Hannah Gadsby on getting diagnosed with autism: - It really made a lot of sense | SVT/TV 2/Skavlan

[@michikomanalang6733]

She says her emotions don't show on her face, but her eyes are so bright. Aaaaa she's great.

[@trueblissconsciousness2821]

Our emotions do show on our faces but they are not always the ones that people expect. And they sort of jar people.

[@dollymadison2397]

She must be pretty lightly autistic from what I'm seeing. My neighbor girl/ "adopted grand daughter" is moderately autistic. It took me a LONG time to realize she actually does NOT want, nor need my attn, entertainment or engagement most of the time. She really DOES want to sit & stack things for hours on end. She doesn't actually want to put together a puzzle with me, she just wants me to be there, but in the other room incase she needs something, while she color coordinates & then stacks the puzzle pieces over & over. She's the light of my life.

[@Kristen242008]

@@dollymadison2397 Autism is a spectrum. Even if we seem put together, and fairly "normal" doesn't mean that is how we are. Women with Autism do something called Masking. We will see how everyone else is acting, and act like that too. We do it to hide our Autistic traits from everyone. You don't see how much we are struggling. That place wasn't very bright. There wasn't a lot of noise, or multiple people talking to her, so she was able to be more relaxed. He was very respectful to her, and I appreciate that greatly as an Autistic woman myself.

[@amandaGFT]

@@dollymadison2397 - I agree with Kristen Long. In addition, it could be that Hannah would prefer to be sorting and stacking too. Before ASD in girls/women was recognized, your granddaughter would've grown older and eventually observed that it is more socially acceptable to do the puzzle WITH the other person rather than do your own thing. I think it's beautiful that you have "adopted" her and accepted her how she is. She will always remember you and your support, love and kindness.

[@drbrog190]

"When I'm on my own, I'm smooth....then another person comes in...and it's complicated" My life, in one sentence 🤣 #ActuallyAutistic #neurodiverseandproud

[@emmyewok6022]

J G you've missed the meaning of #actuallyautistic. it's used when autistic people speak about being autistic, as opposed to when people who aren't autistic try to do it as though they have a better understanding of it than we do. when people without lived experience assign their own suppositions of our internal experiences and motivations. nothing to do with claiming anybody is faking being autistic.

[@mlwilliams7959]

Amen! Love her sweater!

[@TheAutisticEducator]

@J V Autism is not a joke.

[@veronicabamfield5078]

absolutely my favourite comment, I'm the same. I was diagnosed about 6 years ago and it's helped me to stop beating my head against a brick wall trying to be neurotypical

[@inkmothstudios]

Oh look, it me! Absolutely my life, in one sentence 🤣 @ @

[@kdnwksnjwusu6755]

You know, I was kinda afraid of this comment section, but turns out it's really lovely and positive. Thanks everyone!

[@annala2956]

Hanna Würfel I was worried too. I’ve seen people be cruel to her from behind their keyboards. She’s lovely and very intelligent.

[@charlieparkeris]

@@annala2956 And as funny as cancer.

[@rachelryan78]

Is this hannah gatsby?,🤔

[@maidenmarian1]

No way is this comment section going to be mean. If they do we will report them!!

[@maidenmarian1]

@@annala2956 She acts like someone I would have wanted as a friend while growing up. Someone people would admire...

[@narcissistnextdoor901]

I really like this interviewer. He is very respectful and lets his guest talk.

[@giovanna8187]

Everyone is so relaxed and warm!

[@SkavlanTV]

Thank you so much, we truly appreciate the feedback!

[@mariettew-b9629]

I’ve never seen so much respect by an interviewer AND his other guests. Outstanding result & gigantic thanks for the way Hannah was so welcomed 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@joshlanders]

I agree. Also, your username... Those eyes.

[@sheemakarp6424]

He’s brilliant: warm & totally adorable 😍

[@Ash-up9gl]

As an autistic person myself, thank you Skavlan so much for not being afraid to ask the real questions here. And to not back away from something that isn't talked about much! I adore what Hannah said here, "I think diversity is really important, it's the real key. Neurodiversity I think, is really an important thing for society, I think society could be helped with neurodiversity. I understand this world because I've studied 'neurotypical', but I think people who aren't neurotypical have something to offer as well and I think, if we learn each other's languages, that's better."

[@SkavlanTV]

Thank you so much, your comment means a lot to us!

[@ZaffyTaffy]

Ayy! Same here with the same name. Never met another Abi with ASD before.

[@Ash-up9gl]

@@ZaffyTaffy Ayyy hello, guess there's a first time for everything! Hello fellow Abi who also has ASD. :)

[@ZaffyTaffy]

@Flibbertigibbet6 boi, b8 weak. You have a nice day.

[@kbmls3]

@I Love The Colour Pink You don't know what you're talking about. #takeaseat

[@jacquithehammer]

"When you are being self-depricating on stage you are representing not just yourself but also people who identify with you. [...] People who hate what you are are not laughing because they think you are funny, they are laughing because they agree with the underlying." That was spot on. I feel so grateful that Hannah's voice is heard now because she has a lot of wise words to spill.

[@ashsteepingtea]

One of her best quotes. I've been watching different interviews and clips of her shows just taking down quotes because she is someone I most definitely look up to. What a woman!

[@jlheelan]

@ Ash from Nanette: "There's nothing stronger than a broken woman who has rebuilt herself."

[@heydeanie]

@@jlheelan she needs to make tshirts with that on if she hasn't already

[@rhope1727]

Omg yaaasss

[@anneliesebridges9559]

"that's brave", "No, I think it's autism" LOVE IT!

[@ToxicToastRecords]

Spoken like a true person with Autism. Direct, no filter, but also a hint of sarcasm to lighten the blow so people don't feel they're being attacked.

[@DorotaGodby]

My big appreciation for the empathic and intelligent questions and the beautiful listening, respectful presence from the interviewer. Such a superior viewing experience when substance is available rather than only scandal or noise. Thank you!

[@SkavlanTV]

We're so glad you like the interview, Dorota! Thank you for watching and commenting 🙏🏼

[@elizabethheyenga9277]

@@SkavlanTV Yes in the US it is all fleeting sound bites. Our attention span is officially less than a goldfish now - truth, been studied and reported. To see a sensitive and lengthy interview is a treasure.

[@bethmoloney6825]

And his guests.

[@CastledarkDweller27]

OMG Dorota i was trying to concoct a sentence saying similar to what you wrote, but you said it far better than i ever could. Your Comment Says It ALL. PERFECTLY. THAT is why this interview was such a wonderful (& unexpected) pleasure to watch. Thankyou.

[@mariettew-b9629]

I’m with @Dorota Godby ⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@TheJohnblyth]

“People are not very brave in real life”. I’m very glad Hannah’s in our world.

[@syrlumipj3375]

I think this is the best interview I've seen where Hannah was given the respect and room to explain. Thank you for such a lovely interview

[@SkavlanTV]

Thank you for watching and commenting!

[@maidenmarian1]

I plan to watch it again since it is early in the evening. I will watch tonight..

[@Happybidr]

That’s the value of listening, being willing to listen and to hear.

[@junenovae]

"I've done my research though" ASD people never come unprepared, that's your first basic ASD rule here

[@Plethorality]

So true... If it is something we are interested in!

[@patchworkundead4787]

Unless we're completely unprepared for the whole thing as we've decided to have a nap rather than worry about planning it out because "there's no reason to have 2 panic attack days this week if we can help it."

[@mgoodey5661]

I am diagnosed, my husband is undiagnosed. Every family vacation was researched, planned, and printed on a spread sheet 2 months before we left the house.

[@aceseven277]

Dunno if it's my adhd as well but this bish is never prepared

[@18Hongo]

@@aceseven277 Yeah, I'm autistic, and have ADHD. I live my entire life by the seat of my pants and it. is. not. fun.

[@phierle]

Thank you Skavlan for a respectful interview, thank you to the other guests for their empathetic silence... and most of all thank you Hannah for articulating so well who you are.

[@SkavlanTV]

Thank you so much, Pauline!

[@weavrmom]

I agree, and was particularly struck by the kind eyes and smile of Alain Robert.

[@neva.2764]

@@weavrmom yeah, he really likes her. Sweet to watch ♥

[@Amy-po3hu]

"empathetic silence"?? They were more like dead, and NOT listening. They didn't respond to her countless jokes, didn't move a muscle. Active listening makes gestures, facial expression, verbal laughing, etc. These two guys on the right were not listening; they checked out even before Hannah.

[@Plethorality]

@@Amy-po3hu not everyone is going to get all the jokes. They are from different cultures and languages, and they were also learning something new. Sometimes brains get very busy behind a blank face.

[@Susan0StoHelit]

As an adult who has begun looking into the possibility of getting an ASD diagnosis, this was very powerful. Also as a gay woman I already respected Hannah and her work. Thank you for the well executed interview and the thoughtful questions and answers.

[@SkavlanTV]

We're so glad to hear that our interview meant something to you. Thank you so much for watching and for giving us your feedback!

[@maidenmarian1]

I also can see how many gay women might find themselves wondering about being someone with Aspergers. I am not lesbian, but I see by watching this video how well she fits with being a lesbian and how there seems to be a completed part of her identity in it..... Don't ask me to explain.. She just seems natural and she seems so very content in her identity. That is what I am trying to say.

[@EternalEris]

How far are you now? Did you get your diagnosis? Are you in the process of getting it?

[@GlowintheDarkVO]

There are some free tests at psychology-tools.com. Also, autismag.com has more thorough tests available that cost $1.99 each to see the results. The results my neuropsychologist gave me when I was diagnosed recently with Asperger's/HF-ASD were almost identical to the results I got from those two sites.

[@A95-x2j]

But her sexuality is completely irrelevant to her being Autistic and caring for others.... Super proud that she eats vagina? Okay... Super proud that she's a humanitarian? That's better.

[@kroozader]

I would pay real money to see her have a conversation with Tig Notaro

[@VampiricByNature]

Same.

[@Anamaria___]

Hello

[@frankieis]

I was thinking the same. I wonder if they're friends. They're both so fantastic!!

[@gangapoornima]

YESS !!!

[@belindabell2]

Untitled Work In Progress ..gross, I can’t stand her either!

[@annala2956]

I think “what she did to comedy” was wonderful. So much of comedy has become formulaic-make fun of yourself or make fun of other people. She got up there and spoke of real experience and how to treat oneself. I found it so powerful! Love her!

[@robynstewardson]

THIS! And so, so boring! And the other 'topic' is anything to do with genitals or sex (as in shock-humour). I just feel like they need to try harder. I dont find foul mouths who can't come up with anything more comedic at all clever, and it is not at all funny. People just laugh because you make them feel uneasy. There is no skill there. I have been hunting for things to make me laugh fo a while now, and have found very few, satisfyingly funny shows. I saw both of Hannah's shows and laughed grimaced and cried throughout. So special. There is so much intelligence behind those shows. And, guess what? No puerile humour. Thrre's a tip for you wannabes.

[@solmulla]

Agreed! Instead of making fun of yourself or making fun of other people she has not made fun of anything! Never laughed ONCE!

[@TheDancingRomeo]

@@robynstewardson wow, thats sad, you definitely have a perverse view of what is funny, because shes garbage.

[@Phoenix-tq8lt]

she ruined comedy and is insufferable idk how u guys r typing these lies unless u literally get paid

[@neversaw]

Yes! The way there was such hilarious parts and then heartbreaking parts and it came around to finish the stories she told in a real way it was fantastic.

[@davidalexander3320]

I was diagnosed with high functioning autism 5 years ago at the age of 37. I totally get what she means about things just suddenly becoming clear.

[@margicates553]

“I’ve done my research though” That’s the most ASD thing I’ve ever heard. 😆

[@alarcon99]

I feel so seen

[@janesmith699]

Haha i laughed at that too. ☺️

[@rebeccah8637]

Truth

[@CherryGryffon]

Also for anyone with GAD! I have OCD [on the anxiety spectrum] as well as generalized anxiety, and I have ALWAYS bought maps of new places I"m going to [think, schools], highlighted the most appropriate route, colour coded everything, and even built in backup routes in case of potential clogging to make sure I was never later than my expected arrival time. And I would show up to a midnight movie at 7pm because "just in case". Not even kidding xD

[@janesmith699]

@@CherryGryffon ihave ocd and gad too. Maps confuse me though. I dunno how to apply them to real streets. I mean street signs help and google maps street view.

[@beckytavani7907]

What a thoughtful interview. Skavlan, you allowed her the space to speak in a way I have not seen in other interviews. The silence between the conversation was even enjoyable. I wish all interviewers could allow guests this much patience and time to explain who they are and what makes them tick. Great work. And Hannah....what an exceptional individual. Everything she says is so interesting. Loved the kind-eyed blond guest who was also clearly enjoying the interview.

[@SkavlanTV]

We're truly delighted to read your feedback, thank you so much!

[@alises.5986]

Becky Tavani Alain Robert- he did seem very kind and empathetic, didn’t he??

[@leighannequinn1979]

Honestly though, you wouldn’t have gotten as in depth answers without the silence between your questions and her answers. For me, questions can sometimes slam a wall down in my head and it makes it difficult to articulate my thoughts and emotions. The time to process eases the stress and lets the wall fade away.

[@freakinfrugal5268]

OMG what she said about how we all have to adjust to the degrees we are not straight white men. I have never heard it phrased that way but that statement was just everything.

[@alarcon99]

catcaller: "smile!" me : "I'm really happy, i just haven't told my face."

[@maidenmarian1]

That is an amazing and FUN VERY FUN statement!!!!

[@bnic9471]

@@maidenmarian1 I wish I'd though of that one 40 years ago, when I was always getting the "Why so serious?" comments. Her wish for a way to hug and push away someone at the same time rang a bell, too. Not for me, but my experience hugging my son's autistic half-sister. Love the girl, even though her hugs are odd like that. The girl has a slayer deadpan wit, not unlike Gadsby, at times.

[@maidenmarian1]

@@bnic9471 Thank you for sharing! This is very helpful to hear about!

[@kck9742]

I fucking hate that. And it's always men doing it to women.

[@amysolley4268]

I...think I should probably get evaluated. It's like listening to myself speak.

[@carriedream101]

person personhood that’s great that you were able to recognize yourself in this! I’m happy for you. ❤️

[@Plethorality]

Finding out about it for a friend, then seeing most things about it was normal for me, then getting diagnosed three weeks later, 16 years ago, was one of the best things that have ever happened to me.

[@GlowintheDarkVO]

There are some free tests at psychology-tools.com. autismag.com has more thorough tests available that cost $1.99 each to see the results. The results my neuropsychologist gave me when I was diagnosed with Asperger's/HF-ASD were almost identical to the results I got from those two sites.

[@isadoracostahamsi163]

Woman tend to be diagnosed less because studies were mostly done with men. So read up on it and look for a good psychiatrist that is up to date on the literature.

[@lsc66416]

Same :/

[@tracylf5409]

"I DO like routines".....and I'd say that a couple of times"...lmfao.....

[@alexisfrank3585]

@Black Knight Fool Good God man. She's a kind and thoughtful philosopher of humanity. What about your self image is so miserable that you feel inclined to speak cruelly of strangers? Nobody wants to interview YOU on their show. Are you just so boring you don't like it so you use all your God given gifts to be hateful? Read up on the neurological pathways of the Aspergian mind. There's a lot of value there to learn from. God never said, "You're better than my other children you don't understand so feel free to be an ass." Be kind brother. You're better than these callous quick quips people throw out. Be kind. You'll see kindness coming back your way and it will be worth it. Be a black knight hero instead of a fool.

[@Fern635]

I was disappointed in the audience for not giving that a bigger laugh. Maybe it's a "you had to be there" kind of thing. 🤣

[@alexisfrank3585]

@@Fern635 I think it's such a subtle self aware joke, specifically with aspergers, and/or people that find comedic depth in their own simplicities of compulsive biological behaviors. Because aspergers or not, we're all committed to our own routines. Sometimes an audience is slow to pick up on the little things we should all find humor in about ourselves. I've been studying aspergers for years and having Hannah's teaching voice become so big to the degree people are really starting to learn is so awesome. She is a true pioneer and gift to humanity.

[@Fern635]

@@alexisfrank3585 Agreed on all counts! I'm so happy that my daughter is growing up in a world that includes Hannah Gadsby.

[@unclenelvis]

Alexis Frank I don’t think calling someone a feminist is, as you say, speaking cruelly of someone. It simply means that she, like many others, believes that women should be afforded the same rights in society. Perhaps you should ask yourself why YOU think this is, and I’m quoting you, speaking cruelly, of someone. #bigot #dontdieofignorance

[@NanaMamaS]

My daughter is mildly autistic, and this lovely person gives me great hope for the possibilities in her future.

[@lizlizzy103]

I agree

[@hegie1980]

Same as mine and I’m strongly believe ASD people are gifted in some areas

[@jhart1127]

@@hegie1980 I'm autistic. We're as gifted and as normal as the next person. Hopefully she lives just a nice relaxed life. All the best on your journey x

[@SueLyons1]

May she blossom like all and every neurodiverse person

[@pricerowland]

As an American I really, really wish we had a talk show like this. The format was so great and had a soothing cadence.

[@SkavlanTV]

Thanks so much for that, Price! We're so glad to hear that you like our format. Feel free to subscribe for more content, we'll be filming a new season soon!

[@dod2304]

I suggest checking out PBS. If I watch the news, I only want to watch "The News Hour". It's an hour because it's NOT sensationalistic soundbytes. There's a calm reporting of some current events and the second half is a group of people knowledgable about whatever relevant topic they've chosen and they discuss it and offer their own POV's. It's just wonderful.

[@leighangela4527]

‘On my own I’m good at life .... then someone comes in with their facial expressions’ .... how perfectly put. Love you Hannah❤️

[@theresuga]

My friend's sister was recently diagnosed (she's 39) and funnily enough her doctor said that women around 30-50 have the highest rate of new diagnoses. They think it's because we're taught to be social from a young age and we're more perceptive mimics we hide it better. But now autism and Aspergers are far more mainstream and people's kids and grandkids are being diagnosed and it's making women question themselves too.

[@narrakasa81194]

My daughter got her diagnosis before I got mine.

[@leighannequinn1979]

I definitely just got mine 2 weeks ago and I’m 32. Lol.

[@leighannequinn1979]

Because of what I learned about myself when I was researching about autism because of my sons diagnosis.

[@lauratheexplorer6390]

I’m 31 & I just figured out I might be on the autism spectrum. I had no idea what “female autism” “looked like” I know now that I can totally relate & my life struggles actually make sense now! I’ve been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder & apparently that can be one of the conditions that is misdiagnosed. The label never fit me. I’m going to seek a diagnosis to understand myself.

[@theresuga]

@@lauratheexplorer6390 good luck Laura!

[@sleepyqueer]

10:23 “i don’t also tell my face how i feel” and the bit abt ppl finding her intimidating was so relatable as a person w autism 😂😂

[@MeredithMynroseUniversalHealer]

Hmmm.... i guess now i know why people always says im intimidating when i feel utterly normal

[@maidenmarian1]

This is so wonderful I will be studying everything here. THANK YOU Everyone!

[@Plethorality]

I thought I had a really strong expression on my face, it felt so intense. Then i checked in the mirror and.. Blank.

[@WideOldDan]

I've been told I'm intimidating especially since I cut my beard into mutten chops. More "grumpy" face to see, maybe?

[@diamondflaw]

That moment when someone decides to start talking to you, but you're tired and can't remember in time what expression is appropriate for this so you overdo it and now you're stuck in a conversation because you convinced them you're really interested in them and you're trying to figure out what to do with your face and say to end the conversation and escape, but now you forgot to process what they're saying and you end up telling them you have to go to the bathroom so you better get going and they follow along still talking so now you're sitting in the public bathroom watching KZbin videos with your headphones trying to figure out how long before they're gone and it's safe, but then you read a comment that describes how you got into this situation in the first place.

[@azuretrio8610]

This video made me cry with such tears of relief and happiness. I look up to Hannah so much for her bravery, her incredibles articulation, and just sheer self understanding. As a queer person who was diagnosed a few years ago with autism (and also am art history major) she really says the words out loud and makes the thoughts I struggle to express tangible. I have definitely stolen quotes from Nanette to explain to others how I'm feeling or what I truly mean. This interview was more than I could imagine. Everyone was so polite and quiet and calm and non judgemental. The questions were real, raw, and asked with sincerity. I felt at peace. Thank you for making me feel less alone

[@lizannewhitlow1085]

I just discovered Hannah today! 11-2-2022. I’m not crying! 😢😭

[@frogmouth]

Brilliant interviewer. Got much more from Hannah in an interview than I have heard before. It's the atmosphere he creates, the well framed questions and his whole attitude. The other guests get it too.

[@SkavlanTV]

Thank you so much, Jennifer! We appreciate the feedback.

[@rachelryan78]

I love the way Alain Robert smiles at Hannah with admiration and empathy the whole time..so sweet x

[@shwetaaaaaaaaaaaa]

“If I don’t feel something is fair. I point it out in person. I don’t need the tippityatappity thing to do that.“ The whole Twitter went down.

[@sighnomoredarling]

So much respect for Hannah for her nuanced and complex perspective and so much respect to Skavlan for a good conversation with a fascinating woman.

[@SkavlanTV]

Thank you, Sarah, we appreciate it!

[@tangerinefizz11]

This woman is very insightful about a number of things.

[@naomipask9956]

Delilah Hart ; my cousin likened it to people on the spectrum living inside their box where there is routine and order etc. but they think outside the box. Neurotyoical people live outside the box but think inside it. It made me think about it a lot.

[@LordofMovies91]

@@naomipask9956 Wow, that's actually a good angle to look at it

[@ginnyliz460]

@@naomipask9956 we autistics are technically *around* the box.

[@kokopuppy57342]

lovely! every time I see another female with autism they often say something and memories from my childhood make more sense. Hannah talked about hating surprises and I suddenly realized why as a kid my parents and friends were always wanting to surprise me with something (my first phone, a puppy, a vacation, a party) and how every time I would be so upset because I would have enjoyed it so much more without the surprise factor. I never understood why other people didn't understand my hatred of surprises and why they insisted that trying it again and again would somehow make me like them. it's not "weird" it's autism.

[@sharonadlam3195]

"straight white men is the scenario" "everyone then has to adjust to the degrees that we are not" oh how true those statements are - Thanks for being so damn articulate Hannah

[@geministargazer9830]

Charley Lee that is so not the point. Haven’t you seen the multitude of books teaching women how to be more like men in the workplace? How to adjust themselves so as to not be discriminated against?

[@bencarter1666]

@@geministargazer9830 Being more assertive is not being male. It's being more assertive ie you have to adapt to fit into this world shocker! Everyone else trying to progress is not discrimination

[@maidenmarian1]

It is a perfect description of Something...yes..

[@maidenmarian1]

@@geministargazer9830 OH GOD. Thank you for that. I am looking at some books right now. I have never understood workplace politics and I hate it so much!

[@maidenmarian1]

@@bencarter1666 Very often being assertive makes everyone hate you. It still has not worked for me at all.

[@TheCatsReflection-me]

Thank you for uploading this. As a fellow autistic it means a lot to see this. Hannah is so amazing.

[@SkavlanTV]

Thank you for watching and commenting!

[@gazzamuso]

She is absolutely wonderful, what a lovely interview

[@snehagaddam6745]

@Black Knight Fool Yeah the interview’s for people like you. Must watch!!

[@janet6348]

Look up her show "Nanette". It was a wow for me

[@gkw9882]

@Black Knight Fool Whereas homophobia comes from trying to suppress inner thoughts and unacknowledged feelings. Being secretly afraid of perhaps being gay.

[@snehagaddam6745]

@Black Knight Fool mmmm wrong. Try again.

[@krnabrnybaran3161]

@Black Knight Fool where did you get the hate from? There's no hate there, dude.

[@shadesofvioletcat]

I loved the interview; the questions and the comments to the answers. It was interesting and insightful and respectful and pretty fluid. All in all it seemed genuine and lovely. And Hannah is a delight.

[@SkavlanTV]

Thank you so much, Catalina!

[@MM-dq2pi]

I have watched her perform for a decade or so, and I feel like she is more free now...I think before she was trying to match what 'society' thinks she should be before. Her comic persona was less of who she actually is.

[@obstinatepursuit]

This interview, and all of the lovely comments, are so comforting.

[@SkavlanTV]

We agree, this comment section is quite outstanding! Thank you for contributing.

[@Plethorality]

So true! I feel like I have finally found a pool of normal people. : )

[@olgaorange]

She is such a wonderful human being

[@LambieSamba]

Hannah's riff on power or lack of and self-deprecation was awesome, to the point, love her!

[@Kristina-fl4dn]

Ever since watching Nanette, I admire her so much! She seems to be a very wonderful person. Ableism is a topic that is discussed highly in Europe right now. This interview came at the right time.

[@jemimahkendall6579]

It was very intense, I had heard she took it to a dark place but I still wasn't expecting what happened, but I enjoyed it

[@mcleary53]

Thank you so much for this, and thank you Hannah Gadsby for expressing your experience so clearly. My son was diagnosed earlier this year at about the same age (just short of 37th birthday). He has said similar things, especially about retrospectively reassessing his past and finding explanations for what happened. I've sent this to him, because late diagnoses are not often discussed. Thank you again.

[@SkavlanTV]

It truly makes us happy to read your comment. Thank you for that, and for watching! We hope your son enjoys the interview as well.

[@kristymounsey3450]

I was 36 years old when diagnosed.

[@Plethorality]

You are an aspie mum, and therefore very dear to my heart!! Firstly. Big hugs!! I was diagnosed 16 years ago at 38. One of the best things to ever happen to me.

[@janet6348]

Thank you Skavlan. I really enjoyed this. I watched "Nanette" and she blew me away. Listening is always the best way to learn. Who was the blonde gentleman? The way he truly listened to her was the way we should all listen to each other.

[@SkavlanTV]

Thank you for watching and commenting! The male guests in this segment are «The French Spiderman» Alain Robert, and former professional cyclist and TV host Dag Otto Lauritzen.

[@irismoralis]

The others sometimes look like they don't quite understand her, but to me she's more understandable and relatable than a lot of people

[@garykuovideos]

What a delightful environment this is. No one is grandstanding, interrupting, or posturing. Autistic or not, everyone here is thoughtful, respectful, and just the type of person I would enjoy talking to.

[@spiralpython1989]

Hannah... celebrity queen for all us grown up autie girls! So glad I am not the only one who feels that I have my life perfectly running when I am alone...

[@janesmith699]

I often dream of the apocalypse that wouldctake out everyone except my online friends and and favorite actors, writers and other artists. And a bunch of geeks to keep the internet running.

[@BrittanyEaston]

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[@janesmith699]

@@BrittanyEaston what does that mean?

[@TheAutisticEducator]

And boys! Although I do get the not being diagnosed as much as you should be thing. You're just smarter at masking!

[@Plethorality]

@@TheAutisticEducator no. Not masking. Just understood differently and dismissed. But not every one on the spectrum is a nine year old boy stuck in a computer, which it seems to be all that most people want to see it as.

[@SchrijverMarcel]

I love Hannah Gadsby, saw Douglas a couple of weeks ago, and it was fantastic. But the interview was great beyond that. Our son has autism and this interview helped me understand him a bit better. And I think the interviewer did a great job!

[@SkavlanTV]

Thank you, that means a lot to us!

[@---tc8km]

All I want for Christmas is all interviewees and all interviewers to be like the ones in this interview.

[@phoebec2020]

I loved Hannah before but appreciate her so much more after this interview

[@louisemariepothier850]

same!

[@nancyconway4026]

A REAL interview, and a person who has real things to say. Wow. Blown away.

[@ButchWilson]

Hannah Gadsby makes me feel humble on a human level.

[@bambidoe5659]

This is going to sound ableist, but it never occurred to me that someone with autism could become a comedian, and I know that just stems from my experience with my brother who is on the spectrum not having a great grasp on humor, its just good to remember to keep your mind open and remember that your experiences or the ones of someone you know aren't the only experiences that there are

[@Ruby-xk8kn]

I'm autistic and I consider myself hilarious but people don't always understand my jokes, maybe your brother has his own type of humor that is different or doesn't translate well to others, I know I'm at my funniest in my own head, my own thoughts make me burst out into laughter.

[@jayandriot6454]

I am on the spectrum as well, humor was the only way I could interact with people, so I very much relate to Hannah, even though I’m a straight white male...

[@heizusan]

Also on the spectrum, and my experience was more that I would be straight faced serious in asking/saying something... and the room would crack up laughing. It took me a while to learn the why, but then I just... leaned in to it. Kind of like one of Hannah's bits, actually, where she offended a teacher. kzbin.info/www/bejne/a527k6Odip6Cjc0

[@Shadow-zf5uc]

@@oytube9887 I will say that as someone who doesn't have autism but has spoken to some people who do that Atypical and Big Bang Theory are not considered great representations of autism by many people in the autistic community (from what I've gathered the reaction is pretty mixed). Everything's Going to be Ok has Matilda and she's actually played by an actress with autism so her performance of what autism is like to actually like to live and deal with is a lot more realistic. That said Autism is a spectrum so while one person with autism might have issues with certain things another might not and while one autistic person might relate to Big Bang Theory another might hate it so yeah autism is a lot broader than one might think at first glance and frankly it's time the media started catching up.

[@Shadow-zf5uc]

@@oytube9887 Also I recommend reading or watching videos made by people who do have autism talking about what they're experiences are like. Also make sure to stay far, far away from anything Autism Speaks puts out.

[@grizzlyblue486]

Everything Hannah spoke on was a breath of fresh air. I am so grateful.

[@reddragonready]

She does one of the best jobs explaining I've ever heard. Gave me a real insight!

[@jyljohnson4990]

I love her. As a comedian, a woman, I admire her greatly.

[@luciewatts5054]

I rarely comment on you tube, but I am shocked at the number of hateful comments. Breaks my heart that so many people should feel entitled to disparage someone the way they do, w/o the slightest grounded argument. Made me want to make my voice heard and say that I loved "Nanette" and I think H. Gadsby's view of the world if unusual is very insightful and interesting. The show made me both laugh and reflect. Hannah shares her experience very generously. I wish there were more people like her.

[@Cheetah44]

I think this is definitively my favorite interview ever. The interviewers displays a marvellous level of emotional intelligence here. Such thoughtful, deliberate questions.. respectfully and warmly asked, while giving the necessary space for them to be answered. There was no expectations for a spiel or forced punchlines to ease the audience. Rather, when Hannah did crack a joke or a subtle quip, it was duly acknowledged with a chuckle by everyone without letting it be a distraction from her more important, Illuminating perspectives. I will be coming back to this interview time and again. ❤️ Dear interviewers, your empathy and intelligence is seen and cherished. Thank you.❤️

[@markleon411]

Like the commenter below, I too appreciate the sensitivity of the interviewer. It is a delicate situation when someone reveals such personal information about themselves. The other guests were very respectful too. I'm not sure which Scandinavian country this comes from but it's so nice to see a connection with an Australia without looking at the like they are from outer space.

[@SkavlanTV]

Thank you so much! We're a Swedish-Norwegian show. Our host is Norwegian, but we usually have a mix of guests from different countries. In this case we've got one Norwegian, one Swede and one Frenchman.

[@tigress1girl]

I'm not such a commenter, but just wanted to say how much I appreciate the interviewer genuineness and sensitivity. It was, like, liberating. Also that your channel comments on other feedbacks really adds up to the appreciation I feel. Wish you the best luck with the show, this one interview right now is a gift to humanity.

[@SkavlanTV]

This comment makes us very happy! Thank you so much.

[@vilinci]

I love her comedy. I love her.And yes, we can drop some labels. There is too much labels of everything. Keep doing your comedy. People need you and we love you.

[@bumpin0]

Hmmm I don't know how you can call what she does comedy. I would say she is more of a storyteller. More like theater. She is one stage talking but its not comedy.

[@river7874]

"Comedy."

[@xxistephixx]

I have asd and am trying to learn how to accept and not be embarrassed about it, I think watching this helped a little

[@alfredstevens5276]

Props to someone who can speak in well constructed paragraphs

[@samblackcrow]

I'm really happy, I just have not told my face... Lord, I love this woman!

[@ashleydethgonzalez8391]

This interview is simply perfect. Then this comment section was what broke me with overwhelming joy. Having a boy with Autism this touches home so dearly.

[@juiice]

Save oneself the energy of trying to reach other people’s normal...I needed to hear this. No diagnosis yet but at nearly 40 I need to give myself a break! Splendid interview with a wonderful person.

[@owenlangdale8836]

What a delight to find this interview here today. I adore this woman and I would like to recommend her role in the Australian TV show 'Please Like Me' which is available on Netflix.

[@lisagreen5962]

Owen Langdale She is brilliant in that show! But it is a brilliant show.

[@owenlangdale8836]

@@lisagreen5962 totally agree all round.

[@gina333]

Who’s the guy with the long hair? He has such a nice presence.

[@eliblue8429]

I was wondering the same, so lovely the way he looks and listen to her

[@phily8093]

Nice to hear what Hannah's had to say. To me, all the other guests looked very similar to each other - in fact it looked as though the host was wearing different costumes, and pretending to be all those people, and they were super-imposed after filming had taken place. I think Norway might need to broaden their gene pool a little if these are Norwegian guests.

[@SkavlanTV]

As Charley Lee correctly comments, the guy with the long hair is «French Spiderman» Alain Robert. If you want to watch his interview, you can find it here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nmLIinqflrdpf9k

[@phily8093]

@Charley Lee clearly an elaborate ruse

[@jordansupport1923]

It would be interesting to see the whole episode. This guy's like the Scandi version of Parkinson.

[@stefani.m.1987]

I just love her. I have a very intelligent, autistic 4 year old who does not communicate like people expect. She is such a breath of fresh air. I’m in this life with my son, learning as we go, and seeing/hearing her really helps me personally. My son could care less. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@SSR_RedDevil]

She's absolutely correct about the facial expressions. It can become very frustrating when people think I'm looking angry at someone, when I'm literally just looking at them and 9 out of 10 times I'm just in my own thoughts. I prefer being online, so people don't see my face.

[@cerenk5598]

I know none of these people in this group except Hannah but I liked them very much. All of them including the interviewer are very respectful. None of them interrupts or tries to make joke about what she says. All of them are just listening in a very respectful way. I applaud every single one of them for their attitude. This attitude is what people need in this world.

[@pennycentury7745]

Absolutely loved this clip. Hannah's experiences with autism are very similar to my own. So great to see the subject dealt with respect. For so many of us being neodivergent makes navigating a world built for neotypical people extremely difficult...

[@iamanomas]

She is brilliant.

[@traceyadixon]

This is the first time I've heard of Hannah - through an Autistic group for women on Facebook - and she's awesome!!! She's an amazing advocate for autism and obviously gets the "comedy is punching up, bullying is punching down" thing! 🥰 I can totally empathise with the diagnosis seeing you free. I'm self diagnosed (getting a diagnosis involves forms!) but it means that if the whole world is telling you that you need to climb buildings, the diagnosis means I'm allowed to acknowledge that nope... I'm not designed for climbing buildings, so I'm going to stop even trying! Everyone else can keep on trying to climb buildings, they are obviously better suited to it, and I'll just be over here talking about Buffy the Vampire Slayer!!! 🥰

[@mairefee2533]

She's so sharp, and deeply insightful. Loved this.

[@nahuelma97]

I just love this interview so much. Asking the right questions, showing actual interest in the answers, a very human response, it feels very organic, not like other shows from other countries

[@SkavlanTV]

You made our day reading this, Nahuel! Thank you so much. And sorry for the late reply.

[@momohatsana2365]

This interview was really insightful. Thank you for letting the guest talk and also asking the right questions.

[@xyz123ohme]

So proud of you Hannah! As a mother of a daughter with autism, I am cheering you on!

[@mp4467]

I love her! Her new show makes you laugh hard and give you something to think about, at the same time. She is the prove smart comedians can do both!

[@maidenmarian1]

She is a lot of fun. I like her, she is hilarious in her just speaking the truth... I think that when we or when she speaks the truth, it comes out sounding like a bit of sarcasm and that forms some of the basis for her humor and adorableness. She is adorable even just when she is very honest!!!!

[@deannne]

your candidness is REFRESHING Hannah 🍃🍃

[@wennamacormac781]

Fantastic explanations. I am also late diagnosed with ASD and everything she said is spot on.

[@paulab2242]

Her experience of being diagnosed with ASD as an adult mirrors my experience being diagnosed with ADHD-PI as an adult...just so much stuff in my life made sense and I realized I could stop trying to be "normal" in some respects.

[@yayciencia]

Time 14:58 is really insightful commentary on different types of comedy and why she wanted to change her comedy style. "When you're being self-deprecating on stage, you're representing not just yourself but also people who identify with you. [...] People who hate what you are aren't laughing because they think you're funny. They're laughing because they agree."

[@Poniella81]

What a rare and excellent interview. I’ve never bothered listening to Hannah Gadsby talk about autism before because I thought autism was nothing to do with me and maybe quite boring. And then I discovered a couple of months ago that I am autistic. And now I’m listening to her, I’m nodding away feeling like I know exactly what she am talking about. I’ve had the ‘you’re not fun are you’ feedback a lot… 🤦‍♀️😁

[@LetsBuild_withBabyByrd]

"Did you find it helpful to be diagnosed? Did it help?" ABSOLUTELY! been trying to get this figured out for years, and it gives me so much hope that maybe I can get somewhere

[@tiptapkey]

A friend of mine told me I can't be autistic because I'm funny. Hmm lol.

[@PearsonKai]

Arysta that’s pretty insulting of them 😂 There are so many ridiculous misconceptions about autism, it’s unreal

[@elizabethheyenga9277]

You might want to redefine friend... I'm sure they meant well but they don't have a handle on the spectrum and ASD.

[@azuretrio8610]

I've been told this too!

[@kristymounsey3450]

A psychiatrist told me this too. He was wrong.

[@Plethorality]

Seriously??? Not funny!? Wow.

[@leishayoung4124]

I want to get to the point where I can tell people I have Asberger's and that be the only explanation I have to give for not wanting to go to that place after a long day, or go on the weekend away with EVERYONE. I want to get to a point where people stop forcing me to do things I don't want to do because of my autism. However, when you tell people you have Asberger's they are likely to think there is something wrong with you, so I don't.

[@giovanna8187]

Leisha Young Maybe it's time for you to be upfront about your Asperger's. First of all, people must like you, or they wouldn't want to be with you. Be kind to them and let them know that it's not personal or they might think it's their fault that you're avoiding them. Hannah's all about educating people, and that's a good thing. You can do it too. Good luck!

[@leishayoung4124]

@@giovanna8187 I guess I just don't know how to educate people. It's probably something I need to learn how to do, but when you come from a very 'social' and 'extroverted' family, and a mother who always taught me that I had 'obligations' when it came to family and friend commitments, it's just not that easy. I have a lot of pressure put on me to do what is 'expected' to make my parents look good. The sad thing is, as much as I love my parents, and they love me, they DO like to uphold a particular image, and it doesn't seem to matter that it takes a toll on me and my brother (but me more).

[@giovanna8187]

@@leishayoung4124 I see your predicament, and of course, it's not easy. I assume your parents know about your Asberger's? Does keeping up a "good" image mean not telling anyone else?Have they shown a willingness to make some concessions on your behalf, to lighten the social load for you?

[@leishayoung4124]

@@giovanna8187 No, they don't know I have Asberger's, but they know I'm on anti-anxiety medication, and continue to struggle with depression.

[@giovanna8187]

@@leishayoung4124 Have you been formally diagnosed by a physician? If you have, what was his advice regarding telling your parents?

[@cynful4763]

Love Hannah. Use to watch her and Adam Hills on Gordon street

[@jordansupport1923]

I do enjoy Skavlan interview sessions. Was not expecting Hannah Gadsby to turn up - what an unexpected bonus.

[@SkavlanTV]

We're so happy to hear you enjoy our interviews, thank you so much for watching and commenting!

[@lynayahernandez]

She is so incredibly special to me. She helped me better-understand my son with ASD. She's a magical unicorn! Bless, you Hannah!

[@TheLordsSister]

These little moments of joy like when Hannah gets a big applause are such a contrast to the usual dryness and SO cute. And they're super real. I love that, most people who are famous hide their happiness at obvious appreciation. In her case though it's so sweet.

[@Time_Is_Left]

Never punch down. She is high functioning human, full stop

[@lisawanderess]

“When I’m on my own I’m smooth…” can soooo relate to this! Also ASD and Australian and this is the best description of what life is like for me too. Love you Hannah! 😍

[@floorbrown]

She's a great, honest lady

[@SandraNelson063]

I have NO idea who these folks are ( Canadian) but I REALLY love how everyone is just quietly listening to what this lady has to say. All open, relaxed and non judgemental. What a nice group.

[@bluebubblegum440]

I love her! She is funny and intelligent and a wonderful human being in general!

[@WobblyPandas]

That comment about getting to "the starting point of normal" really hit me in the feels. That's where I am right now

[@spiritmuse]

Thank you so much for this interview. I really enjoyed it and very much appreciate how thoughtful it was and how you gave her the time to really think and answer the questions. I could so relate when she said her diagnosis of autism just made everything make sense. It was exactly the same for me, retroactively my whole life made sense and things just fell into place. She also made such a good point about being self deprecating, and how that doesn't just deprecate yourself, but everyone who identifies with you. I'd never really thought about that before but it makes so much sense. A little self deprecation can be okay and funny, but it does really depend on which aspect of yourself you are taking on and how often you do it-when you insult yourself too often or too much that's not healthy. Anyway, thank you again for a lovely interview.

[@SkavlanTV]

Thank you so much for commenting and sharing, it means a lot to us! We're also very glad to hear you liked the interview.

[@shilpikabasu7674]

You are such a good interviewer Skavlan! Such a lovely interview.😊