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[@julietmarlowe5661]

Please don't ever feel you have to share things with "your people" if they don't respect your boundaries then they are not your people. The people who genuinely care & "know" you will give you the space to do what you feel you need to do, and please know you are doing the best you can, and you know yourself better than anyone. Well wishes to you & the pups now as always. ✨

[@MarisaJean726]

Oh my goodness, that DM was ridiculous! Why do people think you owe us anything?? We just want you to be okay and get through whatever difficult time you’re having to experience. We love you Manders ❤️❤️

[@BuffBoots]

I just discovered you via KZbin and I have no clue what’s going on, but no matter the case. No one has the right to talk to you that way WHETHER THEY KNOW YOU OR NOT. I think you’re pretty neat and I love your videos!! You are beautiful, strong, and seem very kind. Don’t let the haters get ya down!!

[@aos1401]

Wow, that girl needs to get a life. You’re awesome, no matter what! Thanks for sharing so much through the years! We love you! You’ve been a big inspiration for me since the beginning. Keep doing you!

[@lizandrien8364]

I never comment on KZbin videos, but I have followed you since you started making fitness content years ago & have enjoyed all the iterations of videos so far. You don’t owe me or any other stranger on the internet an explanation. Sincerely sorry that you’re going through a difficult time & hope that the struggle you’re experiencing now serves to help you grow for the future 💕

[@SimplyMander]

Thank you so much!!!!! I really appreciate it.

[@noelcordero2266]

People behind a screen that say those awful things are cowards! Girl, you are the bestest, and keep your head up because you dont deserve for your crown to ever fall off! You are a queen, and always remember that!!!!🤍

[@shelbypeterson1675]

As a coach in the industry who has more recently started making YT videos of both fitness/nutrition and also life, I find your videos a great take on understanding why boundaries NEED to be set and early. People should respect your decisions because quite literally at any point you can decide to stop posting if you want. So sorry people feel entitled to speak that way to a human EVER let alone during a more difficult time. ❤️

[@KristinResh]

I'm sorry you're going through a rough chapter in life. I hope you heal and take care of your self. You are a ray of sunshine, I look forward to your videos. You do you to make sense of life and don't sweat over others that try to be negative. I hope that this new chapter for you is an easy transition with whatever it may be. I'll have to try those cauliflower chips!☀🥰

[@karaduterte]

We love a Mander vlog to start off the week. 🥰

[@forestdarling]

I'm so sorry people think its okay to demand information from you. You have just as much right to privacy as anyone else. I hope what you're dealing with gets easier. You don't owe us any videos, but I'm grateful you keep making them. You're one of a handful of youtubers I've followed for years. I kind of feel like I've grown with you. ❤

[@boombringer4078]

That DM was crazy!! Your mental health is important too, don't let idiots grind you down! Hope you're OK, keep your chin up! Love from the u.k!

[@ashleyjackson8849]

🤗 Don't ever feel like you owe people an explanation. Saying I don't want to talk about it is good enough. It's important that people respect your boundaries. It was good to see one of your vlogs again!

[@shannonpfeil5412]

Sending lots of love & positivity your way. It’s hard to see people be so terrible to someone they don’t know. Straight bonkers, actually. Wishing you the best in these next steps forward. 🤍

[@kerrir4714]

I can’t imagine having my life out there. So I respect you for holding back because people ARE awful- especially behind a screen. I have a feeling of what it is you’re going through. Whatever the case, know that you’re going to be ok ❤️

[@jackiei5006]

This makes me sad. I’ve been watching ur videos for years. I hope the best for u and things start to turn around. Sometimes the change we don’t necessarily want is the change we need. Ur going to be ok 💜

[@ashleea9838]

You are a bad ass! You don’t owe anyone an explanation girl 💕

[@Hayleyrox14]

As someone also going through a rough time in life right now, please know you are not alone! Deep down I know we’ll both get through this. I am not okay either, in fact it’s been my tagline lately lol. Sending all the love & positive thoughts your way 💗💗💗

[@bridgetteurbano1440]

We will support you wherever your life takes you ❤️

[@bobbiedavis2092]

I’m here for the fitness training. I’m wanting to learn more about female weightlifting, reps/routines/frequency etc. while staying motivated in my fitness journey. Watching you at various fit-cons is inspiring. Share what you want to share. We all are taking different things away from your videos. I’m vegan, so what you eat isn’t relevant to me, but I’m sure there are others that love that information. You do you! We will work around that.

[@martylindsten2856]

Just wanted to wish you well with whatever your going through! Your a intelligent young woman! You will take the right path no matter what life throws your way! Hang in there and know you have a lot of followers behind you!!

[@SimplyMander]

Thank you so much Marty!!!!

[@jamiehall6604]

Manders, your breakfast sandwiches always look fire. And on the other thing, I think your selflessness as it’s shown through your videos and posts is very apparent and it’s inspiring to see you stick to your boundaries. Maybe people get so mad bc they don’t have boundaries of their own? Sending you positivity, love and light because you keep showing up when you don’t have to, you choose to. I enjoy your vlogs and hope you the best.

[@sbragdon212]

Praying for healing ❤️

[@Privatemb]

We love you and appreciate you! Anyone who has been here a while fully respects that and that you are going through changes. Obviously any of us who are “invested” in your journey will be curious or make assumptions but it’s NONE of our business and is just us being a little too invested (or straight up snoopy) when we get attached to learning the “tea.” Obviously I’m curious too but again it’s none of my business and I acknowledge and respect the fact that you aren’t interested in discussing yet(or ever!) thank you for still bringing us content even if you have lots going on. I have to say the day in a life videos are sometimes my fave it makes me feel like we are just two gal pals hanging out for the day! Thanks Manders and we love you!!

[@memec5503]

Please don't let the negativity of others drag you down. You do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself. Much love!

[@kristinacole9159]

As a long time follower, wishing you and the dogs all the love and best in life ❤️

[@pattyl4111]

Manders , stay strong . We love you . It's about you . You come first. Take care . We support you in everything you do. Sending prayers your way . God bless you sister . You are beautiful ..🙏💖

[@eeshaw95]

I’ve been slacking on watching YT videos lately but I just wanted to comment here too, love you SO much & wishing you all the best and ALL THE FREAKIN PEACE during what you are going through rn. You have been through so much and come out shinier on the end of everything, I have no doubt that will still be the case this time. Sending you all my love always!!

[@alysecoleman2538]

Love you Manders!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Keep that pretty little head up!!

[@alexaguest]

Thanks for continuing to share. Along for the ride and all of lifes changes! Wishing you well

[@sarahbatovsky2827]

Been following for many years. I hope you’re ok. You always have my support.

[@SimplyMander]

Love u!!!!!

[@bgeeful]

You don’t need to share anything!! Thank you for everything you do!

[@idonthaveaname9776]

I don't think I've ever commented lol, but I always watch the videos. I just wanted to say that I'm sorry you're dealing with a rough chapter in your life and I hope it all gets better for you. Also, that message was uncalled for, whoever sent that to you should really be ashamed. Stay strong, you got this!

[@whereISwaldo321]

Gah! Manders I’ve followed you since you only had Tux and met Sam for the first time! In a weird way I feel like we grew up together and these videos over the years have provided a constant in my life, even when I also went through highs and low lows. Ngl you had me WORRIED lately, but I also know that you’ll make it through this…and maybe put out a new pearl necklace?! Love youuuuu! Sincerely another bestie that also has menty b’s sometimes☺️

[@herculade]

Congrats for the Fleo photoshoot, it sounds like so much fun! Looking forward to seeing it :)

[@moniques.journal.corner]

First - you're a badass and second - screw the people who don't understand. Just because you used to share a lot more info doesn't mean we don't change over time. Keep doing you. Share or don't share, up to you... sending hugs and good vibes!! ❤

[@bailey1545]

So sorry you are having to go through this difficult time and people are not respecting your healing process! Sending you lots of good vibes as you go through this challenging change in life! Always have loved your content for you being you!

[@abbyvillagomez3914]

I have such a friend crush on you NGL 🤣 We love you and we support your decision to set boundaries for the sake of your own mental health! I'm so sorry that people who hide behind their screens on the internet are so rude

[@yvettebennett6170]

Whatever you are going through Manders, I pray for you to find peace and joy in your life. 🙏 Appreciate all you share here on KZbin.

[@kelzyeah3704]

I love what you offer and your authenticness. (Not a word lol) YOU DO YOU babe! The trolls can hide behind their keyboards, they dont know you or what you are going through. Do what helps you heal, get through or get over whatever your battles are.

[@SimplyMander]

Thank you!!!!

[@jessiesmith2162]

It’s a small thing but just know I really appreciate that you don’t put the blender sounds in your video!! Thank you 😂😅

[@Lana-tx9ee]

Sweet girl, have been watching you going on 5 or 6 years now.. will always support you !!! Hugs from Oklahoma 😁😁

[@itsmmmeagan]

That’s WILD AF for someone to speak to you like that! Like yo back tf up. Manders sending love and support! 💞

[@jackharrington697]

Best way to began a new week with a mander vlog!!🥰🥰

[@nicolerae7259]

💓💓💓 Fleo photo shoot! Girllll.. so excited for you! ✨

[@hippea295]

Holy crap! Did not expect that type of rudeness in a DM to you. That’s so uncalled for. As someone who went through a marriage and divorce within 9 months and at 18 years old right out of high school. I can tell you people are so mean. They didn’t care what I was going through. We’re all here for you! Side note, I also collect Starbucks cups, and just wondering if you have seen the new Stanley cups 😅 I’ve fallen down the rabbit hole on those now as well. I love the handle on them

[@bexhardy]

Hey! I have been watching your videos for quite a while. I don't understand how people leave such awful comments and messages? It makes me want to not go online at all sometimes because I can't cope! Ugh! Anyway, wanted to say why I love watching. I feel like you are inspiring me and encouraging me to eat well and train well. Out of my 'real' friends no one else is loving the weights and protein as much as I do, so I feel like you are kind of like that friend for me! I get so many great ideas for meals from watching and even do a little bit of metcon as well! 😂 I also share your insta and KZbin with anyone who is struggling with nutrition because it's gold. Thank you for providing all you do for free. There are so much BS on line when it comes to training and eating so can't stress enough how good your content is. I have two rescue long dogs,and though I know it's also really tough for you with yours, I love watching dogs. Just love dogs! Privilege to hang out with you! Big hug, Bex xx

[@SimplyMander]

Omg thank you so much!!!!

[@sharlenethreasefitness2722]

I cannot get enough of your training and nutrition videos. You are absolute goals! I think your amazing. Hope your doing well xoxo

[@elizabethcavalone9836]

We love you sweet Lady Please continue to do what you need to in order to feel comfortable 💕

[@rebnae]

I’m so sorry you’re going through something difficult. Take care of yourself, and sending you love ❤️

[@judygadde8708]

Sending you so much love! Please take your time and space! We love you!

[@sarahbean1638]

Ewwww to that comment, friend. People are so entitled. You get to choose whatever you want to share with us.... Its your life and your youtube channel... You owe us nothing!! Just don't respond to folks who can't handle that. ❤️ Happy to see your face again, and I hope whatever it is starts feeling better for you soon!!

[@NoelleFit]

You need some place with lots of sushine!!! Thank you for uploading this vlog!!! We loooove watching them!!! Sorry you have to deal with fucking psychopaths on social media….Never be sorry for standing your ground and for sharing what you feel you want to share!!! We are always here for you ♥️🙌🏻

[@sheilajacobs9543]

You don't owe us anything. Period. Please take care of you and they will have to respect your boundaries. Your peace is important. Your private life is just that, private. Those who don't respect that can kick rocks. Do you, be you. Love you.

[@SimplyMander]

Thank you so much 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

[@sheilajacobs9543]

@@SimplyMander You are stronger than you know. Right now you may not feel that way, but you are. Praying for your peace. Praying for continued strength. Sending a hug from Georgia. Be blessed

[@michellewelling9074]

Congrats! 🎉. The Fleo shoot, very cool! 😎 FL girl here, hope you have a great time. It's been pretty nice here lately. 🌞🌴.

[@victoriapecci3509]

Always here for you for whatever that’s worth❤️ thank you for continuing to post and give us content with everything you’re going through

[@MsSassyMT]

Wow. People are rude. Regardless of what you share, it's your life and your choice to share what you want. Don't waste energy on the rude people. Block them and keep it moving. Also, cute sweatshirt. I love the sleeves.

[@KatiePacyna]

Omg that dm is NUTS. I’m not surprised but I kinda am…that’s like a new level. Power and strength to you. Keep on.

[@SimplyMander]

Isn't it?? soooo insane honestly!!!

[@MiraMate]

This girl works very hard

[@ericajuan7042]

Sending you prayers and positive vibes!! ❤️🙏🏼

[@missbehave665]

I'm here for whatever content you want to share... 😍🙌🙏

[@karenatkach8414]

You’re skin is looking gorgeous!!

[@SimplyMander]

Thank you!!!!!

[@SashaCibrian]

Wow I’m really sorry you’re going through it :/ people are truly so disrespectful and have no integrity to be in your DMs like that. Sorry to hear it and keep your head up :)

[@alesiajarrard8906]

That must be so frustrating, especially after just recently sharing that you were needing to keep some aspects of your life private. And there’s honestly just no reason to have that tone with anyone, regardless. 😩 Keep doing the hard work. It will def be worth it! 👊🏻

[@kimberlyhenry7717]

Loving this old style vlog! Those Crispy Dillies are fire! I get them from Costco here in Canada. Love them. I can't believe people have the nerve to send you DMs like that .. don't let the asshats get to ya...share what you're comfortable with! ❤️

[@SimplyMander]

thank you so much

[@kpatterson704]

Wow I didn't even notice. Just over here using your app everyday minding my own

[@SimplyMander]

HAHHA well thank you!!!!

[@madisonrenee4838]

Praying for you ❤️

[@daisybanda11]

Sending positive vibes

[@jodieb8213]

Love u & ur channel so much ❤️

[@elizabethnavarro3624]

I’m not going to pretend that I have any clue what’s going on, but love, you are the fucking shit! You are one of the very first KZbinrs I ever started watching. I love your content. Keep your chin up beautiful woman and know that you are an amazing human. ❤️‍🔥

[@cr8tfgirl644]

Even if you chose a career as share-friendly as an influencer, it does NOT give people the right to butt in and force information out of you. You don’t owe them anything. Clearly they have nothing better to occupy themselves. Ignore them. Don’t engage them. Just take all the time you need to heal. Never feel the pressure to share something that’s private and personal.

[@nyashamandaza]

Manders Monday🦋

[@jessiedge]

Def. famous 🤩 as I sit here and wait for my Fleo order to arrive today!!! The more I read comments from completely deranged people on the internet the more normal I feel. Like it’s clear they are not processing their trauma and taking their crazy meds. (Probably definitely should- like us 🤗) I don’t know! Anyways, love yooouuu, support you, and have a freaking awesome Monday! ☺️✌️💞

[@rnbham39]

People are so unbelievable. Who would be so ugly?? Gah...so hateful and absurd. Like you even owe anyone anything. I'm praying for you whatever it is...I'm hopeful it's not what I think it is but if it is, I'll still be here as a subscriber. Love your content!!! 😍

[@amandavalasquez9192]

Sending you a ton of love ❤️

[@africa128]

I Love you and your videos. I just want you to know that you have so much support and love! Stay strong you beautiful talented human ♥️♥️🏳️‍🌈

[@SimplyMander]

❤️❤️❤️

[@n.miller3895]

Smh.. People are so rude. Do what's best for you!

[@van8369]

1. Don't share it if you don't want to. We feel you and support you! 2. I love that top. Where did you get it? The tan/grey/nude (can't tell the true color) one with puffed sleeves at the wrist.

[@SimplyMander]

It’s from Abercrombie!!

[@tianag3498]

Love you Manders 💕💕 Sending you all the positive vibes only!

[@jackiegannon9179]

I love you....you are just so relatable!!! for me at least ;D

[@paulhanson1873]

What shoes were you wearing in your deadlift bar muscle up workout? I love your taste in like everything! Coffee ,food, shoes,etc. Congrats on the Fleo shoot!

[@SimplyMander]

Inov8 bare fx!!

[@paulhanson1873]

@@SimplyMander Thanks! I’m trying out Vivo shoes out right now but I will have to try these next!

[@dilemmagrl]

Are you planning to stay in Iowa?

[@SimplyMander]

No!

[@noawqqw]

I’m sooo nosey and weirdly invested in people I follow online, but holy eff. I would never demand or expect information. I swear those people are wild animals.

[@SimplyMander]

ANIMALS I TELL U!!!!

[@kaelabailey5741]

Sending hugs 💕💕💕💕

[@earlymornfitqueen682]

❤

[@janicetoyfam]

❤❤❤

[@gines2634]

You do not owe a single internet stranger an explanation of anything. They are delusional to think you owe them that.

[@SimplyMander]

I agree but for some reason it hurts just as bad???

[@maryconaty2452]

I fuckin love you Manders. If the "people of the internet" get frustrated by you not divulging a painful experience, they are quite literally insane and I hate them. I really truly hope you are doing well and taking care of yourself. Have always loved ALL of your content throughout the years. I hope you have a blast in Florida for the Fleo shoot

[@herculade]

Also... LOL people suck. A lot. Sorry you have to go through all this s^&%%^t online for no reason.

[@08Ilovehorse]

Does this mean you’ll choose somewhere sunny?!!!!

[@SimplyMander]

Indeed!!!

[@giselel369]

@@SimplyMander 🥺sending you lots of love and affection in this difficult time. Changes suck!

[@iy1231]

Adults need to go back to Elementary School and relearn to worry about themselves and stop being nosy.

[@paulasanford1228]

Crazy meds?

[@teutonic7113]

So. People need to get a life.