Thank you for all the lovely message under this video. Final Part 2 is now live kzbin.info/www/bejne/rIXXqaqHZ7KFbcksi=OG_X-k2IBHlyN8G4
@kavithaashwath30283 күн бұрын
This is the most honest , relatable video I’ve Seen as a working mom, about relationships and about self . Thank you for normalising being selfish as a mom !
@ShwetaVijay3 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@lakshmispillai77173 күн бұрын
25.0 is the most relatable thing you said. Cooking is draining . But when food comes on the plate people hardly even acknowledge. That’s the reality. The amount of effort that goes into it. Infact every aspect in the kitchen let alone the entire house.
@sumitrapradhan58742 күн бұрын
Soo true
@gurnoorkaur_10Күн бұрын
@@sumitrapradhan5874Absolutely! most underappreciated job ever! ♥️
@divyam.v55433 күн бұрын
Shweta, it takes incredible courage to come out and be so transparent about everything. You are a gem of a person. Rather than being in the beauty industry, you could be so much more! All your thoughts about marriage, etc., not at all easy to be so transparent about all of this. I'm disappointed to know that a parent can stay away from a child for so long. That's good enough reason to rethink your priorities.
@ShwetaVijay2 күн бұрын
Much love and thank you
@Lima3578user2 күн бұрын
I realised over a period of time that a fantastic boy friend not necessarily can be a fantastic husband , I bet finding someone whom we can vibe with is itself gold , we don’t need the marriage tag, all we need is someone to love and be loved .
@Shravyasamyuktha3 күн бұрын
'you can't feel guilty of being a little selfish' is a wonderful quote from you Swetha
@ShwetaVijay3 күн бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@xenaprasadthomas23853 күн бұрын
Shweta your super power(s) are wisdom courage humility and authenticity. Respect! When the world propaganda is flashy lifestyle/ hustle mindset / luxury acquisitions - your simplicity, focus on giving your family the best and bettering your self shines through!! ( there is nothing wrong in having those material goals - just the balance that is missing today in general ) It gives me pause and I hope many content creators take a listen and incorporate into their narrative . Cannot wait for part 2 ❤
@ShwetaVijay3 күн бұрын
Thanks a ton❤❤❤
@sonamsahani69942 күн бұрын
Loved loved it !! So raw and absolutely authentic!! That’s what I love about you 😘 being a mother is not easy at all
@ShwetaVijay2 күн бұрын
🫂
@sarahsarosh2 күн бұрын
Strongest woman I know❤
@ShwetaVijay2 күн бұрын
Hope you enjoy part 2 as well
@leenasonparate90892 күн бұрын
You chose to come back to India for better lifestyle is so empowering to hear. Generally it is the other way round. Your perspective is so unbiased and honest just like your content. Massive respect ❤
@kavita78013 күн бұрын
Iam a mom of two,in my late thirty’s,you are not alone,being tired and loosing cool,is what I go through as well,yes marriage should be during 20 s,,but I see you ,I hope ,my life is going to be ok,independent,home,it’s a dream ,
@divu17842 күн бұрын
I disagree. Marriage should be in your 20s only if you care about everything but yourself. It would just drain you more and make you lose your identity faster. In your 30s you are more resistant to bullshit. Yes patience goes down because you're not used to taking everyone;s BS
@shireenalsaifi40283 күн бұрын
I really appreciate how positive and supportive you are! it's so nice to see you taking the time to reply to comments. Your strength and kindness truly shine through, and it makes your channel feel like a welcoming community. Keep up the amazing work!❤️
@bubblygirlalways3 күн бұрын
Finally - someone said it .. yes cooking is stressful and the very thought of what to cook is stressful especially after working for 8 hours ( even if it is working from home) ..It’s kind of tiring to be the giver always ..and most often never appreciated or supported
@MissPomegranate63 күн бұрын
You’re the BEST content creator, everything you say seems real and genuine. Hats off to your honesty and for always looking out for your audiences, lots of love! ❤
@divyanarayanan90013 күн бұрын
Love how you touched wood(i am guessing) when you spoke about your bond with your brother.. Thats really really sweet. Shows how much you value that relationship❤
@ShwetaVijay3 күн бұрын
Absolutely!❤
@bhumikarao80692 күн бұрын
I wish we could sit down for a cup of coffee, and discuss life. Kinda find myself at a similar life situation, mom to a wonderful girl, and I feel like I could use your wisdom.
@ShwetaVijay2 күн бұрын
I would love that
@BagshreyaКүн бұрын
I am so glad that you spoke your heart out and thank you for being this vulnerable. It’s definitely not easy to put your life on the internet. And I commend you for it❤
@apricot48673 күн бұрын
Takes GUTS to say all of this..... I really love you for speaking up straight to the point!!
@jcrajeshxyz3 күн бұрын
What an honest video. Hats off to you ❤
@ShwetaVijay3 күн бұрын
Tx for watching
@AyeshaM-ry1ee3 күн бұрын
Am on same grounds of parenting... the absentia of partner in all aspects even if ter r physically in same home, and no involvement n contributions in parenting.... then it's just 1 person parenting n other wit zero contributions. Even though the world sees as both parents doing it. But real facts r different 💯
@ShwetaVijay2 күн бұрын
Absolutely ❤
@sarithas53379 сағат бұрын
Only 3 country economies will survive Bharat,Russia,Dubai.Take all ur savings &gold from European countries & deposit in Bharatiya Banks.Its much safer
@Republic_of_Real3 күн бұрын
Wow what a candid, bold and unabashed video. Love it! Love you
@ShwetaVijay2 күн бұрын
Glad you enjoyed and hope you like part 2 as well . Much love
@Republic_of_Real2 күн бұрын
@@ShwetaVijay watching part 2 while typing this on my phone. Already living for this honesty
@Chethana.g3 күн бұрын
Appreciate you for openly being honest about your relationship and your wants from your partner. Not everybody puts out their vulnerable side on the internet and when you do, it makes us feel that we are not alone. Thanks Shweta❤
@leenasingh3 күн бұрын
Omg Shweta….Wat a strong woman you are. Salute to your honesty, it takes a lot of courage & confidence to speak your heart out in public. Love you for the real woman you are…. And it’s absolutely fine to be lil selfish at times. A big hug & more power to you… 🤗❤️
@m.ghosh9Сағат бұрын
Such a genuine person you are. ❤❤ your level of maturity inspires me.
@nikkitasha5123 күн бұрын
I will be turning 40 in Dec and i left my set corporate job 2 years back to start something of my own, i dont knw if m doing a blunder with my life or something good, but after listening to u i feel little bit relatable n not lonely. Ps: I dont hv a child but i want to, dont know when n how.
@sarim62133 күн бұрын
Just like you, though not left my job but want to leave it. I dnt hv children.
@harshithar93882 күн бұрын
@@nikkitasha512 There is always adoption option.
@SiaKia3 күн бұрын
Such a wonderful treat for the ears. Happy and waiting for part 2. Thank You for these very honest talks!!❤ Times like these when you can't find the right ppl to share your thoughts with and then your favorite influencer communicates the right things you need to hear.....grateful 🙌
@ShwetaVijay2 күн бұрын
You are so welcome! And part is up
@L1000N83 күн бұрын
Why are you so nice swetha. Always talk straigh no matter on what topic. I understand when u say, you did a lot for family and also expect but at some point we become selfish and care about our peace. Man!!! You are my role model when it comes to life perspective.
@anjalibansal84852 күн бұрын
OMG Such honest conversation!!! It takes immense courage to be so upfront and unapologetic.
@ShwetaVijay2 күн бұрын
❤️🫂
@youthfulyou11933 күн бұрын
The honesty and relatability in this video…. Is top notch
@madhaviramakrishna74203 күн бұрын
About the flat tummy, appreciate you and follow you for this very reason always very true and very beautiful inside out.
@Calcuttasnippets3 күн бұрын
I will finish my meeting and come back to hear Shweta...
@ShwetaVijay3 күн бұрын
I appreciate that
@ajitadubey92923 күн бұрын
Have always admired you for the honesty and acknowledgement of all facets without any filters. I am relieved with your content and grateful to be your audience. How much I relate to you on everyday basis when you pointed out it is normal to feel inadequate when younger people are getting better opportunities very early in career whilst some of us have to struggle a lot to get everything to the table; about being financially independent; about hitting a gold pot if you have a good partner and the change that Covid has brought into all our lives especially our relationship with our partners. I remember my mother leaving me welling on the floor because she had to go to work and how I used to hate it only to realise now how difficult it was for her to do it. I am inspired each day from you, starting my journey with ask naturals to help with strength building just on your recommendation. I swear if it wasn’t for my job, I would’ve never been an independent person and it’s my biggest achievement. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, really… thank you ❤
@sanchariroychowdhury8761Күн бұрын
I am speechless currently Sweta! The struggle of health being a mother at 36- constant feeling inadequate being in a corporate job- need of being selfish - you were speaking my mind without filter❤ huge respect for being so brave & honest about yourself 🙏🏾
@vidhiadukia5384Күн бұрын
This is so amazing. You are such a genuine person. You are such a strong individual.
@shruthiharish6743 күн бұрын
Takes a lot of courage to talk about the challenges & experiences that you shared.Your openness is truly refreshing. Wishing you and your family all the best as you navigate this journey❤
@Rarissime.reverie3 күн бұрын
I always admire and love how raw ,honest and unfiltered you are. You really didn't need to share your personal life with us but I whole heartedly appreciate this❤. I find so much strength and it's encouraging at least for me. Thank you so much for building the trust and the community we have here❤
@jyothi09893 күн бұрын
The most relatable content....
@Calcuttasnippets3 күн бұрын
Shweta you pointed out something really great abt marketing.. commercials/ads are menat to be a certain way and KZbin videos on a product need not be that way... The latter can be informative descriptive and in depth and everything doesn't need to be glamorized ...theres value in knowing things in depth ❤❤❤❤❤
@k.k778315 сағат бұрын
Most honest video i have ever seen.More power to you.
@khuranavineetaКүн бұрын
So much respect to you and hats off to your mother.. no one in the entire world can do what your mother did. Also addressing that 9 to 5 corporate moms life is hard, please always feel the other way. Motherhood is tough as whatever situation is in the indian family, mother is a primary caretaker to the child. You are always awesome Shweta ❤
@Priti80Күн бұрын
Only thing I isn’t understand is that why are you not in London with him ? Did I miss any part of this video ? 😮
@divyakapoor14743 күн бұрын
You are the most honest person with a pure soul. 👍❤️ I have never seen a woman like you who is so dedicated, hardworking and committed towards everything - professional and personal. 👏 For me you are truly an inspiration. 👍 You put your heart out today and in fact you always do! I just love this.. ❤ Hey shweta you are a good human 💕 And this is why you are the best content creator. 😊 Keep shining 🌟 You deserve the best ❤ Lots of love to your little Princess - "Nirvana". ❤
@rupanjalikaushikКүн бұрын
Hi shweta, i hope this message finds you well. This is the most authentic video i have seen. I think apart of being a content creator ( related to beauty), you could also provide this pearls of wisdom aka life lessons. Being a little selfish as a mom is so underrated. Lots of love and happiness 💕💕
@simisimon75883 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I know some people ( not the community, outsiders and general population) may find what you say sacrilegious but I cannot express how validating it is to hear something I believe in being reaffirmed by an older, experienced person! What you said about having a home for your daughter to come back to when she might need to made me so emotional! Much love chechi. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your life with us. You are an amazing person and mother💜
@divyagoel51913 күн бұрын
Your honesty is so relatable- obviously you dont owe anything to your audience but just telling it as it is makes us feel so much better because so many of us are sailing in that rocky boat , holding on to the railings . Take care ❤
@meera91263 күн бұрын
More power to you Shweta! It's inspiring to hear about your journey and struggles..please continue to be your unapologetic vibrant self 🙌🏻❤️
@sandeepkaur-vk7jh3 күн бұрын
There was a smile on my face throughout this video, just acknowledging the fact that how much you have claimed your self-worth and not taking anyone's shit 💜🌸 Loved listening to you till the end 💕🌻
@damanbains40023 күн бұрын
Omg Shweta...you are awesome...so straight forward and brutally honest. I could relate to every single word u said where you are in life...I am in my late 30's and exactly at the same spot. So much happens for a working independent women that doesn't want to compromise on her dreams and her peace of mind. Stay strong and God bless...it just calmed me to hear and may be that's exactly what I wanted to hear at this point.
@Buddha983 күн бұрын
In my mid 40s and so relatable with energy down , balancing house, kids and work. Good luck to you fir everything. You are a 💎 gem
@rashmiiyer5443 күн бұрын
What a honest review felt a lump in my throat 😢
@ShwetaVijay2 күн бұрын
Hope you like part 2 as well
@Varier_shares2 күн бұрын
I’m in my late 30’s and still waiting for my time 😢ya there is a lot of pressure. When you see younger people achieving so much, you begin to question your purpose.
@ramyarani60823 күн бұрын
What a fabulous video..Shweta..It was great hearing you and i completely got inspired ❤..And I am a working woman and i totally get that notion.
@revathynandana72563 күн бұрын
Such a gem you are🤌🏻 I spoke things that were in my thoughts but I couldn’t put it out in words. Really it’s therapeutic and I will try to come back to this video now and then.
@smitapainkara69413 күн бұрын
Love from chattisgarh..❤
@kag751310 сағат бұрын
Raw & Real QnA it was... always enjoy your every video.❤
@tanvideshmukh82043 сағат бұрын
Hey Shweta, What lipstick are you wearing????????
@frankieasra2 күн бұрын
omg this was so raw and honest and i felt every word of it.
@melrob27873 күн бұрын
8:43 got me choked....😢 I feel you....
@swathu2510 сағат бұрын
Hi shweta! What are these spangs? Where do we get it? And how does it make your waist look so cinched? Pls share more light on it. TIA
@supriyaverma87273 күн бұрын
This is so brave of you! Following you for sooooo long and this is so so relatable! Lots of love and strength to you! ❤
@ShwetaVijay3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!❤
@adrijabiswas63392 күн бұрын
The honesty you have is rare now a days.
@hellostranger20123 күн бұрын
since you are in a long distance relationship, have you ever felt your partner has been cheating on you? did you ever have trust issues?
@linktoanita3 күн бұрын
Absolutely admire your honesty dear Shweta ❤❤ more power to you and sending you loads of love 💕💕
@amruthanair62493 күн бұрын
❤love your thoughts, content and wish all your dreams come true.. I truly agree with the fact and importance of having a home and a family to support one.. only ones not having such a support would understand what effort it is to hold everything together.
@hellostranger20123 күн бұрын
my parents are stressing me out regarding marriage and I am kind of scared
@rajprad91203 күн бұрын
You and hubby seemed to have a lot of respect and warmth for each other .. have even felt you even resemble each other! you both have your own aspirations and dreams. Hope a decision is made where both are happy .
@ShwetaVijay3 күн бұрын
I hope so too!❤
@ramyarayachoti2 күн бұрын
Hi Shweta, thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. Can you please make a video on pregnancy friendly skin care and cosmetics? I know you made one when you were expecting Nirvana, but it would really help if you made one now since the market is flooded with so many new brands and products. I am finally pregnant after many rounds of IUIs and IVF and wouldn't trust anybody else but you for recommendations on skin care!! ❤❤
@shubhiagarwal993 күн бұрын
What a powerful answers, Respect 🙏
@parismitasarma80833 күн бұрын
One of the most honest and Raw video from a Content creator. Much love and respect to you Di.. ❤
@deepthanarayan89803 күн бұрын
I love listening to you Shweta......more strength to my superwoman ❤️🤗❤️🤗
@shrutichaudhry94733 күн бұрын
Thank you for being yourself Shwetha. I always enjoy listening to you, and so many of us can relate to you as a woman and mother.
@shradhapant37643 күн бұрын
Totally relatable..i love your energy and the clarity that life lessons have given you. It helps to stay calm in the chaos. Life-watta Teacher you are❤
@Gargisharma0283 күн бұрын
U are a rock star. Such gold. Always so authentic & inspiring ✨✨❤
@niveditadhir38753 күн бұрын
God Bless your Momma and daughter with loads of good health and joy
@AnashuaBanerji3 күн бұрын
You have huge respect from us working professionals with whom substance and wisdom resonate and mere optics don't. Always in your support ❤
@kripajohn57663 күн бұрын
Hmmm....product not great but background is good...😂😂😂😂...love your sense of humour❤❤❤
@Vaibhavi555-sb8qx3 күн бұрын
By far the most honest true to its best life update and qna Ur not made with flesh and bone,but with titanium ur that strong 💪 Thank u for simplifying being little selfish as a mother towards our children wellbeing 👨🍼.... Probably u would not have edited this video at all... Unfiltered authentic... Applause 👏 for being so courageous.... As a single mother i look upto you dear ❤... Loads of love and happiness from bangalore
@palkisharma7971Күн бұрын
I love and respect u for who u r ❤
@61chitra3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much Shweta for this brutally honest video especially on relationships..I can relate to you when you mentioned about your "older self doing everything on your own" 25:20 😢 Thank you for normalizing being selfish
@shweta247772 күн бұрын
Thank you for your honesty Shweta, appreciate it. Wish you the best✨
@forumdesai2563 күн бұрын
You as a Mother and Your Mother are super hero❤
@sv8493 күн бұрын
You are a gem shweta dii ❤ the reason we love you from so many years is because of your transparency. You are honest... brutally honest to be specific. Much love to u dii 💗
@smrithiudhayakumar177Күн бұрын
Haii Shwetha chechi, pls come to Germany...if at all you come to south Germany, I would like to meet you
@aswathymechur32093 күн бұрын
your ethics, honesty, faith. Keep going Chechi .. lots of love and prayers
@anneshadatta32453 күн бұрын
You're a strong lady! You are an inspiration for me and many others
@komalmohapatra15323 күн бұрын
Thank you for acknowledging all the working super moms who feel guilty for not spending enough time with their kid due to the stubborn 9 to 5 job ❤❤
@amrutabhave12933 күн бұрын
U r such a true person, loved the much Honest chat☺️❤️😍😍😍
@noorsaba68213 күн бұрын
Last 5 minutes really made me cry Shweta!!😘
@puspitatripathy44293 күн бұрын
I can so relate shweta...feels good after watching this..thank u
@TinyMakeupUpdate3 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video ❤
@kripanjalitellisnayak3 күн бұрын
Been following for years and I am so glad I do. So honest and secure with your values and the maturity is something that’s commendable. ❤
@niharikas79653 күн бұрын
Have seen your journey Shweta and we are so proud of you. Following you since so many years when you used to recommend the best nude lipsticks from very few options we had here in India.. i remember being so pissed when you used to add huda lipstick or colourpop lipsticks as they were not available here 😅 i bought the shade haute latte from colorbar after your recommendation when they were new in the market and its still my favourite 😍
@sanaok10903 күн бұрын
Yayie long sit down video from Shweta❤
@Yaya880073 күн бұрын
Shweta if you run for politics ... Ill surely vote you..... 100% .... You are the most honest and relatable influencer, I dislike this name though, I will rewrite it You are the most honest and relatable human. I truly understand when you speak and I get it.....
@ShwetaVijayКүн бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️🫂
@sheetals1322 күн бұрын
Your just amazing wishing you all the very best in life always ❤
@niveditanagar5673Күн бұрын
Very authentic ❤
@Tripathi_Shraddha3 күн бұрын
Hey, what lip shade are you wearing here? Looks beautiful on you
@kavita78013 күн бұрын
What I have learnt ,love youself,your family,yes take care of my self,luv makeup,sewing,and my body is not an inspiration,but iam thankful for everything I got ,luv you videos ,
@aakankshaoswal92143 күн бұрын
I loved how honest you were throughout the video !! It was a serious video nonetheless I love the line I workout to eat cause that's my life moto too 😂❤ I love fooodd!! Also sv will u be attending nykaaland this year??
@ShwetaVijayКүн бұрын
Glad you liked it!! And no , I don’t think so. I got invited for it but I won’t be attending ❤️
@ramavardhini38313 күн бұрын
Beautiful video❤️ Shweta more respect and strength to you. 🎈