Signs That Your Ex Doesn't Want You Back

[@christinemendoza3762]

I don’t think I want him back. I just want to get over this phase. I’m still doing the work :(

[@Pills-co2lx]

Christine Mendoza I swear bru

[@phillisyamkan7778]

Christine Mendoza i don’t want him back too. I just want to move on, love myself like never before

[@JustineMfulama]

One day it will feel like it happened years ago and that's when you will be able to move on!

[@edthedead]

The most important thing I've learned through my breakup is to learn to love myself. When you can be happy knowing that your ex is living their life and you're living your life that is the best you can ask for. Obviously everyone wants that opportunity to rekindle with an ex but overall you have to rekindle that love within yourself

[@boholanakathryn]

So true

[@crystalbell6174]

Well said thank you

[@alisaiful6717]

When you are the only one who make all efforts than it is time to pack your bag for good..

[@capricris7672]

Sign he doesn't want you back, personally, when he knows you still love him and grey rocks you, ghosts you, tells you or others he's with someone else, does not make any effort to contact you, zero, zilch, nothing, crickets. Time to move on.

[@carmelcohen2523]

That's when I will have revenge

[@xMattTheLegendx]

CARMEL COHEN why? Revenge will always backfire and there’s no point in revenge if they already moved on. You’re just letting yourself go and not focusing on life. Don’t waste it on someone so ignorant that they don’t give you time when you always gave them yours. They’re fake. Accept it and be happy with your life.

[@thekingskull95]

@@xMattTheLegendx thank you for this!

[@katiearellanes891]

What's grey rocking?

[@Ali_d800]

@@katiearellanes891 Grey rocking someone is to basically act boring, uninterested and unengaged towards them, to discourage them from wanting to talk to you. Replying with blunt, one-word answers is a common example.

[@Alkemmiztt]

I fear falling for someone like these people in the comments. Still hoping their ex will reach out

[@DarknessIsThePath]

Why? Maybe you are better than their ex lol

[@justusethis2379]

I feel like if they find happiness elsewhere they'll realize that the other person means nothing.. for me? I just wished my ex wasn't the person she showed me. And missed the person that I met and fell in love with. But now. I dont give 1 fuck about her lol. Honestly

[@basicinfo2022]

That is so judgemental and such a generalization. Almost every relationship has at least 1 break up. You don't quit or give up on someone you love so easily... relationships take a lot of patience, forgiveness and understanding.

[@charliemvrphy]

Well, hopefully these people you are referring to are going through the healing process and, when that time comes where they put themselves out there again, they have moved on. Then again, rebound relationships happen. Just need to take your time with these things.

[@ladygypsysoul122]

I think the biggest sign your boyfriend or girlfriend does not you back is...They found someone new...That is like "strike 3...you are out"...

[@crownedmelaninqueen]

Finding someone new immediately after a break up or a divorce doesn't really mean they moved on. They are in a rebound and couldn't be whole within themselves to truly love and care about that new person. They didn't heal from the dysfunction or chaos from the relationship or marriage that just ended.

[@MakeWay4CJ]

....unless of course, the person they are seeing have been there and they’ve been seeing them for longer than realized.

[@daredevil7501]

that is rebound

[@hg77777]

true but not really I think it depends on the situation. I broke up with my first BF long time ago he got a rebound relationship and he couldn't handle it and right after he immediately contacted me...We also had friends in common so they constantly told me how he was doing even though I didn't want to know since it hurt. I also live in a different country so it depends on the situation.

[@debbie6533]

I am trying to stay real busy..and not contact him..but it's killing me

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Whatever it is that you're doing in order to stay busy, make sure that you are consciously present in whatever it is you're doing, and not letting your mind drift off into thinking about him - Coach Steven

[@debbie6533]

I am reinstating my real estate license..taking a medical coding class..and maybe taking ASL (American sign language) as all if these things require you to focus

[@roshanaynisar8758]

I can't focus at work due to this stress. I can't eat can't sleep

[@caitlinmcquadexxx5767]

Debbie Anne so am I it’s horrible ;((( but I haven’t contacted him since the day after the breakup and that was the last time. We have not spoken at ALL since, and I’m proud of myself.

[@gvparadise2366]

I m also in the same page same position

[@hiphoptv496]

I've learned Self love, and been feeling real positive.

[@realpassionlife]

Hip Hop Tv I hope to find self love and positivity too. I'm happy for you!

[@KanchanmalaSengupta]

I think when you work on Yourself it's a win win situation. Either your ex comes back or You grow stronger and into a completely different positive person where no one can hurt you anymore

[@arrowmax6189]

That's ur poor love,,u didn't him love him ever,,dear golddigger,,that's why u don't care of him,,it's the right decision for him to leave a golddigger like u,,who is only thinking about herself only

[@oiltechnology9845]

Another sign is six foot long scratch along the side of your car.

[@jennifer5180]

Oil Technology 🤣 I’m sorry about your car but that was funny

[@yolenda_loves_to_sing]

"Hate" is still an emotion. That means he/she still have feelings for you. The opposite of "love" is actually "indifference".

[@benderose3508]

I found this from looking up “how to tell your coach your quitting a sport” man KZbin is a wonderful place

[@violettab6745]

Life is short, why to spent your time with someone doesn’t care about you? Instead start search for what you looking for ! We all deserve LOVE ✨

[@scar-um9so]

Broke up a few weeks ago .Thanks to God he brought me and my (now ex together) and I am praying he brings us back together

[@floralwood_]

How's thing going bro?

[@FromAlabamabutanAuburntigerfan]

Huh 😅? Lol rephrase that please

[@chepkorirkoriryo819]

I have this slogan that I sleep and wake up with : to let the dead rest in eternal peace. 28 days of no contact , no communication whatsoever in this time span. I have already decided to let things happen naturally. I'm open to whatever that comes my way😊. Stay positive and rejoice in all times, life's short. Hugs🤗❤️

[@biswaMastAadmi]

Do not wait or hope for them to be back, I have good experiences of ex not turning back.

[@1wolfpen]

I’ve learned that if I spend more time watching these kinds of videos (broke-up) than I do with my ex (back together), it’s time for me to throw in the towel.

[@tinklingcrystals6489]

I know my guy won't get back to me..I don't even want to address him as my ex.. I still love him like crazy.. but I went out of contact for 2 months now.. but I will pray for his happiness till I die. I'm happy being honest to him even if he's not there with me.. I will never have the heart to find another guy.. I know that. I will wait for him truly sincerely till my last breath. God give me the strength to be happy .. atleast he's somewhere around.

[@zatyibrahim1308]

Tinkling Crystals you're strong. Keep improving and love yourself okay

[@yamamoto8921]

Tinkling Crystals move on

[@realestJC777]

IG?

[@misseloking8337]

The most selfish thing you can do to yourself is to stop loving because someone failed you... I am going through pain too but I still hope for better n I have learnt my mistakes. God loves us, so we should keep sharing that bbes. You'll find the one... You'll be surprised by you letting go you'll find him back knocking at your door.

[@mrv2929]

Let him go he'll come back .... That's for sure. Have faith in the universe.

[@alabatamalitinah370]

Self love is what I learnt out of my last relationship

[@mbgaming7281]

I am watching your videos and subscriber since January when my gf broken up with me. Your videos really help in self improvement. And after that self improvement is done i no longer feel to get back with my ex. I feel better and i think why not to get with a better person who suits well with me better than my ex. Great videos. Thank you

[@HelotesHellRaiser]

Don't wait on the Ex, live your best life now. They don't want you back because they know you're on to their bullshit

[@marcosantos3381]

How do you do that during a pandemic lol

[@carmelcohen2523]

I don't care what you or anyone says. I won't stop trying to get him back. I will NOT throw away 28 years.

[@agee7777]

but you didnt throw away 28 years, you lived your life, now decide how you'r gunna spend the rest. dont chase the dragon.

[@faithcovenantministries]

Yes Girl

[@huma7366]

if he can throw away 28 years with u, girl u have to throw it away too, he aint worth it

[@bigjohn8407]

Your not throwing away 28 years. You're throwing away a man. If he doesnt want you back, find someone better.

[@dugthethugknight]

Its him that threw away 28 years not you

[@mimiyumii8441]

My ex blocked me for 4 months, he unblocked me on and off after that and he suddenly makes the first contact last 2 months. We communicated for a short while like once a week till recently once every 2 days. His getting engaged soon, and I thought he starting to reach out to me to get me back but when im be honest and let out how i felt, his being cold. My ex and I dated for 6 years, he got a new girlfriends a month after we broke up and getting engaged after 7 months dating. Im totally devastated cause i still love him. I done my best and all im doing now is rely to god and may fate come its way...

[@jeewonzxhieng4763]

Same here. Its 4months now since broke up."he just left me, i just heard that he is living in togethre." I miss him so much.he just left me... untill now i havent heard anything from him.

[@fiovela7502]

Mimi Yumii omg he is a total fucking asshole, I’m sorry but is a fear of mine too cuz my ex dated a girl a weeks after our break up forgave him we tried 3months was going really bad broke up and I dated a month after our breakup with a guy that was showing me cared for me while my ex was dating this chick, but not long ago we talked how we both cared for each other but I feel like I can’t be waiting for someone my whole life, and I should just accept the fact that he never loved me the way I loved him and I should recognize what’s in front of me which is a guys that is totally showing me what love is about. ❤️ If you ever need anything you can always message me

[@analaitjohnson848]

More than likely he was seeing her longer than that. Deceptive cheaters always have a back up person before they leave

[@macxdeeyt2767]

I feel you. I don't know why God has put us in this situation. Nonetheless be strong this is not the end. After Summer there's Autumn to come. Good luck

[@nathanevans1347]

I ended my relationship, I did acknowledge I made a mistake as I was being pushed horrible things said to test me and I wasn't being heard. So from there she played games making contact and playing around. It's been almost 2 months and some contact all from me. I even asked her out for a coffee and she said no. Largely I made a mistake, but I asked for some space. But she's now saying I broke me her trust? I didn't cheat and apologised for my decision. I get it, but all the way through the relationship I treated her with respect. Only the other day I realised I was getting nowhere and as hard as it was I said goodbye and wished well merry Xmas and NY etc.... she replied back quickly saying it was nice to hear my voice etc.... I don't trust her now with what she's sayings. I politely again replied and said glad she's found her solace, all the best.... she again replied that afternoon saying there was no hard feelings from her end? Really? Is she playing me? I didn't respond. Just like that all over. I I'd be Lying if I said I wasn't hurt. But what did I do? Her words were more cutting. But she focuses on the trust being broken. Not what she contributed. Could somebody let me know there thoughts.

[@suhailrahibshaikh9838]

well i came here for my ex but now i m in love with coach samera ❤

[@neniaolivera8865]

Suhail Shaikh zada stop deflecting but she’s pretty

[@truthisfree3402]

They come back when you don’t want them anymore. They come back when you want to move on. I wish my ex would stay gone.

[@moderngod1]

Biggest thing that has helped me realize what I was doing wrong... I kept thinking of only the “fake positive” things in the past... every time I do think of something good I match it with the red flags I witnessed. Hope this helps, loving this channel more and more! Y’all are awesome!!!!

[@savenification237]

Alot of times we let go of ourselves while in the relationship , always work on self improvement

[@SanjakPitakrat]

I used to hesitate to click on this video whenever it came up. Now i’m glad i checked it out. Thanks for the video. Good stuff.

[@zebrayellow4629]

Space , respect the space and heal! I did not and now we are strangers! 6 years to nothing! So, if you need to breathe, cry, scream but respect the space given and needed!

[@QueerlyBeloved_]

This is hard to hear but ultimately it helps give people the reality check so as to not get hurt much worse from still holding on later down the line. Another great video, Coaches! Thank you

[@lala4461]

I've read that if you find the correct balance, it can even take a year or two but they can go from "love you, but not IN love with you"...back to "in love". *Anyone familiar with this notion?* ♥️

[@mandolaa]

Absolutely!

[@scott67nova]

I didn’t necessarily hear any signs that they’re not coming back

[@lillydo7713]

He started looking into dating apps 2 weeks after the break up and has been talking to other people rather than focusing on what went wrong.

[@marinamartinez2695]

If it's meant to be it's meant to be. Don't stress. Stay busy and let the universe align it self on your behalf. If you really love something let it go if it is really yours it will come back to you on it's own. EL AMOR DE VERDAD NO SE RUEGA, SE DA SOLO. Be blessed

[@mandolaa]

Amen🙏 i totally agree with u if it's mean to be it will be. Time and God will show u what needs to stay in your life

[@malikdshakur9401]

I tried, no response, i left it alone. Wasn't trying to get back with her, but I'm doing 100% better than ever and living my best w/o her.

[@donlott7072]

This truth is, when a person breaks up with you without provocation they do not love you. In most cases they never have. If you did nothing incorrect. You treated them well. You were the same person that you have always been. You are not in love with that person . In most cases, you are in love with whom you thought they were. When are about to release that, you are well on your way.

[@mariannakrejniuk6858]

Sometimes the roles can get inversed and suddenly your ex can start writing to you (even if those messages are not necessarily very pleasant) and you who are not responding to them.☺

[@blossom6235]

if a ex dont want you back, respect yourself and move on an ex is an ex for a reason, sometimes not getting what you want can turn out to be the biggest blessing in your life, believe me ive dodged a bullet so i know.

[@mandolaa]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@agwriter2406]

No trace of my ex. 6 months of no contact, he's been hanging with his female coworker . I havent tried contacting him. I've been silent. It's so hard. I hope he misses me. We were on and of for 9 years

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hi Arielle, 9 years is a long time and I promise you he didn't forget about you. Let him be now and focus on you and what makes you happy. Coach Samira www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/

[@windmill676]

AG writer how are u? Mine is 8 years

[@wilsonpu7099]

Mines was 10 years basically grew up trough our 20's together

[@eg6348]

How are you doing now?

[@eg6348]

wind mill how are you now?

[@belfanm5081]

What most people need to understand is that you can’t force a relationship. If the communication is gone between you and that person, there’s no need to overwhelm yourself into believing there’s something there when clearly it’s not. Focus on yourself and loving yourself. That’s where true happiness is, within yourself. That’s shows confidence within yourself to attract love again.

[@TheLunzDen]

I told my ex "am I allowed to miss you yet" after 3 weeks of no contact and got her back after a few weeks just gotta give it space then put it in their hands just don't be attached to the outcome

[@TeamOT]

So this begs the following question: how often does a person/client follow the process correctly and still failed OR conversely, how often does a person/client follow the process correctly and succeed?

[@JJ-ep5dg]

I love you coach Adrian; you have helped me grow so much not just as a partner but as a person. Any body else hits the "like" button before you even start to watch coach Adrians video?! I always do! ❤

[@beth5951]

Another sign that an ex doesn't want you back is he blocked you

[@xtrarice8702]

Awww :'(

[@rayray2752]

or they do it because it hurts seeing their exes face.

[@misseloking8337]

Not really coz I been blocking asses.. Mostly because I needed to pretend l don't care or make them realize their wrong.. You know wen someone's over you they'll just keep your number but you'd still be like you don't exist no matter wat you do coz you no longer matter to them... Blocking has to do with lots of emotions

[@SanjakPitakrat]

If he dumps you then blocks you, yes he’s gone for good. I’m sorry for you. But if you dump him and then he blocks you, he’s just doing the no contact.

[@ephemeral95]

Not true. My ex dumped me and blocked me everywhere. After 2 weeks of no contact, he reached out to me.

[@georgetaandrici1037]

Loving someone and not being with that person can cause a tremendous amount of pain . However , all I read in here is that I’am waiting and hoping he/she will get back to me . I been there many times myself but I learn that sometimes is not meant to be no matter how much I wanted .Let go , everyday is a new day and the pain will be less and less.. Wasting your time on someone that left you ,is not ok ! You will never , ever have this wasted time back to you again . Life is very short . Who’s meant to be yours , is gonna come . If is your ex he/she will return so stop stressing and aggravating your nervous system. Let God bring to you what’s yours . Maybe your ex is not the ones and that’s the reason he had to go . If you don’t release him/her you don’t make space for someone new to come in to your life . There are lots of people out there . Let the heart heal and beautiful things and nicer people will come to you . Love is beautiful only if is giving equally .Stay strong and redirect that love towards yourself . God bless and good luck to you all . 🌹❤️

[@mandolaa]

You're so right, great words♥️

[@congiercetas4813]

And what about if he states that he has no more love for you while you are dying to get this relationship back!!!

[@dustincurtis5252]

When you text your ex girlfriend happy birthday. She replies to you with a one word reply and dose not wish you a happy birthday in return on your birthday.

[@esraasayedeso8271]

The bad truth is that this man looks exactly like my ex😂💔

[@ponciano84]

My no contact started on 28th of July and we haven’t spoken since then. He tried to put me in a friend zone and fwb and I told him no, when he is ready to be with me then he needs to let me know. Since then I have been doh g things with my friends and enjoying life. I mean it is summer after all so it’s perfect to meet new people

[@Carizzean]

Thats exactly where I'm at except without the fwb. Any updates? I'm on day 11 of no contact

[@naemack1441]

Any updates?

[@misseloking8337]

@MotherTouching-Ninjas it really is, even worse. Even wen I try to drink it out, the moment I get drunk he'd just show in my mind n I'd end up bothering him n blowing off his phone... I want to get past this... I really do😭 its been months now

[@arielklay23]

Watching these videos helped me see that my ex was open to having me back in his life when he accepted my Facebook friend request after he moved out of state and we hadn't been in contact for nearly a decade! I so appreciate the encouragement in these videos to focus on improving myself and that will do more to strengthen my relationship with him than anything else!

[@giovannim9047]

Did you dump him first?

[@conorm2524]

@@giovannim9047 Interesting. I'll guess she dumped him, realised a decade later she has hit the wall and cannot attract the same type of guys anymore so went back to good old reliable... He is a total fool if he took her back.

[@zaige11]

giving him time & space always always always helps w needy girls like me

[@DC-gf8nl]

He didnt try because he thought I wouldn't forgive him, in my heart I know he is right... I'd take him back, I'd fight like hell... he moved on and we don't know each other anymore... This January 16 makes 2 years divorced, over 3 years without intimacy. Why do I miss him so much. Why do I keep feeling my heart break for him. No contact other than short co patenting responses... it sucks

[@anthonyynoa8223]

Your x will want you back especially if you guys had a life together. Do not over Persue her. Allow the time to cool down and work on yourself. If it’s true love they will come back even if you are believing that they are playing you or not into you remember that you have done something wrong and they will not forgive you right away. I made to many mistakes trying to fix it when I should have allowed it to fix its self. Please listen to me. Give your special one breathing space and do not over react

[@christophergarcia849]

So me & my ex have been done for about over a month ago, left me for another guy right after.. she moved with him, Known each other for three month's.. i haven't heard from her until today, she msg me thru instagram with a screen shot note she typed up on phone.. don't know why.. an she msg me saying ---- I still love you an this time it hurts even more because it took you for me to leave to notice.. I loved you so much I wanted a family, I wanted kids, I wanted you to be my husband but you never looked at me like that... I'm sorry for what I've done to you.. I loved you very much, you pushed me away an hurt me by saying how much you regret me & awful thing's. idk if we'll ever meet in person but right now I know we wont. The reason for my msg is because I'm moving soon, out of the area, I'll be leaving there's alot of pain down here.. just know your on my mind everyday and hazel & ava (our family pet) but seeing you guys or the area has been hurting me... I've been secretly looking at your instagram and it hurts me more and more.. I wish you the best and always keep me in your heart I know we had our downfall but please don't forget about me.. just as I won't forget about you.... I won't forget about the money an what I need to fix I'll be adding the money into your account ------ I didn't respond back, don't plan too.. I've changed changed my account because I don't want her money... when I just want her back while making these changes... I know what said was wrong... I was very frustrated & angry while being the one having to put roof over our head.. working fulll time..... while she here part time being home... it changes you... while I'm here giving her privileged to be going out... its the truth but no excuse in my part an yeah.. idk what to do next..

[@enasal-kadhi2332]

Christopher Garcia tell her you want her

[@lightning02480]

Tell her how you really feel

[@ericblue4231]

Damn, bro. I feel you, I've been there myself. If she's worth it, keep her close and be patient.

[@iridium5122]

Thank you for sharing. It was helpful to me.

[@isaacsmith3529]

If they left you, you will be very hurt but I promise that one day you’ll realise they aren’t worth your energy anymore, you’re only holding yourself back because you are scared and doubting yourself, take the time to heal yourself through eating well and socialise when possible, meet new people, focus on rebuilding your life and you’ll be happy, some people are very nasty and you can’t keep looking for answers, they suck.

[@demetriccauthen7299]

I dont even care she can move on I care less I've been working on my self and I've been getting a lot of feedback from women who really want to be with me but I'm not ready right now

[@pkskinnyboy1443]

I did bring up improving on the relationship and she immediately said she’s doing better without one

[@davidstyles1648]

Some women are so cold hearted it's like they have no emotion

[@yolenda_loves_to_sing]

@@davidstyles1648 It's not about woman. Just human in general.

[@angelicalderonjr5575]

Thank for conferring my feelings,,, these challenges placed before me have tested me far beyond, I have no closer at all, no matter what mentality and emotionally i still have no closer, I can soar as high as superman, but even the man of steel is powerless when it comes too matters of the heart

[@yolenda_loves_to_sing]

I was scared to clicked to watch this video. But I'm glad I did. It was so different than what I expected, in a good way.

[@bibhayadav8857]

Hey guys! I love all your videos and i really apperciate what you people are doing..you guys are life saviour!! Last month on 29th may my bf of 4 years broke up with me just because he got bored and he doesnt want a relationship more. He just stopped caring about me since a year but i did everything i could to maintain the relation but last month it ended. He's not a bad person, he just doesnt care about me anymore. After the breakup i watched your videos on youtube and i did the no contact rule, travelled places and was trying hard to be happy and somehow it was working but then one night i got his text saying how sorry he is and i am the best person he lost and all and then i talked to him, but next day he again acted like he doesnt care, when i asked him frankly he said he doesnt want a relationship with me or anyone...but still we tried to work but then again one day he stopped picking my calls , even though i call him maybe twice a day..i just stopped seeing his efforts after a week maybe. He just dnt want to do anything with me, we live in the same campus and he dsnt want people to know that he's talking to me again. When alone he acts right but when in public he just change. And now we arent talking anymore. I said pretty rough things to him and even apologised in msgs but he left that on read and never texted back. He thinks i'm needy and i dnt have a life , but the thing is i really want him back in my life as we were, he was so in love with me and he was the best thing that ever happened to me. And the way he is now just make me cry every day and i dnt know what to do. I dnt have enough money for ur sessions and i really feel hopeless right now...i dnt have the capacity to pick myself all over again. Even though he make me go to my dark side i still want him back and really appreciate me like he did. I thought we were gonna get married and have a nice future , even he asked me twice too but now he doesnt even want to talk to me..i just dnt know what to do anymore. I know he's not a bad person ,he's just bored of the routine and me and i want to bring back the excitement love and respect betwewn us. Please please help me out.🙏🙏

[@bibhayadav8857]

P.s he hasnt blocked me from whatsapp but he did blocked me from his social sites many months ago.. Today also he saw my status and i know its not a big deal as he sees everyone's status too. I just dnt know what to do to make him commit..because since before i met him i knew he had commitment issues but aftr i met him he was so in love with me he even told strangers how much he loved me and all but now he doesnt even want anyone to know that we're talking. Since last 1 year this all.is happening and its really making me a crazy person, i have said and things in anger i never ever thought i would do..but this relationship has really made me so miserable but again it made me just so happy in the beginning of 2 years..it was like a fairytale.. Now i'm just all fuked up mentally and emotionally and currently i'm doing mbbs so i need to study too but i just concentrate and because of the fights i already have flunked and lost my 1 year and i dnt want it to happen again.. I just want us to be happy like we were. I dnt want him to drag me or getting dragged. And i'm just 22 , i know i have to see the world but i have met enough people and i reallly want this one to stay and be the one. Pleaseeee help me out!!

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hi Bibha, Thank you so much for keeping up with us and sharing your story. I would really love to help you out some more. For a comment of this length I recommend that you book an email coaching session with any of our coaches, instead. We hope to hear from you soon! - Coach Samira www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/

[@ki113msoftly8]

My ex talks to me regularly every day I get good morning in the morning and we talk when she goes to bed and throughout the day since picture messages video calls me but when I asked her if she wants me back or if she wants me to just move on with my life she doesn't give me an answer most of the time ignoring the fact that I even asked a question I am left wondering because she just doesn't want me out of her life completely or because she wants me back?

[@delomak1660]

it's the second time he breaks up with me. He bloked me everywhere but when he brokeup (two months ago) he told me he loved me. I'm applying nc (37 days) and he didn't reach out. I think this time is over for good 😭

[@walkyria1]

No contact doesn't work if you don't take care of yourself and move on, live life, travel, smile, go out with your friends and let him see that you are happy living life. If you are waiting for him like a dog waits for its owner next to the door it won't work, men can sense that. Trust me!

[@seanj11421]

I lost my self respect. Being broken up with was the best thing ever. Forced me to recapture who I once was. Will never let another human being have that pleasure again.

[@justusethis2379]

Thank you for the advice. I appreciate.

[@nandlabh6349]

It hurts alot like hell .I wish to get over this .

[@Bongi_Grace]

Heyy how are you doing now. Have you moved on?

[@Girlcode13]

My ex told me he is done with me. He’s never coming back..

[@kantudhanmeher5950]

Same.

[@angrypatient2221]

What happen now?

[@38mmartin]

I did the work. Then the list kept growing. She was too back-and-forth. Finally, said she didn’t trust me. Thank you!! Now I can move forward and don’t bother contacting me. Dropped over 40 pounds and packed on a lot of muscles. Best I’ve ever been in my life; not one compliment. Oh well; dating life looks bright at 39.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey Mark, Keep at it!!! Coach Samira

[@38mmartin]

Update: When I focused more on me and got to a point I loved myself at the highest capacity; my perception of things changed. No more attachments or neediness. I let things come and go like seasons and people are the same. In the end, she now wants to be “back in my circle” but I’m a totally different person now and only want things that compliment my life. Sorry👋🏾👋🏾...I’m understanding that relationships can be a catalyst. Stay loving yourself, get better in every aspect, live your life with purpose, and be open to the world....your soulmate will show up; but it takes time. Hope you all are doing well.

[@jmpresto]

Is there really such a thing as UNCONDITIONAL LOVE?

[@B1GK1NG]

Jonathan Presto no, women aren’t like men they only love as long as their emotion dictates.

[@env0x]

Nope some parents say they feel that for their offspring but i dont believe it. What if your child murdered another one if your children. I highly doubt there is such a thing as unconditional love unless it's love for yourself

[@suea.s.9975]

Yes, there is!!!

[@jeezymay]

@@B1GK1NG peach!

[@1wolfpen]

No

[@sephrothguy]

Your Channel is so helpful and handy. Thank you

[@matthewcoronado4701]

My ex unfriended me on Snapchat, the platform that started our relationship and communication. Her family also unfriended me and blocked me on all social media platforms and she hasn’t been responsive to me but she continues to speak to my sisters like nothing happened?

[@seafarertravellingtheworld9133]

I blocked my girlfriend yesterday. She was just not replying me anymore .

[@katiakyriakou3071]

What if you took that time apart, and then when you contact them they have moved on and dating other people? do you still put in the effort or give up?

[@eg6348]

Depends on how much you both cared for each other and how badly the relationship ended.

[@chriscline7905]

What if they ignore you for 3 months but also won't give you your stuff back, won't take back house keys, and keep 100s of photos of you on social media they had originally taken down?

[@5784Eva]

You guys are the best !!

[@nicolameikle3976]

He ghosted me for someone else - 10 years younger than me.. He’s definitely not coming back xxx

[@bernesemuir8022]

Yeah hmm:/ like he not contacting me, not talking to me, not giving a dame about me im guessing that's a big sign :/

[@jaehlee4982]

If you put in the work. Got your confidence back and happy, you might not want to go back.

[@josephhamassian3106]

I lost the best girl ever due to my insecurity and my pride. Because of my pride, I wouldn't let myself hug her or tell her I loved her when I should have. Because of my pride, I kicked her out of my house for an argument that I started. She left. I had always threatened her by saying I didnt love her and I didnt want to be with her. She came from another country to live with me 2 years ago. In 7 years, she never told me she didn't want to be with me until today. I don't blame her, I tortured her emotionally. I did put all my pride aside and begged her to give me another chance today. I told her I realized that I've really lost u and that's enough for me to open my damn eyes. And that I will not ever let my pride be involved in our relationship. She's staying with a friend now. But I really feel like I'm ready to put my stupid pride aside. I know I am. That was created from jealousy amd insecurity. I don't know how to handle this situation though. I haven't eaten in 48 hours and can't stop crying...I'm a grown man.

[@jotengohambre]

Thank you # this gave me peace ❤️‍🔥

[@nnb2263]

So basically me and my ex broke up and I found out she’s already with another guy but we had sexual intercourse one last time and she was telling me thats she do miss our memories and good times together but now I’m hurt bcuz when I go to her to try and get us she says that we are just friends she no longer wants a relationship with me so I am told by my friends that she’s using me

[@matthewsmith377]

My ex says that she doesn’t want to get back together and wants me to move on but she still talks to me knowing how I feel about her what do I do?

[@thierryngoyi3188]

Hey Matthew Doesn't it sound like she's "friendzoning" you...? Don't you think there's a bit of an ego boost issue with that...? I'm genuinely asking... I don't want to seem too harsh...I'm going through a breakup myself...it is just that we need to protect ourselves from this type of women... Have you been through the No Contact phase yet ???

[@anthonym.718]

I dated this girl for 3 months before it went down hill & I applied no contact for 2 months before she approached me at the gym that she works at & that I happen to go to for 2 days of the week. She tried before to get me to be friends but I blew her off & she tried again after no contact. I just dont feel the same for her even if it's just a friendship. I don't trust her anymore during our very short friendship when she assumed something that I just can't forgive her for. Everytime I go to the gym & see her I don't say anything to her & I don't even look in her direction just so she won't think I have feelings for her even though I do have a little soft spot for her but I think it's because I'm still hurt. Actually, the only times we've talked was because she approached me. What do you guys think.

[@blayboyyy]

TheangryKid I rejected my ex when she offered friendship. Slowly it drove me crazy to be without her, I thought to myself she can never see me change if I never speak to her again. It’s been 2 weeks since the break up and we had 9 months together. It’s very very rough, understand she may move on into a rebound or be very dry to you. If you want her back you have to do some sacrifice but you can only follow your heart. It’s great she’s reaching out to you, she may secretly still have feelings you’ll never know until you try. Personally I’d take the offer, I am yet to discover what will happen with my ex too. I wish you the best of luck on things getting back to how they were

[@saurabhmaurya2757]

Talk to her but never let her in your heart teach her a lesson for a lifetime..

[@everydayboss9657]

My wife left me over a month ago. She stated that we would never get back together and that were seperated. She say are we adjust business mates. But does still help with the bills. What are my chances of getting her back?

[@joeytribbianicore]

My ex bf of 5ish years has been understanding of me acting like a crazy person for the last 6 months. Though he consistently insists he just wants to be friends but then never initiates contact. I have done "no contact" a few times but never truly improve myself.. This last time we spoke I told him I'm here if he wants to talk but I can't keep making the first move.. I plan on doing my own thing though I miss him. Was telling him the door is open a good idea, or will that make him think I'll never change? I'm afraid I'll never hear from him again.

[@alexandravtensek1216]

Alysha to be honest, walk away and don't look back. He knows you love him and are emotionally invested in him so he will use that to his advantage. He will keep you on a string knowing you are there whilst pursuing other interests. I have been through this myself. I was deceived by a man who is a future faker, unemotionally unavailable and has Peter Pan Syndrome. After his final deceit my self worth kicked in and I walked away. I went into no contact and haven't communicated with him in any shape or form for 137 days. Stay strong and show him your value by no contact and working on yourself. Best of luck.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hi Alysha, If he doesn't initiate contact then he isn't putting in the effort. Actions speak louder than words. Let him come to you. Stop making the first move. You can do it! Coach Samira

[@YoungBossEric7]

Love Advice TV dam right!

[@lala4461]

Alysha Same with my ex-husband but after 18 months he FINALLY started initiating contact AS FRIENDS though. If I do N/C I'm literally despondent the entire time. I've totally withdrawn from everyone for the entire year and a half since the split. I can relate to so much of what you're saying.

[@vikakwabe6654]

Alysha u

[@lioneshawallace1790]

My ex-boyfriend said he think about me every day he said I really wanted to build a future with you

[@fashionstyle7349]

Like me, don’ care anymore and her rebound mistress relationship 😂😂😂

[@mlong506]

My ex got mad at me after I implemented two months of no contact. I'm confused, he is seeing someone else but reached out to me to tell me he is very angry at me for cutting him out of his life? Why?

[@jelenatoremma9170]

i need help please... me and my ex were 'forced' to breakup due to so many barriers preventing us from having a future together (we're in a long distance relationship), so he brokeup with me because he believes that he shouldn't be leading me on if he thinks that we will most likely not work out (as in get married because in my culture girls should be married by maximum 22) and we're both 19. So the only reason for our breakup was because of our situation, its way more complicated than that but i took a short cut (and he even said he loved me after our breakup). He asked to continue as friends but i said that i couldn't handle that and asked him to not talk to me...we've been in contact for nearly 4 months now...he still does show signs of jealousy every now and then...he did message me after 3 months asking how i am. and that's about it...i do know that he talks to girls to waste his time...im not sure whether he is dating...but i really miss him and im trying my best to not contact him...how do i know that he has moved on?

[@MinuteWild]

Has he came back

[@jaykgabriel8065]

Thanks guys🙏🙏🙏

[@mandakongbrailatpam3433]

Better to leave ex guys they are just like tissue paper fine new one😃😂❤

[@lawdenefrans1983]

Hi Coach Samira and Coach Adrian yes I definitely learned something of this video, I can see that there is signs that he does want me back but yes gonna have to work on myself because that is what he is looking at for sure!!! so much motivated fact that he is showing contact says alot...!!

[@pauloojeda3688]

i watch the main title few days ago and i been avoid see this video...because i think that you will.say is over, thanks for give me hope

[@andreafriend7288]

We’ve been broken up since the end of June I left then we got back together briefly in September he then blocked me cause he was raided and blamed me. He met a younger woman after many one night stands and I think he’s with her. He’s seen me passed me a few times but mostly from behind except twice, I don’t look in the van so don’t see him. He’s never contacted me since September when he told me never to ring him again. I did end up back on WhatsApp and the phone. He posted a picture of him kissing a girl on the cheek I guessed it was his younger woman from Thailand then blocked me a couple of hours later. It’s been 71/2 months now, i miss him and wish he would come back but I’m getting more disheartened as time goes on 😢 I’ve really worked on myself but I’d left him because of his behaviour originally. What do you think is there any hope?

[@rahmelpervez697]

Ladies, if a guy doesn't contact you within 30 days. He doesn't want to share his life with you anymore. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you, he just don't want to be around you. And there's nothing you can say to change his mind. Because 30 days is to long of time to be away from someone you want to be with.

[@rachelphaiklin5435]

1 month since the break up and i've done so many stupid things to piss him off and now that i ended up with partial blocking on social media. I hope it's not too late for me to start no contact, hoping to fix this again in the future. i love him a lot despite what he had done to men (basically just blocking me on social media , thinking that i've been stalking him and probably he is being sensitive and felt insecure). the relationship was not incredible but i know my feelings were true, i love him and i want to give it another try. *fingers cross

[@lioneshawallace1790]

He said he didn’t want me back for good I’m not the woman for him

[@arjunasok2039]

You guys are awesome.... Currently I'm in the no contact stage and I'll ve Frank it's sucks. But I'm giving her some space. Hoping she'll come back soon.

[@12327537]

My ex always watches my instagram stories. What should i post to show him that im growing?

[@nicolec997]

Mine does also... what does that mean? I’ve been posting growth stories.

[@melissab6264]

This is good, you are communicating with your ex in another way.

[@vabella9065]

Maria Demetriou post something good that make him regret not choosing you... Keep posting your good life so that he doesnt think you can't life without him ... Show him you are different person now show him that your life is better after he gone... show him you dont need him...!! Sorry for bad english

[@SnowFoxParty]

Maria Demetriou I've noticed my ex's close siblings have been watching my stories and liking my posts, weird huh?

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey Maria, Post for you, not for your ex. I know it's tempting but once you "show" how you are doing then your ex will sense it. Just post as normally as you do and continue to do the wonderful things you've been doing. Coach Samira

[@reginaldmcnab3265]

Nice teamwork video!

[@aparnaaggarwal6530]

It's been 10 months, we haven't talked at all, like literally not at all.

[@TheSpaceghost103]

Same here. Did they ever come back?