SKINNY SHAMING is not okay ! Skinny girls.. Body issue talk

Hey guys, thanks for returning to my channel for another video. This Vlog is quiet important and I thought would be lovely to share with you guys. This was quiet hard for me to Vlog so be nice ☺️
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[@LeeLee-pw1qg]

And they say black woman are very curvy and I just feel like I don’t fit in

[@aniah3802]

Lee _1 i felt the same way, but i just learned to love my body and build on it 🖤

[@Lordpraisethe]

Feel like im not a real black woman

[@lolafalebita4136]

same fr

[@zainaslayer5953]

Same girl

[@mayakelly3457]

Lordpraisethe Fuck they asses. Black women come in all shapes & sizes like all women do 💕💕💕💕

[@Peachgguk-tz6yb]

Honestly, being a skinny girl is just like being a “fat” girl. We get shamed for it as well; they call us lucky but it’s not when you constantly get told that we’re flat and not attractive bc we don’t have any “meat” on us. Like this isn’t being lucky.

[@trixieagustina6163]

Peach. gguk EXACTLY THANK YOU

[@thatoneniggayoshi7240]

Moral of the story is people are full of bs and they will talk shit whether you're fat or skinny so do what you want.

[@envi4118]

Im really insecure about being skinny. Every girl in my school is talking about their curves and that they feel fat, when all i can see is just a perfedt body that i’ll never achive. I’m basicly a stick. I can’t lift weights because my arms and legs starts to shake and im scared that they will break! I can feel my bones on my arms, and i hate when people compare them to others! People don’t understand the struggles about being a skinny girl. My ass is flat. My chest is flat. I’m just your avrage stick figure and i hate it. And people keep commenting on it! They don’t understand that its exacly the same as fat-shaming. I once got told that i looked like a child conparred to everyone else in my class by my best friend. I feel pathetic for writing all of this, but i just really have to let it out to people that understands my problems instead of people saying that i should be glad that im skinny, and i’m, oh so lucky. Sorry about all of this haha..

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

Baby girl you’re beautiful. Don’t listen to what ever rubbish they have to say, as long as you’re healthy that’s the most important thing! Hugs💗💗💗

[@envi4118]

​@@JanetMoniqueGomez Thank you. I needed that. Much love

[@faithmontoya168]

PotatoChip123 same I eat all the time but I cannot gain that much weight and I hate myself for it 😭

[@farah1885]

ew i hate friends like that dump her

[@user16456]

PotatoChip123 i relate to this so much oh my GODD! I eat so much compared to all my friends, ive done squats and eaten foods that ‘add’ weight to your butt like meats and nuts, and NOTHING works! I’m still skinny as ever with no curves, ass or tits. I’m getting more secure with my body now but i still cant have people take full body pictures without feeling really insecure about them 99% of the time! I cant wear really short sleeved shirts or vest tops at all because i hate my arms soo much. Im also 5’9 so everyone always makes fun of my height and i feel like i stick out like a sore thumb. People don’t understand that all we see online is girls with fat asses and big tits and then people calling us skinny and it makes us feel shit! it’s EXACTLY the same as fat shaming

[@shesadiamond5167]

Being skinny without curves is depressing. I just look like a stick when i wear certain clothes. I wish i was skinny with a shapely body.

[@elspethmcintyre]

omg literally same

[@shroomrzs]

Cereal box gang 😔✌🏻

thats called slim thick. you can't really be skinny and curvy. you gotta gain weight. curvy girls have fat on them. that's where the curves come from. there may be a few exceptions to the rule but that is the rule.

[@analyv5823]

Same last year I got really bad and I started eating junk food to gain weight cause nothing worked I got really unhealthy and I’m just trying to love myself as is rn

[@littleleah310]

@ lmao you can be skinny and curvy

[@highoffyoceee7356]

My mom always comments about how skinny I am and it makes me so insecure. I can't leave the house without getting anxiety.

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

Yoce Mejia sometimes family can make some comments that can be very hurtful. Just remember that nobody knows you better than yourself. As long as your healthy !! Keep your head up and remember how beautiful you’re girl 💕

[@ellenathalia5364]

highoffyocee e SAME 😭😭

[@layken3924]

Stand up for yourself and tell her to stop and that it makes u feel bad.

[@atw5553]

Me too like I can’t leave the house without double checking myself to make sure I don’t look like a twig in a shirt and pants

[@maddie8988]

Same girl

[@destinyo.1991]

For me it's my legs. Like I wish I had bigger legs

[@sjenaidaandisong5945]

Same too

[@b3lla22]

Destiny O. | SAME SIS

[@bellamariano2122]

Me too cause apparently I’m a “tree branch”

[@bethsieb7373]

I felt that

[@sweetbambi26]

Destiny O. ME TOO

[@rasalcool4413]

I'm a skinny guy and I'm tired of people telling I'm too skinny. Thanks for making this video

[@cocacherry9240]

Ra's Al Cool love you , don’t forget that skinny guys have the best dick 😉

[@rasalcool4413]

haha, lmfao It's 2am and I burst out laughing to your comment. Thanks for cheering me up. my family wasn't happy to be woken up at 2am though :/

[@mongraal655]

@@cocacherry9240 innit

[@alexiabowen4035]

@@rasalcool4413 lol you're tooo funny

[@oxjulxo]

as a naturally skinny black girl that grew up in a heavily influenced black community i’ve been body shamed my whole life cause i wasn’t thick and didn’t have a butt. just because bigger women may get shamed more doesn’t mean women who are skinny aren’t equally shamed and develop just as bad eating disorders.

[@mangopie_]

My arms are literally skin and bone. My friend commented on how skinny my legs were in pe the other day in front of my other friends and it’s not a compliment like who wants skinny legs?

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

Take no notice of them you beautiful girl 💘💘

[@mangopie_]

Janet-Monique Gomez thank you, you’re a great role model and inspiration xxxx

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

Esta Deegan Awwh thank you ! I appreciate your lovely comment 💘💘

[@alexei4632]

Some people would kill to have skinny legs girl you're beautiful just the way you are ♥

[@LeeLee-pw1qg]

I feel left out when everybody likes thicc girls and knowing I’ll never be like the other girls no matter how much I eat and they say I’m lucky but it doesn’t feel that way when ur constantly callin me boney or slenderman

[@beetol]

I have this exact issue. I’m going through high school atm and I am so insecure about being skinny. I’m not thick at all and only 104lbs and I literally cry almost every night. I often look at other girls at school and get so jealous that they have curves and I don’t. I hate when people point out how skinny I am, it makes it 1000x worse. I will literally stuff my face in hopes I might gain something and it doesn’t do anything. Not to mention the only weight I ever do gain just goes to my stomach and not to any other part of my body. It sucks how big the obsession is over having big boobs, big ass and big thighs, I always feel so alone in this topic so thank you so much for talking about it

[@trixieagustina6163]

Frevee Girl I FELT this so much. What you just said basically DESCRIBES my life

[@allys76]

Fr

[@justme-yj6ck]

I am in the same situation its really hard

[@darcxy796]

This is really a massive insecurity of mine. I will always put on extra pairs of pants on-top of one another to make my legs look "bigger". Wish i had thicker legs 😔

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

HeYIm darcy my mum always tell me “the time will come” along as you’re eating well and do regular exercise that’s the most important thing ❤️ you’re beautiful 🌸

[@fatimasarif5975]

Omg I do this. Even in summer

[@lindstheteacher1611]

HeYIm darcy Same:(

[@beautifulsunflower8349]

I thought this was just me 😭

[@alisaanijah1542]

Omg I do that to 😔

[@gfcklld6]

I literally cry about my body every day.. I’m 104lbs and can’t gain weight no matter what I do. This video helped me a lot with myself and perspective thank you so much❤️

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

Gabrielle Furches hey Gabrielle. I’m appreciate that you like my video. Honestly babe our time will come but as long as we’re healthy that’s THE MOST important thing. You’re beautiful. Take care ❤️

[@melissamolina8557]

Same iam so skinny but this video made me feel confident in my body

[@kayla-qt9nb]

samee i’m 104 lbs too. i just was 105 lbs but it went down back to 104 🤧

[@blxckbarbi3669]

Yoo! Same! I keep exercising and I still got my hip dips... HIP DIPS 😖😖😖

[@alexzandra-fallonallen317]

Finding clothes that you like that fit when your skinny can be just as challenging when your fat that's another thing the average person doesn't realize.

[@Kshwayzy]

I literally just tried on all my jeans and cried because they don't fit right, I lost weight & I'm already skinnier than I'd like to be & it's almost impossible for me to gain 10 pounds 😭

[@ebonyv4289]

Skinny black woman here to tell anyone looking at this feeling down to appreciate what you have. I know its cliche', but I've been small my whole life & complained about it...then I lost weight & had issues with appetite. I wish I was the size I was then. I wouldnt take it for granted. Don't let this fake world dictate how you feel about yourself. If you wanna put on some extra weight, that's ok but OWN who you are!

[@stoopidnoodle4639]

I'm very insecure about my body. My whole life ppl have come up with insulting nicknames for me. Stick, stringy, pole, skinnyminnie, toothpick, etc. I used too/still do cry myself to sleep sometimes at night. I see girls now a days talking about how they need to loose weight. While I sit alone feeling jealous

[@alisona.a4780]

This honestly just not nice like treat others the way you'll want to be treated. Like I eat alot at home even my parents say it but outside i don't eat that much and people will think I don't like eating and start saying how slim and skinny I am, (they don't intend to make me feel bad, they think its ok but its not) one time my friend was like people will bully me when I grow up because of how skinny I am and in my head I was like ahhh are u there in my future like u don't need to point how slim I am everytime Like I cant imagine why you would feel the need to have such a vested interest in my weight🥺🤡❤

[@weeatnoodles1735]

I’m skinny but I have to try to love myself I’m doing bad rn I’m my worst enemy I put myself down🤦🏽‍♀️😔

[@Idkaboutyou444]

Feel you !

[@ari_vnaa]

Omg girl I CANNOT STRESS how hard it is! Similar to you, but around my early middle school years I got depressed, causing me to skip several meals a day. Even tho I'm a freshman now, I'm only 5 ft. and 85 pounds. Events like that only does harm in the long run, and it makes me feel so guilty for myself 😭

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

Honestly sis, it’s never to late to try and make little tweaks in our daily eating routine. I’ve now learnt about which food I should be aiming for to help me gain weight instead of overloading on everything. I’m sorry to hear about your story but I’m sure that you can make an over come so don’t feel guilty #GomezLove ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@kirstenesquivel1532]

I’m bullied for being so skinny . I force myself to workout to build muscle but I feel like I’m just putting myself through pain . People laugh at me even my family . :(

[@Lordpraisethe]

Dont do that to urself

[@LilT9180]

I'm building muscle at home and using resistance bands. I don't like going to the gym or pushing weights. Resistance bands can give you the same results over time. James Grage has a Resistance Band TA2 programme for men and women. All home exercises to build and tone body.

[@abigailmiller7331]

It takes a very long time to put on muscle too

[@MagicMushrooms29]

yasss girl, proud of you for discussing this topic, it doesn't get talked about enough.. hopefully it will help more people be aware of the issue! love you loads, keep doing your thaaang xxxx

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

thanks sooo much my girl ! really appreciate your comment xxx

[@renaissancecards]

IT'S SO RARE TO FIND PEOPLE THAT CAN RELATE TO ME ABOUT THIS. GIRL I LOVE YOU. 😭

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

Aww. I love you tooo sis !

[@bassgauge6707]

I tried to put on weight in this lock down, but then I thought.. "Why should I change myself for others"?.. Because I love the way i am... But it actually hurts when people say that I'm too skinny.. I thought I am normal and not skinny, so when people say that I'm skinny, I feel ashamed... 😕

[@Jadaohmy]

Yes girl, preach it! It’s really hard not seeing enough people in the media or people in general talking about this. I am stick thin, get called anorexic, been told I have the body of a twelve year old, told I need to eat something, almost every day by my “friends.” Being “thick” is all I’ve ever wanted since seventh grade (I’m a high school senior now) but I know it will never happen and it’s a horrible feeling. I wish people could understand it. Edit: I just wish I could feel good in my own skin and feel confident and attractive, and it’s never going to happen.

[@jemimahhenry]

Yes! So relatable. For my secondary life so far-I’m in year 10. I’ve just been called skinny and all sorts . All my tops are size 4/6. Jeans are such a struggle bc I’m so skinny and I’m quite tall aswell so they don’t look right . The new look 915 generation has literally saved me, but I’m starting to not like there style 😫! Calling someone skinny isn’t a problem but when someone calls you fat it’s literally work war three . A few days ago this fat girl called me skinny then one of my fiends called her fat then she got isolated and the fat girl didnt . Last thing before this turns into a rant : everyone is like I have no shape and stuff bc I’m just so slum and have no curves which are always talked about and in primary and year 7 I never ate I always chucked me lunch and dinner in the bin and only ate breakfast . Thanks for making this video it was SOO relatable!! Need more KZbinrs like you and you deserve a lot more recognition!

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

First of all SHOUT OUT 915 Generations !! Yeah that is sooo true and we forget that we will naturally put on weight when we get older and its a phase we will get through. As long as were healthy and happy, everything comes after. Love you lots and take care hunny xx

[@TheKingTywinLannister]

Hey skinny girls down here the comment section. Don’t worry. Skinny girls are the best. I love skinny girls. Skinny girls will always get the best men. Don’t you ever feel bad that you have princess body. Don’t let those nowadays proud fatties brainwash you to think anything else. You have won the body lottery and they are jealous of it so they try to put you down badly. Be proud of your most beautiful body. Trust me, You are the best!!! Cheers!

[@dukesade5395]

Tywin Lannister you just made me cry happy tears

[@niyareaction1685]

Thank u

[@cocacherry9240]

Omg i love you and I love what you said ❤️, I just do not Tywin Lannister 😂

[@ashlynnvinson1212]

Thank you 😃

[@Pizzashakes]

What the fuck? So fat shaming is okay now? Bastard

[@catiemay957]

Whenever I go shopping im so excited, but once I try on the clothing I leave the store more and more self conscious about my body because nothing fits me I feel embarrassed, like every is watching me and judging, even though they could care less Not a day goes by when I'm constantly comparing myself to other girls, I know girls who eat less than me but look like healthy models I'm 13, 93 lbs it doesn't help the fact that i have to dance everyday, because that means tight clothing. It takes half of the love out of it, and I hate it. The moment I feel confident in my body, Satan whispers "You're still gross" Society is so toxic for saying that skinny people aren't valid and to *go and eat a hamburger* Watching you has inspired me to first have a healthy body image and to then adjust it to my liking, because I'll get nowhere with an unhealthy image of myself

[@emmavanslyke2043]

i feel you. i look so lanky and awkward in everything! i am 13 as well but i weigh 82 pounds. it makes it worse i already have insecurities with my face, i just feel like im so ugly and everything is wrong with me. no one understands and i feel why would anyone like me when they could date all the "thick" and pretty girls in my classes. i'm trying to work on positivity but it's so hard

[@ylim__e.._]

My family always calls me skinny and it’s been going on my entire life, once my friend asked me if I’m anorexic like I’m not I try to eat more but my body won’t get any bigger stop assuming somebody is anorexic because they are skinnier than you My friends always point out how skinny I am and they say it like I don’t care

[@reginagarcia4645]

I can relate so much to this. I'm 96 pounds and I'm 5.7 feet anything fits and it is so frustrating

[@ghoulishgirl666]

regina garcia same girl It’s a struggle being tall and skinny 😳

[@paramyza6153]

aww fellow tall girl! hiiiiiiii

[@amarisngjw]

Thank you so much for your video. I always feel like I can never express my insecurities even to my closest friend about my skinny body because to everyone else it’s better to be skinny than fat to them. I eat a lot but I don’t gain weight and it’s really taking a toll as I grow older because I feel small. I try so hard as well and it’s a real struggle that many girls go through, but I hope I’ll get my ideal body one day! I think it’s really important to love yourself as “skinny” and if you have a body goal to reach, you should go get it! It’s never wrong to go for what you want, as long as it makes you happy. Thank you for speaking about this topic. It made me feel less alone. You are beautiful person! Have a great day x

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

You're so sweeet ! Yes babe you're so right and i totally understand how you feel ! The most important thing to remember is that as long as were happy and healthy everything else comes after. Thank you for your comment

[@shuk0rina444]

all of my friends have been skinny shaming me. my best friend, whose larger than me, constantly says I starve myself, even though I eat WAYYYY more than her. my other best friend of 6 years used to shame me for being so thin. they don't understand that I can't help it. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong.

[@vernice8133]

okana !! smh my old friends did the same but they’re probably not your friends 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@batmanlikespizza2541]

okana They’re not your friends.

[@tony538]

For me the most I look in a girl is intelligent and caring person and there eyes ,obviously you got it

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

tony thank you ❤️

[@ynw_melly_fanpage209]

I definitely have insecurities about being so skinny, I’m 5’10 and 118 so I’m very tall and small. So many people point it out like I don’t know. I just criticize myself and my body so much.

[@blackgirlmagic6467]

YNW_Melly_FanPage 20 same here I’m 5’9 and 95

[@NKOSi1415]

i'm 5'6 and 105 i'm skinny and tall and i'll most likely will end up 5'10 :( i don't wanna be tall being skinny is already enough

[@alliceson6464]

Well said. Being skinny is also an insecurity for many, just because we don't have that much body fat doesn't mean we Don't get offended when they call us skinny and body shame us.

[@ishish8816]

It’s so refreshing to hear the opposite problem to mine ( I’ve been overweight to some degree) my *whole life* 😫

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

ISH ISH 😘😘😘😘😘

[@louisratatoulielinson]

Im underweight but... we can do this we stay stronggggg

[@marii1161]

I hate being skinny like it’s a everyday struggle for me and when I have to leave the house all I wear is sweatpants and other baggy clothes.

i used to cry every night because of how skinny i am , still insecure but i try not to think about it as much

[@feistylunareads3106]

the amount of times you get told you look like a child

[@leasagna2202]

I relate so much :( I am really insecure about my skinny arms

[@TheDanster4]

I hate being skinny especially as a Black woman. I don't feel womanly enough. As someone who prefers to date Black men, I'm simply not their preferred body type so I feel like there isn't even a point in me dating at all. I just want to feel confident for once but it's so hard especially in this social media age.

[@lindstheteacher1611]

This is my problem🥺 I can’t gain weight, have like no curves, small butt/boobs, you can see my ribs and bones, but I have a huge appetite. My arms are as skinny as a child. I eat every 2 hours because everyone tells me to go eat a cheeseburger. It doesn’t help the media now. Everyone wants thick, thick, thick. I’m single too, do any guys like skinny girls? I feel like no guy has seen me as beautiful. I’m 21 btw, not 13.

[@melaninking199]

Sorry to hurt your feelings but that's just what men (Especially me) are attracted to.

[@melaninking199]

You can't force em to like a certain girl that doesn't doesn't attracts them.😔

[@hueyfreeman8865]

@@melaninking199 Nobody is forcing you. Come back when you wash your ass cheeks

[@kemigbadebo7763]

People always complain about body shape especially boys like "oh u are too fat", " oh u are too skinny" like wtf. I don't even bother anymore. So fat, skinny, tall, short, obese, disformed people love urself. Don't waste ur time on people's hate on u.

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

Very true ❤️❤️❤️

[@ankibanki2305]

You hit the nail girl x

[@TM-ln9he]

We’re actually the same person omg! 💖😭

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

T-Mash M snappppp Sis 😭❤️❤️❤️

[@viikase]

Yess I love this, I’ve just seen your channel but everything you said is how I’ve been feeling for yearssss specially about my arms 🥴😀 defo subscribing 🥰

[@yoyoyoyovanessaa]

I am always comparing myself so much to other girls in my class and I hate the way I look I just wish I looked a little bigger. Whenever I look in the mirror all I think about is how skinny I am and I hate it and hurts a lot when people point out that I am skinny. Honestly one day I just hope I can learn to love myself because rn I am not mentally doing great but I’m trying.

[@ishaw500]

this video has made me smile- shout out to use who are trying to get into the 60kg bracket,,,I hear you on all of this lovely- and I am 30 years old lol...you've got a new insta follower because you are showing me lewks..I have realised your Tanzanian..no wonder you are slender my dear, I have a friend from Tanzania and her sister is also very slim too

[@slobberysocks7825]

I was bullied in 6th grade for being to tall and skinny, they called me underweight, and slender man, and spider 😔

[@gd5297]

Babe I’m so glad you’re talking on behalf of us skinny chicas. Like it’s such a crappy feeling when people look at you weird when you say you wanna gain weight and try to explain it’s hard. Thank you for making this vid. Love the temple you are in that’s gold xx

[@MakaFrancisMusic]

Proud of you sis, love the honesty

[@theguavamama]

I love this video so much because I've been struggling with my image lately. I hate social media because of the whole "slim, thick" or whatever movement. I can't even take pictures anymore because I feel I look sickly. My mom, being African, always tells me to eat more. Eat More!! I eat but it doesn't look like it and it makes feel so bad about myself. I wish there was a natural way to gain weight...I wanted to try apetamin too...sigh*..only thing is to love the way you are and ignore everybody else. 💕New subbie!

[@nikymckenna2260]

I can TOTALLY relate!!!Thx

[@prettyloubey8411]

You know what hun I just stumbled across your channel , you have such great content, keep it up. I’ve seen a few videos and your so stunning face and body. Your size is perfect and healthy. Continue to embrace all your beauty . Anyone talking about your size I believe they are jealous hun, because you look healthy and beautiful.❤️

[@multifandom_comfort_charac6894]

I have a digestive disorder called celiac disease. It’s basically a severe allergy to wheat and gluten. We didn’t know I had it until I was 7. I was constantly sick, and at the doctor’s/hospital. I’m a teenager now, and I’m healthier, but I’m a skinny girl, and I can’t gain weight no matter how hard I try. People always tell me that I need to “get some more meat on my bones”, or “have a normal body size”. When they say a “normal” body, they usually mean bigger. People have asked me if I was starving myself. I’ve been nicknamed in the past, names like “toothpick”, “stick”, and “a skinny, sickly little thing”. When I ask people to stop, they tell me I’m being too sensitive, and it’s not body shaming because I’m not overweight. Society has such a high standard on women, and expects us to have a perfect body.

[@selmasantiago4137]

Is very difficult to feel good with your body, when everyone around you is telling you that you look sick, but you are ok.

[@realkimk4697]

OMG my arms are my biggest insecurity too! I always wrap my hand around my wrist. That stupid bone that pops out on the side of my wrist like no go away ! 😂

[@alibolink0719]

OMG BRO SAME I HATE IT AGHH

[@crystalonwenu402]

LOVE THIS VIDEO SM❤️

[@Julie10201]

Omg finally 😩in Elementary school ( I’m in middle school now) there was this Girl who always skinny shamed me because she was more towards the bigger size and I thought that I didn’t eat enough, one of the most commonly used things she said to me is that she was tough and since I “ diddnt have any extra weight” I was weak and could get hurt easily, this scared me as a fourth grader because someone that was being mean to me said it would be easy to hurt me, and this really got my mind thinking, I started eating more and trying to gain weight so I could be “ tough “ but I only ate more healthy stuff or somewhat healthy stuff and I was in a lot of activities so I diddnt gain weight, and hen I started getting anxious and super scared. The final straw was when we were playing wizards ( she was one of my bffs friends so I had to put up with her sometimes) she wanted the stick I chose to be MY wand and tried to rip it out of my hand, luckily I had a really good grip so I didn’t let go but then she said my stick that I have can rip the bark off and then it’s green underneath and then I showed her mine does the same thing and she got real mad and kept trying to yank it out of my hand, then when she couldn’t get it she started hitting my stick with her stick and it was like a sword fight until I yanked her stick out of her hand and said STOP then she left me alone, but the anxiety of being hurt because I was so skinny didn’t leave with her

[@dontkermitsuicide11]

I'm glad you have no dislikes

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

Aw how nice ☺️

[@dontkermitsuicide11]

I'm glad ❤

[@cocacherry9240]

I don’t know why people can easily say " omg you are so skinny , you have to eat a burger , you have to lose weight" but will never say " omg you look so fat , you have to eat some salad , you have to do some training" Skinny girls have feelings too , you hurt us with your little remarks All the bodies are beautiful bbw,fat,skinny,thick

[@rahmakabwe8849]

So inspirational 😘😘😘

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

rahma kabwe thank you ❤️

[@paramyza6153]

i don’t necessarily think i have a bad body, it’s just i’m surrounded by people who have it so much better

[@fam0ussnicole445]

I have very skinny Legs and I’m also tall so I hate it very much I want bigger legs 😭

[@graciellachamz6534]

Me too, so insecure with my skinny legs

[@hiitsme9958]

Ppl always say i look like a spider or something

[@carolinaalvarado3047]

Ive always had a really fast metabolism and been skinny and tall...i didnt really care about it when i was young but as soon as i entered middle school i noticed that a lot of girls had gotten puberty and they had curves and 🍑and🍒...they had a pretty body...i started feeling super insecure and even envied my plus size friends because they were thick and i thought that guys would only wanted to date girls that we thick and had kinda like an afterglass body....i also hated my height because ive always been pretty tall and i was taller than most of the girls and a lot of boys....everytime i would tell my sister(kinda thick) that i was insecure about my body and she would tell me that i wasnt supposed to complain because appearantly skinny girls have it easy,which is not the case...... i now love my body and i love my height and i am confident and i just think that we should trust puberty and love our body I know anyone probably doenst care but i just wanted to tell my story.....feel free to share your story with me in the reply section

[@rahnnstaap]

Everyone at my school and on social media and general just glorifies being thick and puts down skinny people. Like at school I would get made fun of for not having a big butt. Like really?? I like my body, I just wish more people were accepting of it around me.

[@pyhus9489]

I'm 56kg and I'm 5'7, I've been trying to gain weight but it's hard to 😫 I'm so insecure about my body I always wear loose trousers to school instead of tights and a skirt because someone called me stick legs before :( Also in p.e we were doing piggy backs and someone told me to go on their back because I was so skinny and my face was like *wtf?* then she said "no that's good!" Shut up lol x

[@memequeen2189]

Don't listen to what people say about you (unless they're compliments). They are projecting their insecurities onto you, so don't take it to heart. You're pretty and beautiful in your own way.❤️

[@pyhus9489]

thank you for that it means a lot to me 😕💗

[@memequeen2189]

@@pyhus9489 😊😊💓

[@hiitsme9958]

We had to do p.e in shorts and kept on telling me my legs look like twigs and that i look like a skeleton

[@france9372]

@@pyhus9489 I'm 5'7 and 50 kg. Its the heaviest I've ever been in my life😭

[@destinyndombele9067]

I’m skinny and short 17 years old and I get told that I look 13 and I’m sooo over it

[@NKOSi1415]

bruh try being 5'6 and almost 5'8 , 13 , and skinny with long legs and arms NAHHH i don't think so i'd rather be skinny and short tbh

[@PrettyKombe]

Aww♥️♥️ You're so beautiful.Awesome video

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

Thank you 💗💗

[@ashtrik3798]

This is my life.

[@jocelinf]

I definitely felt this. It helps to know I'm not the only one. This is something that's barely ever spoken about and even if it is, it's pretty much invalidated or pushed aside. People will always tell me "I wish I was as skinny as you" or "Omg you're so skinny how do you do it" It's a constant thing where ever I go. It's impacted me more and more especially social media to the point that almost every day I'm afraid of losing more weight or wishing I'd gain weight. Thank you for posting this !

[@theatrekid3567]

I remember in 6th grade somebody walked by me at my locker, he scream mumbled to himself wtf and then ran away from me

[@liyahthompson1521]

Proud of you Janet! 💖

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

thank you babeeee x

[@pixiered5074]

I'm thin but what triggers me most is when people call me tiny. And what's even worse is when my skinny friends who are much skinnier than me tells me how thin and tiny I look🙄 I just want to tell everyone to let the skinny community live in peace. Leave us alone 😌

[@guimauveengelschenschilt7027]

I had the exact same problem in kindergarten!! I’m the shortest from my class and I’m also underweight but I eat SOOOOOOO much

[@jarvah]

I wanted to do a vid like this but I feel like the response would be so negative ☹️ I’m glad you had the courage to do it!

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

Hey ! you should definitely do it sis x

[@MrDenzal27]

Nice video yer i have always had body issues as a man most women have bigger arms than my legs. Get called "fragile" or "sparrow". Society hey. Thanks for ypur video has helped me revalue things. Peace. :)

[@casey7171]

i've put up with this ever since i was 10. getting changed for pe, going swimming, or just randomly. my best friends call me flat and skinny. i've always been more thin but lately i've been dealing with depression, anxiety and i've also been diagnosed with harm ocd. so i never really left my room and just slept all the time and barely ate so i lost even more weight. which i know is my fault yet my best friends are all curvy and got boobs and butt and thighs and guys like them and its like im not there. i feel like a 10 year old boy to be honest and thats what i've been called before. im almost 16 and im trying to put on weight before my holiday in 3 months. my mums trying to help me :)

[@terraelizabeth7191]

My biggest insecurity is my arms. But mainly my whole body 😂 I have been skinny shamed basically all my life, by family, friends, and people I don’t know. It is hard to gain weight.. and so many people just assume that I don’t eat. And it makes me so mad. Like my friend Anthony was cooking and he gave me more than everyone else and said “eat everything on your plate” and I did. But not because he told me to, but because I wanted to. I eat ALL THE TIME. I said something to him SEVERAL times and he just didn’t understand 🙄 I want to make a video on my channel about skinny shaming as well!! I’m a new KZbinr and don’t have many subscribers but it would still be something I’d love to do ! ❤️ and love the video btw ❤️❤️

[@empress6927]

I buy my belts in the kid's section 😂😂😂

[@sheryllove5734]

Nice accent you are beautiful 😍

[@onionfetus5091]

I always eat a lot of food but my family says eat anymore but I can't. when ever I eat I don't gain weight at all. The only insecurity is my arms. I always wear a sweater to cover my arms but I feel like people think its gross.

[@tiffanycurtis4794]

YOUR BUEATIFUL BE PROUD I AM THE SAME SIZE AS YOU AND I THANK GOD I DON'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH ISSUES THAT OVERWEIGHT PEOPLE FACE I AM A NURSE PRACTITIONER AND I'M TELLING YOU 78%OF AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN ARE OBESE ITS RARE TO FIND A HEALTHY SIZE WOMAN ESPECIALLY A BLACK ONE SO KEEP WORKING OUT EATING HEALTHY WHATEVER YOUR DOING BECAUSE OBESITY IS NOT WHAT YOU WANT TO BEITS DEADLY 😊

[@seyio4325]

I can relate with you. When i was in primary school i didn't really eat a lot but now i do and i can't gain weight. Btw i got bullied as well and then when i told other people outside of school they were always like how did you get bullied, your skinny. Ive heard it all "you look anorexic", "why are u so skinny?", even the "compliments' "i want to be like you, you're sooo skinny". They day it like I'm an experiment but thank God I'm starting to love myself more. Most time i look at myself in the mirror and say that I'm gorgeous. I think people need to say that more often to themselves

[@seyio4325]

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[@jennieblanco9496]

omg yes skinny shaming isn't ok at all. I loved my body because I felt like my body was super cute but now I became a lil insecure with my body ever since some boy in my class kept calling me skinny and that I need to get thicker. He'll bring that shit up every month and I always let him slide which I shouldn't. But we life and we learn

[@Beex848]

No ways girl, just saw a video of you wearing a bikini and you were not weird at all, absolutely beautiful

[@jerseyc-k98]

As if I'm not insecure enough my dad and brother say I'm a twig and I need to eat more and I'm like 😦😖

[@chinafoster8460]

I thought I was alone! It's scary having my story being the exactly the same... Im crying while watching this video. I'm 21 and I weigh in at 50kg on the dot. I drank so much apetamin I ended up in hospital... It's so hard and I don't see it getting better for me. That's me being honest. 💔💯😣

[@jacquelineangelina4464]

I hate being skinny. One of my professor told me that I'm "stunted" and compared me with my classmates in front of them😔 I felt so ashamed after that. I knew I'm skinny, short and looked like 14 years old kid but as an educator, she should not be like that. After that situation happened, i lost my confident and i felt dont want to attend her class. Luckily, she gave me A for her subject.

[@yuriianatfs]

I have really skinny arms and I hate it and in so insecure about them. I realized it over the summer and now I’m afraid that people will judge me if u take a step outside. I’m more comfortable wearing long sleeve but in Florida it’s not possible during the summer. And I feel so uncomfortable outside my house cause I’m just so insecure. And I eat a lot but I just can’t seems to find a way cause I search up things to do and I get nothing good. And I’m almost 11 cause my b day is July 22. But yeah I’m just soo insecure!! Like my really twiggy arms are my biggest insecurity. And I feel like I can’t tell anybody about it cause my friends.. They wouldn’t understand cause well there fine there normal. And my parents would just be like it’s fine you’ll get better but it’s never gotten better. And because of how I’m so skinny everybody judges me! And I’m so skinny that on of my “bestie” still calls me fat knowing that I’m insecure about my arms and my Weight. And I fell hopeless like it will never get better. Like I’m so skinny my whole family tells me. Whenever my uncles or aunts come by there like “Oh you don’t eat?” “Do they feed you around here?” “Ugh why are you so skinny” “Are you ok?” And more. And it’s so annoying. It’s like I can’t do ANYTHING about it. And I just KILLS ME knowing that I can’t do anything about it! :(

[@elenhxox3565]

I understand this too much but at least you got the face. My face is ugly af and my body to add to

[@Aleula]

Thank you so much for discussing this, because I feel like nobody ever talks about this. I'm 5'0 and 85lbs and I'm basically a stick. Society says it's all about "body positivity" but they really only care about overweight people. Nobody sees the struggles of really skinny people. I'm sick of being called anorexic or asked "do you ever eat?". I'm a high school freshman but I get told I look like I'm a 5th grader. And if I say anything back to them, the answer is always "It's just a joke! Why are you so offended?" Because I get told this same thing everyday, Karen, do you think I haven't noticed by now?

[@lov3hurts943]

Thx for speaking the truth girl!💗

[@Alex-rh8mr]

Great video girl! You’re so beautiful. My biggest problem areas are my arms and legs, mostly my legs tho, way too skinny and I always wear sweatpants or at least long pants even in the summer in LA bc the looks I get just make me wanna die. I’ve wanted to get into entertainment of some kind for my whole life but being made fun of for my face and for being too skinny/not a real woman has always held me back. I wish I could love myself. Maybe in my next lifetime haha

[@akkashi.08]

i could just cry cause i just feel like its the first time that i found sb who i can relate to soooo muchh!!

[@jbkattes3335]

I am known as a super small and skinny girl. I am 13 but I am only 5 feet tall and weigh 75 pounds. When I was younger it never bothered me. It wasn't until mid 7th grade when I developed body insecurities. I eat a lot, so it's not like I am anorexic, I just have a slow metabolism. Anyways here is my story: One of the " beauty standards " these days is girls with bigger bodies. Girls with curves and thicker bottom areas and legs. Seeing all these model-like girls at my school and online really makes me check on my body image. My friends tease me for being flat and It kind of bothers me... It wasn't until the other night at the volleyball game where I started getting worried about myself. My jersey was an extra small libero, which is the smallest size possible. IT WAS STILL TOO BIG! And all my teammates started saying how small I was and they wish they were as skinny as me. I don't want to be defined like that... And as hard as I try to gain weight it doesn't happen.

[@osheinawalters3524]

This my fav cause I relate to it too much 🥺

[@maym5023]

Ugh love you girl😭my arms and legs are so skinny and I literally have no ass🥴I hate clothes on me in general , I’m very picky with food anyway but It’s so hard to gain weight😴I want to start working out , and I’m gonna try and eat the right things , but I hate that people make us skinny girls feel like we shouldn’t be skinny coz it looks ugly🤦🏻‍♀️every body type is beautiful but society doesn’t teach us that and it’s so annoying, anyway sorry for the rant , love you and this vid gorgeous xxx

[@elsiedankwa805]

Why can I relate to you so bad?????!!! Girl!! It’s a big struggle! My legs are so freaking skinny and bow legs 🥺

[@jacb172]

I'm tired when those person are your family or relatives tho. sometimes strangers too.😔

[@seunayo-ojo8615]

Love you beautiful xxx

[@JanetMoniqueGomez]

i love you moreee baby girl xx

[@elsybabe5558]

Wellll I am skinny but I also have some skinny friends so at least we complain together. I loose weight like u and I also gain weight just like that.Within a week I will look less skinny😂😂

[@JewessChrstnMystic]

For me it's my knee area looks like theres two balls in my legs.. dont have a nice butt, which I'm alright with, because it's not flat or completely nonexistent, my chest, shoulders, and tiny arms, and my rib cage can be seen.. I HATE it.. when I would put on weight in high school I was muscular looking.. not femanin.. now I just cant even gain that 😂 29 yrs old 5ft 3 and 95lbs AND a AA cup.. and theres always been this little indented sunk in area between my boobs.. man oh man.. thanks for the video. People dont realise skinny shaming is just as systemic as fat shaming, and just as damaging.

[@adriann3471]

I feel that with the knees. I saw them in pictures now I don’t wear shorts or short skirts