi Apni Marzi Se Haq Se Me Bahut Jada Khush Ho Na Mujhe Koi So-called Girlfriend Chahiye Na Wife I Am Very Very Very Happy 😊😊😊 I Am Single Aazad Parinda

[@debasispradhan5457]

ये बात 😊😂😂😅

[@panjablive9144]

ghar waalo ko kaise manaya bai main shaadi nhi krna chahta lekin mujhe force kr rhe hain

[@ashuvijay7031]

Budape ka or sexual needs ka kya socha h ?

[@vighaneshshirke3317]

I am 30 years old single , i am still happy..

[@dinofeek6321]

I had my first crush at age 11. I had my first Gf when I was 14. Then Break up af 15. New gf at 16 than break up at 17. Now I am going to turn 18. So I learnt about relationships is: 1. At very small age u can't fulfill ur gf's needs. 2. U can't be responsible enough for ur girl even if u want to. 3. After Break up don't be toxic to her 4. At first I thought that having a girlfriend is an achievement but trust me guys it's normal. Tumhare Zindagi m phool nhi khilenge gf bnane k baad😂. U will just received jealousy from other boys and less time to spend in your friend circle

[@ayushsrivastava1672]

1st and 2nd points are exactly why i'm hesitant to enter in a relationship :(

[@dinofeek6321]

@@ayushsrivastava1672 hey kakarot! Just enjoy your life training and eating. That's the best thing

[@TheSkant]

Bhai mai bhi 18 ka hone ja rha hu aj tak ek bhi ladki nahi mili 😔😔

[@alfaraz6679]

@@TheSkant age dekhi h apni 18 ke hone ja rhe ho. Lol. Bhai jitne bhi log aaj successful hai na unse pucho ki kis age me gf bnai thi. Bhai ye time apne career ko bnane me use kro waise bhi ladki h koi kutta nhi jo roti dali to piche bhage. Apbe future ki taraf concentrate kro.

[@TheSkant]

@@alfaraz6679 thanks bro 🙏🏻

[@jonathanwick1539]

Very easy, I think I already know his answer... Depends, if you are successful and stable, you definitely should date and have a partner as it is an essential part of life... Secondly if you are not stable, tum us mukaam pe nhi pohucha... Then maybe you should wait a little...

[@KUSH_Joshi]

Yes bro. 🙌🙌

[@parassharma7041]

Even if I become successful I would choose to live alone and happily

[@ashutoshacharya4561]

@@parassharma7041 Hello Paras just want your opinion or advice how will you plan to live alone and be happy? Let suppose at some point of your time you have become a successful and got financial stability, Now as per your comment you want to live alone and spend a solitude life. But lets just assume if all of sudden something happens anything to you be it health related or work related then at that time who will be your support system?? With whom you will share your problem and get emotional support? Even if your life goes normal then at old age when you have no energy to work or go anywhere then at that point same question who will be there to take care of you and be your physical and emotional support? Please share your thoughts and way of handling all these future problems.

[@ashutoshacharya4561]

@Capt Ranvijay Rana Okay I will watch Acharya Prashant videos...Yes you are correct Death is the ultimate which will definitely come one day. Okay according to you, if I make a fat balance relatives will take care of me. So what is the guarantee that my relatives will take care of me during old days? They will either take away all your fat balance or properties and leave you either in old age home. Nowadays no one can be trusted not even your own blood brother or sister. Only a few %age of them are good otherwise maximum of them don't even understand or don't care, all they care about their own life and their family only.

[@thenameisfaiz]

@@ashutoshacharya4561 You have to be strong enough so that you don't need any other to comfort you...you may have your parents who will comfort you...That's not befitting reason to have someone in your life

[@shwayne9864]

Yup. Most of my friends i still have contact with are in a relationship. And there's me single. I've had problems being an introvert and antisocial. Sometimes i cry about this stupid reason too. But i guess i should not think about it i guess.

[@aryansharma718]

I am having same problem and it's affecting my life most of my friends are committed and me being an anti social Introvert can relate to this

[@shwayne9864]

@@aryansharma718 😭😭😭😭😭 bro....... Hope you do great in life. I don't know about myself but i wish u luck. I'm just 20 but still reality and depression hits hard specially lonliness

[@aryansharma718]

@@shwayne9864 I am only 22 I want to be productive towards my career but these things inhibit my growth so used to be alone

[@shwayne9864]

@@aryansharma718 worst thing. Those idiots just brag about their relationship and such😑😑😑😩😩

[@ayushthakur3826]

I am 18 year old when I am in 9th class a girl love me and I also starting love her. She is beautiful girl in my whole school. But she is belong too rich family and i am from lower middle class. So i decide too firstly set my carrier later after some month she make another bf and romance and with her in front of me.its hurting muchh so much I cry in night.. same thing happen in 10th with another girl and 11th and 12th but at the end hum bsdk kuchh life mai ukhaad bhi nhi paa rha ho laude lagee hai jindgi kai kbhi kbhi regret hota hai mastti hi kar leta gf bana kai... Kuchh samajh mai nhi aata Kya karuu please suggest me what to doo..?

[@HEATplayswtm]

If introvert can get a introvert girl I'm in

[@vasupathak07]

not only introverts but there are also many extroverts people who doesn't want to marry or get into any relationship .

[@_sachinbhalerao]

I'm an introvert!! And completely in control of my emotions, ambitions and spirituality!

[@Mobilegameplay2820]

Brothers,listen to me please don't get married if you wanna enjoy life.

[@TruecriBge]

your biased pov lol

[@odd1125]

I think it's on the situation or time... Some point in your life you feel alone and sometimes you think being alone is better... People can be sad with their partner and can be happy.. that's why we should meet more people unless we can find our soulmate .. otherwise just for company and support you can marry to a suitable one.

[@himanshupandey4245]

Loneliness has nothing to do with social skills.

[@srikantmohanty2513]

If you stay single so try spiritual journey and discover our inner self . Same thing I will do that

[@ashuvijay7031]

Agar single h or bina kisi ko nuksaan pahunchaaye sex kare to wo galat h kya

[@ritikasingh9182]

The best line of this video.. start thinking 'what kind of person do you want' instead of 'dikhti/dikhta kaisa hai' 👍

[@aashish77]

@cloud are you a girl or boy?

[@Carbondioxidinashvilli]

@@aashish77 he is obviously a guy.( Obvious for many reasons)

[@subharupchakraborty522]

I wasn't gonna marry....and after watching this video....still won't marry

[@AbhayKumar-yi9xv]

The girl name on the thumbnail is- Angelina danilova She is russian model Working in south korea Also she is a very good singer

[@diwakarisonyoutube]

10 hrs done. Still unsatisfied :'( 2 ghante soo gaya tha.

[@ShwetabhGangwar1]

You won't learn or achieve EVERYTHING in one day. Work in a manner which can be repeated daily. A system is what will get things done. A system involving sound sleep schedule too.

[@abhijit5965]

@@ShwetabhGangwar1 But sir after doing work considerably a day after day There is a time when I feel that someone is pulling me to my addictions and distraction At that moment what to execute to get things done in right direction

[@khemsingh1659]

Same here bro

[@diwakarisonyoutube]

@@ShwetabhGangwar1 Yes, I've been doing 12ish hours of work everyday. When I work little less, it feels bad. Even tho, I work hard but it seems less.

[@KrishanKumar-ec1ch]

Are you student ?or do you have your personal space

[@bablishil3651]

It's really difficult to find that supportive person. The one skill that most people lacks, is giving emotional and mental peace to the other person. Money and other things will come and go. But respect and emotional stability is a tough quality to find in Today's physically biased society.

[@humanityheroes1]

I'm an introvert. I love to socialize and have many friends but the best part of my day is when I get to my apartment in the evening when I have no one around me and I'm all alone with myself. That is the time, I cannot share with anyone, I just want to be with myself, be with my goals and prepare myself for what I really want in my life. Although I'm not clairvoyant and don't know what my life would be if I Don't get married, but One thing i know for sure if you have goals bigger than a marriage, goals with make you restless, goals wich makes you care nothing about being lonely you don't need to get married.

[@musafir4069]

I am 37 and single.. And very happy with me.. In my own life no one can disturb me, ordered me, being single is best..

[@ABHINAV6562752]

@DADDYS GAMING haan aage bhi single

[@sonalchatterjee765]

@@ABHINAV6562752 same bro hum ve rahenge single 😀paise kamao ghumo firo daru peeyo marjani life 😂

[@tanishsingh9797]

@@sonalchatterjee765 same

[@Europeanmeet]

@@sonalchatterjee765 same here but ...apna daaru waaru ni social worker hu

[@lovetolearn723]

Bro i am 46 years old single guy...who never had a GF 😅

[@ommm408]

This video gave me a clear cut perspective about this relationship/marriage stuff... Sitting here at age 19 . Thinking of it.. Now I am damn clear why I want and what exactly I want.....

[@AvinashKumar-n4k1e]

When u become mature enough u will know that "Lonely is the state of mind its never a physical thing"

[@saiprakash4021]

The person who wants to stay single forever must have a strong mind set about life and control of all emotions through out your life for being happy in life 😊

[@souravmajumder8045]

When I am 15 or 16 year old I thought that I am never fell in love and now I am in love but she ditch me🤣🤣 what a life now I am feeling that why I fell in fucking love😂😂

[@kunalkar8315]

I am 33 yrs old still single but having no problem in family till now. Don't know about future. 🙏

[@kunalkar8315]

You have to be strong enough mentally and physically to live life alone. But who will look after you in your old age. 🙄

[@kunalkar8315]

Not feeling pressurized . But I noticed they are not happy with their married life. They were living better life before marriage. Now after marriage they are suffering from mental tensions.😥

[@kafirkafiri4394]

Simple baat dont watch porn don't jerk eat healthy live life fully respect your parents you will never feel alone

[@akshay3327]

श्वेताभ ने एकदम से वक्त बदल दिया, जज्बात बदलदिये

[@Stromewithskin]

Kitna sensible and intelligent ho ap bhai ...Kudos 👍👍

[@uchiha6622]

I live alone never talking to neighbours. During the day I just attend some lectures barely talk(apart from one girl who put me in the friendzone).I try going into groups and socializing but it's tough here you have to do drugs or be somehow cool to get friends...so all I get from girls is the why is your friend is so quiet. It gets lonely I just hate myself.

[@mrpk1719]

"I'm alone yeah but I'm not lonely".

[@ROHITKUMARRAY-ni8zi]

I want to live alone forever 🙂🙂🙂

[@shortyxclips]

"Wait for the one, but don't wait for someone to be the one" 😉

[@Abhishek17_knight]

@Shwetabh Gangwar bro I have a perspective to add here which is that: Yes 100% level of happiness is not possible withought another human being in life who is very close to us. But 90% level of happiness is possible withought a special person and thus people can live happily withought partner for life according to above logic, the fact that we live in society and have people to talk to online at very least strengthens the above point even more.

[@mgtowmonk7044]

Good point 👍

[@ajay-r6r]

I seriously needed this Shwetabh bro. Thank you so much. ❤

[@AmanKumar-jl5ks]

Bhai. You are so honest and relatable. Main usually comments nai krta hu, but aapke lie dil se respect hai. For being real YOU.

[@webdevaquib]

This guy is modern day Chanakya🔥✨

[@AshTheDuke]

Yess

[@Glitch18192]

Far better than him

[@pulkitdhingra8351]

@@Glitch18192 common he is nothing in front of him.

[@indianflippingart9593]

@@Glitch18192 maybe you went too far

[@physicsisdope4892]

Yes.. definitely

[@jyotidaspromax]

Reasons a guy scared to get married - Reasons a guy scared to get married - 1. Unstable income 2. Unsecured future 3. Unemployed 4. Girls have high expectations from her life partner. 5. Extra marital affairs of girls 6. Harsh Alimony and maintenance 7. Unfavourable marram laws against men. 8. False matrimonial cases against men. 9. Loosing freedom, doubling responsibilities 10. Girls have social media partners, colleagues and ex-bf to support, but men haven’t.

[@caddythanks6712]

the solution to this problem is to wait for the right time and age when you attain maturity and become a responsible person . if you stay single , you will have no one to share your feelings with and you will have less experience in talking with the person of the opposite gender and there will always be a social awkwardness btw you and them . but if you want to improve your socialising skills while still being single , then you can participate in some debates which includes both men and women in order to just understand each other 's perspective and opinions about a certain topic . it can benefit both the genders in minimizing the social awkwardness and there is better understanding .

[@trueword4971]

Rather than marry live in a so called relationship. Marriage is stressful. In relationship you can breakup any time