Simz Right: I Worshipped My Failed Marriage And Lived In Denial |

The home of phenomenal interviews.
ENGINEER YOUR LIFE - EPISODE 82 - ‪@SimzRight‬
Entertainment Commentator, Simphiwe '‪@SimzRight‬ ' Ntuli unpacks the intricacies that led to the demise of her marriage, her journey towards healing and rebuilding her life.
Hosted by: Lungelo KM
Cinematography by: Tino Media
Content Production by: Owethu Mhlongo
To sponsor an episode and advertise your business, please email [e-mail]
#engineeryourlife #simzright
-----
LUXURY DURBAN VILLA FOR VACATION RENTALS - FROM +R2100 for upto 6 guests:
www.airbnb.com...
Join this channel as a member to watch the FULL EPISODE and never before seen footage:
/ @engineerylshow
CLICK TO BANK WITH INVESTEC AS A YOUNG PROFESSIONAL UNDER 30
referrals.inve...
CLICK BELOW TO GET A DISCOUNT WITH NAKED INSURANCE
app.naked.insu...
JOIN OUR WHATSAPP CHANNEL FOR EXCLUSIVE UPDATES:
whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va4HEtEJpe8dph8TSq1R
FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
Instagram: EngineerYLShow
Facebook: engineerylshoww
Twitter: engineerylshow
-----
DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional adive, legal advice, financial advice, medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Never disregard the relevant professional advice because you have heard or watched something on this podcast or channel. Furthermore, all opinions expressed are views of the guest solely and not of the channel and its holding company.

[@SimzRight]

I wish I met this me a few years ago honestly

[@EngineerYLShow]

She’s a force! 🫂❤️

[@FindingNeli]

Better late than never my sister.

[@clarence493]

We love you Simphiwe❤

[@nonkosimarcia8714]

Better late than never Simphiwe, how refreshing 2 witness this meeting, wat a time 2 be alive❤

[@PKM208]

Management here❤ We love you so much Simz.

[@ayandabaca7545]

I'd rather be a return soldier than being a soldier that's fighting a losing battle.

[@user-uq4xo4sd8w]

Wow thanks powerful

[@luvolee]

Lungelo is by far one of the best interviewers I have seen, these numbers are not making sense but I feel it in my soul 2024 is about to be his breakthrough year! Mark my words 🤞

[@kimberlybobotha5991]

Yeah he is ,wish it started off with an intro,getting to know Simz,those that don't know her .A little background of when the relationship started ,the marriage,and eventually the end,to basically structure the interview .Manje nje it's starting right at the very end.

[@zenzinkambule1585]

I love how Simz is still able to speak so positively about marriage 😍

[@lelonWakaGatsheni]

I’m here for @SimzRight all day everyday ❤

[@Elizabeth-vu1tb]

Not me RUNNING here; love you soooo much Simz.

[@donniemdluli7287]

As a management, I throughly enjoyed this conversation. I laughed, learnt so much and appreciated how Simz responded to the questions. I love how Simz is embodying the woman she has become

[@mphomakhale]

Your interviewing skills Lungelo. Top tier. ❤️ The part where you mentioned that trauma has the ability to limit our thinking capacity and make us believe that we comfortable when we not? Shuuu. Something moved in me. Beautiful interview as always.

[@busisiwephakathi7793]

lalela, that comment yeses!

[@EngineerYLShow]

Appreciate this so much. Thank you for this ❤️

[@DKs_Journey1]

Tell me about it, I got teary and I don't know why. Something moved in me

[@nandiphasomana8501]

I enjoyed this interview, not only was Simz herself as always but I loved seeing the different side of her bubbly personality. Her genuineness made me realise that she really went through a lot and she didn't get time to do damage control privately because the socials were in her throat.

[@EngineerYLShow]

Thank you kindly for watching. Hope you subscribed

[@EngineerYLShow]

Hello! ❤️ I had the greatest chat with Simz, she is taking charge of her life, owning her mistakes and healing from what was done to her. Appreciate you so much Simz for sharing this intimate part of your life with our Engineer Your Life family. Enjoy the epsiode ❤

[@notapi1]

she is such a truthful individual...I wish i was as accountable as she is...

[@EngineerYLShow]

She is truly taking charge@@notapi1

[@innocentiaradebe9314]

❤❤

[@zamokuhlezandile1703]

Lungelo you are so positive

[@ThobileNdimande-db7tv]

It was very nice and she was so honest. I got triggerd got married at 24 and I'm tired 😫 I'm 35 manje yhooo! We need a support group maan 😪

[@asandakhathi]

I'm so proud of this girl for choosing herself. What a star

[@CuriousEuphoria]

A huge S/O to you Lungelo for your outstanding interviewing skills! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾Your ability to listen, ask insightful questions, and showcase immense knowledge truly makes the podcast content stand out 🙌🏾💯. Big shoutout to Simz for her authenticity-this is exactly the engaging content I love and signed up for. I love it here🤍✨.

[@EngineerYLShow]

You’re too kind, thank you for affirming me ❤️❤️❤️

[@NtsikiMazwai]

💚💚💚💚💚💚

[@NeoPholushe]

Lungelo. Fantastic Interview with @SimzRight. I'm a man & husband who loves marriage and marriage conversations so much. And I know its a genre favourite to women. I can't get enough of this one & Promise Makunyane

[@EngineerYLShow]

thank you bro. I’m equally learning a lot from these

[@becomingdineom1187]

Lungelo is such a wholesome interviewer, asked the right questions questions with so much respect and empathy 🙌🏾 I subscribed after the 1st two questions! Simz answered the questions so well. She gets an A+++ for the way she answered . Love this self awareness, growth and love era on you Simz, looks super good ❤

[@EngineerYLShow]

Appreciate this a lot Dineo ❤️❤️❤️

[@becomingdineom1187]

@@EngineerYLShow ❤️❤️❤️

[@patiencemotivates]

I loved this interview so much. Thank you Simz for shedding light on marriage/ separation and divorce. No one gets it until someone speaks out. Love and light to both Simz and Lungelo❤

[@TeeKay88]

Great interview guys. The interviewer was brilliant and engaging. Simz was transparent and funny as always, very refreshing! Well done 👏🏾❤

[@jarirovisovirere9328]

I love this woman since I discovered her channel, much love from Namibia. I love the Simz went on about her marriage. Much love.

[@sinasomxakaza9170]

Lungelo is a great host 👏👏👏 Great interviewing skills, no shaming or drama. Just a healthy discussion. Watched for the first time when Naledi was here

[@EngineerYLShow]

❤️❤️❤️ I am so happy you are back.

[@bongigarane4399]

Really enjoyed this interview, what Simz said about mourning a marriage is definitely true and it takes years to really close off the chapter

[@MaBhanya]

I’ve been trying to put together a fitting compliment ever since I discovered this channel yesterday and ngiyahluleka… You’re excellent at what you do Lungelo! I’d be lying if I said I’ve come across anyone who interviews like you in SA. According to me, you’re hands down the best in SA. I can’t even put your interviewing style into words. Out of this world!

[@EngineerYLShow]

Sis Ntombikayise, izandla zedlula ekhanda. I am so grateful for these kind words. I will use them to carry this vision God has placed in my heart all the way. Thank you again.

[@MaBhanya]

@@EngineerYLShow You’re welcome, may God bless you work.

[@TheNonsie89]

This chanel is like Therapy! Lungelo you are so good at what you do, I just love how you connect with your guests throughout the entire conversation.

[@EngineerYLShow]

Blessings to you 😃❤️🙏🏿

[@nosiphoradebe6297]

Love Simz and wish her the best with her parenting. Marriage can wait.

[@nomakhaya]

WooooW i enjoyed this episode and didn't and didn't want it to end. Thank you for inviting Simz Lungelo..Loved how she explained her love life, her self discovery... Marriage is definitely coming sis and i love this new you.. Have learnt a lot about Marriage from this and PEACE IS EXPENSIVE 🎤...

[@user-vk4ye1du9l]

Respect The Way You conduct Your Interviews Lungelo It's Really A Blessed Calling For You it's like There's voices that whispers to you And You able to Project It Exactly Expected in An honourable Way Thank you For Great interviews Very enlighting and educational🙏

[@EngineerYLShow]

Thank you for being kind enough to share this message with me. It reminds me that I’m living in my purpose. Thank you.

[@gabrina]

This was so powerful. My parents are going thru a separation, and it's been alot. I thank Simz for sharing her story and being objective about the situation. Ive learnt alot.

[@EngineerYLShow]

You are so welcome❤️‍🩹 All the best with this situation. Pray and worship, God will see you through it.

[@spm9130]

I think we underestimate the power of real marriage counselling before we even decide to pay lobola! It helps you to understand what marriage is and what it takes to stay married!

[@EngineerYLShow]

What would you define as the duration and type of marriage counselling you consider real?

[@PKM208]

Management here❤❤ We love you so much Simz.

[@TherealBarcadi]

The accountability and the honesty ❤❤❤❤❤❤ Thank God for podcasts more blessings Lungelo 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@EngineerYLShow]

Thank you kindly :)

[@sisiphojacobs6038]

Such therapy session vibe. Honesty yakho simz❤Sis! Sis! 💐💐

[@urbanartivists7943]

Management please sign in. Danko ❤

[@taenashymkoti2854]

" where there is God, there is peace" TRUTH

[@EngineerYLShow]

Overwhelming peace. ❤️

[@sylviamodise3887]

Thank you Simz, I appreciate that you did not paint your ex as a bad person, you just gave us your point of view and where you believe you went wrong. That shows a huge level of maturity. Kulungile, love and light ❤

[@ndilekamomoza4538]

Thank you Lungelo , you are graceful in all the conversations with your guests

[@EngineerYLShow]

This response is heartwarming. Thank you so much 🙏🏿

[@DiamondQuality1]

I'm actually praying for my future husband now thank you for tge advice on being specific Simz

[@phumzilesikhakhane1597]

Simz has a great personality,your kids deserve to get the “happy” version of you,you are amazing and funny😂❤️💐

[@mathapelomphahlele5309]

Simz o right, marriage is so nice. You only realize it a few years after the wedding that actually the challenges are harder when you cannot accept that somethings are beyond your control and you give it to God. The other controllable elements, are parts of you that has not healed and resolving conflict politely which need therapy and marriage counseling.

[@ntandokazimanqele9462]

I am sooo proud when someone says this road ain't it so I think for my own benefit lemme swim

[@syathokozahlophe9011]

Such a lovely and informative interview… and the issue of spirituality is very important in a relationship and we often neglect that part

[@thamibokaba7090]

This was such a great interview, I thoroughly enjoyed it. ❤ As a management, it’s very impressive to watch Simz grow from strength to strength. ❤️❤️❤️

[@leratomoepya478]

Your interview skills are amazing ❤. Subscribed 🙌🏾

[@EngineerYLShow]

😃😃❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@bongiwemaqolo9194]

sound effects - trrrrr. i love you simzzzo

[@kgosigadientertainment2220]

Loving these youtube collaborations ❤

[@zuzuh5755]

Great interviwer, I like that he is not judging but listen to understand what his guest is saying and feeling..I watched all the ads since I was doing my hair😅. Joking I always do to nive people like you guys. Love you Simz 😍.

[@EngineerYLShow]

Glad you enjoyed it😃😃😃😃

[@lesley_lezley]

We love you Sims ♥️♥️♥️ Great interview bhuti. Love that you got straight to the point. ♥️

[@missg7906]

“Nkulu nkhulu ya Ayanda Ncwane” 🤣🤣 yoh @SimzRight takes NOTHING seriously 🤣🤣🤣

[@reolebogile_m]

Lungelo's laugh is so adorable 😅

[@EngineerYLShow]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@seipeishole9674]

This interviewer is too good❤

[@EngineerYLShow]

God bless you for your kindness ❤️🤍❤️

[@phumzilesikhakhane1597]

Lungelo your channel is so soothing,i feel like i am chilling with you guys there😂❤

[@Tinas12211]

I really appreciate your content Lungelo, God bless you abundantly , YOU SAVED MY LIFE By introducing me to Kwazi Mamane I had severe spiritual warfares I wish one day I would visit and share my story, I believe I am destined for greatness. Since I started attending his church in Durban what a change in my life even thou I am still in isolation.

[@EngineerYLShow]

God bless you ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏿

[@bathabilemthimunye1087]

This was so refreshing to watch❤❤❤

[@divinepeaceInternational]

Great Interview! The interviewer interacts so well and Simz has a great personality. Just Subscribed ❤

[@EngineerYLShow]

Thank you 🙏🏿

[@frostedwindows1]

Yho @Simzright, I wished I could just hug you tight when you said, " I talked to God and say Please forgive me " In fact, there I no condemination for all of us.

[@neliswamatwa5756]

Great interview, I was glued the whole time❤

[@ZenzeleNawe]

Lungelo uyathandeka

[@bojangmekgwe3205]

A very insightful conversation ❤❤

[@jeminahM]

I love simz sana she is so funny

[@EngineerYLShow]

I was finished! 😂😂😂

[@nokwazishezi7580]

Lungelo you give me Siya Mhlongo's vibes so much from uKhoziFM/MetroFM ❤ What a beautiful conversation ❤

[@EngineerYLShow]

He’s brilliant at what he does. Thank you 🙏🏿

[@zeendlovu9641]

Management here❤

[@sontofakude7724]

Simz girl! Tell them abondabazantu👏👏👏👏

[@ruthkamwi_youtube]

This is a great interview.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@EngineerYLShow]

❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@Dizzy12346]

Simz is so beautiful, woow 🤞👌🥰

[@lovely_Leaf]

Lungelo have no idea why you don't wear shoes, but looooove it. It's so Zen!

[@tshepangpaile9689]

I am officially a subbie becoz of simz❤

[@allentertainment_ke4168]

Much love from Kenya lungelo😍

[@EngineerYLShow]

Welcome home ❤❤❤

[@prisca2blessedxoli662]

Simz is so intelligent hey

[@preciouslebo8496]

You Seeking God and putting God first I love it for you Simz. And your take on popculture is on point. Lots of love ♡

[@ScissorN]

Mara guys what really keeps marriages this days, i mean Simz and his husband looked like a happy couple and they where so crazy and fun together

[@zaneleluhabe8863]

Awesome interview ❤

[@NtsikiMazwai]

Great Job to the host❤🎉

[@EngineerYLShow]

Thank you kindly.

[@SiphokaziNgqozela-ju1jt]

I just love usims hayboo❤

[@DelisileNgema]

nice one Sims im learning a lot i also have a toungue of a snake may God help me

[@nthabisengmashaba1]

The way I love you Simz♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@jabulilengubane4843]

I love her sense of humour!😂❤

[@zinnyphenyane1908]

The best ❤😊

[@nontobekonkosi]

Simz is so beautiful ❤️❤️

[@lelonWakaGatsheni]

@Lungelo 🤌🏼🙌🏾🔥

[@EngineerYLShow]

My darling Waka Gatsheni ❤❤❤

[@zandilezabengunigumede3069]

Lungelo is the best interviewer trust me ❤️

[@sammym9259]

Management loves this❤❤

[@nosipomatanzima2174]

Big up to you Simz.

[@sontofakude7724]

🤣🤣🤣🤣Simz mara uyahlekisa😂 you so funny girl!!

[@nthabisengmasikila4543]

Simz is super adorable ❤😊

[@nkululekomabaso1629]

I love Simz

[@sphesihlemamba9964]

Just subscribed 🎉

[@boitumelonyati4546]

😂😂I jst love Simz shame people can say what they want she's an amazing, funny & beautiful person aoooo Sims girl

[@EngineerYLShow]

She is really all encompassing :)

[@ExplorersSA]

Simz start the queue from the end xha😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@phindigee1912]

Not Nokwanda Sibiya catching strays 🤣😂

[@paul7505]

Where are your shoes, Lungelo?

[@zandimaphike4516]

'Sukuma mkami bakubone' 😂😂😂😂

[@spm9130]

I had to leave to be alive for myself and my children ❤❤❤

[@EngineerYLShow]

Power 🙏🏿❤️🫂

[@ms_busybee5315]

We have God and gods.

[@leojiji-e4x]

Simz we love u❤

[@anastasimankesemokgobu1724]

Not the God of Ayanda Ncgwane 🤣🤣

[@lebom2456]

😂

[@onthegrindwiththabitha]

Simz right, love you❤❤

[@EngineerYLShow]

Management ✊🏿

[@bryanoaitse1547]

Nice

[@loveandlight3486]

Once said marriage must come with a 10year contract to see if both parties want to renew another 10😅

[@bigthangz5489]

17:17 - Didnt he marry Simz while sims alresdy had a kid or 2 from prior relationships?

[@nkululekomabaso1629]

I love Simz😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@queendorcas5815]

New subi ❤

[@EngineerYLShow]

Thanks for subbing! :)

[@vestamackay6216]

❤️❤️❤️

[@TherealBarcadi]

Sims is soo funny and lovable 😅😅😂❤

[@EngineerYLShow]

Did you see how much I was laughing.It was amazing

[@user-qv5uy5ki5f]

Simz she's funny guys😂😂😂