SINGLE MOM, BE ENCOURAGED!| Advice & tips on being a happy, healthy, and thriving, single mother.

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Rhia Smith

Rhia Smith

Күн бұрын

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@ManthaPanthaaa
@ManthaPanthaaa Жыл бұрын
It's so comforting to know I'm not the only one searching the net for advice/encouragement while I'm on this single parent journey. 😔 new subbie 🫶🏾
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
Sis! You are definitely not the only one! All of us are out here trying to make it! By the grace of God we got this!♥️
@Skyla_and_Adina24
@Skyla_and_Adina24 Жыл бұрын
You’re not alone! I’m a single pregnant mom! I’m so scared but these type of videos really have comforted me!
@shanellem6310
@shanellem6310 8 ай бұрын
​@@Skyla_and_Adina24 Me too.
@brianaruthmartin
@brianaruthmartin Жыл бұрын
Girrrrllll…. THANK YOU!! I needed this. I needed to hear every single word you said. I’m a single mom to two little girls under the age of 8, and I’m STRUGGGGLIN. I want to be a better mom. I want to be stronger for my girls. But I feel so damaged and broken down at times & the LAST thing I want is to rub that negativity into my kids. it’s hard out here yall. Thank you so much for this video, I love this & I need this content in my feed for sure.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
Wow, you just confirmed that I need to keep going! I’m so proud of you and I am confident that you will be the best mother to your girls! Praying Gods continued healing in and over your life! This is just a season!♥️♥️♥️
@jellybite1
@jellybite1 Жыл бұрын
You got this, mama
@shanellem6310
@shanellem6310 8 ай бұрын
I feel you. You are not alone. I'm a single mom of 3 in Cali- 5yrs, 12yrs, & 17yrs. I'm struggling hard & am trying to find balance all while keeping it all together & creating my online business.
@IAmElleRoss
@IAmElleRoss 3 ай бұрын
I needed this message in This very moment too 🩷
@rickyj5137
@rickyj5137 12 күн бұрын
​@@IAmElleRossYou guys got this, I will be praying 🙏 amen
@sethunyapk
@sethunyapk 7 ай бұрын
Watching this video today wasn't by accident. I've struggled to forgive myself for so long. Being a single mom wasn't my dream . My daughter deserves the best mom . Thank you
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 7 ай бұрын
Wow! I’m so glad! You are absolutely right, she does! So continue to be your best and walk in your freedom and truth. ♥️🫶🏾 May God continue to bless you and be your guide.
@jessecaharvey9885
@jessecaharvey9885 Жыл бұрын
I don’t have a village so I came here. It’s so hard. I’m exhausted. I have no time to even breathe.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
Hey my love, I will be saying a special prayer for God to surround you with the right people for him to send help. I know the load feels heavy, but I know this season won’t last forever. Sending you love and prayers Jesseca.♥️
@BenJessica-mz9jg
@BenJessica-mz9jg 8 ай бұрын
Don't worry
@junie4prez
@junie4prez 3 ай бұрын
how are you? I literally came to this vid, seen your comment & im like same 🫠
@jenaithomas4612
@jenaithomas4612 2 ай бұрын
Same 😢
@l.i.l.i.s.e.l.l.s
@l.i.l.i.s.e.l.l.s 2 ай бұрын
I use to feel like I couldn’t hear myself think. It’s gotten better mine are 7,5 and 21months.
@CommentingSomeMore
@CommentingSomeMore 10 ай бұрын
How does this not have a million likes? I searched in yt “how to be a good influence as a single mom” and this video came up. And God is good because I didn’t even search for a specifically Christian video but here I am. I give God all the glory and I see you do too. Thank you ma’am. ❤ God bless
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 10 ай бұрын
Yay! I am so glad you found it! I hope it blessed you! We got this!🫶🏾♥️
@Skyla_and_Adina24
@Skyla_and_Adina24 Жыл бұрын
Videos like this are so encouraging. I’m 19 weeks pregnant and I’m single and it’s already been hard. I’m so excited and nervous for my baby to get here. I just feel like I let her and myself down not building an established relationship before having her but honestly it wouldn’t have been her if I did it the way I always planned. And for that reason I know she’s special and a true blessing and she was put here during a time I needed the most. Thank you and God bless you!
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
Congratulations sis! Definitely be encouraged in knowing that God makes no mistakes and what he will allows he will provide for! God will give you the provision emotionally, physically, and spiritually to endure and be the best mother you can be! And yes he specializes in bringing us things/people exactly when we need them! Thanks for sharing. Praying for smooth rest of your pregnancy and healthy delivery!♥️♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾🫶🏾
@franciscasarpong
@franciscasarpong Жыл бұрын
Sis you will make it but I don’t know how if Rhia is here to share you will soon share and not be bitter but better.
@emmanuelbabaranti9863
@emmanuelbabaranti9863 8 ай бұрын
I believe that a woman should be able to look up to her man for protection, for well being, and for strength. I intend on fulfilling these roles without failure, I will be this one special woman's knight in shinning armor. This special woman will know that I am deeply in love with her, for I am the type of man that showers her in my love, Whether it be flowers, gifts of candy or jwelry, or just a simple "I love you" and a kiss, she will always know she is loved and appreciated. The only person that truly knows that answer is God himself. I am willing to take the chance and see, if you are willing to get along you seems so sweet. Someone once told me "It is better to have lived life and regret what we have done, than to never have lived and regret doing nothing." I believe this to be true. If you decide that you are interested in discovering the real me and seeing if I'm the man you are searching for, please write back to me. I will patiently be awaiting your letter. I really cant wait to get a response from you .I am looking forward to your response
@meraiahdotson4523
@meraiahdotson4523 Ай бұрын
I’ve watched hundreds, maybe thousands of videos to help/encourage me as a single mom, this is the 1st video that’s actually lifted my spirits and mood 🫶🏻
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Ай бұрын
@@meraiahdotson4523 wow! I’m so glad! Thank you for the feedback! You got this mama!♥️♥️♥️
@traceybiagas6123
@traceybiagas6123 2 жыл бұрын
Gurrrrrrl, I love this and I love you. This is for ALL Moms not only single Moms... I am a Mom who is married to my sons' father and we raised them in our home TOGETHER... and there were time when I felt like I was doing it alone and I didn't take care of me. The emotional, physical and spiritual well being of them were on me and I was struggling alone. So I do believe these tips will help all moms. If I can tell another mom anything it will also be to ask for HELP... it is the BEST advice I can give.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, you are so right! Thank you for this feedback! I'm sure thank many women feel this way!
@emmanuelbabaranti9863
@emmanuelbabaranti9863 8 ай бұрын
I believe that a woman should be able to look up to her man for protection, for well being, and for strength. I intend on fulfilling these roles without failure, I will be this one special woman's knight in shinning armor. This special woman will know that I am deeply in love with her, for I am the type of man that showers her in my love, Whether it be flowers, gifts of candy or jwelry, or just a simple "I love you" and a kiss, she will always know she is loved and appreciated. The only person that truly knows that answer is God himself. I am willing to take the chance and see, if you are willing to get along you seems so sweet. Someone once told me "It is better to have lived life and regret what we have done, than to never have lived and regret doing nothing." I believe this to be true. If you decide that you are interested in discovering the real me and seeing if I'm the man you are searching for, please write back to me. I will patiently be awaiting your letter. I really cant wait to get a response from you .I am looking forward to your response
@YaniitaLinda
@YaniitaLinda 25 күн бұрын
19 weeks pregnant with my first, and it's twins. He blocked me on everything and can't find him. I fight myself everyday to forgive and be kind to myself and not be angry at not having any help. Him, my family, hardly any friends.... I live alone and am worried about getting bigger and not being able to do as much as I could... Worried about so much and now a place to live is added on the list... I just ask for positive prayers... I wanted to be a mommy since I was a child. This is not the way I thought it would happen but I still want to be the best Mommy I can be for them. I want to remember everything and be there for as much as I can also. I'm praying for y'all and I hope y'all pray for me too xoxox thank you for this channel ❤❤❤❤
@FofaBeijFeli
@FofaBeijFeli 9 ай бұрын
I am terrified... Single, working, with a 5 month old. I'm so scared 😢 I feel bad for letting her down. Her step dad is so abusive and I can't anymore... Her dad abandoned us when he found out about her and has never met her... Her step dad decided to marry me while I was pregnant and it was the biggest mistake I've ever made. She's so tiny and cute. She doesn't even cry on me😢 God blessed me with a very very sweet little baby. I do infact have so much to be grateful for. Thank you for the video I'm going to subscribe. Esp. because you're sharing with us from a Christian's perspective. 😢😢😢
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 9 ай бұрын
Hey beautiful, I’m glad you found this video. My advice to you is to only focus on what you can control. You can’t control how involved her father will be, but you can focus on giving your precious baby girl the love that she deserves. Also, if the relationship/marriage isn’t working look into counseling etc. but if it’s not working don’t hesitate to be selfish about you and your daughters safety. Safety is most important. More importantly, when you feel discouraged, sad, and down, don’t forget to pray and get around people who can speak life into you. You got this. And remember that you won’t always be in this position. It will pass soon. ♥️🫶🏾🙏🏾
@LenweeBaridammon
@LenweeBaridammon 5 ай бұрын
Oh yes! A Christian perspective 🙌🙌🙌🙌
@MadQueen772
@MadQueen772 5 ай бұрын
Whatever you do, don’t get pregnant by the abusive stepdad. Don’t walk, run to a contraceptive medical visit to initiate long term highly effective pregnancy prevention therapy. PERIOD. Don’t skip this step. Don’t risk it. Listen to me. Don’t get pregnant again. You will regret it. Take care of yourself NOW. It’s so easy. Run. Don’t walk to the clinic.
@RedRose-dg3th
@RedRose-dg3th Ай бұрын
1:20 absolutely. I wasn't prepared for that.. but getting out of a toxic relationship with their father (17 years) was the safest decision for my kids. God has been sooo good to me. I can relate to this video.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Ай бұрын
I’m so glad you left! I know it feels hard, but God will continue to carry y’all!♥️♥️🙏🏾
@sharonwilliams4032
@sharonwilliams4032 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this content its definitely needed. In my self development journey 5 months clean thank God my kids never gave up on me i have put my children in situations that wasn't motherly and doing the work it takes to be accountable i have no problem with it and this video help me learn to be gracious with myself as a woman as well as learning about myself to be what my daughter or kids need of me as their mom.i value healthy relationships i cut off any unhealthy relationship Anything unhealthy will trigger me so my boundaries is a must.im willing to not give up on myself and not give up on my kids
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you and your recovery sis! I’m happy to hear that you are giving yourself grace! God gives us so many second chances so the least we could do is give ourselves second chances. Your children are proud of you and are glad that you are determined to win and not give up. We are all rooting for you!♥️♥️🫶🏾
@sharonwilliams4032
@sharonwilliams4032 Жыл бұрын
@@Rhiajanay very fortunate to rediscover what lies under the surface of self and to be courageous to face things that comes along with being a woman/ mother I'm very clear of knowing it's a godly assignment to be a woman who is pure reborn or virtuous as well as a mother. Keep up the content because young women older women this is real to me and we all get discouraged at times we all get distracted by the wrong mate and it takes a toll on the whole dynamic of what a family supposed to be so having strength to move on from the father but no negativity towards him God will deal with the father we thankfully Got God thru it all. Be encouraged to all and to all a happy new year happy new you happy new boundaries happy everything to anyone who desire change its only gone get better renewing the mind soul spirit
@TLeaf87
@TLeaf87 Жыл бұрын
Awesome content! Thanks for sharing. I'm a single mom to a 9-year old daughter and it gets real in this season. But GOD...
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I’m glad that I could share! And yes mama, you got this!!♥️♥️♥️
@Susan_VidaWheel
@Susan_VidaWheel Ай бұрын
You are the bravest single mom that I’ve ever seen before❤Watching your videos is so inspiring🎉
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Ай бұрын
Awwww! Thank you so much! I appreciate your support! We got this!♥️♥️♥️ blessings to you!!
@cathblackburn9563
@cathblackburn9563 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so so much for your kind and positive words. I was just sitting there crying with negative thoughts and then i started to listen to your feed and dya what .. i paused and told my 2 boys about how much i loved them and that i will always be there for them. You have given me back my fire. Thank u girl!!!!
@kezzerful
@kezzerful 11 ай бұрын
I got 5mins in and literally felt so seen. I really needed to hear evrything you said. I really appreciate how compassionate and real and encouraging this was. Stay blessed sis
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 11 ай бұрын
Awww, praise God! I’m so glad! Thank you so much for the encouragement love! Stay blessed as well!!♥️♥️🫶🏾
@sb1986rooks
@sb1986rooks 4 ай бұрын
This really helped me this evening when feeling exhausted, deflated, and doubting myself. Thank you.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 3 ай бұрын
I’m so glad this helped! Take care of yourself as much as possible. God has great things in store. No doubt.🫶🏾🙏🏾
@giaagiaa1275
@giaagiaa1275 2 ай бұрын
Definitely need this i thank you, im 21 and a single mother with a 5 month old
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 2 ай бұрын
Awwww! Congrats on your new addition and yes, you got this! Keep doing the best you can and trusting God!🙏🏾♥️♥️😊
@RueMama-rr1fl
@RueMama-rr1fl 2 ай бұрын
I needed this. I’ve been so sad. I didn’t even watch yet but just thank you for this.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 2 ай бұрын
@@RueMama-rr1fl you’re so welcome!!!
@MissJade777
@MissJade777 3 ай бұрын
"...and your kids are still LIVING" 😂 is a vibe!!
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 3 ай бұрын
Lol I’m weak 😂😂😂😂😂
@JACLYNLOVEISMAGIC
@JACLYNLOVEISMAGIC 9 ай бұрын
Im not religious but i like your advice.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 9 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you like it! Thanks for watching! 🫶🏾
@LenweeBaridammon
@LenweeBaridammon 5 ай бұрын
Found so much peace in this video. It's a lot. A lot really. Sometimes I feel like my head is so choked and poked here and there .....but then, came across this video and I have been blessed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 5 ай бұрын
I’m so excited!! So glad, hang in there sis!♥️♥️♥️
@LifewithSarahRebekah
@LifewithSarahRebekah 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I needed this I am a single mom, thought I had the man of my dreams. But I didn’t find out he was toxic and a narcissist he was always showing me signs but I ignored them. I feel so bad for bringing my son into this he’s an innocent baby. He has never met our son or anything and he almost 2 months now
@sylviaanyango1972
@sylviaanyango1972 11 ай бұрын
Wow i thank God that i came along this Video you have described everything i went through and did wrong i even got Depression but God helped me and is helping me out its not an easy Journey but there is nothing above God.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 11 ай бұрын
Hey sis! The beautiful part about your journey is that you are still here to tell the story. Continue to focus on moving forward and trust God with you and your kids future. Eyes haven’t seen and ears haven’t heard of all that he has in store. Hang in there!♥️🫶🏾
@emmanuelbabaranti9863
@emmanuelbabaranti9863 8 ай бұрын
I believe that a woman should be able to look up to her man for protection, for well being, and for strength. I intend on fulfilling these roles without failure, I will be this one special woman's knight in shinning armor. This special woman will know that I am deeply in love with her, for I am the type of man that showers her in my love, Whether it be flowers, gifts of candy or jwelry, or just a simple "I love you" and a kiss, she will always know she is loved and appreciated. The only person that truly knows that answer is God himself. I am willing to take the chance and see, if you are willing to get along you seems so sweet. Someone once told me "It is better to have lived life and regret what we have done, than to never have lived and regret doing nothing." I believe this to be true. If you decide that you are interested in discovering the real me and seeing if I'm the man you are searching for, please write back to me. I will patiently be awaiting your letter. I really cant wait to get a response from you .I am looking forward to your response
@gracelikerain5039
@gracelikerain5039 26 күн бұрын
You should start a single mom support group where you meet with a few subscribers and have like a group chat on single motherhood that would be cute
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 8 күн бұрын
I’m just now seeing this! Thanks for the suggestion. I’m really considering it in 2025! Look out for it!
@chrissyheymann2351
@chrissyheymann2351 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! I just took my walk while listening. Feels good to combine spiritual encouragement with exercise! I've just started back to walking two months ago. I decided I'm never going to have time being a single mom, I have to make time !
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 3 ай бұрын
I’m so glad sis! Just know that the more time you make to take care of yourself, it works better for everyone involved. And on the days where you can’t do so much for yourself give yourself grace! You got this! ♥️🫶🏾🙏🏾
@Rub3sss
@Rub3sss 2 ай бұрын
I’ve been struggling, newly separated, so it’s great to hear this! Thank you.
@deepikasahu1734
@deepikasahu1734 3 ай бұрын
I was falling, yet again and you held my hand. Thank you ❤ Yes, children didn’t ask to be born, we brought them into the world and we must protect them, cherish them, celebrate them and your tips help❤
@nokwandanyawo6823
@nokwandanyawo6823 8 ай бұрын
I've recently moved out with my 3 kids. The relationship was emotionally draining n 1 week after that I find myself crying before God, I felt like I'm not good enough or I don't have enough in me to raise my kids. God has been my strength and I'm trusting him in every step of the way. Thank you so much for this ❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 8 ай бұрын
Praying for your strength sister! I’m so glad this video was of some help! Hang in there! ♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@preciselyavri7944
@preciselyavri7944 26 күн бұрын
This is about to be me. Emotionally draining is not even the word. I am tired. 3 years of this and i literally feel like its steadily going the opposite direction, arguing daily even in front of the kids, inconsistencies, lack of help because the other is “mad at you”, buying stuff but then taking it away even from the kids shall it be. Im tired yall. I feel like i cant even just walk away how many times do you try before just saying “i cant anymore”? My anxiety and depression has heightened in the last 3 years again with this person. One day its good for a minute the next it chaos and toxic again and on repeat daily. And when you love that person but they literally will not change they ways what do you do for your sanity?
@writer1986
@writer1986 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for making this video. My kids' dad and I are divorcing after 6 years of marriage. We have mutually agreed to split and share the kids, to live our different lives separately but still do it for the kids. It's scary moving forward without the man I thought would be a part of my future.... I need all the encouragement I can get to get through this new chapter of my life.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 5 ай бұрын
Sending you so much love! I’m so glad that this video could be of some encouragement! 🫶🏾 I am confident that God has equipped you for the task ahead. He will continue to heal your heart and give you the tools you need to transition well.♥️🫶🏾🙏🏾
@evauganda6593
@evauganda6593 3 ай бұрын
@Writer...Take it from a divorced single mamma of 5. You will get through it, and IF you have God on your side, meaning you choose and decided to make him the Centre of your life, then wow, get ready for Him to move in incredible ways in the life and this new chapter. Lean not on your understanding, but like our sis Rhia said, Allow God to be your strength and call on him. Be and remain blessed.
@stephanies3862
@stephanies3862 10 ай бұрын
Sis, You are a ray of sunshine 😊
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 10 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you so much my love!🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@muvarukiya
@muvarukiya 9 ай бұрын
A new subbie ❤ just been left on my 8 months of pregnancy and been trying to focus on doing things right by my child 😢 this gave me hope
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 9 ай бұрын
You will definitely get through it love! Remember that between you and God you have everything it takes!♥️🫶🏾
@TiffanyMoore1007
@TiffanyMoore1007 8 ай бұрын
Love Love Love this ❤❤❤❤ all your advice was so pure and well needed😊 Thank you so much ❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 8 ай бұрын
Awesome! I’m so glad you enjoyed it! We got this! ♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾☺️☺️
@TiffanyMoore1007
@TiffanyMoore1007 8 ай бұрын
@@Rhiajanay Yes you are absolutely right. Thank you so much for taking the time out to make this!!
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 8 ай бұрын
@@TiffanyMoore1007 awww, thank you so much for your feedback! I’m encouraged!
@TiffanyMoore1007
@TiffanyMoore1007 8 ай бұрын
@@Rhiajanay yes and I also shared on my FB page. Some women really need to hear this message to know it will be okay 🥹🙏💖
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 8 ай бұрын
Wow! That’s so awesome! Thank you so much! We have to stay encouraged!🫶🏾♥️🫶🏾
@elizabethjohnston3065
@elizabethjohnston3065 3 ай бұрын
God used you for real in the video. I came searching because I just felt so overwhelmed ❤you encouraged me so much thank you. I am subscribing now ❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 3 ай бұрын
@@elizabethjohnston3065 wow! I’m so glad! We got this sis! Keep pressing! ♥️♥️♥️
@aliciafrazier6108
@aliciafrazier6108 Жыл бұрын
Wheww!! I needed to hear this. So glad that I found your page.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
Yay! I’m so glad! I will be making another video for single moms this week! ♥️♥️
@Mayan144
@Mayan144 8 ай бұрын
Definitely a pick me up video! Thank you so much for this.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 8 ай бұрын
Yay! You’re so welcome! ♥️🫶🏾
@milcahdiesob3799
@milcahdiesob3799 7 ай бұрын
You just made me cry 😭😩 this morning and realizing there is a lot I haven't done, a lot of unforgiving spirit, a lot of no appreciation since I'm so focused on what I don't have and what I have lost, I definitely need to do better 🙏.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 7 ай бұрын
Sis, we are all a working progress and on this journey we won’t always get it right! However, if we are still here and still journeying we can make the prominent changes we need to keep bettering ourselves! You got this! I’m proud of you and your new journey! Best of luck to you.🫶🏾🙏🏾
@Cayyfitness
@Cayyfitness 10 ай бұрын
Girl, Thank you for making this. Every single thing you said is currently happening. Trying to push through and tonight was one of those nights. I’m learning to be present, even when I don’t want to. On the basis on asking for help, it’s hard when you don’t have much help. Only one person to rely on that I can trust. Hopefully got will show me who else is around to help, that I can trust. Thank you for this video! A blessing trully. ❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 10 ай бұрын
Sis! You got this and when you don’t lean all the way into God bc he definitely does! I’m glad you found this video! I am believing that this year will be one of your better years! I will be praying that God sends you the right help!♥️♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 you’re doing a great job!
@Cayyfitness
@Cayyfitness 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much🫶🏾🫶🏾
@nanibaines8427
@nanibaines8427 4 ай бұрын
I’m glad that I saw this content video. It was very inspiring. I’m a single mother with two teenage twin boys and sometime life get the best of me and like all the rest of the single mothers some days im just so tired and and be so much. I don’t have no time for myself because. I know my kids didn’t ask to come in this world and I try to show up every day sometimes make me feel like I’m losing my identity of who I am or what i wanted be in life but as you said i just need be patience with myself and need to love myself more and take care of me so I can take care of them and pray more find a support system im try to do better i want to be good mom to my boys thank you for this beautiful words angel god bless u keep it up good work of inspiring all single moms love u guys😢❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 3 ай бұрын
Yes sis! We all know what it’s like to feel overwhelmed and like you have no time for yourself! Continue to pray, tap into your faith, fight the negative thoughts back with positivity and Gods word. And remember that what is won’t always be. Give yourself the grace and continue to do the best you can. We are here for you!♥️🫶🏾💕🙏🏾
@fatimazafer7108
@fatimazafer7108 2 ай бұрын
Needed this so bad! Youre so beautiful.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 2 ай бұрын
Awww, I’m so glad! Thank you so much!!♥️
@folakeoluleye4652
@folakeoluleye4652 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for the kind words. Needed it
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 4 ай бұрын
@@folakeoluleye4652 I’m so glad!♥️♥️♥️
@parrishmarshall2009
@parrishmarshall2009 8 ай бұрын
This is how I used to be never asking for help 4yrs into motherhood now And I NEED HELP and still can’t get it from ANYONE 😭
@theliterarytarot
@theliterarytarot 7 ай бұрын
I feel that
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 7 ай бұрын
Praying that God will surround you with a good village or put someone who loves you and your children in your corner. I know it’s not easy, but keep pushing love.🫶🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@WandaLeBlanc-sd1tf
@WandaLeBlanc-sd1tf 8 ай бұрын
I just ran across your videos. It's very awesome!. I'm a single mom, a widow actually and I also have guardianship over my granddaughter who's three and I am 55. I definitely need a career and a good support system because I do not have one. Again, thank you for making this video.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 8 ай бұрын
Wow! I’m so glad you came across this video! God bless you for taking care of your grandchildren and I’m sorry for your loss as well. May god continue to give you the strength and bless you with the right caterer! You got this! By Gods grace!♥️🙏🏾🫶🏾
@altoniabragg4112
@altoniabragg4112 2 ай бұрын
this is a year old but at this moment this was very needed !
@queendavion7057
@queendavion7057 6 ай бұрын
thank you so much this helped me❤️ this is my first pregnancy and although I have support, My emotions are everywhere and I haven’t been feeling like myself. This made me realize I need to be kind to myself❤️😘😘
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 6 ай бұрын
Congrats to you and your little one on the way! I’m so glad this video was helpful to you! Yes, remember to be kind to yourself! ♥️♥️♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾 you got this!
@wheat7872
@wheat7872 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this video, I got a lot positive energy from it. Great to see you smile all the time.😊
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 4 ай бұрын
I’m so glad I could share! Glad you enjoyed it! 🫶🏾
@lulasimpson5257
@lulasimpson5257 Жыл бұрын
Today was hard but watching your video put a smile on my face thank you sweetie and yes make more videos 🥰🥰 god bless you ❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad! And yes, I definitely will be making more videos! Thanks for the confirmation!!♥️♥️♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@indi_brii_00
@indi_brii_00 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this with me. I’m really going through it with my kids father.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 11 ай бұрын
You’re welcome love! Hopefully this video was somewhat encouraging! You will make it through. ♥️🫶🏾💯🙏🏾
@edithcestero_
@edithcestero_ 6 ай бұрын
could’nt sleep last night I been going through such a dark season… I literally got on KZbin and typed “Motivational videos for single moms” and you popped up. All I can say is I needed this! Thank You 🙏🏻🫶🏻
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 6 ай бұрын
@@edithcestero_ awww, this makes my heart smile! I’m so glad that the video blessed you! Keep going mama, you got this!♥️🫶🏾💕 more importantly God has you!
@yourstrulyniah126
@yourstrulyniah126 Ай бұрын
Thank you 🤍 Godly woman always shine ! Always the best advice 😭☀️
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Ай бұрын
@@yourstrulyniah126 you’re welcome! I’m so glad! Thank you for your feedback sis!♥️♥️♥️
@bailaartista1787
@bailaartista1787 5 ай бұрын
I resonated with everything you said. I’m grateful you made this video and after I feel better. ☺️🙏🏽💗
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 5 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you watched it! Thanks for the feedback! You got this mama!♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾
@kleighrocket4895
@kleighrocket4895 7 ай бұрын
THANK YOU SIS. I REALLY NEEDED THIS
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 7 ай бұрын
You’re so welcome love! We got this!🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@Christina-rq3ed
@Christina-rq3ed 7 ай бұрын
Im checking in,my name is Christina D. And it's great to be present at this moment.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 7 ай бұрын
Yes! Thanks for checking in! ♥️🫶🏾
@LindaMilo-Ross
@LindaMilo-Ross 12 күн бұрын
This was so amazing...I'm so full❤❤❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 12 күн бұрын
@@LindaMilo-Ross yay! I’m so glad! We got this!♥️🫶🏾
@RanaLeeJi
@RanaLeeJi 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Washing my heart in the love vibrations. ❤️✨
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 8 ай бұрын
Awww! Yay! I’m so glad!♥️
@LenweeBaridammon
@LenweeBaridammon 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this. I feel strengthened.....❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 5 ай бұрын
I’m so glad!!♥️♥️♥️
@LighthouseTarot7
@LighthouseTarot7 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much been a single mom of my almost 6 year old daughter definitely struggle asking for help could you do a video on how to have more me time?
@kentajackson1992
@kentajackson1992 Жыл бұрын
I am so grateful I came across your video 💜. I needed to hear everything you said. Thanks, Queen 🌻!
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
Awww, I’m so glad! Thanks for watching! Be encouraged sis!💕💕
@Lotusbythesea
@Lotusbythesea 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. It's been so validating and encouraging on this sabbath morning ❤️. I hope you continue to make videos! And your beat boxing is a vibe ☺️ lol
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 6 ай бұрын
Awww! I’m so glad! Happy sabbath! And I will be making more! Thanks for the feedback!🫶🏾♥️
@chapterswithkhanyi7309
@chapterswithkhanyi7309 2 ай бұрын
Better not Bitter, love this. And the rap session🎉🎉🎉🎉 heyiii
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 2 ай бұрын
Yasssss!!! No doubt! And yeah, I have to bust out in rap every now and then! ♥️😂😂
@PhantayshiaIvy
@PhantayshiaIvy 10 ай бұрын
I really… really needed this… thank you so much for making this
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 10 ай бұрын
Awesome! I’m so glad! We got this!🫶🏾♥️
@izabelabayerova6936
@izabelabayerova6936 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Hello from Czech Republic ❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Ай бұрын
@@izabelabayerova6936 I’m so glad you liked it!♥️🫶🏾
@LisaGeller-d2i
@LisaGeller-d2i 8 ай бұрын
Thank you! God bless you! I needed to hear everything you talked about today!
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 8 ай бұрын
You’re so welcome! Thank you so much! Im so glad! Stay encourage sis!♥️🫶🏾🙏🏾
@loisekaranja7900
@loisekaranja7900 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for the video. I feel encouraged. I will be a more better mum..Lean on God and depend on Him🎉🎉 that's my take home❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 10 ай бұрын
Awww, yay! I’m so excited! Yes, we got this and when we feel like we don’t God does! Wishing you the best!♥️🫶🏾
@mercynjoroge3117
@mercynjoroge3117 10 ай бұрын
Such sound advise. Thank you so much mum. I needed this 😊
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 10 ай бұрын
I’m so glad!! Thanks for the feedback love! ♥️🫶🏾 we got this!
@Me-aubrey-and-eyeshadow
@Me-aubrey-and-eyeshadow 5 ай бұрын
Great video, great advice.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much! I’m glad it was helpful! 🫶🏾
@carina5230
@carina5230 8 ай бұрын
Thank you, God bless you. Positive attitude.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 8 ай бұрын
God bless you too! We got this!♥️
@jessicagarrett9946
@jessicagarrett9946 5 күн бұрын
❤thank you, amen sister! Doing it! ✌️🙏 💪
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 5 күн бұрын
I’m so glad! We got this!♥️
@InfinitePossibilities808
@InfinitePossibilities808 Жыл бұрын
You made my day! Love you!!!
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
Yay! I’m so glad! Love you more!♥️🥰
@Valencespot
@Valencespot 11 ай бұрын
Good morning Sandra👋
@emmanuelbabaranti9863
@emmanuelbabaranti9863 8 ай бұрын
I believe that a woman should be able to look up to her man for protection, for well being, and for strength. I intend on fulfilling these roles without failure, I will be this one special woman's knight in shinning armor. This special woman will know that I am deeply in love with her, for I am the type of man that showers her in my love, Whether it be flowers, gifts of candy or jwelry, or just a simple "I love you" and a kiss, she will always know she is loved and appreciated. The only person that truly knows that answer is God himself. I am willing to take the chance and see, if you are willing to get along you seems so sweet. Someone once told me "It is better to have lived life and regret what we have done, than to never have lived and regret doing nothing." I believe this to be true. If you decide that you are interested in discovering the real me and seeing if I'm the man you are searching for, please write back to me. I will patiently be awaiting your letter. I really cant wait to get a response from you .I am looking forward to your response
@mariahvernon5052
@mariahvernon5052 Жыл бұрын
It’s giving Issa frim insecure. Love this for you can’t wait to see more ❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
Awww, I love her so much!lol && thank you so much! ♥️🫶🏾😌
@da6356
@da6356 8 ай бұрын
God bless you and greatly reward you, this really helped me
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 8 ай бұрын
I’m so glad it helped! Thanks for the feedback!♥️🫶🏾
@singlemomwellness
@singlemomwellness 3 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 3 ай бұрын
You’re welcome!♥️
@PriestessMamaOgbu
@PriestessMamaOgbu 8 ай бұрын
This just helped me relieve my day ty sis 😢🙏🏾😭
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 8 ай бұрын
I’m so glad ! By Gods grace we got this! Keep pressing! ♥️🙏🏾
@Healwithnicole_
@Healwithnicole_ 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much I really needed this 🥺❤️‍🩹
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 3 ай бұрын
@@Healwithnicole_ I’m so glad! We got this!♥️♥️
@JoyChosen
@JoyChosen 2 жыл бұрын
🤍✨Yes motherhood is a ton of emotions rolled into one. Such a beautiful and challenging thing. We got this because God got us! Jesus is with us and he will never leave nor forsaken us!🤍✨
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! ♥️ than an so much for your comment! We got this!☺️
@Liesl437
@Liesl437 5 ай бұрын
I recommend this to stay at mom's who's husband's are working away for months or weeks at a time.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 5 ай бұрын
@@Liesl437 yes! It could work for them as well! Thanks for the feedback!🫶🏾
@quitaginger7122
@quitaginger7122 Жыл бұрын
😂😂u still got tht flow but shout out to the single moms fr who’s making it happen 🎉🎉🎉
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
Lol thanks sis!!
@kaykayhealingmusic
@kaykayhealingmusic 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this girl ❤❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 4 ай бұрын
You’re so welcome love!♥️♥️♥️
@kembrya7766
@kembrya7766 2 жыл бұрын
Great tips! Thank you for sharing what has worked for you throughout your journey as a young mom. Keep being a light and looking good while doing so. I love the ponytail and the Tuskegee lipstick.🥰
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much mom! I am glad to share these tips! And yesssss, I love that lipstick!
@herjourneywithin_
@herjourneywithin_ Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. I love your energy! God bless you❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
Awww, thank you so much! ♥️♥️
@monichan6642
@monichan6642 9 ай бұрын
Thank you, I needed this today. And btw, Ruby Woo has been my fav color lipstick for over 20 years!
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 9 ай бұрын
Awww, you’re so welcome! And yesss, I love Ruby Woo! It’s my thing now! ♥️🫶🏾
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 9 ай бұрын
Awww, you’re so welcome! And yesss, I love Ruby Woo! It’s my thing now! ♥️🫶🏾
@zeef5960
@zeef5960 6 ай бұрын
Love this ❤. New subscriber. I would love to hear more single mother content.❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 6 ай бұрын
Awesome! Thanks so much for the feedback! A new video will be dropping this week!🫶🏾🫶🏾♥️
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for the feedback!
@Alexandria_lee12
@Alexandria_lee12 6 ай бұрын
Beautiful video thank you
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 6 ай бұрын
Of course! We got this!❤❤
@Maimuna_joy
@Maimuna_joy 5 ай бұрын
Thank you 🥹💛
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 5 ай бұрын
You’re welcome! You got this!♥️🫶🏾
@vanessaaragon655
@vanessaaragon655 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! This really helped me.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 7 ай бұрын
Yay! I’m so glad! You got this! 🫶🏾🫶🏾
@rosariocatherinearbulupalo1351
@rosariocatherinearbulupalo1351 9 ай бұрын
Thank you ao much for sharing this, I really needed to hear it.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 9 ай бұрын
Of course! I’m so glad! ♥️🫶🏾
@freedomofspeech2420
@freedomofspeech2420 6 ай бұрын
I’ll be newly single soon, looking for a place now. In school, have a toddler, special needs child. It’ll be hard but I’m learning.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 5 ай бұрын
Definitely saying a prayer today that all things will work out for your good and that God would continue to give you the grace and patience!🫶🏾♥️🙏🏾
@adrianamcgill461
@adrianamcgill461 3 ай бұрын
Thanks Sis 🎉🫶
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 3 ай бұрын
@@adrianamcgill461 you’re so welcome!♥️♥️
@ayshab2105
@ayshab2105 7 ай бұрын
Newly single with three kids Karma often wondering why I made this choice. Then I think back to the situations. I do accept it😢
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 7 ай бұрын
Hey sis! Accepting your situation and not blaming yourself/giving yourself grace daily is the best thing you can do. I think daily, reminding yourself that you still have purpose and that nothing you’ve gone through will be wasted is important. Also, practicing daily gratitude has been very helpful for me on my journey. And remember these days won’t last forever. Sending you love and healing. ♥️🫶🏾
@EvelynJoy
@EvelynJoy 6 ай бұрын
Gurl! I love your advice and I love your spirit!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 6 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you !!♥️♥️♥️♥️
@LVARockets
@LVARockets 7 ай бұрын
Love this!!!
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 7 ай бұрын
Yay! I’m so glad!♥️♥️🫶🏾🫶🏾
@franciscasarpong
@franciscasarpong Жыл бұрын
You’re amazing sis
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 11 ай бұрын
Thanks love! You are as well! 🫶🏾🫶🏾
@michellem5553
@michellem5553 5 ай бұрын
I also need Gd badly. I have such a hard time waking up in the morning when my daughter is up
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 5 ай бұрын
I know! It’s hard to find time to spend with him, but just talk to him out loud and whenever you get time throughout your day to play a quick message or to read a scripture or to pray just try to fit it in. It will lift your spirit immensely!♥️🫶🏾
@kristinsmithwilliams2601
@kristinsmithwilliams2601 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story, you are beautiful inside and out!! “Kicking the stinking thinking” 😂😂😂😂 took me out! LOL…Subscribing!
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much cousin! And hahaha I couldn’t think of anything else! Lol
@kiaraharris826
@kiaraharris826 11 ай бұрын
Omg 😢I love this ❤ really needed this motivation 💪🏾💪🏾
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 11 ай бұрын
Yay! I’m so glad! You got this love! 🫶🏾☺️
@LaQuemini
@LaQuemini Жыл бұрын
You're doing a great job.
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!♥️
@adrianamaclennan7832
@adrianamaclennan7832 3 ай бұрын
My husband had four strokes and he is now in a home. I am so game mom to my young teen daughter. There are days and moments i am like. I’m DONE WITH THIS LIFE. lord Jesus help me to keep going
@evauganda6593
@evauganda6593 3 ай бұрын
@Adrian...my heart goes out to you! Listen, EXACTLY what you said at the end: "Lord Jesus help me to keep on going" is exactly what you need to keep on repeating daily. TRUST ME, He hears you, whether you say it quietly or loudly, as long as your heart posture is deeply crying out to Him! Don't stop. As long as you and your daughter are still alive, Jesus Christ still has a bigger plan for you. Please do not give up or give in to these circumstances. Do you know that when God has big plans for you that when the enemy comes at us like a flood; but the good Book also says, God then raises the standard, and He always prevails, as long as we remain in Him. With God (you and Him) are a majority! Please continue to lean on Him, through His Word, prayer and He'll give you the peace, comfort and all you need to not only survive but to thrive. Be and remain blessed my sister in Christ.
@marinethsanchez
@marinethsanchez 2 жыл бұрын
Sending to all of my single mommy friends ❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 2 жыл бұрын
Awww, thank you sis!
@emmanuelbabaranti9863
@emmanuelbabaranti9863 8 ай бұрын
I believe that a woman should be able to look up to her man for protection, for well being, and for strength. I intend on fulfilling these roles without failure, I will be this one special woman's knight in shinning armor. This special woman will know that I am deeply in love with her, for I am the type of man that showers her in my love, Whether it be flowers, gifts of candy or jwelry, or just a simple "I love you" and a kiss, she will always know she is loved and appreciated. The only person that truly knows that answer is God himself. I am willing to take the chance and see, if you are willing to get along you seems so sweet. Someone once told me "It is better to have lived life and regret what we have done, than to never have lived and regret doing nothing." I believe this to be true. If you decide that you are interested in discovering the real me and seeing if I'm the man you are searching for, please write back to me. I will patiently be awaiting your letter. I really cant wait to get a response from you .I am looking forward to your response
@Simibabyy
@Simibabyy 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ❤❤❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 11 ай бұрын
You’re so welcome love!♥️🫶🏾
@DrineThePoet
@DrineThePoet 6 ай бұрын
I so needed this. Thank you.😢❤
@Rhiajanay
@Rhiajanay 6 ай бұрын
I’m so glad! You got this! ♥️🫶🏾
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