Signs You’re Dating a Narcissist

[@shayshay7154]

The saddest part of being with a narcissist is that they'll act like they care about you, but in reality they just like the way you make them look.

[@iseenarcissists8298]

Shay Pond they are addicts to your narcissistic supply you give them. the ultimate codependents, though appearing so strong and resilient you wouldn't know, accept cracks here and there of who they truly are emerge and its scary

[@KG-kk3ef]

Shay Pond They suck you in at the start.

[@almahfoodhij1179]

thats when it hurts more.......

[@latoyaisraeliteiamelle5684]

Shay Pond sad truth!!!

[@NoName-mm6gh]

Shay Pond i know right. I swear he was confusing, one day i love you, shuts me out etc

[@3nu570]

That awkward moment when you watch this to see if your crush is a narcissist, but all these traits apply to you

[@nedaerylmaz9480]

Riiny Sann ikr

[@FeetSnifffer]

Riiny Sann x I'm now a self diagnosed narcissist after watching this

[@animejune5627]

Actual narcissists would never call themselves narcissists and very rarely accept anything is wrong with them... Even people with histrionic personality disorder wouldn't think that they have a disorder. They'd deny anything that hurt their ego like a psychiatric diagnosis.

[@3nu570]

anime june Yah I know. I kinda said it as a joke although many of these traits really do fit me but that doesn't mean I'm a narcissist. I think would suck to be one :P

[@tels3775]

anime june Nice so I'm just a regular jerk.

[@iseenarcissists8298]

be careful they can also remember everything about you and seem interested so they can better manipulate you later

[@thedarkmaster4747]

right now im thinking about video games, getting laid & tv shows and anime. N.P.D.s focus only on one thing, the 🎮 they're making out of their victims life. they hyperfocus only on that & you can catch them out that way.

[@HeartacheAndWhiskey]

Expose the Narcissist Yes. Every weakness is noted and mentally filed away for later use as ammunition.

[@iseenarcissists8298]

Ok you're replying to a person who was severely abused by a psychopathic narcissist for 8 years. Of course I have been traumatized and want to stay the hell away from your kind. Do you blame me? I want your kind to be happy; happy a long distance away from me please.

[@ok-hn7px]

And i hope you are better now. Best of luck to you.

[@iseenarcissists8298]

ok then you have empathy? because how can you truly hope that without empathy?

[@aprissy2229]

i dated a narcissist for 6 YEARS. were about to get married and he cheated on me. he then go ghosting on me and just dissapear without giving me any closure. i thank God that this happen before we go settle for a lifetime.

[@michellel245]

aprissy 22 im sorry.. going through this right now he ghosted me after 6 yrs and i feel so lost and broken.. 💔

[@honestmama623]

Congrats

[@charlieapples9373]

I also dated a narcissistic sociopath for 6 years. The first few years were great (or at least I thought so), but my friends and family all seemed to disapprove of the way he treated me, or just didn’t like him. The last two years were a living nightmare. He also cheated on me, and because he was upfront about it (told me the next day), I decided to give him a second chance because he seemed to genuinely regret it and hadn’t tried to hide it from me. I loved him very much, and even though I always thought that I would never get back together with a cheater...I did. Things weren’t the same afterward, and he became very cold and extremely critical of everything I did. He demanded that I pay most of our bills, do all the cooking and cleaning (if I asked him to do it, he’d get angry and just refuse to help), and sex basically became him using me to masturbate. No reciprocation. One day, he called me a “r*tard” and that was the final straw. I moved out and left him with all of the bills I had been paying for so long. It was unbelievably hard for me to leave, because my self-esteem was at an all time low, and I still loved him despite the abuse. He’d been the only real long-term partner I’d ever had, and being alone after 6 years was brutal. But it was the right choice. I’m still going to therapy, years later, because he made me so depressed and feel so worthless that I struggled with day to day life. I wouldn’t say that I’m happy now and have zero regrets, but I am much stronger and wiser, at least. He didn’t deserve my love and dedication.

[@rb5344]

6 years! God Bless you❤️

[@GabrielXDrums]

Dang that’s bad, mine did that a month ago and left without closure too... I guess it could have always been longer, I don’t know why I’m still so attached and missing her when we weren’t even that long yet and my longest was 2yrs ... hmm

[@ldyshkspr]

they are pretty good at lying and keeping their true self hidden until the ring is on your finger. then the narcissism comes out.

[@Janoulaa]

Only took him 3 months

[@jessiiet7757]

Or until they just get tired of pretending

[@ChronoWarrior1996]

She proposes to me a month in on my birthday...

[@jam7453]

I don’t care who you are. Get a prenup & immediately tell those closest to you about their behavior, & even the authorities if you need to so they can get the proper treatment that is required for them. Knowing yourself really helps to keep you from giving them what they want or becoming what they want. Just remember they’re the mess, you aren’t. That’s probably why they’re divorced now. Who would really want to be in any kind of relationship with that type of person. You should always call out the narcissist for their behavior. That should go for anyone doing stupid shit that they know damn well isn’t right. People should have some damn balls & a fucking backbone to show or tell these cowards that you aren’t falling for their bs. Shows them that you’re wise to their bullshit & their not as cunning or smart as they think they are. Really rattles their fragile ego & false sense of grandiosity & believing that they are superior. Like anybody else they must take responsibility for themselves & their actions. Finding self-identity & self-motivation from another is kinda strange, don’t you think? They obviously don’t really know who they really are. It’s not a narcissists fault for turning out that way but anyone has the ability to change if they really want to. Being like that most certainly won’t get a person like that real respect.

[@leratom3783]

Dude, the mask came off the day we got married! Not 2 months in, not 1 month in, the day. I've been living a nightmare ever since. #planning my exit

[@animejune5627]

People in the comments need to stop calling themselves narcissists. Not only because it's stupid to diagnose yourself with a video, but because a real narcissist would never call themselves a narcissist. It hurts their ego too much. So if you think you're a narcissist, chances are you're not.

[@anapaulapedro7025]

anime june Thank you!

[@endthefed1448]

anime june nope. I am a narcissist and I admit that I am one. I want to change myself and I am working on it. Wish me luck my friend. People say it is incurable and it scares the shit out of me.

[@animejune5627]

Were you clinically diagnosed? Because if so, you've probably come a long way with treatment and support. Otherwise your either just a bit of a jerk and not a full blown narcissist or you need to go to a psychologist for a different reason...

[@literallyasuka2996]

anime june Once in awhile during therapy, narcissists can give up on trying to convince themselves that they aren't narcissists, and they admit that their wrong even though it's extremely hard for them. Just because someone says they have a mental disorder doesn't mean they're lying. Most of the time though, narcissists ALWAYS convince themselves that they're not a narcissist. Not always though.

[@endthefed1448]

ɾσɡσɾαtհ δαεδɾίɕ Թɾίηɕε օƒ ʍɑժղҽՏՏ thanks for your reply. I am not on treatment. I just watched many videos and noticed the way I treated my first and only gf, I came to the conclusion that I am a full blown narc. I tortured her badly and I did all that knowingly (I am just realizing it now). I am a damaged soul. I want to change myself by any means.

[@nlabiker]

1:Bragging 2:Self-Centeredness 3:Gas-Lighting 4:Emotional detachment 5: Hates slow messages replies 6: Drama 7:Controlling 8: Hates you saying No 9: A user

[@Ston247]

1: Lack of Empathy 2: Avoids tackling issues honestly and directly 3: Bullshit conversations. Superficial 4: Never comes through on a promise, stubborness, very irresponsible 5: Never values your time. Always late or flakey 6: Hyper aggressive flirting. Reckless. You are being targeted, watch out ! I told this woman,"you're one of my closest friends." She said,"Yes, I understand." Chilled me to the core.

[@allofthiswasanexperimentlo9641]

@@Ston247 if that "chilled you to the core" then your getting paranoid m8 :P

[@dinabishop9513]

This is really poorly explained? It is true they use you. It goes far deeper than someone not texting you back lol

[@_otaku_395]

@zumzy u do they cost anything in return??

[@reginajose6819]

My ex boyfriend left me without any empathy, now he's happy uploading pics with his wife on social media, I don't think he even remembers me 😔😔

[@Vienticus]

it's worse when you're related to one

[@marilynmichellestrong-koon5188]

Vienticus - I don't think it's necessarily worse. Like everything in life, it's largely dependent on individual circumstances. I can say that my personal experience has proven that my parent who is diagnosed with NPD has been far more painful and lastingly detrimental than the few relationships I've had with narcissists. It's been a brutal, ongoing issue, in which cutting off contact is not an option. That alone makes it so much harder. However, I know people whose lives have been completely ruined by romantic partners with NPD. For example, my other parent. I'd never wish what they've been through on anyone. Each situation is unique, and all of them are truly terrible. I'm sorry you had to go through that, and/or are still going through it. Healing thoughts and lots of empathy to you!

[@Vienticus]

First off, thank you. Secondly, yes, you are correct. Everything is situational. But I do think that the experience of being related to someone who's narcissistic is worse for most people, especially if the person they have to deal with is a parent or two, because of the stigmas that society has on family relationships. Personally, I've gotten to the point where I've just cut off my family.

[@scarletpeoni9347]

Vienticus or a whole group of them. Sometimes it's better to not have them in your life anymore. You've gotta look after yourself too. Being connected by blood is overrated if it means putting up with abusive behaviour just for that identity of family. I think a lot of people are too scared to walk away because they rely too much on their family for their sense of self, financially, nostalgia, I've had inheritance waved around so much to try and get me to comply, threats of defamation (or in their words theirs more of us than you, nobody will believe you) and then when I didn't 'i'll just spend it all before I die so you won't get anything' , money doesn't mean enough to me to degrade and abuse myself in the process, what's sad is when you never asked for money or said if a gift was too large, yet they seem to have derived that you could be bought with money.

[@scarletpeoni9347]

Stella McFly I think the difference is there is an element of control, yes you can't help who you fall in love with but there is at least the feeling of choice, you choose your partner, friends etc you are not born with them, your usually an adult by the time of a partner so you can get out of the blaming and start to see that you picked that person so either put up or shut up if he/she won't get help and you choose to stay. Love is biological, they'll always be another match waiting out there. You can't change your early years and imprinting etc I think that is the difference, it shapes everything and takes a lot more therapy and soul searching and things to try and view things differently if your not naturally intelligent when it comes to these things. Many people I've come across will put up with abuse from their families yet have a hostile and no empathy or compassion to the outside world when they do the same things, it's like very mild Stockholm syndrome in families, but strong enough to have people ruffling their fathers hair and seeing he was just having a bad day/year/life when he abused them. Praise the lord for science.

[@Chaotic4Neutral]

Having a narcissistic parent = lifetime psychotherapy

[@JacGBoots1]

Remember to trust your gut feelings - "intuition"- you deserve respect- Detach, Forgive and move on...

[@341788]

Apparantly narcissists might also ask you a lot of questions about yourself, and not give up much about themselves because that's how they find your vulnerabilities. Point being that a person doesn't always have to be really self centred in conversations to be a narcissist, just like they might be really nice and affectionate, but it's really just to get what they want from you.

[@xXxsh4rkxXx]

David Haynes

[@Nexus-ub4hs]

David Haynes Certainly my experience a couple of times, good point.

[@edcho5774]

Always wondered why a lot of narcs I interacted with had no depths

[@carolineb7796]

That has been my experience. He was always asking questions, like he was fact finding. I later realised he just wanted to find out as much as he could to use it against me. He spoke very little about himself apart from saying how great he was at this that and the other. Super shallow

[@70rodal]

Ed Cho i wonder WHY you hang out with LOTS of NARCISSIST

[@BrokenInTheBox]

Sounds just like my ex. Everything was my fault. I could never do anything right. When I was packing to leave, he said so many hurtful things. Also told me that I would never find someone like him again, etc...I left and never looked back. I was broken down by him for years; and it took years to undo the damage done to my self-esteem and emotional well being. Leaving him was the hardest thing that I had ever done in my life; however, I made the right choice. I met my current partner/best friend 18 months later, whose love is unconditional & immense. I don't miss the narc ex...I think of the wasted time spent with him as a learning experience. I had to go through hell to get to heaven. Best revenge is moving on with one's life and being happy.

[@jensbasement3862]

It also took years for me to recover. That's how damaging these vile things are. Once you're out, you'll realize everyday with the narc was torture. And how they took advantage of your emotions and well-being. All to put you in distress, so they can feed from you. The monsters

[@sarahdeleon6171]

I can relate you on this i just recently had a break up with my ex and it's really traumatic to stay with that relationship. He always blame you with everything, even if it's just a small issue, manipulative and he told all the hurtful words that affects my whole being and it's really hard for me to move on 🥺🥺🥺. I wish I cut off the relationship early so it won't cause me more emotional damage.

[@LuckLie]

Well narcissistic people destroy the person you are. And when you leave them they try to make you feel guilty and it fucking hurts. Edit ; it gets better with time ( for me)

[@shibuyami22]

Shit, i think im a narcissist ;(

[@nedaerylmaz9480]

Mass Gaming same

[@KaiMangaKnight]

Luck Lie I know how that feels...

[@edymarin7781]

Luck Lie i know, it happened to me

[@LuckLie]

Kai Kuroi 黒井カイ I agree

[@alexlefay]

Bragging: ✅ Making everything (including my anxiety) about him, yet making me feel like I MAKE everything about me: ✅ Gaslight: ✅ Emotional detachment: ✅ Sudden moving on: ✅ More than loving drama, creating drama and “rising” above it: ✅ Reputation > relationship: ✅ “No” issues: ✅ Overstepping: ✅ DO I FEEL USED AFTER 9 YEARS OF THIS: HELL ✅

[@jessicamartin8811]

7 years for me.

[@granola1998]

3 years for me

[@farahmahrinnivrita9948]

1.5 years of relationship & 1 year of married life, made hell by ex Covert evil narcissist.

[@lanaliakada]

one thing that definetely klicked with me was when I realised: He brings out the worst in me. That isn't love people

[@anewloveofficial9137]

I didn't notice before that my ex was a narcissist, I always see the good things in him, maybe because I was madly in love with him. But things get really worse between us because he always makes me feel undesirable. Dating a narcissist was really toxic because having him in my life was the saddest part of my life but I didn't have regrets because I've learned so many things.

[@olivia-zr9ts]

sometimes narcissists are really damn good at making themselves look like the opposite of a narcissist. remember, they're HIGHLY manipulative, some of these "signs" won't be shown when you're dating one. they'll make sure those signs aren't there.

[@JustBeYouooh]

Let me just make it simple..a narcissist needs EVERYTHING to be about THEM..if you take the LIME LIGHT away from them they throw a tantrum..either inside or they show it!

[@vishnu89ify]

You have a nice voice Ashley. I think I married a Narcissist. This video, brought me back my painful and mind numbing times when I was married to someone I believe is a Narcissist. She had no empathy. Never cared about how I felt. Most of the arguments we had ,centered around her problems. I almost forgot the little things I loved to do, coz she didn't like me doing them. She wanted constant attention. She got way with everything. Things went crazy. I can't share a lot of things here. It was mentally exhausting. We're separated now. And I feel a lot better. My suggestion is: If you feel like you are emotionally exhausted when you are with someone, you gotta get out of that relationship.

[@olbabybeard]

OK if your date picks on you for being bad at mini golf you can relax cause thats a stupid example of narcissism

[@daniellekingofthingswhichs4593]

My brother would pick on any chance he gets. I don’t talk to him anymore.

[@Ivy-og5xd]

Daniel le Kingofthingswhichshouldnotmattertoyou Now that sounds more like narcissism

[@joyrod6302]

It is not true that they do not listen to you.. at the beginning they listen to you really a lot, just to find out how they can take advantage of you, in every sense.. especially money wise .. and to gather information on how to take control over you and destroy you when they wish to. At the beginning they seem to be mister charming.. the real prince you have been waiting for all your life.. After nearly 6 years with a narcissist I totally lost myself and I was scared and confused.. it has been very very difficult to get rid of him.. but now I am really happy and have found myself again.. but it took me over 3 years. Better dead than to have any relationship with a narcissist.. they are shit.. proper shit! There should be a law that imprison these people for life, as they only want to take advantage and later destroy people who get in their lives.. even in friendship.

[@koya25]

Gioia Rodati I dunno why but this comment had me laughing out loud. because it is so fucken true. I wish there was a law. My ex destroyed me and the money thing is spot on. unbelievably gross ppl

[@elizabethroa6970]

Gioia Rodati that sounds like a psycopath narcisist

[@jikooksdaughter2785]

The are parasyte ...a true narcissist

[@marijakalesnykaite]

Please write me your story. I'm going through an after divorce pain and would like to hear more about people who had similar experiences because this video rang a bell to me, too.

[@annaviehbeck72]

I totally feel you. I've been dating a narcissist for 5,5 years and only after the breakup he started showing his real face. It's just horrible what things he did. He was blackmailing my FAMILY and friends. I mean, blackmailing IN PERSON. He was talking trash about me to other people, including my friends and family. Imagine a guy walks up to your parents house, starts with "hello how are you doing?" and ends with "you know, your daughter is a huge slut, do something about it". I was in such a huge shock - while we were dating, he was mostly a nice sweet guy, though I always noticed how he is completely indifferent to my problems/opinions/plans/dreams. I'm pretty sure he has a huge personality disorder. Oh boy, he might be a damn psycho.

[@SkyeID]

My advice is to NOT use these videos as a means of diagnosis. If you or someone you care about has these signs, seek professional help from a licensed psychologist and/or psychiatrist.

[@NarcissismSimplified]

Skye ID Totally agree. People need to be told that.

[@xxdarkxxgamer6250]

Skye ID nah

[@nataliaduquew]

Skye ID very good contribution.

[@ShieniLicksOnLemons]

tho if your partner does shit like this you should dump their ass anyway. I wish I had, it only got worse. he's not a narcissist to my knowledge, but the "no means no" part of the video for example really describes him. he wouldn't stop his sexual advances on me even when I said no, when I said I don't want to eat something he'd try to coerce me to eat it, and when I said I don't want to go to his brother's party well oh shit guess what he'd made me go :)))) it doesn't matter if your partner isn't a narcissist, if they do these things on a regular basis you gotta dump their ass because you deserve better.

[@debraanchante3661]

Skye ID ..sorry, but narcs won't go for help.. they think only you need help. If a counselor told them they were a narc they'd say that counselor is a quack!!

[@JORDAN-ac]

welp he's a narcissist

[@ballinglikeimtobe4920]

Silvy Animator same I wonder if it can be undone. I become more like this as I get older lol

[@kerenobara3434]

sis leave him please

[@chaddumbbrat7174]

Leave him bby

[@cxviii7]

girl, i feel u

[@bigmeme8266]

You're gonna stay with him

[@ziggystardust360]

I was involved with one on and off for nearly four years ago. I met him four years ago today. They have this pattern of being able to pull you back in and then ghosting you once you served a purpose and then bringing you back. I was told the last time we spoke that “I’ve never loved you, I liked the idea of being with someone.” Then ran into him two days later and he had the audacity to wave to me as I was with my friend after he dropped a huge bomb. It wasn’t until I started reading the description on how a narcissist acts in a romantic relationship that I realized I was in that deep. It sucks when you love one and can’t see the writing on the wall for who they actually are.

[@laurathompson8856]

Covert narcissist are the worse.

[@mushi9766]

Laura Thompson yes

[@CoCoCat1234]

I went on a date with a guy I had amazing (sexual) chemistry with last year. But he was 100% all these, a textbook narcissist. I had a really bad gut feeling about him and the feeling kept getting stronger. So glad I quickly got out of things getting serious!

[@MeMe-fy3pp]

They're often very good at knowing what you want and giving you what you want until they're ready to bleed you dry of joy and life. Best sex was with a narcissist. They observe you. Give you what you want, to reel you in. And then go about destroying you. It's rather too bad because if they used these powers for good, they probably could regulate their self esteem, but they have to keep you down because they feel threatened...

[@dg-qn5mi]

Truth

[@TheDddXXXddd]

Same story :( I found the strenght to finally leave him after going through hell for months...The dangerous part is that they're very magnetic people...

[@milaboeva3714]

Yep same here but because of previous experience with narcissistic relationships, I was able fast to recognise the red flags and run away. It’s so sad that they can be really attractive sometimes but often horrible persons.

[@fieryelf]

Well what do you know, my sister is married to a narcissist. The guy is the most self centered person I've had the displeasure of knowing. He did everything, he knows everything, he's the best at everything, he can't keep quiet about himself EVER. He can't keep a job more than a year, he's broke as shit, had his car repossesed by the bank and somehow made my sister believe he's a victim in all of that.

[@ldyshkspr]

my exhusband was like that. finally got away

[@jikooksdaughter2785]

Narcissists are disease in the society

[@jikooksdaughter2785]

We should get rid of all narcissists....I mean I wish I could kill them...they make me Soo mad as fuck ...but I'm being nice so I would prefer them to send in mental hospital...if we get rid of all narcissists then our nation would be more prosperous than it is now

[@ahmadmahdee9495]

Narcisim means their self interested.....not unsuccessful....maybe ur sister is in a relation with a loser.....not a narcissist

[@salihashahid9526]

Omg yes they play victim all the time !!!!

[@GlenHunt]

The unspoken ugly Psych2Go can't say, but we can, is that narcissistic parents operate the EXACT SAME WAY. Trust me on that! If you find that this describes your relationship with your parents/caregivers, get help asap. PTSD is no joke, and nobody can afford to take it lightly.

[@TaYLoRBReaKouT]

Omg i have been hanging out with a narcissist for 2 years and i was so depressed! This explains so mich

[@dseer13]

Words like "They LOVE" are misleading. These are impulsive things they do, because they are trying to protect themselves from shame.

[@kirstenf.e4071]

Unfortunately I didn't just date the narcissists I married him. 16 years later after being discarded for a younger woman I am just now learning that I was married to a total narcissist. Too bad I could never convince him of that. He himself just got discarded by the lady he left me for. and when he came back to try to Hoover me in I told him exactly what he is and why it will never happen again. Because no matter how much I loved him he was emotionally unavailable and therefore unable to reciprocate. Never again will I allow him to use me as a pedestal to stand on when all the while he is sucking every bit of hope and positive energy out of me that I had to give. #overitandmovinon #loveyourselffirst

[@tranquility9325]

You go girl

[@keandraharrison6088]

Amen sister!

[@Rawyalty220]

u should never call out a narcissist. But I guess since it was your husband for 16 years that can be an exception. Fuck him but for other people reading this comment don’t follow her footsteps. Don’t call out narcissist,don’t bother wasting your time,and it Can backfire on you,

[@chrise.321]

Gray Rock and No Contact will save your mind and your life.

[@AleTitan]

ONISION

[@RoccosVideos]

He defiantly has a personality disorder.

[@westonwheeler2311]

Michael B What did he do?

[@RoccosVideos]

MusicFeeds TheSoul: read this onisiondrama.tumblr.com/post/62460123571

[@ga-nn3hu]

Holy shit that makes the most sense

[@taconatorification]

I knew someone would bring him up.

[@sinsister]

That moment when you don't have a partner and you're forever alone...

[@fainepeony7390]

Sophie Sharma Eh. Sometimes it's better that way.

[@HeartacheAndWhiskey]

Sophie Sharma Better alone than with a narcissist.

[@bendemare5270]

better alone to better know yourself since we're all alone,'would be cool to know how to have fun y ourselves,don'tyoufeelsooo?

[@thelife2242]

This. I dated a narcissist for 4 months. My self esteem was completely shot to pieces.

[@cc10higa]

HA, better than being with a narcissist

[@BrandonRiott]

Some of these signs don't apply to all people with NPD.. Narc's tend to be paranoid about their reputation and how everybody views them (ASPD's don't), so many of them can be submissive to appear as the nice caring one.. When they are with a partner they can put them first and ask their partner lots of questions to seem interested, because they dont want to LOOK rude..They will pay for everything and spoil partners and friends to appear like the perfect person.. Although I guess this would apply mostly to coverts, they can appear selfless even though they really arent and just want to look special and get positive attention.. NPDs are also prone to emotional meltdowns and bouts of depression and becoming schizoid. They are caught between self loving and self loathing..

[@nezumirrat]

Holy shit. This is me.

[@suzie5813]

You have a conscious. Do not over worry your mind..

[@Myahyou]

Holy shit my emotionally abusive ex had every one of these traits

[@darlingmyo2]

The last one describes my mom so well. She will interrupt whatever I'm talking about to whomever and start talking about an unrelated topic that is about her and keep talking with no one responding for sometimes 30 minutes

[@taserface8384]

I'm a narcissist, dating a narcissist, who doesn't know that either of us are narcasists, I think I broke the world

[@CassTrashPuppy]

no,you broke spelling😐

[@iseenarcissists8298]

DR Evil narcissists love people who pour forth a steady amount of empathic traits, then when that is not enough they break them down over time for more narcissistic supply.

[@kerenobara3434]

Hahahah

[@Prettyoddbananaa]

Taserface seems unlikely, narcissists tend to prey on empathetic people.

[@JustMe-ff9xh]

Taserface I think that happens a lot.

[@jetkwan2935]

*looks at self SHIT THEY'RE ONTO ME

[@e.1766]

Jet Kwan 2 HAHAHAHA!! Clever ;)!

[@liyahbrown9004]

I love it

[@luxordin4138]

Our entire society in a nutshell.

[@Len_J_]

TheBigKiddo x it’s definitely getting worse. Social media and trash tv are literally starting to pump narcissism into more and more people. It’s spreading for sure. Gone are the days of being benevolent or chivalrous (Does any one even know what that means anymore)

[@andrewkerr5296]

Nah you just projecting yourself

[@nimanixo]

I agree

[@carolinevdvlies6969]

Spot on!

[@felicialea8798]

I am now convinced my ex bf is a narcissist! When we first started dating he came off as charming, all about getting money, his music career, and me... Then after 2 years i find out he has been with someone else for 3! Years! So I was tbe side chick. As hard and embarrasing as it is to say. So I was very very heart broken but today i just told myself "Maybe he was emotionally abused" You know? Hurt people, hurt people so that's why what I told myself and now i feel better. I'm not as heart broken as I was 3 days ago! But its still messed up if he was emotionally abused... Ill pray for him. This is a sad and fucked up world!

[@swampcryptid0211]

When we first met I got addicted to her. I fell in head first. She warned me that she loved learning people. She loved getting inside their heads and figuring out how they work. She bragged that she could turn everyone a room against eachother, that she used to like to get inside a girls head , make them fall in love so hard until she was their entire world and then leave and watch them get upset. and she thought of herself as a queen among men.she said shed manipulated and hurt people into killing themselves. But she said I'm one of the two people she holds above her . I gave her the benifit of the doubt that shed changed. I loved her so much I wanted to marry her. In the beggining of the relationship she was affectionate , supportive and caring. She was so loving. Then she started talking to me less , leaving me on read and not wanting to call. Shed hang out with her friends wayy more and didn't want to call at all anymore. Shed be so cold and uni terested so I'd start freaking out because I'm extremely sensitive and it hurt my feelings. I'd get so tired of it that I'd send her a message . id ask if sge wanted to be with my anymore. if she still loved me because she wasn't treating me like it. then she would get annoyed and say its all my fault and make me feel bad. I'd get upset and say something about how I feel but she would get pissed about it and start telling me to try to kill myself again and do it right. shed say I was pathetic and nothing more than an inconvenience to her and that she didnt love me , that we were just friends with Benefits. she broke up with me saying she needed some space and she needed to be around a ton of people and her friends because she craved the thrill and wanted to hurt someone. I kept coming back because I loved her more than anything in the entire world. so then shed apologize. saying she's sorry I met a piece of shit like her and that she's toxic and a monster. I'd come back and wed try to work things out. but then it would start all over again. shed be affectionate and then cold and it would repeat. until one day I finally broke it off instead of her. she got so mad saying how dare I , that nobody broke up with her that she broke up with people. she had a list of people that had broken up with her. she said I wasn't worth it anyway that im weak and pathetic. then she apologized and we got back together and it happened all over again. this time I called it off for good. Said I couldnt do it anymore and even pissed her off so she wouldn't message me either. I told her I deserved better and that i didnt want to hurt anymore .and she got so mad saying I was just a clone of my mom and that I let my moms words get to me. my mom hated how she treated me and didnt like her but she was always there for me everytime Kassi hurt me and tried to offer advice for me to use in the relationship. She tried to be supportive but Kassi hated my mom. absolutely hated with a burning rage and the sound of my moms vouce would piss ger off. but now I'm sitting here wondering if i was really the problem like she said , maybe I'm blind to my problems. and if anything she said was true. she called me her soulmate. said she would love me forever and that she wanted to marry me. she even called herself my wife. so I'm trying to figure out if I was just some huge game. that if any of the sweet things she said were true , if her feelings were true and if maybe I was just scared. I miss her so much it hurts but I got hurt so many times by her. I just need sone clarity about what just happened and how to work through this and if I gave it my all and if I had any fault in things. because I never wanted to give up on her but I relapsed on self harm twice while I was with her. I couldn't take it anymore . I want to look back and be able to say I tried , that I did all I could and in the end i didn't deserve that.

[@monicajackson5869]

silent ghosts211 your story sounds a lot like mine. Even the mom situation! Know that it is NOT your fault. You did everything that you could do but love is not supposed to hurt like this. I have supported my narc bf for 9 months and I made the decision this week that I am done. I am worthy of the love I give. I am worthy of reciprocation. I deserve to be happy. And so do YOU. Idk if you believe in God or not. But knowing that God made me with a purpose and this person is dragging me away from my purpose, motivates me to stay away from him. I love him too and he is deeply troubled but I am not his savior. You Cant help those that refuse to be helped ...or those that deny all their problems and blame YOU. smh. Its really sad that we have to go through this but what dont kill ya makes you stronger. Sending hugs your way. I never reply to comments but yours touched my heart. 💕 BE BLESSED

[@Ihealwounds]

I too have gone through similar crap with a girl about a month ago. We met, tolf me lots of nice things, told me she liked me and she was the first girl ever to go on a date with me. i felt it was a dream come through, then she told me she didnt want to date me anymore but she wanted to be friends first. Not loving myself atm i said sure and she kept going back and forth thay she still liked me and then she didnt and just wanted attention, then one day, she texted me that she made a mistake aka she slept with another guy and now she is in a relationship with him... i was hurt... real hurt... but then... i realized at that moment everything i did for her.. all the kind and loving words i meant, and how much i even loved her, and she did not ever return it to me... i realized at that moment... that i love myself too much to be treated like this and i deserve to be loved back for all that i did and waa going to do for her.. and that i dont deserve this treatment anymore! A few days later i get a text from her saying that i hurt her and that she choose me cause she thought i would never hurt her. i just laughed and blocked her. im not gomma put up with her bs anymore

[@jackielove2737]

Ihealwounds Great job!!!❤

[@cc10higa]

I just want to say that none of this was your fault. I'm glad that you finally made the right decision to break it off with her. You obviously tried your best to maintain the relationship. Judging from what you said, she manipulated you by lover bombing you and then pulling away from you so that you would be more reliant on her for affection. The goal of the narcissist is to take advantage of your empathy. I won't say that I'm 100% right but this is just my opinion. Again, please don't blame yourself. Your ex girlfriend had her own problems with self esteem and you had nothing to do with it. You seemed like a good person for giving her the benefit of the doubt, but I hope that when you encounter a person like your ex girlfriend in the future, run the other way.

[@willstanton7823]

As an empath who has a textbook narcissist in the family, I can offer you some advice, as I have had to live with his abuse most of my life, and have come to understand how the mind of the narcissist works. To me, you sound like someone a narcissist would target. Yes, you were just game to them. You were used. She wanted power over you. You beat her at her game when you left her. But then you got sucked back in. Leave her and never look back. She will come crawling back to you, but you need to stand your ground and shut that door in her face. Cut off all contact with her. Block her number if you have to. Delete her from Facebook. Give her zero oxygen. If you want to avoid being targeted in future, you've got to be more assertive. You've got to make a decision and stick to it. You've got to be strong-willed. There's a beautiful soul inside you, I can see it. But you've got to grow a spine. I say this, because you need to hear it, not because it gives me pleasure, because it sure doesn't. But if you work on your assertiveness, you won't ever be a victim to this again, and you will meet a woman who is worthy of your love. I hope these words find you well.

[@orangutang6667]

They can also hide bad memories about person. And revenge later. When good moment comes. Then strike.

[@LynnCooks]

When I was dating my now husband he proudly told me that he was a diagnosed narcissist. At the time I really had no idea what that meant. After 13 years of hell...I now fully understand.

[@drknow1997]

Oh dear. So sorry.

[@angelnelson2012]

she is so right! i just had to let someone go in may and he exhibited ALL of these qualities

[@willstanton7823]

As someone who has suffered at the hands of a textbook narcissist for many years, because they are in the family, I have learned what the narcissist hates and fears most. I have learned how to make them squirm, and how to punish them for the abuse and suffering they have caused, in the most necessary manner. So here it is. The secret to beating the narcissist in your life, and the way to make them move on to another victim. Leave them. Cut them off. Completely. No contact. Disappear. Never come back.

[@mjrhmekssh]

this is 100% pure onision

[@Ivy-og5xd]

ak k The onision drama just keeps getting better & better

[@emileewatson4845]

Its reaching its peak now lol

[@haveagoodmourning]

@@emileewatson4845 now there's a documentary coming out

[@canfortmeyer8218]

Bottled onision

[@jennasawatzky9317]

this vid is like telling people how to diagnose people, and not all people who act like this are narcissists.

[@cc10higa]

lilly lovely we all need to take everything with a grain of salt. This video will not apply to everyone.

[@ttttiiimmy10bit]

2:22 They *do* remember your insecurities and fears & forget alot of the other stuff.

[@freyalydia]

I left my narcissistic husband in May 2018. While watching this I realized, he did every effing thing on this list on me...

[@zippyblessed839]

Well done

[@orangemercy]

my father is a narcissist! i really really wish my mother would leave him as this affects her greatly, to the point where she’s scared. I get my anxiety from my mother but it’s dangerous that she’s soon to be alone with him as im moving to college. i’m studying to become a psychiatrist and become a trauma doctor to help kids like me who suffer from ptsd and anxiety. i want to make a difference and your videos inspire me (: so thank you, thank you for giving me hope and information that is more than interesting. you all are amazing

[@JJ-vv5om]

Reddish Riot Good on you for doing something positive with an extremely awful situation. Best wishes to you. Stay strong for your mother.⚘

[@maddylovesbooks]

The messaging one can also be tied to anxiety, Like I have soooo much anxiety if i dont get a reply soooo you could also be dating someone who has anxiety ahahahahaha

[@thedarkmaster4747]

its both, both instant messaging & couldn't give a buiscuit messaging depending on whether or not they need you. its predictable.

[@thedarkmaster4747]

Adela Setara yes they'll give their victim anxiety, its a sea-saw. with no boundaries it become this way, the more successful they are in abusing & exploiting their victim the less desirable they'll be. an N.P.D. will hate the people above them viciously and scorn and detest those below them, as they win against a victim they go up while they go down, if they lose the opposite happens. treat an N.P.D. like crap & they'll stick to you like glue, treat them nicely and you'll find yourself with the trash. all N.P.D.s switch between overt and covert states depending solely on their relative social status/amount of N.S. they are currently getting verses how much their ego has been accustomed to. like a drug addict from overt-high to covert-jonesing. to a N.P.D. only other N.P.D.s exist, they project perpetually, its almost supernatural. 😎

[@kukucunt9507]

Just stop

[@kukucunt9507]

Just stop

[@JacGBoots1]

?addiction

[@Eddie2P]

a part of me is narc but its mostly when i feel insecure. When im feeling good im the total opposite. Im working on providing value instead of needing it from others.

[@LuffyMakesContent]

I've dated one. He almost dragged two different people towards suicide. He won't even have to say much. He's just that toxic. He always needs to be around a crowd of people who are flattered by him. And always talks highly about hurting someone's feelings or how intelligent he is. And if you're not making him feel good about himself, he becomes distant and feels completely insecure. And will make you feel like it's YOU who are doing something wrong.

[@XPrincess30]

assiralk49 gee tell me about it. Can’t even pass by him without him making me feel bad about myself

[@Linkfan007]

Omg, yes, so freaking true!! I dated one, not fun. Always full of themselves. And they expect to be treated like kings and expect apologies and special treatment left and right. 😑 He had no problem apologizing to his family or friends but with me, it was like pulling an arm and a leg to get him to say it to me most of the time. I did appreciate it though when I brought it up in to him he started doing it little by little for things he did to upset me. But that took 3 1/2 YEARS to get to that point!!

[@a.wilson9365]

This is terrible and I'm sorry it happened to you. It reminds me of all the female narc authors I've been reading. I don't think videos made by people who aren't narcissists can help much. Us victims should read directly from narcissists themselves, from people who actually do all of this. I recommend Scarlett Kennedy and Robert Greene, you can learn a lot from both. They're both master manipulators but I think Kennedy is even better, she overrides his power so you should definitely try with her.

[@keandraharrison6088]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 My ex in a nutshell.. It's no wonder when I was on a date with him one time this girl we both knew, took one look at him & ran in the opposite direction away! SMH it's really sad!.. I now know why he "worked", as a bouncer at a bar too.. He literally FEEDS off drama!

[@lavendxrfantxsy]

Where do I put your Oscar? That you said is so true!

[@NoxietyPrime]

Because no one else seems to have mentioned it yet, I'd like to point out a small mistake at 5:50: it should be spelled "boundaries", with an A.

[@Shellie95]

Of course you would point that out.... Narcissist;)

[@c.g.4845]

CarmenMichelle Or maybe they wanna point out a mistake. Oops, I'm also a narcissist now because I tried to prove you're wrong, or at the least assuming out of minimal evidence.

[@lionessgoddess603]

C.G. shut up lol

[@lionessgoddess603]

Bilious Slick shut up

[@charlenebuyshouses]

Virgo

[@rootsofeternity6626]

My wife and I were involved with one a few years ago, and TBH, I chalk everything up to a life lesson. Now we know what to look for and, also, it has been a never ending source of hilarity recalling this persons attempt at manipulation. Whenever my wife is in a bad mood and I ask if she’s ok , she responds with a over the top, exaggerated sexy voice “I am nnooowww!” (Something our narc used to say when greeting us and we asked if she was ok) and we both are on the floor cracking up. Life isn’t hard, be kind, work hard, and love as much as possible. Don’t let these people get you down, they’re dealing with mountains of issues and your just a distraction to get their mind off of their horrible life.

[@devora246]

"if you are dating a narcissist you gonna get feel a little used sometimes"?! Are you joking me?! Used feeling is the first red flag in this kind of relationship and you gonna feel it all the way until you will manage to get out of it. In the end that's what it is- you are nothing but a toy in the hands of a sick person.

[@katiathecake-lovingcat6912]

Ok, but like if it's a personality disorder, then they can't really control it... so maybe the whole "narcissistic jerk" thing shouldn't have been brought up at all? Like I'm not saying stay with them and let their actions bring you down, but maybe like use this to understand why they act like that, and have empathy for them from afar? Or even try to tell them "hey, you might have x, i would go see a therapist about it cause it can harm future/is harming our current relationship(s).

[@bryantav6843]

Katia De Haardt the Dark Mage they are not mentally handicapped its not outside their control , you are describing narcissist as if they are a cancer patient , they still they are in some sense victims for being such immature toddlers , but they should be removed from your life because they will drain you , and their bad traits will rub off onto you.

[@katiathecake-lovingcat6912]

Even if it's not technically a mental illness, it's still not something you can wake up with out. One has to go through therapy if they want to change it. And if they are draining you, then yeah, you have to get away, but leave that as a last resort, try to help them see that the disorder isn't helping them (as trying to get them to empathize probably won't work) and convince them to get the therapy. And you can have a disorder without being classified as being handicapped. www.psycom.net/personality-disorders/narcissistic/ (I would suggest reading the "What Causes Narcissistic Personality Disorder and How is it Diagnosed?" as well as "What are the Treatment Options?"sections to get my point)

[@kit10]

Good luck getting a narc to go to therapy or even want to change, even if they admit that they're a narc.

[@acupoftaewithabitofsugaand8084]

Katia The Cake-Loving Cat Lol no. Most of them are abusive and have no intention of getting better because they just can't admit they're jerks.

[@0121-x2j]

narc

[@dash2869]

trouble is everyone is guilty of at least one or more of these things...

[@momijiparfait]

Right?? How do you know whether you're being a genuine friend or not?

[@ThetennisDr]

normally when people are cheating they won't answer the phone or text back...so is not narcissism to get upset when ur texting all of the sudden people disappear. is playing games... the narcissist is the the one who doesn't text

[@cmara3696]

Elle D well said

[@alittlewheiser521]

The moment my narcissistic boyfriend said, "you are acting different toward me" when I stopped being a mental toy for HIM......CLASSIC moment right there!

[@taylor5491]

These points apply to almost everyone in every single relationship. After all, it takes two to tango and one must make the first move and lead in a dance, and the same thing happens in a partnership. While I find myself drawing parallels between my own actions and these listed characteristics, I also feel relieved to know that I am not a narcissist because every person is responsible taking control in situations where others do not jump to do so. Every person is also responsible for how they allow others to treat them, along with how they react. But can you ever trust the sources to be unbiased if they're coming from the protagonist?

[@baconn]

Imagine when a narcissist dates a narcissist and they actually went well together lmao

[@pumpkinwaffles7569]

Thanks God my relationship with a narcissistic dork has ended Now I don't need anybody in my life EVER

[@elenorefink3790]

I hate to be the person who immediately goes, "ohp. that's me. I have that disorder." However, I was diagnosed with this disorder and me and my therapist have talked about what it actually means. After reading a few books after sessions, the main key of narcissism, is that the narcissist dislikes themselves. This is why they always look for others to built them up; simply, they can't do it themselves. Yes, they can always remember the compliments that others gave them and boast the ego, but they never like theirselves to begin with. Then again, narcissists are rude and can be harmful. But it's important to understand that narcissists are only like this because they haven't exactly learned how to love theirselves, so they expect others to. :/ just a little note from your neighborhood narcissist.

[@queenesquiresquad]

My ex used to get angry if I did not answer my phone immediately and rushed me into a relationship. He quickly said he love me in 2 weeks. He did talk about his tragic night. He did take control of the date night and the fb status and the road trip we took

[@SublimeSings]

God, my ex had every single one of these qualities. Knowing this now, I'm so glad we broke up LMAO

[@lucasmarsh9841]

Wait to narcissist no doesn't mean no omg all sales man are narcissists

[@alisani5852]

Lol my dad is a narcissist Bye dad

[@lilac624]

I have a narcissistic parent....I wanna die .....:-(

[@galialimache6954]

Me too

[@neotenylv09]

Definitively my ex, she is so self absorbed that doesnt realize the damage she did to me and our common friends, along with lot of things that Im not going to write right now. This video is pretty clear and spot on every single point.

[@stahpitt8531]

Things to note are that narcissism can't be diagnosed until later once the brain has fully developed around 19-25 years of age. The brain is egocentric and selfish until it's developed, so yes if you're dating as a teen right now everyone you know at school displays narcissistic traits.

[@GordonGarvey]

Everyone's a bit of a narcissist, it's a problem when it comes to them manipulating others and emotional degrading others. I think the key for someone actually being enough of one for it to be diagnosed is when they do these things and lack the self reflection to recognize what they've done wrong. I think they view wrongdoings done to them with more regard than what they've done to others.

[@Tuncapoo]

My ex is one and the guy that's currently trying to be my bf is one too... is there some kind of repellent?? Need one!! Urgh.

[@tyjonesd]

Tuncs Apoo I hope you don't mind me saying this, but I think they see you vulnerable?

[@Tuncapoo]

Tyjones D I don't mind. Could you possibly elaborate?

[@Byteable]

Being vulnerable is an attractive trait that you should keep, but you have to know if they are crossing your boundaries. If they are you need to stand up and don’t let them take advantage of you. Gently let them know what u think they’re doing wrong to you

[@randomninja83]

I think I might be a narcissist... but how can I change my ways to save my relationship?

[@fluent_In_finance]

study stoicism, then become a Stoic.

[@xx_chill_xx6715]

Nerdymetalhead91 your comment and question proves that you' are not a narcissist.

[@DreamerInDisguise]

I’d suggest talking to your significant other about your narcissism explain it to them and listen to their thoughts on it and Artistic activities such as drawing and singing etc have been known to help good luck!

[@livinglifejaybyjay3063]

Go get a mental check up

[@missmarjum]

I often come to this channel to check my own personality and behaviour and end up gaining much more psychological knowledge. Thank you very much Psyc2go.

[@robbrown39]

Much of the characteristics mentioned here aren't the full picture of the narcissist. The number one tell of the narcissist, is how they respond to being told no.

[@jingalls2583]

I'm thankful these are none of my traits. It makes me feel good that im superior to these people. Im a god compared to them.

[@greyguts2498]

Jingalls 20 ha

[@jikooksdaughter2785]

Just keep playing 'god' with other people's life...I feel sorry for you 😥😥

[@gilbertsimanjuntak7716]

This is obviously a sarcastic manner of commenting a narcissist, c'mon guys....😒😒

[@amateruss]

I see what you did there.

[@wirehanga3966]

😂😂😂

[@highkeyroses]

oh... hi have a nice day/night/afternoon :)

[@sierramiller9936]

myfreckledelf thanks,you too 😊

[@n-extrafries-surprise]

myfreckledelf aww, thank you

[@jamesdecklen4803]

myfreckledelf thank you very much

[@definitelynotjohan]

you have a nice day/night/afternoon too :)

[@justanotherjongdaefan4630]

ow thank you 😊🌛

[@themrsnakebitee]

I'm on time! Wanna hear a joke? Me too. Me too, boi.

[@omarramirez952]

TheMrSNakeBite WHY IS 6 SCARED OF 7?? BECAUSE 7, 8, 9!! kill me

[@joev3783]

knock knock

[@omarramirez952]

Who's there?

[@joev3783]

pizza delivery

[@omarramirez952]

:(

[@donnoah268]

Omg I have been surrounding myself with narcissists all this time. Everytime I say "No" they ignore my concerns completely. Everytime I say that they hurt me they always say they didn't too many times for me to count. Because of that, I don't want to make friends anymore. Thanks for the video; it made my life make a bit more sense

[@Alyssa18633]

I once had a thing with a guy who had narcissistic personality disorder. (We were never in a relationship though) and honestly he was the sweetest, nicest & most charming guy I've ever met. We only had a deep conversation about it once and he admitted that he is incredibly insecure, which was hard to believe bc he was so popular, handsome, everyone was always up his ass, he seemed SO confident etc. I guess I didn't know him long enough to see any "signs"

[@TheDudeManBro]

I've been dating a punk biker chick the past 4 months and Christ this video speaks volumes for why I'm so unhappy with such a bombshell of a lady. Came looking for videos after she told me she doesn't want to hear anything at all about my friends which was the last straw, time to jump off this ship. Damnit.

[@amj.composer]

so I guess im not a narcissist, that means im the best in the world, bow down to me peasants

[@endthefed1448]

Aryaman Manish Joshi haha, savage !

[@izzyf6552]

Aryaman Manish Joshi lol 😂

[@rapheletacurry7141]

😂🤣😁

[@beverly6515]

this is why i dont have crushes in 7 years

[@curtistinemiller1560]

Most Narcissist will not admit that they are this personality tell a person No and you will see what they are narcissists ignore what you want and lack basic. Control and empathy for others... ..

[@boyeesevilla]

5:24 wow.. the more I watch these kinds of videos, the more I WAKE UP. The last narc I dated literally told me from the beginning that he doesn’t follow rules... I didn’t see this as a red flag.. but now I see it is a characteristic of narcs to NOT FOLLOW RULES! Smh.. happy to be learning though! Thanks for this video ✨💞

[@sadhbhnibhearra6704]

All I can think of is Gaston from Beauty And The Beast XD

[@beaw9166]

Woah.. the emotional detachment describes me :(

[@coralrain6332]

Bea W 🙄

[@RustyWood]

Just got out of a relationship with one. Never knew anybody before that could make every conversation about herself. I knew she was odd from the get go. But it finally dawned on me she's a classic narcissist. Jealous, controlling, vain, etc. Glad to be out of it!

[@summersuetholz7884]

I was dating a narcissist and it sucked the life out of me. He tried to blame me for everything wrong he did or everything bad in the relationship. He expected everything to just be handed to him without doing work and he didn't care. He didn't have a job or go to school and he manipulated people for money, even me, along with other things. When he got tired of me he left me and went straight to another girl the day he broke up with me. It hurt a lot because even though he was horrible to me, I was still able to love him for his good parts and I hoped things would change. It's been three weeks now and he called me a week ago, which crushed me. He got angry at me saying I needed to stop talking shit about him because it was getting around. I felt guilty, but at the same time I feel like it's not my fault I wanted to share all of the abuse and lying he put me through. I didn't even share that much, I was just saying how I didn't like this girl who almost came to the party because she invited my bf over at night and he lied to me about going over there. There's a lot more to it than that, but that's the jist. But then he started saying how he is the happiest he has ever been and he's changed so much and he's doing great things. I don't know why he told me all of that, but it's hard to see him moving on so quick after how hard I tried for him. I keep reminding myself he did horrible things to me and he's a bad person, but it still hurts

[@freespirit1671]

Wow. I answered yes on all these questions when describing my [now ex] boyfriend. The saddest part is, despite having a firm cognitive grasp on the fact that he’s not someone I should waste any energy or time on, I can’t help but feel my heart breaking now that he’s discarded me..

[@pierre.stephanie45]

Sounds like my capricorn ex

[@missidealist9486]

My capricorn mother in law!

[@hobojeff8030]

The effects of this video are extraordinarily insidious. To discuss very serious personality disorders, of which can only be diagnosed by a qualified professional (qualifications the author of this video may, or may not have) in such a blasé manner to a sizeable audience, of what is most likely impressionable teenagers with limited understanding of legitimate psychological practice, and the immense responsibilities that come with said practice, is extremely irresponsible. Statements such as "if… it's a sign you've found yourself dating a narcissist", or "if your date made fun of you for screwing up a mini golf hole… narcissist", merely apply textbook definitions of diagnostic criteria to the hypothetical situations of anonymous viewers, to which the author of this video has never had any significant interaction, and cheapen psychology as a science. Videos such as these should be laden with disclaimers concerning the inapplicability of these 'signs' by someone who lacks the necessary qualifications so as to not have very serious terms such as NPD thrown around, lessening their legitimacy with each vocalisation, or instil those with a weak understanding of narcissism with a gross and irrational mistrust of everyone they encounter. Content like this is why psychology is still regarded by some as a pseudo-science.

[@xXxsh4rkxXx]

Stfu dude..

[@rmg2419]

Hobo Jeff- You are right. This video doesn't express the severity of what true Narcissism is. In that these narcs can not only completely ruin ones life in many areas, but also they can severely damage a person's psychological well being. I believe Narcissists are equal and can be worse than Psychopaths. Psychopaths will straight up murder people, and Narcissists will murder your soul, spirit, identity, energy, life force, reputation, finances, relationships, and anything else they can destroy in your life, which living through this is worse than physical murder. Narcissism is more serious than what most people perceive it to be.

[@swazer72]

Hobo Jeff Welcome to youtube...you just got clickbaited “are you dating a narcissist?”

[@left-2-write28]

This would have been so helpful in my last relationship. Why do I find these videos after the fact.

[@ms.mikaelson]

Same

[@left-2-write28]

@Willy Wonka that's true. Not only do you produce wonderful chocolate, mr. Wonka, but you also give very good advice! Haha. Thank you, my friend.

[@rdashian6475]

Oh boy. I have a story to tell. So a narcissistic guy took an interest in me seemingly for no reason. I knew what to expect from the beginning, because I have seen him manipulate another person, but I still almost fell in love even though I was trying very hard to stay detached. I was friendly but nothing more, I refused to be left alone with him and when he understood that he wouldn't get anything from me, he got into another relationship very quickly and forgot about me. I was hurt at first, because deep down I wanted to believe that he was genuine interested, but I am also really thankful that I didn't start dating him or anything

[@king-nick2023]

You know what sucks is I have many of these traits but at the same time I feel like they are justified. For example: I do like attention. However I don’t know anyone who’s hates attention. I do antagonize people how it’s only because I believe I’m here and that they are here all to enjoy each other’s reactions to one another. I also do have a unrealistic sense of superiority to others but at the same time I know it’s not accurate. I believe that everyone is unique and that everyone has skills and abilities that I don’t have and that they do have. Also I love to take control. However in my dating experience women usually enjoy it when I have plans ahead of time instead of asking “what do you wanna do?” Them: “idk what do you wanna do.” I just find it easier to take charge than to just sit around for an hour figuring out plans and than not do anything.

[@cassiecandles]

I wish I found this half a year ago

[@minerskittens2394]

*Sees self-centered and instant messages* oh pfft that's not relatable probably. *After seeing it* wtf is this?! NO! nO! No! SHEIT,I CAN'T BE A NARRSICIST!

[@tuliplouart]

Dating a narcisist is like the worst thing ever. Super emotionally abusive. I'm sure dating one isn't like that for everybody, but in my experience, it's actual hell. I live with one too, so it's just great haha :')

[@xenonsan3110]

Story time! I dated a very controlling guy once actually kinda recently as I'm writing this, he may have been a narcissist I dunno but whatever. he made me feel like crap for hanging out with a friend I've known for years at a carnival because I didn't tell him I was going, saying I could've at least told him. Thing is he'll hang out with his friends and parties without telling me, very hypocritical. Another time I had something to do one night and he just randomly asked if I'd like to go out to eat in like 20min. So I let him know I was doing something that night and was literally driving to it. He had tried to convince me to just turn around. He also said my depression as a child (I got therapy I'm fine) was caused by my parents, which is a total lie obviously. He is so controlling to his friends and family too. I'm still friends or at least friendly to him as we go to same events like clubs or whatever but I developed a trick to get on his nerves and it's so gratifying: I act like how he would act towards him (and only him). So basically tell him he's wrong when he's actually wrong and not back down from my opinions. Then after only two days of doing this he private messages me and asks "what crawled up your ass and died to make you such a sassy bitch on *enter social media service*" Didn't respond to it because it'd just cause a fight however he hasn't responded to any of my comments on his posts since. I know this makes me look kinda shallow, it makes me feel so good to get back at him with all of his controlling behavior. Anyway thanks for reading this!

[@kashishsingh2919]

Thank you so much I have been into a narcissistic relationship for 1 year and 7 months It was a constant confusion with unlimited insecurities along with many weird things which are hard to explain in one comment. It was hell but for starting 4-5 months, it was like a dream come true... Eventually it was an amazing trap from which it was difficult to go back.

[@Ston247]

Rick James (RIP) was probably a narcissist. "A Habitual Line Stepper."