Sister Accused Me Of Stealing Her Wedding Ring, My Entitled Parents Are Siding With Her

[@GomesFereira]

OP is a saint for putting up with her family's BS for so long. Good for her for finally standing up for herself.

[@alexadraeln5316]

Family is the price we pay for not being called orphans. Highly overpriced!

[@LaTazaReddit99]

@@alexadraeln5316 "Ha! No kidding! 😅 Sometimes the 'family discount' feels more like a rip-off. Totally overpriced, indeed."

[@AllenMilsons]

NTA, Your sister has some serious nerve accusing you of theft and then expecting you to babysit.

[@MisoraHiguchi]

I feel for you, OP. This whole thing sucks. I hope you can find peace.

[@BerengarioZito]

I'm so glad you stood up for yourself! Family or not, toxic is toxic.

[@DailyRedditStories1208]

Op, after what Op’s sister put Op through, refusing to babysit is totally justified. Op’s setting healthy boundaries, and that’s something to be proud of.

[@alexadraeln5316]

OP, the bad news is that your visa application for de-lu-lu land was declined 😂

[@KaedaKondou]

This is why I'm terrified of having stepkids. Emma sounds like a nightmare.

[@TildyHazlem]

Emma's behavior is unacceptable. Good for you for standing up for yourself.

[@helenhooper5131]

Why didn't the BIL set them straight and tell everyone she didn't know about the ring?

[@itsharperoffi]

Because: 1. He doesn't give a shit or 2. He's too afraid of his wife and in laws

[@NariFukazawa]

Martha's behavior is textbook emotional blackmail. She needs to learn to take responsibility for her actions.

[@elliskbx1]

It is important that you protect yourself first. Your family may not understand, but you need to do what is right for you.

[@tadiluu]

It is understandable to feel betrayed. If your sister cannot respect you, then keeping your distance may be the best way.

[@mabeljohnson31]

There needs to be respect in the family. If your sister cannot provide clear evidence and apologize to you, then you have the right to protect yourself.

[@CoralynClemont-cz4ik]

The parents need to apologize to OP for their hurtful words and actions. They need to make amends.

[@SugakoKochi]

OP is handling these situations with grace and maturity. I admire her strength.

[@DeborahC.Craven]

Olivia is a sweetheart. I'm glad OP has her in her life.

[@RimaOoyama]

Jake and Olivia are a breath of fresh air in this mess. They're supportive and understanding.

[@ambarbrenda]

Cutting off contact might be your way of protecting yourself.

[@BettyEdith]

I really cant believe your sister would criticize you like that without any evidence.

[@Mrwillie95]

If I had a family like this I would go no contact with them and change my number and block them on social media and think about moving out of town story 1

[@HinaFukunaga]

Emma is being incredibly entitled and manipulative. Don't give in to her demands.

[@RaquelRavarro]

Martha's parents are just as bad, enabling her entitled behavior. They need to hold her accountable.

[@NataleConnin]

This whole situation is a mess. I'm just here for the drama.

[@naptime1900]

You go to her home and something else goes missing and you will be accused again.

[@VictoriaA.Rodriguez]

I wouldn't be surprised if Martha actually misplaced the ring herself and is now trying to deflect blame.

[@steve3429]

Story 1 send dad a email back with his failures back as a response

[@Oberoi17]

Makes no sense that BIL in first story didn't speak up to let wife know OP had no involvement with missing ring once he returned it to her. Instead he watches has family gaslights OP to justify their horrible behavior. Foreseeable future: NC, NC, NC...

[@zoannewilliams]

What your sister did was unforgivable. You need to reconsider your family relationships.

[@paarthurnax8519]

I bet the reason Martha had that so called "intervention" with her family against her sister is that she won't admit she was the one that screwed up and is trying to drown her own guilt with throwing all of OP's past mistakes in her face to remind her that she is still the scapegoat no matter if she was guilty or not. Saying she's jealous of her evan though OP had given no indication of being jealous of her. Martha needs to get her insecurities under control before she targets someone else. Maybe even one of her kids?

[@tstoriesusa]

it seems that Martha may be struggling with her own insecurities and projecting them onto others.

[@orabelleyahaira]

Your family shouldnt criticize you without concrete evidence. Its important to take care of yourself and build relationships with people who understand and respect you.

[@DeclanKnatchbull]

I can understand why Emma might be resentful towards her stepmom, but her behavior is still inexcusable.

[@ArmiVarvio]

The parents are just trying to keep the peace. It's not easy dealing with family conflict.

[@slyph63]

Umm and no support from the husband who took the ring in the first place ffs

[@JacksonJerry-o2jackson8mbt]

If you are not comfortable with babysitting, then dont do it. Your family should not see it as your obligation.

[@ChinoKurata]

OP is a strong, independent woman who doesn't need her toxic family. She'll be just fine on her own.

[@KirikaFurutani]

OP needs to set boundaries with her family. They can't keep walking all over her.

[@jasonscales2522]

Story 1- why is the sister's ring off her hand long enough to be lifted by anyone!

[@FrankC.Brookman]

Jake needs to stand up for his mom more. He shouldn't let Emma get away with treating her like that.

[@Vanessa.Lestrange]

Did Eric ever confront Emma about her comments?

[@Bobbyluu-w8z]

Your family should understand that your self-esteem is more important than babysitting.

[@PilippinePomroy]

OP, I hope you and Olivia have a beautiful wedding despite all this drama.

[@avantikaelijah]

Yikes, that sounds awful. But I think you have every right to feel hurt and to speak up about it.

[@alyzu4755]

"My family is bonkers bingo". 🤣 Good on OP for going NC. Her entire family, other than the kids, is completely bonkers. I feel badly for those kids, being raised in that atmosphere. And BIL screwed the pooch, didn't he?

[@PaolaBassett]

I feel bad for Eric. Stuck in the middle of a wife-daughter war.

[@GayHalligan-oo3te]

I hope Jake and Olivia have a beautiful wedding and a happy life together.

[@midnightbake]

FINALLY a story with interesting prose instead of something that sounds like a stalwart psychologist wrote it! wheeeee!

[@user-ii3vn8tn3q]

Nothing good ever comes from free babysitting.

[@HaroldK.Jordan]

Martha is a spoiled brat who needs to grow up. Accusing her own sister of theft? Unbelievable!

[@ArnySkamell333]

Your parents are enabling your sister's behavior. It's time they grew up.

[@pracillabain4218]

Story 1: Congratulations on breaking free! Here's to a great stress free future. ❤ Story 2: Its your dress and choice on who you want to wear it. Besides Emma called the dress tacky so she doesn't deserve it.

[@tstoriesusa]

What do you think the characters are feeling in each story?

[@SadieMattusov7]

Everyone's acting selfishly. Try to find a compromise that works for everyone.

[@AbbeyGalvin]

NTA. Emma's behavior is textbook entitled brat. You did nothing wrong. Olivia deserves that dress and your love!

[@amityemilly]

Maybe you need to clarify things with them. Refusing to babysit is also a way of expressing your dissatisfaction.

[@HiroikoNakamura]

OP, you dodged a bullet. Imagine Emma as your actual daughter-in-law.

[@yborakes]

"Hello, just wanted you to know that we don't want you to come over to us anymore. After your last visit my wallet has disappeared." "What? I did not steal it!" "Yeah, we know, we found it later, but the sour taste remains."

[@BarnieFishpoole11]

It's not your job to be your sister's free babysitter, especially after she treated you like that.

[@NatsuyoOkamura]

You deserve to be happy. Don't let Emma ruin your relationship with Olivia.

[@LawrenMayes]

OP, you're not alone. Many people have toxic families.

[@WildenHolan]

It's your wedding dress, but giving it to Olivia feels like a slap in the face to Emma.

[@StarlaDumk]

Can we talk about how Steve just sat there and said nothing? Red flag!

[@YukakoGotou]

OP, just tell Emma the dress is haunted by your dead husband. That'll shut her up.

[@KomaErdo]

Your stepdaughter sounds like a nightmare. You're better off without her toxicity in your life.

[@AsunaYoshida]

The parents need to wake up and see how their favoritism is hurting OP. They need to be more supportive.

[@LeoneeHattoe]

Plot twist: The dress is cursed. Everyone who wears it ends up in a family feud.

[@NickolaiRevett402]

Jake and Olivia are lucky to have each other. They're a great couple.

[@YaekoSakai]

I wouldn't be surprised if Emma is intentionally trying to sabotage her stepmom's relationship with Olivia.

[@EstebanSpringett]

Can we get an update on Jake's reaction to all this? Is he Team Mom or Team Step-Sis?

[@TaimiSaarijärvi]

Emma's comments about the dress and Olivia are just plain mean. She's clearly jealous and insecure.

[@LachlanFinnerty]

Emma needs therapy. She has some deep-seated issues that need to be addressed.

[@justasmalltowngirllivingin8453]

Where was the husband who could of said " she had nothing to do with this"

[@tstoriesusa]

Do you see any evidence against her?

[@DarlineDunnex]

OP, sending you virtual hugs. You deserve better.

[@boatthere867]

i still dont know why her husband didnt say he took the ring the first night after finding out what went on that day when he got home from work ? and just let it get worse and wose. they all sound bad so its a good job you've blocked them and getting on with your life as there nuts.

[@hughesflzy]

It must be said that your sister is a bad person.

[@AvaresLewin]

You can't blame Emma for being upset. Put yourself in her shoes!

[@AristotleCapitolina]

ESH, except Emma. She's the AH here. Major green-eyed monster vibes.

[@DeclanKnatchbull]

You did nothing wrong. The dress is yours to give, and Emma had her chance.

[@88isbored]

Nah nta but the op is funny af 😂

[@2xtreem4u]

Get yourself adopted by a better family

[@tstoriesusa]

I don't think we should do that, we can tell our parents the truth.

[@2xtreem4u]

@@tstoriesusa they don't care about OP

[@miladhbv]

You didnt steal the ring.

[@VilmaAtonia]

I'm team Olivia. She seems sweet. Plus, the dress fits her perfectly.

[@arthurthompson59]

I completely agree with your decision.

[@JohnySkirving]

NTA for giving the dress to Olivia, but YTA for how you handled Emma's feelings.

[@CarolaOksanen]

OP, I hope things get better for you.

[@AlmeidaBarroser]

OP is being too dramatic. She needs to learn to forgive and forget.

[@SabinaRicciso]

I can't believe how entitled some people are.

[@GloriousRock]

Why does every single stepparent, tries endlessly to bond and become thr new mom or dad? Like stop. Be a friend, grow a bond, let them choose, dont try ti replace their parents

[@tstoriesusa]

Stepparents often genuinely care about their stepchildren and want to provide them with love, support, and guidance.

[@ProsperoFiorentini]

You're not obligated to give her the dress, but her feelings are valid. It's a tough situation.

[@glenmassey3746]

S1. Stay LC or NC, and have a zoom meeting, if they show up make sure it stays outside your house don't invite them in. S2. Emma is a toxic person who likes messing with Op every chance she gets, don't give in.

[@CharmineSarah]

Emma's acting like she's missing out on a Birkin bag, not a 23-year-old dress.

[@JacquenetteOxi]

OP, you're handling these situations like a champ.

[@janicenaila]

Its best to have a frank talk with your sister and family. n.

[@KimberlyPinkston-w1f]

No way it was always meant to stay in your family Stepdaughter is not your family

[@rishimamorey]

Thats a bit extreme. Maybe you should give them a chance to apologize.

[@LatirNaser]

This is why I have trust issues.

[@orianabui]

I really dont know what to say. Its unacceptable for your sister to not apologize and continue to ask you to babysit.

[@SamuelGiffen]

Damn, family drama is the worst.

[@Rorschachqp]

Don't need a second story, just make it two videos.

[@MarusBacon]

Did they ever find the ring?

[@jessicathompson236]

Yeah. Her husband took it for resizing and engraving for their anniversary.

[@digidressdress2363]

Why is the wedding ring not on sister hand where it belongs. Why take it of

[@tstoriesusa]

she is losing her ring

[@KarifRaniWasem]

ESH. Emma's being a brat, but you could've handled it better. Family is complicated.

[@iccarus1975]

Second Story: 23 years ago, got married, a year later, had a son, who is now 25, how?