Shwetabh DESTROYS feminist calling housewives maids

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Shwetabh Gangwar

Shwetabh Gangwar

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@ShwetabhGangwar1
@ShwetabhGangwar1 Жыл бұрын
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@rohitbhosale8302
@rohitbhosale8302 Жыл бұрын
How Can we fight sexual urges with out having girlfriend
@AyanKeGayan
@AyanKeGayan Жыл бұрын
domestic violence and exploitation and less flexibility of women as compared to men can be happen in this scenerio
@carbonic9115
@carbonic9115 Жыл бұрын
Hey shwetabh i wrote this comment because there is a higher chance of you seeing this, as you uploaded the video just now. I admire and respect you a lot, and you are the one who taught me "how to think". Your video on suicidal thoughts saved me from self harm. Thanks a lot for everything you have put on youtube.
@arsh6572
@arsh6572 Жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing well buddy, take care. Don't ever hesitate from reaching out for help or talking to anyone about this obviously given that you're comfortable enough with the other person. Cheers!
@carbonic9115
@carbonic9115 Жыл бұрын
@@arsh6572 yes i am at a considerably better place right now , thanks brother :)
@Qwe-lg1ej
@Qwe-lg1ej Жыл бұрын
Lol she's crying coz her untalented friends married rich guys n she didn't coz of her feminist pride induced by Western women😂😂😂😂
@arsh6572
@arsh6572 Жыл бұрын
@@carbonic9115 good to know that man, keep on growing
@TheCosmopolitanHefty
@TheCosmopolitanHefty Жыл бұрын
good luck my G. do great things and make it big. Cheer from Uttarakhand though!
@manumudgal4988
@manumudgal4988 Жыл бұрын
Neither being a housewife or being a maid is a matter of shame. Both are service providers in families and many people would not be able to do a thing about them.
@aerah76
@aerah76 Жыл бұрын
Being a housewife is much more than that. Doing the household chores and cooking for the kids and the person you love. Housewives need to be respected. Of course along with maids. Edit : I feel bad for the people replying in this comment section who believe job is the only thing based on which a person should be respected. Having moral values like integrity, loyalty, kindness deserve respect as well.
@brokepeopleshouldneverlaug1576
@brokepeopleshouldneverlaug1576 Жыл бұрын
yes very true
@indiangenius8574
@indiangenius8574 Жыл бұрын
​@@aerah76correct
@souvikmitra6161
@souvikmitra6161 Жыл бұрын
EVERY profession, including housewives who actually work on their family and house to maintain it beautifully should be praised. My grandma was a housewife but she LITERALLY built her family of a rather timid and pushover (and sexist) husband and three daughters, raised them by her own strength, then had to face the horror of losing two of those three in different incidents and yet raised me. There's a reason why I'll NEVER take housewives lightly. She's my inspiration.
@uvuvwevwevweossaswithglasses
@uvuvwevwevweossaswithglasses Жыл бұрын
Skilled professionals and Blue collar MUST be treated with respect more than White collar workers. That's what they teach in Japan in KG schools. Moral values in early-stage childhood go a long long way in creating a very good society
@Jdiodkdndggs
@Jdiodkdndggs Жыл бұрын
Totally true!!! Housework and housewives are underrated. People should live and let live. I'm working, can't think of simultaneously doing house chores. It's really exhaustive.
@damn7637
@damn7637 Жыл бұрын
​​@@upasana4124can you explain how to convience my wife for no kid.... She becomes arrogant and senseless when I say I don't want kid and we both shouldnt have kids bcoz is not worth it .. We can lead a better life without them, far better...I earn much more enough to have babies but I can't exhaust myself and I have been saying this to her for years now... We are married for 2 years... Can you say how your partner convienced you??
@happinessyt5481
@happinessyt5481 Жыл бұрын
@@upasana4124 my mother is one such you described in your last sentence
@freezingmoon5415
@freezingmoon5415 Жыл бұрын
Well, but think if your husband was an abusive one and you had to leave but can't because you were not financially independent then your life will be destroyed. You need to have an earning to stand on your grounds.
@saurabhdixit1987
@saurabhdixit1987 Жыл бұрын
I am in USA. Everyone guys and girls are trained from childhood to do housework. Everyone does it here by themselves and much much better than average Indian households. People here also keep there environment clean
@souventudu2
@souventudu2 3 ай бұрын
​@@saurabhdixit1987 They're more civilized This sentence came up
@chanchalsinha-tv4ir
@chanchalsinha-tv4ir 7 ай бұрын
Now our gov is also trying to include house works under paid work, And already mentioned all the points related to it earlier👍
@bosepooja
@bosepooja Жыл бұрын
Kudos to you to explain the importance of a homemaker so perfectly... TRUE FEMINIST 👍
@Nixter636
@Nixter636 Жыл бұрын
You are doing best thing you can see your child grow job walo ke baccho ko dekhna most of time they don't have connection with there parants house wife valuable asset hai
@purvii2371
@purvii2371 9 ай бұрын
​@@Nixter636 Ohh c'mon, you can't decide what's the "valuable asset" of women on internet. You can't judge working women and decide worth of women bruh. Everyone has their own choices and have their own definition of "valuable life". For me, being financially independent might be hard but it's more worthy as women are receiving respect, freedom, can get out of the torture, cheating or any wrong situation and can make their own decisions.
@Vdesd
@Vdesd 6 ай бұрын
​@@purvii2371true sister❤
@gauravgvn9229
@gauravgvn9229 Жыл бұрын
Swetabh posting consistently is honestly motivating
@aneiy
@aneiy Жыл бұрын
Fr fr!
@itsDhruvChauhan
@itsDhruvChauhan Жыл бұрын
True 👌
@togireall
@togireall Жыл бұрын
same man!
@aryansingh-zc8wb
@aryansingh-zc8wb Жыл бұрын
shwetabh bhai ne Attack mode liya hai isiliye systematically kaam kr rhe hai
@swapnilsharma3727
@swapnilsharma3727 Жыл бұрын
Real
@hayatbai8460
@hayatbai8460 Жыл бұрын
*Serving your corporate boss is empowering but doing household chores for your husband and kids is demeaning,feminism alright*
@freezingmoon5415
@freezingmoon5415 Жыл бұрын
Nope, that's not the point the girl wanted to make. Her point is financial independence. Lol, can you get money by doing household works??
@tutul6918
@tutul6918 Жыл бұрын
Rightly said how can working for someone be empowering. You are doing slavery to your company. Hw can slavery be empowering?True independence lies in being mentally and physically fit and be ready to get out of toxic corporate work culture and work as an entrepreneur
@diptiranjannayak8892
@diptiranjannayak8892 Жыл бұрын
@@freezingmoon5415so basically u r saying u want to get paid to raise your kid ?? Good luck lol 😂
@freezingmoon5415
@freezingmoon5415 Жыл бұрын
@@diptiranjannayak8892 Lol, typical Uneducated North Indian here. I never mentioned I or the person want to get paid for raising kids. I will do job or business to get money so that I will become an independent women. I won't depend on my husband and can even feed myself if I have divorce.
@prateek18837
@prateek18837 Жыл бұрын
​@@freezingmoon5415wow... You wanna get paid for raising your own kids & doing housechores😂😂😂😂 wanna get more low ??? Maybe say same thing to ur parents or firstly save a bunch of money to get ur mom paid first !! She didn't fot her salary since years you've never helped in your home & why not keep an housemaid for 24/7 service😂😂
@meghakumari6137
@meghakumari6137 Жыл бұрын
I use to have similar thoughts like the girl in my teenage years...but now after doing house work daily, maintaining everything, not ignoring the micro details ...i have great respect for my mother...and now i can see the monetary quantification of what mothers do...
@freezingmoon5415
@freezingmoon5415 Жыл бұрын
The thing is you can't earn money by doing household works. But, you need money to feed yourself and cover up the expenses for basic necessities of life Lol.
@ibnebatuta4868
@ibnebatuta4868 Жыл бұрын
being a business woman and being the boss of your own business, or freelancing too sometimes is the ultimate greatness when it comes to personal independence And what if one is working under female boss, then it's a bit fine too Lastly, I think love is the responsibility, the person you love, their body, their soul, their heart, their necessaties, their money necessaties all are your responsibility, the responsibility to protect them etc etc, each and everything is your responsibility, of course they can themselves take care of them but it's your responsibility too Be it your brother, father, mother, husband, son, daughter, friend or anyother person whom you say you love But they are your responsibility till they don't take you for granted, And thing is it's not feminists who talk bad about housewives, it's the people, society, husbands and children who take their housewife highly for granted, the amount of powerlessness housewives used to have for centuries, we all know that shitt Society lowers the value of a human when they take their job and responsibility lightly and for granted For granted means for granted and less amount of respect than the husband, less amount of power and authority over children and in the house than the husband, and likewise children respect their housewife mothers lesser than their fathers, and debate with me on that, we all know deep down that it is similar to what I said, these all things plays small parts in making the position of a housewife lower Similar to what a position of labourer is in comparison to CEO It's the fact, I'm a Muslim, and even in my religion Allah has made the position of a housewife lower than the bread-earner So, just go and earn, that's your responsibility to your own self and coming to love, take it as a responsibility too and the people who claim to love you in return should also not take you for granted, and should care about your mental health in return, simple 💯🙌
@PartiallyAnonymous456
@PartiallyAnonymous456 2 ай бұрын
​@@freezingmoon5415lmao so now you want money to raise your own baby ?
@ByakuyaKuchiki006
@ByakuyaKuchiki006 Жыл бұрын
Clearly the female author is jealous of her classmates
@RamanSingh-zo5hf
@RamanSingh-zo5hf Жыл бұрын
Stop disrespecting authors by calling that dmbfck an author 🤣
@jijoignatius6212
@jijoignatius6212 Жыл бұрын
She is clearly jealous that her friend is living comfortably than her
@ByakuyaKuchiki006
@ByakuyaKuchiki006 Жыл бұрын
@@RamanSingh-zo5hf can't afford to be out of words 😂
@souventudu2
@souventudu2 3 ай бұрын
No It's about women who don't study
@PartiallyAnonymous456
@PartiallyAnonymous456 2 ай бұрын
​@@souventudu2 no it's not, the way she is projecting and disrespecting people who don't align to her status of "work and contribution" , it clearly indicates she is butt-hurt because of the happiness of her peers .
@garima9719
@garima9719 Жыл бұрын
Bro you are right household work is really very exhausting and draining 😥😥 I am realizing this now, when my mom is out of station from last 2-3 days
@littlemissmuffet1239
@littlemissmuffet1239 Жыл бұрын
I was working for fifteen years and was earning very well.I gave up my job to take care of my babies and husband .It is extremely exhausting and as I am settled in Europe it is really expensive to keep a maid .My husband is European and they don’t have the culture of keeping maids until old age and start to help doing house chores since small and so he is very good in helping me because he was raised like that.I really appreciate how you understood the wives especially who don’t go to work but working the whole day at home.
@Shaurya1203
@Shaurya1203 Ай бұрын
thats what ppl dont understand the value of work which housewifes do . i hve been seeing my mom from childhood and the work she does without any money or salary is great. i hve immense respect for my mother how she has sacrificed so many things for the happiness of her family!
@adityasarda5118
@adityasarda5118 Жыл бұрын
Huge respect to all the caretakers of our homes. It's been 8 months since I have moved away from India for my further studies and trust me guys when I say this, HOUSEWORK is the probably the most time consuming and tiring out job & still I am not able to keep my home clean even close to my mother standards. Shewtabh is right when he said hame apne aas paas ki cheezo ki kadar hi nhi hai. And watching this just saddens me ki we have forgotten our values and becoming so individualistic and self-centered. Thank you for the video Shwetabh!🙏🙏
@lonewolf8644
@lonewolf8644 Жыл бұрын
Ok toh apne mummy ko diary milk gift karo
@leo-zh4zv
@leo-zh4zv Жыл бұрын
Woman1: i work for my boss who hates me. Feminist: such a strong and independent woman! Woman2: i work for my family who loves me. Feminist (jealous mode): You're being oppressed and degraded!
@ruhashashayed8245
@ruhashashayed8245 Жыл бұрын
Leo , aapke boss aapko hate karte hain eska matlab ye nahi ki saare boss waise hi hain , aur job karne se paise milte hain , aur house wife ki kitni izzat hai India me ye sab jaante hain , urban area ke amiro ko kuch nahi jhelna parta wo apni marzi se zindagi jite hain , jab maao ko khana nahi banana hota ghar kaam nahi karna hota to wo sochti hain bahu le aate hain ghar ka kaam bhi karegi aur khana bhi bana degi pair bhi daba degi , bina paid permanent maid .
@debjyotimandal6661
@debjyotimandal6661 Жыл бұрын
@@ruhashashayed8245 how many maids can afford middle-class lifestyle? So how is housewives not paid when all her bills are paid by husband long after she have stopped working! About respect..on a family function if husband wears 10k worth of garment wife wears worth at least 1 lack worth of things! In court only the wife's testimony is believed! Dogs are grateful! Women are not!
@ruhashashayed8245
@ruhashashayed8245 Жыл бұрын
@@debjyotimandal6661 Agar life style me hi jana hai to majority of Indians zameen jaidad rakhne me believe karte hain wo sochte hain aisho aaram karne se aacha baccho ke liye ya future emergency ke liye rakha jaye , aur ghar kaam me help karne wali helper 2 time sirf khana banana ka 8 se 10 hajaar leti hain jharu pocha alag aur ye gav ki baat kar rahi hoon Main, pati apni kamayi se muft me kuch nahi deta dahej le chuka hota hai , aage bhi patni ke maike se gifs aate rehte hain festivals ya Shadi function, party me, kaha dekh liya aapne ki pati apni patni ko itne mehnge kapre Dila raha hai kuch gine chune log wo bhi muft me koi kisi ko kuch nahi deta pati hi kyu na Ho, patni thakne lagti hai to bahu le aati hai ghar ka kaam karne ke liye aur jinki bahu nahi hai wo Marne tak apne pati ki seva karti hain muft me , unko eske badle pyaar bhi nahi milta farz hai kehke use kiya jata hai unka , jayadatar pati galat hote hain phir bhi court saboot pe chalta hai bina saboot ke kuch bhi sabit nahi hota, aapne Apni maa ki bhi tulna kutte se kar Di aur kis chez ke liye aurat greatful Ho aapke jaise nalayak ladke ko paida karne ke liye maa paida karke paal posh ke bara kar Di kya mila aapki maa ko kutta sunne ke alawa shame on you , kutta se shadi karne ke liye badhayi/Mubarak, kutta paida karne ke liye congrats aur puri zindagi kutte ke saath bitane ke liye all the best.
@ibnebatuta4868
@ibnebatuta4868 Жыл бұрын
being a business woman and being the boss of your own business, or freelancing too sometimes is the ultimate greatness when it comes to personal independence And what if one is working under female boss, then it's a bit fine too Lastly, I think love is the responsibility, the person you love, their body, their soul, their heart, their necessaties, their money necessaties all are your responsibility, the responsibility to protect them etc etc, each and everything is your responsibility, of course they can themselves take care of them but it's your responsibility too Be it your brother, father, mother, husband, son, daughter, friend or anyother person whom you say you love But they are your responsibility till they don't take you for granted, And thing is it's not feminists who talk bad about housewives, it's the people, society, husbands and children who take their housewife highly for granted, the amount of powerlessness housewives used to have for centuries, we all know that shitt Society lowers the value of a human when they take their job and responsibility lightly and for granted For granted means for granted and less amount of respect than the husband, less amount of power and authority over children and in the house than the husband, and likewise children respect their housewife mothers lesser than their fathers, and debate with me on that, we all know deep down that it is similar to what I said, these all things plays small parts in making the position of a housewife lower Similar to what a position of labourer is in comparison to CEO It's the fact, I'm a Muslim, and even in my religion Allah has made the position of a housewife lower than the bread-earner So, just go and earn, that's your responsibility to your own self and coming to love, take it as a responsibility too and the people who claim to love you in return should also not take you for granted, and should care about your mental health in return, simple 💯🙌
@kumarabhishek1064
@kumarabhishek1064 Жыл бұрын
​@@ruhashashayed8245 Pooray dunia k boss say kya matlab agar Mera boss toxic hua to?? Ameer chahe urban ho ya rural, dono life jeetay hai. Akhilesh yadav ki biwi kya Ghar may jhaadu pocha karti hai kya?? Ghar k kaam karne may jisko Sharm aati hai wo wahi log hai beemaar padne pay 5 logo say expect karte hai ki unki dekh bhaal kar de. Har cheez ki importance hai....job karne waale ki koi izzat nahi karta....paise waalo ko karte hai.... Paise to gunday badmash drug dealer bhi kama lete hai....politician bhi to saare log wahi ban jaaye?? Jisko housewife Banna pasand hai unko banne do....jinko nahi Banna hai wo baney Jo usko banna hai....lkn har jagah ye feminism bol k dictatorship ghusaana badtameezi hai
@himanshujha807
@himanshujha807 Жыл бұрын
even though I am of the opinion that male or female should earn for themselves otherwise they will never have a dignified life and their self respect will be shattered but calling housewife a maid is outright outrageous as I have seen my mom she as worked harder in times of crises to fulfill all my families need by managing the house in whatever she had in her hand. In my opinion being housewife is a job as well a very thankless job.
@karadparth
@karadparth Жыл бұрын
But why does dignity and self respect attached to only earning money. Asking for clarity on your first line
@freezingmoon5415
@freezingmoon5415 Жыл бұрын
@@karadparth Because you need basic necessities to live a life which you can only afford if you have money Lol. If you can't afford these and rely on other person to live then you're literally sacrificing your happiness, your life to the other person which is very dangerous. Even before marriage you can't know a person because true colours are shown after marriage.
@classnclassics7252
@classnclassics7252 Жыл бұрын
Exactly - it’s a thankless job. You know what’s even worse ? Earning in lakhs but still expected to do ALL the housework instead of sharing the housework responsibilities …
@classnclassics7252
@classnclassics7252 Жыл бұрын
@@karadparthunfortunately that’s how the world is ..
@ibnebatuta4868
@ibnebatuta4868 Жыл бұрын
being a business woman and being the boss of your own business, or freelancing too sometimes is the ultimate greatness when it comes to personal independence And what if one is working under female boss, then it's a bit fine too Lastly, I think love is the responsibility, the person you love, their body, their soul, their heart, their necessaties, their money necessaties all are your responsibility, the responsibility to protect them etc etc, each and everything is your responsibility, of course they can themselves take care of them but it's your responsibility too Be it your brother, father, mother, husband, son, daughter, friend or anyother person whom you say you love But they are your responsibility till they don't take you for granted, And thing is it's not feminists who talk bad about housewives, it's the people, society, husbands and children who take their housewife highly for granted, the amount of powerlessness housewives used to have for centuries, we all know that shitt Society lowers the value of a human when they take their job and responsibility lightly and for granted For granted means for granted and less amount of respect than the husband, less amount of power and authority over children and in the house than the husband, and likewise children respect their housewife mothers lesser than their fathers, and debate with me on that, we all know deep down that it is similar to what I said, these all things plays small parts in making the position of a housewife lower Similar to what a position of labourer is in comparison to CEO It's the fact, I'm a Muslim, and even in my religion Allah has made the position of a housewife lower than the bread-earner So, just go and earn, that's your responsibility to your own self and coming to love, take it as a responsibility too and the people who claim to love you in return should also not take you for granted, and should care about your mental health in return, simple 💯🙌
@rashminegi8328
@rashminegi8328 Жыл бұрын
A woman should her own money . No matter who your dad is and your husband is
@PartiallyAnonymous456
@PartiallyAnonymous456 2 ай бұрын
Lmao clearly you are a privileged and tier one city person
@rajkanwar7051
@rajkanwar7051 Жыл бұрын
A female should only be housewife when the husband is also supportive and not exploiting or downplaying her role . In such cases she must earn her own money in case husband mistreats her or harasses her she will have the courage to leave him as she is a earning woman.
@d-e-v-esh
@d-e-v-esh Жыл бұрын
The same husband who is caring and supportive at 30 can become abusive and emotionally detached at 45 after life gets into a routine. So we cannot judge how a person will be in the future based on how he currently is.
@SBH3356
@SBH3356 Жыл бұрын
Every woman should have her own money
@Futurebanker6666
@Futurebanker6666 Жыл бұрын
​@@SBH3356Indian women have gold jewellery and money with them it's our tradition
@agustinad1447
@agustinad1447 Жыл бұрын
​@@SBH3356 yep true makes you feel confident to look in the eye of people who mistreat you
@SBH3356
@SBH3356 Жыл бұрын
@@Futurebanker6666 how far do you think jewellery and money can take her? Also it depends how much her parents could afford to give. That jewellery will be kept in the locker and will be used only during emergencies.
@arsh6572
@arsh6572 Жыл бұрын
Thank you bhaiya for the course, it's literally making me work and set realistic goals
@B-W.
@B-W. Жыл бұрын
I have changed four jobs in life. Including a job at a prestigious bank, that required me to commute to work for about 90 minutes, one side. I am a Stay at home mom (because we have resources and we can afford it). Doing household chores and bringing up a kid, is the most difficult job, compared to all other jobs i worked. It's Non Stop, repetitive, boring and doesn't offer fulfilment. Now, if i expected my husband to do all this (he supports me everyday, doing dishes, cleaning bathrooms, i never touch trash) If i expected him to do everything (and there is a lot), he will be burnt out and i will be too. We live peacefully, find time to love, pull each other's leg about various chores and have a happy home.
@freezingmoon5415
@freezingmoon5415 Жыл бұрын
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@illuminati343
@illuminati343 Жыл бұрын
My mosi ji who is a veryyyyyy much traditional wife is married to a husband who is a drunker and a beater and her mother in law fully supports her son. I had literally seen her crying soooo badly in front of my mom that even my mom wasn't able to control her tears and I was sent out of the room. Yet she had to spend her whole life with that Same person. I haven't met her after that, just hoping and praying that she is alright and doing well🙏 Don't want to say anything more just be independent everyone In a way that there's no need to tolerate abuse of any kind😔. Can't see any other man or women crying like my mosi cried that day!
@ShwetabhGangwar1
@ShwetabhGangwar1 Жыл бұрын
well, people in your family should come out and support her to leave. Nobody deserves abuse at all.
@illuminati343
@illuminati343 Жыл бұрын
@@ShwetabhGangwar1 that's the whole point. Our family doesn't want her to have a tag of "divorcee". And they think that once a women is married, after that she should live at her husband's home only, that's her only home. Though she can visit her parents and all but again she need to go back to her husband's house
@उज्ज्वलराय-व2थ
@उज्ज्वलराय-व2थ Жыл бұрын
​@@illuminati343 that's why women should study and earn without financial security they always will be abused
@KajalKumari-qp8dy
@KajalKumari-qp8dy Жыл бұрын
​@@ShwetabhGangwar1in which world u r living.।। No one stands for anyone
@TruecriBge
@TruecriBge Жыл бұрын
In my family they does, Talk about yourself , maybe you never seen but I have.@@KajalKumari-qp8dy
@seeker8453
@seeker8453 Жыл бұрын
As a young teenage girl I always thought that i would never do a housework (I didnt see it respectfully) my grandparents always used to taunt my mother that she do nothing. They used to force her to work on the fields . My mom couldn't live peacefully in our house. She was forced to move out nd start small businesses, open her Parlour nd manage House as well so that she could find peace there. . As I grew up I realized where my biasness is coming from. Now I see housework as a most respectfull job. In fact I believe one person should stay in house nd other should work. It is called a balance sadly which is going away these days. But the harsh truth is that deep inside girls know that fact that nobody will respect them or acknowledge them for staying nd taking care of house.. I still believe in this thought process that one should stay in home ( be it men or women) nd the one who stays at home and create positive environment should get the same respect as the other who goes to earn income. These days both men and women are hustling I live alone in my home both of my parents work. I would always want my mother to stay with us. I know the situation of my house there is no peace. Everyone contributes in housework (my father, mother, me nd my younger brother) as there no single person stays at home. But there is always a sense of instability which I felt in my home.
@jeestudyhard7041
@jeestudyhard7041 Жыл бұрын
its great to see youngsters still having this mindset!
@kailashsingha4073
@kailashsingha4073 Жыл бұрын
It's good to do housework but don't forget to have some time for yourself. It is the duty of your husband to make sure that you or anyone else get some break from house work as well to enjoy some hobbies maybe.
@cyborg6282
@cyborg6282 Жыл бұрын
Wrong house work should be done both should work.
@one_incident4426
@one_incident4426 Жыл бұрын
Great point 👍💯
@seeker8453
@seeker8453 Жыл бұрын
@@cyborg6282 I said the same thing bro
@RajatPatel85
@RajatPatel85 Жыл бұрын
I completely agree with you. Housework is something you must do on a daily basis and cannot be avoided. I have not thanked my mother, sisters, or wife, but I will as soon as I return home. I've done some housework throughout the holidays, and it's a tiring and never-ending task.
@rickenrique6665
@rickenrique6665 Жыл бұрын
Before comparing salaries of maid in Europe, don't convert Euro to INR Blindly. You forgot Purchasing Power Parity. In India cost of living is low as compared to EU.
@atz1091
@atz1091 Жыл бұрын
Watching this on Day 3 of 18 when my mom is on a trip with her friend. Bhai, I'm holding the fort for Dad and my brother at home now - IT'S EXTREMELY TIRING! Aint gonna give up though, I have to learn these things. + my expectations from my future wife has changed so much already.
@catcat63527
@catcat63527 Жыл бұрын
There are real criticisms to being housewife, such as not being allowed to have a break, having to work even when you are suck, having to ask permission to go to your parents' house, no help from husband in the endless chores, being vulnerable to abuse from his family and him and not being able to leave cause you are financially dependent on him. This woman clearly doesn't know how bad it is. Such surface level bs. My dad cheated on my mom for years, even after I was born. His family encouraged the bs and they are all still abusive af to my mom. She couldn't leave cause she was not financially independent. That is the most important reason to get a job, to be able to make your own decisions and not depend on others. I'm terrified of getting married because of how trashy most men I've met are (most are government servants, so obviously their wives won't even get support if they try to leave), but that doesn't mean that being a housewife is inherently bad. It's a good life if you get good enough in laws and husband who understands you are his equal, not beneath him.
@shubhamrana41999
@shubhamrana41999 Жыл бұрын
A very very important argument needs to be addressed 👏👏👏👏 Salute to all mothers and women 🫡🫡🫡 for their sacrifices.
@PoojaMishra-ys9vh
@PoojaMishra-ys9vh Жыл бұрын
Can feel her frustration she is thinking that others are getting things without any effort and she has to work hard for the same Life is unfair as shwetabh said in hi suhana khan video.
@the1stmetalhead
@the1stmetalhead Жыл бұрын
I mean, she also has that choice to become a stay at home wife and live the life of luxury in her early to mid 20s with a husband who's more established financially. But she deliberately is making the choice to work hard and slave away compared to a life of comfort and relaxation. And I'm not saying that being a housewife is easy. It has its own struggles like taking care of kids and dealing with grandparents. But she cannot complain because she herself made that choice to go through with college and not settle down.
@MadhavJoshi-m8m
@MadhavJoshi-m8m Жыл бұрын
@@the1stmetalhead getting married in a rich household is never a choice atleast not in india. very firstly you have to be good looking and you should already be coming from a very well to do family and the caste matters too all of which is never in your hand and you cant change any of that. just see the marriage market you will know and these things also apply in love marriages too
@PrakritiSenpai
@PrakritiSenpai Жыл бұрын
Yup
@PrakritiSenpai
@PrakritiSenpai Жыл бұрын
@@the1stmetalhead jaruri nhi ki sab ko highly highly rich people hi mile 🤦🏻‍♀ Have you ever stepped out of your room
@PrakritiSenpai
@PrakritiSenpai Жыл бұрын
@@MadhavJoshi-m8m you are correct
@Yash.Srivastava
@Yash.Srivastava Жыл бұрын
4:17 recently my mother went for a knee replacement surgery, 2-3 months unhe koi bhi household chores nahi krne the. bhaiyaa jeevan ke L lgg gae the kaam krne mai, roz ros whi same cheez krne mai itnaa mentally tiring lgta thaa. Tbb jaake asli value samjh aai housewives ki. Salute to all the mothers out there.
@poojaanimallover8720
@poojaanimallover8720 Жыл бұрын
Excellent speech n massege....what a thoughtful man u r.👏👏
@sheetalseth6334
@sheetalseth6334 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for doing this young girls really need this to hear at this point. My friend used to call me maid when I was 17-18 because I used to do all thr house chore because my mother have spinal problem while my dad and mom prepare meals. I never respond to this but I start effecting me somehow. One day my mother read his text and got angry not because he was saying this shit but because I didn't realize that no one is maid in there own house at all. She make me understand when you do this for your family than no matter what you are doing it for family.
@vinay249
@vinay249 Жыл бұрын
Doing it under adverse conditions is alright and understandable but willingly choosing this lifestyle is like digging your own grave . Plz Don't fall for that. housewifing is a prime example of the wastage of human intelligence.
@sheetalseth6334
@sheetalseth6334 Жыл бұрын
@@vinay249 first of all no my parents focus on this fact that I'm capable to handle myself for day to day routine without any support. I know all the house chores and I'm educated and doing job. So they make sure from there end that no matter what is the situation I won't be heavily depend on someone. Also my parents support each other alot in house chores. My dad never did a shit that I'm a man why would I take care of such things nor my mom pull this card that I'm the one who is earning that obey me. Both of them always discuss and make decisions so that's what I have learn.
@asadahmed7965
@asadahmed7965 Жыл бұрын
Boss Im grateful I clicked on this video.. I appreciate you for giving me a new way or line of thought ❤
@Khushie_singh
@Khushie_singh Жыл бұрын
My mother is a housewife but lemme tell y'all she inspires me the most because If I'm able to dream about achieving goals and work on it , it is mostly because of my mum that she never tells me to do household chores and that's why I am able to fully concentrate on my studies , I can't imagine myself doing household chores along with studies she is not much educated but she's the most inspiring women for me in this whole universe! It's easy for people who have no responsibilities and money to say these things but people like me can understand the value ! I hope people realise that success is good but being blind while being successful is not good either!
@purvii2371
@purvii2371 9 ай бұрын
The society, husband family itself degraded the value of housewife lol, we can't blame feminists on that. Feminists are talking about the reality though, it's 100% true that housewife receives less respect as compared to working women!
@fixerrr98
@fixerrr98 8 ай бұрын
Meh, Even as a guy I do housework as well as studies while still being top in classes.
@Shaurya1203
@Shaurya1203 Ай бұрын
same here brdr i understand ur pov
@sci-fi7484
@sci-fi7484 Жыл бұрын
This Topic needed to be addressed. Thank you 👍
@utsav.mittal
@utsav.mittal Жыл бұрын
I agree with everything you said, but I think every girl should have one monetizable skill so that even if she is a homemaker, one can not say that she does nothing. A skill will make her powerful and she would be able to say fuck you to her partner if she is in a toxic relationship, but if she doesn't have any monrtisable skills then she is more vulnerable to abuse.
@ananya_kathak
@ananya_kathak Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video ❤ all I can say is thiss...much needed
@36rishikasinha43
@36rishikasinha43 Жыл бұрын
Aaj kal log har cheez me sensitive hote ja rahe hai. Matlab agar unke opinion se match nii ho rhi tab woh samne wala/ wali devil hai. Are.... Bewokuf tum feminism ka matalab puri se demean kar rhi hoo ( choice). Glad I follow people like you 😊😊😊😊 Can you please make a video on self control 😔😔
@MadhavJoshi-m8m
@MadhavJoshi-m8m Жыл бұрын
in upper middle class house holds(as said by the girl that they are enjoying paris maldives etc) housewife have close to no work as the cleaning and dishes are taken care by the maid and their only task is to take care of the baby which they send to schools for 6 hr and then coching for 2 hr and for the rest of the time they give them phone and laptops so all in all they take care of baby for very little time rest of the times they are busy with their kitty parties and tv shows and now insta reels.They do close to no work for providing for the family and nail on the coffin is they cant even take care of themselves for their own tasks such as documents updation and bank related things which either their husbands or their male child if he is grown enough takes care of. They view which you were coming form is perfectly applied to middle class and lower middle class house holds and i cant even talk about poor ones and what their females go through . But what the girl was talking about is upper or upper middle class which i somewhat agree with but not everything like the last lines or the grades thing.
@ArshitSamkria-fk7sh
@ArshitSamkria-fk7sh 9 ай бұрын
4:09 One example for Housework's value could be those 3 days when your mom is out and you have to handle the whole house. You have to spend time out of your schedule to do that and in the end you don't receive anything. (in a sense not gained anything productive) That's a reason why House chores shall not be taken for granted.
@chanchalsinha-tv4ir
@chanchalsinha-tv4ir Жыл бұрын
This called using the power of feminism in wrong way , Thank u shwetab bhaiya for clearing misinformation in society
@nalday2534
@nalday2534 Жыл бұрын
"power of feminism" lmao sit tf down
@jiminsjams1477
@jiminsjams1477 Жыл бұрын
In india even if the girl is working and earning same as compared to man they are still expected to do the household works as well because nobody thinks that household work are work nowadays everyone wants working women who brings money in the family but the expectation of doing the household work is not changed at all
@AnkitYadav-3Op
@AnkitYadav-3Op Жыл бұрын
I bow down to this man's wisdom. 🙌 We need these scoldings to realize and again remember the sacrifices our female counterparts make. Thank you 🙏
@vinay249
@vinay249 Жыл бұрын
There is no wisdom in these video. He just romanticised a lifestyle which causes a lot of social issues like female infanticide,foeticide,dowry domestic abuse ,financial independency etc He didn't even touched upon these issue which are caused by our idealisation of housewifing.
@Tattwamasih
@Tattwamasih 10 ай бұрын
Huge Respect, Brother. . . Became a Fan of Yours. . .
@ifinditinteresting.8709
@ifinditinteresting.8709 Жыл бұрын
It's not just the feminists who call housewives maid, the men in the house call their wives that exact thing when in an argument, lmaao.
@aniketpatil3322
@aniketpatil3322 Жыл бұрын
Aj to aasu agye yaar ye video dekh ke.. Suchme me bohot productive productive krta tha suchme mujhe aaj bohot sari chije samjh aai just because hume sub mil jata he toh hume kaddar nai rehti chijo ki..thanks for educating us shwetabh bhai.
@Nazeela28
@Nazeela28 Жыл бұрын
Being an independent woman is very important, but I realise how underrated the job of a housewife is . Growing up I had my mother by my side all the time and I wonder how drastically different it would be if she was a working woman . She raised us with abundance and was so selfless. Losing your own individuality for your kids is not healthy. But the kids deserve the love , care and emotional support of their mother . One must fulfill their responsibilities. Being a woman is such a divine thing and not offering the feminity to thw world that it needs is not justified. Life needs balance ❤️
@itz__pankaj17
@itz__pankaj17 Жыл бұрын
sir u r great aapne to faad kr rkh diya ye video hr kishi tk pohchni chahiye aur housewife ki value pata chale as a guy meri bhi aakhe khul gyi hai 🙂 Thanks u so much ❤
@d-e-v-esh
@d-e-v-esh Жыл бұрын
I agree with most the things you said you but as you stated yourself that the happiness of the woman goes down after the kids are born, and the work she is doing is not going to be recognised by the society and sadly also her family as "important" so I think they should definitely strive to be independent in some sort of way. If not for the family then at least her own sake. In society girls are often discouraged from picking up difficult jobs because they have to get married and have kids later in life that later leads them to be extremely dependent on the husband which leads to very unequal power dynamics in the family specially during important decision making instances. This can be extremely traumatic in some cases pushing the women even further downward. So do I think that housework is extremely important and vital to the proper functioning of the family unit and should never be belittled like the girl did, it definitely should not be glorified in society for future generations. What you said might fully apply in a perfect world but not this unfortunately.
@ShwetabhGangwar1
@ShwetabhGangwar1 Жыл бұрын
didn't say that at all. Phew! Happiness goes down for the first years, then progressively picks up later. Women in the later years are extremely happy and proud about being mothers and look at those developmental years of their children with great fondness. (is what the research and studies tell)
@ShwetabhGangwar1
@ShwetabhGangwar1 Жыл бұрын
also, that unhappiness can be buffered by distributing house-work. Simple solution provided by psychological and economics literature.
@d-e-v-esh
@d-e-v-esh Жыл бұрын
​​@@ShwetabhGangwar1 I agree with you, but my point is that there is a very big distinction between parenting and housework. A woman can handle a 8-10 hours job per day with parenting their child (after the kids are old enough and are going to school) while the housework can be shared between the two or outsourced to a professional/servant. Infact she might even be a better mother when she alone doesn't have the burden of whole housework.
@freezingmoon5415
@freezingmoon5415 Жыл бұрын
@@ShwetabhGangwar1 I'm not saying women shouldn't do household works. I'm saying both women and men should earn money as well as doing household works. A woman can never know a person before marriage either it's arranged or love. True colours are shown after marriage. So, what if the husband turns out to be an abusive or lazy or some idiot??
@HairySweetMango
@HairySweetMango Жыл бұрын
@d-e-v-esh I am so glad you said this because this is so true. And I don't disagree with shwetabh but there is alot of power dynamic in this situation. There are very rare instance when a man really think about the women and share house work. This is not a perfect world but we need to face reality .
@nicksworld6290
@nicksworld6290 Жыл бұрын
Wow thanks for acknowledging the value of housework.
@TheCosmopolitanHefty
@TheCosmopolitanHefty Жыл бұрын
She is just salty because people are having fun, if there is somebody who loves a girl and is willing to provide her a luxurious life, I don't think this OP is in a state to speak for others. She chose a life of hardships or she is having a life of hardships is her own issue, and undermining the contribution of a women who is actually a good housewive/homemaker, is cheap from this girl's side. It is actually underrated how greatly housewives contribute to the household, raising kids and looking after the husband. It is a humungous task and must not be disrespected. Most of us have been raised by our mothers and we can vouch for them but this girl is just sad and salty.
@shefalisabrina7679
@shefalisabrina7679 Жыл бұрын
But these are the kinds of girls boys like
@the1stmetalhead
@the1stmetalhead Жыл бұрын
​@@shefalisabrina7679 which ones? Because I'm sure it's not based on her ability to become a housewife or slave at work. But more on how attractive she is and how she is a person i.e., her personality.
@shivamsingh-cl4zw
@shivamsingh-cl4zw Жыл бұрын
The job of house wife is very easy and doesn't lead to any kind of intellectual or even spiritual development in order to grow a person must face hardships and that kind of hardships needed for growth aren't there in housework so whatever that girl said was completely right
@sebastianbeiber3776
@sebastianbeiber3776 Жыл бұрын
However, I don't understand why always women has to sacrifice her career , she can also be working. Both man and woman must learn the household and could help the family
@mayanksaxena01
@mayanksaxena01 Жыл бұрын
@@shivamsingh-cl4zw "job of house wife is very easy " REALLY 🤣
@swastikmukherjee6867
@swastikmukherjee6867 Жыл бұрын
I shared this video to my mother & now also she is your subscriber...
@rashmii_kashyap02
@rashmii_kashyap02 Жыл бұрын
Each and every point in this video is so 100% true☺🙂🙂🙂🙂
@freezingmoon5415
@freezingmoon5415 Жыл бұрын
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@somakun1806
@somakun1806 Жыл бұрын
Loved this video Shwetabh ....nicely dismantled the mentality of this girl.
@nalday2534
@nalday2534 Жыл бұрын
dismantled mentality by making comments behind a keyboard waah
@somakun1806
@somakun1806 Жыл бұрын
@@nalday2534 who hurt you 🤣🤣
@nalday2534
@nalday2534 Жыл бұрын
@@somakun1806 you and your oppressive system did
@somakun1806
@somakun1806 Жыл бұрын
@@nalday2534 lol sure kiddo ....keep malding 🤡
@nalday2534
@nalday2534 Жыл бұрын
@@somakun1806 ganja phek ke marunga neech jaat ke
@VinodKumar-nu1sf
@VinodKumar-nu1sf Жыл бұрын
Hi shwetabh,how are you? Household work is damn hard work to do,yet I feel you are misunderstanding the remark putup by this lady.Will get back on this.
@traveldiary00
@traveldiary00 Жыл бұрын
This is my first comment on youtube. what u said about having a child i am feeling exactly same after becoming mother. I was feeling depressed lately for not earning.. but your words gave me a different perspective.. you are truly a mentor who speaks from heart and with life experience. Thanku ❤
@freezingmoon5415
@freezingmoon5415 Жыл бұрын
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@kapishjamwal5270
@kapishjamwal5270 Жыл бұрын
Raise your child with good character girl. Because aage ki generation ke toh L lagne waale hai , thanks to this pseudo feminism
@ankit7805
@ankit7805 Жыл бұрын
I think housework is like backend programming. Like a normal human being is just looking and interacting at the user interface of the program but completely ignoring how much complexity is behind that program to work well, and flawlessly
@shashankkulkarni993
@shashankkulkarni993 Жыл бұрын
Well said bro
@pekxyl7793
@pekxyl7793 14 күн бұрын
Please make a video on how to acquire critical thinking
@classnclassics7252
@classnclassics7252 Жыл бұрын
No matter how much your wife would earn - you would still want her to do the house work !!
@sarangpawar8355
@sarangpawar8355 Жыл бұрын
Kaccha chaba diya😂 btw very informative
@kalpanaarora7214
@kalpanaarora7214 Жыл бұрын
Ek maa ya wife ke kaam mai aur ek house helper/maid/babysitter ke kaam mai boht boht jada farak hota hai logon
@2007krishnan
@2007krishnan Жыл бұрын
Absolutely..no one will understand except those who have experienced it..
@d-e-v-esh
@d-e-v-esh Жыл бұрын
Ek bacche ko acche se pal kr bada krna aur roz 10 ghante ghar ke kam mai kamar tudwane mai bhi bahut bata farak hota hai bhai. Ghar ka kam to naukar bhi kr sakta hai.
@AdityaSinghRajput-c6f
@AdityaSinghRajput-c6f Жыл бұрын
​​@@d-e-v-esh Bhaiya iss video ka point tha ki House Hold work asaan nhi hota, Usse karne wale log bahut respect deserve krte h, Aapka topic hai ki ladkiyo ko force kiya jata hai household work krne ke liye jo ki obviously galat hai.
@subhamkumar16
@subhamkumar16 Жыл бұрын
Swetavh brother i hope you remember i commented in your video in 2018 too ..I started following you from MENSUTRA, IN 2015 ..thanks for saving my life
@Nidhisingh-os7ke
@Nidhisingh-os7ke Жыл бұрын
I think most women don't want to become housewife just bcz their fellow partners don't recognize housewives' work.many men came to home after work and said to their wife that what have u hv done whole day just eating nd watching tv nd taking rest.even many of women started thinking that household work is not enough to get respect nd then started hating these work.if all of us including men and women have started giving respect to that work then these arguments would not exist
@neelimeshduarah1054
@neelimeshduarah1054 7 ай бұрын
365 days a year without even a day's leave.
@aks9817
@aks9817 Жыл бұрын
i agree with your points but still women in india should be financially independent cause we dont know what kind of uncertainty hits their lives
@vibhashakkarwal7957
@vibhashakkarwal7957 Жыл бұрын
Thnk u so much shweatabh .......u r giving us a ryt direction to think and live.........😊.....so happy to have u as life coach.....
@penguine4166
@penguine4166 Жыл бұрын
clearly people in India look down upon maid type jobs and this is where lack of respect and ignorance about real housework done by our moms is coming from
@rashminegi8328
@rashminegi8328 Жыл бұрын
Women should be financially independent .more than eighty percent women in India are abused and they can't leave their marriage because they don't earn and they care about their children
@PartiallyAnonymous456
@PartiallyAnonymous456 2 ай бұрын
Cant site the statistics for your claim . 80% ?
@icecreams214
@icecreams214 Жыл бұрын
Success needs time too . I can understand her emotion. Some girls get luxurious life by giving good Dahej to potential husbands, its the bitter truth. Most probably they are all arranged marriage, arranged by families, they didn't even for their relationship.
@Papasyko
@Papasyko Жыл бұрын
true yarrr, there no peace in house if everyone working and nobody stays at home, at this point of time i mean NOW 9/1/32 12:18PM im in my home alone have to go collage, my sis goes to school, i go collage(and trying to do some freelance), father and mother both work, MOM 10am-7pm, DAD 8:30am-10pm(whole day from waking up till sleeping), both are exausted, house is a complete mess, fights, arguments etc.... im just so tired of this shit, just want to retire both of them so that they could have some time for themselves, enjoy their life from the money ive earned, and no fights etc.... i remember when my mom used to be at home, and my dad whole day he used to be out working, there was that unknowingly peace in home, mo used to cook nutrious food, clean house, fresh and positive most of the time, we used to be poor, now as both are working we can save and afford few things-still i ask myself at what cost? what's it worth! but from when mom started doing fulll time job its just a mess and i hate it. i want my mom to stay at home, take care of us all and just be happy!! as mostly none stays at home most of the time, everythings is messed i try to be helpfull as mush as possible, maybe sometimes doing the dishes, washing cloths(washing machine), sweeping after cleaning the bed, and pooja for positive energy etc.. its tough ik, but cant be done anything at this point of time. all i can do is help, work, pray.
@freezingmoon5415
@freezingmoon5415 Жыл бұрын
Lol, that means you're not peaceful within yourself and seek others to have peace.
@Papasyko
@Papasyko Жыл бұрын
@@freezingmoon5415 others? You treat family as others and not as one of your own? Duh?
@freezingmoon5415
@freezingmoon5415 Жыл бұрын
@@Papasyko Lol, Are you and your sister in the same body?? Are you and your brother have same body?? Do you and your brother, sister, father and mother have the same mentality?? Has everyone of you lived the life in same way? Do everyone in your family have the same job? Lol, you and they are different human beings 😂😂🤣
@freezingmoon5415
@freezingmoon5415 Жыл бұрын
@@Papasyko You seems to live in a fairytale Lol 😂😂. You must be a kid. Love is just fairytale. In real world you need to have self-respect, you need to be peaceful within yourself, you have to be happy within yourself. Self-love is the most important. Stop watching movies and stay away from social media. Get in the outside world and experience the reality.
@Papasyko
@Papasyko Жыл бұрын
@@freezingmoon5415 bruh💀💀💀💀!!! To love someone is it necessary for them to be in your body? What are you smoking? Cuz clearly it's not something from this world! Jus cuz they've different mentality and different jobs and obviously diff body🤡 doesn't mean we should disown them and never care about them or love them! You need a therapist...
@neetaspirant8822
@neetaspirant8822 Жыл бұрын
If you are talking about lower middle class housewives then it is true.. but If the girl marries to a rich background then now she has no housework she can keep maid in her house for laundry, washing dishes and other works.. so all she does is just sit on couch and binge watch or just looking after babies... Moreover when she remains at the house she is dependent on her husband for everything... She doesn't know about the outer world.. so if anyhow she divorce her husband she has nothing to survive.. So every housewives is not good for everyone...while for men do marry a worthy girl not just someone who just enjoys on your hard earned money
@ShwetabhGangwar1
@ShwetabhGangwar1 Жыл бұрын
well, in that case, she will receive a hefty alimony and child support as per the laws of our country. So yeah!
@KajalKumari-qp8dy
@KajalKumari-qp8dy Жыл бұрын
​@@ShwetabhGangwar1i never expected this much immature answer bhaiya.। Bcz all the domestic violence.. All the sexual abuse women are facing bcz of this mentality of being housewife.. I thnk u should listen to acharya prashant on this topic
@उज्ज्वलराय-व2थ
@उज्ज्वलराय-व2थ Жыл бұрын
​​@@KajalKumari-qp8dywomen have small brains so yeah I can understand you are not getting what he is trying to say
@KajalKumari-qp8dy
@KajalKumari-qp8dy Жыл бұрын
@@उज्ज्वलराय-व2थ firat go and scan ur brains
@TruecriBge
@TruecriBge Жыл бұрын
#LODULOGIC@@उज्ज्वलराय-व2थ
@design-breakdown
@design-breakdown Жыл бұрын
Outstanding video... It's enhanced my thoughts process
@TheBakuganmaster99
@TheBakuganmaster99 Жыл бұрын
They will accuse you of mansplaining. 😂😂
@x00tox01
@x00tox01 Жыл бұрын
One of the best i have ever seen in the context of Family/House mgnt. Thanks Sir for such great video
@gaminguceyt
@gaminguceyt Жыл бұрын
The New Generation Is Worsening Themselves Due To This Thinking
@Professionalsurfer
@Professionalsurfer Жыл бұрын
U explained it very nicely Very eye opening video for those men too who constantly mock women andunderestimate their contriburion
@shwetabhfanclub7577
@shwetabhfanclub7577 Жыл бұрын
thanks bhaiya 6/10 tasks done today abhi baki ke krunga 12 bje tak last month my percentage of tasks done was 81%.. The course if amazing !!!!!
@Bhakt-TheDevotee
@Bhakt-TheDevotee Жыл бұрын
This girl is taking things for granted. But because of this girl my respect has increased for all the housewives who handles their housework on their own.
@marvel.4kShorts
@marvel.4kShorts Жыл бұрын
Same here...
@shalinisingh700
@shalinisingh700 Жыл бұрын
although i agree with you..but i too hate the job of a women who is not working and is dependent on someone because my mother is a housewife and she does eveything but in turn she gets a lot of disrespect from my abusive father. when we were childrens we too have faced a lot of abuse and torture from our father...nd my mothers only regret in life is that she is not a working women.
@aerah76
@aerah76 Жыл бұрын
Feminism is all about respecting a woman's choice unless the choice is to be a housewife and take on the nurturing and caretaking role. That being said, fellas don't marry a woman who shows signs of being a gold-digger and uses you for your money. There needs to be contribution from both sides in the relationship whether same or different contributions.
@swatisaini6447
@swatisaini6447 Жыл бұрын
Housewives deserve respect too.
@mathematicalmonk1427
@mathematicalmonk1427 Жыл бұрын
How do you argue against this To a women money is same as beauty for a man
@swatisaini6447
@swatisaini6447 Жыл бұрын
@@Hajun_Hermesia girls job karti hai but kitne boys ghar ka kaam karte hai ya bacche sambhalte hai?
@Anilnegi56239
@Anilnegi56239 Жыл бұрын
​@@swatisaini6447girls ghar ka kam karne vale boys ka respect nhi kar sakti Dusra boys pregnant nhi hote sirf girls hoti h Agar finance ka bhar wife par daloge pregnancy k douran ghar me pesa kaha se ayega? Kyuki husband to lambe samay se ghar par bethega to jo skills usey ati hogi wo bhi bhul chuka hoga tab tak
@aerah76
@aerah76 Жыл бұрын
@@mathematicalmonk1427 So a woman doesn't care about a man's beauty at all?
@totalme302
@totalme302 Жыл бұрын
I have an immense respect for women who do housework and do it properly. I know, how mundane it is, how little time they get for their personal joys. And how little they get credited for that. Sometimes, their stupid husband even goes out to say that you do nothing the whole day. Living after doing so much sacrifice is worth so much respect to the least, which I give them from my heart. Also, this lady thinks that everyone should become something in their life, that doesn't even mean anything. It is not possible to for every person in this world to be "success", doesn't mean their life is not worth living. If I am satisfied with my life, than that's all their is to it. No money, fame, luxury required after that.
@AayushLath
@AayushLath Жыл бұрын
Near the end mai pata nahi kyu mai thoda emotional ho gaya, ye baat realise hui ki abhi mujhe bohot kuch seekhna hai. Thank you so much Shwetabh bhaiya🙏🏼
@sanjanasuresh5565
@sanjanasuresh5565 Жыл бұрын
Hello Swetabh sir, Thanks for making this video. House work is a voluntary full time job and a housewife should be respected. Even a maid should be respected. Being a boss bi*t*h is BS. Because in corporate job, we should be compliant with boss. From my limited experience, I believe that - 1. A woman should be employable. Because, a woman could be in an abusive marriage and being financially dependent on a man can be very restrictive to leave that marriage 2. Even if it's a happy marriage, the couple should be prepared for the worst - if the husband falls sick/dies, the woman should be able to support the household financially. 3. Similarly, a man should also be able to manage house work if the wife/mother falls sick. So, it's beneficial if a man knows cooking/cleaning. In short, earning income and house work is gender neutral. 4. Dual income can make retirements/savings more relaxed. 5. Even if a family is stable and the wife is not working (which is ok), doing some voluntary/social work outside can give a person a lot of exposure.
@purvii2371
@purvii2371 9 ай бұрын
He would never reply you bruh and he would never reply to those people who write sensible comments. I literally used to love his videos and use to enjoy it and used to think that he is unbiased but now I am assuming that he is biased or might be becoming biased. I learned a lot from his videos but after watching this video and few of his replies in comment section, I'm guessing that he's biased and only showing one side of the coin. Just because he is older than us and read many books or more mature than us doesn't mean that he's right in every aspect of life (writing this because he also judge people who are in their 20s and call them immature)
@adityashrivastava8498
@adityashrivastava8498 9 ай бұрын
I would prefer a homemaker as my wife all day!.
@sanjana3218
@sanjana3218 Жыл бұрын
isn't this what Sonali Kulkarni also implied just wrapping it in a better language? I've seen so many families looking for women who will be housewives or maybe "school teachers" so that they can give enough time for their family. A lot of men desire the same. Especially after becoming mothers, you realize that "mothering" is a full-time job and it's painful to cut that short and outsource it partially to a babysitter so that you can go earn money from another full-time job that you hate. you also realize the privilege of being able to hire a babysitter, who also happens to be a mother leaving her kids behind with some non-earning member of her family which could be her mom, or her sister-in-law whatever. The truth is, a house doesn't just run on its own. kids don't grow up on their own. certain things in life can't be automated or outsourced, not without losing its quality. Even with a 6-fig salary the food on my platter isn't half as good in nutritional value or in taste as it was when I was young. My house isn't half as pretty as my mom kept it despite the fact that i have a full-time house help now. what a housewife does for her family is priceless. Yes, I'm envious of the sense of security they have, in not earning for themselves. The onus of giving her the sense of security is on her husband and her family. to not make her feel useless just because she isn't earning money. I'm sure, this lady's jealousy also somehow stems from such insecurities.
@shashankkulkarni993
@shashankkulkarni993 Жыл бұрын
Very matured/ nice thoughts of you 😊😊
@sanjana3218
@sanjana3218 Жыл бұрын
@@shashankkulkarni993 thanks
@Soam222
@Soam222 Жыл бұрын
Salute ur thinking level sir ❤ Your tongue has eight packs 😄
@sebastianbeiber3776
@sebastianbeiber3776 Жыл бұрын
I am not disrespecting housewives just like the girl did, I am just wanna make a point that a economically independent women has more freedom . Household work is not only very exhaustive in nature and very repititive therefore it can be outsourced easily if a man and woman both are earning. In a society a working woman contributes more to her development of herself and the country as she will be in the work force.
@KajalKumari-qp8dy
@KajalKumari-qp8dy Жыл бұрын
Exactly... That's true....
@mayanksaxena01
@mayanksaxena01 Жыл бұрын
also more tax for the govt
@masteroogway9060
@masteroogway9060 Жыл бұрын
Best comment 🎉🎉
@sebastianbeiber3776
@sebastianbeiber3776 Жыл бұрын
@@masteroogway9060 thanks
@ankitchaubey1293
@ankitchaubey1293 Жыл бұрын
​@@mayanksaxena01 correct this more profit to banks more increase in consumerism women non taxable audience thi to Inhe freedom ki ghutti pilayi gayi taki family break ho aur taxes aaye
@nidhi0racer
@nidhi0racer Жыл бұрын
My mother is housewife, nd i m proud of her, we got other house near our home my mother went to other house to check living conditions there all family members went to that house following here, can't even imagine a home without her. Now, whenever she got angry with anyone she says get lost from my house, no one get out 😅, even we got other house few mins away. That's that power of a mother, housewife, house size doesn't matter all matter where my mother living. I hope she have a long healthy life. People need to recognize the value of work house wives put into making house to home.
@SMc-1235
@SMc-1235 Жыл бұрын
I've spend two years alone outside home for college and I've to do every little bit chore by myself. That experience taught me a lot about my mother's sacrifice. ❤
@vikasronjhiya8842
@vikasronjhiya8842 Жыл бұрын
Never seen this topic from this perspective, thank you shwetabh bhai for raising our mental state.
@IshaSharma0301
@IshaSharma0301 Жыл бұрын
In this generation all individuals must be financially independent not because of any empowerment but just to standardize their life , every man wants to reduce the burden of father and every girl wants to stand out and take care of family....if the man earning and women wants to help him then what's wrong in that ....if for some reason any one fails for sometime the other one will hold the rope. Isme feminism kaha se aaya?? And being a house maker is no where less then any cooperative job but then society doesn't value that. A man and women both should earn... should complement...should value ....should help in home....should raise the children togather ....should keep the family happy...and ignore those those nasty comments but society,....period! I being myself would never want my family to eat food cooked by a cook.... I believe in working out and also balancing out family really well.
@Mukesh-oq8dx
@Mukesh-oq8dx 4 ай бұрын
feminist don't call housewife maid. They call-out the fact that housewives are treated as maid. And by default, in India maid are treated as sub-human, no-respect, no-dignity.
@ankurpandey3845
@ankurpandey3845 Жыл бұрын
Seems the girl has been blindly followed acharya Prashant without using his brain
@Rahull43
@Rahull43 Жыл бұрын
Following *
@Rahull43
@Rahull43 Жыл бұрын
Her*
@venusyadav-c2i
@venusyadav-c2i 5 ай бұрын
First learn to spell following then comment on this girl and Acharya Prashant.
@PartiallyAnonymous456
@PartiallyAnonymous456 2 ай бұрын
​@@venusyadav-c2i lmao grammer Nazi got triggered because someone made a comment on his favourite alcoholic
@sanchita_156
@sanchita_156 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤ this video is amazing and eye opening
@futuregoals6718
@futuregoals6718 Жыл бұрын
Except few things I somewhat agree to her though..don't waste your talent ..what if the husband loses his job or dies or Mets with an accident... suddenly for the women working for the family with no skills developed over the years will be so difficult and losing your job is common these days..these women definitely regret later that they did nothing outside the household chores..I'm not saying like a radical feminist or something that I must be independent or I don't need a man..a women will always need a man but the confidence you get when your doing something on your own is something different.Their sasural wale will somehow always give her more respect of the women doing something and it's a fact just look around you...housewives surely not maids because managing house is most difficult and tiring job to do but woh to working women bhi krte hi dono sambhalti hai woh bhi bahut accha se but looking at the post it seems like they marry only to have a luxurious life on husband's money..I have tons of examples like this around my house who are not independent but regret it as they have to beg everytime to their husband even to buy a biscuit
@purvii2371
@purvii2371 9 ай бұрын
Exactly, I am assuming that shwetabh is only showing one side of the coin here and making the whole topic baised.
@Studyingwillchangeyourlife
@Studyingwillchangeyourlife Жыл бұрын
We have 3 house-helpers coming to our house everyday to do the basic chores, yet my mumma has to work continuously from 6:30 in the morning. She has vericose in her legs from standing such long hours every single day. It's because of my mumma that all of us in our family are able to do everything that we want to do, 'cause we know that mumma's taking care of everything else. The rest of us have to go to offices, yet we try our best that we help her in any way possible, that's because we know, we understand her role in our lives and we know that it's impossible for us to even exist without her. My mum didn't go to her parents house for five years, because both my brother and I had our tutions even during vacations, so she knew that if she goes away, our studies would get hampered. She has sacrificed so much for us, and I don't think any of us would ever be able to repay her for what she has done for us and continues to. Actually it would be a shame to even try to repay her. Thank you so much Shwetabh bhai for making this video and putting the points in such a powerful way. I can only wonder how clear your thought process must be to be able to keep your arguments in such a calm way. All I wanna do is put her head through the wall.
@ShwetabhSenpai
@ShwetabhSenpai 11 ай бұрын
bc hotel ya ghar
@Studyingwillchangeyourlife
@Studyingwillchangeyourlife 11 ай бұрын
Hai toh ghar hi but kaam toh unlimited hi hai Kitchen ka kaam kabhi khatam nahi hota.... it's never ending. I'm sure it's not with all households, and I hope slowly things would, though I don't see it happening anytime soon
@subhayubhattacharjee5074
@subhayubhattacharjee5074 Жыл бұрын
While I agree completely with the intent I don't think minimum wages for maids will automatically decrease affordability because it would mean an overall increase in purchasing power through wages for almost all formal sector employees. Also if the price rises to such an extent that maids are no longer affordable for 80% of households and those eligible for housekeepug aren't finding employment in 80% of households, they might have to bring their price down excepting they are highly skilled enough for jobs elsewhere
@ByakuyaKuchiki006
@ByakuyaKuchiki006 Жыл бұрын
Pleasure vs happiness
@rashminegi8328
@rashminegi8328 Жыл бұрын
What if your husband dies or something .phir karte rhna ghar saf
@knvish7660
@knvish7660 Ай бұрын
17:49 very good point, uss ladki ke hisaab se unke bache kabhi maa ka khane ki value hi nhi jaan payenge
@anchitmahajan1901
@anchitmahajan1901 Жыл бұрын
Difference in male and female thinking, Male knows it's an unfair world, females have to learn it the hard way and then start the feminism warcry.
@PartiallyAnonymous456
@PartiallyAnonymous456 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely true
@Janvi37281
@Janvi37281 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly i felt when i mom go out for weeks and i have to do housework like literally i cant even imagine what my mom do this is something i cant even inagine of doing my mom is damm good i respect her for what she do and jb aap khud ghr ka kam krte h tb hi u realise what u do
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