Signs Your Boss Wants You To Leave

[@BenjaminPreston]

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[@maxalberts2003]

What you're describing is a terrible supervisor.

[@Powerfulandmotivational]

Ignoring emails, removing you from previous job responsibilities.

[@maxalberts2003]

Being passive-aggressive as a supervisor or manager says A LOT about the culture of an organization. Not to mention, it's unprofessional and a major waste of energy.

[@gif24gt60]

Agree. Tell ur boss to stuff it.

[@georgiafrancis9059]

@@gif24gt60 I like your style.

[@destinywithdestiny588]

The reminder I needed - it’s a sign of a bigger issue

[@preciousblackstone5051]

Every job I've had has always been like this. The worst people are always the ones who are put in poisons over other people that they do not deserve.

[@smoothiecutie2277]

Exactly. In some cases the ones who work hard don’t get promoted. The wicked get promoted and ABUSE their power. But they SHALL reap the harvest of what they’ve sown sooner or later

[@starlightwhispers6781]

The better they act, the higher their role

[@Jim-rh2nh]

Intentionally overwhelming or minimizing and demeaning an employee should be a sueable offense

[@elmobolan4274]

Happen to me, they ignored me, easiest job I ever had....Since I'm older, I waited it out until they finally let me go. I got severance pay and unemployment...now I can look more peacefully...

[@genx7006]

Can you share what "the final straw" was that caused them to send you packing?

[@Jaymzdrmz]

What about zero feedback and total indifference?

[@U-TubeAddict]

They keep throwing your mistakes in your face, over and over, and in front of other staff, in a staff meeting.

[@chapachapa8162]

A good sign i dont care if my boss likes me or not. He can kiss my ass

[@jonnitaylor3144]

Damn straight

[@gotinogaden]

I love this!

[@itamar3800]

What if he fires you tho

[@jorgevelasquez6016]

We just be mean mugging each other 😂😂😂

[@luvyatubers]

​@@dave7701Dang, what type of employment. Sounds like abusive Hollyweird

[@nicholasrosen6342]

You just shouldn't overlook the red flags that are right in front of you such as when your boss asks you "how long do you plan to work with us?" and also they may shadow your work micromanaging you, pointing out every little minute thing you're doing wrong and/or say you're did a "very poor job." So just know when and where you're not wanted.

[@bbqtool]

This is a game of who hates who more; your boss hating you or you hating your job? Bro I'm not quitting. Spite is a powerful motivator. I don't have anything better to do at home if all it takes for you to be pissed off is me being here. That's why you have to be careful who you hire. It's very hard to fire someone legally, it's really easy to hire anybody.

[@user-ep9fu2be4z]

Haha ... fuck yeah. I like you.

[@feefee8627]

What about when a boss is micromanaging you😡😡😡

[@LarchiDuchesse]

That’s a good indicator

[@User-zzyyxxvv]

If it is a laid back boss and all of a sudden he’s micromanaging you, then ya he’s trying to mess with you and get you to leave

[@eury958]

Good Video, you are spot on. I made my own list based on my experience: 1-If your boss stops talking to you and starts ignoring you. 2-If your boss does not give you anything to do for a long period of time, so you get bored. 3-If everyone is treating you in a weird way or whispering behind your back. 4-If suddently everyone is lauhging and treating you poorly(Bullying you). 5-If the work you're doing is constantly too easy or is not releated to your position. 6-If suddently there is a new guy in the department and he starts asking you questions or asking for help about your position (good one). 7-If there is an event or a meeting and everyone goes and they don't tell you about it. 8-If there is a meeting in ms teams or zoom and nobody gives you the password and ask you why you did not join. 9-If everyone is talking about firing someone. 10-If your boss threatened you with sending an email to human resources about repeated warnings to record them in your files.

[@BenjaminPreston]

Great additions! Thanks for sharing, Eury!

[@tomsuh1362]

If they put you in PIP, watch out!

[@jacobgora8942]

Im dealing with every single one of these. No joke. I cant believe it.

[@montsergirl]

I’m so sorry. I hope you found a better job. I am in this boat right now and i’m mind blown how things change out of no where.

[@jacobgora8942]

@@montsergirl what’s crazy is the boss of the place I was working at ended up having to let me go because of “payroll.” I later found out he told my coworkers I quit 😂shortly after that one of my coworkers who he would treat like scum ended up taking their own life. I was really close to this person and witnessed the way he would be treated. I have yet to receive my tax refund for last year because he has lied to the IRS about how much I had earned when I worked there. He’s continuing to try and interfere with my life.

[@montsergirl]

@@jacobgora8942 i am so so sorry for your loss, that is horrific! 💔 people like your old boss really need to learn how to treat people. I am at a loss for words. Try your best to not let him win and maybe go to the labour board and let them know how he has lied about your earnings.

[@rickydamiron8762]

Literally had my manager add a senior leader to our teams chat, and mind you, they both conspired against me getting promoted.

[@knoxx1111]

Dealing with this now and they went to High School together! Ughhh.

[@luvyatubers]

Me now as well. Gave spot to man across the country instead of me whose been there for 3 yrs. I'm supposed to learn. All I'm learning is to put tenants at risk for theft. To stink up the office of cigs. To illegally take foreclosed items. God damn! And all of these mentions in this video too since day one. It's only been 1 month since he's had the job. Both bossholes want me gone. I have to be very cautious of a set up to quit. I need another job first. Sucks when I feel the mgr won't last one year. They had one similar 3 yrs ago and the place became a dump and a hangout for criminals. Sad. I worked hard and I would have kept the place up

[@redbabyva166]

I found your videos today. And so much of this stuff is true. Sometimes all u have to do is be good at your job and that's to much for them. Such a sad 😥 world for people like this. This is why everyone can't and shouldn't be a boss.

[@BenjaminPreston]

I completely agree... I appreciate you watching my vids! But yeah, not everyone should be a boss, and they're definitely not trained on being a manager

[@allanbrito13]

That shows jealousy and competition

[@SyluxYT]

Especially the last point: My former boss always gave me projects, but didnt explain shit and just gave neutral instructions so that i had to figure everything out by myself and he just added: „Yeah go ask other ppl they can help.“ Well most of the time THEY ALSO didnt even knew what he was on about. So i managed to finish a project, and then my boss would come up, criticize me for doing it the way i did, telling me how i should have done it. That was the point i knew imma have to leave that shitshow. Shit gotten unbereable.

[@luvyatubers]

Was boss old?

[@JudithChangwe-h9s]

Exactly what happens to me.He separate me from other ladies and give me impossible tasks without help, using angry tone of voice,and blaming me in everything I'm told to do and the like.

[@riddheshzaveri8103]

Such bosses are the culprit of fucked up corporate culture.

[@priyaakshita334]

Play wise so that your boss gets terminated. God is with you

[@christinem7156]

What if I don't care what my boss thinks? I work for money, not approval.....and what if your supervisor actually wants you to work?

[@tomsuh1362]

Fu__k all bosese! You pay me, I work. If you dont pay me, see you in court just like any other civil matters. These class of people are out-of-control.

[@N.F.E.]

Some of these things you described were things I saw from my old job. Got laid off two weeks ago but I know they were doing everything they can to get me to quit so I decided to continue doing minimal work even with how I was treated.

[@aby4111]

I worked in a lab. I informed my manager that we needed more fire extinguishers since we had a lot of heat producing elements - like hot plates, incinerators and burners - around cardboard boxes and papers in the lab. I told her that even though we haven't had a fire, we could mitigate the risk of one with these measures. This was only mentioned to her ONCE. SOMEHOW, this led her to believe that I had a phobia of fire and small spaces, and she was "concerned" about how my mind worked. It was disgraceful.

[@boutiquebitcoin809]

My boss keeps giving me days off. A whole week and now.... 😟😢 😭 💔

[@bryce3851]

Well everything you said justifies me leaving I'm tired , don't really have the mental capacity dealing with someone gaslighting and always publicily humiliating even I try doing my best to improve but always get talked down 👇

[@Uksoapfan]

One common trait is they give you very menial and mundane tasks. Such as they have you working in the dirty jobs such as mucking out the toilets/working in the very smelly workplace waste management area.

[@freedomdude5420]

They know better than that, because there financial rip you off, if your doing yourself specially in restaurants, Janitorial work is always more unless your a chef. Know what your paying, they know better make the clean you for low pay.

[@bmoshareholderappleshareho855]

@@freedomdude5420 That reminds me of the downsizing 90s. Careers were ruined. Lives were ruined.

[@freedomdude5420]

@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855, tell more about this downsize, we need to stop fighting against each other. And look at the top, they are the real threat to all. Take manufactures for example, we can't not keep buy cheap products in other countries, we don't make anything anymore, or if it is here it is automated. This money low key getting taken by the poor and give to the rich by low jobs for Americans and cheap products made by poor in other countries. They know what they doing. I call it, factory hoping. It is a disgusting practice.

[@User-zzyyxxvv]

Oh man, I think my boss is trying to get rid of me lol… He started to nitpick everything the past month or so. Everything I do, I somehow did it wrong and he’s occasionally snapping at me. He is now sending these emails on how to sort these “problems”. These were not problems at all 2 months ago. It is like I am talking to a different person. Also not really sure to be honest what the issue is and what he needs me to do. I honestly wish they’d just get rid of me. I am going to look for another job

[@jonnitaylor3144]

Get outta there... totally understand.. you are probably a threat.... maybe all the girls/boys like you and your boss is jealous

[@freedomdude5420]

Because fire involves writing and accountability and if there wrong, it will lead them leaving, not you, so the use gaslight techniques to get rid of you.

[@kino7539]

How’d it go? Did you escape?

[@snowbunny1285]

After 37 years of work, my boss told me that i was old and slow. Wow, just wow.

[@patriciaojigbo2976]

Yes, he wants me to live. That what my boss did. And I left suddenly. He gives narrative to his superior that I'm the bad person.

[@yn9861]

I resigned yesterday

[@justimagine2403]

Remain positive. Don't let them force you out. Especially if you are over 50. Or, don't even ask yourself if they don't like you. Assume good intent. Even if you are delusional. Jobs are scarce.

[@unknownuser6757]

My coworkers HATE me

[@felix64able]

I've been with a corporation over 30 years, about 15 y/a co-workers started treating me like crap, abusive, belittling me, thank God I started writing down each event. After I had about 4 events written down, I went to my immediate supervisor and told her what was going on, I told her that this was bordering on harassment!!!! she replied with "no no that doesn't happen here" needless to say I never again faced the abusive behavior from co-workers. Still there, 35 years now I'm leaving when I'm good and ready!!!

[@outroseok]

only my hours were cut, meanwhile everyone else has good hours. That's when I knew something was wrong, time to start looking elsewhere bc I can't survive on this little of hours.

[@juststoppingby1602]

My previous boss did not want me to leave as he was desperate (imo), but did ALL of these things. I left.

[@samswirsky3654]

Number 4 is dead on. I just didn't think of it in those terms. Very helpful.

[@BenjaminPreston]

Thanks! I appreciate you watching. Glad it was helpful!

[@Theheavymetalshop]

If my boss wants me to leave he better have the balls to tell me what the problem is or straight up fire me. It's not my responsibility to be a mind-reader. That creates a nasty awkward toxic environment. Good workers are getting harder to find .

[@BusinessAndEntrepreneurship.]

I absolutely enjoy your approach and authority in this area.

[@xoxobutterfly]

I aint leaving till im fired 😂

[@YummyBabe94]

Thank you for this! I don’t understand my manager or supervisor. I’m not leaving to make them happy. I ask for help with a call and my messages are ignored. It’s okay I make paper trails if they want to go to HR.

[@akawhippy]

Let’s not forget to mention that they also do this thing to you where they somehow make these traps for you to make mistakes at work and therefore, find a good excuse to even fire you. This is one of the most subtle ways your boss wants to get rid of you.

[@grunge6306]

Many bosses are the 17 hands in Black Jack--you really want to hit them but you just can't!

[@BenjaminPreston]

This is one of the best analogies I’ve heard 😂😂

[@unknownuser6757]

I can sense that I’m going to be fired. They cut my hours!!!!!!

[@itamar3800]

18 years old here, i see that he’s picking on me every time even when im getting more stuff done than other

[@anidaralopez5676]

I'm low paid even though I have way more experience and have a level of business savvy that is nonexistent in my department. My coworker says she was 'complementing ' me to the manager so that they would make me the lead on what had been assigned to her, so they did. Yet, my manager hasn't even bothered to put the accounts in my name and still have them listed in the name of my coworker (who is quite frankly inept) even after announcing me as the 'official' lead 6 months ago. I can out think and out perform the majority (and for sure my coworker; she's been here over 20 years seems to take pride her inabilities)......but I'm also 60+ and I think they know I really can't go anywhere else, so they can keep paying me less than the youngsters they hire with zero experience.

[@ryancraig7695]

I work in a warehouse I have a lead that is always singling me out having me work alone has even told me he doesn't want me in his section now that he is on vacation my true boss an assistant manager of the warehouse treats me as if I'm currently in charge of my section gives me updates and information on any changes that might be coming and never once told me he wants me out I also have co workers from other sections asking for me by name to answer any questions they might have or give any advice they need

[@teejaylecapois9741]

I got the same feeling

[@masakololaisa325]

My boss never tell me about any chances of the company, high tone voice to us employees

[@BenjaminPreston]

Sometimes there isn't any opportunities... but it's not a good management strategy to withhold opportunities from you and your team

[@PotterSpurn1]

They say 'good riddance' instead of 'good morning' when they arrive at the office.

[@ResilientFighter]

Really helpful. Very mcuh needed

[@fanfam]

The nice thing is that if you step up your game and do all the tasks very fast and within budget and keep on smiling. At the end the will view you differently...... but then I wouls say...... good by my friend.

[@bac0nknight691]

Its not worth it

[@MissTalmo]

My boss keeps texting me after 7pm and wants me to respond

[@RayS1384]

Hey please add timestamps to make the video more accessible. Keep up the good work 😸

[@BenjaminPreston]

Can do! Thanks for the feedback

[@lisaleonzis5303]

How bout when your boss gives you a substitute on call position?!!

[@His_creation]

Good information.

[@Macksbet]

6:53 best advice

[@pconrz]

When he doesn’t speak to you for months, that’s usually a sign.

[@Katie-Melissa]

I love this video! Enjoyable yet informative at the same time! Thanks for sharing this..

[@BenjaminPreston]

Thanks for watching! Glad you liked it 😊

[@TanyaBisht-e3x]

Sir mujhe Office wale work pressure jyada de Rahe hain

[@estrella-u7j]

I think you are being too superficial here. My boss wants me to leave and I can feel it with my skin but he shows none of what you are talking about! How about the hidden signs? Giving your job to someone else, avoiding bilateral meetings with you (and at the same time being the same level of very responsive and feedback giving on email only)? How about a boss who knows nothing about you as a person - preferences, hobbies, family situation? He never asks you how was your vacation time or if you recovered well if you’ve been on sick leave, or not event sending you ‘Happy Christmas’ or ‘Happy New Year’…? How about a boss who wants all for himself and does not think about your career growth? I would be more untested to know how to deal with these kind of personality bosses. All else that you are disproving is simple bullying and harassment.

[@ardaisldar6758]

What if they make false accusations?

[@LeviBroflovski]

"You want to make employees lives miserable so they leave on their own"= Occupational Sabotage

[@brendamoosa2636]

That lady does that to me she very angry, I think it's bcoz of pace where running I do a lot of marathon and train harder in races sometimes I slow done that she finish early than me but when I have my tackies on I'm untouchable she is treating miserable but I'm positive person all her negative I'm resistant to her attitude, but it hit me hard at night mentally at night, I pray to God to open another job sometimes I feel like I'm a data capturer instead of clinical person,

[@HBKFanGirl11]

Legit my position right now. Don’t know what they will do when I do leave but that’s their problem then 🤣

[@alinowak2619]

All very good points

[@BenjaminPreston]

Thanks, Ali!

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

How can you report them

[@metalbelles3662]

Difficult.

[@silvana8246]

Report them to HR but good luck with that!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@daze77gaming]

@@silvana8246HR most likely do not care

[@ismaelhall3990]

Yep learn

[@kfing1]

No way I'm busting my a$s at my current job. The expectation is ridiculous. Also I'm a temp(!)

[@Tea962]

If youre doing a great job working under them you're just making them look good while they probably making look really bad.

[@teams3345]

This has been the same info on six or seven VLOGs.

[@SuperNeutronX]

When i work in an Company i feel eyverytime like i am Idiot!

[@rebeccaliew2247]

5 years ago, my ex-boss higher-up manager did all he could to get me leave the company. He did all those 6 signs mentioned in this video, plus 2 more: 1. My ex-boss hired 2 (yes, not 1 but 2) middle managers quite quickly to do one job - fire me on his behalf. The 1st one refused to do it because he found nothing wrong with my work performance, so the higher-up manager fired him after only 3 months on the job. The second one knew that he was going to get fired too AFTER he do what the higher-up boss wants, a.k.a. urge me to serve up resignation letter a.s.a.p. 2. When I served the resignation letter eventually, my boss laughed at me triumphantly. Bosses who want you to stay will find ways to make you stay, or at least put on a sad, 'reluctant-to-let-you-go' face of seeing you go. But nope, my ex-boss was joyful instead that I finally succumbed to him. Epilogue: my ex-boss was fired by the managing director of the company too, for messing up a sales contract mainly. 2nd (secret) reason was, my ex-boss brought in his mistress aboard the company, who has no qualifications needed by the company to work there, but she was brought in as compensation for the abortion my ex-boss' baby she carried. My ex-boss left less than a year after I left the company. During that time of his firing, I was busy upgrading a new language skill to complement my usual job requirements, but only this month, will I be putting that new language skills to use in a much bigger & better company I am confirmed entering into.

[@fabianasouza3831]

This is what we call Karma for him

[@fabianasouza3831]

Yes , while your boss trying trying mess with you and make your life miserable just focus on your work , Study, upgrade your skills , get power and let the karma works

[@rockstarofredondo]

That is one gnarly toxic workplace story.

[@davidcoffman4202]

I called him out

[@joshcortez2903]

Thank you so much for this advise!!! So helpful! 🙏🏼

[@bmoshareholderappleshareho855]

What about if they laugh at you every time they see you? What about if they give you dirty looks every time they see you? What about if your hours keep on getting reduced? What about if you are blamed for things other coworkers did?

[@you_only_have_4000_weeks]

Never quit , improve on your performance. Your unemployment center has programs that will pay for any trade you want including LVN 20 grand and you can have a career.

[@alliecopeland3827]

This literally just makes you go into overthinking mode 😅 what would be helpful is giving advice, on what to say to your boss to ACTUALLY know if what you think is true. Everyone’s experiences are different so how fo we know this is the case ? And we aren’t just reading it all wrong

[@BenjaminPreston]

Hi Allie, you bring up great points! From my perspective, it's very rarely just one or two things that are clear definers. If you're seeing a lot of these behaviors happening together, it's something to keep an eye on. I definitely don't want to feed into people's confirmation bias in a negative way, but it's usually easier to navigate a situation if you have some indicators as to what's happening behind the scenes. It's definitely a situation by situation thing, so you'll have to feel it out for yourself.

[@SuperNeutronX]

My Boss has stolen Money and my hard working Time ! He wants me to leave !

[@CULINARESS]

I laugh at the replacements. They find other full-time jobs so they can't be scheduled full-time once they have been there for two weeks. It's not the employees, it's the owner. They eventually quit.

[@amandakropen3273]

"Are you sure this is the right career for you?" LOL.

[@thelonehiker4698]

I had a job that paid minimum wage and my boss at the time expected perfection and wrote me up for the smallest things, I still want to kick his a** haha

[@cmwolf8866]

😀 Okej jag var 777 gilla

[@katebueno191]

I'm good at my job !! Is time for you to stop sabotaging manipulating any issues add your name to list of accusers be ause you can't brake into my phone and get mad when you realize that what you though happened didn't happened !! As this was the only way I had to say what had happened to me !!

[@drsundipshenoy2471]

👍👏

[@Powerfulandmotivational]

Isolation.

[@rohittalwar5602]

MAKE VIDEOS ON HOW TOXIC SUPERVISORS CAN BE FIRED ... ITS POSSIBLE IN REAL LIFE THENNIT SOLVES YHE BIGGEST PROBLEM OF WHITE COLLAR CRIME

[@kelpiegirl]

Unsolicited advice :Stop using "like", and 'kind of".

[@jjg8605]

They illegally hack into my home pc They don’t pay money and force me to work for free I already quit and they harass me in my personal life

[@MrNelsonnaruto1]

Sounds like they need to get sued. That’s a crime and if a company is doing this or an individual someone needs to pay.

[@pointnIaugh]

My boss is a wuss.

[@CrypticNord]

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