SIL Hated Me for Years & Wore White to My Wedding While Criticizing Everything I Did. When I...

[@ibnkhaldoun4319]

I CAN'T STOP LISTENING TO THESE HELP MEEEEEEEEE

[@GOGOYT1]

Bro i have listen these for months then once i start cleaning and working i blast these and is helps

[@ibnkhaldoun4319]

​@@GOGOYT1i know but i feel like they're rotting my brain, i could be listening to an audiobook or something

[@Solaris-d]

we are both trapped

[@TheCueJunior]

I've accepted this curse. I can't stop listening to these. It's impossible 😭

[@seccat]

We should get a referral to the psychological institution if they treat obsessive listening disorder

[@fieryplaysgames8671]

SIL definetly has problems.. A lot of them.

[@superiorrule34]

20 bucks say incestuous is one of them.

[@GuardianHalberd]

nah only one problem she's breathing

[@Aksoo127]

​@@GuardianHalberd She's a waste of resources

[@Luckycheetosda3]

@@GuardianHalberdlol

[@davidmauriciogutierrezespi5244]

@@GuardianHalberd outstanding response 😆😆😆

[@lnmoauf5284]

I can't believe OP married her husband knowing how his sister was... Unfortunately this situation was inevitable. SIL is clearly in love with her brother. I'm shocked she's actually married given her behavior.

[@mevan883]

Yeah but husband was a good guy.

[@davidwilcock4313]

you can’t believe she married someone she loved despite him having a crazy sister? that’s not groundbreaking news. 💀 if anything it shows how strong they have the potential to be

[@jayking2228]

​@@mevan883 a "good guy" wouldnt tell his partner to cancel her family trip for the wedding of a person who hates her, and the wedding didnt even happen!!

[@TyTrell08]

Pretty much 2 mins and It’s clear as day That SIL has an unhealthy and weird obsession with her own brother. Would’ve gotten a restraining order the day she stalked and tracked me down. I can understand being over protective but this is just too much.

[@OkabexKurisu]

break up 2 months about a 'misunderstanding'. sure.... she is leaving something out.

[@Rosy345c]

I know it's weird to say this, but I cannot stop thinking that her emotional incest was so bad that she wanted her brother's child all to herself. I hope they keep the restraining order for a long time.

[@1972LittleC]

​@@OkabexKurisuI think something sil concocted.

[@OkabexKurisu]

@@1972LittleC sil?

[@1972LittleC]

@@OkabexKurisu Sister In Law

[@ThePawerStation]

All of them have to really apologize to op for enabling SIL.

[@shadowki5687]

I'm glad OP didn't take chances and took out a restraining order against her, even if she's getting treatment

[@Malik20055]

5:56 I would have divorced him once he started blaming me to ditch my family to go see her 🙅🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

[@Sam-le3jk]

Exactly! I’m sat here listening & thinking why does she let her husband treat her like crap because of his sister’s creepy attachment

[@weebforever3276]

Exactly!

[@quinntic2887]

Op said she’d coordinate with her family once she knew the wedding date. That is incredibly fair. This is her one time to see HER family, so why does she have to give it up? I’d divorce him too. His family should not be more important than op’s family.

[@minus606]

Even his oarents excused and underatood OP?? How did the husband think OO Was in the wrong? Crazy...and you have a child wuth THAT man.....major red flag. Tbh the whole COC situation the Husband seemed way too underatanding of his sister. Sure she has mental issues but that only explains it, it does NIT excuse it!! He seemed way too calm and lowky excusing his sisters behavior. I am happy OP wants a restraining orden and Husband didn't disagree... but I can alredy see that down the line he will ask OP to take it away again or smth.

[@ixkaneki3900]

Op, husband, and the in-laws share a blame in this. They all enable the SIL. SIL has been unhinged from the start. There’s no reason why things should have gone this fair, Why would you leave your kid with her?

[@Sky_7891]

SIL defo had problems right from the beginning, I hope for her speedy recovery and maybe after therapy, she might stop being obsessed with her brother or niece.

[@ChefRye1]

Therapy is just an excuse people use to excuse peoples bad behavior. SIL is just an evil person there is no recovery from that.

[@avencree]

Nope. I would never leave my kid with these people because they enabled SIL for years by not actually giving her any consequences for her behavior. Ever since she was a teen she’s been allowed to drive away girlfriends and it’s just been brushed off thinking she’ll grow out of it. Now that she’s an adult she’s already set in her way of getting her way and her creepy obsession with her brother just spiraled and now OP is paying the price. Her peace is gone.

[@kirby4077]

SILs desire for a daughter is simple and childish. She wants a little doll to play with. I have a cousin who was like that, but never to this level. Thankfully she's matured since, as has her son

[@FanoftheRookie]

It's like the other story where the titles goes around the lines of sil wanting op's child as birthday present for 30th bday.

[@kirby4077]

@@FanoftheRookie I remember that one. Children aren't human to some people

[@missytanner3501]

​@@FanoftheRookie Remember that one , the sister in law was a real digbat

[@baalconnorlarsson789]

Always call out people that make "Jokes" about you becuase these are not jokes, or do the same and then say "It was just a joke, you are too serious about it!"

[@greenbrickbox3392]

Yeah insulting or being disrespectful to their face as a "joke" isn't something anyone should tolerate.

[@miaa7968]

Right? In the event it truly is a joke with no malice that was poorly articulated, a person who actually cares about you would realise the joke did not land and apologise, rather than getting defensive.

[@dewisanfebri8731]

Guys remembered. If the baby or the kids is crying when you hold them, it's mean that THEY DON'T LIKE YOU!! Because you never met them, or the baby or the kids aren't used to stranger. If someone abuse a kid, a kid must be seeking attention from stranger because they didn't like their own mother. The SIL mind is like @$%^GFCHJK

[@premiumfruits3528]

In these stories I always feel really bad for that random side character chill BIL that has to find out he accidentally married a raving lunatic psychopath, lol.

[@emylynn0723]

I'm sure he enables her too

[@iamjustagirlintheworldd]

Fr- poor guy😭😭🙏🙏

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

I honestly won't blame her if she ended up mur dring her SIL

[@emylynn0723]

Preach

[@f687sNFM]

"harry had no choice but to..." Yeah he had a choice, and hes too weak to choose the right one

[@scruffythejanitor1969]

How hard is it to say that the sister is in a mental hospital? Why does that need to be explained in person?

[@ManagerStrife]

Given the context that OP was already distressed enough as is when she was visiting her family, this would have been too much for someone physically and mentally. She already said that when she heard about SIL's mental condition after returning, it was too much to process.

[@lucifermorningstar2505]

Op husband is a door mat op is stupid too for not staying away from sil

[@AronaGanaka]

Sil is a weirdo

[@jenniferandbama1284]

I wouldn’t forgive or let her around my kid again ever. They try it once they will do it again

[@taylordaenzer4852]

It's not your fault it's your sister-in-law's fault because she hated her and tried to ruin her wedding and she criticized her and she called cps on her so she can take her baby girl and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for trying to take her baby girl and try to ruin her wedding.

[@dennislemasters4339]

filing a false report will get you in trouble if the authorities can prove it was a false report

[@Kkell0x]

"She's going to be a mother and hopefully grow up" Entitled people most likely grow up to be entitled parents It's not rocket science

[@mercuriallily]

Irony... she wanted to raise OP's kid but instead OP is raising hers

[@Hades-warrior]

Ok so why can SIL go out and have fun but Harry and his wife are expected to give up all their free time to watch a kid that's not even theirs, why doesnt SIL just step up and not go out as much? I realize that she needs to grocery shop and work, but she doesnt have to go out and have fun like this all the time, Harry and his wife have lives too (ik i referred to the narrator as Harry's wife, but i don't know how else to refer to her)

[@kennycai8695]

Oh my gosh, absolutely NTA, OP. Wow ... the sheer amount of projection from this SIL. Man, from the first mention of the SIL being the husband's "second mom", I know where that sense of control came from. SIL is a classic narcissist and control freak, and the way she targets OP specifically, that is also a classic narcissistic trait. Since OP is the one actively pushing back against her whims, that sparked the enmity, cause the last thing a narcissistic control freak wants is opposition of any kind. The white dress stunt, and outright trying to take OP's daughter away on false pretenses, this woman seriously needs help. OP, all I can say is to keep your distance, cause even if your SIL is getting the psychiatric treatment she desperately needs for a long time, years of narcissism does not simply go away overnight. She will try similar stunts in the future, even if it's just to give you a petty middle finger, cause narcissists always need to get the last word in everything. I also advise paying attention to your husband, since your SIL has that proverbial string she can pull to have him putty in her hands. Your child should always be your priority.

[@carlastewart8421]

No I'm not saying that the story is fake but what I am saying is the CBS would never tell you who filed the complaint

[@albertgongora6944]

When people let family incest go untreated

[@draconiclady0610]

Op's husband is in the wrong for forcing OP to apologize for the whole family get together when he knows for a goddamn fact his sister is unhinged.

[@DylanIsHere31]

SIL Need therapy

[@janiebeauxbanie]

SIL has a son? Yikes.

[@RealLifeThread]

Sarah seems to have a deep-seated issue with boundaries and control, and it's really tough when someone behaves like that, especially within a family dynamic. It’s clear she has unresolved feelings about her role and her relationship with Harry.

[@AryanBlitzkrieg-c7v]

FINALLY! The truth comes out that your husband's sister is insane!

[@Midnight-The-Dragon]

I don’t understand why the SIL can’t just adopt a daughter

[@inferiorinferno8859]

I think I'm starting a series, called 'Primary Ignorance: Why This Story Cannot Be Real (because the details are unrealistic)'. Entry 1: The above. Why this cannot be real: The psychiatric hospital thing. Neil immediately packed her bags and shipped her off. In real life, getting admitted either requires being put on a waiting list if it's not urgent, or needing a medical reference for an emergency admission in most countries. I know the US is less strict about this then my country is, but I honestly doubt with having no medical evaluation prior, that they would just admit Sarah right away.

[@newly_maemae]

OP: Sure I’ll go to your wedding, I just need to know when it is so I can plan out when to see my parents because I only see them once a year Sarah: You’re so selfish and ungrateful

[@FlowerBoyPook]

Whoever is creating these fake stories should ease up on going to the extreme in every possible situation

[@rem9367]

This shits getting repetitive bruv 'Jealous BIL or SIL' shit be having the same story 😭

[@alstoncheung8991]

i spat out my water when its revealed as van

[@bitviper3430]

Ngl SIL might have deeper feelings for her brother than normal…

[@AlexSmith-4811]

Im listening to this story, and it seems like Sil wants to date her own bro, with how obsessed she is.

[@rajanis8688]

SOS I can’t stop watching these videos 😭

[@Adarkane325xi]

Neil and the In-Laws were a big help, the OP’s lucky to gave them.

[@damaijin]

Neil the most surprised husband ever

[@Balgees24]

She should have run from the being. The husband is not taking his sister problems seriously.

[@samw6930]

Yep cause everyone leaves their kids home and takes in-laws out of town with them 😅

[@MCBRUCE76]

No parent would leave their toddler for a week, instead they would have taken their child to be with the other family for a week. (commonsense). No parent would leave their toddler's care for a week under such a vile person (commonsense), trust is not something you can turn on and off whenever you feel like. This is a creative writing content on Reddit, by an author who doesn't know much about legalities and commonsense.

[@davidmauriciogutierrezespi5244]

I get loving someone but why would you even entertain a relationship after your bf clearly took his sister side at that party? That is the moment to ask the boyfriend to take a clear and firm stand _"Are you expecting me to suck it up with her digs at me? To cancel any plans at a moments notice because your sister wants, not even needs, us to? Should we ask her permission to go on date nights, to move into a new house, to have a baby?"_ And refuse to take anything else than a yes or no for answer.

[@emylynn0723]

Girl needs to take her kid and run.

[@Shaddowbanned215]

I don't know how many of these stories are actually true, but there seems to be a repeating theme of sister who are obsessed with their brothers... Like almost romantically. And than you have the moms who also seem like this. It's all very disturbing

[@RoseWine-666]

I just can't stop listening to these-help me!

[@morganablackwater2017]

Wow... I would just left the dude

[@StrickerRei-Chn]

OP's husband is also a problem as well .

[@Tyleya]

That is a partner problem

[@IamayMizono]

I don't understand why people still try to wear white to a wedding that isn't theirs. All you're doing is making yourself look bad and make people dislike you and give more sympathy to the bride.

[@theskeptic3754]

5:20 Nah my man Henry lost all my respect from that moment on.

[@Luckycheetosda3]

“When I pointed it out to Harr” wtf is Harr

[@colinburston9683]

3:34 i would have pointed out the sil called OP fat first.......dont dish it if you cant take it

[@maebell227]

Stop apologizing to her

[@RavenDarkHeart1]

Sarah is super salty and entitled. She needs some business

[@JeSsE10mCcOy11]

SIL is a brocon

[@tonywu3554]

20:12 who tf is van

[@johnathanboone198]

wait actually... wtf? holy shit this channel has actually become AI garbage, I was resisting the idea but tjis just confirms it for me. fuck.

[@ItzAndy971]

Van is SIL and Neil's son

[@brookelynnenewcomer943]

Their nephew.

[@Gam1ngPhase]

No way I actually read this as soon as the part came up-

[@Gam1ngPhase]

@@johnathanboone198How…? Even if it was AI (maybe some are), how is it garbage? It’s entertaining

[@elleevans80]

wow sil issue aside. ops husband is such a loser. why did she even marry him

[@aidanthornton173]

Thse stories are becoming repetitive now. Is the *A.I* running out of ideas?

[@heermannmorrer]

A few things: 1) Why are these videos so unnecessary long? Leave out all the unimportant details , show more than just 3 words each(like two sentecnces at once). You can easily put it fron 30 to 5 minutes. Then,nobody gets bored and do not wastes theit time. 2) Wheres the transcript/original reddit stories? Most of these videos,also all the other channels, are not able to be found on reddit. They are fake,written by AI.

[@francissolis9596]

😊

[@alexadraeln5316]

So your husband blamed you for his deranged sister's drama? And you are still married to hom?

[@Mapper_Edits]

I am first viewer and first liker and first commenter

[@kaymarzalforner5482]

Actually not

[@ancient2651]

25th comment

[@lydiafranklin5429]

4ht commenter

[@iwtbrnk]

YTA

[@CurryMunchers-h8o]

first

[@calmingsouls1849]