Single Mom, *tried* dating again | VLOG & STORY TIME

[@amandastewart1358]

As a mom of a toddler, I really enjoy the sit down conversations about motherhood. They makes me feel understood and less alone . Some mom vloggers constantly film their kids playing, talking, etc., and watching it almost feels creepy. Thank you for having a healthy balance of sharing about your daughter/talking about parenthood while still maintaining her privacy

[@jen___b089]

Omg this!!! A mummy vlogger did a whole video last week on her 7 year old girls bedroom. I felt so weird seeing that

[@melindadupuis]

I agree with this 100%!

[@mimilovinglife4544]

Here for this comment!

[@giginoel]

💯

[@RebeccaM-h9m]

It's so sad to see isn't it!! Makes me feel disgusting every time!!

[@elife415]

I met my soulmate shortly after I swore off dating and decided to focus all of my energy on growing within myself and fulfilling all my needs. I think we attract better suited mates when we are taking care of ourselves the best we can. You will be just fine and everything is going to work out, just watch. ❤

[@captivated388]

I think it’s awesome you’re showing your daughter less, for her own privacy and autonomy. Yes I found you through motherhood videos and that’s a big part of who you are but it’s not the only part. You can also share motherhood experiences from your perspective without showing her in the videos. People have been following you for a long time and you’ve always seemed to have a diverse content that changes with your life. I think that’s great so don’t feel stuck thinking “I have to share mom content or my followers will leave.” We’re here because we like YOU, and all that you bring to the table. 💕

[@xosarahstreams]

“I’m in a white sun dress.. with my beige bag.. I don’t live dangerously” lmfao 😂 that says it all! 💕

[@LizAkyxl]

Why are guys so unserious these days? “Date other people” LOL. That is the biggest joke. Bro, she has a child - what made you think she’d be unserious/ up for casual dating? One advice: please don’t ask a guy when he’d like to go on a date again, an interested man will let you know.

[@ashleysalazar2012]

There are plenty of men that are serious. I think sometimes women want to change a man. There are good men that want a wife but it's not going to be a pig you meet online or in a bar.

[@valeriiearce]

We are also assuming that this guy wants to be in a monogamous relationship. I know lots of people who are in loving, serious polyamorous relationships. I think people need to start the conversations asking what TYPE of relationship they are looking for. NEVER assume people want to be in a monogamous relationship in 2023

[@morenomijangos1]

Agree! A man should always be the one to pursue….not the other way around. If he is truly interested he’ll do it naturally. If not…..move along

[@Beatleslvr4ever]

I really think it may just translate to something deeper as in he didn’t actually fall for her nor did he feel a romantic connection with her. He wasn’t the right one for her anyway so God took care of it. She will find the one for her and so will he. Guys also can think they want to date around and not be serious but then they also forget they can fall in love at any given moment lol

[@rachelklock5947]

Because men know that these days they can just date around and fck and the woman will still pay 50/50. Men have it so easy these days

[@aleeymeow]

You were so cute when you were describing your white dress and beige bag and how you don't live dangerously. You're doing a great job mama! don't worry about these guys and dating... all will fall into place when it is meant to. Live your life, go on those girl night dates with your friends, and who knows... maybe you'll meet someone when you least expect it. You deserve the best though, don't settle or lower your expectations or desires!

[@pualabears8412]

I dunno, I was thinking a white dress and beige bag is pretty risky being a parent...I've not worn anything white for years 😂

[@taylorbittner826]

Needed to see this today. I’ve always been about a year behind you with pregnancy, birth, raising a kid etc. so you’re my go to for all things motherhood bc I feel like we are very similar with the kind of mothers we want to be to our daughters. Seeing you coming out the other side and finding yourself again and knowing I’m not too far behind you is very comforting even though I’m loving the stage I’m rn so much

[@tasyd10]

Just a little tip generally for people trying to date on apps - you can have all the right intentions to take things seriously etc, but you have to remember that the other party needs to commit 100% too. And it's something you should address straight away. Just saves time knowing each other's intentions and also prevents heartbreak from misunderstandings. It really can work out for some but unfortunately not many are on those apps for anything serious. But Brittany I hope you find a partner that commits to you and gives you the love and care that you and your daughter deserve ❤

[@selenafanyo2]

So my daughter is 2 1/2 and I feel the same way where she’s starting to show her personality a lot more, learning fast, there’s talking back and forth, she loves being involved with what I do and I look forward to each day a lot more. (Infant stages were hard for me) so I can relate! And with this new chapter helps me focus on what I enjoy too, seeing her enjoy life by learning to express herself is really rubbing off on me I’ve been wanting to cook more, find what I really want to do, get a side hustle, spend more time in nature, find my style again. I’d like to see videos of like how you used to do of just anything beauty. Videos of what arrow likes to do. Maybe teaching arrow things? Going on a trip? You and your friends? You’re always good at being relatable though. Thanks for the time you put in your videos 🌞

[@selenafanyo2]

May I add I’ve been following you for a while and did go back to your older videos but knowing more about your growing up, passions in all this KZbin stuff, your goals in your career etc would be cool.

[@gabbythomas3577]

Just here to say I love watching your channel. I have a 2yo daughter and your videos make me feel like my mom vibes are normal - the ups, the downs and in between! I appreciate your honesty and openness! Your coparenting and single mom life is also something I admire! 💕

[@alleyj826]

I can’t stand how so many guys jump to “I don’t want a girlfriend” if you show any kind of interest!? Like who said I was ready to settle down with you after one date!? CHILL

[@lalitalokenauth5286]

I feel like I’m going thru single motherhood right along with you, my daughter is a week younger than Arrow. I agree with all of it: dating, motherhood, self-care, etc. 3 is a magical age so far and she’s turning into her own person right in front of my eyes. Yes, I feel like I have some freedom back and can focus on rediscovering myself and learning new things and focus a bit more on me. So glad to be able to share this journey with you & Arrow!

[@brittanybalyn]

I'm curious, has the kind of content you enjoyed watching changed? Which KZbinrs do you watch and why? xoxo

[@Chynnalovestocook]

Rawbeautykristi she is very wholesome and I relate to her in mother hood! Akaasilinn she has some bomb hair content and makeup content also wholesome. You of course wholesome content and I love seeing you and arrows journey. I like relatable but also wholesome content.😊

[@olivia_ismyname]

Love your content! I’ve personally enjoyed all of it, I have a daughter who will be 3 in September so EVERYTHING is sooo relatable. The only other KZbinrs I watch all their content are Drew from LoneFox & Xo,MaCenna (both home decor). Besides your content, I watch all yours too 😊

[@preciousvergara3356]

Im really loving your new content and the gym girl era ✨

[@Marieeeeeeeee]

I like to watch madisun gray she has a lot of minimalist content and it motivates me to declutter

[@lindsaymiller1669]

Yes! It’s changed as my life has changed. Now that I’m married with kids, I watch more mom vloggers and ISO Christian/Catholic mom vloggers too. Still true to my OG KZbinrs that I feel like I’ve grown up with though.

[@mamataylor1624]

My daughter was born a week after yours. It really is way less lonely at this age - they can (mostly) hold a conversation, play ‘make believe’, hide & seek. It’s so much fun! As far as napping, mine through a bad phase where she would NOT nap. It felt like ages but was probably just a few weeks. This was around 2.5. Now she naps ~75% of the time, and does quiet time with books if she isn’t asleep. I may or may not bribe with an M&M if she naps, kinda like we did with potty training. It is what it is. I need a lunch break. Wishing you the best :)

[@pamfrt6366]

Yes please share more about once your daughter turned 3 things that changed for you. Any favorites? My daughter is two and I feel in a roller coaster.

[@beatricebaysinger8399]

This!! I have just about given up on dating! I got divorced in 2021 and tried to date right after that but the men in my area just wanted casual sex… not my vibe. I went through nursing school and now being single forever is starting to sound okay haha

[@Beccarie_g]

I am a mom of an almost 3-year-old boy and I was not expecting to have entire conversations w/ my bubs already their personality is developing it is so amazing. I plan to start going to the gym again and focus on my mental health. He's full-time in preschool while I work and now I have time to find my hobbies again.

[@min1549]

Also, majority of ppl on dating apps just want to date multiple people at the same time anyways, Britt you are a great catch, the less you fix on dating the more chances a good partner will come your way when you least expect it

[@samcobb1353]

Our (almost) 3 year old daughter has semi phased out of naps. Some days she naps and naps hard, some days she doesn’t. It depends on what all we’ve been doing and her overnight sleep, etc. She isn’t in preschool or anything, so her schedule is a lot more flexible and we find that it works really well for us. Our 21 month old naps almost every single day without fail but his attitude and personality is getting big, crazy, and wild. It’s interesting and fascinating just how different they are with naps and personality. Soak up and enjoy every phase as that phase will never happen again. As always, love your videos!

[@taliasproul1276]

Would love to see a mix of both! As a mom, I’ve appreciated the mom content since Arrow was born (with respect to her privacy) but would be open to other content.

[@ftmbytalita]

What’s meant to be will be! I think you have done the hard part which is work on yourself, and you continue to do so. You’re literally glowing and honestly, your person will fall for you even in your worse days at the grocery store ❤ Just keep your heart open and I’m sure the opportunity will arise. You’re beautiful inside and out- one should be so lucky!

[@naliyah9415]

I love the “focusing” on me more videos! I just recently realized i haven been locked in on a just mommy mode for 3yrs!! It would be nice to try new thing inspired by you❤️❤️

[@samanthatucker7796]

I discovered your channel while I had a new born during COVID and she is turning 3 on New Years now. It has felt like a lifetime and I finally do feel like a person again after feeling like I didn't exist. You are killing it, I just wanted to say that I love your follow ups and am so impressed that you stopped filming your daughter. I made a decision to stop posting her after she turned 1 and more so because I realized she may not want pictures of her all over the internet. I don't know what she is going to like, but we will make that decision with her consent. Thank you for everything you do and the struggles you show!

[@tansauder]

Whatever you’re up to, we just wanna see 😂 love the day in the life vlogs!! The more mundane the better lol

[@Salutlaurie]

Don’t be kind to this man. They send this type of message to everyone it’s so insane it almost seems like a copy paste. We all live the same dating life lol I’m tired

[@denieceb2766]

This is why I stopped dating! A lot of men are trash but I think it’s more us picking guys that are toxic because of how we grew up. We only see what we are used to, unfortunately 😢

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

Don’t chase no one sweetheart it’s not worst it at all !!! Focus on your goals and purpose let a man come to You that god will sent you

[@raquelf2564]

When the right person is meant to come into your life, he will knock at your door if that is what it takes. Don’t worry, I was in your shoes once and he literally showed up when I least expected it! ❤

[@Pinupred21]

Currently on vacation but I always make time for your videos ❤

[@Beccarie_g]

Also your videos are so refreshing on motherhood and feel like a mama friendly community

[@dizzlecookie]

I would love to watch all the things from you!! Cooking, hobbies, heck I like to watch clean with me and organizing videos too lol! I'm totally in the same place of rediscovering things that I want to do and not feeling like my whole life revolves around motherhood. It took a few years for me to feel like I have the mental space for it. Also my 2 1/2 year old went through a solid 2 months with no naps and then they came back, so maybe there's some hope.

[@theycallmebambi3514]

Here in Germany most 3year olds don't nap. In daycare they can deside whether they want to nap or play so basically everyone is playing.

[@katiecrowley88]

You’re doing so great Brittany, mumming is so hard and you do it with such grace. My middle child is a similar age to Arrow and it’s such a beautiful age. I also have a 3 month old so I’m far from my rediscovering myself era but I’m so looking forward to it.

[@senzarimpianti]

My daughter will be 3 in august. I’m still getting her to nap 6 out of 7 days because I have her motivated to get something when she wakes up (special toy, smoothie, etc) I have her pick before nap what she wants to get/do if she naps and it works 😊 if she doesn’t nap, she doesn’t get whatever she had picked and we talk about how we can try again tomorrow at next nap time

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

The choices you make today shape your world tomorrow

[@tatyanadefoe5141]

It’s hit or miss with my 3 year old napping. He definitely needs the nap because he’s a nightmare by the end of the day but he fights it. I have a 5 year old as well and she went through this same stage. We still implement “quiet time” even when she fully dropped her nap around 3.5/4 (and she still has quiet time at 5)

[@taylorkaufman4574]

My daughter is almost 4 and she stopped taking naps around 3 years old. She will once in a while take a nap if we are at the beach or have a busy day. I love the 3's!

[@brittanybalyn]

The day after I filmed this she did end up napping, so I have hope. If we drop naps that'll be okay because 3 is so fun!

[@sgrace-222]

“and ummm.. i’m in a white sundress.. with my beige bag.. i don’t live dangerously” lol 😂 8:41

[@rachaelesque3]

So, my daughter is nearing 4 ( she’ll be 4 the end of October) About a month ago she stopped napping all together, and her nighttime sleep was all out of whack as well. She would wake up 1:30 in the morning, two, three. I started suspecting it might be night terrors so now she sleeps with her salt lamp on and has an OK to wake alarm that turns green when it’s OK for her to get out of bed and that seems to have put the independence/control back on her. I would like to say she has fully regained napping status, but she is spotty at best. I have been putting on a Sleepytime 3 Hour Loop lullaby thing on KZbin in her room in the hopes it would bring about a nap and I will say 70% of the time she does end up falling asleep to it, then the rest of the time will just be her quiet time/ independent play. My kid has been like clockwork for every mile stone or regression but this one came out of nowhere after a 2 year routine , but now we seem to be managing this one pretty well. Hang in there!

[@user-vn6xo2tc9r]

Love these types of vlogs! 🫶✨🧡

[@BYSTUDIOKY]

My three year old stopped napping at home at 2ish! And still naps at school ! I alsooooo am obsessed with this three year phase :)

[@amesyaj3990]

I totally agree with you about how 3 hits different as a mom. My 3 year old still naps, but he fights it more.

[@yanak7159]

Toddlers not wanting to sleep is a phase. I had same thing with both of our kids. You just need to keep trying. One first would refuse to nap around 2-3, but I kept trying and after short time, he started taking naps again until he was 5yo.

[@ritacasaverde]

"I'm in a white sundress with my baby's bag, I don't live dangerously" 😆😆😂😂 on point.

[@ritacasaverde]

I like the house nesting videos, your routines with your little one (i have a 1.5yo), mom hacks, dating updates, mom realness, self care, traveling journey, etc. Not so into the product reviews.

[@hilaryhurd8842]

I was going to ride that nap wave until I couldn’t ride it anymore but my 3.5 year old decided he’s done. Every blue moon he’ll nap but for the most part he pushes through the day (maybe a quick car nap if we go somewhere). I follow his lead bc it was more of a fight for quiet time/nap time than it was just bringing him along with me for the whole day. I tell him I have to do some work and he’ll bring toys/watch tv/whatever until “nap time” is over.

[@georgialee5032]

My twins are a week younger than arrow and I definitely know what you mean, For the last 6 months I’ve been feeling like I just need to be my own person again and am in a place where my kids can be with other people so I can do that! Also I feel like I just don’t want to share them on social media that much anymore, my ig is private so it’s just family and friends but even then I’d rather just send the pictures to family members over text 😅 3 is cool but has been very challenging already, the tantrums are NEXT LEVEL

[@samanthalissette_]

Really enjoyed this chit chat, honest mom vlog. My little is 3yrs old and he stopped napping on his own. He would always refuse them so we just stopped.

[@Rudyhuxxtable_]

So true. My son is 3 1/2 and I’ve just gone back to school and trying to figure out myself again. I kind of feel like we have a good groove and routine and now mommy has a little more time. 3 has been a good time so far.

[@_emilialee]

I have no kids but I still love watching you I’m 27 this yr and probably been watching you since I was 17 🥲 you’ve always had this independent persona that seemed to naturally play out so in the present I love watching your content that depicts you having arrow and also what your life looks like outside of taking care of her. I’m not a single mom but the dating vlog was fun to watch lol ! And lol girl you could def meet someone at the grocery store a nice guy will think you looking a mess in the store is cute… look at you!

[@44cosmogurl]

Your thoughts on dating is exactly where my head is at. It feels overwhelming to try and date as a single mom 😭

[@jenf4616]

Mine stopped napping a few days a week around 2.5 but once she started swim lessons (when she turned 3) she started sleeping again. Now she absolutely needs them. But she’s also going to swim lessons 3/4 times a week so it may be draining her. I agree! 3 has felt less lonely! She’s her own little person with her strong opinions. I’m loving it.

[@BHtv0711]

Mom of a 3.5 year old here - my son stopped taking naps regularly at about 2.5 already :'D He hasn't ever been the best sleeper or napper, so for us it was more a positive thing than something to miss. Without having to schedule in a nap (be it at home or on the go), which was a struggle a lot of times, I feel like our days are less stressful. He sometimes napped at daycare, but of course he's more tired out there, so they let him (which in return led to later bedtimes at home, but oh well).

[@samanfersilyk]

for anyone considering betterhelp: please do your research on the company. they are horrible thieves.

[@rachelfarson]

My kiddos don’t always nap but we still have quiet time for an hour or so 😊

[@talt22]

Love your content! Just here to say that my son is three weeks younger then your daughter and is definitely starting to drop the naps. In his day care most children he’s age are not napping anymore

[@christinamock7264]

Haha, oh yeah I remember the napping struggle. Both my boys stopped napping by 2.5, but some of my friends had kiddos that napped until 4. I think it really just depends on the kid and the family lifestyle. Either way, you are doing a great job mama!

[@AG-yh6wq]

I have a 3yo, a few months older than yours. She went through a no nap thing but we stuck w it and it only lasted a short time. Now she’s back to full naps and really needs them. I read somewhere that it’s a leap thing and is normal at this age.

[@lizaleonhardt8837]

Love you! You are so real and refreshing.

[@Tamara.brown1993]

My 2 year old stopped napping the week after her 2nd birthday! Shes never been the greatest of nappers but i was really hoping the naps would last longer! Its SO difficult to get any housework done with a 2year old 🤣

[@genuinely_lina]

I hear you girl. Dating apps are not for me either. They just didn't work out for me so if you figure out how to meet people let me know bc apparently I can't figure it out myself 😅

[@meganf9029]

So same! My almost 3 year old is dropping her nap too and I feel like my blinders are coming off from the newborn/young toddler phase!!

[@othersbyuri]

My kiddo stopped napping before 3. I gave up, was taking me an hour + to put down for an hour. I wfh also, was so exhausted I needed a nap after 😂

[@TheMsKimanna]

Story of my life! I'm a single mom and I don't know where and when I could ever find a man, but who knows..

[@nadiaaaaa]

I remember watching you in that old room with your friend!!! Omg you unlocked those memories haha ❤

[@evahymel4357]

I agree, 3 is such a good age! My daughter just turned 3 in March. Also we are struggling with the naps. She does naps at daycare, but on the weekends at home, she has been tending to skip them. She's done this before, so I think it's just a phase. I'm not ready to give up the nap life either!!

[@Ivejustneverbeentested]

Lol “Mommy is going to set a 10 minute timer” - Tell me you’re a Virgo without telling me you’re a Virgo 😂 xxx

[@sajronimakaroni8483]

"date other people!" this reminds me od the se* and the city scene when this one dude gets sicumstences and said "I cant setlle now i have to share him" hahaha this are just so stupid people to me

[@barborawittich5359]

My son will be 3 in 3months and past 2months he doesn’t really take naps- he has quiet time but doesn’t fall asleep. If he does take a nap we need to wake him up after one hour and it still means he will be up about hour later than his bedtime is in the evening

[@katelynbassett5626]

My son is 2.5 and he refuses naps at home. He says “the sun is still out” 🤦🏻‍♀️ but luckily he still naps. Daycare.

[@jenf4616]

No, Texas is 110! I’m melting over here.

[@athenaashleybates4363]

Love your vlogs! Can we start to see some longer ones?

[@leenymick7745]

My 2 year old stopped napping not long after her 2nd birthday. ( i had a hard time letting go of that little piece of free time😂) It was an absolute must. She was staying up till 10 or 11pm if we did nap time. So once we stopped, she went back to a 730 bedtime with a similar wake up time in the morning give or take a half hour.

[@123kressvicky]

The only way my son naps is if I either take him on a stroller or car ride! Been following you for quite sometime and I really appreciate your short and sweet videos! Easy to watch in a busy life with a toddler and I love your content! As a single mother I can 100 relate! You are doing amazing mama! Thank you for being you ❤

[@Beatleslvr4ever]

Girl you should date around too!keep doing it till you find the one cus i know you will! :)

[@MarianneMedlin-dz4dz]

I agree he should have told you that prior to the date & in person. However, I do really appreciate that at least his text was specific about what he is & is not bringing to the table. I also appreciate that you know yourself well enough to know that it won’t work for you. ❤

[@StefaniaKassiopaia]

0:23 for a second i thought he was wearing flip flops with socks. But no, it were just crocs 🤣🤣🤣 just….. crocs??? At the gym? 😮

[@chelsyrey3742]

I’m a mom to a 2 year old so I have yet to experience no naps with her, but I’m also a preschool teacher of 3.5-4 year olds. Many parents in my class don’t want their kids to nap because they say their kids are up so late at night it gets hard to put them down. However it gets so hard to keep kids awake. In my opinion all littles need a rest whether it be a 20 min or 2 hours. Kids bodies will tell them when they are tired and need a nap obviously it depends on what they do. Or else they’ll be cranky the whole day and they just need to recharge as we adults would love to have lol. So as long as naps don’t throw off her night schedule it’s good to keep trying cause it could be a phase.eventually they’ll ditch naps when they go into kindergarten so you still have some time to cherish those naps. 😂

[@MrsJillyBean55]

I’m here for the mom doing things for her journey 🎉❤ I’m a new mom and need to see what it’s like on the other side of things

[@NotThatDeep]

I love that he was honest or at least kind enough to not lead you on for s3x.

[@AllIAm1]

Yes three is the light at the end of the baby tunnel! Kid hood here we come!

[@Stephanie-rg2ri]

Can you do a video where you add all of the tips you received regarding women living alone?

[@silkwave5200]

He should be the one asking when he gets to see you next, especially early on. Otherwise you’ll be chasing forever, even into the relationship.

[@love_nyc_]

Tbh do NOT post anything on instagram until it is official ‼️‼️ I feel like anytime I tell anyone anything about any guy, it all goes south. Date in private, accept the ring 💍, and then share. Enjoy it to yourself ❤

[@preciousvergara3356]

I laughed at the “Im in a white sundress and beige bag” Hahah 9:50

[@brittanybalyn]

it wasn't screaming date 5 guys at once for me haha

[@ugarteg8563]

That's my pet peeve. When people ask me if I work. I wfh and apparently that doesn't count.

[@HollyBaby20]

oh we love the intro song !

[@emilycaillier3599]

I would love a mom”fashion” video. I feel like so many moms myself included lose are style or evolve and don’t know how to dress ourselves.

[@genesisguzman5882]

That’s me 😅

[@nicoleastraea]

You’re not supposed to be the one to ask THEM to see THEM. Let them do all the work and you’ll eventually see if he wants to be involved or not

[@美香米田-q9z]

Where's the grey rompers from? That's really cute!!

[@olivia_ismyname]

It’s so cute you brought Arrow to the gym too 🥹 also, my daughter stopped napping at about 2.5 😅

[@brittanybalyn]

The first 20 minutes were a breeze, the middle 20 minutes she watched and tried to join, the last 20 minutes when she was comfortable she RAN all over haha - but we made it work!

[@ElleMakesIt]

My child is 2.5 yrs and I just realized I'm a human again and have hobbies. So crazy how all consuming it is :)

[@nataashatorzsa]

My son is 3 in august, he stopped napping like 6 months ago. It sucks! I miss my midday nap 😢

[@nadinekba8989]

People are really going to be afraid to date you if you keep making videos about the stories haha I’m here for it though!

[@aliciamcguire2340]

Naps ended for both my older two at 3 but we did quiet time for a couple of hours in the middle of the day for an additional 6-10 months

[@andreaharper2380]

We have 3.5 hr old 4 in December, and there are quite a few days she skips nap at daycare and some weekends where sje just does not want to sleep here at home either. They are Threenagers!! Ugghhh save us!!

[@heidimargaret306]

Hi just do quite time if she doesn’t nap, make it clear to her she doesn’t have to nap but you have to stay in your room till a timer goes off it may help with earlier bed times 😀 you are killing it

[@NicoleLottLife]

My 3 1/2 year old is still napping. Couple days here and there she won’t- but in general she still is

[@vamprissJess1989]

Hit and miss with naps just depends on the days activities and what time she woke up. It’s tough when they wanna go to bed at 4 or 5 though

[@sarahwade8278]

Mine turns three next month. We are in the no nap zone and I am not here for it. Hoping it’s a phase also!

[@anad5238]

Awesome video😊