Signs my Partner is Cheating

[@nononeed9494]

That guy should never be a coach. He has no clue. Sadia you are 100% correct. That guy is not a coach and should never advice anyone. Once a woman goes outside of the relationship is never the same.

[@THE-LOVE-LATTE]

Hrs a dating coach, and in no way at all a relationship expert and he needs to stop trying to be that way. His advice on relationships is at times harmful and brutally out context, and with exaggerating principles

[@dvd_12337]

I happen to agree with Hussey, to categorize women as only not respectful is only one part of it. As a women in this situation, it is in fact as Hussey described it. I think it’s correct not to label all women in the same bucket as solely over and only caused by disrespect

[@dvd_12337]

Also I disagree. My husbands forgiveness towards me was not “ oh I don’t respect him” it’s the contrary I liked it and I was truly sorry and want to make things work. Maybe it’s a case by case but to in my case it is not as Sadia says.

[@nasirrn818]

One is a "Dating coach", the other is a psychologist...,,

[@WoodnetRonnie]

Watching this mesmerizing video dredges up painful memories of the recent dissolution of my 4 year relationship. The departure of my beloved, the one I adore deeply, has left me in a perpetual state of longing. Despite my tireless attempts at reconciliation, I find myself mired in frustration , unable to shake the persistent thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to move forward, I'm compelled to share my inner turmoil and the overwhelming sense of missing her here .

[@Roselinekendris]

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[@WoodnetRonnie]

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[@Roselinekendris]

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[@WoodnetRonnie]

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[@Ryguy-u7l]

​@WoodnetRonnie Dont do it, just move forward my friend.

[@BillBrent]

Matthew is an idealist. Sadia is a realist. Sadly, the world primarily deals with reality and not ideals.

[@ارغوان-ث3ه]

Cheating is the end of any relationshipz whether it is done by a man or woman. The trust is gone and it is very very hard to rebuild it. It is best to go separate ways.

[@Markdizzledazzle100]

Sadia's perspective is 100% correct. This guy's perspective on masculinity is 100% 🐱🐱🐱

[@daniaa099]

As a woman. I agree with every word she says. 👩🏻‍💼

[@gmoneyharvest6490]

Sadia spot on. Everything. Super impressive breakdown actually. No shade to M but he’s proving super beta and I feel bad for guys who pay for that kind of “advice”

[@zero1188]

Easiest sign to tell if they are cheating is rejection of sax. But for some reason people ignore this obvious sign

[@THE-LOVE-LATTE]

Because both men and women don't always do it that way. You're speaking to one aspect which yes it does happen often, but they don't do it the same and absolutely one doesn't do it as frequently as the other. And never see one signal as a conclusion to truth, it rarely is

[@zero1188]

@@THE-LOVE-LATTEthats not the only factor but thats a main one along with other signs. But im not listing out an essay of signs

[@harpersnyder2297]

True tho bro

[@Jambo66328]

Divorced twice and for the same reason. My ex's underestimated my s*x needs over and over again. Bye

[@Dionysus_Athena]

No that’s usually the sign when the deed has already been done. The signs come much earlier, her texting and smiling, being secretive, being rude to you, a change in her appearance is a huge one, starting to go out and not be on time back home.

[@JohnSmith-ij4xe]

I have met my fair share of women that cheat and all showed signs they were no longer in love and were at least 50 to 75% done with the relationship but were only in the relationship for the kids OR until they could monkey branch. The ones I know went through with cheating they never respected their partner again. Men forget that women are like kids and need boundaries and need to know you have rules and standards they can’t cross or you will leave them permanently. There are exceptions to some women but they are very rare. If she always wants your attention, affection, signs she’s in love with you then you have nothing to worry about.

[@RBC0405]

Wish he would stop interrupting her.

[@charlesabdulrazak4491]

Sadia is 100% correct, wise words!

[@AnonYoBizness]

Sadia hit it on the mark. She simplified it, but if she feels she has power over you, you lose

[@THE-LOVE-LATTE]

Shes got it down. I respect the balance you've tried to provide, but Matthew is a dating coach. That is tactics and principles on dating, landing the person. He displays a reasonable understanding of relationship basics but drastically lacks fundamentals of what is in fact decades of research and proof. His entire basis is on coddling vs compassion. The most unfortunate proof in the original video was where Lewis asked both parties for what they gained in the discussion from both parties. You, Sadia, totally welcomed views outside yourself and the basis of them. Matthew, however, was only capable... after actually biting his tongue because he was fuming, literally if you watch... could NOT dare give anything that resembled a compliment. He is incapable of genuine relationship advice and in fact gives harmful examples by taking principles way outside a healthy scope of what it's intended. The literal documented differences of women and men, especially from maladaptive upbringing is glaring and you speak to it, Matthew is vapid in this regard. Sadia nailed it

[@audioadhd]

I'm realize im really blessed after hearing this

[@yasseralsaidi1168]

Respect is the Foundation than cuddling with our faces glued to each other

[@DulceCubana100]

I think that it can go both ways. When women forgive cheating they either don’t love you that much or checked out. It won’t be the same ever again. Forgiving a man for cheating will usually lead to him doing it again. Sorry Sadia but men are not victims here. People just need to be honest and truthful.

[@debbie66992]

Sadhia you are so so amazing !!!! Love the way you are explaining what we want from men deep down . Sooo true!

[@Popcolor]

Sure a man shouldn’t stay with a woman who cheats. But a woman should also not stay with a man who cheats either because that shows him that you condone the cheating and you will stay and he will do it again. I’ve seen it happening so many times. I didn’t want to believe once a cheater, always a cheater. But I’ve seen it so many times that it just comes down to character, those who cheat will keep cheating. It’s a pattern and once trust is broken it’s over.

[@98284104]

20 minutes perfect example of how a man can compartmentalize cheating and a woman TRYING to honestly explain a truth and him mansplaining how it's not true.

[@sonicchaos23]

The guy she was debating is so wildly off the mark it made my head spin. Ladies and gents, thats what a true simp looks like

[@SethofZA]

God bless Nadia, the truth and wisdom coming out of her is 💯, learning and relating

[@kuombokatv3238]

Forgiving a Cheating wife is foolishness. Jesus the author of marriage knew why He said divorce her when she commits adultery.

[@joemorgan636]

Definitely

[@chgofirefighter]

Sorry but who is “Jesus?” 🤭🤣😂 oh let me guess… you’re own imaginary friend? 😂

[@joemorgan636]

@@chgofirefighter yes if she cheats Shes got to go

[@kuombokatv3238]

@@chgofirefighter Unfortunately you have unsound mind that dwells in unsound body. RESPECT MY BELIEFS. THR FACT THAT YOU BELIEVE IN WHAT YOU BELIEVE DOES NOT GIVE you the superiority to question me. Remain in whatever you believe in.

[@dani4157]

​@@chgofirefighterImagine getting that triggered over a little comment. Seek therapy

[@edithmurphy1229]

True,can't forgive a woman!

[@BlackRock-s5k]

This lady knows her stuff. That’s exactly why I have an “ex-wife” when I found out she was cheating. Been single for year’s and only date different women now. I’m extremely happy

[@cmf9984]

I tried to forgive my wife for cheating. During the months I wasted trying to do so, I could tell her love was fading bit by bit. She kept telling me how much she loved me, but her actions said otherwise. Then when I decided on divorce, she said she wanted us to work on it but I told her I'm done. She continued to say how much she loved me but all the while, I was down and depressed and she was living day by day like nothing had happened. Her love for me died long ago. I just didn't realize it right away.

[@YW19832]

Sad when marriage breaks down by Interested to know if you ever cheated on her?

[@cryptolew8885]

Dude knows about shame dynamics; totally right about dealing with shame afterwords. clients bear this out. the key for many women is forgiving themselves and believing that the man forgives them. She rightly emphasizes boundaries but skews her strong belief in such to cheating/broken. Many women cheat because of difficulty with attachment; they in fact don't care that you cheating because they are not connected to you and can't really connect with anyone else. Very very common.

[@WhiteShadow-141]

Cheating is a choice and to maybe he wasn’t raised by both parents

[@jtaylor4972]

I think you are correct Sadia, but only within a certain personality type. More of the narcissistic type

[@jtaylor4972]

Shes explains clearly, the majority of her clients are narcissistic, so it only makes sense with that data, she would arrive at the conclusion she does. So naturally what she is saying is true, within those personality types, I think it's 1 in 4 persons that come under the narcissistic personality, that's a big audience to appeal too.

[@Bella-ss1vr]

100% true Sadia !!! Your incredible

[@muddinansari7083]

this video literally came in the perfect moment in my life, love you

[@TheYoonaJ]

I completely disagree with Sadia. Woman can love the man immensely and feel disconnected from him for many reasons. Cheating can be almost like despair move to have any connection. It doesn’t not mean at all that she doesn’t love her husband and doesn’t respect him. Bravo Matthew, you seem so much more mature. It seems like Sadias clients are really extreme and troubled people.

[@kurtlee6608]

teach him it's knowing when to walk away!

[@davidcolgan5803]

The girl don’t lie. 🔥

[@helder6175]

1:28 + Women only label cheating when the men do it. Just goes to show the lack of accountability by women. Double standards, obviously. That is why women's emotions shouldn't be taken seriously. Once the respect, sex, and trust are gone, she is gone (even if she's still there for some reason [the kids, shelter, etc.]).

[@javiercintron3344]

There are people who want to have a body by their side, to be accompanied, or to feel loved and respected. If another person's love or respect for us is lacking, we still have dignity, value, and ourselves. We can feel peace and joy in not being with someone knowing that they do not love and respect us. Peace, and love for ourselves surpasses everything...

[@adinan1848]

amazing podcast. the fact that they disagree also shows that there more to this topic than " he is not masculine enough " and we get cheated on ! Also a women that goes cheating because she doesnt respect her man anymore its just superficial to say. If you dont respect me as and im not in my masculine energy just leave. dont cheat

[@DaveOndiekAaron85]

LOT'S OF LOVE LADY #SADIA ❤️💯

[@NewWave-n2s]

2:20 = that’s not the only issue. In today’s day and age, women try to stretch the protective covering you put in place so that they can cheat. They’ll throw tantrums, argue, wear you out, complain about this, complain about that, talk about how they need a new male best friend, tease and temp your brother, they exhaust you into becoming a simp. And single brothers see the playbook ran on their two older good brothers who chose to settle down just for the sake of family, not that they can’t continue getting women

[@MRVLLA]

I was busy with a woman at home once and she had 20 missed calls and she finally answered and I heard dude crying on the phone. She told him everything he wanted to hear and was like this is what I have to go home to. Had no idea she was in a relationship but she acted like she wanted one with me. I never saw her again. This traumatized me to get into any relationship

[@mha10]

I feel like he's gaslighting. She's really speaking what I truly feel to be true. If I forgive my wife for cheating on me I KNOW FOR A FACT she would think of me as basically being a little simp. She'd deep down, probably be ashamed and be even more unattracted to me. We speak openly, she knows I don't play that... There is no scenario I ever would, and I can tell she respect that's about me. This notion that I as a man need to "respect her and the relationship so much that I'm willing to forgive" is typical 2024 nonsense. You guys behave how you want, but boundaries are real, human evolution and unique characteristics between both genders are real (generally speaking) and if you want to ignore those truths then proceed with caution.

[@NikolaiAlexanderWestall]

Sadia drops truthbombs.

[@dginia]

People pleaser certainly describes me. My first marriage, her second - he cheated, she told me. In between, she had 6 or more lovers. Did this set her up to cheat going forward? Her mantra when we met was, “don’t throw me away!” I therefore, knew she would never cheat. Wrong. So much more to unpack.

[@peterphoenix6471]

they get addicted to the excitement of sexual encounters. in their conscious they tell themselves they want something safe and assured. but once they've been down that road...their mind returns back to it. you will never win, so accept people for what they are....infidelity junkies. trust me, this is the truth.

[@moochnhowzn]

I can’t stand listening to this man , he is living in another reality

[@jmall929292]

This guy is operating off of theory, Sadia is offering off of experience - that much is clear

[@1118Tiffany]

As a woman, I think it’s same both ways, not one worse than the other

[@fredterrell9847]

Grandma & Grandpa of 30,40,50,60 years together have untold stories of many issues they endured.

[@frankevangelista2642]

You can't forget the infidelity and never get even I tried it doesn't help

[@ammoffroad2456]

You heard it from devils mouth you still refuse to believe it? My wife had an emotional affair with her manager. She insists they didn't sleep together and even took a lie detector test, but I couldn't shake the feeling that she was hiding something. I tried to forgive her for two years, but the doubt never went away. Filing for divorce was incredibly difficult, but the sense of relief I feel now is overwhelming. It's like this whole weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Now, I can finally start to rebuild my life.

[@mocococo2877]

The sad face of the guy with the blue shirt make me think that he might have been cheated on and he did forgive.

[@Robrr89]

23:06 There too is an underlying factor here by the man marrying the wrong woman from the beginning of this has happened. There is a accountability on a man as much as a woman to have discernment entering a relationship

[@whitneyflowers1445]

The same way a man shouldn’t take back a woman so should a woman not take back a man , it shows disrespect, and weakness to walk away

[@coachb3599]

this teaches me that when a man is cheating he should cheat because of a woman's shortcoming, and not just because he wants to cheat, level the playing field.

[@Dwaynekdclarke876]

Good insights

[@andrechimene6300]

Sounds like this guy arguing with you is afraid of losing his future business, which is to sell people on the dream that they can work back together when that’s really not gonna happen but I think he feels like you’re taking bread out of his mouth… I just wanna know how many times has he been cheated on, and in the future

[@anthony72605]

i agree with Sadia 💯 if your wife cheats on you its over plain and simple. If you stay you are a beta and she will take advantage of you because she will view you as weak period. Leave her and dont look back.Then watch her try to crawl back, stonewall her and watch her implode. Now you have your power back. Take it, improve yourself and move on.

[@radianceface5107]

I totally agree with Sadia and not Matthew

[@wanda-d9p]

Thank you Sadia for speaking the truth... I'm also actrated to you are you married.

[@paynenathan11]

This is probably the only woman I have respect for anymore, but even she is proving why dating and marriage is a lost cause anymore.

[@NathanAdams-vp9oj]

Sadia speaking truth to a certain people. Wealthy people usually. Jesus from the Bible speaking to truth to his people. I don’t know if I make sense.

[@12345678938129]

The worst lies are the lies you tell yourself, that is women’s mindset and excuses when they cheat. Avoid accountability always lead them into the same shit

[@peterphoenix6471]

the english fella has some points i agree with. but in most cases, what you're going to encounter is what she is saying. stand your ground....warn them of the wraith you will bring if you are disrespected in anyway. when they do, remind them they were warned then do what you want, have sex with whom ever you want. dont provide them with reasons or feel the need to explain your movements. just protect yourself. let them do as they please because they were always going to anyway.

[@kurtlee6608]

everytime i listen to this guy my heart bleed, he looks at everything from the minority just one or two cases of everything to justify the way he thinks.

[@lg2389]

Happy wife happy life lmao. Hear that guys. No more happy wife. Always conflict her if she is wrong.

[@Zfaith_fitness_detox]

She’s not right. My x didn’t respect me for forgiving at all. It made him not want me more.

[@phillipperez6925]

I used to respect this guy, however I think he supports a small minority of women with his views. Sadie you speak as a woman the true nature of women and he can’t understand that. I agree with you from my experience of relationships with women.

[@civildiscourse7626]

A man who’s been cheated on but stays with her has been permanently emasculated.

[@whitneyflowers1445]

I don’t agree with her , she is giving man an excuse , and not speaking on behalf of all woman definitely not me

[@shodan198]

I'm sorry Sadie owned Mathew on some points

[@thisisneverthat7151]

Wish he'd just let her explain.

[@sadiapsychology]

Hi Everyone! Leave your thoughts below ❤

[@NathanAdams-vp9oj]

@@sadiapsychology 💚

[@joshconnolly4636]

Interesting presumption from him that getting custody is a negative. I’d be much more terrified of my daughter being raised in a home with strange men coming and going. Being influenced or raised at all by anyone other than me.

[@gmoneyharvest6490]

Respect to Mathew, but you Sadia are Spot on 100 percent no doubt it’s every thing ive seen from friends families and personal real world experience.

[@ROAK_me]

Hi Sadia, you are a life saver...I have toiled, laboured all my life for 22 years to support family. There was just a slight lull in my finances and she started supporting, for just 1st 6 months, and I was out on the streets. I resigned from middle management from a big bank and move abroad, this was done out of pressure to support my medically challenged child, and then I hear lots of lies and accusations to justify the request for divorce and recruiting my kids against me. She says, "Go for therapy, but I sense a deeper reason, I can't place a finger on; infidelity, quest for freedom, quest to prove she is strong...I need to know. I hope I am financially buoyant to pay for this brilliant service from you

[@azhaloco4711]

Thanks Sadia! You held your ground. I agreed completely with your stance

[@heiditugers]

Disagree with this. Sadie makes her money from the male audience and she knows she has to cater to what they want to hear. Most of the time she is talking nonsense, but hey, she is bringing in lots of money so I guess she is pretty clever and knows exactly what she is doing.

[@YW19832]

Don’t agree with this woman. Her view breaks down relationships rather than giving a chance at healing.

[@AijazGamer-u4h]

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[@uncanny_memes_]

its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life and it's not new age bs

[@superbackyardbreeder1084]

No wonder my girlfriend's cooking is so good. Like i always tell her, i can always eat too much when it's ur cooking.

[@TasnimMasudi]

Notiy gud 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@archiemattocks8190]

Sadia you are a Gem! ... now that guy was sort of correct ... in that... both genders have the ability to forgive ..women no less ..ofcourse! ..where he has totally gone off the british coastline is... most ladies who have cheated can be ,and maybe remorseful of their actions or even perhaps ashamed .... however they would also feel yucky and without respect for the de-masculine man who takes her back ..they feel as if ...sure his nice enough but man his a bit off! .. thats the difference ...not so much that they never feel bad about it. Means Sadia is correct ! as always .. however he did have a nice hair cut though ..in passing :)

[@geoffreybester7953]

My BPD partner cheats all the time, just easier to starve her.

[@Markdizzledazzle100]

I bet that guy's wife is doing another guy right now

[@tizzlekizzle]

There are red lines.

[@mike-papag]

05:40 femininity I feel there's something really disturbing if femininity is so absent that there's a need to teach it in podcasts.

[@jeya9139]

dude ,, let her talk stop interrupting her ,,

[@ablemedia8763]

I used to think u r full of $hit but after watching this one n really thinking about it. This is absolutely 💯 right. I been cheated on, been with a cheater and cheated. It’s correct. U have to love yourself enough to walk away. I remember the cheater asked me if I loved myself. I was taken aback by such a wierd question. But yes I would have forgiven her if she had not ended the relationship. N yes it hurt cause I would have hurt myself just to see her pleased.

[@bayarea7537]

Bro tripping

[@yasseralsaidi1168]

How to purchase a dog 🐕 from the European 🇪🇺 union ? 🤔

[@cesars8137]

That guys is an idiot. Don't always agree with the lady. But in this 💯!

[@TasnimMasudi]

Saruti ❤❤❤❤❤

[@wayneparsons1243]

💯

[@masterblaster7129]

I felt nothing than the soul.man doesnt have anything. Women have feel peace when they have with loved ones.Men have peace he doesnt have anything.Research goes on matter related approach,not on Non matter.There are three mothers, earthy mother,ethereal mother,cosmic mother.Because of them,movement occurs.Earthy mother have imperfections,40 percent of pureness.Etheral mother 70 percent of pureness like a moon.Cosmic mother, she doesnt have impurity 100 percent purity,she is in utter silence,smiles make her play in the universe.if the person escapes from this three mother, he/she doesnt have birth.Time becomes nothing,space becomes void.

[@marcusvogelius6714]

Why is that guy trying to teach her how women work?!😂

[@YW19832]

The same way she is able to comment on men. Process what both are saying rather than what we want to hear because it supports our individual beliefs

[@Jackc718]

there are hoes who cheat on anyone.

[@muneka]

Men go YEARS without getting 53X from their wives??!?!?! Wtf?!?!?!?😂😂🤡🤡🤡

[@sequoiasaunders1206]

Sounds horrible.

[@muneka]

@sequoiasaunders1206 that's what I'm saying 🤷 If it's more than 2 months I'm cheating 🥱

[@sequoiasaunders1206]

@@muneka yeah, you’d basically have to be dying of a terrible disease for that to be understandable. Can’t blame someone if you’re starving them of affection!

[@AnnaGrace603]

So men are supposed to be masculine and they are so strong they are supposed to be the leader......at the same time accept that they are babies. cook that baby a meal Iron that baby their cloth ....they are needy babies. she seriously used the word "Babies"😅 So are they men or are they babies?!?!? cause you can't be both. Its a contradiction. A baby is what comes out of the womens womb and it needs Mommy. A man is the adult who will protect and provide for both mommy and baby

[@TasnimMasudi]

My mazaa shiwazi savayive wasi my fazaha Foho reva pisi I love

[@angelmadrigal3666]

He sounds like a beta male who’s forgiven a cheating partner and resents her assessment because he feels emasculated

[@oo9276]

She is absolutely right. Women just cant desl w the truth

[@etereal05]

... hearing him is like the psycology of simping.... one way or another, a man is going to learn that bot BE a man you will have to take the COURAGE to leave her. and on the shame explanation, just get to latin america, shame for been a womanizer, LOL...

[@TasnimMasudi]

Tenki you somache

[@moochnhowzn]

The male is delusional

[@diegovelasquez5336]

This dude 😂😂😂😂😂😂u go girl bone head is not getting it !😂😂😂no I could not except Any type of cheating…….😎✊🏽