Sishii & Seekay Define Intimacy | DEFINING Intimacy S1:E6

The wait is over! We put Ntobeko Sishi (Sishii) & Sicelo Buthelezi (Seekay), known from Gomora, in the hot seat! They unpack intimacy and masculinity ! Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed the conversation. #DEFININGIntimacy #RoadTo250k
Their handles:
@SishiiOfficial
@Seekay_Sa
Credits:
Producer: Dennis Ngango
Videographer: Gigabytes Productions
Directors: Bongani Baloyi & Dennis Ngango
Editor: Dennis Ngango
CONNECT WITH US:
➪ Email: [e-mail]
➪ Twitter: / definingmediaza​
➪ Tik Tok: / definingmedia
➪ Instagram: / definingmedia
Make sure to like, comment, and subscribe!

[@DEFINING]

Their honesty and openness is so refreshing! Let us know what was your takeaway from today’s episode with Sishii and Seekay? #RoadTo250K

[@thapelo_x_tp]

Not gqom as a mood setter, no words😭

[@looloo9578]

I'll say this about the body count. What if it's a small number but with a lot of experience E.g having only 2 people but you had a lot of sex with one of them. Then having 10 only to find out each person was a one time thing with little to no satisfaction at all. That should at least be considered

[@thakgafatso]

​@looloo9578 it's not about how many times, it's about the souls you connect with

[@nothandokunene9330]

You can tell Sishi takes his relationship with the Lord very seriously🥺 Well done little bro❤️

[@manandigameon]

🥺❤️🙌 Yeah I Also Love and Respect that Very Much🙇🏽‍♀️

[@ntandomlonyeni6598]

Right....and i love it.

[@user-fb8rt2xs1y]

Hearing someone from my generation speak such words of wisdom in front of nations assures me that I'm not stupid for not doing some things

[@KhanyiiDlaminii23]

when Sishi said:'Sex is actually supposed to glorify God.'i felt that since I'm on a celibacy journey.😭😭❣️

[@phumzilemaile1288]

This is so amazing seeing young men speaking openly about issues regarfing sex.. Indeed sex is spiritual and should glorify God.

[@DEFINING]

Thank you for tuning in 🥹

[@WealthandLuxury626]

There were sooo honest. I like that they didn't come here to succumb to society standards. They spoke their truth and gave us an insightful convo. LOTS OF LOVE❤

[@hope6031]

I personally don't think so. Or maybe I was expecting the characters they play

[@DEFINING]

Thank you ❤️‍🔥

[@godsbabeborn-again5945]

There's nothing more refreshing than youth that love Christ, especially young men. ❤️❤️❤️ God bless you.

[@LsgNyembe]

these young men are a rare breed amongst us 😅 it’s so refreshing to get young gents who think like these two

[@TamandaXO]

I remember seeing Sishii as a feature on TFG videos (iykyk 😂) and seeing his growth throughout these years has been so beautiful. I hope he remains faithful in his walk with God 🥹❤️

[@DEFINING]

🥹❤️‍🔥

[@khithazantsi_7]

dude that’s my chat too!!

[@JustCaraDube]

Sishii is so beautiful 😭

[@muvhumbitshibavhalemba2119]

He is so fineeee😢❤❤

[@bwalya_buby_chongo_]

I was looking for this comment. He is so beautiful my ghad!!

[@leratoserwalo9494]

I loooove that they said it, finally someone said it!!! Hook up culture is not it! They don't wanna admit but deep down they know but they keep lying to each other and promoting lies. I hope our boys were listening, boy or girl your body is special❤

[@nompilosibiya8373]

2:53 loved this. Sometimes us Christians dont prioritize that spiritual intimacy as much. We think once the physical intimacy is there, then we can build on that to get spiritual and mental intimacy. I love that this reminded us that once you align with someone spiritually, the rest can and does follow.

[@thandiwengidi5226]

So proud of both guys, particularly Sishi for going against the grain (where sex is concerned) and being courageous about it.

[@khanyisatshezi.7342]

Sishii is actual such a cool human being

[@DEFINING]

Indeed

[@Sena_melena]

I love him sm❤️

[@reneiloe]

I love their honesty and their energy. Their brotherhood/friendship is obviously one that encourages openness, a safe space, understanding without judgement.

[@DEFINING]

Definitely!

[@The_Simzzeffect05]

Their honesty is soooo raw and their connection is flawless and they not sugar coating anything

[@DEFINING]

Nothing at all 🔥

[@karabobatshwenyi1101]

What Sishii said at 7:46 have a lot to do with the songs we listen to, the movies we watch even adverts everything is centred around sex so basically we are programmed to view sex in a certain way

[@letushilaalina]

Teddy and Ntokozo are so matured, I love these boys😍😍

[@kabodithabe]

This was beautiful. The level of maturity in these gents is insane ❤️❤️I wish I could hear Sishii speak more about his journey, I'm intrigued.

[@neondou4142]

Love how they said intimacy is spiritual ❤ Thank you defining.

[@philipinetladi3537]

I agree that a lot of us are/were pressurized to have sex and the moment you do if then you realise that damn there's nothing bizarre about it and no need to rush but do it when you are ready. That's my two second of contribution don't come for me!!

[@DEFINING]

Thanks for contributing ❤️‍🔥

[@philipinetladi3537]

@@DEFINING 🙏

[@Mikateko_N]

Ma'am, you are absolutely correct!

[@philipinetladi3537]

@@Mikateko_N ❤❤

[@nompembatha8251]

Was having a conversation with my colleagues about virgin breaking that it was such pressure and after doing it I regretted there was nothing to write home about

[@malebogohuttas6740]

Their Brotherhood is on another level and i just love how honest and real they are😊👌

[@Chuemy]

God bless you Sishi for bringing God into this!!!!!!!! Sex ought to glorify God in every way❤… I love that you’re growing more in the knowledge of God!!!!

[@pulengnhlapo9221]

We need Oh small stuff and her husband on defining love and defining intimacy please!!!!❤

[@comfortm_]

This!!!!!!

[@amahlen2605]

🎉please!!!

[@Bianca-zb4od]

Yasssss

[@nandiphalee4880]

Ohhh please seekay is attractive 😭🔥❤️

[@ntandomlonyeni6598]

Sishi after this I now love you even more...to hear a young famous person speak like this makes me wanna dance💃💃💃💃....listen Jesus is at work in your life you don't even have to say much. Keep it up Dude.

[@n_thandii]

Seeing this & hearing these conversations from men because I remember in high school boys & girls were separated for these kinds of conversations. Girls were told that sex is spiritual & there are attachments and what not but most of the times the boys were just chilling basically. They should've also taught boys to be careful. To care about their bodies & wellbeing. To realise how deep the connection really is. It's really sad to see. But it's always beautiful seeing boys grow

[@zenanderubushe6877]

Need a Defining Friendship episode from them

[@makonyanap9391]

14:09 - 14:13 These two are sick 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Also ladies and gentlemen let's gather around here for just 22:32 🙏🏿❤️ loved this. Very relevant, fruitful, informative and relatable as a member of this generation.

[@sihlesele1533]

Wow I need this kind of friendship in my life, matured, raw, honest, and refreshing👌

[@user-bg9si4tu9r]

I like how matured they are throughout the whole procedure.🎉

[@KakanyoPearl]

Just 2 people who are self-aware and making decisions that are working for them. Love it, here. My standards just went a bar higher

[@justtshego.m]

This was amazing to watch and quite informative to say the least but mostly inspiring to see our generation speak so much sense and wisdom in topics that are "forbidden" in freindships/relationships.

[@sinkysibiya7322]

"It's always the cousins" - FR 😭

[@DEFINING]

😭😭😭

[@snarecele2707]

❤️❤️thank you Defining for these episodes. Absolutely LOVED this episode.

[@MonaeunderscoreZa]

Love love this episode 🙌🏾🫶🏾, we got to experience them outside acting. So wise🙌🏾❤️.

[@judiboitshepo9696]

I love this two🌝they made the conversation very much easier I so wish the people I always conversate with on such matters would watch this❤️💯everything happens spiritually before physically🫠

[@bongiwepenguinmabaso1103]

I love how Sishi said we must communicate on whether you're both up forgot or no...

[@DEFINING]

Consent is so important

[@somilangayexego.175]

So excited ! 🥰🥰🥰

[@DEFINING]

Hope you enjoy it 🫶🏾❤️‍🔥

[@leratopriscillia]

This was fun to watch... I still wish to be on defining but defining love ❤. Edit: I like what Sishii said that it has to be a conversation 10:45 . That's how comfortable ur partner should be during coitus. Sishii .. preach wena baba 🙌. Like that you put God first now 🙏.

[@TheMadsonLimpopoVlogger]

Please Defining friendship for them two

[@laylaauroraphoenix]

What an enlightening episode ❤️s/o to Seekay & Sishii

[@theopilane]

Arg man I loved this interview 🥺😂enjoyable . These 2 gents are effortlessly cool

[@KabeloEmilyNell]

I love the direction this episode went 🥺

[@nkosingiphilemthethwa]

This was so refreshing to watch, absolutely enjoyed this conversation and its inspiring

[@nokuthuladlamini1561]

This Convo was one for the books. I loved how they got deep on an emotional and spiritual concept.

[@justpinks]

Two wholesome gents! This is refreshing. Love their perspective on intimacy

[@ForTheLoveOfJane]

beautiful episode, I didn’t want it to end 🥺

[@Dineo__]

It's the inside jokes for me😂. Loved every minute of it.

[@SStuurman.]

This was very intimate, especially bc men really aren't as intimate with one another as women❤. I love it!❤

[@brucelobone]

DVSN is my go to music. Sept 5th album 🔥🔥 What a wholesome episode 👏🏾👏🏾

[@nompilosibiya8373]

Love me some DVSN as well❤

[@tshepangpaile9689]

Their friendship is amazing. They were very respectful when answering. I loved it ❤👍👍👍

[@nompilonxumalo]

Wish it was an hour, I loved this.❤

[@AswaBllue]

Loved this!😍 I really enjoyed hearing these questions from a man’s perspective.. Ayy the body count convo 😭😂

[@gracamakhubela9818]

Love their relationship. This is beautiful , proud of you Seekay....

[@busisiwentombelankosi2842]

You guys are amazing, truly enjoyed this episode so much ❤️❤️😂🙌

[@Kutlwanoo]

Ahh man🥹the direction this conversation went 🥺absolutely loved this

[@LiyaZuluM]

Love it for them!!!

[@agneswilliams]

Its so refreshing to see young men speak so much wisdom on this topic. Thank you!

[@DEFINING]

We really appreciated their stance! It’s so important for young men to see sex and intimacy holistically

[@sinenhlanhlaziqubu4190]

When Seekay mentioned Sishi's song 😂😂"no you can"😭😂😂😂

[@bongiwentombela4151]

Love the energy❤😊even went to look for the song

[@Zee23456]

Pleasantly surprised by their openness.Great episode 👏🏾🫶🏾

[@noluthandompofu4956]

I'm very impressed, can't lie. And just like that, hope has been restored in the masses.

[@keanuroberts4279]

I love their friendship I assume what they have is rare in the entertainment industry ❤️

[@keanuroberts4279]

Well believe it or not guys too can be besties or platonic soulmates.

[@ashlee_m607]

I enjoyed this sm!🥺

[@Ruth_Matsebula]

Loved it. I am glad I got to heart their perspective especially as young men❤️

[@bule_mzazi2003]

Finally🥺😑 they're also so well-spoken man !🥺🤒 i absolutely enjoyed this episode Defining❤ ! it's refreshing to see young men say things like these & think they way they do❤🤞🏾 keep it coming man !🙌🏾😌

[@heyyymendyy]

I just loved their response,it made alot of sense and was very good❤️s/o to them

[@juniorndzimandze1007]

Thank you Sishi and Mr Buthelezi ❤

[@alloysiakahunda3614]

Showing love all the way from Namibia...thoroughly enjoyed this episode and appreciate the realness🔥💯

[@mahadimkwanazi3152]

DVSN always! 🤌🏾🤌🏾

[@DEFINING]

😭😭

[@PACINODACREATOR_SA]

Ahh they really made me fall in love with @DEFINING put more guest that are young and vibrant to add knowledge to us 🖖💙

[@siphe_pal]

Enjoyed this so much! The honesty in this conversation was amazing.

[@DEFINING]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@slindokuhlecynthia5580]

These guys are so matured hle 😍😍lovely to watch

[@moribo_r.a.m]

Love it love it ❤️

[@xolileradebe2498]

loved every second of this.

[@LifewithSubstance]

🥺🥺🥺🥺what a beautiful episode

[@DEFINING]

Thank you ❤️‍🔥

[@Lebo-Aaliyah]

Cool conversation.

[@user-ng7yc3ku3x]

I absolutely enjoyed watching this! ❤

[@DEFINING]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@DEFINING]

Do you think sex is spiritual? 🤔

[@JustCaraDube]

Definitely.

[@NanaLatoya]

Yes it is

[@leemahlangu19]

definitely!

[@tshiamomasilo6830]

I believe it's the most sacred and spiritual act that humans do with one another.

[@leemahlangu19]

@@tshiamomasilo6830 True! That's why God encourages us not to engage in sex before marriage because it's not just a physical pleasure, it's also a spiritual benefit.

[@IngiiMaggs]

Captivating!! This was really wholesome❤🥺

[@DEFINING]

Thank you

[@sisterinisizulu_]

Love how they carried the conversation!✨

[@onthatilemorapedi3493]

Their knowledge on this was so eye opening and so interesting defs enjoyed this

[@DEFINING]

Thank you so much Onthatile!

[@thandekasomfula703]

I like they bond they share❤❤

[@JustCaraDube]

Let’s goooo 🎉

[@DEFINING]

Hope you enjoy it!

[@alainngango1769]

This is fantastic! More. Please

[@DEFINING]

🥳🥳🥳

[@sunflowerpalee]

Vulnerability ❤❤❤❤

[@bogadimolokwe7067]

Really refreshing . Enjoyed it.

[@bathob3625]

I enjoyed this conversation alot 🥺😊

[@mphemba150]

Beautiful conversation 🥹

[@DEFINING]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@LuzaniGugu]

Enjoyed this❤.

[@sinawomthini]

Amazing conversation with Seekay and Sishi👌❤️❤️

[@DEFINING]

Definitely!

[@shamiso_t]

Finally 😭💀😂tomorrow has come

[@sposethuralo7021]

😂😂😂😂

[@DEFINING]

Gods timing is always right 🤣🤣

[@shamiso_t]

Oh lol🤣🤣🤣😭💀 Re leboha modimo hee🤣💀

[@user-uk5xe3xb9r]

favourite episode so far

[@DEFINING]

Danko 🥹

[@itumelengseeco2844]

I'm not used to Teddy Pandergrass speaking English so well😅

[@siviwemapekula1689]

😂😂😂

[@LiyaZuluM]

😂

[@zibulelwaradebe2512]

The brothers are very straightforward and have an open mind to the questions but despite their conversation, their friendship is more like brotherhood🤝🏾

[@AthenkosiMhatu]

Oooh i love me some Sishii❤

[@DEFINING]

Same ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@Babyloza]

As for gqom!😂😭

[@DEFINING]

🤣🤣🤣

[@-jadagopane]

This was so beautiful 🥹

[@DEFINING]

Thank you ❤️‍🔥

[@thandomashimane368]

Enjoyed this so much!

[@DEFINING]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@nosiphomtolo9934]

Such wisdom ❤