Single Child Related Question-Answer | Single Child rakhna sahi ya galat

[@jyoti-v4s3x]

Ohh my god.. kitne ache point pr video bnaya hai.. bahut acha feel horaha hai video dekhkar 😊

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Glad to read that 😊 Thanks♥️

[@FreeFire-gz8vf]

As a single child I can say that at least have 2 child or no child. Because single child is to difficult to handle I am not good at relationship 😢 alone all the time. My parents love me but i think i dont deserve that much love because i am not good at anything

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Hi😊 Your comment has the answer :) Kya age hai apki ?

[@FreeFire-gz8vf]

@@ParentingwithYogita I am teenager 🙃 16 years old. I have 16 years of experience 🥲😅.

[@prachiballal4220]

As a single child and now a mother of one myself, I can relate to your explanation. While having a sibling can offer companionship and support, it's important to remember that a single child can also develop strong relationships with friends, extended family, and community members. Additionally, having a single child can allow for more focused attention and resources, potentially leading to greater opportunities for personal growth and development. Single children often mature at an earlier age and develop strong mental resilience due to the unique challenges and responsibilities they face.

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Wow very well explained 🤗 Yes, everything depends on how we perceive things. It's a matter of mindset. A trained mind knows that happiness lies within me :)

[@priyankakiran7590]

Thank you for the whole video. You explain in a very practical and matured way.

[@nikitatembare442]

It Is very wrong to say that ki baccho ko ek umar ke baad maata pita ki jarurat nahi hoti.. I am at 26 of my age i lost my parents and even my bro.. My total family is not with me right now but i need them every day even my husband is very understanding and caring loving.. Maa baap ka pyar to har umar me chahiye jiske paas nahi hai wo hi samaz sakte hai.. what i am saying.. There is no one who loves u like mother.. Kitni bhi apni duniya sajalo paise se pyar se..

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Hi 😊 Ha bilkul Sahi kaha apne. Par context samjhiye ki video mein samjhaaya kya ja raha hai :)

[@baby_adventures]

Ma'am, I love your vidoes.. Just subscribed your channel

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Oh 😊🤗 Thank You 🙏 Means a lot to me 🩷

[@chhavisrivastava6255]

Thank you so much apke videos boht achhe hain

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Thanks to you too :)🌷

[@deepalivagdalkar1121]

Pls do more such videos related to the same topic

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Ok :)

[@subodhgautam649]

Great and very wisdom full video...so full of knowledge about life..

[@subodhgautam649]

I am having Severe depression and OCD ; we are 4 siblings... depression , OCD is connected with genetics.

[@babit196]

Maam...kindly make a video with your whole family and introduce them to us.

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Hello ji Hamari nuclear family hai. Jisme Main, mere husband aur mera 11 saal ka beta hai 😊 Hum Denmark rahte hein aur mera mayke sasuraal ka sara pariwaar India rahta hai :)

[@reenachauhan9215]

Hlooo ma'am I am also in same problem...... single child daughter......kya kru

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Bas apni daughter ko strong banane pe dhyan do. Baki vo sab sambhaal legi 😇🩷

[@randomvilla7401]

​@@ParentingwithYogitaryt mam🙏🙏🙏

[@ParentingwithYogita]

@@randomvilla7401 Thank You 😊🙏

[@jayshr7021]

Thanku so much mam for everything ❤❤

[@prakritibairagi7913]

Thank You

[@ParentingwithYogita]

😊💕

[@nehagarg1608]

M still too much confused and highly stressed,my daughter is 8 years old,she is emotionally very weak,may b she is luking to me..mera yhi fear hai wo kaise manage kregi life,bache abhi se usay bulley krte hain,future me bhi kon hoga uska..koi relative support bhi nai hai.

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Apko aisa lagta hai to aur late mat kijiye. 2nd baby mein koi buraai nahi :) But fir bhi apko apni daughter ko emotionally strong banane mein to mehnat karni hi hogi 👍

[@vanshikakaushik6497]

My mom had my brother when I was 8 she stopped taking care of me and on the other hand I became her parent being young she diverted all her attention to my baby brother and I struggled all alone. My brother is miserable he shouts at us creates a ruckus at home yes my mom regret a second child she would've have been happier with just me she says that every day I'm 25 my brother is 17 he just drains me emotionality shouts and he has even raised his hand on my mom. Imagine what if the opposite happens just letting you know that no sibling is a blessing atleast mine wasn't

[@priyankakiran7590]

Pls make more videos with such practical words if you find more time. Thank you

[@saimakirecipes3344]

Main bhi single child chahti hu becoz maine bht saha hai 2 miscarrige one baby loss ab bht kamzor ho gyi hu mai ek hi bby chahti hun kuki mujhe lgta h i cnt handle 😢 or main bhi single child hun soche to 2 bby they but ab mujhme himmat nhi

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Great yaar💖 Aap itne acche se, sab evaluate karke, soch samjh ke decision le rhe ho. Kaash sab itne hi confidence se decision le paate ♥️🏵️😊

[@PushpaKumari-xn6tp]

Very nice

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Thanks :)

[@ranjitaMohapatra-wz7ho]

Mam plz reply,mera ek beta h 6 ye ka ?meri v pehle 2 baby hua tha bhagban le geye aur ek miscarriage hua ,ab mujhe himat nhi ata kyu ki koi support nhi ekali 2 bacha ko sambhal pau ya nhi ,kya karu mam me but aisa lagta h ki mera boy ekali mehsus karta h 😢😢😢

[@supriyatiwary741]

Same meri situation hai Mera beta 12 yrs ka ho gya h Pehle bhi miscarriage hua tha , fir Mera beta hua Mera beta hone k baad bhi miscarriage hua Fir himmat nahi hui second baby plan karne ka Ab lagta h kavi kavi 2 bachhe hote toh sahi rehta Kavi kavi sochkar depressed ho jati hu

[@sonalisharma2372]

Good morning didi. Didi mujhe kuch nhi aata h bache ko kaise sambhalana chahiye h .use achi addat sikhana . Mujhe kuch nhi aata h .use good feel karana .didi mai kya karru Didi kya Rajyoga se meri sari samasya khatam ho jayegi

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Hi Sonali♥️ tumhari age kya hai ? Please tum ye sochna band kar do ki tumhe kuch nahi aata. Aesa soch soch ke tum khud ko negative vibrations de rahi ho. Theek hai kuch samjh nahi aata to bhi apne bare mein hamesha accha socho. Bacche ko acchi aadat sikhane ke liye main jo sentence batati hun, unko use karo. Main tumhare liye aur videos banaungi, don’t worry. But jab bhi tumhe lage ki mujhe kuch nahi aata, usko turant change karo ki main seekh rahi hun aur main seekh ke rahungi. Apne aap ko challenge do, nai shuruaat karo, haar nahi manni hai chahe kuch bhi ho jaye. Bete ko good feel karane ke liye use bas gale se lagao, kabhi “love you” bolo, kabhi uske forehead pe kiss karo, kabhi uske sir pe hath fero. Aur ye sab daily karne ki jarurat nahi hai, bas jab tumhe feel ho bete ko pyar kar lo. Baccho ke liye sabse badda gift hai- happy mother Bas khush raho khush rakho :)

[@sonalisharma2372]

Meri age h 24 Mai hamesha yahi chinta me rahati hu ki mujhe samjhane nhi ata h .

[@pinkiarya8278]

Thanu aapne meri bahut help ki h m paresan thi dusra bachcha Karu ya nhi❤

[@ParentingwithYogita]

God bless you and your baby 🤗🩷

[@monika53005]

Mam mai mumbai mai rhti hu husbnd single working hai mere baby 8 year bd hui hai vho bhi ivf se 6 lack lg gyr ab log boltr hai second kr lo baby boy ho jyga mai phle sochti thi ek baby acha hai bt mam ab meri soch bdal rhi hai boy ya girl kuch nhi hota lekin agr 2 siblings hote hai to bhit frk pdta hai dekha hai mene practcally ha agr aap financial secure ho to jrur 2 baby pln krna chiye meri yhi advice hai pr agr financial strong na ho to ek baby rkho aur use sb kuch do

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Really Nice thought 🤗💖

[@randomvilla7401]

Nahi karni chahiye... Believe me अकेले बच्चे जन्नत और शुकून की जीते हैं और माफ कीजिएगा शुकून की जिन्दगी मरते भी हैं 👍

[@ranjitaMohapatra-wz7ho]

Aur financial problem na ho par kie help karne ki log na ho to jeise ki mere sasural me koi suport nhi aur maike me v nhi to kya kare ,

[@SimpleLivingNarratives]

Hey yogita! Thank you always for making videos related to single child. I was raised as a single child by only parent, so growing up i faced societal stigma but all those circumstances made me strong and a better decision maker. Now currently I too have a only child ( daughter and she is a blessing), people around question me saying you have no one, dont make your child go thru it again. Such statements made me weak and indecisive. Thankfully your videos came like a moral support i needed very much. Again thank you for making such wonderful videos 😇😊

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Hello ♥️ You know what- the answer lies within your question :) Because if it were someone else, they would blame being an only child.

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Aap strong rahe na. So now you need to do the same now. You are your own example😊 Remember If we keep listening to others, we’ll remain confused throughout our lives.

[@ParentingwithYogita]

And thanks to you too for your valuable feedback :)🌹

[@SimpleLivingNarratives]

@@ParentingwithYogita 🙏😇

[@rarity2]

Hey Yogita, one thing you miss out to tell audience is that a single child may feel lonely in his or her growing years.. But when he or she became mature enough will understand that their parents decission was the good decision.. Being brought up in family of five siblings and being youngest I feel many times that huge age gap between siblings is also a big issue.

[@preetisingh1158]

@parenting with yogita ,ager 2 baby rakhne ka man 50 50 ho to kya kare 😅

[@ParentingwithYogita]

😃😃Aisa aksar hota hai. Ek baar ye dekhiye kzbin.infoF1hH9aZZ3Tw?si=K2EJxMXaX9X-hoyS

[@Mr-cg9zk]

Hi everyone. I am single child and teenager. Life of single child is so so so difficult because. I love my family. So i become introvert i dont like friends they dont love me like sibling

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Hi 😊 Aap family se pyar karte hein to introvert kyu bane 🤔 Vaise introvert ek nature hota hai. Sibling wale bhi introvert ho sakte hein. And aap introvert ko bura kyu maan rahe hein. Har nature ke apne fayde hein 😇

[@meghamulay6939]

❤❤❤❤ muzhe bhi ek hi child hai.

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Same pinch 😃😃😃💖

[@meghamulay6939]

Same pinch🥰😃💝

[@Rudranshshukla007]

Mera bachaa 10 saal ka hai 7 saal Tak to pata he nahi chalaa ki lekin ab gusaaa ziddd maar dhaad sirf gussa har baat pe

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Bilkul sahi bola aapne. 7 saal ke hone pe baccho ka phase change hota hai. Vo bachpan se bade hone ki or badne lagte hein. Isi age mein parents ko jarurat hoti hai unko samjhne ki. Unki body mein, unke mood mein, hormones mein ekdum se fast change aata hai jisko bacche khud bhi nahi samjh pate. Aap apne bacche se alag se pyar se baat kijiye ki beta aap kitni bhi galti karo ya hum apko kitna bhi daant de, humara pyar aapke liye kabhi kam nhi hoga. And aap isi channel pe preeteen aur teenage wale video search kijiye. Apko bacche ko samjhne mein help milegi.

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Aap ek baar ye video bhi dekhiye kzbin.info/www/bejne/nam0eKxjgpVmrKMsi=3OVLP4hrnc64xXEY

[@sudharvlog]

Dear mere husband dusra bachcha nhi chahte mai sochti hu dusra bachcha kyoki meri mummy nhi h ki Nani ke yaha le jau na to sasural. Ki tarf se koi use pyar krta h.... akelaan .. secend child is good for me......

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Aap dusra kar lijiye. Par aap dadi nani wali baat par itna mat sochiye. aajkl ke bacche dadi nani se jyada dosto ka pyar aur acceptance chahte hein, kyoki dadi nani ke yaha to saal mein 2 ya 3 baar hi ja pate hein but dost to har din milte hein. Vaise 2 bacche bhi acche hote hein. No problem in having two kids 😊♥️♥️

[@sudharvlog]

@@ParentingwithYogita thanks dear for your reply ☺️

[@sonikaaudichya4492]

Mam mere bache ko ghr ke bache marte hai unke parents se kaho to wo sah dete hai aise me mera bachha sahma rahta agar mera beta kuch kahta to unke parents ladne lagte hai

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Kya age hai apke bete ki ? Joint family hai ?

[@sonikaaudichya4492]

@@ParentingwithYogita 6 years joint family

[@randomvilla7401]

​@@sonikaaudichya4492अपने बच्चे को कहिए उनसे दूरी बना के रखे। और अपनी जिंदगी में खुश रहना सिखाइए❤ एक बार अपनी company enjoy करने लगा तो believe me life हो जायेगी झिंगलाला👋👋

[@MoumitaGhosh-r5g]

❤

[@ParentingwithYogita]

@@MoumitaGhosh-r5g :)💗

[@Poojamehra-f1i]

Ma'am mera ek beta hai 7 year ka muje second baby krna chahiye ya nahi mera mn nhi hai second baby per sab bolte hai 2 baby hona jaruri hai future me kabhi kuch ho gaya to kya kroge mere husband itna nahi samjh pate h unko koi fark nahi padta ek baby h ya do bo bolte h tumhe jo sahi lgta hai bo krege me kya kru ma'am muje pata hai mere husband do baccho ki jimmedari utne acche se nhi utha payege please please please ma'am aap muje bataye me kya kru 😢😢

[@ranjitaMohapatra-wz7ho]

Same question ans plz hamare pas Sambhalne ko ho jayega par kie suport nhi h kya kare

[@Rudranshshukla007]

Study ,art craftin car making drowning,,fsinging ,dance school har jagh naam hota hai hindi ,english bhojpoori bhasha sab kuch 1 NO But 24 ghanty mai ek baar gusaa esaa aata hai ki chappl jhapd marna pdta hai ,🙏😭😭😭🙏🙏😭 helpe

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Yaha apko patience rakh e ki jarurat hai. apko apne bacche ke mind ko samjhna hoga. Vo aesa karna nahi chahta, par vo khud nahi samjh pa raha ki main aisa kyu kar raha hun ya kya karu kya na karu.

[@subhashreevenkatesh3868]

This is valid for 'normal' kids not with special single children or thise with autism.. besides people encounter issues later in life also..friends come and go.. blood stays forever.. only the brother ambani could bail Anil Ambani out..

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Hanji bilkul :) Ye koi debate ka subject nahi hai. It’s all about ki hamara perception kya hai aur hum kya chahte hein, sabki priority alag alag hoti hai. Isliye main hamesha bolti hun ki ek bacche, do bacche, teen bacche ki baat nahi hai. Important hai ki hum apni life ki, apni happiness ki zimmedari khud lein aur baccho ko bhi vahi sikhayen. Single Child ke parents ko bhi unnecessary tensed rahne ki jarurat nahi hai 😊

[@SubodhKalita-gm6zt]

Mam. Dont call single child is bleesing.it is gateway to disturction

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Hi 😊 Nothing is destructive, except our own thought process :)

[@SubodhKalita-gm6zt]

@@ParentingwithYogita mam I respect you. But what if they started controlling your love life and career. And never let you go away for them in good purpose also

[@ParentingwithYogita]

You are a good human being💖 ye unka aapse attachment hai. Aap 2 hote to bhi same hota. Meri friend 5 bahan-bhai hai. Baki ka to mujhe nahi pata but meri friend ko bhi apni love-life se compromise karna pda tha. And trust me vo phase uske liye bahut bahut tough tha. It depends on individuals nature :) Ek baat bataiye- Aap apne parents se naraz hoke baat karte hein kya ?

[@SubodhKalita-gm6zt]

@@ParentingwithYogita yes I do. But sacrificing love life make me like a playgirl. Because I felt scared of love kyuki Muje shadi mere parents ke choice se karna hoga

[@ParentingwithYogita]

@@SubodhKalita-gm6zt Hmm :( i can understand but they are surely concerned about your future. You must have tried your best, but you can get help from a mediator, like your masi or bua.

[@Travelling_arround]

Baccha karna jaruri h kya ??

[@ParentingwithYogita]

😃😃 Apko kya lagta hai ?

[@Travelling_arround]

@@ParentingwithYogita Ye to May aapse jaana hai, muje nhi lagta hai ki jaruri hai !! And Aurto ko itna mould kar diya jaata hai ki ye baate galat bhi nhi lagti . Curtain rules set kar diye hai , aur Aurto ko sab sahi lag rahi hai, jeeti jaa rahi hai .

[@ParentingwithYogita]

@@Travelling_arround Ha yaar baat to ekdm sahi hai apki. But ek time baad apne aap man karne lagta hai- parent banne ka. But kahi se support na ho to lagta hai ki kaise manage ho paega😓

[@Travelling_arround]

@@ParentingwithYogita exactly! You have proved my point. Women to itna mould kar diya gaya hai ki kuch galat hi nhi lagta hai . Aur ye pura bhram hai ki aage jakar budhape May prob aayegi ..

[@Labhsinhh1977]

Apna dimag apne pass rakho do ta hone hi jarruri he sidhu mosewala v ek hi si j pahla hi do hunde ma bap nu budshpe vich na lana panda

[@anshiprasher7978]

Ahi gal mere parents kehnde ne

[@ParentingwithYogita]

@@Labhsinhh1977 ji bilkul, sabki apni apni soch hoti hai. Do baccho mein koi problem nahi hai. Par sath hi hum apne bol par, apne shabdo par bhi dhyan rakhe. Kyonki jaise hum bolenge, hamare ghar ke bacche bhi vaisa hi seekhenge :)

[@apurvamishrradivine]

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[@Kritanshpandey]

Meri ek aunty hai unka beta 12th class me Tha accident hua uska or operation k baad uske mind nhi sahi Hai abhi Tk aise condition me kya kiya jye ..?single

[@surjusen1718]

Madam, be practical, ये relationship ka matter hai aap Nahi smzoge.

[@Rudranshshukla007]

Sab log bolta hai 2 sra kro aur ye manaa krtey hai pehle ek to achey se samjaalo pata nahi kyu rehty rehty apne paako dushman aur mujhey siteli maa bolta hai 2 saal se to bohot marr dere hai usk pehle to tez aawaj bhi nahi nikalna padta ta mahr ab. 🙏🙏🙏😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭plz help me

[@ParentingwithYogita]

Don’t worry sare parents aur baccho ki same kahaani hai. Aap akeli nahi hein :) Aap channel ke baki videos dekhiye, unme bataya hai.😊