I follow this program and I usually generally agree with the comments. However in this case I completely disagree 1) lijoch mewegen yelebachewim befitsum. You have to acknowledge and understand that lijoch are human beings with their own perception and understanding of things. You also have to take in to account that these children are capable of thinking and analysing . They will not exclude their father just because the mother said so. Child to father relationship does not work like that. You have to consider that maybe they isolated their father because of what they have seen and observed growing up. 2) you mentioned that ‘there are andand chekagne enatich’… you have also deemed this lady to be so chekagne. (This is not free her from her wrong doing) however, again you have to take into account why she took the measure she did. You have to consider if living with this man for a number of years .. being disrespected.. disregarded caused her a psychological damage that resulted in her acting this way . You have to take in to account that this man was planning to get married to another person whilst he is married to this lady ( regardless of how bad their marriage maybe) . You have to give that a weight. In other countries.. to make the law fair.. you get a hearing and a chance to defend your actions. This does not mean you have not committed the act but there are mitigating circumstances that made you act in a manner that you did . In other countries, maybe this woman would have had a valid defence. Please note.. I am not glorifying what this lady did. but you should still consider certain factors to make your argument balanced. It’s not fair to completely demonise this lady without Atleast taking into account what she might have gone through. This would not mean you agree with her actions but it just means you would not present her unfairly and so harshly. Thank you
@oneet.8301 Жыл бұрын
My understanding from the story there children are adults they should definitely involve with there parents issues. Nevertheless if the wife and anyone involved in the murder of the husband should face justice system.