MY BIRTH STORY + POSTPARTUM EXPERIENCE 👶🏻💕

[@courtneyponder5333]

The fact you kept having to say “please don’t shame me” when it came to feeding your baby broke my heart. You’re doing great and don’t let anyone tell you different ♥️

[@tanyakarazan8094]

I JUST LOVVVVVEEEE THIS WOMAN. STEPH YOU ARE AMAZING AND A GODDESS. DONT EVER APOLOGIZE FOR ANYTHING!!!! KZbin FOREVER QUEEN AND NOW MAMA! SENDING LOVE AND ALL GOOD THINGS YOUR FAMILIES WAY 💗💗💗

[@Jessica-Lynn]

Motherhood has you beaming within. 💖 How honest you are with motherhood is refreshing. She’s blessed to have you as a mama

[@lynndels1075]

At 3 months you’ll have more movement but not yet. Have patience with yourself

[@leeshmaio]

Okay I’m not even done watching but I just have to say as a mom of 5 (i know you know this but hear it from me) forget the outside world and what they say. Breastfed, bottle fed… as long as she is fed is what’s best. You don’t owe anyone any explanation. You are her mom and YOU know what’s best for her. You look absolutely beautiful and my heart melted at your expression when you heard her cry. I LOVE this chapter for you!! I am so thrilled for you, you’re doing so amazing and it’s okay if the house is a wreck… it won’t be that way forever. It’s only temporary so try not to stress it. Lots of love and hugs from a long time subscriber not so far away in Rochester❤❤❤ it’s so nice to see your face again! Also take a break from IG if it’s at all triggering your mental and emotional health. It’s not even the real world. xo

[@heyannskii]

Yes, I second all this 💯!

[@luceroesp313]

What a beautiful comment 👌🏼

[@patricia2674]

👏 👏 👏 🩷

[@cjamzbrn1]

💯

[@alexandrawilson8313]

Such a kind comment … the internet needs more of these ❤

[@angelaram415]

Is it me or is she even more beautiful now that she’s a mom! 😢 Congratulations girl! Sending lots of Love!

[@AHuve]

I feel like all women get more beautiful with motherhood ❤

[@AwkwardlyDbeauty]

Absolutely 💯😍

[@ninamalkoun4028]

YES TRUE❤

[@kaileesmith7041]

Yes she is such a gorgeous mama!

[@tomatomodel01]

Agreed 💯

[@danaperry7993]

All I have to say is if anyone on here shames you - I’m coming for them. You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone and you are doing a absolutely FANTASTIC job mama. You do what works best for you and that baby girl and not anyone else. ❤❤❤

[@withmandylynn6122]

I was gona say the same!! If anyone wants to shame anyone for bottle feeding they can come deal with me! Ppl can be so heartless.

[@amandasteiner2969]

As the mother of 3 grown daughters- you listen to me. You are doing fricken great. Even though it’s hard to know now- enjoy every single step of this journey, because I promise you will miss it. I would give anything to hold my little babies again or to just sit and look into their eyes while they drink their bottle( yes, I said BOTTLES 😉) Don’t sweat the small stuff, try and find some time for YOU, and don’t be afraid to ask for help! Best wishes, and sending lots of love to you and your little fam! ❤

[@caitlinfrancis6]

Omgosh I didn't even know you were pregnant congrats ❤

[@racheli2598]

I agree, mine are 15 and 12 now and I feel like they will be out of the house too soon and I wish I enjoyed the younger days more! It’s just so hard when you are sleep deprived and don’t have help to stop and smell the roses and then you realize how much you miss it!!!

[@laurenestrada6402]

Amen 🙏🏼

[@gnabna34]

I’ve been following you since your blue room and seeing the little glimpse of motherhood you’ve shown is so beautiful and I love seeing it.

[@yourstruly.1]

omg thank you SO much for this honest and raw video. you probably don’t know how much you’ve impacted your viewers in such a positive way. this video made me feel so human and less alone. it almost feels like ALL we see online is these “perfect newborn routines” which is not reality for all of us. gosh this is it. this is the video.

[@abbiebarrios8601]

Being a mom literally brings you to your knees like nothing else because in reality, we have very little control. But HE does! Praying for you and your family ❤ The love is so worth the stress!

[@Erin_29]

This🙌

[@MalikaRodriguez-n5e]

Yes❤

[@annahlavoie]

My daughter was super fussy, I always felt like she wanted to be independent. It got better when sat up and then better when she crawled and then walked etc etc. You’re in the thick of it and you’re doing great and giving your baby everything she needs ♥️ be kind to yourself

[@sweetkatie]

Girl, as long as you're feeding your baby, that's all that matters! What works for you and the baby is what matters. I can totally understand not showing her yet due to privacy. I figured that was the reason, anyway. And girl when you were crying so was I. This was a very honest video that is much appreciated ❤

[@JanetElevating]

Best advice I can give you as a mom of two teens…. Everything is about a “season” . Nothing is permanent and things will change when you “think” you kinda have it figured out. Go with the flow and enjoy it ALL ❤❤

[@Jth3973]

YES! no one talks about how hard it is to feed yourself once the baby is here! It will get easier soon, you’ve got this ❤

[@anitathompson326]

I don’t even understand why that is a thing. The food is right there just go eat. Just like going to the bathroom. Go to the bathroom! Go take a shower! The only thing I can understand is the not being able to sleep as much as you want but other than that. Just go do the things you need to do. It’s not that serious.

[@monikamarciniak8166]

It’s really not that complicated to understand. You have no time to grocery shop, cook, do dishes and eat because your baby wants to be held nonstop/cries/what’s attention. Sometimes getting a two minute shower in is a struggle. I remember being in the postpartum phase and not having time to eat all day starving. Either a) you never had a baby b) your baby napped great independently during the day c) you had lots of support and help. Either way that’s not the case for all of us so save the negative comments and f* off

[@anitathompson326]

@@monikamarciniak8166 I’ve had 4 babies but thanks. And telling me to eff off, real classy. My babies fussed and cried. As all babies do. And everyone has spent type of help. You either have the child’s father or someone else in your life to help you. You couldn’t do it 100% alone cause that either means you are going to work everyday and have child care or you are staying at home with the baby. Which means someone else is involved as staying home generates no money. Sooooo….set the baby down for a few minutes to get things done. Even if they fuss they will be ok for a few minutes to shower or do what you need to do. My child fussed when put down so I found innovative ways to soothe her to be by herself out of necessity. And it worked. Just being frustrated all day holding a baby isn’t good for anyone. What is the point? Don’t act like it’s an impossible feat to bathe or eat a sandwich. You aren’t a special snowflake. Mothers get things done and without feeling sorry for ourselves either. Grow up.

[@nt4659]

@@anitathompson326 stopping being so judgmental. It’s hard for many new moms to do a simple task as feeding ourselves. Postpartum depression/anxiety and/or a village to help with a newborn - it can be difficult!!

[@teeeteee000]

​@Anita Thompson She's a first time mother, your insensitive comment can take a back seat. She's not stupid, she's a new mother, be kind.

[@briannapeters4936]

I remember watching you way back in the day and you saying you probably didn’t want kids. I just randomly thought about you today and looked you up and see this! So awesome. I’m happy for you! It’s crazy how kids just change our lives. 💕

[@angelareneef]

You’re not alone!!!!!!!!! Motherhood is the hardest work and sometimes it’s the quick explanation of “but it’s so worth it” that dismisses the truth of how hard it is. Every mama will know it’s so worth it, but will question why it’s THIS hard for them… it’s normal, it’s okay, ask for and accept help though! Thank you for being real and honest and sharing so other mamas can feel less alone too! ❤

[@cassiepwood]

As a new mom, I completely understand all the pressures and stress you’ve been carrying as a new mom. You are doing an amazing job, and must I say you look beautiful! It does get easier, although right now it might not seem that way. (my baby just turned 1). One day we will miss these days, and that’s what helps me get through the harder days! ❤

[@marianino2773]

Aw Steph it so precious to see you in this stage of life! I’m sorry for all the scary parts, but thank God you and baby are doing well. She is in my prayers, I know everything will get easier for you and she will be alright. Congratulations and thank you for sharing your story!

[@cassandraripz73]

Someone once told me "the fact that you worry that your a bad mom means you really aren't one because you care", it's so normal to feel this way in this huge life shift into motherhood, we actually mourn the loss of our old selves while starting this new journey as a mom and it takes time! A lot of it ! Remember, you are doing enough! and this phase isn't forever. Also my advice is to wait until you are 100% sure your done with kids before doing the breast surgery bc they change even more after the second one😩😩

[@kristenfaber9121]

Do your thing mama! I looked homeless for like 8 months and still do sometimes (almost 2 years later). As long as she is fed and thriving in a home where she is loved, then you are not failing! Take care of yourself and your little nugget, the season will end but you are more than allowed to not be happy and thriving all of the time - moming is hard work ❤

[@shaymurph]

Comparison is the thief of joy. You’re not missing much out here trust me, enjoy your own little world while you can. 💗 congrats on your little sweet girl and thank you for putting this video up, I can only imagine the behind the scenes chaos it took to get this done.

[@cindyrodriguez982]

I don't know why I was crying through out this video 😭🥺 You can feel the love for your baby coming out through the screen. You are doing amazing as a new Mommy. Congrats on your baby! 💚💚

[@madelaineraye]

LOVE that you are keeping your baby’s face private!! In my opinion, babies and kids do not belong on the internet.

[@charlottelast2278]

It’s so good to hear from you! We sure have missed you. Motherhood is really such a beautiful blessing. It’s all so amazing from the moments of cuddles, to hearing about their days, losing their first tooth, and oh my goodness Christmas morning is so magical. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I’m so grateful you and the baby are doing good!

[@bethanybriney3466]

Oh my gosh…I never comment, but I felt like everything you said was EXACTLY how I felt 15 years ago. My daughter was fussy, I had to supplement a little with formula, my house was a mess, it was hard to get anything done, and I felt like a failure. I cried in the driveway when my mom went home…afraid I would mess everything up. I look back now….my daughter is 15…and wish I could hug myself and you, and just tell you how awesome you are! You and Tommy have been entrusted with Noel because YOU know exactly what she needs…no one else. You are her mother, and you will always make decisions that are the best for her. You are so beautiful…inside and out. I love your transparency. The world needs more of that. Congratulations!! Motherhood is the best journey! Over the years, my motto has become….”Wake up, do your best…and let God do the rest!” Enjoy the ride! She is precious! You are doing a fantastic job. Follow your “maternal instincts.” I truly believe that’s why we are given them. We EACH have our own path.❤❤❤

[@KimisBeautifulLife]

I just wanna give you a big hug. It breaks my heart some of the things you’ve said, like don’t shame me. I hope no one does. You are doing great, and the exact mama that little Noelle needs. Who you are, and your parenting style is exactly what she needs. God entrusted her to you for a reason. Don’t question your momtuition. 🤍 so glad to hear that you both are doing well, as well as you can in this tricky chapter. Hang in there 🙏🏼

[@Evamm07]

From one mom to another…as long as you feed your baby doesn’t matter bottle or breast!! Whatever works! You look amazing hang in there you’ve got this!! 💖💖

[@brookemiller3553]

I love all of this! I unapologetically used a little formula with both of my kids as well! They slept better, I slept better and it worked for us. My favorite saying to prevent putting mommy guilt on myself is “I can’t pour anything out of an empty cup.” So if it helps me keep “my cup” filled for me to continue to be present and sane with my children, I’m doing it! ❤

[@hayleybeck83]

Currently 37weeks 2 days, first time mom, love this video- thank you for your vulnerability and sharing so openly. I'm so glad everything ended up okay with your baby girl- I can't imagine going through that first month with so many worries, but your love for her is so clear. You are very strong

[@charlabecerra7805]

I've been a subscriber for so long and it makes me so happy to see you go through all these milestones and now motherhood. And girl, take your time and keep your beautiful little baby to yourself. People are crazy and think they deserve to have access to every part of your life. Don't let them get to you, because us OG's completely understand.

[@saramoorehead2529]

Everything you are mentioning with her being fussy and not sleeping as well is normal. I had the same exact experience and it was very hard. You feel like you are the only one going through these struggles and your baby is the only one fussy and doesn’t sleep. It’s simply not true. So many people go through these same exact things. I learned this as my son got older and saw so many new moms going through the same thing but in that moment, you feel so alone and like you must be the only doing it wrong. You’re not mama. You are doing great. Give yourself all the grace. You will get through and things will get better. Eventually she will start sleeping better and will be happier. My son slept on my chest for 3 months straight. I get it. Keep doing your best to get through each day and it will always be enough. ❤ Hugs!

[@AlliGlow1]

This is seriously like watching a friend become a mom 🥹 thank you for being so honest about motherhood- you're not alone! Congratulations 🤍 praying hard for you, Tommy, and especially your little beauty!

[@sydneekcaldwell]

Thank you for being so real and vulnerable! It makes it so much more relatable!

[@MsRich-qg6du]

Congratulations on your baby girl! 🩷 Welcome to motherhood.

[@suzannecooper1045]

Thank you for being so open and honest! I related to so much of what you said as my daughter is also a strong willed, highly spirited, not chill little one. 😊 They are so special and such fun…and it’s hard! I did contact naps for months, tried everything, never had time to do stuff around the house, and I also felt like I was failing when I saw other moms who seemed to handle everything so easily. You aren’t alone! I try to remind myself that it’s okay to do what works for us and to trust myself and to trust her. You are an amazing mom and are doing an awesome job!

[@rsgem1]

It gets easier with time! The first 3 months are the hardest! Don’t compare your journey to others, they may look like they have it together but behind the scenes they have struggles too. Also a lot of people have a lot of help that you don’t see. You’re doing amazing, welcome to motherhood!

[@arlakennedy6517]

Stephanie, please keep in mind when you see all these moms that "appear to have it all together on social media"...its a blip snapshot of their day...a teensy tiny hot minute that they captured the perfect angle, moment..etc. They are not going through their day all day like that (unless they have full time nannies) lol. Girl you ROCK! You are GORGEOUS and I've been a Labor and Delivery/Postpartum RN x 40 years and what you are experiencing with Noel is PERFECTLY NORMAL and expected in REAL LIFE (not social media snippets). You've got this and I will be praying Noel continues to grow healthy and will turn a corner onto Happy Avenue very soon!!! Enjoy all these moments (no matter how stressful) because they will be fleeting and honestly, you will look back and miss them. Love your channel, love you and LOVE your perfume! On my 3rd bottle!!

[@Noturbasikbeautyxo]

Becoming a mom and just the ENTIRE journey is so hard and emotional. Just know you’re doing an amazing job and you should be so proud. It gets better in different ways but I’ve learned that it’s never easy. My daughter is 20 months old & I feel like I’ve just started to feel more like myself and she’s on a better sleeping schedule. Thank you for sharing! Sending love to you and your little one ❤ Ps. Newborns can suffer from reflux and you won’t even know it. Chiropractic really helps! ( my husband is a chiropractor and that’s how I know cause he gets moms with their babies in for it often.)

[@sfischer5415]

My baby is the absolute same! She is so “not chill” lol she’s just now turning into someone my husband I want to hang out with. She just hit 4 months. She was also very high maintenance and had to be in a very particular position to be content. My husband I took turns doing the 5 “s” - swaddle, turn her to the side, suck (pacifier), sway, “shhh” sound. I haven’t left the house in forever just because she won’t let me put her in the far seat without freaking out! It gets better!! And she is also formula fed bc she was tiny when she was born. It’s 2023 and we aren’t letting anyone shame our decisions as mothers and what’s best for our baby. You got this girl!!!

[@helenfahey6652]

Usually a silent watcher but I just had my first baby girl on May 27 and I’ve been with you since the Marilyn Monroe piercing days!! Exciting to be going through the same thing, and what you said about becoming a mom and seeing yourself becoming more selfless is so true!!! Congratulations mama 🥰

[@jessicalim2764]

I love how you are honest and that it’s not all perfect like a lot of people try to show on social media

[@aliciabergeson8628]

Please try not to compare yourself to others! You’re doing wonderful and providing a beautiful life for her. Everything works out at different times for different families.

[@allisonlavalley4986]

What a relatable and beautifully raw video. You’re absolutely not alone. Motherhood looks beautiful on you 🤍

[@jls1463]

As a mom of 2 very velcro, not chill babies who NEVER slept like all the other babies lol, it does get better eventually! You’re doing great!

[@hennieswayne6232]

I’m sorry to hear it’s not been so easy for you ! It gets so much easier. My baby had hip dysphasia and was in a harness at 6 weeks for 3 months, I remember just feeling as if my whole world had crumbled. You just want your little baby to be happy and healthy! Your doing an amazing job, I’m sure she’s putting you through it now and she will grow up to be as chilled as a cucumber! You got this! The most real video on KZbin yasss 👏🏼 ❤xx

[@amandalynn1991]

My baby has hip dysplasia as well, but they didn’t find it until she was a year old

[@carrieearley]

Your honesty and transparency is very refreshing!!

[@253nikkilee]

I’m so sorry your first month was so challenging! I am a new mother and can completely relate. I was tearing up along with you. I struggled with infertility for 3 years and now have 2 under 2 (the second being a surprise.. who would have thought?😂) I am overwhelmed every single day.. its so hard to find time for myself. It’s a good day if I get to shower! You’re not alone & you’re doing great!!! 💕👶🏼

[@shannilovely]

Your honesty is so refreshing, and you are doing a brilliant job! I have been a follower for the last 14 years 😅 and I spent the last 11 years being pregnant/a young mom. My first was hiiiigh maintenance, and still is an independent little pre-teen 😅 my second was much more chilled and my third just rolls with everything.. so all in all, it gets easier 💛 I’ve always loved your videos and personality, please stay just as you are, don’t let the world change you ♥️♥️

[@brookemilligan352]

Beautiful mama! I've felt compelled to share, my son hardly ever slept it was so so hard! He didn't like the swing or anything etc, the only thing that worked was literally pushing him around the house in the stroller with white noise hooked to carseat. My sister in law recommended it to me & she has 6 kids. I felt so lost because nothing was working, I'm so grateful for it, It literally saved my life! Thinking of you, been waiting for your post! Love you girly!

[@racheli2598]

Hey Steph! Congratulations!!! I’m so relieved for you she’s healthy! I have a boy ( now 15) and a girl ( now 12) and my daughter was born with a rare congenital heart defect. We found out 26 weeks into the pregnancy. Thankfully she’s super healthy now , she had two open heart surgeries which repaired her but boy what a ride it was. Motherhood and postpartum life is hard enough! My son, was my colicky baby. Wouldn’t let me put him down, only wanted to be held or would scream. He improved at 4 months old though. But yeah life was a shit show I couldn’t even brush my teeth or get anything together. These kids teach you so much about yourself and it’s such a roller coaster ride. Try and stay as present as possible it’s more true than we could even believe that it goes too fast. But it certainly doesn’t feel like it when you are sleep deprived, I know! The best piece of advice I could give you might not be the usual stuff you are hearing but I wish you would listen to this information and I wish someone had shared anything about it with me. I didn’t research anything to do with pediatric injections and it’s my biggest regret that I’ve made with my children. I knew zero, researched zero, and trusted the system. I think no matter what we decide we owe it to our children and their one body to at least research this issue. Many blessings for her continued health and much love for your family! thehighwire.com/ark-videos/aaron-siri-gives-testimony-on-the-floor-of-arizona-state-senate/

[@linar22]

I just love you! Thank you for opening up and being vulnerable about your pregnancy and postpartum experience. It’s not easy to share personal things to the world. Noelle is so lucky to have you as a mom. You’re doing great and can’t wait to see you flourish as a mother 💗💗💗

[@Jasmination21]

Congrats!!!!! Anxiety and depression are normal when we become 1st time moms. My son was 1 month premature and was in the hospital for 1 month. Going home without a baby was the most traumatizing experience ever, I was only 21 and i spent everyday in the hospital. I would go to the hospital from 8am to 9pm the entire time he was in there, mind you I had a c section. But I sat in that hospital chair everyday, when he was sent home he was sent home with a apnea machine because he was premature. He had an episode at home where he stopped breathing and the machine went off, long story short I was a hot emotional mess. To make matters worse I wasn’t producing any milk, and was unable to breastfeed so felt awful about that. He is now 13 and I still worry, still cry, he’s currently at a party and my anxiety is thru the roof. But the great amazing moments and the memories built are worth it. I love him so much, he’s literally my best friend 💙

[@marielyedlock2326]

Welcome to Mommyhood it’s so stressful but it’s the best hood you could be in. We are lucky to be moms! You been through a lot the first month. Everything will now be ok mama. Prayers

[@jenifergorman1223]

I’m so sorry it’s been so stressful but thank God she is healthy!! You look beautiful! You do you as you figure out motherhood, don’t let anyone say anything about anything!!! Lol. Take care of you and baby, and subscribers will be here whenever you post. Much love and empathy to you. You got this!!

[@mariestopa]

I don’t normally comment never apologize for anything you do . Please you are an excellent mom !!! The way you looked when she cried showed your love . And everyone has a different experience with birth with their baby . Remember people only post the best things . My daughter had cancer while pregnant she had a horrible delivery my grandson was a preemie we thought he couldn’t see too he had to go to cardiology but now he is 18 months healthy and my daughter is fine . Take it day by day and enjoy your precious baby girl

[@dhurley8522]

It’s ok Steph, I agree with Tommy, you keep her beautiful little face private for now. She has so much beautiful hair ❤ Take your time and enjoy her. Becoming a parent just cracks your heart open with love 💗 It’s weird, it’s the best thing that can happened to you, and it’s also the hardest thing. You will not remember your life before her, it’s like you really started living when she was born. I’m so happy for you and Tommy. Looking forward to watching this beautiful journey with Noelle 💗💗💗

[@JennaDKwak]

I had a baby girl in May 2022. She is a high maintenance girly too, so I feel you! The one thing I have learned in my first year of motherhood is that whether they are in a good stage or a bad stage, no stage lasts very long. They are always changing and growing and you resolve certain problems and new and different ones will arise. I am sooooo glad your baby girl is healthy and I'm sorry you had to go through those scary experiences. Welcome to the world Noelle, I hope you have a great life! She is gorgeous!!!!!

[@kirstenv4892]

Steph I have watched you from the very beginning when you did Express hauls in college and it’s so fun to see you have grown up into a mom like myself. Much love to you and your sweet little fam 💓

[@Lisa.Alexandra]

Motherhood looks so beautiful on you Steph and i absolutely adore you for being so honest and transparent about everything. I can't believe that there are people still shaming your decisions, as a mother you know what's best for your baby but like you said, it's the internet and the crazies are out there! Protect your privacy, your energy, and your cocoon. 💕 Sending you so much love beautiful!

[@suzannetaylor6285]

Your struggles are shared by more more moms than not. They grow so fast, enjoy the snuggles. Congratulations 🍼👩‍🍼❤

[@nancyclymer98]

Girl! Don’t ever be ashamed of doing what you feel is right in your heart for your baby. Welcome to motherhood, don’t worry about anything but you and the baby. We love you!

[@kimberlywood8545]

Congratulations! First off You look amazing. I loved how honest you were about how hard having a newborn is. After having my daughter I was open and honest with my friends about my experience because I wish people would have told me what it was really like. Everyone always makes it seem so easy and great. When you are the one struggling it makes you feel like you are a failure. I also supplemented with formula. It does get easier! Hang in there. You are doing great!

[@dannilove3447]

Love you Steph! I have been watching you for years! Thank you for sharing your life still with us after all these years. There are so many people that love you.

[@idacano1640]

Congratulations on your baby girl! Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable. It’s refreshing. You’re doing a great job!

[@CelinaNealxo]

You’re doing amazing, Mama! 🫶🏼🩷 She’s a blessed little girl to have you! Be sure to give yourself grace, & know we’re all just out here winging motherhood together 🫶🏼

[@carissanicole]

I'm so happy for you Stephanie!! I thank God she is okay. I also appreciate how honest you are about the whole thing because there ARE babies born everyday that have issues.. unfortunately a family friend & his wife lost their baby. It was a still born 💔🤧😭 they just had the funeral yesterday & I cannot even IMAGINE how they feel! My heart is broke. But anyway I just wanted to thank you for being REAL about what can REALLY happen. I find you so BRAVE to discuss this painful personal subject. I'll keep you, Tommy & baby girl in my prayers!!! Love you girl! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@brianna2991]

I was induced at 40 weeks and 4 days. I had a great experience. I share with anyone who asks my positive experience. People are so willing to share the negative! Also I walked in with contractions I was in no pain!! Congrats, you make a beautiful mama!!

[@LindyandDevin]

Please don’t compare yourself to others. You’re not going to ever feel like you are good enough or have your stuff together. That’s what mom life is. It’s the hardest job you will ever have it doesn’t end 24/7 and just when you get the hang of it life throws you a surprise. See your doctor about being stressed before it gets to overwhelming and you got this. ❤

[@emmaionita8397]

I don’t know why seeing you as a mom made me tear up lol I’m sorry if that’s weird but I’ve been watching you for so many years now, seeing you become a mom is just beautiful. I wish I could offer you some advice to help you but all I can do is tell you that it gets easier. Treasure these moments because they grow up so darn fast. You’ll find yourself missing this stage.. as hard as it is. Sending you and baby girl all the love 🤍

[@beccaleigh524]

Everything about this was so beautiful and relatable ❤️. Thank you for sharing a little of your journey with us and being so vulnerable. You’re doing amazing! Trust your mama instincts (and also Tommy’s daddy instincts) and don’t let anyone make you feel guilty about the decisions you make. You were made to be her parents for a reason! 🥰 excited to have you back more when you’re ready!

[@AprilAthena7]

OMGGGG amaaazing congratulations mama! You are stunning as EVER!

[@AK-jd7td]

A happy and well mom is the most important for a baby ❤ A fed baby is a happy baby no matter if they are breast or formula fed.

[@Esh486]

Congrats girl! you are doing amazing. Motherhood is not easy and you're allowed to feel whatever you want to feel. Don't apologize for your feelings or your choices, you're doing what's best for you and your family. And as for the people who are sending you hateful dms over not showing your baby - please ignore them. They're sickos.

[@sammysweetheart87]

I’m so happy you had a positive birth experience and so sorry you dealt with some scary stuff! ❤ You’re doing wonderful!

[@NicoleMarie251]

May baby is just about 6 weeks old and same girl! It’s a struggle some mornings to find a free 2 mins to brush my teeth. Trying to figure out these women who have these perfectly agreeable babies that left their mommy’s do whatever they want.

[@shaeden77]

My oldest daughter did the same thing. She cried for 3 months straight and I couldn’t go anywhere, but after those 3 months she became a different baby and things got so much better. Hang in there ❤

[@Erin_29]

Ugh this comment is SUPER encouraging to me!! I have a 10 week old baby girl and she's SO NEEDY!!! SO FUSSY!!!😅

[@shaeden77]

@@Erin_29 I promise it gets better! ❤️❤️

[@mizz_tammy2432]

Same with me… one day my oldest just stopped being fussy. I remember I searched everywhere for help and nothing worked. And suddenly one day she became an angel til this day she so well behaved. There is hope.

[@jessicafoley7295]

Girl, pls don’t apologize for tearing up/crying. My baby is 8 weeks old tom and I am still emotional and my girl (thank god) is perfectly healthy and no health scares or colic. You are doing great mama!!

[@aleksasanchez9882]

Our baby girls are only 2 weeks apart 🥹 I relate to you on SO much of this!! Thank you for being vulnerable 🙌🏼 you’re doing amazing!! 🤍🤍🤍

[@stephaniewelch5028]

When you started to cry ! I started to cry because I know the stress of becoming a new mom, being pregnant, and anything that has to do with your baby. ! I had my 2nd daughter a week after you ❤️❤️ you are so strong !

[@kaylamartin8417]

I’m due Aug 1st and it’s so nice hearing other women’s stories. Thank you for sharing! 🩷🩷

[@Lanak4ever]

I loved listening to you describe her and how you just beamed with happiness! Do not compare yourself or your child to anyone else. Everyone is different, every baby is different and you are doing great. Don't let anyone tell you different. You do what works for you and the people who matter (you Tommy and Noelle) will be happy and healthy. Love ya Steph!

[@naylaleifson9022]

She's perfect and exactly who she is meant to be.. congrats sweet girl

[@NoName-rw8ow]

My last baby just graduated high school. My advice…you do what works for you and your family. It’s such a short stage of life, so enjoy every minute. If I could go back in time, I would have held my babies more…and I held them a lot!!

[@jduff18]

I gave birth to my first son in March 3, so I feel like we’ve been going through pregnancy together. Hearing you describe your baby being needy and a little difficult made me think “ wait is she describing my baby? “?! I’ve had almost all the same postpartum struggles you’ve had, so hearing you describe them in this video makes me feel like I’m not so alone. I know it will get better, and we’ve got this!❤

[@katieB623]

I had a very similar baby with my first - he was just high needs!! And then around 6 months something clicked and he turned into the happiest kid! You’re doing a great job. This is the hardest thing you’ll ever do and when you’re through it you’re gonna feel so proud. Sending love!

[@emmah209]

I had my baby boy in January and let me tell you, how you described Noelle is exactly how my baby was!! I couldn't do ANYTHING. There were days I didn't eat or use the bathroom bc I had to hold him all day or he'd scream. Our babies just need us more. I read somewhere that they're not giving us a hard time, they're having a hard time 💗 it's hard being so cozy in the womb to then being in the real world with so much stimulation. They just need mama!

[@lj4747]

This is your best video, so real. Motherhood makes you look even more beautiful! Congrats to you and your husband. Enjoy the blessings.

[@brittanychanelle]

I had a very similar experience as you with my baby. The first 5 weeks were so so hard. The first 3 months of breastfeeding was so painful. As she got bigger and got older, she became happier and better at breastfeeding. But wow, postpartum & newborn phase was the hardest time of my life.

[@LindaMC96]

Motherhood does change you. Your child does become everything in your world. I did the same when my son was that little breast milk and bottle fed too. Im so glad I did. That way if I’m not around others can feed him too. Everyone has to do whats best for them and their baby. I look at at that time which seems so long ago. I cherish and still do every moment I have with him. Now hes grown up and has his life but he will always be my everything.

[@tanyadonovan1979]

Your newborn baby sounds exactly like how my son was . Sounds like you are going through the same types of things that I went through . I also was scared to drive and bring him places as I just knew that it would be so hard cause of his crying etc. Just know Steph that things will definitely get better for you both . 😊 You’re doing a great job 👏🏼 Lots of love 💕 to you !!!

[@jackievalencia4798]

Awww!! You’re doing great mamma!! Don’t apologize for your choices as a mom as long as baby is eating and healthy you’re doing good!!! I was 19 when I had my son, he’s now 19 but you brought back all the memories of my labor and struggles of a new mom 🩷

[@grace444xo]

You’re such a great mom!😭 I’m so excited for this journey for you🫶🏼🩷🐣

[@genesiswalker8859]

You are an AMAZING mama! Watching this video was like watching myself especially in the beginning. The way you would worry when she’d cry was me all the time. I cannot function until I know my daughter is ok. Thank you for being so open and honest.

[@genesiswalker8859]

Literally my baby was like that too!! My dogs drove me crazy and I used to envy moms that would post themselves doing this make up or their baby would just fall asleep if they just set them down. My daughter..absolutely not lol and I felt guilty that I would compare her to other babies but it was more so that I felt I was failing her in some way. But I promise it’ll get better!!

[@jenniferburton1395]

OMG!!! You’ve been on my mind the last few weeks! Hoping you and family are doing great, congratulations ❤ and that is YOUR child, you make all the decisions, whatever they may be to raise that baby girl! NO SHAMING HERE❤❤❤

[@lisagarcia4857]

Sending you so much love. 9 months postpartum. Also, had a baby with some health scares and having to go to different appts. It was really hard on me. The googling, the fear, the crying. So hard. You are not alone.

[@lisagarcia4857]

P.s. you are describing my baby to a T! It will get soooo much better with time. Thank you for being so honest. This made me emotional because I was struggling thinking there was something wrong with my baby because he needed to be held all the time.

[@a_v_16]

You are doing so amazing mama! I am first time mom too and my baby was born in January 😊 thank you for being so real and raw with sharing your story and also PP journey. My baby was sleeping and napping fine through her newborn phase and I still didn’t wear makeup or wear cute outfits because I prioritized my sleep. Thank you for being real about that…like who has time? When are you sleeping hahaha! Do what’s right for you and your baby. You got this beautiful!💜💜💜

[@breaalbritton1848]

One of the most, if not the MOST RELATABLE VIDEOS EVER!! Also, if anyone relates to having a baby that is “high maintenance” I beg you to read the article “12 characteristics of a high needs baby”. Changed my entire view of my daughter and the way she functions. Made me feel like I wasn’t crazy either. She’s just a different baby & once I changed my expectations, things got sooooo much better.

[@jennamarie5922]

People sending you hate messages for not showing her face is so creepy and exactly why you shouldn’t show her face. My god. I can’t even grasp how weird that is.

[@NicoleGiamatti]

Not me over here crying with you. Awww big hug. Very happy all is okay. You are 100% correct these appointments on top of being a new Mom would just be overwhelming. Big hug.

[@jacklynoconnor4601]

She's adorable!! You look amazing as always & couldn't tell you gained any baby weight! Congratulations on being a new Mom!! ❤😁

[@laylaj.2406]

❤❤ I’ve been watching you for sooo many yrs and to see you as a married woman with a WHOLE BABY is beautiful. Keep that sweet baby’s face a secret for as long as you want!! I’m sick of the mommy shaming. They can allll go to heck. We do what’s fitting for us. Enjoy that baby because that 1st yr goes but super fast. 🥹🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻