[Full Story] My Sister-in-Law is Planning a Wedding at My House And I'm Not Invited, But

[@LKelly-ep8ce]

Your house, your rules. Get rid of toxic people asap. My daughter-in-law was a user, and once I stopped helping financially she used my grandbaby to hurt me, but what she expected wasn't what she saw. Once we fell off, she said: "Well if you don't want to help, then I'll move my baby and your son to Utah!" To that I said: "That sounds great! I'll help with the move, when do you guys leave?" They left, my son divorced her and my grandbaby is still in my life.😅😂

[@norsidahyangyahaya6820]

Way to go Gramma 😂

[@BK-tp6jf]

Please dont put the error of her on the next woman help your son chose better but be kond to thw next one. I hope your aon finds a nice lady

[@queenbreezy7297]

Exactly God will always fix it!!

[@12DecemberStory]

You handled that with such grace. Not everyone would be able to stay strong and keep their grandbaby close after all that drama. You did the right thing

[@sinpourmoi2765]

@@LKelly-ep8ce fuck, yea!!!! 🤘🤘

[@Reader1stlove]

The in laws only wanted sister in law to be someone else's problem

[@Qanwa]

Yup. Since she was finally leaving after almost a decade overdue, they agreed to everything she wanted to be free of her after the wedding. Unfortunately even if the wedding succeeded, she'd be back coz I don't think anyone can live long-term with that woman. They didn't let her mature enough to be able to live without them. They'll probably be stuck with her for a long time.

[@ilovemoviesyes]

The parents enabled her. That’s the problem they created so they can solve it.

[@jakesullivan9179]

My parents have one condition in letting me stay in their home as an adult. Either be working a sustainable job, go to college (and major in stem, Econ, or accounting even for law school it would be one of those, engineering on top though), or if I got laid off and need to protect my savings from vanishing.

[@deborahwright8031]

You should never ever give anyone else a key to your house .

[@DJRenee]

Yep

[@Christobell119]

You saved that man so much heartache and stress and pain. And his family. You're amazing!

[@JR-ev8ce]

Why would she want to use YOUR house for her wedding but not invite you? That’s SO disrespectful, her sense of entitlement is off the charts!!!

[@Ziwiiw]

Then Lock all the doors and no party here

[@lkwdryan]

Good chance it’s a work of fiction-entertaining as it is! Turns out, it’s not unheard of for people to practice their writing on here. (nothing wrong with that, I’m only sayig you just never know anymore if these are made up-or actual experiences that people are sharing.)

[@deliveryguy7402]

Not only that, but where were the bride and groom going to stay afterwards? Wouldn't the fiance think they would live in that house? Sounds like the bride was going to kick her brother and SIL out of their home.

[@jvbutalid8316]

It's all about enforcement. OP is seen as doormat who'd happily comply with anything, that's why he gets such disrespect. Edit: So OP is a she, so....yeah.

[@MH_Prof]

How can you have a wedding at someone’s house but put forth the stipulation that the homeowner can’t attend? If it’s their house, you don’t get to keep them out of their own home. That’s a dumb premise from the beginning. When dumb dumb asked if her parents sent me an invitation, the correct response was they didn’t need to. It’s my house. Nothing happens here without my presence.

[@bowtoyoursensei554]

Right?

[@bronagh1579]

Because this is made up...

[@heffa3821]

@@bowtoyoursensei554 Some people are just beyond help.. dumb is forever and that SIL beauty sure will be faded soon!

[@myrajefferson3672]

@@heffa3821With her attitude and antics, the ugly has already begun to take hold.

[@shirleycreer4422]

Once you knew she wasn’t inviting you, you should have just said, I don’t want you to have you wedding at my house and I don’t want a lot of strangers in my house.

[@dannigyrl]

That was said and they still showed up

[@AnitaMorton-qz7os]

​@@dannigyrlThey didn't want to hear it, so they ignored it

[@michaelallen1432]

Agreed. I do have to take exception to surprising her on the day of the wedding by changing the locks. That's a bit immature. Just flat out say it's not going to happen and be done with it. Her sister and laws immaturity is not an excuse for her own.

[@ilovemusic6959]

@@michaelallen1432except the unhinged (proven by her showing up later banging, screaming, and threatening) SIL had a spare key. Changing the locks WAS the way to be done with it, and the responsible choice for safety.

[@bowtoyoursensei554]

@@michaelallen1432 Disagree. If you think the SIL would have just taken "no" for an answer and just gone home, you're very naive. Or delusional. the woman is a danger to everyone around her. It's called protecting your safety and property and I would've done the same.

[@Princess4fh]

The husband is a green flag. He knew his wife’s boundaries and respected her decisions. The fiancé is also a green flag, her SIL and parents kept him in the dark. He dodged a huge red flag of a woman.

[@hexmaniacciaran]

yeah, and he went to apologise after it all, that's just classy - hope he finds someone worthy of him

[@haplessasshole9615]

I'm picturing Dustin Poyter sprinting through public parks with enormous green flags. The skinny kid with the flags has really made an impression in the past five months.

[@DailyRedditStories1208]

The in-laws only wanted the sister-in-law to become someone else’s problem. They were just trying to pass the buck instead of dealing with the real issues themselves

[@johannebeerbaum1546]

They made her what she was but refuse to take the consequences……too bad!

[@aking3624]

I'm always amazed when people try to scam or manipulate others they play the "Reputation card". If you're complict, that is your reputation!!!

[@justanunluckyirishmaninabl5178]

I don't get it. If these people are so worried about their reputation, then why do they go and do things in the first place that will ruin it once word gets out?

[@lunarl]

"Don't tell people you lied in order to back up another liar? Don't lie to back someone who lied, and I won't have to."

[@marshafick4006]

This shouldn’t even be an issue. Who asks to use a family member’s home but doesn’t invite the person? Just say NO!!

[@bun04y]

Oh what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive.

[@kimpeter9273]

This was a good one. I can't believe there are really people like her Sister in-law 😅

[@janicelareau4379]

Right the whole time I was listening to it I was in shock that someone like that actually existed

[@dragonmom4663]

They exist. My SIL is just as selfish. The stuff they say is so dumb, I can't even stay mad because half the mess is just laughable. Ridiculous demands that will never happen..she cut us off because I wouldn't give her my car and my husband won't be her bank.

[@naomiemoore5725]

Think again. Had an acquaintance at work that had these traits.

[@lorettataylor521]

The fiancé dodged the bullet on that one

[@allthingsjustice6465]

Why do i feel like if they had allowed the wedding, sister in law would have changed the locks and attempted to move in?

[@lululacanuck3824]

Isn’t it amazing how entitled some folks are? I love that you changed the locks without telling her.

[@AprileAnderson]

She never should've had a key. Going in the house without permission n at 6am would've had me going off on her. Glad she cancelled the wedding for that snot-nose punk

[@debclark9889]

You just know that SIL and her friends are going to trash your place.

[@brownin329]

Locks have been changed

[@shawnalLovesJesus]

Letting her live in your house and you be out is like allowing a squatter in. You could very well have been out if this story had gone in that direction.

[@AlmightyAphrodite]

That's what I was thinking too! But that would've also exposed the lies of the SIL and inlaws, but had the fiancé been in on the lies, that's something I could totally see happening.

[@ginger6582]

A wedding based on lies never lasts.

[@nancybroertjes5160]

The background is too busy. Very distracting.

[@justagirl4627]

I don't watch it. I listen while I work or drive.

[@TheMsLisaF]

Yeah, hate it

[@patriciamontgomery4175]

The background is giving me a headache. I can't watch anymore

[@iselacowen5441]

Yes yes yes Agree with you

[@nancyrea3863]

Truth!!!

[@nancygamez7087]

A courthouse wedding is good enough for her. Her marriage isn't guaranteed to last after her lies are discovered

[@simonsanty2477]

A wedding based on lies is like a castle built on a swamp: it will sink sooner of later, but for sure it will sink. As for the "reputation" card, what the in-laws think will happen when truth will finally be discovered? Did they think OP will always leave her house on every SIL demand just to cover their deceit? So entitled. Huge cheer for the husband tough for respecting wife's POV against his own family. That is commitment. Happy life for them both.

[@virginiawatson6170]

What a professional victim. The parents are enablers. The fiance dodged a bullet.

[@Pontisusan7]

How the hell can you have a wedding at your house if you're not invited? That sounds un effing believable. I don't understand.

[@mimibee409]

Asking someone to have their wedding at their house is one thing, but to not invite the home owner, who happens to be their brothers wife??? Crazy entitled . You don’t $hit where you eat.

[@rollothecat2010]

It is OP's house and property. It is her decision alone as to whether someone can use her house and property. SIL and in laws both lied and committed to SIL's fiancé and his parents that they were using OP's house and property without first getting permission from OP or even mentioning that they did not own it. What complete and total morons! Especially with a pool, having a wedding at a property with a pool is a potential huge financial liability. If someone was injured or died on the property (especially relevant due to the pool and alcohol being served during the wedding), OP could have ended up being sued for millions. The in laws used emotional blackmail to try to get OP to agree. "Our reputation depends on this!" Then SIL had the audacity to not even invite OP to the wedding in OP's own house. "I don't want her at my wedding!" What a total brat! Because it is a private home, I would not allow someone to use my property for something as messy and potentially destructure and also a major legal liability (especially with a pool) as a wedding if I am not present. I do not blame OP for changing the locks and telling the wedding planner that the "venue" could not be used any longer and to find another venue. Bratty SIL lost her venue because of her own behavior. Her fiancé finally realized what a huge mistake he had made in getting engaged to SIL when he found out the truth about the property ownership and what SIL had done. Life lesson for everyone: do not lie to a banker.

[@pghcraig]

This was turning into a lifetime crime movie at the end. Paycho Sister In Law

[@kimberlychandler6162]

This was easy…party at my house, that I paid for, but I’m not invited. Neither is my house. Courthouse for you😂🤣😑

[@sinpourmoi2765]

I gotta say, a degree doesn’t mean someone is a hard worker. I had a ton of peers in college that are gonna be major problems in their respective fields.

[@TwirlingStar]

Paying for everything yourself makes you a hard worker. She was able to get and keep a scholarship, and she bought that house with mostly her own money, just her father covered the down payment on it. Getting a degree solely without your parents paying for it is hard work.

[@nancyrea3863]

I agree. Just because you go to college and get a degree does not mean you will be able to hold down a job.

[@erynlasgalen1949]

I believe that a college degree no longer holds the value it once did. A liberal arts bachelor's degree was supposed to teach critical thinking, which it no longer does, plus critical thinking can be learned on your own without shelling out $100K. I have met so many morons with degrees.

[@arielruby13]

​@@TwirlingStar so she has the priviledge to get her fathers help for the downpayment as well as the private highschools

[@donnaschmitz5025]

​@arielruby13 A privilege her HARD-WORKING parents paid for. And they passed their values on to their kids. You got a problem with that?

[@Sin-D_]

This is difficult to believe… 🙄. Where were they supposed to live after the wedding? And how did the bride expect her new husband to not find out her parents live elsewhere and that the toxic (excluded) sibling now lives in HER parents’ house? I can’t believe i stayed thus long 18:27. This sounds RIDICULOUS!!

[@michellemorrison9663]

Maybe they were going back to Ireland. It didn't look as if he had any intention to stay in the US. It doesn't sound ridiculous when you bring immigration and mixed families. They would just start a new life in a new home. I have an aunt who is a pathological liar. Her lies sound ridiculous, as you would call them. But when she's weaving them and manipulating.... boy can it get scary.

[@SoCalMama]

I know that most of these are fake but the authors usually do a better job of making it plausible. This one just reeks of BS.

[@lynn-in-the-tanglebox]

@@michellemorrison9663 my sister in a serial liar,she must rehearse because they sound really plausible,I think she actual believes them herself,when I start thinking about what she’s said,i realise it’s just more bull 💩sadly I don’t really believe anything she says now.i just listen and go oh right,yes hmm… 🤷🏻‍♀️🙁

[@ilovemoviesyes]

If I didn’t witness a similar situation in real life- I would not believe it but I saw it in my own family. My aunt lied to her “boyfriend” from overseas- He gave her money to buy a house-- she didn’t use the money to buy a house. So when he said he was coming to see the house she convinced her sister to tell the lie that the house they both shared was actually his!?! Her sister ( Aunt #2) went along with story and even moved out of master bedroom into spare room. Well they didn’t cover up the lies good enough!?! They didn’t move my aunt# 2 closet nor her sons closet out of Master ( son was 6 at the time). 6 year old kept going into room to get toys and stuff! 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🙈 The boyfriend asked why there was so many people at the house? Aunt #1 had 3 kids and Aunt# 2 had 1 son. They all lived in that house. ( there are 9 brothers and sisters in my aunts family and they come over every weekend to hang out.) he asked her to kick everyone out of “his” house. She lied. And said she can’t kick them out? He said why not since this is his house that he paid for. Then all the arguing started to happen in front of the whole family. She kept lying- and he finally asked what did she do with the money he gave her and is this really his house? She finally explain that this was actually Aunt # 2 house and that she helps pay the mortgage. But that this is not his house. She gave no explanation of where the money he gave her went. He left right after. He was there a total of 36 hours before lies unraveled! The whole family told this overseas boyfriend nothing- they let him figure it out for himself. I still don’t believe it- if I didn’t witness this. ( I was 14 at the time, still a child and you don’t involve yourself in adult conversation but enough to understand this is not how you do it! )

[@mizzoutigeralm05]

Yeah and acting like 4 bedrooms is some huge mansion? OP also reeks of self-importance. My parents house has 5 bedrooms and 2.5 baths and its far from a mansion and definitely wouldn't work for some huge wedding.

[@ninaross211]

PROPERLY PREPARED ?? OH HELL NAWL ! SIL WASNT EVER PLANNING TO LEAVE

[@williegrant3054]

Could be True

[@dianekruger5977]

Wouldnt surprise me if she expects you to let them "borrow YOUR HOUSE for every party, etc, she wants to have.

[@memyself717]

You did her ex-fiance the biggest favour of his life.

[@lauraphillips361]

i would never do that to my siblings, my cousins, anyone! this is her fault, and in laws! I am so sorry you went through this. I am glad you are still with your husband and that you are supporting one another, i love that!

[@janbentzen6814]

If this is your husband's sister, he should be dealing with her, not you!

[@rollothecat2010]

No, it is OP's property, not her husband's property. Therefore, she is the one who makes the rules on whether her property can be used. I would have requested that the in laws pay for short term liability insurance on my property for 3 million dollars as a condition for using the property for the wedding. I use to drive seniors (elderly) for Catholic Charities when I was younger. I had to carry as a driver and owner of the car $1.5 million liability insurance on my car. This was decades ago. We still carry that much liability insurance on our cars. My husband decided it was a good precaution.

[@donnaschmitz5025]

Sounds like his way of dealing with his crazy family was to withdraw and not make any waves.

[@joymelton-bollen6383]

EVER stop to think since it's being held at your house that an invitation WAS NOT RELEVANT. Today's society is hopeless and pathetic.

[@cherillsamuel2072]

GOOD FOR YOU. NO INVITE, NO WEDDING.

[@vanessashimoni6548]

This story is completely unbelievable. Op claims to give her opinion without sugarcoating things but agrees to all the insanity SIL dished out. 😂

[@MyXyle666]

And spends most of the story talking about how successful and smart she is.

[@joycef8443]

And the boyfriend has never been to SIL’s residence before? This is all made up.

[@tomp8215]

Fabricated story. Too many details. Anyone who would agree to one iota of this is a doormat.

[@darlenecarroll3876]

Thank goodness the groom found out about her true self before the wedding and not after.

[@cornelia9778]

Heck no! Why even think about it? You have the support of your wonderful husband so do what you want which is clearly not to turn your life upside down to spoil your SIL.

[@namcypurkey4152]

No no no! If she can’t pay for a venue then courthouse is the last resort! Do not let this happen in YOUR house. Do not trust her.

[@kimpeterson95]

The relationship between the parents and the daughter was none of the daughter in law business. Her husband should of help her say no in the beginning, he wanted to stay out of it. She made the right decision in the end.

[@erichanastacio9695]

There's also a possibility that during the night, SIL will look through OPs belongings for the house's deed / title, and then somehow transfer the property to herself to make "her house" to be truly hers.

[@MissLucyJane]

If OP is as sensible as she sounds, the deed will be locked up in a safe deposit box at her bank with only herself and her husband allowed access.

[@Porthos240]

They're not valuing their reputation - they're valuing my "image".

[@theresarts482]

That is easy. No trespassing signs. Her keys no longer work. Sprinklers. Driveway full/blocked. Call police if they don’t understand no.

[@anitamorrison4238]

😂

[@latheefabanupallipurath207]

Fast changing background is horrible on the eyes

[@lynnegeorge7691]

Change the locks, turn on the sprinklers, invite friends to bring their dogs for a day long play date.

[@raz7573]

Release the dogs!

[@JAMcCluskey]

Lol! Who let the dogs out!!​@@raz7573

[@natalieas8740]

I enjoyed this one soooo much. OP should have been asked to use her house. I'd have changed the locks after her behavior too.

[@lesleyallinson8738]

For start she would need your permission to have her wedding at your home. Plus she thinks she can say you can't be at your home get a grip no way can she dictate what happens there. The inlaws are a disgrace if they think her getting married at YOUR HOUSE, I would have done the same the mans family need to know the truth she uses people for money and the house is yours not her family

[@brandyb2931]

You don't need an invitation to a wedding that is being held in your house. You just tell them you aren't going anywhere and will be there or there will be no wedding. And if that bothers them, they can write the tooth fairy about it. Also, what was she planning after the wedding when they would be leaving? I have a feeling sil was planning on them staying.

[@user-yz5uc6wf8w]

Perfect response to the nonsense that she would think she could barr you from your home. No excuse!! You did the right thing.

[@erynlasgalen1949]

I have come to realize that these stories are fiction written by aspiring writers of melodrama. Way too over the top to be real. But using someone's house as a wedding venue and not allowing them at the wedding is 'the limit', a wonderful term I learned reading Galsworthy.

[@MandieKearns-Moore]

Absolutely

[@Princess4fh]

Came from TikTok since most of the Reddit story accounts were posting without ANY updates🙄

[@jessicathompson236]

She's having DELUSIONS OF GRANDEUR.

[@kathiemechowski8848]

I would not let her use me - or my house.

[@dawncheshire-gibson1859]

I have friends this happened to. I think they were in such shock they shook their heads and stayed inside.

[@hankithekumaneko]

lol the minecraft background, discovering lava, and then panicking on the making the portal cuz of water hahahahahahahahahah, its too funny

[@soupafi]

In laws were like “don’t fuck this up. We want her out of our hair”

[@teresaproano7984]

If this is a real story, you did the right thing. So sad.

[@C-SD]

I WILL NOT lie for someone else, especially something like this. And I'm sure as hell not going to give up my bedroom. You better figure something else out. Its not a "venue"

[@gabn1559]

good job, and you saved the fance from a heap of trouble in the meantime

[@janiepeitz8124]

Don’t let her hold the wedding.

[@Blantar]

No one realizes that when you get married, you also marry the family. I would have never agreed to let her have it there in the first place. She’s way too nice.

[@maxsmum3561]

I know these stories are total fiction, but they are so much fun 🤩

[@lindakanzeg3205]

I would never let any one use my house or my things, NO from the get go

[@benrue5197]

This should be a movie! Or at least short film.

[@DreamyRita]

This is so unrealistic. But still good to listen to so it's okay

[@YHorsey-by9jt]

How do you have the nerve to schedule your wedding at somebody else’s house and they’re not invited in their own house! She needs to find another venue😮

[@rowenadalmino4087]

That's craziness sister in law's no sister ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@saramccormack3025]

Weak-minded relatives bought this on themselves by enablin her. Nt demand th@ she learn 2 b financial independent.

[@niccolehoody7317]

I'm sry once u start out lying to your in laws about your to make u look bigger then u are and they will always find out the truth

[@cathybenson5119]

Don't let walk over you. She's selfish.

[@gailjohnston9253]

I find this hard to believe. If it is, say NO. Eloping is an option.

[@marysullivan3881]

Why would you let things go so far? How immature.

[@lousegnaben6275]

Are there some people like that, I mean the SIL? Maybe okay to use someone else house but claiming it your own to impress is NOT. What will happen when eventually the truth comes out? Starting your married life full of lies is a NO-NO. It's a foundation of a failed marriage.

[@dontbetheproblem]

This video is giving me anxiety😮😮‍💨👀

[@lorisalim4598]

Sounds like a protective/restraining order needs to be put in place.

[@DillyHackett-if6po]

Just call & tell them you’ve changed your mind and you don’t want to have the wedding in your house.

[@pisilon2181]

Totally unbelievable

[@KittKatt542]

Your land title your house your lock. Dollar store sign. Change in venue call bride

[@dogmom2844]

Sucks to be your sister in law you did the right thing by changing the locks

[@thomasnisen3214]

You saved the groom's life!

[@eskimolost2012]

Nope they f around and find out

[@juliemitchell9905]

I love how it ended No one would go through that and let them used their House

[@M3ME72]

Hell you say...my house not invited? Loat their minds fr

[@mignon902]

Omg this is soo out there! Lol lol lol

[@LovesLakes]

Such a stupid premise for even a made up story. Who would believe it?

[@mizzoutigeralm05]

A lot of people by the comments

[@justbcusican230]

Your house your rules and don't forget to give her the bill for cleaning table rental, etc, in front of her husband to be and his family. And stay in your room!!

[@Metrifold]

The beginning was confusing. “We’re not privileged” but “my family is wealthy”, “we went to private school”, and “my dad paid the down payment for my house.” 🤔

[@CarolynMcPherson-r3z]

There is a long history of grievance and feelings of second-bestness here.

[@hunbun28]

Just because somebody's parents have money doesn't mean the kids.Have the money. I'm sure they did what they could to help and wanted to teach them responsibilities, After you. Get everything you want in life, It's actually really hard to know how to do things for yourself as an adult.

[@jermainetrower7612]

L​@@hunbun28

[@arielruby13]

Yeah, that definitely is priviledge

[@tamaraliscia3408]

"We" is OP and her husband. OP's parents are wealthy, she wrote. Before OP married her Dad advised her to buy a house, which she did. Her Dad gave her the down payment... that's neither usual or unusual ... it' just what some parents do, and some do not.

[@jsuarmy08]

The audacity

[@l.h.2543]

OP needs to grow a backbone

[@jeanfaircloth7935]

How can they use ur house and uninvite u? Something is wrong with that!

[@JussaBehbi]

You give an inch and they take a mile

[@jenniferbeyer6412]

You might want to get a restraining order for the whole in law family, except your husband of course. I would never approve of any type of party or event at my place if I had to leave. And a contract would be signed out lining your rules like access to some rooms off limits and if any thing was damaged or destroyed they will have to pay 5 times the original value.

[@leemykendall7252]

Tell mother-in-law and daddy in-laws to give her the wedding at their house

[@henriettaparks4266]

❤SIS!! SHUT IT DOWN!! AINT NOWAY!! HEFFA WOULD GET A MAJOR RUDE AWAKENING!! NOT MY HOUSE!!😊😊😊

[@Maya23452]

This is why love is between a couple and marriage is between families. You gotta marry the right family for a happy life.

[@justbcusican230]

I would just lock the doors and not answer. And let them go to the courthouse. Then she can explain all that to her new in-laws

[@inezgauna5905]

This session alone could be a great comedy/drama movie. Publish/copywrite your story and possibly sell it to an independent producer.

[@joycef8443]

But tighten up the details.

[@RoseCastillo-v5g]

The background is so nauseous. Made me dizzy😡

[@sylviaanaya6988]

I read the transcript and don’t bother with the video…

[@tarajoyce3598]

I know this is just a story but this exemplifies cowardice and childish behavior. Say no out loud up front and be done with it. Silly games, silly prizes.