So early that the timestamp commenters are still not here.
@raine.h4il7 ай бұрын
Real
@noobzito27 ай бұрын
Mine is way too big😅
@lolabear32307 ай бұрын
Who's still hear in 2024 💖💖💖
@noobzito27 ай бұрын
@@lolabear3230 me
@Psych2go7 ай бұрын
So fast!
@noobzito27 ай бұрын
Timestamp! -0:39 Their voice makes you smile for no reason -0:54 You always wait for their texts -1:02 You are intensly curious about them -1:21 You feel safe around them -1:42 You can't stop talking about them -1:54 It feels super easy -2:10 You act in their interest -2:22 You don't feel anxious about getting hurt -2:32 You feel their pain -2:44 Your outlook on life looks more positive -2:59 literally everything reminds you of them -3:15 You want to do things you've already done again -3:35 You value thei opinions about future plans -3:49 You feel adventurous! -4:04 You are more affectionate -4:20 You can see their quirks and look past them -4:46 You wnat to show them all your favourite things -4:58 You feel more love for others -5:15 Their scent draws a magnet -5:32 You feel like a better person -6:08 When an ex pops back into your life -6:33 Every love song reminds you of them Dam thats a lot xd (22)
@Redheadbelle7 ай бұрын
❤
@sakonan48837 ай бұрын
I’m surprised by how many, too.
@noobzito27 ай бұрын
@@sakonan4883 yup😅 at least I made one (even though I think it doesn't help)
@LastEarBender7 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@SunshineSushix7 ай бұрын
You just saved me 6:45 minutes
@neofulcrum50137 ай бұрын
I still remember the time I first fell in love: it’s a growing warmth. You start picturing the things you’d wanna do with that crush (hang out, hold hands, kiss, hug). That person almost always on your mind. Wish I could feel that again and have someone to ease that loneliness.
@avengerboy21717 ай бұрын
Then look for friends, talk to new people, socialize in some way.
@oliverdk75947 ай бұрын
That there is something I can never experience. Im incapable to form deep connections with others. The worse part is that I do have strong Empathy, so it just hurts to know I’ll never have that.
@avengerboy21717 ай бұрын
@@oliverdk7594 That isn't true, you just haven't currently met anyone who you've been able to have that connection with. Keep pushing, I know it's hard but that is something all of us go through. It took me time before I was able to climb out of that depression and went on to form strong connections with others, don't lose hope.
@Martin-ld6uo7 ай бұрын
Yea, falling in love is the worst, because they either don't like you back or already are in a relationship
@oliverdk75947 ай бұрын
@@avengerboy2171 Not seeing that happening when im an Aromantic, its a matter of fact, I already faced reality and accepted that. Having friends is the closest I can get to Love or a deep connection. Just not deep enough to call it a relationship, ever. It’s a sad truth but again I don’t know if I would call it that, dont feel like im missing out alot and besides, Its not that bad.
@yensteel7 ай бұрын
For me, the biggest sign was that i want her to be happy. If she's happy, I'm happy. Empathy, an emotional connection was "my" key. The girl lost interest in me, and we seperated. It hurt a lot, but when I saw her with another man happy, I felt surprisingly grateful that she is in good hands. As long as she's happy, I am too. Love should be selfless, but it's rare.
@fridagylterud94914 ай бұрын
You’re a good man for being happy for her even though she’s with another man☺️👌
@yensteel4 ай бұрын
@@fridagylterud9491 Aw, thanks! ^ ^
@theambitiousduck7 ай бұрын
welcome back to "am i in love or do i have a terrible platonic crush?"
@Shannon57697 ай бұрын
Same! 😭 I have so many signs mentioned here with a new friend for over half a year now. I think I might just have a terrible platonic crush 😅
@Kurumisama7 ай бұрын
Ouch...
@Thesaneman3347 ай бұрын
Same
@nayumichan_desu6 ай бұрын
this is me for the past years of questioning my feelings. ._.
@leeexploreeatenjoy47306 ай бұрын
Hahaha same here 😂
@kendall90367 ай бұрын
oh these videos have been SPECIFIC lately 😭
@valennt.17 ай бұрын
for realll 😭😭
@wildfyah7 ай бұрын
Very.
@impossiblyirreverent7 ай бұрын
BRO REAL im like this cannot be real anymore what 😭
@proXevo7 ай бұрын
Very very very relatable💀
@BrokenSoulConfession7 ай бұрын
The algorithm tracks your search and view history
@A55a551n7 ай бұрын
Timestamps 1). Their voice makes you smile for no reason 0:38 2). You always wait for their texts 0:53 3). You are intensly curious about them 1:02 4). You feel safe around them 1:20 5). You can't stop talking about them 1:41 6). It feels supper easy 1:54 7). You act in their best interest 2:09 8). You don't feel anxious about getting hurt 2:20 9). You feel their pain 2:33 10). Your outlook on life becomes more positive 2:43 11). Literally everything reminds you of them 2:58 12). You want to do things you've already done again 3:14 13). You value their opinions about future plans 3:35 14). You feel adventurous 3:49 15). You are affectionate 4:03 16). You can see their quirks and look past them 4:19 17). You want to show them all of your favourite things 4:45 18). You feel more love for others 4:56 19). Their scent draws a magnet 5:15 20). You feel like a better person 5:31 21). When an ex pops back into your life 6:07 22). Every love song reminds you of them 6:31 Hope this helps you out. Hope this helps you out. Sorry this is so late. And today is my birthday too. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
@goldensparkle7 ай бұрын
TYSM 😊😊😊 Happy Birthday ❤❤❤ 🎉🎉🎉
@wyy.a7 ай бұрын
TYYY and happy birthday !!! ❤
@A55a551n7 ай бұрын
@@goldensparkle thank you
@A55a551n7 ай бұрын
@@wyy.a thank you
@hassanhazrat36156 ай бұрын
Sorry I'm late. Happy birthday. Hope it was an amazing day for you ☺
@davids20967 ай бұрын
Falling in love can be the scariest thing ever, and also give you the greatest sensation of elation and bliss! It's a paradox like most things in life it seems! Sometimes it's hard to know what's right and what's comfortable! That's my 2 cents! Take care!
@BreadRinger7 ай бұрын
The greatest sign of falling in love is to become so synchronized that your partner's emotions genuinely affect your own.
@xp79556 ай бұрын
"Falling in love is like a messy, beautiful mix of emotions..." Got me cryin
@niharikamishra17867 ай бұрын
I just wanted to say that I have been subscribed to this channel for over 2 years and it has helped me a lot.Thank you so much Phych2Go❤
@Psych2go7 ай бұрын
Wow, 2 years! That's incredible, thank YOU for being a part of the Psych2Go community for so long. I'm so happy to hear the channel has been helpful for you. Here's to many more years of exploring psychology together!
@thanhmaile19387 ай бұрын
why is this so RELATABLE?!?😱😱😱
@kushclarkkent66697 ай бұрын
The art on this channel is so CUTE!😭
@Psych2go7 ай бұрын
Thank you for the love and support! This means a lot to our animation team!
@JustDilasX7 ай бұрын
@@Psych2goi love your channel! And the artist is very talented!
@yodaddy9362Ай бұрын
You're so right.
@PlasmaWolf68906 ай бұрын
Thanks so much😊 Whenever I’m feeling kinda down or feeling confused about my emotions, i just come to this channel. There’s always the video I need😊 (which is kinda creepy, but nice)
@tigerx367 ай бұрын
When she walks in every time our circle of friends get together I'm one of the first she greets. And it just gets me every time. Just hearing her when we talk and crack jokes feels that much better. Feels like they're curious about me. I'm hoping she feels safe around me. We both think about each other quite a bit. We've both been hurt and feels like I can ease hers somehow. We talk about what we might do over the summer. I'm a bit more adventurous because of it. Her quirks? Her silly laugh, how she parts her hair, how she even leaned in a bit close. Not sure I'm ready to show my favorite things just yet. Haven't had any ex so no worries there.
@Blissfulvoid267 ай бұрын
I’m literally over here head over heels so someone and this video pops up. This channel is getting too specific.
@eyeballmaster6107 ай бұрын
About half of them also think you. You are one of the reasons I didn't kill myself. You made me see the good in things I used to think were bad. And your videos made me cry with joy when I was sad on some days.
@B1uenty7 ай бұрын
Yo guys I need help. This girl recently called me “not bad looking” and “I feel like a lot of people have had a crush on you” and I just realized she has been pretty physical with me, always playfully slapping my arm and recently touched me in a comforting way. She also constantly hangs out with me and can get pretty close to me. Pls help me T-T
@mikerosoft21797 ай бұрын
if your're interested in her express it, if not then don't but maybe ask her if she is interested in you & try to have conversation about it.
@nunahovy7 ай бұрын
She might have platonic feelings towards you, and just consider you pretty, or she does like you. The only way for you to know is to ask her what she feels whitout compromising her if she just wants to be friends.
@B1uenty7 ай бұрын
Thanks, I really appreciate it
@PlasmaWolf68906 ай бұрын
Oh shoot I just realized someone else does something similar to me
@thejtown16 ай бұрын
ask her out dumbass
@chzekeburkes8127 ай бұрын
okay but why do ya always drop a video that correlates to what’s going on in my life 😂 love this channel 💯
@Psych2go7 ай бұрын
Haha, that's creepy...ly good timing! Maybe you're just manifesting awesome content, or maybe we have psychic... Either way, I'm glad you love the channel!
@chzekeburkes8127 ай бұрын
@@Psych2go for sure keep making content 💯 more life to you , the team , and everybody’s loved ones thank you guys for helping me figure things out 🙏🏿
@coachclaudiawith_hope7 ай бұрын
Yes, it took me 42 years to fall in love with a great friendship and it’s going on five years. Even communicating when there are disagreements become better with time. I believe the fear of being hurt may still happen. There are no guarantees❤
@abynevermore55427 ай бұрын
I needed that Tnx❤
@Yui_Xio_Kaz6 ай бұрын
I was trying to hide the fact I'm in love, but now I know I was lying to myself
@deshawnwilliams75567 ай бұрын
I was just having a debate with myself over this 😭. And this helps so much
@PlasmaWolf68906 ай бұрын
Same. Emotions at confusing
@jonaichi_097 ай бұрын
Just don't put them on a pedestal ... That will affect you badly, and the other person probably doesn't want to be put on a pedestal like that either. Relax and have fun. And if you're wondering to ask them out or not, do it. You might regret it if someone else takes that opportunity from you.
@stargazerskingdom19017 ай бұрын
Gosh this video is making me smile involuntarily... And yeah many of the signs explained do match with my feelings when I fell in love with a guy during high school...
@dwyer19647 ай бұрын
Omg, I feel many of these with my friend. She's perfect.
@simplereally.7 ай бұрын
"Knock, knock." "Who’s there?" "Pauline." "Pauline, who?" "I’m Pauline, in love with you"
@Ilive4soccer4 ай бұрын
Have you tried that out?
@skiadrum997 ай бұрын
Hey peeps. I may not have found so somebody yet, but I'm sure y'all can. Don't give up hope and neither will I!
@coco_gamerCastle7 ай бұрын
Thanks Man! It really Brings my hopes Up atleast a little bit more! :D
@PlasmaWolf68906 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot😊 It’s nice to see positive people in the world😊
@Justanov7 ай бұрын
I don't know why do I watch these when I'm dead single.
@agaanagha9 күн бұрын
Samee😂😂
@lightningleopard7 ай бұрын
A girl and I were doing pretty much all of these, I was starting to fall for her and I could tell she was falling for me. Then one morning she threw it all away, I’m still grieving 🥺😢😭
@coco_gamerCastle7 ай бұрын
Thats sad man, I Hope You find someone else or she Falls for you again.
@RT65CB-SWL7 ай бұрын
Same here. She blames me. 😢💔
@PersonCuber6 ай бұрын
Dang bro, I feel for you, you got more courage than I do, I'm terrified of something like that happening to me at least for now
@CodeDusq17 ай бұрын
Meanwhile, my imaginary love life is more fulfilling than my real one.
@Ymi_topic7 ай бұрын
real
@valerioharvey72893 ай бұрын
no real life relationships are like those in movies.
@animefan40507 ай бұрын
BYE i like falling inlove with someone but I LIKE IM IN DENIAL but i dont know I'm just being delusional? Im so confused
@seasonsofsunoo7 ай бұрын
0:55 Waaaah is that typo intentional? I couldn’t help it but I still love you my most fave youtube channel. Am I in love?
@Angry_Jetpack7 ай бұрын
I went through all but one of these a few months ago. She ended up blocking me and having a girlfriend without telling me, and that wasn’t fun to go through. But eh, life happens. It definitely hurt (and still kinda does), but there’s really nothing I can do about it. All I can say is that I wish she was honest from the start. I hope I’ll go through that cycle again at some point. My past relationship and this recent experience definitely set me back a LONG way, but I’m only 17. I still have a lot of life left.
@nnajilight80087 ай бұрын
Damn I just asked her out over text and boom I got this notification 😂
@Psych2go7 ай бұрын
talk about the timing!! Did you find this video resonate with you? :D
@coco_gamerCastle7 ай бұрын
What did she say?
@nova_nite95867 ай бұрын
👀
@Danielovesrock2477 ай бұрын
Talked to someone for the first time and I feel 100% safe and comfortable around him and we sing, laugh, smile and joke together. I’ve only talked to him for one day and the day I started to talk to him I started to have a crush. How comfortable and safe I feel around him is like I’ve known him most of my life and I get the vibe he feels the same. HE ASKED FOR MY SOCIALS AFTER SCHOOL THAT DAY. It’s now Saturday and I talked to him yesterday and I can’t stop thinking about him and I’m pretty sure he’s gay that gives me a higher chance of actually dating him. (I wrote this comment before I started to watch the video and I’m 1:44 in the video and every thing she said is what’s going on) OMGG 3:50 that let he did to me, he actually listens to me too
@Danielovesrock2477 ай бұрын
The second time thing was actually 3:46
@Danielovesrock2477 ай бұрын
I woke up at 3am and as soon as I was properly awake I humming “Havana oh nana half of my heart” cause me, him and two of my other friends were singing it together. I was sitting next to him while singing it
@Somethingiguess-tj6xo2 ай бұрын
Makes me feel like something is wrong with me when I have never had a crush on someone (and/or liked someone), but desperately want to.
@DingusOfTheHair7 ай бұрын
This quelled a lot of my worries with my own love life, Thank you!!
@Procraftbrother7 ай бұрын
This video is the Perfect explanation for mine and my gf’s love is. The only thing I wish was that she was more available. It’s an online relationship, but it’s amazing
@nanamishita90487 ай бұрын
I think I'm aromantic, I have felt most of them with my friends. Can you do a video about the difference of romantic love and platonic love?
@PersonCuber6 ай бұрын
I do want to see this actually
@deadrat20036 ай бұрын
me too T-T once I thought I had feelings for a girl but I just found her attractive and cool
@draviren63117 ай бұрын
About 16/22 of these apply to me and one of my friends that I once had a huge crush on, but I'm learning to just be happy with our friendship. I don't think he has any feelings for me and that's okay, even if I really am falling for him. I think that proves I really do love him, I just want him to be happy. I don't really mind if that's with me or not but I would be happy if it was!
@phoenixthegreat29176 ай бұрын
So, I’m in 4th grade at a private school, and the school year is over. There’s this 6th grader that we would both share secrets with, and he has a crush on my sister. Now that the school year is over, I find myself daydreaming about him and the year, and I’m really starting to miss him. But, my birthday’s coming up soon, and I’m gonna invite him. But I don’t have the courage to tell him how I feel. I’m very good socially, with everyone really. But I just really miss him and keep texting him. I hope he comes.
@FactsFullinspiration7 ай бұрын
Perfect timing, this is my first time being in correct timing i' ve had my relationship and friendship break up problems 💔😭
@lunamoon32406 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, i realised my feelings and have a Boyfriend now.
@khristianhornbaker13476 ай бұрын
A lot, thank you for your wisdom and support. 😊
@call911ok7 ай бұрын
I like this voice over person better, thank you ^_^
@Redheadbelle7 ай бұрын
Made my day!! 💗💗 super happy!! 🙂🙂
@krisha0177 ай бұрын
I’m glad I found this video. Recently, I’m really overthinking if I’m in love or just bored and wants someone’s validation lol 😂
@seankelly64614 ай бұрын
K why is the animation so smooth and has cool transitions
@onnie10366 ай бұрын
I had fun scripting this🥰. I hope it resonates with you and that you find your true love❤️!
@crystaldance57316 ай бұрын
Impeccable timing cute video thankyou ❤️😊
@chisaten6 ай бұрын
0:36 Why does this say the video has 15 signals that you are falling in love, but the time stamps have 22? A typo.
@AntiFaGoat5 ай бұрын
For me, an asexual who has ever had a serious relationship and really isn't interested in finding one, these are great fanfic prompts for my otp. Thanks for the ideas!
@Lizzypalm7 ай бұрын
Bro this came at the most perfect time, I love the girl voice❤️🤍
@Twekion2 ай бұрын
I literally just started wondering if I am and this conveniently hops into my recommended
@Onyx-k5t7 ай бұрын
Your voice is very sweet and relaxing 🙃🙂
@4_bfbfan7 ай бұрын
Yayyyyy!!! I was looking for a long time for a video like this:’3
@julias1276 ай бұрын
hmm im watching this because I am questioning it lately, j just don’t know. Even though I resonate with all of these and they align with how I feel, I am also fearful it’s not reciprocated and that it’s too soon. We’ve only known eachother for over a month now but it feels so natural. Like we’ve been together since the night we met. We have gotten through long distance, making time for eachother, getting to know one another deeper than anyone else. If im not in love with him yet, it is definitely on the horizon. It’s so beautiful and terrifying at the same time.
@ethereal_taytay7 ай бұрын
as an aroace person i love watching these for my writing
@Peter-rn5bu7 ай бұрын
People you respect can show you how to live better. Sometimes it's about believing in a new way of life.
@wildfyah7 ай бұрын
Am I really though? I haven't really been there with him physically since August last year but we've stayed in touch. I know i have feelings for him but can't say it's love or not
@Astrial_Rose127 ай бұрын
Out for a date on Monday, root for me y'all
@davesigma157 ай бұрын
how was it
@PersonCuber6 ай бұрын
Good luck and have fun
@TheBeefInYourSoup7 ай бұрын
I have 13 of these signs and she broke up with me because she was afraid of hurting me. We shared on last glorious kiss and we went on with our day agreeing to ve friends once we are past the awkward things
@DavidJackson-r5c5 ай бұрын
Lol. I just said this to myself!! I do know it's beyond amazing to even feel like WE DO. and saying that. We got alot of attn goin on and it's because two really. Really smart really 🔥 HOT GOOD LOOKING PEOPLE ARE REALLY HITTING IT OFF BIG TIME..AND ITS GREAT TO EVEN EXPERIENCE THIS..THE THING IS..THE MAIN THING IS..THERES SOO MUCH MORE TO COME
@SadeelSh7 ай бұрын
im so grateful tht i found this channel 💗💗🎀
@Thelyrical0236 ай бұрын
I swear her voice makes me go to sleep It's just so sweet ❤
@harsharajirkar70537 ай бұрын
Yes, I'm in love. & we are in relationship (a fucked up). We had breakups. We had patch ups. Twist is that she doesn't even know about this. It's only me, stuck in this loop.
@IamA_NoobFRFR2 ай бұрын
Me: nah I’m not inlove with him “List the number of signs you have noticed in this video!” Me: …all of them.…😭😭😭
@simoalhawari44352 ай бұрын
same😂
@raine.h4il7 ай бұрын
Ok now that you uploaded time go head to bed 😴😴
@SlinkyGaming23 күн бұрын
I might be in love with this one girl I haven't even went on a date on yet. we had to cancel it, but next week we'll have it! and then I can see what she is looking for.
@Darkstar2637 ай бұрын
All of this is absolutely spot on. I'm definitely in love
@Runwithmewillya7 ай бұрын
"A worn dagger, rusted with blood but will still get the job done, who knows maybe it's been waiting for you"
@Psych2go7 ай бұрын
An interesting companion. Perhaps it has a story to tell, or a destiny to fulfill. Is it waiting for you to claim it, or are you the one it's been waiting for?
@Rei-Dev7 ай бұрын
Despite everything I saw on your channel, I still find the state of falling in love very strange, and I feel that those who are in love become stupid, and I wonder if a day will come when I will also fall in love? I don’t think so.
@nunahovy7 ай бұрын
As someone under the spell, I confirm we are stupid... I cannot process information as I should when I have them around. Thought, do not search for the feeling, you aren´t losing much! Be yourself! Friends are honestly wayyy better :D
@cl1ofyou39116 ай бұрын
As someone has a friend in love for like a month now, i can say they are becoming more angry and just yell at weird things even if i didn't do it purpose. I also think he is a smug and he really wasn't before that relationship. Also i agree with the stupidity part too.
@xxDreamyzxx7 ай бұрын
Hii!! Big fan! Can you make a video of what to do when your parents are fighting? I really don’t want mine to split! :(
@Veil_ofthevoid7 ай бұрын
What a great video to be recommended to me after just being stood up by a date. Again…
@mkei19897 ай бұрын
Feels somehow illegal to be this early.
@Psych2go7 ай бұрын
So fast! Thanks for being here early with us!
@mkei19897 ай бұрын
My pleasure! 🤗✨
@Random_Gamer-sh6pf7 ай бұрын
Guilty as charged, on all fronts. Damn, I'm hopeless 😅
@sincopesosan14687 ай бұрын
6:47 Every single thing you mentioned in the video…
@imnotlaee7 ай бұрын
STOP I FEEL SO CALLED OUT ITS NOT EVEN NORMAL
@gamechannelminecraft65837 ай бұрын
As always I love your videos🐼
@Lumoz_7 ай бұрын
As always you're using a panda emoji
@melancholicburger8047 ай бұрын
nahh, i can't even make eye contact lmao
@Yon221b2 ай бұрын
Unrequited love is as lethal as stab in the gut. So always ask yourself who you are,what you are feeling and what you should do. Don't cross the rubicon carelessly you might get stabbed.
@Dino__blep89357 ай бұрын
I've never been called out so much
@KhangVo-us3tz6 ай бұрын
my female close friend used to love me a lot, I didnt realise that even tho my friends said she and I looked like a couple but I thought we were just too close and we didnt have feelings for each other. After that, I realised that I also loved her and she used to have feeling for me. now I really regret it, I was so dumb lol
@lordgamer99965 ай бұрын
In my relationship I haven’t seen a lot of them but I do see themI’ll go back to this video In about 5 months. And see if I can notice more
@Procraftbrother7 ай бұрын
I’ve been in a very nice relationship for the past 3 weeks, and I could not have asked for a better gf!
@aerelyamirart7 ай бұрын
...the first one. 😭❤️ I actually hate this happens to me. But my butterflies are so contained, it hurts.
@Ryanfinder2267 ай бұрын
Not me watching this despite the fact I’m one year into a relationship and my love for them isn’t even remotely in question hahaha
@Kayeyuhh6 ай бұрын
THIS FEELING IS WEIRDD BLEUGH
@stars_obsessed6 ай бұрын
"I know you love him, but do you love who you are around him?" - a movie (i can't remember)
@Scoco_MC6 ай бұрын
Thank you for this…❤
@celesserenity44237 ай бұрын
This was rather timely.
@DavidJackson-r5c5 ай бұрын
Hey .I hope your having a great day..your always on my mind. I wonder how your doin and stuff like that. Things can get a lil sideways at times but it don't matter.. everything is gonna be alright. ❤
@HomeOTC6 ай бұрын
I’ve been dating this girl for a bit, I checked all of these of but a tiny bit, I’m so confused as she’s literally cheated on me 4 times, one of which being with my close friend. Then she even started to flirt with other men in front of me. I’ve done something wrong here right? Especially since I feel attracted to them still.
@allylambert84707 ай бұрын
I wish I could fall in love. But as isolated as I am that’s just not gonna happen😓 I keep my head buried in romance comic stories as an attempt to fill the void, but honestly I don’t know if it makes things better or worse😞😓
@Lil_1186 ай бұрын
So what you’re telling me is that I’m falling in love with someone that I have spoken to only a few times that I will not see for the next 2 months and 10 days that’s great (I’m going crazy)
@SeanCorpuz316 ай бұрын
15! Made me think of just one person.
@Moxxie_The_I.M.P7 ай бұрын
Hey Psych2Go! There is a mistake at 0:54 because "Their" Is spelt wrong, you spelt it "Thei" just wanted to make sure you know!
@Psych2go7 ай бұрын
Oh no! Thanks for letting us know :(
@aetu357 ай бұрын
i couldve really used this video last year lmao
@LALili-fv7gy7 ай бұрын
The bad side is that I love him and he loves me too, but it is very difficult to deal with his flaws😢