I will say, at least Dianne died without knowing any terror of the true situation of how she died. That should offer some comfort to her family, while everything else about the situation is so deeply and utterly painful.
@niknack7420 Жыл бұрын
True but if you believe in ghost then you know the scariest ghost are the ones that are unaware
@aivlysplath Жыл бұрын
@@niknack7420what? Did a ghost tell you that?
@mochabearry Жыл бұрын
If they believe in ghosts, then probably yes. @@aivlysplath
@eveelee4152 Жыл бұрын
@@aivlysplathno this is fact if a spirit have an unresolved issue here they soul will be what other Call limbo
@NativeNYerChicHK Жыл бұрын
@@eveelee4152 honey, that’s not a fact, it’s a chosen belief. There are no facts involved in religious or occult beliefs, it’s all fictional folklore that people chose to believe or not believe. There are no facts associated with any of it.
@DangerousTempest Жыл бұрын
As an autistic person, one of my greatest fears is that I don't react "right" to a crime and everyone thinks I did it
@apricotcat1542 Жыл бұрын
Even worse is the interrogation after 😭😭
@midnightblue4769 Жыл бұрын
Yeah when my grandpa died, I didn’t cry when it happened and I didn’t cry at the funeral. I may have shed one tear but as soon as I got home and i was alone I broke down. I just can’t cry in front of people.
@triplesixcrow Жыл бұрын
ME TOO. omfg. this isn’t talked about enough imo
@IceFireofVoid Жыл бұрын
I'm so scared one day I'll witness something and the police will look into my history and see I was diagnosed borderline and think SHE DID IT IT WAS HER LOCK HER UP 💀💀
@sugatraa Жыл бұрын
no litteraly i'm worried i might accidentally become a witness and my history/ mental history might make me a suspect 😭😭
@TheCrimebaby Жыл бұрын
I aint ever gonna become a well known and loved member of the community. Too risky
@ESPHMacD Жыл бұрын
No seriously though, apparently its a recipe for disaster.
@proud.delusion.enjoyer Жыл бұрын
U RIGHT🫣
@cheeryberrie Жыл бұрын
Dont have a smile that light up the room either
@MorganVsTheInternet7 ай бұрын
Don't be the life of the party either!
@hyperf1sh1617 ай бұрын
Don’t have a stable and respectable career or a bright future ahead of you either
@BloodyKandi Жыл бұрын
When my mother died of cancer, that same night I BEGGED to go to a rock show and my family made me stay home. I was 16. I didn't want to go for fun, I wanted to be where friends could comfort me in an environment I felt like I could be myself. Instead I was forced to watch strangers wrap my mother in a blanket and carry her down the stairs and into the back of a van. And then watch my entire family and neighborhood cry, all while saying "why don't you cry? Didn't you love your mother? Even your militant father is shedding tears." It's been 19yrs and I still cry when nobody's watching.
@dollyhood6549 Жыл бұрын
My dad was sick w Alzheimer’s & I was his primary caretaker at 28. I’d visit him on the weekends to give respite to his nurse, but on the weekend of his death, Saturday Oct 1st 2016, I did everything I could to not go and see him, & it was the best decision of my life. I’m sorry you had to be there for your mothers final moments. I hope one day peace will find and embrace you ✌️
@ingloriousbetch4302 Жыл бұрын
I can't cry in front of people. Thanks to my borderline mothers "parenting" my body just automatically shuts the sh*t down. Your family sounds like it's loaded in sh*t bags. What awful things to say.
@goddammitalana Жыл бұрын
@dollyhood6549 you were his primary caretaker but only visited on weekends to give the nurse a break? Or did you care for him during the week and then the nurse did the weekends but you would still visit to give the nurse a break? I'm confused, sorry❤
@kirbysthiccthighs Жыл бұрын
people don’t understand that other people cope with loss and grief differently. your way of grieving is completely valid. i grieve the same way. you’re not alone, and you are so strong for being able to continue on after that.
@Stoshnut Жыл бұрын
When my dad died I made the 5 hour drive back from college without crying. When I got home all of my mom's best friends were at our home. It was good for my mom but 5 days and 3 of those days being viewing and funeral later, I hadnt been alone. There were AT LEAST 6 nonfamily members in my mom's house with me, my boyfriend and our friend that was visiting from English. It took 3 months, one night in my boyfriend's dad's kitchen, where we were living, about 6pm I just started crying and couldn't stop. We spent 3 or 4 hours driving from restaurant to restaurant picking up all my favorite food item from each one. Grief and shock are so fucking weird.
@kiddgreusome Жыл бұрын
For the first time i know the story before boze told me....feeling like a real part of the true crime community right now. Still gonna stay and here how boze tells the tale
@fionabell2931 Жыл бұрын
Boze is awesome at telling a story you've already heard! Sounds like you're hearing it for the first time. She is fabulous
@danielllleX11 ай бұрын
That was me when she did the Charlie Adelson trial for Dan Markel‘s murder. It was interesting as I am extremely familiar with the case, having watched three trials regarding its details
@LukeTheHomoKing11 ай бұрын
Same here! This case is gruesome and honestly shouldn't have happened.
@miaknig31306 ай бұрын
I only know of this girl and Lizzy Borden when it comes to daughters taking out both parents.
@birdie6359 Жыл бұрын
I remember I saw a Forensic Files episode on this a while back (the episode's called "Disrobed") & it still baffles me to this day how Sarah genuinely believed she could get away with this. Also, one part that sticks out to me is that during that time she really did be lookin 16 going on 30💀💀
@wenb927010 ай бұрын
Omg I hate forensic files now. Dudes voice makes me cringe cuz I watched it so much 😂 shiverrrrr
@hellbooru9639 Жыл бұрын
To the question of "how to deal with your teenager dating an older creep," i think the best option is to sit them down and express your concerns. Treat them like an ADULT in the matter, usually when teenagers date someone older they're looking to feel special and mature. They may not listen to you at the time, but it will sow seeds of distrust in their older partner when cracks start to show. If you're close to any of your kids' friends, express your concerns to them too. Their peer group will probably have more luck talking sense into them. Trying to forbid your kid from seeing their partner is only going to breed resentment, make them want them more, and in cases like this, can end violently. It also makes it easier for the partner to manipulate the kid into isolating themselves from their family. Unless there's a threat of violence, stay supportive of your kids. Makes your concerns known. And try to give them a sense of maturity and responsibility in the home. That's the best advice I can give as someone who was groomed by an older weirdo as a teenager.
@gem95355 ай бұрын
My mother used this same strategy, but he wasn't an adult while I was a teen, just abusive. She expressed concern, told me that I deserved better, but let me make my own choices while making sure I knew that I had her support. I broke up with him maybe six months later and she got me a giant caterpillar plush
@graeson33172 ай бұрын
Think about if you were talking to your friend and just said "break up with him" Your friend probably wouldn't accept that and neither will your kid. They need to know why and if you treat them like a child they'll use being in a relationship with an adult as a form of rebellion
@MikeForest90Ай бұрын
"If you're close to any of your kids' friends, express your concerns to them too." Only mention things that you are concerned about casually, don't directly ask your kids friends to help you convince your kid, that will most likely backfire.
@oilpaintolivia6874 Жыл бұрын
adopting the term “alpha brat” into my vocabulary. ty, BOZE
@nationalravioli Жыл бұрын
it was so odd at the time, i was 15 and my friend died by murder.. i cried and grieved so badly for her every day. the crying didn't stop until i had a dream in the clouds and one bench, i was still crying but, the friend sat down on the bench with me and asked why i was upset. i said because you're dead. some way, some how she talked to me about how she wasn't in pain anymore, she's ok. just, that was probably my best grieving moment where i sort of got closure... dreams are weird.
@bobbiedaniel9347 Жыл бұрын
That's beautiful
@nationalravioli Жыл бұрын
i forgot to mention it originally but it was just so wild to me to have that dream because i'm not religious at all but, part of the closure she talked to me about was how she's going to heaven. and that just, comforted me..@@bobbiedaniel9347
@swaberrigutz Жыл бұрын
This made me tear up. I'm glad you got closure. Hope you are oki 🫶🏿
@MinatheRaichu Жыл бұрын
My mom gets a lot of dreams like this too. Where she can dream and speak to deceased family. Not to get all spiritual n shit, but it's a treasure to have that experience.
@ambunnie997211 ай бұрын
I had a similar experience! I had two dreams like this, one of them I saw my friend and she was okay and happy but I knew deep down she wasn’t alive but pretended I didn’t know. At the end of the dream she said she was doing just fine and I was more than welcome to talk about her passing with her I was shocked!!! The second I had been missing her a lot so I talked to her as much as I could and she said that she had to go for real this time but it’s alright. I think my mom was right when she said you can love and miss people but when you cry for them you keep them stuck because they don’t want the people they care about to hurt. The best you can do is move on so that they can have peace
@emmmjemmm Жыл бұрын
I was born and raised in this town... Bellevue never recovered from this. It is now a town full of violence and tragedy... when comparing the population of people who live there compared to the amount of violent crime... it's just unbelievable. I left and never turned back- and never will.
@Lorelai_Di-Angelo Жыл бұрын
Sarah’s dream gave her away to Linda because the head was blurred and the chest was blurred which is obviously where she shot her parents. But she said that she only peaked into the crime scene, saw blood, and ran. So the only way for her to know is either she’s lying about not seeing them and it was Bruno, or she did it herself.
@babapopo87866 ай бұрын
I think that the police might have tell her how her parents died so I not sure that what give her away😅 but it 100% a guilt dream
@s3rye306 Жыл бұрын
If a small town hasn't dealt with murder in ages. They typically hand it off to county or sheriff. While helping in the investigation. Like you said, someone who hasn't investigated murder in years. Aren't gonna pick up on clues like a seasoned homicide investigator. My city doesn't have a ton of murdered. But they will send complex cases straight to state as they have the most resources bsies state FBI.
@dancesmokesmile344 Жыл бұрын
I live in a country with very little crime and very few murders. But the police still train all the time and they almost always catch the killer pretty fast. Except for once around the 80s-ish when they thought the murderers were 3 and 4 years old or something. They messed up on that one, but that was a really small city I think, and the detectives didn’t follow protocol at all
@shakyisgone5743 Жыл бұрын
My mother wasn’t killed but she died due to an infection but when she died I was emotionally detached I barely showed no emotion’s since I seen so much death around me I just don’t react to death as normal people usually does. I feel bad for the people who died in this case they didn’t deserve what happened to them. Thanks for spreading awareness about cases like this.
@Astr0_Man Жыл бұрын
i think the only time i ever cried when i found out someone in my family dies was my grammy pat. i didnt have such a close relationship w anyone else but her,she never treated me like a pest or shoo me away when i wanted to talk. she always called me her gaurdian angel and loved me til the day she died. most others who died in my family made me earn their love and eventhe it was extremely conditional, i always had to pretend. but not w my grammy pat, i could be myself always w her and i miss her so much. i remember bawlin my eyes out when i found out, i was so devastated
@IceFireofVoid Жыл бұрын
I didn't cry when my grandfather died and I didn't cry at his funeral. Relatives would come to me for comfort and tell me I was really strong. I didn't feel strong. I felt completely empty. I don't think I properly processed that death until a couple years after it happened.
@jordanwebb312910 ай бұрын
@@Astr0_Manrip granny pat she sounds like a great person ❤ hope your well
@TheBestAsbestos13 Жыл бұрын
I'm an intensive care nurse. I've seen good, bad, and ugly deaths in my time. Death still affects me, but my experience has given me a different perspective and relationship with it than your average person. To be so blasé about the bodies of your own deceased parents... She'd been picturing them dead in her mind for a looooong time.
@highdefinition90s11 ай бұрын
Yeah just given my personal circumstances wouldn’t incline it but I still cry when I think about my dad dying alone - I didn’t see it just what my brain imagines. I can’t imagine how difficult it would be to work through that imagery without open weeping at least at some stage.
@NurseKayP8 ай бұрын
I know what you mean. I have a different perspective on death as well. There are situations where death can be almost a blessing if a person is suffering. I’ve also seen family members with a loved one who has a long drawn out course of dementia or the family observes there loves one on hospice for an extended period. In those situations the family members have long grieved the death of their loved one so when it comes their reaction may not be perceived as normal. I am typically a very level person even in high stress situations that could be perceived as unemotional.
@kawaii333666 ай бұрын
I watched my dad die in the hospital. I was a total dads girl. I loved him so much. But when he died I got up, complimented the doctors tattoos, got my purse and left. Maybe itd be different if it was both my parents. But I can def see why someone might be blase.
@sadesemolu Жыл бұрын
16:00 This is the most teenage-girl way to self-snitch to a crime. 😂 She so detached from her emotions, that she cant acknowledge that she may feel some deep seeded guilt towards murdering her parents and goes on to tell her aunt about it completely oblivious to the meaning of the dream may be and how it can out her.
@wastelanderflint5987 Жыл бұрын
I could see just sitting on a fence as a dissociative behavior.... I can absolutely see myself doing weird shit like that just bc my mind would be absolutely checked out Having said that...the behavior afterwards is very strange
@YankeeBlues21 Жыл бұрын
Before Boze really leaning into all the stuff going against Sarah, I got immediate Sierra Halseth vibes when she was just hanging out while they took her parents’ bodies away and investigated the home and had an older boyfriend the dad didn’t like. The twist was that Bruno wasn’t a participant.
@MissMinx. Жыл бұрын
Three words for this case, Cold. Horrific. Shocking.
@oldeskoolnana7543 Жыл бұрын
My husband of 43 years just passed on 10/20. He's been sick for quite some time. Right now it doesn't seem real. I've lost so many people in my life I feel numb right now. RIP LOVE I'LL SEE YOU ONE DAY AGAIN.😢🙏🕊✌🌻🌻
@rachelramos981010 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss. I know you will see him again some day. In the meantime live life double for the two of you. He wouldn’t want you to stay sad ❤
@MernieAnne Жыл бұрын
BOZE: “Can I just take a second to talk about Bruno?” 🎶 We don’t talk about Bruno 🎵
@kirstylister1341 Жыл бұрын
No no no
@Estassi5511 ай бұрын
This is the comment I was looking for!!
@alicefurusa536111 ай бұрын
I looked for this comment!
@ashleysmith500111 ай бұрын
@@kirstylister1341I was wondering if someone would comment this
@eavye9511 ай бұрын
Lmao looked for this comment 😂
@alyalyr105 Жыл бұрын
Boze you should try to take a look at Suzanne Von Ritchthofen case. I'm brazilian myself and this is a very known case here. She is a narcissist who manipulated her boyfriend into killing her parents along with her. When she was arrested, her inmates and the prison guards literally said that she was so manipulative that she made her inmates comb her hair for her. There's even a movie about it, that portrays both the boyfriend and her "side" of the storie, and the actress just did an amazing job. I know u usually don't go through international cases, specially because of the language barrier, but it would be really interesting to see u reacting to this case, specially now that she is on conditional prison (don't know if that's how it's said, but basically she can leave prison whenever she wants). There's plenty of cases here in Brazil with this rich manipulative girls that you would probably like to know
@HAUNTINGLYBEAUTIFULADVENTURES Жыл бұрын
This seems really interesting! Maybe I'll cover this case on my second channel. Where should I look for info about this case?
@goddammitalana Жыл бұрын
That was a very interesting and sad sad case. Absolutely heartless.
@vitorialima8399 Жыл бұрын
I was 2 when it happened, it still haunts me to this day, I feel so sad for her brother, Andreas, at the same day he lost his dad, mom, sister and best friend, he never recovered 💔
@alyalyr105 Жыл бұрын
yess, me too!! her brother, after the parents that lost their lives, is definately the one who lost the most with this tragedy. Father, mother and sister at the same time...@@vitorialima8399
@DocAnaStasia Жыл бұрын
I remember that case. Brazil has always had some interesting cases.
@jenn817929 күн бұрын
I was 15 dating a 19 year old. My mom didn't forbid it...but she did tell me he bought my Christmas present from the gas station on the way to my house ON Christmas Day. That helped me to see where I stood with him. I appreciate that.
@jessi5856 Жыл бұрын
i dated the older bad guy when i was a preteen and there was nothing my parents couldve done to stop it even though they tried, they ended up just letting it have to run its course and needless to say it was a very toxic & abusive relationship, not worth it
@bb-mf6qh11 ай бұрын
There was definitely something your parents could have done. They failed you. Their job as parents is to protect you. It 100% was their fault, it doesn't matter the details. There were probably a ton of different ways they could have stopped it. I'm sorry your parents failed to ptect you and that you still haven't come to terms with it.
@TheBellvue9411 ай бұрын
Mine did the same but I ended up having 3 kids with him and a 13 year long relationship full of mental physical and emotional abuse. We haven't been together for 6 years but I don't forgive them. We lived in their house and he punched a hole in the door where my head could have been. That hole is still there 15+years later.
@5050TM11 ай бұрын
@@bb-mf6qhYeah they could've called the police!
@wenb927010 ай бұрын
Whew when I was 16 I dated a 23 year old. We lied and told my mom he was 19. Total yuck
@toxiczombiewolf569210 ай бұрын
@wenb9270 even 16 and 19 is yuk. Like in this case. Like one is still a child the other an adult. I feel glad I waited till 18 for any real type of relationship some men are so creepy.
@morganagod Жыл бұрын
I'm a minute in and I already know what this is. This true crime is burned into my brain because it happened like... a mile from me. Interested to see how you cover it.
@WL22345 Жыл бұрын
It always hits harder when it happened near you. I heard about a horrific crime a while back and looked up the killer’s name to read the details since I hadn’t heard of the case before. Only to find out the killer went to the same university as me 💀
@toxiczombiewolf569210 ай бұрын
I think what's worse when you hear about crimes in your local areas is not being surprised because of the violence. Like last year in a town near me someone stabbed a 9 year old girl to death in front of her sister. Abd because of what the location is becoming I'm not surprised but sickened by such cruel actions against a child.
@alexiiconner7 ай бұрын
@@WL22345i’m from the west side of chicago and the gang wars have taken too many 😢❤
@WL223457 ай бұрын
@@alexiiconner I can’t even imagine :(
@alexiiconner7 ай бұрын
@@WL22345 ty 🫶🏼
@heidi.midget98809 ай бұрын
If you're underage child is dating an adult what you do is call the cops don't tell him you're going to if he see her again you put him in jail no questions asked just straight to jail
@MikeForest90Ай бұрын
Tricky. The child will most likely find out and there is a very high risk that the child will hate their parent(s) and won't forgive them. I dunno, I guess you have to take that risk as a parent.
@annice-4609 Жыл бұрын
Idk if you take requests/ideas for stories from comments, but the Lululemon Murder case is completely wild to me, and I'd love to hear your opinion on it ❤
@apricotcat1542 Жыл бұрын
AGREEEE
@vitorialima8399 Жыл бұрын
Ikr, this one is crazy!
@cookoobananaz11 ай бұрын
That case is CRAZY
@bluebados2179 Жыл бұрын
When Boze said Bellevue I nearly spit out my tea! It's always interesting to hear true crime creators talk about cases close to home
@MusiciansRule07 Жыл бұрын
This was one of the first cases I ever saw coverage for. My first Caregiving client was very into True Crime and I remember this case because of the pink robe and just how close the cops were to losing the most crucial evidence to the garbage dump. All of this pain and tragedy for money and for a toxic Freshman with a Senior-esque relationship...she wanted to be with Bruno so badly, she wanted the life insurance so badly, she slaughtered her parents. She ended up with nothing but a prison cell. Also, I love the Personality Types of Patricide Killers you shared with us. If I have to guess, I'd say that Sarah is definitely an Alpha Brat.
@Busterlove1234 Жыл бұрын
Hey I live here and something worse happened to my childhood friends family. Same town it was a triple murder of a mother, grandmother and son. The daughter survived. I've been wanting so badly for it to be talked about!!!
@Busterlove1234 Жыл бұрын
Well bellevue Tennessee
@tinyhuman5610 Жыл бұрын
And now my day is much better. Thank you so very much! My mental health is not great and my narcissistic father has called 4 times in a 5 hour span. Your videos help calm me and distract me so I can then start my meditation coping mechanism. So I just wanted to say thank you, I very very much appreciate you and your videos. 💜 (Sorry for the super long emotional vomiting comment)
@nopenope9118 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you have to deal with a narcissistic parent and I hope you’re doing okay ❤️ I’m sure it’s a lot to deal with.
@notonthelist1 Жыл бұрын
Do you still live with them or do you have your own place?
@tinyhuman5610 Жыл бұрын
@@notonthelist1 I live in my own place. I am low contact with him but I have children, and I allow him to visit them under supervision. So he was repeatedly calling to ask (demand) to see them today, even though he didn't keep to the boundaries I have set up of scheduling it at least 3 days in advance and taking no for an answer if we are unable to on the day he asks for. So I told him no and he threw a fit and turned it back on me. Then I told him because of that behavior, he will have to wait until next week to see them instead...hence the 3 additional calls and him freaking out worse. He is so hard to set any boundaries with at all, and as much as I don't like to admit it, I am not always good at standing my ground, and even when I do, I fall apart the second we are off the phone. Its a little pathetic but I am working on it. (Again I'm sorry for such a long comment. I didn't really think anyone would really notice the first comment. I just wanted to write it out because it does help me so much to watch this channel. I'm sorry for bugging anyone)
@tinyhuman5610 Жыл бұрын
@@nopenope9118 Thank you so much, you are far too kind. I appreciate the kind words and I am sorry if my comment was too much.
@audreymarie1191 Жыл бұрын
@@tinyhuman5610awh! You’re badass im sorry you’re being put through that :(
@MMMKayyy111 Жыл бұрын
I remember when my grandad passed, he was on hospice and I was keeping my grandparents company. I was there when he passed and they came to take him. I was just in such disbelief I couldn’t watch them take him. I cried muttering no with my eyes closed shaking my head.
@jess-bo98 Жыл бұрын
I know from the feathered bangs alone, that Dianne was a gem. Only 2 minutes in I know this will break my heart 😢
@--Anthony---11 ай бұрын
I think BOZE really don't understand how much we love this type of sit-down deep down videos
@vaporslash7920 Жыл бұрын
I'm aware that everyone has different reactions to events like this but it was seriously an immediate red flag that she just sat there and watched them take her parents bodies out. When my mom attempted suicide (she survived thank god) I could not look when the paramedics took her out. I let them in and pointed them to the bathroom where she was and then I went into the kitchen and just sat with my head between my knees because I did NOT want to see what was happening. I had to cover my ears when they were wheeling her out because I could hear her struggling to breathe. It was horrific and that was even with her still alive. If she had been dead you bet your ass I would not be there watching them take her body out no way. I wouldn't be able to handle seeing that.
@moderator7169 Жыл бұрын
your brain dont always comprehend severe horrific tragedy right away. its almost like a shock you cant react to what your brain wont acknowledge or comprehend in aomw cases it can be hours even days i saw mother and daughter in law not shed a tear the entire n4 hour interrogation once it was over and they reunited in the same room they both completely fell apart i haven't watch it yet so idk this circumstances yet but ita quite common tbh
@KlearChristal Жыл бұрын
Nah that kind of reaction isn't abnormal and not necessarily a red flag in of itself.
@overtlygrrl4850 Жыл бұрын
My mom also tried to commit but I just stood there and watched. People have different reactions
@kokuhakuqiun4215 Жыл бұрын
I would probably be either frozen on the spot to trying to go to a neighbor’s house if I found my relatives like that. I wouldn’t be suspected luckily bc I spend lots of time in my room or downstairs eating or on the family PS5. And I’m always on my devices too.
@1800PAlN Жыл бұрын
you acknowledge that people have different reactions to traumatic situations, yet call it a red flag that someone has a different reaction to a traumatic situation than you do.
@rhwus Жыл бұрын
EVERYONE WAKE UP BOZE POSTED!!! btw not to mean this in a weird way but is it just me or I really like Boze's content?? I think I've watched literally every video I think it's the way she has her own opinions about the content, and yet also has really funny reactions to it + she welcomes other's opinions it feels like she's a human being like the rest of us instead of like oh she's a KZbinr and you're just a nobody right like "If we wanna drown, we drown together"
@JayJay-dy2yb Жыл бұрын
Shes a dope person, definitely someone I would be friends with -that’s why I keep watching!
@charlesvon155 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching a lot of old smosh pit videos & unexpectedly seeing boze pop up in a video every now and then always surprises me.
@chaoticweeb1513 Жыл бұрын
Congrats on 1 mill Boze!!!!!!! 🎉🎉
@caydenh.4393 Жыл бұрын
Boze is feeding us good! 💜💜
@caydenh.4393 Жыл бұрын
On a real note, I have really bad ADHD (presents as what you would thing is ADD) and Boze’s channel has helped me focus on school work, especially when studying for vet comps. And she is hilarious and inspiring. WE LOVE BIGBOSSBOZE lmao
@simoliz03 Жыл бұрын
We have an appetite!
@Tailstraw_xD Жыл бұрын
Yeah, all objecting to your children's choice in partner does is drive them closer together. The best thing you can do is step back and wait for the relationship to implode and be there when it does to comfort them
@thunderatigervideo Жыл бұрын
The problem is that you may not have time to wait for things to implode. Growing up, one of my teachers grudgingly allowed a long distance relationship to develop between her daughter and a guy in California. The girl ended up running away to be with him and died of an overdose a month later. I agree that you risk driving them together if you step in, but there are risks in doing nothing, too.
@beans1325 Жыл бұрын
I highly disagree. The danger that lies in stepping back with a relationship with someone that may be a red flag is a danger that we shouldn't look away from. If my mother didn't look away, maybe I wouldn't have dealt with the abuse I endured. If my aunt didn't look away, my cousin wouldn't have died. If my grandmother didn't look away, maybe my other aunt would've been able to run on the beach with us, or maybe even speak to us about how her life in college was studying as an engineer.
@Tailstraw_xD Жыл бұрын
@@beans1325 I'm not saying to look away, I'm saying to understand that when someone thinks they're in love, they'll see you warning them about red flags as an act of hostility. If you continue doing it, they may eventually go no contact with you.
@Swoulegard69 Жыл бұрын
kinda different when she's dating a predator, bro.
@Tailstraw_xD Жыл бұрын
@@Swoulegard69 You're not hearing what I said. All trying to interfere with the relationship, even an abusive one, will do is drive her away from you and towards him
@KratomGrl Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the content boze! Im at home, bored, so this was a treat. Thank you sooooo much ❤
@julieguy6498 Жыл бұрын
Did she say "as a future parents" at 10:14 ? 👀
@staticTV03 Жыл бұрын
It's very easy to look back at that "bad boy" relationship and know that it's bad. Very very easy to convince yourself in the moment that this is all ok and that you are in love with this boy. But looking back, I know now that it's such a bad situation and caused me a lot of mental trauma. I wish it never happened but I've become the person I am today because of that situation
@kaylenr.6034 Жыл бұрын
One thing about these cases really leaves me astounded is how once the murderer does that to the first person how they can continue like in the case with Emma and Melanie. Very scary and jarring to grasp
@rachelramos981010 ай бұрын
Exactly! Once her moms head just 🤯you would have thought that would be traumatic enough to stop her in her tracks 😢
@allexmussen9107 Жыл бұрын
Cases like these terrify me. I dont want kids for various reasons, but the possibility of raising a kid and them killing me because of just not getting whay they wanted? That definitely adds to not wanting kids.
@Kio0294 Жыл бұрын
Congrats on the play button arriving to you!!!! Yaaaay big Boze getting even bigger
@nuggy9556 Жыл бұрын
I love the Sinister Saturday Series! Keep going boze! Amazing storytelling 🎉❤
@ChrisAlexD Жыл бұрын
Omg. I hate the idea of sleeping and never waking up.
@alexiiconner7 ай бұрын
sounds peaceful to me. not in a dark way, just because you wouldn’t “feel” it as much
@TordenFaaret Жыл бұрын
"your honor, the likelihood of my client killing her parents again are low, therefore she should not get life in jail" like what kinda clown---
@Sci-Fri Жыл бұрын
Love you, Boze! Keep up the great work but please make sure to take care of yourself before you take care of us. You’re awesome!!!
@LeXyStAr77 Жыл бұрын
I hope she sees her parents every night when she closes her eyes
@NativeNYerChicHK Жыл бұрын
I love those types of studies, they’re so damn interesting!
@marisacastilo2079 Жыл бұрын
So happy you are putting out so much content boze! 🎉
@KlearChristal Жыл бұрын
You are a great story teller. Love hearing crime cases told by you. Chilling
@dwaalatticsalt78867 ай бұрын
Not me thinking you had a SquareSpace ad for a second there😂😂
@ashcybil99107 ай бұрын
I was that girl who dated the bad boy, too. I only had my dad and I was his only child so he is pretty protective of me. Granted, I dated this boy when I was 18 so I had full rights to go see him anytime I wanted. However, I was still living under my dad's roof so I kind of had to listen to him at times in fear of being kicked out. My dad hated him. He was 4 years older than me, smoked a shit ton of weed, and could be quite the drinker. Not that I think there's anything wrong with smoking weed, he just smoked excessively and my dad doesn't like the use of marijuana. At the time, I thought my dad was over exaggerating and being too protective because he would go crazy at times. Now, I regret it. I should have listened to my dad... I could and would NEVER imagine killing my own flesh and blood over something like this though. I would gladly leave my boyfriend if I knew my dad truly didn't want me to be with him for good reason.
@Desperita Жыл бұрын
15:40 dream segment sent shivers. Its one of the most unsettling things to hear abt a murderers dream. Like some horror movie, wish this whole case was just a horror movie.
@morganscholz3978 Жыл бұрын
boze please do more family dynamic crimes. i love your analysis on people and children and the break down of their character. it’s something that has helped me be aware of the toxic people out there and makes me feel like my home life was so bad.
@marirose19 Жыл бұрын
Excellent vid, Boze! Grateful in NH USA🙌🏼💛✌🏼
@AntiCommunistSympathizer Жыл бұрын
When you know you've heard this story before and it takes a moment for your brain to fade into the buttery narration of Peter Thomas (R.I.P) and the Forensic Files theme kicks in.
@LadySquall11 Жыл бұрын
Wow this is a blast from the past, I remember seeing this story 2010 on solved. But this is more detailed good job 👍🏼
@stupidlyintelligent491 Жыл бұрын
Watching this around my parents as boze was talking about the types of people that kill their parents was very…awkward…
@LadyMFUnicorn11 ай бұрын
Omg the study is so concerning. My son is out of my house for wanting to take us out. I feel like he wouldn't but he is 2 of the types. Thanks I needed this eye opener.
@SleepySuperhero Жыл бұрын
Sun Valley is famous for being a ski town and where billionaires go to meet up and hang out. When the writer and actors strikes were on, the studio execs were hanging out in Sun Valley
@n.c.pictures8 ай бұрын
I dreamt about my paternal grandparents ONCE and that was after they passed away about 10 years ago. Just imagining dreaming about my parents after they were shot and having the shot areas blacked out is absolutely HORRIFYING to me. I'm in tears rn
@dragonimagination19477 ай бұрын
I think this was a murder that was done on an old show called "Murder" where teams try to take a previously solved case and try to have to collect evidence and listen to suspects to figure out who the killer(s) are.
@dianecheney41417 ай бұрын
In Great Britain they have a course of study called Dangerousness. It's fascinating. It tries to predict how dangerous a criminal will be, it's not a exact science
@ridleycobain2468 Жыл бұрын
You are such a fantastic story teller!
@milknhoneyhoney Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mama Boze!!!! 😍❤ Love you and appreciate you so much!!! 🥰💖💕
@meowiestwo Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on 1M subscribers, well deserved!!!
@seraphim9906 Жыл бұрын
I don't understand how you could kill your parents like that- her dad was looking at her when she shot him in the chest.
@elliehub1692 Жыл бұрын
My sister's therapist recently did a profiling on my sibling and said that if we don't get them out of our house right now then they will commit parricide on our family and kill us all. Idk if I believe the guy, but kids like my sibling are the type of people that he specializes in. Either way my parents are kicking them out (they are 19, so not a minor)
@flynt5856 Жыл бұрын
bro that’s scary. i couldn’t even imagine, hoping everything turns out alright for you and your family
@jenniferprince2674 Жыл бұрын
Great start to a Saturday. Just Boze and chill!
@kaitlynblount76837 ай бұрын
Just a lil correction but I think when you were talking about the different personality types of children who commit parricide you used tightly wounded as in wound like a cut or scar, when I think they meant tightly wound, with wound as like spun up thread, meaning the kid was high strung, nervy, stressed, etc.
@mementomori2809 Жыл бұрын
i think it would be very interesting if u did a video on which personality type u think the cases u have covered fit into (:
@Sirek6 Жыл бұрын
Anyone else singing “we don’t talk about Bruno” every time Bose says the name Bruno? 😂🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎶
@alexiiconner7 ай бұрын
😭😭
@GilesHellier Жыл бұрын
It's rude to leave a 34 minute video without saying goodbye. Makes me feel unloved. :(
@punkrockllama Жыл бұрын
🎶 So long, farewell, I've come to bid adieu. 🎶 :P
@gyrthez246 Жыл бұрын
Okay, I don't know why but the night before my grandmother died I had a gut feeling or some sort of extremely strong urge that I absolutely had to see my grandma tomorrow. She had been diagnosed with dementia 7 years prior, and I had stopped visiting a few years later because it hurt me to see her like that. I hadn't really seen her in 2-3 years by then, and to my knowledge she was just fine as usual, so this sudden feeling came out of nowhere. I woke up the next day and badgered my mother to no end to go see her, since she said she was going. She kept making excuses that she just wanted to go alone so I believed her and eventually stopped asking. The following day my parents barged into our rooms and told us that if we want to see grandma, we had to go right now because it would be the last time. I went, but just as we were pulling into town (literally 2 minutes away) we got the phone call. I was later told that the day which I had that strong urge to go see her, she had become lucid for a time and could remember pretty much everything and everyone. I also always felt that despite being constantly told I was the eldest (just me and my younger brother), I knew growing up that I had an older brother, I can't describe how but I just felt like I had an older sibling, like there was no way that I could be the eldest. Found out later that yes, there is an older male half sibling. It's difficult to know when to trust my instinct these days, but in hindsight I always realise that I had a long time feeling, assumption, or dream and they are often so accurate right down to the last detail that it's scary. I don't understand why but if there's one thing I do understand is that human instinct is extremely powerful and still not very understood. There is no way that I should have known either of these things ahead of time, yet I did. I would absolutely chalk it up to coincidence but it's happened so many times, especially when I was younger, that I'm not so sure.
@casscass669611 ай бұрын
I’m a parent now. And the only thing you can truly do without alienating them is inform them of the concerns you have, let them know you are always there for them, it’s our job to protect them and not the other way around. Nor will we say we told you so/ or hold it against them if they tell us anything and/or if things don’t work out the way they wanted. Reading and watching true crime for over 15 years has taught me those things are always things the victim/ offender/ said they wish their parents would have done before the situation went to the point of no return.
@dreamsykle Жыл бұрын
14:52 yeah as someone who has lost a sibling that’s how i felt. the first anniversary of his death is tomorrow and it still doesn’t feel real.
@rachelramos981010 ай бұрын
❤
@ivyherriges1231 Жыл бұрын
Boze your storytelling is so so immersive and easy to follow while still being perfectly in depth :0
@oppaloopa36985 ай бұрын
If your kid dates someone you don’t like, follow the Sisko method. I’m being completely serious. Sisko from Star Trek made his disapproval clear but didn’t try to force his son to stop seeing the girl he was dating because that doesn’t stop the relationship, that just makes your kid a good liar. Have a conversation about birth control both oral and condoms, keep them in the house, tell your kid that your door is always open no matter what, tell them you will not help raise a grandchild if they’re stupid (even if you know you would), tell them you don’t like the relationship but you’d rather y’all have trust and love as parent and child than them be secretly dating someone, let them know you’re giving them a rope. They can use it as a tie to you or to hang themselves. Your kid will not choose you over a friend or partner. Sisko also knew this. They know that your love is unconditional if you’re a good parent. If you’re not then they’re already being sneaky because why should they not be? You’re stuck with them and them with you. Don’t forget that you were a teen once, too. They’re all the same. They love hard, they do dumb stuff, they have regrets, they need their parents. Be a Sisko. Not a prison warden.
@BB-TheCandleFairy8 ай бұрын
As soon as you said “now, they didn’t like her boyfriend that much-“ it was an instant “oh yeah she definitely killed her parents and her boyfriend helped” realization
@lunadoll768610 ай бұрын
4:00 In 2016 my step dad brutally attacked my mom and brother, me and my sister could only sit on the porch while they investigated and took them away. We didn’t have anywhere to go, cops didn’t do anything to get us out of there. December 17th, we could only sit there in the cold comforting each other
@zoeylammers3820 Жыл бұрын
I lived in Idaho for my entire life until about 3 years ago, and it's one of the only places left with such beautiful land and it's such a free place to be and see
@scottcuyler823110 ай бұрын
1:13 going from the deepest state of peace to the real state of peace
@danieltenebrion9413 Жыл бұрын
What I've learned is that the more you say "No! Don't do that!" or "You're wrong!" to anyone, (even your children) the more they come up with reasons that they are right and you are wrong. What the parents could have done is politely tell their daughter things they are noticing that are red flags and things that they feel their daughter should watch out for. And then say they are worried but they trust her to make the right decisions on her own, if they want further help or advice that they will be there. I don't know if that would have changed anything but it's what I've heard is the best way to resolve issues between rebellious children, is to communicate politely and let them handle it on their own. Make it their responsibility and not yours, which makes sense, because ultimately they are the one that has to handle those things themselves.
@Hello369-jb2lc Жыл бұрын
You know it is a good what when this amazing women posts
@coralfang12587 Жыл бұрын
I would love to see boze cover Tiffany schabusiness
@MW-mh7pm11 ай бұрын
i think she did ?
@ww47877 ай бұрын
Another thing that I think adds to this crime is that, blaine county (and honestly that entire region) has an extremely high population of Mormons. Making those small towns majority Mormon, which really can impact the small town community culture
@avgjoeshow4208 Жыл бұрын
If every true crime story has taught me ANYTHING, it’s that I don’t have to worry about every being horrifically gunned down or murdered because I am not a well known or well loved member in my city. NOBODY knows me.
@ashe4922 Жыл бұрын
Painting and watching Boze one of my favorite things^^ ❤❤
@caydenh.4393 Жыл бұрын
YES! Studying or doing art with boze on a screen is the best!
@sleepyspacegremlin4 ай бұрын
I agree with you on the female killers thing--I'm fascinated by it too.
@sheogorathsleftslipper Жыл бұрын
I hate being *that* guy, but I *beg* you, PLEASE give us your thoughts on Brittany Norwood. 331 seperate wounds on the victim's body. Over ten different weapons.
@kokuhakuqiun4215 Жыл бұрын
I think I I’ve heard of this case before. Or a similar murder case involving these “Guilt Dreams”
@a.evelyn54987 ай бұрын
I was wondering why I haven’t seen this video as I watch every single one of your videos on all of your channels. Once it began I realized why: my uncle committed parricide while in a state of manic psychosis, believing he was curing my grandparents of their ailments & that he could resurrect them to full health afterward via a ritual of sorts that is too gruesome to describe. He realized what he’d done & called the police on himself before attempting to take his own life. When the police arrived he was unarmed but a rookie cop freaked out & shot him dead. Police then claimed to the media that he lunged them with a weapon whilst police reports say otherwise (just the brothers in blue having each other’s backs!). Honestly it was better he died… it already made national news, including the New York Times, so the trial would’ve been even more traumatizing. So yes I have trouble listening to these cases.
@laurrbear1858 Жыл бұрын
boze: can we just take a second to talk about bruno me: we don't talk about bruno no no no
@5050TM11 ай бұрын
Had to be done😂
@raegengwozdz971410 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, as a parent myself and also as someone who was also a child not too long ago, you just gotta let ur kid date who they're gonna date. We just hope that we raise them with enough sense to choose well. You can strongly advise them against it, tell them to stay safe and make smart decisions, but I feel like unless u know that the partner is like a heavy drug user or a criminal or something you kinda just gotta let it run its course. But in the case of the exceptions I mentioned, it's definitely better to do as much as you possibly can to limit/prevent contact and let ur kid be pissed at you for a little while than to watch them throw their lives wildly off track and get in serious trouble, obviously.
@Ctaysyoutubechannel Жыл бұрын
I literally just looked at your channel and said "where she at?! It's been too long girrrl"
@puddlewator Жыл бұрын
Boze your hair always looks so pretty!! ❤😭
@joshuadupree2030 Жыл бұрын
Congrats on 1 million Boze!!!!
@mikehunt81706 ай бұрын
"Can we take a second to talk about Bruno?" No.. we don't talk about Bruno