Episode 26 | Mlungisi on being Gang Raped,Contracting HIV, Prison, Murder, Robbery, Life to 10 years

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MEET THE TEAM
🙎🏽‍♂️ Host : @skeemgp
🙎🏿‍♂️Guest : Mlungisi
🎥 Captured By: @maligant_group.za
🔊 Sound: @maligant_group.z

[@dikelediteffo6808]

""most people are prisoners in the outside because they cant forgive , and you are holding the key which is forgiveness""Mlungisi may God continue to bless you.

[@l.odladla5923]

This guy is still broken, I pray he gets complete healing, there is pain behind his jokes

[@okuhlesimelane6950]

I don't think so, he must have been in pain but he saying with his mouth that God pulled him through

[@ayandangcobo7933]

This is so painful,I hope he is really over it. I can see he is making jokes but I can also see the pain in his eyes,notice that he laughes whenever he speaks about his pain.😢body language speaks volumes.

[@subz7352]

Don't be dramatic

[@siviwembatane3600]

Indeed too much dramatically, this guy has been telling stories probably a year ago...

[@siphomogale779]

No is not anymore because Christ in him makes him strong hence he has confidence

[@jesustheultimategamechange6361]

I can see what you talking about.

[@preciousnene3446]

True , he is in pain 😢 He is trying to hide it by laughing

[@remothibedi]

Finally!, a guy who speaks more than skeem 😂😂... mare otherwise touching story, God is good . Amen

[@blvcksnowbeatz]

😂😂😂😂

[@Cleo256]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mmabatho136]

Lmao😂😂😂

[@Sentiwe]

I was about to say that too... This guy is more hyper active than skeem in this episode

[@yolandamalamlela1057]

yho uyathetha

[@komanneheng803]

So much wisdom in this guy. This journey was and is still his. Praise to God. Well done my guy

[@nobuhlemkhize8552]

Ngithanda ukuthi kukhokonke ulokhu uphakamisa igama lika Nkulunkulu 🙌🙌🙌🙌 yes eyyy ngampela asiyilutho ngaphandle kuka Nkulunkulu 😢😢😢😢😢😢 phephisa my brother uNkulunkulu ukuqinisile usazokuqinisa futhi usuku nosuku ❤❤

[@barbyonce4321]

The pain in his eyes. God sustain this man

[@zanoxolosibakhulundlovuzid55]

Eish I saw that 😔😔😥😥😥

[@siphombhele3012]

My brother I like you show keep it up for encouraging the former inmates to talk freely. Shortly can you please invite the correctional services officers in order to build the better future for the inmates. I'm an former correctional services officer I have played a big role for protecting and changed the life of inmates in JHB prison. My name is Sipho Mbhele unfortunately I'm living in United Kingdom please chat with me good man

[@Hloksthegreat2]

Sompisi, I have not seen you in a long time. I miss our Virgin Active with Mlambo & Tshabalala

[@siphombhele3012]

@@Hloksthegreat2 Yeah bafowethu kuhle ukuzwa kuwe ngabe ubani lona

[@Hloksthegreat2]

Hloksa. Le ya ndoda yama muscle..LOL

[@zanoxolosibakhulundlovuzid55]

Eish he wanted to cry but he hold himself 😢😢😢😢 he's heartbroken

[@nkanyisohlubi397]

😢😢😢 uzohlezi ukhala ngephilo manje mothola abantu abanjengo Mluh uvele ubone awunazo izinkinga.

[@nandiphalee4880]

I love how he praises God's power😭🙏May he find healing ❤️🥺🥺

[@blinkym21]

Bra Mlungisi has such a beautiful spirit, what a sad outcome for his life, but life is for living and so I believe he will continue to live a very fulfilling life💫💫🌟🌟

[@tsokho_tube]

Please find someone who made time for crime he didn’t commit I really want to hear their experience of jail and how they heal from that!

[@AsandeMkize]

This bro just said he's never been intimate with a chick. Damn. This rape really messed him up😢

[@nondumisovacuwilliams6131]

This has been a heartbreaking eye opener and the way the story is narrated by the guy is even more heartbreaking. Yes there is acceptance and moving on after trauma but there. There is this thing that is also called total healing; this guy is far from healing totally because his body language conveys what he is not saying with his mouth.💔 he is covering a lot that he hasn’t dealt with emotionally and suppresses it with the laughter and throwing in scriptures. He has a long way to go and I wish @SkeemSami can look for a therapist that can assist him to deal with what he is hurrying inside him. May God bless him and give him total healing and closer.

[@zanoxolosibakhulundlovuzid55]

Yes u can see this guy inside he wanted to cry

[@itumelengkgoaradi3414]

I agree

[@noziphokhumalo6090]

I like the whole work of Skeem GP but i would like him to respect the decision of people to remain single and being celibate and do not make a joke or ask nasty questions out of it. Please ngiyakucela bhuti😊.

[@dorcramps6779d]

Sence of humor girl.. If u have hanged out namajita ud know.. Majita agwarana man

[@ayandalatoya6762]

Mluh is still in pain 😢😢😢please organise a psychiatrist for him... With gods grace i hope abe sharp. The way ahleke ngakhona ai its not make sure

[@thatomokhahlane8903]

May God restore him... this is just so painful, jokes aside there’s a lot of brokenness to deal with here😢... but we serve a miracle working God🙏

[@ntuthukombatha1089]

He is still hurting.. And mentally ulimele😢

[@zandimkhize7086]

Ey...kakhulu 😢

[@bongiweselematsela4993]

AMEN...Mlungisi mntanam...you are teaching and giving me hope. Ndimbona kuwe uYesu...Phila bhutiza Phila. Uyathandeka.

[@bethuelmaseko6087]

Mlungisi uyi star 🌟 when I come to Mamelodi, I will make sure that I meet you. Trust me, you are my motivator

[@RakgadiSalenaMashile]

This was a great episode, wise man indeed, May the Almighty grant this awesome guy a long a healthy life...

[@manandomkhabela7136]

I really wish there can be more similar dialogues about life and challenges that ordinary people face in general from such people with wisdom.

[@livingabroadthepodcast2021]

Thanks for the episode, we really need to talk about prisoners safety... how do we prevent these crimes in jail?

[@teboho20]

A person is telling their story, their truth and wena uthi ijele limshaye ama fuse. This is in your platform that you claim iletha i awareness. Do better

[@Samantha15594]

Im battling with forgetting what my son did to me and his siblings ; he made our lives a living hell and was arrested early this year I havent visited him since his arrest but the mother in me is slowly trying to help him ngokudla etc...but ukuya ndiyombona 🤔umoya wam awukavumi . I need someone who can help me to deal with the situation .

[@heathermbambeni529]

Try therapy

[@user-rd4nm8qn5j]

Mama be there for your bby,

[@thedailymgosi]

By you going to prison visiting him, he will repent and see how much you love him and he hurts you. You also make mistakes but God forgives you as well.

[@mantsixx3592]

Just try to visit him and see what happens😢

[@Samantha15594]

I would like to thank everyone who have shown support ;I really was not okay since 3rd January this year . I know there are other mothers who are going through the same . I truly love him and azange wakewaswela anything uthando etc ...Im a single mom and trying my best to make sure that all my kids are happy . Enkosi 🙏guys and Happy Holidays to you all.

[@keitumetse09]

Not everyone will get married,or have kids.Even in the bible Paul was not married. We have to respect people's decisions and not make fun of them.

[@mathapelomahlophe2990]

This guy is a little bit disturbed

[@alfredsefololo3464]

Wow wow what a motive🙏 God will turn our scars into stars💛💛💛✨✨✨✨

[@thabileprecious5824]

Umluh akekho normal yaz😢😢😢😢

[@nzululwazimtolo1269]

I am worried about this guy, I think there's something wrong with him now.

[@mmabatho136]

It’s probably the trauma of the things he went through

[@olifemuvhango7602]

Trauma 😢

[@marvelmthembuvee2593]

I thought maybe the experience turned him into a different gender. But then he mentioned he's not gay but seeing this part 36:07 I noticed it's either he is gay or maybe he's traumatized...

[@The-truth-about-the-truth]

Thank you for this episode... Mlungisi is such a gem. So honest and very informative. ❤ Please dont restrict him by insisting that he speaks English. Please do subtitles rather. I dont think we couldve gotten so many gems if he strictly spoke in english. Thank you for another great episode. Im binge watching all of them while im on leave.

[@manandomkhabela7136]

A great lesson about HIV 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽, and the dialogues from this podcast cannot be heard from any school.

[@nkosinathigasela5924]

Skeem l personaly feel like Mlungisi is disturbed a bit 😢😢😢

[@kabeloprincemawede3008]

😢something is not right 😢😢😢😢he’s trying to be strong but it’s almost impossible

[@netha-azania5261]

This man has been through a lot, 😢😢😢 i really hope he finds healing and strength to live. God be with him.

[@funekagali3376]

I've watched his interview I think it was on sabc 3, he seemed okeyish. Here inoba une nerves, I pray that he heals completely but other than that I applaud him for speaking freely about his experiences and how people can be stuck on the past❤, such an eye opening session. May he be protected by God's grace and heal completely ❤❤

[@NanoM88]

Akasavezi mntakabawo😂. Thank you for the interview. Hope he heals, there is still alot of pain, but God has brought Him so far

[@Samantha15594]

Eish this is heartbreaking but he seems to be handling what happened to him and I applaud him for being able to go back and forgive those guys.

[@sikquotes2143]

Thank you for giving your team the flowers. We appreciate the great wok. May God bless you continously. 🎉

[@ExploreLifeWithVee-eo4mp]

True team worked hard to put interesting stories together.

[@moshekgosana6314]

Much love to Mlungisi ...God bless you my brother

[@AffectionateElephant-mm2hy]

I'm happy for Maligant to work with skeem. What a wonderful human being.

[@mpumin7785]

What a beautiful interview, may God bless you Mlu❤❤❤

[@siphomogale779]

When I am weak He makes me strong great show , Happy Christmas 🎄 everybody

[@boikanyokabelo2356]

I hope from next year you will consider putting subtitles,please note ever since you came back from Podcast and Chill you have an regional audience.🇧🇼

[@Samantha15594]

Thank you Heather I am really trying but I have forgiven him because ayikho iDustbin yokulahla abantwana . I pray that he really has changed. Ayikho into bekangaytholi from buying him a Bmw to flat but drugs took over his life.

[@MbusoMadeIt]

Who iss Heather?

[@wpp1586]

I think he need more therapy, and healing. You can be okay and moving in with trauma but mfw2 let's cleanse emfuleni. Mindest is the key.

[@dradibossa638]

I personally believe he hasn't healed. But such is life.

[@komanneheng803]

What is your point exactly? Did he say he's healed? If he hasn't according to you, he's on his way to, at least he's doing positive things about his situation and the list we should do is to support and be happy for him.

[@dradibossa638]

@@komanneheng803 what you are saying is true, but I was sharing my views in passing.

[@user-of1ot3bs2i]

😢😢😢 our brother is broken,,,, this is a sad path to go through his laugh says it all nonetheless may God bless him in everything he does !!!

[@cindytwala4155]

I really love your YT channel but I feel like sometimes when asking questions ubuza ngendlela ehlambalazayo like “bafuna ind*nu abafana” while laughing and it just becomes uncomfortable to watch coz you say it uhleka. I might be wrong but iv been observing this ever since I discovered this channel.

[@siphokazee]

He’s terrible when it comes to sexual situations in jail

[@MbusoMadeIt]

Implying he must get a girl otherwise things may go south again. The host is clueless but let's hope he learns he still new he has potential.

[@confidencekhena1660]

Thank you, Mr Lukhele❤❤❤ nice job...

[@violetmalapha4773]

I don't like the way you exposed u Mlu coz I don't see anything wrong with him abstaining from sex. These days it's not good just to dig into any whole you find. He's single by choice and so we must respect that!!!

[@nkosinathimtshweni9369]

Am I the only one cringing while watching this😬😩

[@pakoramatlhatse38]

It’s tough 😢

[@obonolomasemola9255]

Shem😢...it was uncomfortable yet infomative to watch

[@babalwamankge2461]

Someone needed to hear this message. I pray that they found it

[@komanneheng803]

Mlu you are one focused person i have ever seen, bamba kanjalo mfowethu.

[@takalanimokhawa7648]

Good job brother, there is a lot to learn and I have learned on this podcast.

[@tshikalangelivhuwani1556]

This guy is traumatized, broken and still hurting just that he accepted his fate and destiny he's a soldier

[@priscillanthabbisengntelez803]

Wooooow, Mlu is a power house. May God continue to strengthen him. . Hayke Mr Lukhele uzoba yiBest man kumtshato wam noMlu🤓🤓🤓🤓

[@sparkle257]

Interviewer this man was clearly raped. Asking about his sexual life for some can come across as insensitive. I saw he was uncomfortable when you asked. For some rape victims they become celibate for life because of the trauma.

[@heathermbambeni529]

This guy doesn't have boundaries

[@gilbertramaube4503]

This Guy only trauma

[@MbusoMadeIt]

Narcissistic tendencies.

[@buyelwamartin6336]

Akakho right ubrothers shem

[@mbongenimhlongo5536]

This is deeply painful.I wish you strength brother.God loves you dearly. ❤

[@MusaBanda-bn5re]

❤❤❤great initiative my brother

[@eugeniamanana9424]

The way Mlungisi highlights ARVs and the word "marinate", he confused me. Also, the way he laughs is disturbing

[@Mo_Lake]

I think he tries by all means to MASK what happened to him as he was explaining "what happened to him". I think he's still hurting whenever he speaks about it, hence this behaviour. He would have cried a several times in this very episode had he not laughed...I guess

[@thabisothale2935]

bra you one brave dude ...even the way you speak it shows that you have accepted your situation ...

[@ThandekaMagagula]

Truth be told, guy doesn't sound okay, I think it disturbed him somehow

[@sandisodyakopu1248]

And you still need psychologist cause awka healish but wena you think you have healed but symptoms of depression just pop out

[@wavy_queencess9794]

It's the positivity for me, may God continue to strengthen and heal him 🙏🏽 ❤

[@kamaveetv9457]

Skeem you must be the way this guy explain its not motivational but it shade your and look like its encouraging people to go to prison in order to make miracles lomfana umqondo still confuse and betrayed by the jail inkinga wabishwa esemncane impilo akaze ayibone uyaludinga usizo lomfana and I'm because you did notice such a thing actually his mindset need to be transformed into normal as human being outside the jail Ngiyabonga ngixolise ngokuba mude 🙏🙏

[@gilbertramaube4503]

He needs to be transformed

[@leedikweni5776]

This interview was sooo cringe to watch 😫😫😫😫😫😖

[@kagisopule2879]

the gentleman is still not okay eish

[@user-rd4nm8qn5j]

I don’t think so either , such a strong message that he has but the way he packaged it . I think some men who have been hurt will not be moved with the way he is joking … praying for him though he is a light

[@user-yc8oe9cs9n]

UMlu olimele straight😢

[@okuhlesimelane6950]

I thank you my son for your story, God has revealed himself through you, may you continue spreading the word of God Son, psalm 121, that is where us as Christians look up too, all the best in your journey. God will cover you under the shadow of His wings

[@tebogolemao3389]

I think Mlu hasn't healed. He is a broken man. I also think he is not really fully normal upstairs...

[@neliswanqiwa8458]

SkeeemGp we all have our stories We might not have experienced prison life yet we are all wounded. Continue warning our young generation, inspiring and being used by my love, saviour who is our God. Mlungisi uxolo bhuti, you have communicated your pain trying so hard to hide your pain. Uxolo bhuti

[@ritonkuna8205]

"ghi funa ukuy vheza ley wena skeem" i like the guy

[@nongayiyananolitha9900]

This is painful. May God heal all his wounds💕

[@user-yc8oe9cs9n]

Dream delayed is not dreams denied

[@user-zq2vr1lf4r]

Ey my brother you are so strong bro,may God bless you

[@preciousnene3446]

When he visited the people who raped him , what was their response when he confront them?

[@ExploreLifeWithVee-eo4mp]

Hi glad to hear fr guest today

[@gcinumuzimahlangu1492]

I don't agree with the glorifying of this illness, it can't be a blessing as he narrates his story kodwa mhlambe this is his blessing njobesho..

[@kamohelomoiketsi3881]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔 What a hard core and Heartbreaking story. Most of all what a strong man.

[@ExploreLifeWithVee-eo4mp]

I love the guests not shy need that from guests.

[@jacquelinendlovu1107]

May God restore him .

[@tshepofranklinrakgogo4334]

What a sad story, very touching but I love his courage big up brotherman.

[@Marthashiningstar]

If possible some stories should have part 2 pls

[@saneledennis4805]

Mlu is a very inspirational story. He has so much information but we can't get it because he is hyper and misses the finer details that caution and create awareness over and above his experience. Great interview and experience shared.

[@tinyikochauke2237]

This men is so intelligent,God is good indeed

[@luthandomayiwe6388]

Rape does a number on ex-convicts, most of them seem to struggle to connect with women after being raped, like with the Pastor that was interviewed on this platform. I just ask that the interviewer not asked them about it. They all tense up when the question gets asked. Perhaps, some may be battling with their sexuality post the rape.

[@VIVINGAAN]

YHO when he said, "Ngadliwa ngamadoda ayi 5!" Hope the experience has not made him homophobic. Allow me to talk straight and say its satisfying when someone who has inflicted pain on other people gets to experience a similar cruel violation. The wheel always turns.

[@khayelihlengubane2932]

Mara umjita angikho Happy behavior yakhe ngath nje

[@user-rd4nm8qn5j]

Eish I am cringing watching him

[@MeshackRadebe-lb5qx]

Such a sad stop if one listen positively, this brought positive thinking upon life big up brother ❤❤

[@user-pp4wm9ce7p]

I was waiting for him to talk about ukubuyela emuva eya face labantu abamdlwengulayo I'm so angry awusayithethanga

[@makobedimofokeng655]

Mlu giggles when speaking about the rapes or HIV😢😢😢😢. He hasn't healed properly. I pray that one day, he finds complete healing😢. It's uncomfortable to watch.

[@macrazypraise]

Great show 🎉🎉 i learnt a lot from it…. I was saying in my head this guy speaks more than Skeem😂 Merry Christmas to you Skeem and your family❤ Blessing to you

[@ramaselaviolet2993]

I feel like there still pain by listening to his voice 😢,but the lot of work is been doen though,i wish him well❤

[@mudauthabelo8089]

This man his still in pain

[@jhay5925]

Skeem why should someone have a partner when they don't want to?

[@QueenOfSheba_]

Exactly, and he wants to quote the Bible about it... Paul advised that we should be single, with a single mind. Nothing wrong with being single. This is a motivational show???

[@redimotsa7725]

Yooooo ungaze ubuze futhi coz nami am asking myself the same question

[@Cleo256]

Speaking about turning lemon into lemonade 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@preciousnene3446]

Mlu you are leaving a testimony 🙏🙏