Why Do We Marry ? Some Myths Broken About Marriage

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[@IamSpidey007]

Yes please we want detailed video on each points given in this video.

[@sofialavish1072]

Your views are awesome. Yes, you are doing great.

[@basupandey3866]

Sir one video porn addiction par banaiye 🙏.

[@varunmittal3617]

what your saying is also not true. most of married couples apni marriage doh rhe hai. Its purely burden because of false or change expectations, likes etc as well as his approch of no marriage for everyone is also bad. One should work on oneself continuously and that's true for most of people their child is their only project in their life but Most of people preferring not to get married is also inspired from bad parents marriages where they mothers are harnessed and father were mostly Workaholic similar reason for remaining single in JKC . India population should decrease most of population lives undernourished, don't get any meaningful work in life, destroyed natural resources, technologies anyway reducing need for population, most of population don't get good education as teacher student ratio gets bad when try to teach bulk population & increasingly without education human resource is getting useless, expensive & poor healthcare both public and private, 10% population providing for subsidies and building infrastructure be it services road, water, electricity, housing, providing for politicians and babus corruption, No money for Research, organisations can get away exploiting labour specially middle class, weak law n order. Take for example here 5crores people fill form for railway clerk whereas Japan total population is less than 5cr and they have 5 trillion economy 30 yr earlier. So quantity is useless unless can be put to good use. 10 crores indian population which can have good education & health care is fare better than 120crores with none of it

[@beyondgoodandbad7019]

Your arguments were good but acharya ji is trying to give a new way of life ,this Indian society is too conservative and orthodox ,it doesn't even understand vedant PPL are getting married just like sheeps ,he wants to break this herd behaviour

[@sanhitakelkar3691]

The truth is marriages have been successful in lndian society only because of wife's unlimited sacrifices and adjustments. Many marriages in previous generations were sustaing due to the sacrificing and adjusting roles of ladies. Today's girls don't want to do that. They know it what their mothers, aunts, and senior sisters have gone through.

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

Stop eating cooked food....eat fruits...women will be free from kitchen and life will be good or do household chores.

[@nikitafernandes461]

So true a woman's role is main in a marriage because a woman makes the house A woman only sacrifices her career for her family, she sacrifices her work, her job life for a Child

[@nikitafernandes461]

So true 💯 maam Nowadays many girls who are working they are not willing to have kids

[@AbhishekKumar-xh7ic]

​@@nikitafernandes461please don't make your life hell, let's come together and fight with this marriage evil,so that we and other future generations can live peacefully like the European people especially the Nordic nations

[@soakinlife_11]

True

[@Gaurav4u22]

Sir, you probably misunderstood Acharya's talk. I guess what Acharya Prashant meant was marry a person with certain level of spirituality n maturity, but don't go after a person with lots of extreme wealth n good looks etc only. A spiritually inclined person will always have the resilience n maturity to understand his/her partner than a person who is rich n good looking but is lacking in maturity and wisdom. What Acharya meant was person literally higher in spirituality, not in wealth etc

[@ssca2z211]

Wo murkh...ak high spirituality pe hai to dusra to km ka hoga na....sab high wale dhundenge to high wala kyo krega marriage...use bhi phir aur high chahiye

[@atkareprathmesh14]

being a follower of both acharya prashant ji and amit sangwan ji, I agree to this video, bahot km log hote hai jinko shadi nhi krni chahiye. wo apna raasta khud dhund lete hai , naa hi wo kisi ke vdos dekhte hai, aam janta ke lie being unmarried will act as a poison.

[@sourabh_mishra]

Exactly

[@siddhantsingh7606]

That's exactly what acharya prashant said

[@dakshmehta]

Rightly said! 🙌

[@krox477]

aam janta Mane kya?

[@dipanchakrabarty1789]

Vaai yeh aam janta, yeh poison jo bhi bol rahe ho yeh ek prejudiced opinion hai, enquire and experiment karo toh kuch bhi sambhab hai. Agar kisi ko choti age se hi sikhaya jaaye ki happily jeene ko hai, saadi yaa phir baccha paida karni waloon cheez sab secondary hai, then yeh jansakhya 150 crore tak nehi pohochta jisme ham sab literally daabe huye hai, frustration ka mul karan hai yeh 1.5 billion people, overpopulation, unemployment, garibi, cheezon ka demand, land crisis itna sab kuch jhelne ke baad bhi itna immense suffering ke baad bhi agar koi baccha paida karna zaroori samjhe toh kya hi batana. Khud hi ham prithvi ko maar rahe hai, kisi bhi tark se. Already 480/sq k. Population density hai. Aur kitna chahte ho tum?? Ekdin yeh sab tark dete dete hi yeh nature humans ko hi tabah kar dega, extinct kar dega, woh kya accha hoga?? Woh hi shayad behatar hai tum jaise soch walon logo ke liye.

[@sandeepshivathaya]

Namaskar Guruji, I am atheist hindu as you said. I tried to worship, but i saw my mind is more peaceful, productive, happy when i dont worry about god. I had few family issues and it was spoiling my relationships with my wife and kids. All because of relatives, we were great earlier. We took a decision not to talk much with relatives and now we are great. Me and my wife talk like friends, we talk to kids have some fun all together, play with kids. We stopped all unrealistic expectations. We expect our kids to study average. And learn more on thinking, observing, happy so that they wont lose self confidence. Also i encourage them to do experiment and do mistakes rather than being correct.

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

You are wise.

[@ajeetkanaujiya2290]

👍🏻👍🏻

[@anjusingh5082]

You are right , our most of the issues in marriage created by unnecessary interference of relatives , always better to maintain a safe distance with them .

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

@@anjusingh5082 When you maintain a safe distance, they think you do not want to keep relation with them.

[@anjusingh5082]

@@ashitmukherjee5934 They should no their limits ( everyone has ), don’t interfere in others matter , neither allow them in your space .

[@annibhardwaj6914]

Marriage is a dead institution in the 21st century. But we have someone defending it, thank you, uncle. Everybody slams marriage, but we need people defending marriage. Hats off uncle. Albeit you are doing it to sell more real estate, which is not as good as equity as far as investment perspective is concerned.

[@annibhardwaj6914]

@dimplekataria406 marriage is dead because, you can be involved in relationships without a formal commitment

[@pandeyrajjesh1]

Hardly 1 percent is unmarried above 40... How come marriage is dead institution? Is there any logic or just immature comment of a unmarried person.

[@mahirtaneja6512]

​@@dimplekataria406gradually our society is welcoming all these types of live in relationship n all such things

[@annibhardwaj6914]

@pandeyrajjesh1 dimwit take. How many of these marriages would have happened or can survive without familial/societal values? How many people are producing helathy children

[@mohithart3824]

dying not dead, correction.

[@kalyanichatterjee1711]

You r talking sense. Today the youth is confused .Youth should know what to do and what not to do for own Good . Self control , sex education , discipline etc should be worked on .Seek righ information , and learn that there is a right time to do anything . Be , eating, studying , working ,sex , sleeping etc etc .🙏🙏 Patience , being responsible person, morality , values are important to work on before getting married . You r so right Sir , hope the young understand ..🙏👍❤️

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

Marriage ke mamle mein Prashant ji is a big zero.

[@rajendrameena150]

@@ashitmukherjee5934 or Global consumption ko rokne me big hero. which is the root cause of today's Environment change.

[@bhushan326]

@@ashitmukherjee5934 Are you happy with marriage in this inflation period. How about children education expenses, do you afford children admission in 'first class' education classes which cost nearly around Rs. 1crore from nursery to 12th standard period. or you are going to put children into low quality educations. Do you manage to earn smart enough in economic recessions and layoffs. These are the points Acharya Prashant putting in before thinking about marriage.

[@AbhishekKumar-xh7ic]

​@@bhushan326marriage=💩

[@AngshumanVI]

Sir, actually the problem is not marriage itself but the type and kinds of people that you will see around yourself. Nowadays, hookup culture is very prominent in India, and it is known that it is much easier for a girl to find a sexual partner more so than guys. So, the problem comes when two people end up in marriage who have had very different experiences which in turn would have shaped their perspectives. I turned 30 this year and by God's grace, I am doing reasonably well in life and I can tell you that nearly every girl in my age group (late 20s even) has quite a body count. Marriages work when two people are at least semi-interested in each other, but nowadays, many girls (mostly) are just looking to 'settle' with some guy while they themselves have nothing to offer but sex - and even then, that too is not much because they have had coitus with so many people that they are now bored. The problem now comes to boys who have grown up in conservative families or did not have a chance to have a relationship or had no chance for hookups due to being focused in their careers and earning money. When such a marriage happens, obviously it is bound to break. I don't disagree with anything you said, but at the same time, it is a fact that divorce rates in India have gone up in the last few years. Finally, the point you made about the leap of faith - to do that, you need to be reasonably certain about the other person, not that we will not have any problems with them, but at least they will not abandon us when the problem comes. And, it is hard to be sure of anyone those days. Once again, I am not discounting anything you said, but the quality of people has severely gone down in the recent years, so the one who is going to provide or is capable of providing would need to think twice before making themselves available to being exploited in the first place.

[@bradyoung804]

​@@AnimeshSinghweb Certainly, one needs to have standards to not accept anyone having partners in the past. Virginity in both men and women is a time tested requirement for marital success probabilistically. Moderns are such deniers of truths and hide behind words like compromise, acceptable blah etc...Won't work.

[@MrShagiFpv]

Every girl in your age group should be married under normal circumstances. If you are still unmarried that explains your over exaggeration, since it gets harder to find a partner after 30. You didn't mention if you are married, but I assume no because any married man won't have so much time, and would be happy and busy, not worried about body counts of women around. I rarely reply to comments like this, but I hope this message helps you. Please watch more of Amit sir's content as many doubts that you have he has already cleared in his previous videos, some public and some through his membership/webinars. Regards.

[@AngshumanVI]

@@MrShagiFpv Okay, so - yes, actually many girls I knew who were not into promiscuity and maintained a decent pre-marital life (no hookups, etc.) got arrange married already in their mid-20s. Now, coming to those in their late 20s, well, I was approached by many girls between 26-32 years, and upon doing some 'friendly' discussions, I figured that they either have had a very promiscuous past and were now just trying to find a 'safe' guy to settle down with, or they've had a breakup so bad that they haven't gotten over their exes. In both cases, they are emotionally used up (exhausted) and that is not the kind of partner you would want for marriage since it depends on both people to keep it going. Individually, I am doing quite well in my life, but I have worked hard to build myself career-wise, and any guy who has worked hard to become someone without any support from parents will not want just any girl to come into his life and f**k it up. Anyways, I am happy and busy individually - but the concept of body count is important, because there is an inverse correlation between the number of partners and the emotional availability of a person. And if you are going to be sticking with someone for life, you will obviously want that they are just as invested in the marriage as you are. Also, I think it is fine to not get married as long as someone isn't sure about it; as for the difficulty in finding partners, I don't know what is the case with girls, but for guys, if you are financially successful and have kept yourself even physically average/above average, you will have no problems finding a girl - given that you know how to make them laugh and talk.

[@jamannaman980]

@@AngshumanVI your thought process is partially twisted. Buddy, be careful that way you will never find anyone in life. It's your myth that only your hard work has got you where you are in your life. Success is an outcome of more than just hardwork. And so far as the girl is concerned, you seem to be looking down on everyone else while placing yourself on the topmost pedestal ! Problematic and narcissistic way of thinking

[@piak78]

@@AngshumanVI You are absolutely right!! Dating gurus and other people say that the persons past is not important. They didnt meet you back then. But this is a wrong conception. This phrase of forget the past was probably created by gangsters and murderers or rapists The past always predicts the future. Anybody who is habituated to flings and hookups doesnt change to sati savitri or sant mahatma overnight. The past is always an indication of what the other person is capable of doing in the future. So better focus on risk management and knock off people with a bad credit score in the sexual department or finances and character in general. Choose people who display less probability of going back to their original self. A Persons base character never changes.

[@simranseera9279]

A good marriage is a huge support in life. And making a marriage good or successful is not that difficult but definitely worth the efforts. Sir agree with you 💯.

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

Right

[@sukantasahoo4278]

Define a good marriage if possible?

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

@@sukantasahoo4278 A good marriage is a compromise for the welfare and peace of the children.

[@gaurawsingh5744]

1. Population control is necessary for saving earth 2. Marriage is also association. Association with bad life partner is like as hell 3. Selective marriage with good life partner is compulsory for peaceful life 4. Purpose of marriage is firstly spiritual, moral and psychological support for truthful life

[@krox477]

I disagree

[@siddhantsingh7606]

Once a girl said i don't want to marry but my parents are forcing me to do so, to which acharya prashant asked,why don't you wnat to get married to which she said just like that. Phir acharya Prashant ne kaha aiso ki toh shadi hoti hi h

[@sanskritiverma8010]

8:05 --Realistically speaking. 'Giving' to frendship me nhi hoti hai aajkal. Spouse to door ki bat hai. And by the way, largely women marry because of the 'bio clock' and men marry because 'Abe tu aur kya karega!?' Nobody is thinking 'I want my spouse to witness me giving birth and then raising kids and loosing a job and then finding another.' I know you're romanticizing it, but.... for an average man, 'marriage' is not optional, but its also not done out of the choice of heart. Its done because papaji keh rhe hain aur mosi ji keh rahi hain. 😶😶

[@utkarshpathak8268]

how can you generalise nobody is thinking on this level? bro i think you hang around average people. You dont know the people with kings mentality, change the 5 person you hang around with

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

Aur samjho.

[@varunmittal3617]

Right. AP trying to change it.

[@sandipdattaroy1984]

Thats the typical Hippi thinking 😅

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

@@hemangshrivastava9561 In your old age you will weep in loneliness.

[@sk-en8dv]

Many issues are present nowadays.. Earlier complexity in marriage were not that much. Now it's kinda of risky affair.. Aajkal to sbke Phrmaisy program hai.. Todha todha both parties should learn to sacrifice..Iss pr bhi bat honi chahiye ki marriage ko leke confusion itna kyu hua? Bss ye bol dene se ki shadi kr lo shadi nhi ho jati.. Kisi se bhi nhi kr skte.. Qki normal insan h to sonchna to pdega.. Bcz having lifepartner is one time affair.. Coins are not being tossed

[@MrShagiFpv]

Thankyou Sir for trying to spread clarity in the world of chaos. Your videos are a life changing and can reshape someone's mindset and save him from going a path of down fall. Keep your work going, kids like us do need to be taught true virtue in such manner.

[@coolthakur1]

Bilkul sir ji, you are leading from the front in educating all of us on social,financial and psychological issues. Shat shat 🙏

[@sajalboris]

This is what I looked in my parents and this is what we need. Thanks for making us aware sir. Respect❤

[@AJAY95952]

This is personal with acharya prashant.. 😂😂😂 Love this counter view.. ❤

[@parthamp4751]

You get married so that you have somebody to witness and share your journey with. These are golden words. I never realized this truth. Family ke andar ek doosre ka, bachhon ka journey appreciate karna hi life hai.

[@ssss91788]

Kya tha tumhari journey mein aisa jo share krana hai . Freedom fighter ho kya ho. Ek aam aadmi ki trh hi toh jee rhe ho usko kya golden words mein likhwana chahte ho

[@adityanihalkumarsingh2116]

bahut film dekhte ho beta 😂

[@amandeep2557]

Aisa kuch karke jao Jo dusre log bhi apko yaad rakhe.. apne liye to har koi jeeta hai ..

[@girijajoshi3419]

Sir, you have completely nailed this issue... all married and unmarried people should listen to this video... especially people who are considering speration/divorce

[@salaar75]

​@@hemangshrivastava9561According to you, how's your life going? Were you single all the time?

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

​@@hemangshrivastava9561so is that a achievement? Being married is also not a achievement but who has better experience and small fun of life.? And what great work you did? Did you fixed crooked laws of India?

[@ashuvijay7031]

​@hemangshrivastava9561 R u happy at present ?

[@FauziaPires]

With 140 crore population Indians don't need to force themselves in marriage.😊

[@Rishu_4912]

Congratulations your bloodline ends here😂 80 sal ki umar me jab marega to chita ko koi ag lgane wala nai milega

[@vaibhavchari8202]

​@@Rishu_4912Marne ke baad kaun sa pta chalega ki aag lagaya ki nhi ?

[@Rishu_4912]

@@vaibhavchari8202 mrne ka process hi itna darwana hai btadia to rat ko so nhi paoge

[@7teenseventeen]

​@@Rishu_4912 Apne matlab k liye jo bacche paida karte h wo fir unpe ehsan jatate h ki hamne ye Kiya humne wo kiya Matlab k liye bacche paida nahi krne chahiye ki Hume kon aag lagayega Marne k baad😂😂 Abe kya pata tumko tumhara end kaise hoga Aur baccha kya pata aaye ho nahi Marne k baad aag lagane To tumhara investment to doob gya fir 😂😂😂😂

[@amandeep2557]

​@Rishu_4912 yehi to sabse bada myth hai.. tumhari auladein tumhara sath in future uski bhi guarantee nhi.. Chita ko aag dena to dur ki baat h

[@rajendrameena150]

Sir actually you are right for general public and yes in the smoothly running world people should happily do marriage but Acharya prashant want a mass audience to support his work to save the earth otherwise why the men will sacrifice his life, left IIM and IAS opportunities. He see that family is the unit of consumption and without stopping it we cant get rid of current global crisis. I saw same perspective on marriage by Osho and concluded that spiritual teacher see marriage as hindrance in the path of life mainly. but sometimes they also support those 10% marriage like marriage of kabir, ramkrishna. Now it is up-to the people what to choose and not just follow what one says , i mean if the calling is coming from inside after gaining so much knowledge and experiences that this work can be carried out without marriage as marriage impose various responsibilities then you should do that. same can be said to bhagat singh who choose to die by his own and know one said him to become deshbhakt.

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

Are bhai world ki tension tu kaiko le riya hai...itti tension hai to PM ko direct bol ki India ke laws ko fix kare....tu bhai apni simple zindagi jeene pe focus kar na bhaia....kaiko itta load le riya hai re tu

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

Are yaar meena bhai hoke itta complex thoght process leke chal rya hai...kya yaar

[@prashantgoswami8720]

उसने कभी शादी के बारे में बात ही नहीं करी उन्होंने तो कभी भी मतलब जब कोई शादी के लिए पूछता भी था तो वह कहते ही थे कि मैं शादीशुदा नहीं हूं तुम गलती कर रहे हो मुझसे puchkar तुम्हारे पास आर्य जी बहुत ज्यादा ज्यादा बोलते हैं उसे चीज पर जो उन्होंने kiya hi nahi

[@sukantasahoo4278]

The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.-Albert Camus

[@anshu0110]

I love discomfort 🤠 Too much fun Too much adventure 🔥🔥🔥 . One Can't love anyone more than like an unmarried one

[@scienceenthusiast9858]

Yes . Life is struggle

[@SupriyaSinghLife]

Yes😊

[@ashuvijay7031]

Aap shadi karoge ya nahi ? Kya decision liya h

[@anshu0110]

@@ashuvijay7031 nhi

[@ashuvijay7031]

@@anshu0110 aap male ho ya female or aapne budape ka kya socha h or logo ko kya reply Dete ho ?

[@sushermurmur364]

Sir, what you said is true since thats how a society works. But what AP said is also true because he works for liberalization of a individuals consciousness. He didn't look down the marriage, he look down the marriages which is unconscious marriage.

[@deepjain4991]

I am big fan of you ....very very practical....we need more people like you ........ the so called spiritual gurus deviating from main topic and confusing people...

[@binayakchakraborty8193]

"144 crore hum aise hi chetna jaga ke nahin pahuche hai. Kuch aur bhi jaga hai humara" 😂😂😂 Sirji bahut naughty hai....

[@mahishri326]

Hats off to you sir... Along with yours, I am watching Aacharya Prashant videos from long time... I respect him very much but the topic which you discussed is just outstanding the same questions were arising in my mind also... And here I must say you are 100% right 👍

[@gaurawsingh5744]

😃😃😃 marriage means association..If you accompany with bad life partner....your life will be ruined...Vedant says, association with materialistic person is like as hell.

[@gaurawsingh5744]

Disagree... 1. Population control is necessary for saving earth 2. Marriage is also association. Association with bad life partner is like as hell 3. Selective marriage with good life partner is compulsory for peaceful life 4. Purpose of marriage is firstly spiritual, moral and psychological support for truthful life

[@poojachourasia562]

Being an old soul, I really appreciate your opinion Sir for clearing about Aacharya Prashant's wrong opinion about marriage, as being a girl I feel insecure if men will not marry and every men cannot be a sanyasi then they will get freedom to exploit women, they will have no fear of family and society

[@vijaylaxmi3305]

Jisne gul khilaanay hain woh marital knot mein rehkar bhi khila dete hain.

[@hopelove6001]

@@vijaylaxmi3305 baccho ka kya.. Relationship se janme baccho ki responsibility kaun uthayega..they will have to live with step parents.. Don't just think from one angle there are many variables to this equation..

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

You are right.

[@vijaylaxmi3305]

@@azadjain8534 95% loyal? In which world are you living in. The percentage of disloyals can be much higher than 50%. Everybody seems to be loyal until caught.

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

@@hopelove6001 You are right.Teach him.

[@ashishdhiman2007]

Thank you Sir , for clarity on this. Keep guiding us ❤

[@seer7152]

You are the antidote. Thank you for coming out to address these issues boldly. Your sarcasm is amazing. Your style of explaining adds special effect. Highest level of delivery. 👏👏👏

[@PRANSHU49]

Kya baat h sirji! You are truly India's Jordan Peterson :)

[@BALVINDER-Singh]

Few more Logical Guru Ji after watching all of your platinum membership content: 1. Suddenly you get respect in society and your family. 2. You not only get Deh ka sukh, you also get on time Tea, Food, clothes, clean house emotional support, moral support and etc. 3. You also get a single partner lifelong to help you each other. 4. You get to know how to handle responsibility for your family. 4. You get to know about sukh and dukh. ऐसे 50 पॉजिटिव reason or hai. और अगर हमारे parents भी शादी नही।करते तो वो कहा से आते हम कहा से आते।

[@kanchanmoon777]

& the myth is nowadays married couple doesn't gets respect . Most people pitty over married couples , rest of the world doesn't even care about the two people as couple. Respect is given more generally for the position of job if anybody is getting these days !!

[@BALVINDER-Singh]

@@ghanshyam1990 Sir kai Gadhe paise le ke ghoom rahe hai duniya. Please check.

[@ashuvijay7031]

Bhai dukh hi to sahan nahi hote...! Asli problem hi vahi h

[@pratap2975]

Sir,please don't skip this comment Acharya prashant always focusses on one's liberation. You were saying that marriage is an important constitution of everyone's life but the reality is different *Answer my question* If two parents,who are not enough self-realised raise a child,then mental well-being of the child gets affected,and they evolve that child in their own terms without any conscience[now you may quote about those people who achieved the highest even though his/her parents were not so self-realised,and these kind of people only account for 1 percent of the population,that too achieved success by their own endless efforts with a little support from their parents] Do you think the relationship between parents and children is love❤? Most of the cases,It is just the attachment to each other that drives them together,the parents keep on investing upon the child for his/her needs like health,food,clothes,education etc. This *investment of money upon children creates attachment* This ignorant parents who are only attached to their children force them to follow the career paths which are lucrative in this era which return-invest the money that they have spent upon him/her and people consider this whole phenomenon as love[this is what happens when there is no love and the relationship is mere a attachment] Again these are the children who die by suicide during their youth thinking that they haven't fulfilled their parents' desires And you may argue with an example for love saying how a mother feeds their children by sacrificing her needs--this is also just a attachment which resulted from the social conditioning with which we are surrounded by. This is what happens when the parents aren't self-realised Here don't think self realisation to be any spiritual or a religious term,it is just about knowing one's own self about where he wants to go,and have crystal clear idea on why he is chasing that goal This is my straight question to you,sir-Was your respect towards your elder siblings/parents remained the same after you became financially independent??? You might say no, but when you introspect through the real world,you will come to know how mercilessly few people who became financially independent are leaving their parents in the old-age homes and where has the love gone b/w parents and children there after? The actual reason that there was no love at all between both parents and children[either sides] It was mere a attachment This is how pathetic the relationships are! When you marry without any conscience and this conscience comes from deep self-realisation This is what I have understood from acharys prashant's videos after watching hundreds of them

[@SK-hg1pb]

'If two parents, who are not enough "self-realised"' self realised - that is where Prashant brain washes people. Sorry to be so blunt, but that is my opinion

[@akashyadav1335]

Agreed

[@akashyadav1335]

​@@AnimeshSinghweb There's no bigger crime in the World Than Giving Birth.

[@allinone518]

Exactly bhai inko bass inki course bechani hai platinum subscription vali😂😂😂😂 aur inko lag raha hai shadi band padegi toh mera dukan bhi band hoga.

[@pratap2975]

@@AnimeshSinghweb everything of what you depicted is fine but how can you stay being unwrenched even after watching those senseless parents exploiting their kids for their own benefits?

[@soumendash3911]

Sir yahan to app membership se zyada knowledge de dediya. 🙏🏼 Thank you

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

Amit sir ji is very liberal.

[@broseph4677]

guruji shadi toh krne ka bahut man hai but kaise karu agar parents ko bola directly for arrange marriage and vo ignore krdein bas even when iam making 40-50k a month and online matrimony is waste of time , how to find a partner ? iam 24 years old man

[@jayzxd4400]

40-50 k isn't enough brother marriage is not a game. Earlier 50 k were enough but now 1 lakh is essential to do marriages

[@Travel_Junkie007]

​@@jayzxd44001:14 u make 10 lakh then also won't be satisfied

[@raspberrypaper3562]

One gets married for emotional fulfilment and companionship which of cours cannot be equal on daily basis. But what does one do when one is faced with exploration and red flags right at the beginning of an alliance? Everyone has expectations form their life which they want to fulfill. Some can be compromised upon but not all. Your core values need to align. Just like in your video about joint families, I have refused alliances because I have had an extremely independent upbringing and they wanted me to give up my career and move cities and stay in a joint family. I am not okay with that. And yes people do change with time. But Sir, your upbringing doesn’t. If someone has been taught to value relationships, then the present times are extremely troublesome for such souls. Because finding people with morals and values is next to impossible. Why would one turn a blind eye and enter an alliance just to take a chance? Ask those people who are facing divorce or have gotten divorced because of this. Now what? I am not saying that don’t get married. But equal give and take and alignment should be there is terms of values, commitment and honesty. Rest today someone likes dal. After 5 years they might not eat dal at all and that’s ok. That’s really not an issue. Rushing into marriage is not advised for anyone. But deliberately rejecting alliances just for the heck of it also is not advised.

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

Keep following acharya pareshan

[@aditya-ml6km]

How are you going to live a married life if both partners live in different cities? LOL Isn't this logical?

[@AKANKSHYAChoudhury-km3oo]

Great Mag, excellent clarity giving video for youth in present and future generation

[@rhythm_budz]

Sir ye taking stanatan Dharma to kitab wala agle is unique... Great observation.

[@abcxyz9783]

I admire you for taking on the powerful when they openly give impractical advice.

[@nasimparvej418]

Normally I don't do comments sir however I want share my opinion and understanding about "marrying someone who can take to a higher state". It is obvious that if you want to marry someone who is financially or by education or by position is on higher state then for that person who is going to marry you who is below his/her state would be something that will not be matching the criteria. It is so simple to understand and is actually adopted in our very society. Fact I think you might missed out here sir is that, "Marrying someone who can take to a higher position/state" isn't about marrying to a person who is in higher state/position. Its about pairing up with a person whose companionship can boost all the good aspects, good vibes, potential, knowledge & creativity of both of companions. Please forgive me if I hurt you.. Namaste n Pranam Sir

[@ektaupadhyay-d9r]

सही कहा गुरु जी आपने क्युकी आचार्य प्रशांत जी की वीडियो देख कर धीरे धीरे,, मैं अपने अच्छे खासे मैरिड लाइफ में सस्पेंस करने लगी थी मेरे हसबैंड एक बहुत अच्छे इंसान है अच्छे जॉब में है केयरिंग लविंग और फैमिली बैलेंस करना सारी क्वालिटी है मेरे लिए सब कुछ करने के बाद जब वो मुझसे फिजिकल की बात करते तो मुझे आचार्य प्रशांत की बाद याद आ जाती और वो विलेन लगने लगते ,,मैं यही सोचती की ऐसे इंसान जो सबके लिए परफेक्ट है बस मेरे से क्यू लेकिन आपकी वीडियो देखकर समझ आया ये तो हम दोनो को need हैं जो की अच्छी बात समझना है वरना हमारे बीच में कोई और आ जायेगा थैंक यू आर टॉपिक पर वीडियो बनाने के लिए

[@shyam152]

guruji super clarity given ....thank u very much , but how can we save ourself from prashant kishore type people because everywhere clarity giving people like you are not available..

[@sudeshchawla3501]

No doubt Archarya Prashant ji is the best❤

[@SarojTudu-li5xe]

Best analysis Sir ,thanks for the guidance. 🙏🙏🙏

[@kalyani9806]

Sir, all your points are very perfect, valid and shuts all the other opposite views. Thank you and please make videos to inspire and show right path to our youth.

[@nandinimutreja9540]

It is very amusing to see that someone is so practical & logical in your age. I wish all elderly people watch your videos & take some inspiration 🙏🙏

[@accessashutosh]

Prashant ji ki kafi baate logical nahi hai, he sounds misogynistic also lot of times. I just skip his videos now. You very correctly analyzed his views. 👍 Thanks Sir.

[@love52596]

mere dada ji mere paida hone k pehle hi chale gye thee, par unki kami aapne puri kr di.... like a grandfather guide his grandson ,,, love you a lot sir ☺☺

[@DrSwatiArora-ym7dh]

very well said sir....every one should get married and carry it with honesty and love then really it is the pleasure, which can not express in words

[@helloworld2054]

@@hemangshrivastava9561 mad respect to you

[@hellachan8080]

​@@hemangshrivastava9561🫡 respect brother. I wish you good health.❤

[@MrSubha.]

Things should be taken easily and enjoyed. But problem is society and laws make it tough for both bride and groom to take undue pressure even at the cost of their life

[@himanshuverma3984]

Sir, Delhi-NCR, Bangalore ki ldkiya dekh kr to mujhe ab ladkiyo pe trust to raha nahi. Or aap jesa bol rhe hai mene to shadi me ladkiyo ko yahi sochte huye dekha hai ki ab pati mujhe kuch materialistic gains krke dega. Or jb unka bhram tut-ta hai shadi k baad, tb faltu wale jhagde or kich-kich shuru ho jati hai. I'm not against marriage at all, it' just that I'm born in the wrong generation.

[@Cuedope]

Delhi ncr ki hi acchi lagegi toh trust kaise ayega gaw ,( village ,) ki ladkiya dekho kitni sabhey hai....ladki aisi jagha dekhogay toh dimag ki padel hi milegi

[@abcxyz9783]

I love the clarity of thought you possess.

[@Jaiswal2212]

Listening to you regularly has really made a big difference in my life....tahe dil se aapka dhanyawaad sango sir

[@dilipbavdekar2953]

ऋणं कृत्वा,घृतं पिबेत्--चार्वाक नीती... यह भी सनातन धर्म में चलता है,आजभी....😂

[@saurabhkathpalia3638]

Superb Video Sir.. this video was much needed, considering where youth is headed.. you are doing great work..I am glad I came across your channel..

[@GouravTheQuester]

ये आचार्य प्रशांत को कुछ साल पहले तक देखता था... गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांतों की मुझे अच्छी समझ है इसीलिए जब उन मूलभूत सिद्धांतों से उनकी बातों का विग्रह दिखा तो समझ आया कि जो आदमी गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांत ठीक से नहीं समझ पाया वो मुझे कौनसा दार्शनिक ज्ञान दे देगा।😅

[@pradeepkumarsatapathy6391]

मे भी आचार्य जी की बातें सुनना चाहता हूँ क्या वो गलत अर्थ बताते हैं? क्या है गीता की असली अर्थ और सारांश??

[@pradeepkumarsatapathy6391]

मुलभुत बात क्या है गीता की जो आचार्य जी नहीं बोलते है, कहाँ चूक हो रही है?

[@abcxyz9783]

Your advice is so hard hitting.

[@Suchitra99]

Very well explained! You have summarized it clearly.

[@NamasteChatterjeefamily]

Agree on every point. Westnize ho gaya hai indian mindset of young generations. Don't judge every failed or fight in a marriage as your future. Take proper decision and try to resolve. Social media ko dekh k decide karke marriage expectation and nautankiyan. Dekhlo aadho k divorse ho rhe hai. Coz shosha baji jyada thi Fake and false expectations are wrong on both side of couple. Talk and talk and try to resolve. You cannot rely on friends or gf/bfs all life. You need someone to take care for the whole life you have. Jhagda toh gharwalo k sath bhi hota hai bhai behen mein hota hai. But divorce lena husband wife ka not a solution.

[@khushikhan6839]

Mere paas words nahi hai aapki taarif karne k liye . Soooooooo truuuuee . Aap hero ho really .bahut sach . BIG TRUTH .

[@SimplifyingTechh]

Atleast aapko growth ke liye ad toh nhi chalani pad rahi, aapke channel ki organic growth ho rahi hi

[@prabhaschandrabagdi1651]

Family run nahi kar paunga. Isliye maine Sadi nahi ki hai. 42 yrs age . Kya Mai galti kar Raha hu sir? Reply please 🙏

[@ashuvijay7031]

Aap khush ho kya abhi

[@prabhaschandrabagdi1651]

@@ashuvijay7031 abhi to khush hu. Lekin future me jab main bimar pad jaunga tab mera dekhbhal kaun karega, ye soch kar parisan ho raha hu bhaiya..

[@mahanbharatiyasabhyata3834]

Aap acharya prashant ki baat samjhe hi nehi😢

[@SwatiBajpai8]

Sir, absolutely love how you dive into explanations. Glad I came across your channel

[@vaishalipathak9949]

I really appreciate by making these videos you are saving last brick of fragile society but I would say that you consult over practicality just add some logic to it as well.

[@ssca2z211]

Completely agree with ur points

[@sanskritiverma8010]

14:12 LOVE this point!

[@stocksattva]

Speechless superb ..........

[@Philosopherbilla]

I remember once my teacher saying casually one day …. Shadi ko kala paani ki saja maan k karo , fir to agar kuch thoda achha hua to achha lgega aur agar pahle bahut se sapne saja k jaa rhe ho to you will be disappointed!!! AP is incredible, when he targets such topics , he mainly focuses on the condition of women after marriage. Societal or physical , changes happen in women only after marriage. Hence she suffers in her career and other areas of her life. He is spiritual teacher. He talks about spiritual enrichment of people rather than worldly affairs. His path is not for everybody. One , who wants to grow spiritually, usko wo bolte hain ki pahle to apne sansarik bandhano ko kam karo tab to man shant rahega spirituality k liye. Baaki jo karna chahte hain shadi aur nibhana chahte hain duniyadari , usko pakad thode rakha hai unhone !

[@pabubhai3041]

After watching only two videos i am a big fan of yours now.thanku sir .people like u are the last hope of our society

[@Palmpalm111]

Sir with all die respect, many of us are high vibration beings that are on the last leg of our earthly existence. Many of us didn’t want to be born but were sent here on a mission. This society logic does not apply to us. Acharya Prashant us one of us. We are inherently free beings and understand freedom on a very deep level. Earthly matters including how society functions do not apply to us. Man made rules are just that- man made.

[@nishantshukla1888]

Bhai kaun keh raha ke shaadi mat karo.. jiko mukti aur vedant se prem hai wo sab baaten unko liye hai.. Jinko nahi hai mukti se prem woh to kar hi rahe hai..aur aage bhi karenge.. Jinke liye mukti param hai unke liye vedant hai,,.

[@priyaanshumanbs8444]

Sir ...kitni baar dil jeetogye.....har video mein dil jeet lete ho...pranaam...guru dev....1000 bhatakane wale mein sahi raasta dikhane wale...bhagwan❤...bhot bhot abhaar...

[@amrit_one]

I don't know much about Prashant and I don't know much about you.. whoever you are. But I think there are 4 types of people in marriage or single category : 1. They are married and are very happy in their married life . 2. They are married and are very unhappy in their married life , they suffer everyday in marriage and got stuck. 3. They are single but unhappy & unsatisfied in life. 4. They are single and are very happy , satisfied and enjoying daily life. So one type of this person can't impose his way of life on others. Solution - Spirituality or self-awareness or self-knowledge . Most importantly this guy in video wants to impose his beliefs system on people.Very wrong.

[@jamimazada7428]

Ap sansarik ho aur acharyaji adhyatmik hai. Maine shadi ki aur waise rahi jaise apne bataya. Ek din bhi sukhi nahi rahi. Talaq hua tab bhi dukhi thi. Lekin acharyaji ko follow karne se life achi ho gai hai Acharyaji ka level apse bahut upar hai. Please don't compare yourself to acharyaji. Apki aukat nahi hai budhe.

[@dimplemehta3877]

Sir, really thabks for your vidoes, hope gujju boys listen this vidoe and understand that girls are not like their mom especially working wife

[@mrtriyja7800]

We don't need a working wife. Do your work only.

[@Saurabhdwivedy]

No marriage, No Tension

[@madhavijwalesh]

After longtime, heard someone support marriage in right way

[@kumarkeshavj]

तूने आचार्य प्रशांत के बातों को समझा ही नहीं। सिर्फ उम्र ही समझदारी की गारंटी नहीं होती। विवाह के संबंध में जो आचार्य जी कहते है वो एक एक उच्च स्तरीय बात है कि ऐसे से करो जो तुम्हे ऊपर उठा दें। खैर जिंदगी पूरी भोग में गुजार दी अंधेरे में गुजार दी अब कोई आईना दिखाएगा तो भड़ास तो निकालोगे। निकालते रहो चिच्चा, कुछ दिन धरती पर शेष रह गए हैं भोग में ही लिप्त रहो और युवाओं को भटकाओ 😂😂

[@hiteshtekchandani158]

Love you sir ❤ your knowledge is amazing and continue this awareness programs

[@Peacewithin97]

Now this is what we call as an open mind and not blindly following someone brilliant sir!

[@Bhaktinn]

Yes Sir You are great social worker🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@hrshshhh]

Family nahi hogi toh life ka matlab nahi hoga

[@Raju-qf4is]

Karate ho kya debate isi mudde par.har jaoge

[@ajayzingade4600]

Yes Amit Sangwan ji you are Antidote to the society I understand your words and logic you share with us.

[@Palmpalm111]

But how can one comment on the institution without having experienced it? These days people have power to move out, hence they are. Earlier people didn’t have that power. Marriage is bondage.

[@rivertells8876]

Untill you are vairagi, you should enter grihastha ashram to understand the life. Marriage gives your a clear perspective of your existence.

[@aryushsingh5724]

Great Video Sango uncle ,each word mentioned in the video is correct.I respect Acharya Prasant and his ideology, and I will continue to watch his videos. However, when it comes to the matter of marriage, we need to be practical considering the current world's situation. I know what it feels like as it happened to my cousin brother, who was brainwashed by watching Shri Acharya Prasant's video and denied any marriage. The whole family was worried, but by God's grace, he somehow got married, and now he is leading a happy and cheerful life. What I am trying to say is that I also watch Sango uncle's videos or any other youtuber, but I don't blindly follow any of them. I use my critical thinking with an open perspective based on my life's practical experiences. Nowadays, KZbin videos have a lot of information, but ultimately, it depends on us whether we can question if the following KZbinr is correct. Be aware of what you're watching. Have a great life! Cheers.

[@AahnaSharma-r6s]

Dear sir, you are not against Aacharya ji, you are actually in a favour of marriages whose base is only physical body, specially in INDIA. Acharya ji says: marriage is a union of 2 souls. So children could be a part of the souls or not be.(not mandatory) Your old thinking is : if marriages happen then children has to be a part of it. प्रेम तो उन महापुरुषों ने किआ जिनको बदले में कुछ न मिला जैसे मीरा, बुद्धा, महावीर, वीर जवान को देश के लिए अपनी क़ुरबानी देते है

[@mswr3351]

Marriage is a commitment.. commitment means you do everything to make it work.. repair the things try to understand.. but again marriage requires both parties to work on it.. ek ko chhod k jana hai to u can’t do anything..

[@rekhaseervi6944]

जो शादी नहीं करते वो ज्यादा दिन तक अपने इमोशन को नहीं संभाल सकते हैं और फिर वो सारे कांड करते अफेयर, रेप आदि

[@vijaylaxmi3305]

Jo karte bhi hain woh bhi doodh ke dhulay nahi. Married ones are even one step further.

[@fatmanfrommillennium7369]

सही कहा , मां बाप के चले जाने के बाद अकेलापन ही इंसान को खा जाता है। कई तरह के मानसिक रोग होने का खतरा रहता है । जाहिल समझते है शादी केवल पैसे और सेक्स के लिए की जाती है।

[@kalpanasharma301]

Achcha insan khud ko achcha bana sakta h dusro ko nahi.....i m big fan achary prashant n u ....achary ji ne hame darr se bahar nikala aur aap ki clarity ne jeena sikhaya....darke nahi jeena ab....aap women ki baat ko clarity do to jaane....kuchh jyada hi ho gaya ....ham bhi dono se gyan leke isi duniya mast jeeke dikhayenge.....saty dono hi nahi sweekaroge

[@monikasharma1818]

Worst part of this video is he is only countering acharya Prashant statement but not describing as per topic

[@galaxyenglishacademy]

Guru ji, you are awesome!

[@namratanayyar]

100% agree with leap of faith and when you are ready to give then you should marry. I married on just these 2 factors, and I am very happy I made that decision. :)

[@paritoshdixit4306]

बहुत अच्छा कहा। तर्क संगत बात कही। उलझे हुए दिमागो की वजह से खजुराहो बनाना पड़ा और कामसूत्र लिखना पड़ा।

[@Black_Cats_]

Very very well said. Thank you for your contribution to society ❤

[@abhirajshrivastava9587]

To the point sirji. Apke points satisfy karte hai kyunki ye sustainable hai. Win win situation rehti hai sabke liye. No dominance required for anything.

[@madhavijwalesh]

So well said. Hinduism is deepest ,

[@anilpatel0209]

Bhai Gajab Ye Sab mere sath Hua Abhi Marriage Kar liya hai bhai Ek Daad Perfect hai

[@sahniharsimran]

You r right. I am a katha wachak from punjab. You r saying according to vedas,granths . These acharya people are making their business.

[@StudyTalkWithAshima]

Clarity .!! Thank you and please continue on this phenomena.