Andrew Tate Explains Why Men Should NEVER Get Married

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The exclusive sit-down between Patrick Bet-David and Andrew Tate in Madrid, Spain. This was the first interview that has happened since Andrew Tate was banned off social media platforms. In this clip they talk about how to use emotions to drive yourself.
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[@Pallo87]

Everything a woman does for you is for her survival. Everything a mother does is for your survival. -Mike Tyson

[@brianholguin6338]

🔥

[@vantablack6809]

It's funny how we are wired biologically.The same woman who would make you happy for her survival will put her life on line for her kid.

[@LetterSignedBy51SpiesWasA-Coup]

Beautiful but false. Women will usually choose themselves over their children too.

[@allananderson949]

My mother was a woman

[@oodlesnnoodles8670]

Stop listening to these celebrities, they are human like you & have opinions like you that can lead you to your demise. Follow your heart & your scriptures.

[@LB-ku6ry]

I’ll make dinner. And pack a lunch too. I’ve been married 38 years. I’m an old lady now, but have been blessed by being a homemaker with clearly defined roles. It was my grandmother that taught me the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. She taught me how to cook and be a good wife and homemaker. It’s old fashioned now a days for sure. I pray that you find the woman of your dreams who knows how to cook and keeps a tidy home. God bless you. Oh and that she respects you and feeds you well with real food from the earth that nourishes your body and soul. ❤

[@Ariana-wv4pf]

God, what a sad existence. I'm not here to worry about a man's stomach. 😂😂😂

[@richardy2071]

This sounds like a beautiful life

[@antowalk2743]

God bless you

[@breatheeasily4013]

@@Ariana-wv4pf Yet you worry about filling your boss man pockets.

[@jaymerlan7621]

God bless you and your marriage.

[@thelegendarianoflegend5278]

100% correct. There is nothing we (men) crave more than respect in our own household.

[@purplelove3666]

You don't get respect because you ask for it, you have to act like you actually want respect , and commanding and thinking your wife's opinion doesn't matter but only yours ,is not going to get you anywhere near the word respect,

[@musaib34]

​@@purplelove3666she can give her opinion. But man has the final say.

[@hynesp1]

Poor lad tate. Hes never been loved.

[@ngqiqolanga3489]

Also in life as whole man..we want respect

[@christianmagno984]

​@@purplelove3666you are another feminist Marxist

[@trophy8174]

I have a good friend who is literally crippled by divorce and he did absolutely nothing wrong. He tried to make the relationship work but she didn’t want to and went to another state to be with some guy she met on Facebook while they were married. This sort of sh** is scarily common and happens more than you think. My friend owes her alimony, half of a mortgage, she took off with a car he bought for her, all the jewelry he bought for her, the business they started went under, the dog, half of his income and a lot more. Why does he have to suffer when she is the one who started it!! It’s so unfair!!

[@jameskent836]

She will get her karma at the right time and the right punishment they always do

[@infinitytoes7424]

Work hard and give your all Yes we men are very flawed but women the minute they don’t see as perfect and get bored, run to another’s man’s arms! 🤬 BS.. stay strong brothers!

[@xHeeroYux]

The dog 💀

[@ravenclaw_3160]

Ho(e)w did she get the dog? And why?

[@-whackd]

He shoulda had some crypto.

[@Irishkill11]

Marriage did nothing for me other than give me two wonderful kids. My ex wife only saw me as a work droid. Even though divorce was financially devastating to me, the frustration she has over my happiness makes it all worth it. Sometimes I think the broken home was bad for my kids, but now they don’t see a broken man.

[@donjaun8435]

Thats some beautiful shit

[@sspbrazil]

I went through the same and I agree, love my kids and have better respect for my ex-wife as she does for me.

[@Harshharsh111]

.

[@jabronisauce6833]

Marriage didn't give you kids, sex did lmfao priorities no point pretending it's better than it is lol

[@Hunnidproof888]

Bless you mane 👑💯

[@jeffreyterrio5665]

Guess I lucked out marrying a woman from Mexico. She is the exact opposite, been married 13 years and she has a heart of gold. Not just to me, to all people and animals. Its unreal, she is as genuine as it gets and an angel from heaven

[@Triththaus]

Heck yeah brother I been married for 24 Years and she is my angel. Many congrats to you and your wife. 👍👍

[@sirsalt123]

Unfortunately women from Mexico this generation are just like the women up here in the U.S. they’re starting to follow the same way of thinking and are also becoming gold diggers. Everything has to turn to shit with Gen Z woman regardless which country she is from

[@sirsalt123]

Western Hemisphere feminist, GenZ and millennial women are now trying to switch roles and make men submissive I assume it’s also happening in Europe and Asia. Kudos to Africans and Middle Easterns who aren’t falling into this trap of bullshit. I too refuse to be a submissive simp

[@k.duelist4913]

If she in Mexico, make sure you guys stay there. Bringing them to the States could be a bad move

[@Theredpillar]

​@@sirsalt123 Muslims are based. They didn't gave up when western media targeted Qatar for not allowing LGBTQ people in Stadium. They are Strongest mf.

[@jameskrobar7814]

That is exactly why I left my ex-wife and kids mom. We were together 20 years. Over the years, she morphed into a feminist and her respect for me went out the window. Nothing I did change the situation. I ended up leaving her and my life has been absolutely awesome ever since.

[@achmaddmitri9090]

Did she cut her hair short

[@jameskrobar7814]

@@achmaddmitri9090 nope.

[@AmranKhan]

​@@achmaddmitri9090lmao

[@Mustc313]

Happy woman. threw out the trash

[@Joe-qm4yv]

​@@Mustc313more like he left trash behind he left her 😂

[@moneyninja3852]

I'm one hundred percent pro-marriage and I am in a happy marriage myself. However, I married a Japanese woman for this very reason she does exactly what he is saying in this video. She absolutely respects me and I love it

[@Theredpillar]

Are u in japan or any western country ?

[@rasthehead]

I'm pro-marraige under the condition of a pre-nup. No pre-nup, no marriage. Fair.

[@Great1Duane]

And they cancelled this guy? He’s speaking common sense. Respect is universal

[@josephgrmovsekcollaredcons6085]

That’s why they cancelled him. The globalists want men weak and feminized

[@spike.xx_]

i can understand his ban .he's inspiring and factual but sometimes he's just too much for giving opinions.

[@josephgrmovsekcollaredcons6085]

@@spike.xx_ Where do you live and what has happened to you where are you think people should be censored just for having different opinions? That’s insanity and leads to totalitarianism

[@spike.xx_]

@@josephgrmovsekcollaredcons6085 that's what i say to each and everyone who says tate give his opinions and he was misogynist and i usually says and what's wrong with that . but yk there are some times where he actually said pretty harsh words and he himself admitted in his that " final video" p rsomething like that . all i am saying is tate is a guy who have solid base with his views and opinions , might be harsh sometimes but it's all about being true .

[@triger1]

he just has good points here and there while spewing caveman tier sexism.

[@Ineedpeace7130]

He is 100% correct about the family sitcoms. Men on these shows are reduced to bumbling idiots, while the woman is always the smart one, the attractive one while the men are usually out of shape, losing hair and is always the one that did something wrong and the wife looks at him with disappointment and have to talk/teach their husbands to behave.

[@susanlovesjava4961]

Same with a lot of commercials, they make the guys look like complete pansies.

[@dorkbrandon4422]

Now this discussion has come up its made me hate Malcolm in the middle

[@tehgzizlauw1787]

​@@dorkbrandon4422it's not just Malcolm in the middle, it's all of them. Family guy, Simpsons, South park etc etc

[@francoiselemeur7325]

Oh my you are now getting a taste of your own medecine? How does it feel?

[@texas5009]

​@@francoiselemeur7325 watermelon flavor 🍉.

[@LatrellSprewell15]

Im 47, never been married and never will be. Wouldnt want it any other way

[@DavidJ-ty5jm]

AWESOME 🎉

[@jasonsmith530]

Gangsta

[@Landis_Grant]

I lost 1/2 of my assets to a woman who asked for a divorce after I solely raised our two kids, cleaned and maintained the house, did the grocery shopping, etc., all by my lonesome.

[@billyrj973]

Don’t you have to be guilty of Infidelity or something to lose half of your stuff

[@mpetty9947]

@@billyrj973 Nope. Sometimes they get a lot more than half too.

[@leemagaming696]

Whyd u get married u could have had all of that without it and if she left u she wouldnt be getting anything u worked for

[@mpetty9947]

@@leemagaming696 Now days we know the extreme danger, because of You Tube. When I got married it never even entered my mind I could lose everything. HELL no, it was not worth it.

[@eyeswideopen7777]

You got conned

[@badasscop4459]

As a man who works hard, dont cheat, take care of my wife and kids, cleaned the home and cooked, respect from my wife was gone and so did I. I neverr knew this until I heard it here. Respect is very important, may even say the most important thing.

[@sehoujay]

You cleaned the home and cooked? 😂buddy, you weren't the husband, you were the wife 🤣

[@28goldenboy]

You should take the manosphere red pill.

[@turtlex4866]

You are both wife and husband. What is point of marriage?

[@Rence38]

Dude she literally thought you were gay 😂 that’s why she didn’t feel the need to respect you 🤦‍♀️

[@badasscop4459]

@@sehoujay i know right

[@solomonmartinez5550]

The part where he said, “I would die for you. Could you please cook dinner?” Bro that hit so hard

[@boratlion8613]

That hit very hard, the trade is SO imbalanced, what men give abs get in return.

[@davegowie6237]

Hit so hard

[@shmoofgang]

😂💯💯

[@jruthagod3535]

Dawg it hit different🫠

[@doublehd159]

You can even hear it in his voice when he delivered it. He summoned the internal plea that every man feels inside who are only trying to do right for their family.

[@chadguindon6909]

I never wanted to be a boyfriend let alone a husband to anyone. I knew that since I was 7 years old. I'm now 39 and I am super proud of my decision to live my adult life as a single man. Look at all the problems men face after a divorce, they lose too much money and everything they worked for. I'm glad I'm not in that position.

[@castlequay2327]

having children and grandchildren brings joy. perhaps you could adopt if you want to stay single.....there are so many children who need a father thats a good role model.

[@castlequay2327]

For rich people cooks and cleaners can be paid help. For men of average income thats their wife.

[@andreahogan648]

Very very smart move on your part.

[@playpal9950]

It’s crazy how accurate this all is. There has been an incremental shift toward making it so that you’ll only have two options: either be in a disrespectful, bitter relationship or don’t be in a relationship at all. Any other option is being eroded away until those two are all that remain.

[@powertothetubers456]

If you're a wealthy man, it makes no sense to get married. Imagine working your whole life to become a part of the Top 10%, just to have half of your possessions taken away, because of a divorce, and that has nothing to do with spousal support and child support 😱

[@kingbucketz182]

Only way is to get married before you’re wealthy, or marry a woman who loved you before you became successful.

[@powertothetubers456]

@king Bucketz Now if you do it that way I can't be mad at that

[@saifkhudairi6465]

​@@kingbucketz182 That's literally when she takes half your money, (it's the money you've made, while married). Come on boys !! How does an Iraqi know how your laws work more than you ??!

[@Smiley0725]

You can start a family outside the West, while you work over here, raise a family in a country these middle income countries where the lawsarent this shitty yet

[@mark9294]

@@kingbucketz182the problem is they can of course stop loving you at any point

[@zincsupplylow7519]

God damn! Will Smith is the most extreme living example of this mans point.

[@who_is_dis]

Not really - he's a celebrity example for sure, but way more men have way less frame.

[@kingslayer69got79]

Feel bad for him cause he is trying, but now I think he has lost it a bit.

[@IN-tm8mw]

@@kingslayer69got79 that's what makes it tragic.

[@ARISTOTL3333]

@@who_is_dis the thing is his wife and whole family are celebrities

[@bluesky7288]

Are you kidding, his wife Jada totally rules him. He can't ever leave her, he is so dependent on her rule

[@richardjarquin9498]

I dated a woman who appeared shy and giggly. She heard comments like “your easy to love” “your so sweet” she treated everyone kindly. Behind closed doors she’s a fucking psycho and disrespected me so much. Everytime I called her out on something she would find ways to flip it. Whenever I proved her wrong she would just say “do you need some space “ ….”no bitch I need you to take accountability “

[@zahirthompson2989]

And this is the reason why I don't trust overly nice people 🤷‍♂️. They usually ones that are hiding something or are borderline psychopaths behind close doors.

[@eyeswideopen7777]

Gemini?

[@richardjarquin9498]

@@eyeswideopen7777 no she is pisces but I am. A gemini lol

[@eyeswideopen7777]

@@richardjarquin9498 they're similar in many ways, dual minds

[@eyeswideopen7777]

@@zahirthompson2989 it's a mask

[@independentvoter8710]

That's why my only marriage lasted 3 months. She immediately changed after we got hitched. I left her because she had no respect for me.

[@noblepolygon8694]

I married a woman from an old world culture (Southern Italian). There is a deep respect for a man that produces. Even at family dinners the men get served first (after the kids), while the women all prepare the meal. No one in her family is divorced. My wife wakes up, makes coffee, dinner. We’re remodeling a house we just bought and she asks my opinion on everything even if for certain things she’s made her mind up. I go on vacation by myself 2x a year and there’s no static. She runs the house, works part time from home but I make the majority of the money. I’m glad I married someone from a culture where men are respected and trust me the respect is mutual. Edit: I came back to this clip and want to just add something to the comments. - I was an E2 (I think about $20k yr) in the Navy when I met her. When I got out she made a majority of the money while I started my business. She works part time now because I did very well. She basically works for fun / pocket change. Also why she makes dinner every night. - She has two sisters but both taken. One’s a doctor, the other is a software engineer. - in her culture, kids eat first so the adults can sit together after and have a quiet meal. Anyway, the point is that there are good women out there. Don’t just believe every woman are like the kind you hear about on the internet. The same for the ladies. There’s solid guys out there, a majority of us are not here to oppress you and would as Tate says would die for you if necessary.

[@nali878]

this is the key, the only thing i dont agree with is kids eating first, they should eat last.

[@nightwishisthegreatestband6355]

@@nali878 why? They're children.

[@specialk4125]

Damn man where’d you find her?

[@lg206]

You should have put the last sentence first. She works part time. She does not have to work full time. Thats the part that men aren't accepting.

[@heisenberg2966]

No, Thank God, you married a Woman that makes less than you. If she worked Full-Time, do you honestly-think, she would be doing ALL THOSE THINGS FOR YOU?

[@kingkai7981]

Honestly as a 43 year old divorced man, I can relate... Andrew tate is right👏

[@Gogsgc]

L

[@arai6147]

@@Gogsgc Logsgc

[@lathamrowe]

100%

[@melonsmasher8252]

W

[@Jage1000]

Respect to a man in a marriage is like what love is to a woman, if not more so. We are overdue to hear the importance of what respect means.

[@VonGoldfinger]

I came to this same conclusion when my ex burned my house down. “You’re perfect, except this one thing.” That thing was me not submitting to her and holding her lazy ass accountable. I’m so glad that she cut me loose. I wish her new simp husband the best of luck.

[@Enonymous99]

It’s amazing to me how some women can look down on their man that’s protecting them Just be thankful, loving and supportive, he doesn’t have to do everything he does for you

[@Dystopian.Future]

It feels great to finally have a voice for Men.

[@RasKalevthesouljourner]

Even though all female supremacist media banned him, we are still winning

[@learningnew732]

But Ms Susan Banned him on KZbin, his official channel was full of uplifting stuff

[@AliHamza-sv4ni]

Yeah poor ol men. The oppressed little babies since the dawn of time.

[@hewasaskaterboyshesaidseey5927]

@@AliHamza-sv4ni yes. Men were the ones dying. Protecting and doing every other thing to make lives more comfortable to others.

[@CAPTALISM]

And that’s exactly why they banned him. Need to keep men depressed and docile. Especially from a young age.

[@Cub__]

He's absolutely correct, respect is everything to a Man. A man will fall into misery when no one respects or notices his efforts and sacrifices.

[@arcpuffin]

That’s fine, but why does respect from a woman have to come in the form of being inferior or being your servant?

[@Cub__]

@@arcpuffin No one ever said that, your Ego is gonna be the death of you. Stay humble.

[@arcpuffin]

@@Cub__ by Tate saying the man should have authority and then him constantly bringing up having dinner cooked, he is ABSOLUTELY stating that we should show respect by being inferior and servant like.

[@Cub__]

@@arcpuffin There's absolutely nothing "Inferior" or servant like by taking care of the man you care about, that's all in your head and how you perceive it (which doesn't get a Woman anywhere.. especially not closer to happiness) it's important that a Man protects and cares for his woman just as it is for a Woman to serve and take care of her Man. The bible states very clearly how important it is for a Wife to listen to her Husband at all times. The issue here is you continue looking at relationships between Men and Woman in the lens of "Equality" thinking and wanting to be such when in reality we aren't and never will be, we are very different and on a general scale posses many strengths that the other doesn't (such as a Woman being very nurturing) and a Man doing the heavy lifting.. life is all about balance, God made us different for a reason. Take care.

[@1tarikross161]

a weak man will

[@theironmarshmallowg3932]

I agree. There is nothing in it for men. Im getting divorced and im giving up a house i bought and paid for, fixed up and put my blood sweat and tears into. The system favors women 99% of the time.

[@marknewton6984]

Freedom is everything.

[@jamescraft8979]

This is SO true. Now I know why I got divorced!!! The respect for me was gone , and it’s at a subconscious level that things start to happen , first , a spark ,in dreams, …..then in small ideas awake , and finally there’s no going back.

[@mark9294]

Absolutely. Happened to me as well. I couldn’t believe it. Before I realized it it was too late and the trap snapped shut

[@oysterchampion8998]

What were the dreams?

[@PsychoAlfaSchizo]

My mother was shaming me once about not finding a girl to settle down with. So I asked her to name one benefit or one advantage of being married as a man. She looked at me for 2 minutes and changed the conversation.

[@radhiadeedou8286]

Children

[@cudd2287]

@@radhiadeedou8286 children to a shitty woman tho....

[@germanmolina1245]

These women nowadays, the majority definitely belong to da streets.

[@MAR7LO]

@Jck law how is it that divorce laws are against men yet most laws are written by men? Such as abortion laws.

[@cephtheobserver]

I asked mine why would i buy something i easily get for a few coins, the conversation ended.

[@andradeb2695]

Picking the Right Wife in the West is like trying to find a needle in a haystack

[@darbyohara]

No it’s like trying to find a needle in a stack of needles

[@ydiabO]

@@darbyohara sometimes I thank God that I wasn't born in the west. I was born and raised in a place where women respect themselves and their men, and I'm truly thankful for that. Cheating and divorce are things which we rarely hear about in our communities.

[@mimimohameed4460]

@@ydiabO where do you live

[@kalencwil3924]

Go to El Salvador or southern America

[@scarletlady3727]

People cheat EVERYWHERE…they just don’t openly talk about it….I come from Pakistan which is a Muslim country where women are submissive , traditional and 90 percent don’t work and stay home….YET , many Pakistani women I know over there have cheated on their husbands…including me

[@richrocketlll]

I was once married but never again. She was my biggest mistake I ever made. I could never do anything right when I was with her. But now no one tells me I wrong. So I must be doing something right finally.

[@dirtbiker651]

As a married American man, I think my wife likes me, but she does not respect me! As a successful investor and business man, i see how my wife treats me different when I bring in lots of money and little money. Love and respect are NOT the same things! I’m trapped in a cold marriage where she would take everything if I left! Trapped!!

[@onceagaindc]

Fucking terrible..

[@TurreTuntematon]

Not everything. Only half. Thank good I had prenup and divorced now.

[@deshanpillay3064]

This man is 110% correct

[@Dad_of_War]

It's impossible to be 110% correct

[@franciscopereira5760]

@@Dad_of_War fk of feminist

[@_baller]

111%

[@GR-ir2bu]

@@Dad_of_War that’s 120% wrong.

[@boxer786ful]

He's emphasizing the point by saying 110%. Stop trying to be a smart ass

[@_baller]

Most people should NOT get married, it's not a requirement in life, love is rare as hell, it's just a partnership at best

[@crayfish3629]

It was even a warning in the bible...it’s not a must but if you wanna marry no problem 🙏🏾

[@localreviewking134]

Love is everywhere; here we go i send you some love here and now.

[@annewilliams4931]

Marriage is security for a women - I know I've been with my husband 41 years now and although we lived together for 2 years at first I told him that I would not have children until we were married and he respected that!

[@maitely992]

@@annewilliams4931 I am a woman and I don’t believe that. Marriage is no security, divorce exist. The only security that exist is “true commitment” and a genuine partnership, which to be honest, doesn’t need papers. I suggest all women to get a job, always be financially independent and then marry if it means something to you ❤️

[@_baller]

@@maitely992 the fact women are getting “financially independent” is why marriage will fail, there’s nothing making a woman commit to marriage except financial security

[@infinitytoes7424]

I was about to leave a nasty comment about Tate.. but what he said is 100 percent true 😂😢

[@2sgv497]

I asked my dad(parents divorced when i was 7 and i grew up with mom, sometimes saw my dad bit he is a simp in his new wife witch got 2 kids from past marriage) how i should live my life? What is bad and what is good? His answer was: nobody knows what is good and what is bad. This was the most disappointment i have ever had because when i was teenager i though my dad is a wise man, and i felt myself lost alone like lost ship in a sea without beacon, i don’t know what is bad and what is good for me. He didn’t teach me anything about life, women and relationship and masculinity, which in my opinion is the main task as a man. Now my dad living a dog’s life, supports his wife’s grown up child, rising his own daughter. She manipulates him as fck. She even told sometime-im major of the family, and her parents don’t even shut her up. Tate is a father for men who grew up in a situation like mine, with fathers who are simps, nerds, and don’t even know what is to be a man. I despise my own father because he is a not a man, despite the fact he did a lot for me in career sense, but never be a mentor. Just speaking ATM. Thank you Andrew, for sharing true masculine role of a man in this complicated life for a men who was left alone like me.

[@Chid098]

Men need respect, Women need love. Men see respect as love, women see love as respect. if both sexes can understand this, things would be much easier.

[@fuadmelikov515]

You are right man👍🏽

[@williamcon-ui2201]

in this modern generation you simply cant. the amount of respect you will get will depend on the amount of money you give or what you give to the table.

[@Game-kr3cn]

nowdays i am hearing from ladies. They need respect first than love. meaning they dont want to cook anymore? :)

[@kimberlypettway9692]

Omg the profoundness!!!

[@farinfasfarinfinfinhas7903]

Those are just empty words. Very pretty but useless

[@chaimnisan2841]

So true. My grandfather was a stoic working man, both a sailor and factory worker. He worked his ass off and never got any respect from my grandmother. She was nothing but good to me, but my grandfather suffered in his marriage even though he made everything happen: he fixed the car, built the shed by himself, did the physical labor etc. He stayed with her because he’d be damned if my dad was going to grow up without a father. What in immense sense of duty. I hope he knows somehow that I stand in awe of him.

[@ShotByMoo]

He was a beta

[@juswolf22]

Probably because he cheated on your granny and she never let it go

[@nakitapalmer656]

I understand....😪😪😪

[@mmkw5621]

@@ShotByMoo He worked his ass off and was there for his kid, how is that beta?

[@AhmedAli-hu4vb]

A lot of fathers do that they see their sons and don't want to grow on their own so they stay with their wife's

[@Leondrius]

The fact that men still need this explained to them is wild.

[@KristianGrig]

"Married with children" is a prime example of such a show !! Identical down to every single detail !

[@EE-in2uv]

“Disrespect is dangerous”

[@mwamengele]

Mike drop!

[@JayJules12992]

Disrespect is when you know your opposer has broken the social contract and the craving for hell to break lose kicks in

[@KG-ii2yx]

@@JayJules12992 you talk so much, but when faced with a gang of thugs would you still say the same thing??

[@JayJules12992]

@@KG-ii2yxyeah sure, I could tell it to anyone I suppose since I thought it was a pretty clean quote that I just came up with myself just a little bit ago that speaks to the very truth any man experiences when disrespected.

[@dingus6317]

@@KG-ii2yx Just shoot them

[@elenadiaz2867]

This is so true! On the movie Barbie, Ken is disrespected by Barbie.

[@lava12.23]

To be truly happy men must do two things, don’t get married don’t have children, both will destroy your own persona will make you suffer and frustrated till the day you die.

[@OM-or3im]

I recently told my boyfriend that the reason my parents were married their whole lives is because there was deep respect on both sides. I am Eastern European and many of my American girlfriends don’t respect their partners. I agree with him on the issue of respect being key in a long-lasting relationship.

[@bgoodorhell4u]

It’s only time before your American girl friends teach you how to disrespect your guy. Wait just wait. 😎😎

[@connorjohn5013]

I’m eastern european married male. The problem is on both sides. Females won’t respect weak males. Males won’t respect weak females. Both genders got weak.

[@mikearchibald744]

Domestic violence is called the silent epidemic in north america. If you think that lack of respect doesn't go both ways you listen to too many podcasts.

[@filthycasual9381]

​@@mikearchibald744 False accusations of DV is an epidemic, which are still counted as cases of DV according to feminist stats. Actual DV against men, by women, is also an epidemic according to CDC stats on intimate partner violence.

[@mikearchibald744]

@@filthycasual9381Well, considering there is no way to actually prove a false allegation and considering how few actual complaints actually make it even to the investigative stage let alone court, thats not something that can really be taken seriously. The epidemic side for actual domestic violence comes from hearsay comments from nurses who claim that they see a LOT of injuries they THINK is domestic violence, as well as police reports on domestic violence calls. The 'false accusation' claim is based on the actual calls and complaints, which women then don't follow up because they are told there is little chance of successful prosecution. So thats not even a serious argument. The claims from men is a little more sensible, there are actually usually localized statistics for certain years where the number of men calling exceed women, but then those regional temporary claims are usually adopted as a "here's what the stats show', when in fact they only show one stat in one location. What we KNOW is that actual homicides in domestic violence cases are almost EXCLUSIVELY men, or fairly clear cases of self defense, for which women , particularly indiginous, still see jail time for. The simple fact is that its FAR easier for men to get away than women. Ideally of course ANY case of domestic violence should be taken seriously, ideally any person who experiences violence should have a place to get away to. That doesn't exist, and the complaints from womens group is loudest, you can assume that its because they are just more biased and just as many men are beaten up by their spouses if you want, but thats a pretty absurd claim to me.

[@luismongemora2190]

We need this man back in all social media platforms ❤

[@yamafanboy]

no what you need to do is switch to rumble. He's not banned from all social media he's just now on the positive social media platform... rumble.

[@kntran8637]

@@yamafanboy thanks man, I’ve been trying to find him over the past few days

[@BabySkinCondom]

honestly what we need to do is get rid of social media platforms because they're largely responsible for creating a generation of toxic, self-absorbed, narcissistic women

[@kevinfernandez9999]

Truth social?

[@ItApproaches]

No, we need less people on social media. Social media can die off. Giving all humans a platform to speak their opinions as truth is toxic and pathetic. Most humans are utterly retarded.

[@w.s.2102]

Im so glad I'm not married anymore.... i served a 20-year sentence, and the past 4 years of bachelor's life have been the best years...... my future is wide open now, and the world is truly my oyster

[@bigcel42]

This is CRAZY. I have never seen this before and never really have clicked on a video from this guy yet this is SPOT ON, PRECISELY ACCURATE INFORMATION. This is the truth that I’ve told to my boys yet women do not want to here it. This is wild, he told it exactly correct. Wow.

[@ColdIce99]

Lived over a decade of my life like that. This man is speaking nothing but the truth.

[@whynot1548]

Fake account, u are

[@umaisv1352]

I've been married for 13 years but there is still a lot to learn for me in a marriage. Videos like these help me see the other side of my relationship with my husband.

[@galaxykode9243]

I think your husband have a keeper keep treating buddy. Right

[@markpitchford7375]

The fact that you care enough to listen speaks volumes.

[@DisciplinedLion]

Great to see this comment. Keep going !

[@Yonathannaptali]

I love you

[@gauge6513]

You dont have a job do you?

[@adicristian3104]

People can hate this guy all they want, he makes some good points.

[@cesarb8536]

Disrespecting a man very dangerous.

[@jayemz7384]

Andrew tate has taught me more about life than my lecturers and any type of teacher that has ever taught me.

[@dudedude365]

Keeping learning, many people still ignoring him as a bad guy which he isn't, let these poor live poor and die poor

[@patrickw9706]

Same here. And I only watch non stop for 3 days.

[@whynot1548]

Did he tell u what ur gonna say to ur daughter when she comes of age and falls in love with someone? Are u gonna tell her that according to the Romanian bullshitter(Andrew Tate), she has to let herself be whored around cuz thats what she's designed to be?

[@vader745]

thats because unlike many teachers especially in the "education system"... he's not a left wing woke clueless joke

[@elicohen5073]

Truth

[@Setsotama]

"At least she's smiling at me, this one hasn't smiled at me in years" That hit me in the soul... just a iota of kindness would be enough to make a man's day and that's what a lot of modern women aren't getting

[@whynot1548]

Troll Alert

[@faezahazmi]

@@whynot1548 you mean you?

[@lidiagizaw3828]

she cant smile at u when she's exhausted and u arent helping with shit

[@comicrandomness3289]

​@@faezahazmi message was deleted

[@TechWeLove]

Yup, this statement from Andrew Tate was gold.

[@kawasakiwhiptwo5821]

57 years old. Never married,no kids. I don't think I could be happier.

[@WayneARobertson]

Your the smartest man here

[@Earl_TheSquirrel]

Kids are good. Relationships are not

[@kawasakiwhiptwo5821]

@Earl_TheSquirrel Wouldn't mind having a child. It's just that don't mind not being a father.

[@adamday2067]

Tate is 100% right.

[@darbyohara]

The single most important thing a man MUST have in any relationship is RESPECT. Especially a married relationship

[@Kenny-Ross]

Yes!!!! Respect!

[@stbsole]

You should have established that respect boundary before you even get in a relationship. Plus you need to constantly cultivate respect with those close to you. It’s not a one and done thing. We as men sometimes get complacent in relationships and forget ourselves and what her/his respect and fall in love with us.

[@RF-tx1vi]

What is respect in a relationship? Is giving another guy choosing signals whilst in a lt disrespectful

[@darbyohara]

@@RF-tx1vi yes

[@darbyohara]

@@xyz0zyx exactly

[@garrycoates2147]

I must say this talk by Andrew hit me very hard. Forty years of work, marriage with children wears you down. Your family sees you age and sometimes fail. With society's programming they lose respect for you because there is almost no positive reinforcement. Everything you do is expected and frankly taken for granted. Hopefully as my children get older they will see things differently as I did with my father. He knew I loved and respected him before he died...

[@annewilliams4931]

And you wife is not worn down after 40 years - open your eyes and grow the f@ck up little boy!

[@smokingcrab2290]

And then they play the victim saying you're not the one respecting them. So all you do is just give while getting nothing in return

[@alexisvillar4647]

As a young married man , I read post like yours to remind myself to always put myself first. I didn’t always want to be this way. I wanted to give everything to my wife and children. However, I noticed how the nicer I was and the more giving I was to my wife , the more she saw it as expectations rather than sacrifices. So, I no limit myself not sacrifice myself for the well being of my marriage. If I want something I go get it! Is that simple. I continue to meet my responsibility as a father and love my children unconditionally but I did not forget to love myself

[@yomanyomandx5609]

​@@alexisvillar4647u are 💯

[@AlexandraK1]

@@alexisvillar4647 You are of course right, but communication here is key. If this is how you feel, you need to tell her! If your woman loves you, she'll understand, I hope.

[@tubadurantdoda]

Watching this broke my heart a little because as a woman who understands what men go through and who has been very nice, caring, kind and compassinate towards my ex, I was mistreated immensely and then eventually got dumped out of the blue desptite all the sacrifice and good treatment and comfort I gave to him over the years. Where are all the men who are mistreated and who'd actually value a woman like me? It breaks my heart that I could have met a man like that instead of my problematic ex, and then maybe I'd get the value that I deserved.

[@piedramultiaristas8573]

U can look a mb in upci

[@tetricko]

Dont let a bad experience change who you are if what you re saying is true he will regret this for life

[@tubadurantdoda]

@@tetricko thanks, I found out more about him recently and apparently he was a scammer who kept scamming women and one of the women he scammed wrote to me, exposing him and his lies

[@tetricko]

@@tubadurantdoda thats how it is then he will end up in jail and u will find a new guy sooner or later i know so

[@Smiley0725]

It was his loss maam, let him.kiss frogs, hard to come by a good woman

[@johnkarls2132]

He is so correct on everything he's said!!! Men want respect more than anything in the world. Women will always be cherished and loved if they respect their guy!!

[@rodricktumusiime]

We need Andrew Tate back on media platforms

[@Iwontreadyourreply]

He’s everywhere, not hard to find

[@charlottetaylor4471]

The human trafficker and rapist?

[@_eyesauce9147]

hes back on twitter, youtube(he doesnt upload though, only community posts), and on rumble

[@annewilliams4931]

No we really don't - he's a sexist, misogynistic clown!

[@antoniomark7745]

That title is NOT what he said.... he talked about the importance of RESPECT

[@anon7596]

but it got you to click didn't it. now you know how the game is played.

[@matthewrodriguez8682]

It’s for clickbait

[@NANGSGARAGE]

You got Rick rolled 😅

[@nani8701]

Bro you seem like you're new on youtube

[@-Abduuu]

@@anon7596 the ppl who make these out of context clips clickbait the viewers into thinking Tate is a bad person. “They were told to hate me” - Tate

[@damiens6465]

Too much honesty! I see why he’s being attacked.

[@bdflatlander]

That statement about men wanting respect is true from my experience, although respect is something that has to be earned, not just demanded. One thing that I have had to periodically remind my wife of 41 years is not to try and emasculate me in front of another man, something which she used to do on a regular basis because she knew it bothered me but has toned it down quite a bit I must say. One thing I said to her that made a difference is I asked her how she would feel if I was flirtatious with another woman in front of her (something I have never done). That caught her flat footed and later she admitted she wouldn’t like it one bit. I told her that’s how I feel when she puts me down or criticizes me in front of another man. What we do now when we disagree on something when we are with someone else is we go off out of earshot of the other person and work out our differences privately or agree to resolve it later but not to argue in front of someone else.

[@TheLinkedList]

Sounds pretty rough! What sort of thing was she saying in front of other men, was she making fun of you / putting you down or was it flirting with other men? I find that to be on the most incredibly disrespectful things a woman can do to us

[@i.l.6956]

Thank your for your story. Good luck!

[@user-bs1wx1tb7e]

You earned the respect of your woman when you married her. End of discussion. You don't need to be superman to expect respect from your wife.

[@stefannasser6839]

He’s damn right!!!!! Listen to every word he is spot on!!! People need to understand this

[@laturista1000]

Sadly most men get pussy whipped real easily. Everyday there's another man getting married to a bridezilla. She makes all the decisions he just listens and obeys her every command. LOL

[@oneelrockwell79]

Facts!!!!

[@danoneall4013]

This is as factual as Fox News, Hannity & Tucker.

[@evelinapass7024]

No no respekt Every ok legend?

[@donnapartow]

He is so spot on about what culture is doing to men.

[@jonathanh2o621]

Prior to committing to an external relationship with someone,.. know thyself. Knowing ourself is the path to a system of CORE VALUES!

[@marmeg1118]

He’s right. How the hell can a woman be home all day and not even have a meal for her husband and her kids. WTH? It’s also true that when you ask a man for guidance when you don’t know about an issue or task, they love helping out and really feel loved and valuable.

[@babyamom2004]

There is no choice between love and respect. There is simply no love without respect! The pillars of love are: admiration, respect and loyalty. Everything else is fake and not love.

[@fucksusan.fuckcensorship.874]

i mean you can't love someone without respect but you can respect someone without loving them if that makes sense. Like for example i respect andrew tate but i dont love him i dont know him personally. does that make sense?

[@-Abduuu]

@@fucksusan.fuckcensorship.874 Tate fans don’t love him. They Respect him.(including me)

[@HenryDube72]

@@goochipoochie there definitely is, what's not there is unconditional love. Love definitely is transactional, conditional and commoditized.

[@fucksusan.fuckcensorship.874]

@@-Abduuu like wise. i could just never find myself like "loving" someone who i've never even met whether its Tate or anyone else for that matter. People nowadays over use the word love and its completely dilluted. You dope for keeping it real.

[@-Abduuu]

@@fucksusan.fuckcensorship.874 the west and the woke people on the internet are so delusional, respecting and appreciating someone’s work, and they call us ‘Tate fanboys or ‘Tate boyfriends’ and think it’s d*kriding. I’m actually lucky for not being born in west and not having western cultured parents

[@derrickjordan5969]

I have 4 uncles. All are good men. They work their asses off, provide for their wife and children yet they don’t even sleep in the same bed as their wives… My aunts constantly nag at them that they are not doing enough around the house, their car needs fixing etc etc… it’s a sad sight to see. I’d rather continue to live single, travel overseas and focus on being the best me than to get married and live a miserable existence. I feel bad for them but they choose their fates.

[@jimj2683]

I am sure they deep down want to divorce yet it is only fear holding them back.

[@adrianruvalcaba2896]

All 4 of your uncles don't sleep on the same bed as their wife? Seems very unlikely since it's not very common. I agree with what you're saying tho a lot of men are choosing not to marry.

[@RasKalevthesouljourner]

Weak men. No real man would deal with that disrespect.

[@Cub__]

@@RasKalevthesouljourner Well it's men that're usually scared of being alone so they accept the terms that come with marriage thinking "It is what it is" it's sad indeed.

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

They need to ask their father and mother why they gave birth to four men who don't treat their wives right.

[@charlienoriega]

TATE telling the TRUTH!!! Thank you, Andrew!!! Describing today's reality perfectly!!! THANK YOU!!!

[@carlosmendoza8312]

Andrew Tate deserves the Nobel Peace Prize! Much respect.

[@alexwest4253]

He just described my entire 23 year marriage that ended in divorce. Never again unless I could find a woman who somehow missed the Matrix programming.

[@debtcommander7953]

A wise man stops at “never again,” and forgets the “but only if, etc”

[@moudcruz2112]

Sorry for you

[@Sonofagreatdad]

Still married but ditto

[@omaralkayal7598]

You really look like a nice person and a good man as well I hope everything in your life gets better

[@yayadosh]

That's sad. I hope you will find a woman that really desires you 😊

[@petertran784]

I'm 45y.o. male and still single and happy 😊

[@nicktan4530]

Is it a choice ?

[@erikhawk8437]

Loyalty and respect over love. I'd pick the former any day over the latter. She has my back, she is loyal, she takes care of me, she looks up to me, desires and admires me. She can cook, and treats me like a God. That is what I need, as a man. She doesn't even have to love me. Truly.

[@simonkalibwani5832]

"I would die for you. Please just cook dinner" 🤣🤣🤣Sounds like a fair trade!

[@alm.2000]

No it dosn’t. Because you wouldn’t and you won’t. Idiotic males acting like we’re living in jungle in pre historic times so he’s dYiNg fOr HiS wOmAn lmao stfu

[@mrluvit8232]

😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣

[@radhiadeedou8286]

A hypothetical situation that will likely never happen against something you actually do everyday for the rest of your life? 🤔

[@alm.2000]

@Narushat Impostora Why do you want a woman to be your servant and depend on you for income? Control freak much? Offended and a sexist that knows this way you have her trapped so she can’t easily leave you. Admit it.

[@Fishbro]

@Narushat Impostora People think the world is fairies and peaches with no sense of danger. Live in Chicago, LA or NYC and if you live in the hood you'll quickly see how dangerous it can get.

[@ridouaneelghazy2330]

This man is a gift for this fu**ed up society

[@danielmcfarland6116]

The man is a self loveing asshole that any woman should avoid

[@glowiever]

I agree with all his points. he explained it quite succinctly but clearly

[@freebird5458]

My father always provided for us growing up. He worked hard all through my childhood. My mother worked hard as well and they shared the duties of running a household with children. They both worked so it was never stereotypically that my mother did all the cooking or cleaning. It was shared. But it was always very obvious that Dad is the man of the household. He is the protector of the family. Just simple things he would always be called upon to do or asked his opinion of. When we found a wasps nest in the shed and me and my sister were in the shed and we were too terrified to go past it my brother called for dad. He would deal with the wasps nest. When I thought I was drowning (I wasnt) at the bottom of a slide that i was terrified of on a family outing and was thrashing about in the water, Dad came to get me. Just simple things when you need a hero figure my dad is that guy. He does all the man things around the house like fixing things putting shelves up. He has his shed with all his tools and you don't touch his tools. He would be in charge of what we watched on television. He never allowed us to watch the TV soaps because he believed them to encourage people to engage in bad behaviour for the sake of creating a drama. He is in charge of the TV remote. When we get out of my mums car she's always like "be careful not to bash the doors into your dad's car" because to damage HIS car would be a big lack of respect. You are always aware to respect his things at all times. He had shared duties with his wife but he had authority at home and respect from his children. We knew if dad said something he meant it and his decision was final. We love dad and respect him. He was never a really harsh disciplinarian because he didn't have to be. We respected him so we did what he said out of love and respect for him not out of fear.

[@bryceherring946]

Very well said by Andrew Tate, great answer and he is speaking alot of truth here, and no surprise the answer is very simple and obvious but hes not afraid to say it and be honest.

[@smyzo]

It's a simplistic view to manipulate simple minds like yours. LOL at how pathetic you losers are who simp this dude. What's more pathetic than simping another dude?

[@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT]

I don’t care what the matrix says. Andrew Tate is a genuine man trying to be a voice for his fellow man. Love and respect

[@dowtingtomas.695]

Bullshit dude! Everything he does is for his pocket

[@stephentubbs1624]

I always say, " Disrespect will get you killed! ".

[@misterpogi23]

THIS HITS ME SO HARD. I've had to tolerate being walked on and disrespected for 12 years. It's still going but I've been making moves and changes to get myself out of the situation.

[@patilabhinav7941]

If you are married to that leech 1.Sell your assests and give that money to your trusted friend or dad. 2.Use some of that money to hire a good divorce lawyer. 3. Forget about kids they are Government property or atleast try to show them the bad side of their mother. 4. Act fake and be nice infront of her and if possible get some pics of her cheating. 5. Identify as a woman if you are in a very anti male state like California,ohio , Washington and newyork. 6. Get unemployed six months before divorce ( for that save money and live at your friends house and give money to him for rent). 7. Make your wife get a job (even onlyfans is good). 8. Slam the divorce papers and don't talk to her let your lawyer talk to her.

[@waelchorfan9349]

🙏 wish you a healthy recovery

[@misterpogi23]

@@waelchorfan9349 Thanks my friend! Average man stay up. We need to step it up and evolve into a high value man.

[@waelchorfan9349]

@@misterpogi23 just ignore women and you'll be safe, healthy and wealthy, that's my own motto

[@Nx553]

You can have a better life. I never thought I could, I was in a very similar situation for 8 years until one day I realized I'd had enough and left her, packed my stuff and moved out Friday, started a new job Monday. 6 months later my life definitely isn't perfect, but I'm a LOT better off than I was. I got my life back, I don't spend every minute justifying my very existence to someone who treated me like dog shit. There's no woman that's worth that treatment, I wish you well bro.

[@smokingcrab2290]

I married a good woman. First 3 years of marriage were bliss. Now that we had a kid everything has changed. She's changed in countless ways. I only married because I'm a Christian. If I could do it over I would just get married before a pastor and NOT sign a marriage license. That way you don't have to deal with legal divorce and you get way more benefits when you have kids. But if I wasn't a Christian I'd just never get married altogether. Once you give away your commitment permanently, women change and they now have no incentive to be the women you thought they were. Sex dries up. Good times dry up. Sleep, privacy, friends, money, making your own choices? All gone. Especially when kids enter the picture. It ain't for the faint of heart.

[@cle-chi]

& the cooking stops or slows also

[@mariekuijkenhistoricallyaw2598]

While YOU certainly continued to be the man she thought you were, isn't it??? truly marvellous! 👏👏👏

[@Mrash1988]

It’s a good point that “I rather be married with a woman who respects me than loves me” respect builds long lasting love ❤️

[@WrecklezzENT]

This is so dumb Lmfao

[@sandragomez316]

He’s right. My husband works hard labor. Soon as he gets home i meet him at door, take off his work boots & serve him homemade meal we eat together. I appreciate all he does & truly respect my hubby.

[@mex1canpapi..233]

Lucky lol

[@charlottetaylor4471]

But a lot of women work full-time too. Should they take each other's shoes off?

[@eilenkatarinalunde2969]

I love this ❤ THIS is how we should treat our men!

[@alexisvillar4647]

@@charlottetaylor4471 do you pay half of all the bills ?

[@markpitchford7375]

@@charlottetaylor4471 Let us know when you take responsibility for paying any of the bills, forever.

[@georgettagancarz1798]

Andrew is correct a woman should respect her husband but respect is also earned. In the television sitcoms, he is correct women are viewed as more powerful, but there is a reason for this scenario, although it isn't always correct. Most television shows that have two working parents, both have careers. The man works, and then comes home to relax, while the woman works, and then comes home to work. Meaning, cooking, cleaning, getting the children ready for bed or school. I don't know many working families, where both parents work, and the woman comes home to relax, but this is not always the situation. Sometimes, the man works, and comes home, and takes care of the children. In marriage both parties have to respect each other, compromise, sacrifice, and divide the necessary activities. This is needed, so no one feels unloved, used, or burnt out. You have to love your partner for who they are, and don't focus on who they are not. People love, and give differently, so this must be respected and acknowledged. For example, a husband might moe the lawn, and although he is not fixing dinner, this is him giving. You must realize how your partner loves you, because it might not be exactly how you picture love. See example above. Marriage can work but, you must be willing to grow and accept changes together. You are two different people and those gifts should have room to flourish, and sometimes merge together. Meaning, couples need breaks. Time for your private hobbies. If your husband wants to go fishing, bowling, watch the games with his male friends, let him bond. And the same for your wife, who may want to go to the movies with her friends. Couples should have time for their own space too. The bottom line is, a marriage will work, when both sides are respected and loved. A husband and wife both need the above, with trust thrown in the mix. Great interview. I love hearing, and learning the sides of the male perspective. Makes me appreciate you guys more. 🙂

[@sandiletwala3001]

Marriage and relationships are just a waste of time. Have one night stands and leave and never see her again. Stay single till you die and accomplish whatever you want, but never be in a relationship and never get married

[@safiya798]

Respect is earned. If you allow someone to walk over you, they don't respect you. That is your fault for not standing up for yourself. Don't blame the woman, blame yourself.

[@jrod1591]

That’s exactly what is happening now. Marriage rates at an all time low. There is nothing marriage gives men that they can’t get in a relationship. If a man is working hard and providing, is that not a reason to respect someone? Either way. Women are getting what they are asking for and ironically women’s happiness (per studies) are at an all time low.

[@ryanl1293]

​@@jrod1591 Among men respect is the baseline, women need to fight their own nature to respect someone truly. Women can be more appreciative though, but modern culture is trying to program that out of them.

[@selzwawy4181]

@safi what about the kids, the system in every country almost if you leave the house will take everything from you including the kids and give to the ex-wife if she is careless lazy for the kids and the house let kids failing at school, so as Andrew said you will lose a lot and will be tied to pay for next 20 years, either you work or not.

[@sam-ww1wk]

Disagree. My experience is if you don't bow down they fight back till the death. There is no way to earn respect from a woman partner, they will only seek that from a person they are cheating with.

[@Blade_runner-dh4dw]

@@sam-ww1wk you just hacked one of their HUUUGE secrets bro. thats deep keep it up

[@WealthEngineering]

This is one of the most powerful segments from this long podcast. Pure Gems... Thank you for giving Andrew Tate a voice to speak on our behalf.

[@santo9032]

I agree with Andrew about disrespect. I can’t stand disrespect especially in my own. Disrespecting on me in my own place is death sentence.

[@mr.nibblenips4231]

Took me years (my late 30s) to realize my mom is a bully, a trouble maker, and a narcissistic pig. Oh, and a hypocrite too. Now I know why my self esteem and confidence was always low. Now I know why most men don't give an eulogy at their mom's funeral.

[@Rina25tir]

Talking shit behind your mom's back on KZbin, in some dude's video, anonymously. Maybe your mom was horrible, ok, go confront her. But you are not a man, you are a worm.

[@michaelzero5278]

It was never your fault you can heal and be better vision of your self.

[@gopal108b5]

Be proud that you've recognised this. Some men refuse to see their mums for who they really are sometimes just because she carried him for 9 months . Some men turn those 9 months into a life sentence serving their narcissistic mother. My ex and I were genuinely so happy - but we split up because of his twice divorced mother- who was also responsible for his divorce before we met. He'd rather lose us than deal with his mum- he's 48 . So well done to you for setting yourself free.

[@rouij.9208]

The media called out this guy for being misogynist but he's just spitting facts.

[@mickygarcia4251]

I have money, the ability to come and go as I please, and I never have to explain myself to anyone. I am the master of all I survey. There's no way I'd let any of this change.

[@UniversityOfWroclaw]

And you childless. end of bloodline

[@brennocalderan2201]

You got a point!

[@onpurpose2629]

Married twice. I so agree. Each time I refused to be molded into what they wanted. I remain who I want to be. The irrational has dominated reality today, we need balance.

[@brexistentialism7628]

Fully agree with what Tate says on men seeking for respect.

[@NADA-ok2ce]

My dad hated everyone loved Raymond. I figured out why in my early 20s. I agree with him. He was my hero and we respected him.

[@jayvakil1935]

When Andrew mentioned bumbling idiot ..that's the first show I thought of...spot on !

[@vincentleoni6334]

Andrew always spitting facts, there might never rise another man like him. My respect for him deeply 🙏

[@pepperjack6749]

I wish to God I’d had this advice 20 years ago. Marriage absolutely destroyed any decent parts of my life. I’ve been dead for 20 years

[@therealtimray]

Respect 100%, the feelings of love are way overrated and not necessary

[@danmack1852]

This is so true and I speak from experience. Dedicated my life to my ex , gave up friends, hobbies etc. Went to work, came home cooked, cleaned, looked after the kid's. Just to be constantly disrespected and belittled. So I left, if there is no respect (both ways) then it's never gonna work!

[@joblakelisbon]

Why would you make the money, cook and clean? Aren't the last two her job if she's a housewife?

[@danmack1852]

@@joblakelisbon and look after the kid's. Because sometimes you'll do anything for a peaceful life. But what I realized is, it wasn't a happy life! And I never wanted my children coming from a "broken home". But leaving was better then them growing up in a toxic atmosphere and their dad being miserable. Now they get the best of me. Sometimes your blinded by love, but without respect it means nothing!

[@DefinitelyNotAMachineCultist]

@@danmack1852 You did the right thing. I've seen way too many people stick together with children as the excuse, even though being divorced would be a _less_ bad existence for their kids. Constant bickering, constant inability for the kid to focus on anything without earmuffs or headphones, constant violations of their personal space. Bonus points if parents redirect aggression towards the kid. Kids that grow up in that environment quickly realize: _"This_ is what's waiting for me too?"_ At least in your case, your spouse wasn't toxic towards the kids directly from the sound of it. Custody would have been a hell of a battle if she was.

[@connorjohn5013]

You licked her ass clean buddy. And did not demanded nothing back and you are surprised that she lost respect? You made yourself a slave for her and demanded respect? Women doesn’t work like that.

[@mechalovessquirrels18]

@@danmack1852 Yes, you do many things to avoid conflicts and have peace. Unfortunately its never appreciated and you are belittled