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Kevin Samuels

Kevin Samuels

Күн бұрын

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@DaddyFury
@DaddyFury 4 жыл бұрын
It's too weird to be fighting for our lives while hating each other at the same time
@coollee8052
@coollee8052 4 жыл бұрын
Yo..."Daddyfury" it's madd crazy but we got to make-it work...."UNITY"
@ThothTheAtlanteanK
@ThothTheAtlanteanK 4 жыл бұрын
@EightFrancs TRUTH!! That's the Damm TRUTH!
@yunglion8676
@yunglion8676 3 жыл бұрын
Real spill
@brayanwillie6411
@brayanwillie6411 3 жыл бұрын
pro trick: watch movies on Flixzone. Been using them for watching lots of of movies recently.
@ephraimjayson2813
@ephraimjayson2813 3 жыл бұрын
@Brayan Willie Yup, been using flixzone for since november myself =)
@earthreign
@earthreign 4 жыл бұрын
I'm soooooo extremely proud of this man Kevin Samuels, that I can hardly put it into words. He has been such a blessing to me through his words, even more than my own father has been and I'm a 42 y.o. female. I pray that God continues to pour out major blessings in his personal life and in all of his endeavors. He is like a breath of fresh air in a room with no windows, from the bottom of my heart & soul...Thank you Kevin.
@OutCastSwagg
@OutCastSwagg 4 жыл бұрын
That’s insulting to your real biological father
@Bread_n_Butter.
@Bread_n_Butter. 4 жыл бұрын
Pull up Papi How do you know what the relationship is/was between her and her father to make such a response to her? Do you know them personally? 🤔
@earthreign
@earthreign 4 жыл бұрын
@@OutCastSwagg it is as it is, and the truth is the truth. I have a father that talks at me, and not to me. I love him, I understand what he went through better now and I've forgiven him.
@WiseLady7
@WiseLady7 4 жыл бұрын
@@earthreign That's great, Earth Reign. Two thumbs up, Sis.
@unbelievabletruths6497
@unbelievabletruths6497 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t do your dad like that you would not your mom and they are equal
@pollypocket247
@pollypocket247 4 жыл бұрын
As a black woman I suffered at the hands of black men not because they were black but because of my choices and I did not have a father or big brother growing up; to tell me what to look out for. I was raised by a single mother who was strong but was silent concerning the matters of the heart and what type of man to deal with.... No matter what color someone is, people only do what you allow them to do..... I am wiser now and am SURROUNDED by WONDERFUL BLACK MEN, whether they are family or not. My lover and closest friends are black men and I thank THE ALMIGHTY for them.🙏🏾
@macman9689
@macman9689 3 жыл бұрын
bless you
@dyonomitereacher8140
@dyonomitereacher8140 2 жыл бұрын
@@macman9689 , an the wedding is,was..
@Stillswingingforthefences
@Stillswingingforthefences 4 жыл бұрын
Waiting to achieve a career is a masculine mindset. Men tend to wait until they are situated career wise before taking on a wife and a family. This is a provider way of thinking!
@amandaslay6045
@amandaslay6045 4 жыл бұрын
Interesting! Why do you think our caucasian counterparts are the exact opposite? Generally caucasians are married right out of college/very young and their family life is still successful.
@Stillswingingforthefences
@Stillswingingforthefences 4 жыл бұрын
Amanda Slay Women or men counterparts or both?
@amandaslay6045
@amandaslay6045 4 жыл бұрын
@@Stillswingingforthefences Both :-) Or whichever you feel comfortable responding to.
@Stillswingingforthefences
@Stillswingingforthefences 4 жыл бұрын
Amanda Slay I believe they were taught to seek marriage early in life and it’s encouraged to do so especially the men.
@Afrocreolebombshelle
@Afrocreolebombshelle 4 жыл бұрын
I 100 agree, I’ve been taught by my peers to focus on getting my “money up” and have my self together and my career going and then the men will come🙄. I want to be married one day but ppl keep telling me this. And this is what black mothers teaching their daughters. This is what society teaches women and this got to stop. Instead of teaches us to be independent working women , how about teaching us to be a wife and real mothers.
@MJWife07
@MJWife07 4 жыл бұрын
Keep it up Mr. Samuels! Your videos are life altering. I love listening to you. The more I listen the more improvement I am making with myself.
@earthreign
@earthreign 4 жыл бұрын
You go sis, I agree with you wholeheartedly.
@leah8112
@leah8112 4 жыл бұрын
Beauty4Ashes yes sis. Same. Whether I agree with everything I still respect this man and his contribution to us moving forward. I really have improved my mind set since I started watching him a week ago.
@chancerodgers3496
@chancerodgers3496 4 жыл бұрын
Simple math listening to these sistahs. I want a man of high value I can control.
@amandaslay6045
@amandaslay6045 4 жыл бұрын
Touche and a lot of men are used to being controlled. A lot of my dating experience is helping the guy learn to lead me. Giving him the responsiblity to make decisions. You would be suprised by how tough this is for some men. They literally cannot decide on anything without a womans input. I'm looking for the total opposite. LEAD ME, GUIDE ME, DECIDE FOR ME
@clmk28
@clmk28 4 жыл бұрын
scary
@nellynel6141
@nellynel6141 4 жыл бұрын
Your math doesn’t lie...on point brotha
@Jaslath
@Jaslath 4 жыл бұрын
@@amandaslay6045 "Giving him the responsiblity to make decisions." Sounds exhausting. You're like a dance partner that not only do you have to lead but you have to carry as well. And you're minimizing the fact that you get to avoid responsibility for all decisions since you put the onus completely on him. "They literally cannot decide on anything without a womans input." Or they want a partner's input. After all you have likes/dislikes of your own. And if he's trying to be a good partner he's going to want to take those into consideration.
@amandaslay6045
@amandaslay6045 4 жыл бұрын
@@Jaslath sounds exhausting likely for some men who are not used to leading or knows what it means. Even in its most basic definition it means to go with one by holding them by the hand. On the contrary, if a woman does too much she is masculine. Ha! Can't win and not trying to. Good points though! Thanks for your perspective!
@vchild
@vchild 3 жыл бұрын
Anger is poison in your body. Let it go ladies. Forgive and let your heart heal.
@Deblaccboii
@Deblaccboii 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly we are a point where a large portion of Bw don’t want to hear any criticism or backlash from the narrative, everything is “bashing”.. it’s not just toward black men either, they’ve been going at each other too.. look at the posts from women who spoke against the WAP song/video, lol they got lit up worse than the men .. everything was “pick me” this, or shut up smh ...black men have our problems but black women won’t even admit they have any..
@casualbachelor
@casualbachelor 4 жыл бұрын
Sad thing is, its not just bw who think everything is bashing..
@TURBOBEATZZZ
@TURBOBEATZZZ 4 жыл бұрын
All women do this it's just that BW do it the most.
@nellynel6141
@nellynel6141 4 жыл бұрын
If emotional intelligence is measured by your level of boisterous ineptitude...then yeah we can clearly see who’s highly intelligent Gents.
@HarrisPilton789
@HarrisPilton789 4 жыл бұрын
The large number of BW who are watching and calling into this show every night says otherwise. Don't confuse the loud and obnoxious swirling and divested BW on youtube, with the majority of BW.
@Deblaccboii
@Deblaccboii 4 жыл бұрын
Stormie Weather trust me I know, everybody in my family is married I can’t relate to a gender war (even though they all had issues like normal married people do)...Tbh it’s really either miserable older people, or Gen Z/late millennials that take this energy into real life and even then that’s very rare..people nowadays have been programmed to be passive-aggressive and I know for a fact they don’t keep that same energy in real life, unless their in a position of power
@regular_angie816
@regular_angie816 3 жыл бұрын
Mr. Samuels, you spoke to my soul today. I needed to hear this message.🙏 Keep doing what you are doing... don't change anything about your show!
@Mannamae
@Mannamae 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you dear brother for your work! I love you. I am 68 raised to be a wife and mother. You are truly a king. I hope both older as well as young women can listen and hear you. We, BM and BW have to become friends again and the time is now. Bless your soul!⚘
@nellynel6141
@nellynel6141 4 жыл бұрын
Men, set your own standard to attract a caliber of women who will respect and admire you first. Any resistance to your masculine demeanor... move on.
@Painfulcase
@Painfulcase 4 жыл бұрын
We all learn that the hard way, when we have no masculine father figure.
@nellynel6141
@nellynel6141 4 жыл бұрын
So true
@d0cn0tes
@d0cn0tes 4 жыл бұрын
even if you got kids too....move on
@ryanbailey8588
@ryanbailey8588 4 жыл бұрын
@@Painfulcase but honestly bro, sometimes even having the masculine father figure can backfire. Dudes I know who grew up rough tend to have a more aggressive approach to life that women love.
@dasmith1207
@dasmith1207 3 жыл бұрын
Resistance is futile, masculinity enhances self preservation.
@rcjohnson3277
@rcjohnson3277 4 жыл бұрын
The wisdom Mr. Samuels brings is so reviving and nurturing.
@imandalton4227
@imandalton4227 4 жыл бұрын
We need more brothers like thg this
@darrylwilliams8656
@darrylwilliams8656 4 жыл бұрын
I never knew this was going on, Until my woman passed away. Only when I tried dating again women were looking at me like I was the enemy. Now 7 years single, I'm forced to look elsewhere for relations. And it's working for me.
@hgfw9295
@hgfw9295 4 жыл бұрын
Yessss. The true story of my fiance too. I asked why not a nice coloured lady anymore? I just received.....ahh long story!!!
@bryon5284
@bryon5284 3 жыл бұрын
I tried and tried to date BW's but there was no respect or cooperation. Even when I tried to lead I was hit with insults and guilts. I have moved on to other races and nationalities and i must respectfully suggest to date Asian women. It's been a great experience. The high degree of respect, friendly, fit and femininity is important to them. They know how to say in their lanes. I don't thinknim going back anytime soon.
@Amethyst454
@Amethyst454 3 жыл бұрын
😭😭
@darrylwilliams8656
@darrylwilliams8656 3 жыл бұрын
@@Amethyst454 Are you throwing shade At me for telling the truth.???🤣
@tonkysue207
@tonkysue207 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss,hope you find happiness.
@aholuthedistinguishedgentl929
@aholuthedistinguishedgentl929 3 жыл бұрын
That leg jump move Kevin talking bout with the money world girl is my fav part too. 😂🤣
@voquoncarter924
@voquoncarter924 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all the great content!
@WestPullmanCitizen
@WestPullmanCitizen 4 жыл бұрын
I believe your message is good for the community.
@Mosa685
@Mosa685 4 жыл бұрын
Your comment about men not wanting to be friends with women was on point....this needs to be acknowledged more often.
@mikelowry5061
@mikelowry5061 3 жыл бұрын
And I say again. The culture needs this man. 👊🏿
@dasmith1207
@dasmith1207 3 жыл бұрын
To be friends in general there has to be a respect in the highest level, in truth on both ends. That apparently is too much to ask for from both sides .
@jenimichelle
@jenimichelle 3 жыл бұрын
Been binge watching for a couple months now and imo, this is the best show so far 👌🏾
@marcelzeigler631
@marcelzeigler631 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoy
@patricebowen3513
@patricebowen3513 4 жыл бұрын
Morning Kevin great topic, about time this issue has been brought forward to the public.
@debbiephillips576
@debbiephillips576 4 жыл бұрын
Finally..! This topic is being discussed. 👍🏽 Sometimes as black folk we are our own worst enemy unfortunately. I’ve learnt so much from this channel ..thank you.
@ThothTheAtlanteanK
@ThothTheAtlanteanK 4 жыл бұрын
Actually this topic has been brought up countless times. It's just so much of a issue it doesn't go anywhere. A YT by the name of Sgt Willie Pete tried to warn BW over 20 year's ago, he was run off YT because of it. Back then you couldn't say anything negative about BW without your account getting deleted. Many brothers in the past have tried in vain to have this conversation, but there's just no talking to them now. They can't be reached.
@Asimoori
@Asimoori 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for having this conversation It really made me think about how I need to do better and stop judging😂 I'm 25 year old man learning alot from these live streams 🙏🏿
@ciaraish7078
@ciaraish7078 4 жыл бұрын
Black men have been good to me and I’ve been good to them....my dad, brothers, uncles, and husband so a lot of this I can’t relate 🤷🏾‍♀️ but find interesting 🧐
@wonmedia8909
@wonmedia8909 2 жыл бұрын
R.I.P. such a Wonderful Soul to the Black Community
@unpoppinopinions
@unpoppinopinions Жыл бұрын
Getting along well and working on the relationship
@michaelmorningstar1840
@michaelmorningstar1840 4 жыл бұрын
Crazy how we can forgive everything other races do to us...but we just can't forgive each other for anything
@imandalton4227
@imandalton4227 4 жыл бұрын
Self hatred is a mutha
@earthreign
@earthreign 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, you've said a million words in that one sentence. That is the absolute truth, hopefully we can do better eventually though. I said the other day that Kevin is onto something big, until now I don't think I realized how much this man is really trying to help US as a whole.
@coollee8052
@coollee8052 4 жыл бұрын
TRUE FACTS!!!
@coolitnow0013
@coolitnow0013 4 жыл бұрын
Because we should know better since we are members of the community.Other races are strangers and aren't members of the community.Betrayal is a very personal act.
@gadcarmelit3628
@gadcarmelit3628 3 жыл бұрын
Kevin you 100% correct you need a syndicated TV show it would be off the chart if you keep it just like this don't change nothing nothing !
@amandaslay6045
@amandaslay6045 4 жыл бұрын
My black men friends and I have a lot in common. We are active, smart, professionals, we invest, we travel, and we volunteer. I trust them and they trust me. I will get up in the middle of the night (and I have) to help any one of them. FIND WHO IS DOWN FOR YOU, have SIMILAR INTEREST, and enjoy that!!! If that is not a BW or BM then it's just not!!
@nellynel6141
@nellynel6141 4 жыл бұрын
See you’re a team player Amanda, rare to come by. I’m the same way with my small close circle. I even answer my phone when a friend calls. Do you lol?
@amandaslay6045
@amandaslay6045 4 жыл бұрын
@@nellynel6141 Yes, I answer. Not always with Facetime (haha) but def a normal phone call
@mwright0428
@mwright0428 4 жыл бұрын
There it is! Yes yes!
@wildonez3076
@wildonez3076 4 жыл бұрын
How do you find these people??
@amandaslay6045
@amandaslay6045 4 жыл бұрын
@@wildonez3076 Since I am a transplant and not orgininally from the state i reside in, I met all of my friends doing things I enjoy. Hiking, museums, library, volunteering, or introduced through someone else. I grew up with a brother who was only 1 year older so in my experience my men friends can usually connect/bond with me pretty quickly and easily with no complications
@kirk1761
@kirk1761 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you kevin for this conversation this cant be stressed enough
@Insert.namehere
@Insert.namehere 4 жыл бұрын
Fellas We Set the Tone, Respect Yourself And Others Around You & Watch You Life Change 💥 We Can’t Change Everyone But We All Play A Part, it’s Up 2 You. Peace & Luv 🖤
@earthreign
@earthreign 4 жыл бұрын
🙏
@untiltomorrow5468
@untiltomorrow5468 4 жыл бұрын
@Chi chi B E they do, stop paying attention to the ones that don't. Your argument is B.S
@untiltomorrow5468
@untiltomorrow5468 4 жыл бұрын
@Chi chi B E okay fine, why make the statement that you made then? women with those men around don't talk like that.
@untiltomorrow5468
@untiltomorrow5468 4 жыл бұрын
@Chi chi B E again it's the ones you chose to pay attention to. But believe what you want to believe about black men, we as black men know the truth.
@nellynel6141
@nellynel6141 4 жыл бұрын
Hill Jimmy Chi Chi the troll but you probably know. Easy to spot, everything they respond with is negative and condescending. Seen you post good stuff before.👊🏽
@WiseLady7
@WiseLady7 4 жыл бұрын
Kevin, I have so much respect for you. I sincerely appreciate and thank you for posting this video. It is sooooooo needed! Shucks, I love, like, trust, and believe in BM...always have and always will, regardless of the gender war raging between BW and BM. I've been in relationships with BM that didn't work out, but they have never, ever brought me to the place of despising and hating them. I'm for peace not war. I'm for building healthy friendships with BM that could lead to healthy courtships, marriage and family life. I have no problem coming together with them in a peaceful and respectful manner to iron out any bad creases that may exist. I've NEVER been apart of the BW bandwagon who constantly disrespect, attack, and bash BM, AND I NEVER WILL! And yes, I AM A BLACK WOMAN WHO VALUES BM. I'm a perpetual chocolate lover! It is what it is, and that's never going to change for me.
@TURBOBEATZZZ
@TURBOBEATZZZ 4 жыл бұрын
...and here comes troll of the blackmanosphere of the year everybody. KYLA "THE DRY DRAWLS" STRAWBERRY!!!!! ROUND OF APLLAUSE!!!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@iamclaudz
@iamclaudz 4 жыл бұрын
This is EXACTLY how I feel! Beautifully said girl 💜
@theone7014
@theone7014 4 жыл бұрын
@*kyla* strawberry Yo!! What's with you?!!! Get off channels like these!! Find yourself a Chad and move on.SMH
@amourj7170
@amourj7170 4 жыл бұрын
*kyla* strawberry my goodness why are you so damn bitter? You get on every channel spewing bitterness.
@TURBOBEATZZZ
@TURBOBEATZZZ 4 жыл бұрын
strawberry seriously who hurt you sis? Ex boyfriend, ex dad, all of the above? What's the deal bud?
@mwanawaMungu-07
@mwanawaMungu-07 4 жыл бұрын
Well said! Your message is spot on!
@Deshawn1
@Deshawn1 4 жыл бұрын
If you want to be happy, you have to want to be friends with people. You have to start with a good bill of faith and enjoy having a good time with people. Especially when you get older, the back and forth just isn't worth it. One of the callers stated that she just wanted to be single, and later on stated that she wanted to be married with kids. If you can't be honest with yourself about wanting happiness, who can you be honest with at all? The truth of the matter is, most people don't want to be separated with other people, they really just don't know how to interact. It's been so long that being without and alone has become normal. If nothing else, at least smile, have a decent small conversation, and be happy after even if that's all that made your day. At least, you can go home happy... for once... and not just feel alone.
@earthreign
@earthreign 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you love 100%
@cornelldavis6703
@cornelldavis6703 4 жыл бұрын
I here u my dude but I choose to be alone I have PTSD from dealing with adults I can’t anymore!!! I done but good luck and well wishes to everyone else!!!
@amandaslay6045
@amandaslay6045 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! "it is not good for man to be alone" - Genesis
@Deshawn1
@Deshawn1 4 жыл бұрын
@Chi chi B E And what are you going to change that for yourself in your life?
@Deshawn1
@Deshawn1 4 жыл бұрын
@@amandaslay6045 And it's dangerous for you as a woman to be alone, life.
@carlforpresidentanthony4574
@carlforpresidentanthony4574 4 жыл бұрын
Brilliant conversation sire Kevin
@billwh79
@billwh79 4 жыл бұрын
The majority of the men these women complaint about were raised by single mothers. The men they tent to pick was at an disadvantage, the day they were borne. Most don't know how to be a man because they rarely saw one in the house during there formative years........Formative years are periods of early childhood between 0-8 years of a child's life. It is also a period of a rapid cognitive (intellectual), social, emotional and physical development of a child. This development occurs based on the child's response and the interaction between genetics, environment and experience.
@Afrocreolebombshelle
@Afrocreolebombshelle 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve seen men who had both parents in the house hold still grew up into 50/50 beta males aka dusty bka losers
@nellynel6141
@nellynel6141 4 жыл бұрын
You actually just agreed with whoever posted this. Read more closely they said...”the majority” which implies what you redundantly wrote.
@infozone9601
@infozone9601 4 жыл бұрын
@@Afrocreolebombshelle Weak fathers that let momma run them
@bodyworkandptbykraig7609
@bodyworkandptbykraig7609 4 жыл бұрын
@@Afrocreolebombshelle Im really curious about your views. Do you really think its possible for the majority of men of any race in America today to be something much different than 50/50 men? You are aware that the average American (of all races included) makes ~35-40k? In order to assume much more than ~50% most of the women in this country would have to stop working or work P/T...Do you get that?? Do you think that's realistically what can happen at this point? For first 10 years of marriage I made 92-96k with 1-2 days O/T while my wife was in school. Now she's a travel nurse making 120k and I've pulled back to ~ 75k, because she can't discipline or train our son anything like I can. That was her idea. Yet, her behavior and submissive tone has not changed because she comes from a culture that would find anything else strange and against nature and her tradition. Does that make me beta, weak or a failure because after 8 yrs of doing the lions share its now like 40/60? Break down your views please?
@sharoncobb2547
@sharoncobb2547 4 жыл бұрын
@@Afrocreolebombshelle Thank you👍
@ricktaylor14001
@ricktaylor14001 2 жыл бұрын
He had to tell so many people to “come in the light” on their video camera…. what was going on? Sounds like it was the vampire call in show 🤣! All of them sitting in the dark, afraid they’re going to melt in the light. 🥴
@ccrow06
@ccrow06 3 жыл бұрын
My dog freaks out when the smoke detector alarms start chirping 🤣🤣
@lequincygriggs3092
@lequincygriggs3092 2 жыл бұрын
This show will NEVER get talked about. Unfortunately.
@goodmen2973
@goodmen2973 4 жыл бұрын
Let’s get it! Otashia is a fan favorite! 🤣
@keked9231
@keked9231 3 жыл бұрын
Don't no man wants to be just a friend- Bernie Mac
@lisafossett6193
@lisafossett6193 3 жыл бұрын
Kevin you are putting down. I love your truth and honest about black woman putting down black men. It's not right! You are saying everything that need to be said about us as a people. Other races of don't bash their men the way the black woman do.
@sacire1
@sacire1 4 жыл бұрын
What happened after 1965 to the black community? 1. Anti-miscegenation laws were considered unconstitutional in (1967) 2. Civil Rights laws allowed for integration (1964-1968), 3. Fair Housing Act outlawed discrimination by race (1967) 4. Women's Rights Movements (1960s) 5. Section 8 Housing that initially excluded the man from the house (1974) 6. Crack epidemic (1980s) 7. Mass Incarceration (1970s) 8. Child Support Enforcement laws (1990s)
@damonm.
@damonm. 4 жыл бұрын
#9 Clinton Crime Bill (1994)
@tedfields1923
@tedfields1923 4 жыл бұрын
How come those laws did not effect the Indian, Asian, White and Hispanics the same way... They're subject to them to🤔
@coreylevine8095
@coreylevine8095 4 жыл бұрын
They should have stop at number 3
@sacire1
@sacire1 4 жыл бұрын
@TravYou are 100% correct, that is why I can't get entangled in talks about what other races experienced during that time. Because black men were locked out of a lot of opportunities. In Alabama after slavery ended they went from being driven by cotton and tobacco to the economy beingndrivwn by prisons aka slavery of another name. Forcing black men to work for free under the convict lease programs. So it is unrealistic to compare our journey of never having a connection to our original culture and being systematically oppressed for centuries to others who already knew their culture and community connections.
@sacire1
@sacire1 4 жыл бұрын
@Trav Original feminism was not the problem, it is what it has evolved into.
@imandalton4227
@imandalton4227 4 жыл бұрын
The best message on KZbin
@chadricrobertson8496
@chadricrobertson8496 Жыл бұрын
Mr Samuels was,is,so cold,raw.Discussing the frame work required in every piece of his art
@dyonomitereacher8140
@dyonomitereacher8140 2 жыл бұрын
The first twenty minutes of dialogue are very good.
@theluckylefty3486
@theluckylefty3486 4 жыл бұрын
Mr. Samuels, I just want to say thank you for another good video. This has to be talked about because there is a big miscommunication between the average black men and black women. To be honest, I would love to see more black families that consist of the black man, black woman, and children. I understand also that everyone will not be together, but I would love to see us get along. God bless you Kevin. I also want to say a lot of your advice you give to men needs it. I’m try to work on myself.
@andrep7120
@andrep7120 2 жыл бұрын
Him tryna fight his laugh at the beginning🤣🤣🤣
@alphonsoalphonsoalphonsoba6263
@alphonsoalphonsoalphonsoba6263 3 жыл бұрын
Truth💯 there was a time when black men and women were just cool and Friends. I knew this young lady I used to see at the club all the time, we never dated we never hooked up, we were just dance partners when we saw each other the club, that was so 😎
@fantasybouthour6679
@fantasybouthour6679 3 жыл бұрын
Kevin, you’ve opened my eyes. I’ve never truly understood why these women have such a chip on their shoulders.
@nursebeauty8020
@nursebeauty8020 4 жыл бұрын
This was such a good and motivating And Uplifting show-Keep Up Good Work Kevin👏👏
@earthreign
@earthreign 4 жыл бұрын
I know that's right
@lushnesslee8731
@lushnesslee8731 4 жыл бұрын
How? Once again he baited what he thinks is the intellectually challenged, weaker sex and began to quote, end quote correct us. He is also clearly invested in keeping young BW (20’s) from acknowledging the truth, by running the stay positive game on them. This video like all his videos are about controlling as much Black vagina as possible.
@AKAMrBiggs
@AKAMrBiggs 4 жыл бұрын
Kevin deserves respect, thanks for your thoughtful content.
@me-michelle9894
@me-michelle9894 4 жыл бұрын
I have never been afraid of any black man. But once when I worked at a jail in Virginia, I felt so bad because I had falling into that stigma. And I approach him to tell him I was sorry for being judgmental. I love my men!!!!
@markiscouch6729
@markiscouch6729 4 жыл бұрын
@Kissed By The Sun Everyday When you're locked up as a black man it's not only difficult but very stressful. Thank you for being human. 🍕🍕🍤🍔🍺🍾🇺🇸
@germanehabib7345
@germanehabib7345 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, we can be cordial but that's about it because most men dread the "friend zone." Thanks but no, thanks. Great livestream as always, uncle KS da Godfather!
@bihmthethird
@bihmthethird 4 жыл бұрын
I agree, we can all start by being cordial with each other...
@earthreign
@earthreign 4 жыл бұрын
I hate that it's like that, their are a lot of great men out here who are put in the "End" zone and that is so unfair.
@cornelldavis6703
@cornelldavis6703 4 жыл бұрын
Earth Reign Fair is a place u take the kids in the summer I.E. the county fair!!!
@earthreign
@earthreign 4 жыл бұрын
@@cornelldavis6703 like I said, it is so (unfair.) I.E. unbalanced, one sided, unequal, and distorted, etc. Btw, thank you for your reply and have a wonderful day today.
@germanehabib7345
@germanehabib7345 4 жыл бұрын
@@earthreign "End zone". I like that....lol! 😂🤣
@tiffanypearsall6219
@tiffanypearsall6219 4 жыл бұрын
Even though I think it's never too late for anything, you can't make people do anything they don't want to do. Personally, I think we can get along if we recognize that accountability is needed on both ends. The finger-pointing has got to stop because then we don't look at our roles in how we got here. And I do acknowledge as sister Shahrazad Ali stated, that bw, unlike bm have been shielded from a lot of scrutiny, leading many of us not to do any real introspection and make changes accordingly that will benefit the whole of the group. And at the end of the day, other races may be nice to us, but by and large, they're not our biggest fans either because of their racist indoctrination, media images, and what they see in day to day interactions with others. You have other races who are willing to disown their own children for dating or marrying our race. For mature bw who are all for wanting us to get along, our options are that much more limited when it comes to dating and marriage because bm have washed our hands of us, and we outnumber them. As dismal as it looks, I don't intend to let that make me jaded.
@ThothTheAtlanteanK
@ThothTheAtlanteanK 4 жыл бұрын
Tiff, you're absolutely right! In a nutshell that's it.
@ThothTheAtlanteanK
@ThothTheAtlanteanK 4 жыл бұрын
@blacknight39 TRUTH! Agreed!
@bryanbailey6165
@bryanbailey6165 3 жыл бұрын
💪🔥💥💪
@vickym3086
@vickym3086 4 жыл бұрын
Love this topic! Great show!
@aplayboysplaybook
@aplayboysplaybook 4 жыл бұрын
Ok Rodney King was a friend of mine ..may he rest easy..hope this is a good video Kevin..
@HeatGoesOn
@HeatGoesOn 4 жыл бұрын
Black women were never my enemy, and if there is any black women who see me as an enemy im sorry i cant oblige you but i will simply say "I get it , theres some emotional pain going on and i hope you can find the love and support to heal, and may you be blessed".
@gerijabarr6585
@gerijabarr6585 4 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm. What's causing this "epiphany#?
@MysticButterfly22
@MysticButterfly22 4 жыл бұрын
Great topic for the night!! 👌🏾
@clmk28
@clmk28 4 жыл бұрын
"High value is high pressure" life lesson there.
@MichaEl.Tammuz
@MichaEl.Tammuz 4 жыл бұрын
I’m in NYC and smiling at a BW is an offense.🤔!
@KCoopp9
@KCoopp9 4 жыл бұрын
That’s just in the North come to the South we are more friendly. I use to go to Philly and visit my family. I would smile and speak to strangers and they would look at me crazy Lol
@nellynel6141
@nellynel6141 4 жыл бұрын
Alike Cooper Heard about you southern gals...guess I heard right.
@amandaslay6045
@amandaslay6045 4 жыл бұрын
SOME BW don't speak or smile back at me either lol
@KCoopp9
@KCoopp9 4 жыл бұрын
@Anonymous Indigenous yeah TX is southern not South/country Lol
@KCoopp9
@KCoopp9 4 жыл бұрын
@Anonymous Indigenous no just Houston but it was nice
@MrDes1979
@MrDes1979 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 got me with that Rodney King 🤴
@bluelix-
@bluelix- 3 жыл бұрын
Great show!😍😍
@charlesadamsjr7255
@charlesadamsjr7255 3 жыл бұрын
Love the show 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
@MyDogSteppedOnaBeee
@MyDogSteppedOnaBeee 3 жыл бұрын
Without love we wont exist. Time to break the chain and evolve people.
@caramelking-zf8wu
@caramelking-zf8wu 4 жыл бұрын
Jezebels ?!!! ( Are not Friends !!! )
@RealLadi228
@RealLadi228 4 жыл бұрын
Be glad to know the difference
@Adonis20529
@Adonis20529 3 жыл бұрын
That million Subscribers is coming soon
@davidestick9936
@davidestick9936 4 жыл бұрын
Man that opening was epic lol!
@christoffh9739
@christoffh9739 4 жыл бұрын
We can be Cordial and Professionals all day. Friends means something else and with men it needs to either stay just business associates/partners or a situation where the guy and girl knew each other since childhood but were never sexually into each other. Friends between a married man and women is not common at all. I can’t just have a woman at my house by herself and my wife not be home...that’s disrespectful to my wife. Trust has nothing to do with it...it’s a standard and you should know better. The friendship MUST be defined...and wifey has to be informed ASAP✌️
@mwright0428
@mwright0428 4 жыл бұрын
Shhhhhh.....your making too much sense lol
@christoffh9739
@christoffh9739 4 жыл бұрын
Mica Harris 😆😂🤣😅 right!
@Jaslath
@Jaslath 4 жыл бұрын
" I can’t just have a woman at my house by herself and my wife not be home...that’s disrespectful to my wife." Not to mention all it would take is a false allegation and you would lose everything. People made fun of Mike Pence about always having his wife with him around other women but with some of the allegations thrown around over the last few years, it's proven to be very wise.
@christoffh9739
@christoffh9739 4 жыл бұрын
Jaslath exactly 👍
@christoffh9739
@christoffh9739 4 жыл бұрын
Mica Harris what is your opinion on that situation? Your best friend happens to be a guy, you’ve known each other since middle school, just always been a good guy that you never had feelings for. He is a good looking guy now all grown up but you still just have the best friend vibes no sexual connection. But he knows your married and and wants to come over your house and chill and he is a single professional. How often is he coming over your house while your husband is not home? 🧐
@id.icebergslim
@id.icebergslim 4 жыл бұрын
Kevin is speaking facts!!
@Kahnklingon84
@Kahnklingon84 4 жыл бұрын
Star trek reference 💪 thanks for the content.
@clmk28
@clmk28 4 жыл бұрын
Mr Samuels is a Trekkie :)
@Kahnklingon84
@Kahnklingon84 4 жыл бұрын
@@clmk28 mad respect 🖖
@mohamedblasse999
@mohamedblasse999 Жыл бұрын
Get the Godfathers likes up mayne. 👍👍👍👍👍👍
@realfacts3000
@realfacts3000 4 жыл бұрын
We are friends when we are off the internet 🤣🤣🤣
@lindaann768
@lindaann768 4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved tonight’s topic and yes Black men we can and always will be friends
@positivethoughtstv4592
@positivethoughtstv4592 4 жыл бұрын
I always show love and respect to bw even with the knowledge I got I always felt it was needed but I am looked at in a bad way not by all but by most. It seems like bw think I am trying to get something from them when I speak and be nice to them so then they begin to act like there better than me so it can be hard but I do feel we need to stop fighting
@earthreign
@earthreign 4 жыл бұрын
I've seen that a lot to where I reside, you can't even speak to a BW hardly because so many of them walk around with the Hulk face on and then look at you like you're nothing or roll their eyes. It is sad, it's getting to the point where we're all going to be walking around like zombies. Thanks to smart phones and social media, we no longer know how to effectively communicate with each other anymore.
@positivethoughtstv4592
@positivethoughtstv4592 4 жыл бұрын
@@earthreign I agree
@kennethyoung4892
@kennethyoung4892 3 жыл бұрын
West Angeles Church of God in Christ is a Mega Church
@remnantsaved144
@remnantsaved144 4 жыл бұрын
What is the music? The first track
@Urbantravelclub
@Urbantravelclub 4 жыл бұрын
Man I thought you were about to say Rodney King🤣🤣
@dcchitown6892
@dcchitown6892 2 жыл бұрын
What up KS name of song playing at 3:12 We STEPPIN in the Chi!
@penterprise2481
@penterprise2481 3 жыл бұрын
good show KS. Old saying - Make love not war.
@pierpointllc
@pierpointllc 4 жыл бұрын
Best video yet
@IamAngelaHodges
@IamAngelaHodges 3 жыл бұрын
Most women can't be honest with themselves or others. When I was in my 20s I never wanted to marry because a) I was at the top of my look game b) I was having too much fun dating as many good looking young men like myself c) I didn't want to submit or be controlled. However Most women won't say this because they want to be seen as angelic.
@leah8112
@leah8112 4 жыл бұрын
Really great video. I have a white hubby but I have great friendships with blk men and so does my partner. Let’s love on each other more. A lot of ppl are in need of healing and go around dumping it on other people. I’ve grown so much as a person since watching Kevin.
@TheNgentertainment
@TheNgentertainment 4 жыл бұрын
Good show!
@stevendunn2501
@stevendunn2501 4 жыл бұрын
Please, what is the name of the song playing when Kevin starts the show? I think one of the lyrics of the song goes like this, "In this moment, I cannot say what's wrong or right". I've tried Google to no avail. Please! What's the name of the song?!?!?!
@goodmen2973
@goodmen2973 4 жыл бұрын
Your Good Lies Vividry
@ramonarceneaux5052
@ramonarceneaux5052 4 жыл бұрын
You had me going in the beginning!!! I thought you were talking about the Rodney King Beating!!!
@anjukacey6658
@anjukacey6658 4 жыл бұрын
Black men and black women do need to forgive each other. There is pain on both sides.
@ronniejones540
@ronniejones540 4 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@SinzuSage
@SinzuSage 4 жыл бұрын
As much as I hate the culture of black women towards men I'm always extra nice and helpful to black women IRL. Especialy the older ones. 10/10 times Its the only time I will ever see them. Why not be nice.
@earthreign
@earthreign 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you sweetie, and being nice goes a long way. Your personality and your character will outlive your looks and your wallet size (it can only hold so much money) lol.
@whatsthecode3907
@whatsthecode3907 4 жыл бұрын
Book suggestion The Isis paper's by Dr Francis Cress Welsing Chapter's 20 to 24 But of course read the whole book
@Washitaw
@Washitaw 4 жыл бұрын
This is why I tell red pill brothers to go global and possibly live overseas. You are appreciated and loved outside the Matrix USA.
@chellez29
@chellez29 4 жыл бұрын
Can people just be willing to realize that we have all f'ed up and learn to communicate with our new romantic interest and move on from there?
@citespa8216
@citespa8216 4 жыл бұрын
JUSTICE FOR OTAYSHIA!!!
@HarrisPilton789
@HarrisPilton789 4 жыл бұрын
In spite of what CK and her minions think, being rated on your looks is not damaging to a woman’s self-esteem. However, I do agree with them that some of these BM post unnecessarily nasty comments about the women being rated, and that is unacceptable. Why are they disrespecting BW in this manner? And what is the solution?
@ThoroughbredDiva
@ThoroughbredDiva 4 жыл бұрын
What does adjustable 4, 5, 6 mean?
@IkeOg
@IkeOg 4 жыл бұрын
Adjustable 6 is a cute woman that can be pretty/beautiful when "done-up" right. i.e. 6 is cute (above average), but some, not all, 6's can adjust up to an 8 with the right dress, hair, make-up, and setting.
@ThoroughbredDiva
@ThoroughbredDiva 4 жыл бұрын
@@IkeOg 🤔 interesting. Thank you.
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G 4 жыл бұрын
@@ThoroughbredDiva It is mind blowing how women are judged by these crazy numbers. That is why I am not a fan of any man who would judge any woman based on numbers .
@ThoroughbredDiva
@ThoroughbredDiva 4 жыл бұрын
@@Wonderwoman79Ggurl...clearly this is a predominantly male space. Everyone's entitled to an opinion on a person's looks, the problem is he's a bit crass. Let me save you from watching anymore of his videos. Be the best version of you in life with your health, finances, spirituality, & communication. All the other rude shit he's saying will start to negatively wear on your self esteem if you're not careful. Guard your ears 🙉 & your heart love. 🤗💛
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G 4 жыл бұрын
@@ThoroughbredDiva I think he takes it too far . You do not need to save me from anything as I am not affected by it personally . I do think there are a lot of vulnerable black girls and women who will be negatively affected by his harsh comments. Measuring a woman and giving her a number is degrading. Many men comment in women's spaces and I have noticed a lot of women comment here so I will continue to do so. You and I can agree to disagree.
@sharoncobb2547
@sharoncobb2547 4 жыл бұрын
Samuels do you have any brothers lol!
@jcliff8692
@jcliff8692 3 жыл бұрын
Money Tiera is Nice Wit It...😁😁😁
@freddyb3380
@freddyb3380 3 жыл бұрын
Oh i thought that was karl malone for a sec
@shoshonnie7796
@shoshonnie7796 2 жыл бұрын
Calls start @1:24:12
@bigk2198
@bigk2198 4 жыл бұрын
Has anyone else tried Kevin's cologne suggestion? La Nuit De L'Homme by Yves Saint Lauren
@theparkave
@theparkave 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. It’s a great warm/cool weather fragrance.
@slayadidanca
@slayadidanca 4 жыл бұрын
YSL Y smells the best though .. L’homme is cool but Y smells better !
@patrickmartin2689
@patrickmartin2689 3 жыл бұрын
@@slayadidanca how much for 16oz
@thelastdracolich1237
@thelastdracolich1237 4 жыл бұрын
Men and women cant be friends very soon.somebody is gonna want something.
@HowToSurviveInBabylon
@HowToSurviveInBabylon 4 жыл бұрын
I agree, I don't think men and women can be friends neither, I think it's just another foolish westernised concept that's been forced down our throats, we men are not built that way to be friends with with women especially if she is attractive
@sherwoodwalker573
@sherwoodwalker573 4 жыл бұрын
It’s possible. My three good friends are platonic and been that way for 30 years. But I know I’m not the rule. Even though they are attractive and good friends does mean I have to be more than friends with them. Can’t be in a relationship with everyone you find attractive, it’s not possible.
@earthreign
@earthreign 4 жыл бұрын
Friends that eventually end up with little to no benefits, formerly known as the Friend zone = End Zone. Please read the following: Your main benefit in this box is being able to SEE the person (who you would attempt to squeeze through actual fruit loops to be with, at the drop of water) be with anyone & everyone except you and hear about ALL of the things that they're doing to and with each other. Once you get comfortable in this box, please have weed on deck, money in your pockets, and gas in your car at all times. Get used to being called on for favors with no hesitation. I.E. His/Her child (ren) needs an emergency pick-up from school, or Him/ Her is sick and they need you to go and buy, pick up the medicine for them. (Free of charge) of course..you will not be paid for services rendered. You will only be an errand woman or man from here on out and sometimes you will have to play the role of a licensed Psychiatrist for added value. When they need someone to talk to when it all falls apart, because it does eventually. You will be called to no END because they need your shoulder to cry on and your ears open to listen carefully. After you pour out your heart to them and asking them "Why didn't they just choose you instead" and how "You would be better for them" BS.. they Silently agree while asking you to pass the Kleenex. Once you've been the human towel for hours and feeling hopeful that something might happen..something does..he or she accepts the phone call from the one who broke their heart and the lonely, boring, one-sided, end zone, "SHITUATION" cycle repeats itself. Happy hunting to all, I've exhaled.
@klevdavful
@klevdavful 4 жыл бұрын
Yes and somebody is going to want something or something more than they are willing to give because it ends up being a power structure, somebody wants to be in a position that is not allotted to them. Or somebody does not know how to be in a position that is allotted to them and they did a ran over. Then whatever sugar you had turned quickly into feces and you thought we'd never to desire to see each other again. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
@victorchukwudebe6695
@victorchukwudebe6695 3 жыл бұрын
Ladies, he means cordial without the disdain for one another. Most of you overvalue yourselves and always think someone wants something from you. life is short, go WIN!!! Life is about taking risks...I want to see you all win also!!! LETSSSS GGGOOOOO!!!!
@NAJErEa91
@NAJErEa91 3 жыл бұрын
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