Stop saying “controlling!” He is not controlling. He is ABUSIVE. This is verbal, mental and emotional abuse. And he was smiling the whole time. He doesn’t give a shit about her
@EmpressNic7 ай бұрын
Hun I just typed that & I saw your comment. Straight user & abuser
@soniajhonen7 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!!
@debbiegarner73667 ай бұрын
Right abusive and he think he’s right
@tmoneyhoney147 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾perfectly stated
@paulavoncia7 ай бұрын
You hit the nail on the head. Soon he will be hitting her. He can be a stay-at-home father saving them excess money on daycare.
@Kickitwithshay7 ай бұрын
So let me get this straight…. It’s her house, her car, and he wanted her not to feed her children but feed their baby. She letting the nanny tell her want to do. On top of that he cheating and lying to her. That man is homeless. He married her and got her pregnant so he can have a place to feel like a man.
@tashathomas17147 ай бұрын
He wants to save the marriage because she is taking care of him.
@keisharenee1657 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@Morethanenuff757 ай бұрын
Yup
@tinajackson68757 ай бұрын
He's a bum, what kind of man doesn't work.
@leelee1857 ай бұрын
Typical
@chikid237087 ай бұрын
Pay to play 😂
@viviancoleman81097 ай бұрын
Any man that puts his wife the mother of his children out on the street does not care for you start planning your escape route take your kids and go.
@bryanbeeman52567 ай бұрын
She picked him and made the first move. She couldn’t resist. Nevertheless, I agree.
@AunteeShugahАй бұрын
Exactly
@SheniceSays2147 ай бұрын
He put you out on a freaking SIX LANE HIGHWAY with no purse and no phone. It’s way past time for her to be done.
@peacefaith5603 ай бұрын
With her car !! 🚘
@scottsh11207 ай бұрын
As Judge Lynn once said. I know the market is tight but you dont have to put up with foolishness and disrespect
@niece5857 ай бұрын
Amen
@evierose15307 ай бұрын
I got that part of the judge saying that phrase, such a powerful statement
@andreaaugustus43777 ай бұрын
‼️‼️‼️
@melissabrown-rose91837 ай бұрын
True
@Morethanenuff757 ай бұрын
He disrespectful to the mother is exactly how he treats the wife. He wants to make sure mom is out of the picture so he can have all control. Girl go!!!!
@nflglo18 күн бұрын
Honestly! Her mother needs to stay in her place....Her daughter is married the daughter need to control her self and figure things out...
@chevonefalls37477 ай бұрын
That smirk and smile on his face is pissing me off.
@Hannahrk97 ай бұрын
Lord please don't ever let me be this desperate for a man.
@melissabrown-rose91837 ай бұрын
Amen
@melissabrown-rose91837 ай бұрын
I would never deal with this. No one can control you unless you let them.
@BrittnePtheBestGirl7 ай бұрын
In Jesus name Amen
@sereneamani17137 ай бұрын
And then end up with someone who's not a man.
@shay-rae1387 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏿
@my57227 ай бұрын
This man don't like you. He just likes what you do for him. LEAVE & STAY GONE!
@lalabbyx7 ай бұрын
How women can't realise when a man don't like them BAFFLES me 🤣
@DianeScotts7 ай бұрын
@@lalabbyx And then to have MORE children with that slug. Ugh.
@ellaveldje71257 ай бұрын
@@lalabbyxwhy laugh? It could be your own child Someday
@d820m4 ай бұрын
@@ellaveldje7125 why laugh? Because some of that was funny as hell? 😂😂😂😂
@TheLady_Laura7 ай бұрын
He's sooo dusty! She's pretty and very sweet. I hope she dumped him and turned her life around.
@beautifullyblessed9857 ай бұрын
He only wants to stay because he has nothing
@keisharenee1657 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@AunteeShugahАй бұрын
Fact
@burnagirl1237 ай бұрын
this man is abusive and i’m disappointed judge star did not explicitly call it out. he forced her out of the house in the pouring rain, the car on a busy highway…he doesn’t care about her safety one bit. this marriage needs to end.
@tinajackson68757 ай бұрын
Exactly he needed to be told off by the judge
@ronnimartin70337 ай бұрын
EXACTLY 💯👍🏾 I've seen her suggest divorce for far less. She missed this one!!
@ronnimartin70337 ай бұрын
@@tinajackson6875facts!!
@jillianelliott46547 ай бұрын
He sure did. Judge Star dropped the ball on this one. She has been doing this a lot on the episodes that I've been watching lately. Which, makes me not want to watch. I miss Judge Toler! She would have read him up and down!
@meerajx7 ай бұрын
She keeps excusing the most wild behavior. Idk what that’s about. I agree. I miss toler. She has a level head
@jazzy59757 ай бұрын
She should've come with the divorce papers 😴😴😴
@globalcitizen83147 ай бұрын
I thought she did. She has the grey folder
@jazzy59757 ай бұрын
@@globalcitizen8314 I think the judge would have served them if she did
@takeishawhite49647 ай бұрын
She did have the divorce papers
@kattiethomas46874 ай бұрын
Definitely move on
@kattiethomas46874 ай бұрын
He thinks he's all that,with no respect or love
@beeautifuldreamer22117 ай бұрын
This is not a marriage. She needs to go.
@lovesyah46187 ай бұрын
He's no prize,plus no job, controlling and disrespectful. Hell no not up in here!!
@finestdime7 ай бұрын
Fr, what's he doing for her? NOTHING!
@sheilap98547 ай бұрын
This Guy Had A Smirk On His Face the Hold Time She Was talking about the things He's Done to Her🤔 Yet I Don't think She Wants to leave him🤔
@finestdime7 ай бұрын
We know she's not gonna kick him out. And yea she def ain't leaving. Why is beyond me. Cuz the chump is a loser in every way. Not providing for the household. Doesn't get up to take care of the kids. He needs more sleep? From what?!
@Ddofc7 ай бұрын
He doesn't have a job, he doesn't need sleep
@fabresianrhoden84597 ай бұрын
Lol
@leanderevans47367 ай бұрын
😂 💯
@catherineonwellness7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@BeeLynda-m3m7 ай бұрын
Silly
@akilahsimon98197 ай бұрын
Bum
@cooljj557 ай бұрын
He’s very sassy. Rubbed me the wrong way with his actions and words.
@mauricethomas6547 ай бұрын
I just said this!!!!! “Sis! He don’t want you!” 🫣🫣🫣
@kalynadams38267 ай бұрын
He needs a job and he will have less energy to be a rude individual
@neveradullmoment68827 ай бұрын
Put her out of the car? Ohhhh hell no
@sharonwilder75517 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@gailsmith8367 ай бұрын
Out of HER car. With her children still in it.
@neveradullmoment68827 ай бұрын
@@gailsmith836 Smh
@WesleyLindsey7 ай бұрын
I will NEVER understand why these ladies stay with the most lazy, MEAN, apathetic partners. You’d literally do better by yourself.
@charmainewalker86277 ай бұрын
Can’t understand 😮
@jannejames72247 ай бұрын
Desperate!!!
@michellemguni82987 ай бұрын
literally
@awesome.andrea7 ай бұрын
Patrichary is telling women everyday they need a man and is nothing without a man, this isn't mystery.
@onewapani7 ай бұрын
Incredibly low self esteem. Usually, a person attracts their parent. In her case, probably her own dad. I've taught seminars about it. It's almost a guarantee that this man is a shadow of someone else that was in her formative years in her life. Once a woman recognizes it, she changes herself esteem and her life for the better.
@briankenneth58187 ай бұрын
...a lack of self esteem is dangerous....she ain't going no where
@NikP80077 ай бұрын
Very dangerous
@niece5857 ай бұрын
Sadly
@ingridphillip53676 ай бұрын
Tell me about it!!!!!!!
@vanyeboah60756 ай бұрын
poor thang
@AunteeShugahАй бұрын
I pray as she leaves
@lindadewese67547 ай бұрын
He saw her coming,the wolves can smell their chosen victims "insecurities".
@bryanbeeman52567 ай бұрын
She spoke to him first…. What show are you looking at?
@wandagreene46687 ай бұрын
Girl, I got one question, why is she with him. You can tell by the look on his face she is speaking the truth, and you can tell by how she cowers, he is controlling. Please run Forest Run!
@minervaloves7 ай бұрын
I think he's probably manipulating her. I hope she gets some therapy to get stronger and leave that awful situation.
@bryanbeeman52567 ай бұрын
But she wanted him. She was calling out to him at the check cashing place. He wasn’t looking for her. she went for what she wanted and got him to marry her, which was what she wanted too.
@BeeLynda-m3m7 ай бұрын
Run
@doloresturner60947 ай бұрын
HOW IN THE HELL HE DOESN'T WORK, HE'S CHEATING AND DID I SAY CUTE NO I DIDN'T AND PUTTING HER WEAK BUT OUT THE HOUSE AND HER CAR IN FRONT OF THE CHILDREN OH HELL NO !! 🤨
@andreaaugustus43777 ай бұрын
Lmaooooo this the comment that took me out 😭😭😭 “Did I say cute, no I didn’t!” Lmaooooo
@sydneyc1007 ай бұрын
He just wants to drive people nuts. He gets asked a direct question, then answers with the most insignificant information that does not apply to the question asked. Unfortunately, his behavior isn't going to change because, like Judge said, she lacks self-respect and boundaries. ASKING a disrespectful person to respect you and continuing to deal with them is insane. She needs counseling.
@debbiejenkins78407 ай бұрын
RUN..... DONT WALK, RUNNNN
@viviancoleman81097 ай бұрын
You hear me these men don't want a woman they want a mama.
@pkjuliet7 ай бұрын
Facts!!!!
@northphillyp7 ай бұрын
.....This man snaps on her for waking him up early like he had a job to go to..Its a good thing her mom is there cuz chances are this divorce was finalized
@Yeshuadaughter7277 ай бұрын
Why is the judge not addressing the elephant in the room his abusive ways and why she is just dealing with it
@cynthiaward45127 ай бұрын
He looks like The Predator and acts like a broke buster..Sister get your babies and keep it moving..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@bryanbeeman52567 ай бұрын
But she hollared at him
@cynthiaward45127 ай бұрын
@@bryanbeeman5256 Yes, and now crying..tragic
@khigg407 ай бұрын
If you allow a person to disrespect you, they will. People must love themselves and demand more.
@khigg407 ай бұрын
I need Judge Toler. Divorce should've been recommended.
@Springshowers037 ай бұрын
A man that's not working wouldn't be in my home. She has allowed the mistreatment, so he's never gone stop. Yes, he cheats when a woman gives him the chance. She has to let it go. He's just there for the use of things and free rent
@keyeviondavis96477 ай бұрын
Mother and Daughter, wow could have sworn they were twins ❤💯
@ebbyf2947 ай бұрын
Yup they look the same age and all and Im not talking about 33
@adrnstanley7 ай бұрын
He seems a bit shallow and almost cognitively detached. I see some crazy in his eyes. She need to heal as far away from this fool as possible
@jesstheromantic7 ай бұрын
Judge Lynn would’ve called out the whole “I’ll change BUT…” statement. Judge Starr sometimes missed the ball by not course correcting in the moment.
@charmainewalker86277 ай бұрын
Exactly. She is insecure and thinks she can’t get any better
@finestdime7 ай бұрын
I think she didn't bother cuz she knows as well as we know, this chick ain't going no where. She let him kick her out 1 too many times.
@michelleroyall3517 ай бұрын
Judge Toler would have leveled him.
@karenjones77947 ай бұрын
He came in her life like a wrecking ball he is toxic get away from that dude pack up and move get your piece back baby girl
@andreataylor21137 ай бұрын
Can’t no man put me out my house where I’m paying all the bills! She had to walk out to be put out, I’m not going nowhere
@TheeMichellesMind7 ай бұрын
Exactly!!! 💯
@cadillacdeville58287 ай бұрын
He put you out several TIMES 😮! oh no
@SweetBeeNatural7 ай бұрын
I can't figure out why she married him. He sounds like a scrub.
@melaninandaura97137 ай бұрын
He sounds slow
@thebarbieinvestor54287 ай бұрын
You know these 🥷🏽 will 🍆🍆🍆 they way out of homelessness and to provision.
@thebarbieinvestor54287 ай бұрын
You know these 🥷🏽 will 🍆🍆🍆 they way out of homelessness and to provision.
@WesleyLindsey7 ай бұрын
Couldn’t even spend $10 at the local Lowe’s to get himself a new key
@t.c.54567 ай бұрын
Sounds like??😂😂😂 he IS
@bryanbeeman52567 ай бұрын
Two wrongs don’t make a right, but three lefts do….
@angiela34397 ай бұрын
I wouldn't DARE waste my life with him...girl RUN NOW!!!🤦🏾♀️
@pkjuliet7 ай бұрын
Exactly and don't turn back!!!
@ladygemini1237 ай бұрын
Listen girl he is not going to change. Run, run, run. He don't even look like nothing
@sharonwilder75517 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂
@elainecaldwelljoseph47057 ай бұрын
Leave. Why is he not working. When he put you out on the freeway…..
@melissawilliams11037 ай бұрын
He’s a child in a man’s body. He isn’t ready to be a husband neither father. Everyone knows when a baby is ready to eat you have to get up no matter how sleepy you are and feed the kids. Than he said feed one and not all three Jesus please fix it
@teresa_chosen7 ай бұрын
It’s sad that women need Judge star when he is a loser. He showed his representative and then showed who he really is. An abuser!!
@charmainewalker86277 ай бұрын
Exactly so often on these platforms I am thinking why do you need to come to court to see that your relationship isn’t work. Come on man women and men can’t be so insecure or desperate that they hang on to toxic controlling relationship. This man just isn’t mature to be in a relationship much being a parent
@niece5857 ай бұрын
They know exactly what they have they really don't need a co-signer
@HTAnderson767 ай бұрын
he never even showed his representative, he showed her exactly who he was from day ONE! Her MOM picked up on it, and that's what he doesn't like her Mom trying to talk sense into her daughter's mind. It's pathetic, truly
@nicolettemorr65887 ай бұрын
He is really mean to her. Doesn't protect her and isn't husband material.
@joeyjackson2007 ай бұрын
We can’t ignore the fact that judge star always looks amazing ❤
@Terryreality7 ай бұрын
Never to be ignored🤩
@bonitathompson16407 ай бұрын
she's sharp but not liking the hair thing -- yikes
@toyaward98187 ай бұрын
Why he doesn’t have a job?
@Chantss_xo7 ай бұрын
Cos hes dusty 😐😐😐
@LadyNStreet7 ай бұрын
Is she with him because she is afraid to be alone, she has low self-esteem, or what?? He is not a good person.
@HTAnderson767 ай бұрын
the answer is, YES!!!
@rowens80567 ай бұрын
I don't understand why men and women come on the show, doesn't take any accountability, disrespects their spouse, has a bad attitude towards their spouse, don't change anything, and etc , but say they're there to save their marriage. Smh
@mauricethomas6547 ай бұрын
I’m sorry, but he is a lil too sassy for me! Maybe I’m tripping! 👀👀👀
@msjordan82323 ай бұрын
No, you're not trippin
@mboyd6922 ай бұрын
I saw that too!
@dayciajtalk887 ай бұрын
Our 7 year old son wakes us up on the weekends around 9:am because that’s when he wants his breakfast!!!
@7Diva5047 ай бұрын
Ain’t no way!!!
@jeanettacrawford48177 ай бұрын
He is a grown boy real man never mistreat his wife.
@evierose15307 ай бұрын
Hence ,the reason a woman shouldn't go after the man we should wait for the man to find us , I made that mistake an paying for it 🙄
@ashkatnoy34207 ай бұрын
I bet those babies can’t stand to be around him. Please run away from this guy and stay away
@DH-rt6fl7 ай бұрын
girrrl, if you don’t-!!!! 🤬LEAVE his a**!!!!!
@annettealexander56727 ай бұрын
He have never wanted you as his women or wife. He feels he can treat you any kind of way. Drop him and learn to ❤ yourself. Continue to ❤ your children.
@robbbietheim20967 ай бұрын
The elephant in the room is her weight, he is a bully because of it, where are the male members of this woman's family, sounds like he may be in need of an attitude check for the disrespect to mom, which should have ,prompted a intervention, by every male member of her family SMH 😠💯
@bryanbeeman52567 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 if she would have kept her mouth closed when she saw him at the check cashing place, they wouldn’t be here. He’s opportunistic.
@keishasmith3797 ай бұрын
Any man who doesnt respect my parents i cannot marry. They dont like u for a valid reason and he doesnt respect anyone who tells him he is wrong.
@TheeMichellesMind7 ай бұрын
This right here!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯
@teresamcbrayer25497 ай бұрын
If I were her, he would have left with divorce papers in his hand
@jo-annbastings7 ай бұрын
I understand how the plaintiff’s mother feels. I know how I would feel if my own daughter would arrive to me with a thug, a bully like that! I wouldn’t be happy and surely would say something he surely wouldn’t like at all!
@jasminwilliams70977 ай бұрын
He was like that before they got married. She knew and still chose to marry and have kids with that boy.
@bryanbeeman52567 ай бұрын
Yep. She shot her shot with him first. He was trying to get that check he scammed out of the other chick cashed…
@virginiasweets55307 ай бұрын
Um. He don't deserve her. Move on
@lovemealways77 ай бұрын
The dude looks kinda suspect to me he looks like he plays for the same team and this marriage is just a front to hide his true identity
@rozzjack7 ай бұрын
Exactly
@TheeMichellesMind7 ай бұрын
Righttt!!! 💯
@mboyd6922 ай бұрын
DL
@lovemealways72 ай бұрын
@@mboyd692 That too
@blackpowerpuff61557 ай бұрын
He does not seem like a likeable person.
@mariahthwy7 ай бұрын
Pure evil…
@keishasmith3797 ай бұрын
Any man makes me leave the place we both live in, I cannot come back. I will figure it out and take my name off the lease. That's too much disrespect.
@SB-tc2jr7 ай бұрын
Girl, if you don't leave that undecided dude alone - go let a "whole man" find you! Pick yourself up queen and get your ish together !!! You don't need THAT!
@jahawalgern82737 ай бұрын
It gives he abusive cause the if u don’t get out I’ll get u out bid is extreme
@_stlouisLady_7 ай бұрын
"This is not about what your momma wants or what your husband wants. This is about you!!" Tell em Judge!
@faithweightsministries15087 ай бұрын
Judge Star didn't even serve the papers!
@ayefo78007 ай бұрын
The first time someone THREATENS to kick me out a moving car, in the middle of the highway, that would be the LAST time you see my face. FOH!!!! No one should be putting up with these losers. We can do better, ladies.
@petrinajackson83806 ай бұрын
Especially out of her own car. These women are so weak
@movingforward7897 ай бұрын
So disrespectful, to his wife, his mother-in-law… sad…
@NataliePhillip-m3s6 ай бұрын
LEAVE THE SASSY LIL BOY !!!!!! HE IS SWEET AS HELL!!!! ABUSING YOUR WIFE?????????
@melaniegenuinely7 ай бұрын
Her mom’s presence wiped all that smiling right off his face. He don’t like her mom…his whole demeanor changed from petty to disgusted. He can’t control the wife like he wants to because of her mom.
@lifeofjazz69447 ай бұрын
Please leave, ma'am.
@davital.washington74167 ай бұрын
Why they keep throwing around the word controlling. He is abusive , manipulative, disrespectful and a deadbeat. He don’t want nothing from her other than a place to lay his head.
@pamelasmith75507 ай бұрын
Leave Baby Girl, it's not going to change
@ebbyf2947 ай бұрын
Ain't no way that woman is 33. He must be stressing her OWWWWWWT!!!
@sharonwilder75517 ай бұрын
Apparently cause she can stop that Cap
@ingridphillip53676 ай бұрын
The smile on his face says it all!!!!! She’s needy run run and get help
@saniyyah42407 ай бұрын
She didn't serve him the papers 😮
@browngoddess53407 ай бұрын
The person who never wants the divorce most of the time be taking advantage of the other person or benefitting the most. He have the nerve to smile the whole time looking like a zesty Wyclef Jean.
@SwisyzinnaandCompany3 ай бұрын
I miss Judge Lynn, she would've told that woman to run!!!! Ain't no fixing a man who throws you out of hotels, cars and fights with you about feeding your children. What?!?! Get out of there!!! And listen to your Momma, she knows, she sees!!! All things Judge Lynn would've seen a mile away!!!
@jerryclark32257 ай бұрын
Big little boy right there, and Sis you got FOUR kids!
@jannejames72247 ай бұрын
The physical abuse is coming next!!! And what
@break-thruproductions7 ай бұрын
He gives me downlow vibes. You in danger girl. He doesn't like you not even a little bit. Listen to your mama.
@dezaymckey20777 ай бұрын
Judge Starr definitely be serving looks 🫶🏾💅 #itgirl
@michelleroyall3517 ай бұрын
She comes in looking pretty but falls flat with the advice
@taliacarter5157 ай бұрын
He doing all that disrespect while he sits at home and she pays for everything, negative 🤔
@michelleroyall3517 ай бұрын
This is abuse. Judge kept calling it mean... Itsore than that!!! Bring back Judge Toler!!!!
@Djdreamstudios7 ай бұрын
I’m still confused as to why he’s so mad. And why does she need to be the one to leave 😒
@lakendrasashe65127 ай бұрын
Drop that lil boy like a bad habit!!!
@rhondapollard25377 ай бұрын
Girl, let it go.
@rhodamontgomery74504 ай бұрын
HECK, HE SHOULD HAVE NEVER LOOKED AT HER AT ALL!
@ronnimartin70334 ай бұрын
Busted up looking defendants have the nerve to cheat!!
@robertcrawley90107 ай бұрын
He controlling you without your knowledge
@miracle29337 ай бұрын
He given me DL vibes
@mboyd6922 ай бұрын
SUPER DL
@ZumbaZINJPanda7 ай бұрын
17:45 no sir. Divorce.
@kyki85127 ай бұрын
I started laughing as soon as I read the title! SINGLE WHILE IN A RELATIONSHIP 🥴😂😂😂😂