Sneaky psychological tricks to make people instantly like you 😉 - Part 6

[@sbella6719]

Sincerity and genuineness gets me every time. If someone says my name too many times, it makes me think they're trying to manipulate me.

[@lynncasey4372]

Yeah, I don't know why people always say calling a person by their name repeatedly is good advice.It's awkward at best...creepy at worst.

[@MatejUmnik]

If someone is constantly calling you by your name, even when you two are texting, they are being patronizing towards you.

[@magdamihgo]

Hey! I often call my friends name

[@alishak4061]

As a flight attendant who wears their name on their wings I agree with you wholeheartedly!

[@hoodrat.jayseee]

"Hey can you grab me a paper?" " *No.* "

[@Lillyd6731]

If u add a please and real quick (so can you please pass me that piece of paper real quick) ppl will feel more compelled to actually do what you’re asking

[@scarletoverkilllol8462]

@@Lillyd6731” *No.* “

[@Bellas_Vibe]

@@scarletoverkilllol8462that’s wild 💀

[@User_32456-x]

​@@scarletoverkilllol8462nah💀

[@gracidrizzy3151]

Teacher: calls my name* Me: 💀

[@gaganpreetsingh4055]

With all due respect, nothing works better than being genuine, positive, respectful, and loving others from our hearts.

[@hotcheetosqueen5841]

I've been that my entire life yet I've still been ignored, looked at weird, and abandoned

[@Holly_Rose.]

That didn’t work so that’s why I’m here 😅

[@frenchgirl5878]

Popular people are not the nicest people so I don’t believe that. It’s not that simple, it’s a mix of being genuine nice and mastering social skills.

[@johnedwardcandia7307]

Didnt work for me i allways done it and they used me they never gave me respect

[@EmilySperling-j9n]

I,m subbing this is literally the truest thing I ever heard in my life

[@RunieTunie0]

"Lorreta,can i go out with my friends?" Mom: "The fuck did you say to me?"

[@tfmynwa]

😂😂

[@kuyajuswa]

🤣🤣

[@magicalsyt1060]

LOLL

[@user-tl6lo9fl7w]

lMAO

[@villanelle2.0]

But then why would you want to trick your mom into liking you 😶

[@wanzacharywanisa5762]

“Hey nice to meet you what’s ur name” *waits a couple of seconds to make it seem like I’m thinking through *

[@ChristmasGal_frfr]

𝕃𝕠𝕝

[@rebelourhell]

Lmao

[@liarrr810]

😂❤ relatablee

[@ThatGirlBria21]

When people do that to me it makes me feel like I’m not being heard

[@Hobbydude785]

🤣🤣🤣

[@S1ACXR]

"HELP IM CHOKING" *Waits a couple of seconds* "Do you like me now?"

[@shona4817]

lol hahaha

[@barkross5120]

Also SAY THANK YOU after they do that small favor trust me it works so well

[@AshBaby123-ufx]

Me: waits a few seconds until reply Girl: are you ignoring me?

[@LostAlien88]

😂

[@marcintarnawski980]

Women

[@logical582]

​@@marcintarnawski980 women ☕

[@squidge4728]

@@marcintarnawski980 men ☕️

[@Bombasticsideeye009]

​@@logical582 men ☕

[@eeeeeeeeeeeeeeels]

After the small favor, you can also add “thanks, you’re the best!” or “omg ily so much” for a bit more important of a small favor (like if the food is too spicy or you need something across the room when it would be very inconvenient for you to have pause what you’re doing/get up)

[@fallingfriguy3259]

"we love hearing our names" Me when someone calls my name:😵‍💫

[@keerthikaapyouwanasanmoe8927]

I was about to say the same thing 😂

[@yennis_world]

True lol

[@lrrich8023]

The name thing is HUGE, it is very true. Someone's name is the first gift they get in life and they like hearing it. Read the book how to win friends and influence people it teaches this point very well.

[@LunaLovegood745]

FINALLY SOMEONE WHO ACTUALLY POSTS GOOD TIPS

[@IcecreamgerlAdriana]

The detective: WHERE WERE YOU ON JANUARY FITH AT 8:55??? Me: *waits a few seconds*

[@dwcushman1]

Love all the funny people weighing in on this. Hilarious!! But I did think about that for a few sec first. Seriously, you have hit the nail on the head again. Because I am a clinical outpatient therapist I am well aware of the vast majority of what you talk about. But I am much older than you, and when I was your age, I would not have been able to articulate those concepts nearly as well as you do!! I really enjoy listening to you. 😊

[@Summerflower94]

My great grandpa always wait at least one to two minutes before he would respond and I thought he couldn’t hear me because he had bad hearing that he would give the most philosophical answer ever and I still always cherish all the memories I have of him giving me really good responses to things that I was going through in life he was so wise I miss him so much

[@flowery_crafts]

I am so sorry. But wow!

[@le3582]

That guy in the bus: “Ocarina, you forgot your water bottle.” Me: *Yo that’s kinda hot* Edit: guys after I switched schools my friend messaged him on snap and he said the n word so 💀

[@dtitopia]

LOL ME JFXFXFHFLFZUDZHRS

[@user-gx9dg5xb3z]

Nice pfp

[@le3582]

@@user-gx9dg5xb3z You too buddy

[@le3582]

@@Karinaaaa15 nah my name is my last name

[@starlightbright]

Lmao but same

[@Dino_Nuggiessssss]

Thing is I don’t want to *make* my crush like me.. I want him to like me for me.. not making him think he likes me…

[@redditshorts258]

"hi" *Waits 20 seconda

[@lindamejo]

😂😂

[@what7347]

she said wait a couple of seconds

[@lily2119]

Me waiting 3 sec to respond My friends : bish u so slow !

[@lindamejo]

IKR 😂😂

[@michaelsalazar1665]

You need better quality of friends.

[@glitchant]

Don’t wait too long. I met this girl who legit took 5 seconds to respond and it made me think she was judging me or something, it was really annoying. That trick doesn’t work.

[@villanelle2.0]

Don't your friends like you already? Why would want to trick them into liking you?

[@villanelle2.0]

​​@@glitchant yeah... It mostly works on interview questions.

[@muhammadalihanif9153]

Make so much sense. Thanks for sharing

[@OmeraKhalid]

Ty so much that really helps

[@Elle_Elephant]

Thanks totally gonna try them

[@desislavatrifonova6440]

This is my new favourite channel, popped just on time. Thank you 😊

[@essidrovital6397]

If youre shy like me, it might be hard to say their name after saying "hey" or "hi". Especially if youre not friends. Make it a small win to say "Hey, name" every time you greet someone. Always reciprocate when they ask "how are you". its better than saying "Im good" and thats all . What i learned from this video: always say "hey name" if you need to get someones attention. For example, "Hey name. could you pass the rice". I taught myself to say "thank you" with a smile instead of "thanks".

[@ItsYummyCupcakesOfficial]

Teacher: Luna, answer my question please! Me(Luna): NOOOO(I absolutely hate getting called on)

[@waykee3]

1: People don’t want to even do something for me because they know subconsciously they have to like me to do it. 3: Does not necessarily work. It’s just make others feel listened but that doesn’t mean they will like you because of it. They might even feel that you are rude and not interested in them for replying late.

[@DSmith-ix1xf]

Great short! Thanks for these good manner reminders.

[@Nahcuzimmewing]

Teacher : Olivia! You got 3/100 in maths! Me : Thinks couple of seconds* suddenly remembers she used my name* INSTANTLY FALLS IN LOVE ✨

[@stevehaas9515]

Frances. I really love your videos.

[@content_splash_flow]

ok. he asks, "am I annoying?" so I wait a couple seconds before answering

[@cloudcampos4555]

The name thing is absolutely spot on. My best friend and I were talking about it and we thought we were psychos because we could almost developp à crush for à guy who would say our name at random moments . Guess we're not insane haha

[@SaniyaSachinm]

Thanks for this video it will help me.

[@VITHUSHANUTHAYAKUMAR]

MAM CASUALLY DROPPING SUPER AMAZING TRICKS....I REALLY APPRECIATE IT MAM❤

[@Jk_boii]

Me:"Calling my crush with his name and surname" Him:What did I do this time?

[@Ashley-oq7jh]

1. I'm lazy 2. It's annoying when people call out my name (well, kind of) 3. I'm not patient

[@longtikus2433]

I have never studied psychology but I do all the things taught about psychology using my own logically to other people

[@MrMoneyBagz_International]

When she check out my degree's

[@aniketb3513]

Stop speaking with that accent I'm falling in love ❤️🥵

[@ohf17493]

Samee

[@Just_me_adam40]

Totally

[@Rl-artz]

“Hey can you pass the glue (insert her name) tysmm bestie :)”

[@-KaedeCornerStore_]

I strongly dislike it and get uncomfortable if someone calls me by my name 😐

[@dopestuff1714]

ok sugarbun

[@yennis_world]

same and that's why I prefer a nickname, it may be because I used to get made fun of because of my name in childhood though 😅

[@Ms.Emerald]

I think the “Benjamin franklin effect” works mostly on guys while “being helped out” on girls. It’s a way for you to make a guy’s day and make him feel like a hero. They like it😊

[@CamilaPelier-ti7mr]

Them: “Hey, what’s the time?” Me: “……………..” It’s currently……………10:27 Them: already on their way to their next class

[@chardeberry3045]

I had a friend who I had a crush on say, “Chardé, what are you doing tomorrow?” I was instantly like 🥰🥰🥰, he said my name? It’s funny because I hadn’t realized how infrequently he said it.

[@IamSunil017]

That made my ears tuned to you girl, good tips..francesca..😘

[@fintechip96]

It’s so easy, as a woman to become a dominant actor in society. This is because there is no great burden of achievement placed on women. So they can learn a few psychological tricks, and they are already at the finish line. A man has to accomplish SO MUCH just to be given a modicum of respect. This is UNREAL!

[@Cristina-nj2gy]

I absolutely and instinctively hate when people use my name without any need to do so (if they already have my attention, if we're in a 1:1 chat/call). It feels extremely manipulative to me and fake.

[@cachorrovinagre2979]

From my empirical experience all of this won't work if a person don't look good like you.

[@lindasmith9125]

Onlyjayus posted that before this and these are the exact same facts

[@ThatGirl_LeiLei]

TRUE

[@aurora_moonlight7]

True

[@le3582]

But don’t they both like Get the facts from websites Idk this was like an online war before

[@le3582]

@daizylazy oop I hate internet wars 😭 Except when I’m important in them lmao Kinda

[@pandaplayzzrblx1707]

Yup

[@renatopangan4082]

I am Taurus. Full name : RENATO CRUZ PANGAN DATE OF BIRTH: may 16, 1971

[@-Psycho.cat-]

Help, when my old friend texted me (he’s not my friend anymore he ghosted me and I totally didn’t spend nights crying about it.) whenever he responded late or didn’t reply fast, I thought “oh he’s not interested in this convo” “I’m so boring” “how was he supposed to answer that” or “he definitely doesn’t like me” (as a friend) I really miss him. He was the only person I could talk to and the only person I did talk to.

[@ironmaiden3204]

U don’t have to do anything to like u. U r beautiful

[@thetorontogirl]

My ex-coworker tried these on me. I saw right through her. Turns out, she was a snake🐍She complained about everything and everyone behind our backs and she ended up getting fired. When being nice comes from a genuine place and not acting manipulative like using these tips, people can tell.

[@piretkivi3218]

Number 2 only works in the countries where names are used in a conversation. In other countries the effect is opposite. It tends to irritate me somewhat if I hear my name too much.

[@villanelle2.0]

So what do they address you as when they need to call you? "Hey you in white shirt in that corner"?

[@piretkivi3218]

@@villanelle2.0 Then they use your name. They don't repeat your name all the time when chatting with you.

[@PreppyShrek-ngl]

“Ask him for a small favor” My mf a$$ be like “hey can you carry my suitcase to the 2 floor thanks” 💀💀

[@entertainmentchan4567]

You providing us valuable Information thx keep it up 🙏

[@SunnyyLucky]

The bully: Hey, I heard Little Timmy is weird. Little Timmy: My name!:) Anyways thx for telling me these lol, I’m so single

[@deviouswanderer]

When someone calls my name, I just start thinking “WHERE? WHY? WHEN? DID THEY EVEN SAY MY NAME?”

[@sunjaypuri]

“hey bro! *wait 3 seconds* hi 🤓” me fr

[@Lucyy.loakeee]

“Hey, what’s ur age and ur name?” *pretends to think for half an hour straight until they leave the date* I BET HE LIKES ME

[@madiuhhh]

YAYYY TY SOOOO MUCH IVE BEEN DOING THIS FOR A COUPLE DAYS NOW ON MY SISSS SHE LIKES ME WAY MOREEEE TY TY TY!!

[@Ra-rg1vk]

Ignore the funny trolls and focus on the 👍🏻 comments. Humor is fun but not on a psychological tips site. You are giving good advice Franscesca🎉❤I am a psychoogist. I practice in India

[@VeeNaki]

All facts fellas.

[@Person-f1f]

I HAVE A QUESTION✋ Ok so there’s this guy I like He’s the PERFECT guy He matches my personality and everything I’m weird so I saw him doing this like cute funny king fu move?And right when I looked at him he stopped and got nervous!? DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS(there were other signs)❤❤

[@sandramoreno6043]

I personally would never do anything like that to be liked instantly! Again, too superficial to me! If you want to call it ignorant, so be it! 😎

[@PeguyFaour]

Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of him. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.

[@OsamahMinnis]

It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

[@PeguyFaour]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?

[@OsamahMinnis]

he is Owen Abiola, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@OsamahMinnis]

His name is Owen Abiola, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@PeguyFaour]

Thank you for this valuable information,i just looked him up now online. impressive

[@unstableratdog4179]

i was at a party once and was trying to boost my social skills so i was just going up to random people to talk to them, and on my first try, i made eye contact for a couple of seconds without saying anything, went in for an unprompted dap up, did it wrong and ended up in a minute long handshake with the guy while making intense eye contact the entire time with blank expression on our faces. i don’t think i’ve ever seen someone mess up so bad before

[@flamingocore3766]

Damn, I can really feel the akwardness, but for real, I'm still proud of you, 'cause I think, that just every social interaction gives us more conversation skills, especially the hard ones

[@theclockmax]

The last past isnt because they’re thinking of what to say to you, yet the person who asked is more likely to want your approval since you act like their question isn’t worth your time. So they want to try harder to get your attention. The more you do it, the more they want to get your attention

[@DiamondTulip45-ql7gd]

Not me searching up this video on the day before school starts😂😂😂😂

[@gabelossus]

Francesca out here having everyone bring her coffee

[@no-hl4vp]

3 comes naturally 😎 (i’m js slow)

[@LHanna-ew9vv]

I hate when people I don’t know overuse my name it makes me really uncomfortable and to me they come off as insincere. But maybe that’s just me

[@sbella6719]

It's not just you, I'm right there with you on that

[@Its_VXLK]

Today at my new school this boy called me by my name and I was like dang he knows my name I was so happy❤

[@-Mochi_Rose-]

"911, what's your emergency" "...." "Hello?" "...." *Hangs up*

[@dd-uf9nw]

Being beautiful works too.

[@Jade-cu4pg]

Brilliant lady.

[@TurtleWoFfan]

Thx for this

[@munchkin75]

2nd one is Truth I have did it several times and it worked

[@_Vlogsshorts]

Girl, that’s what one of the teachers in my school did to me today😂😂😂

[@ChiefCedricJohnson]

Luke 6:21 Blessed are ye that hunger now: for ye shall be filled. Blessed are ye that weep now: for ye shall laugh.

[@RobloxPlayer20027]

Ok wth this is so true.. When me and my girlfriend was still just friends and she had a crush on me, she started to call me by my name and that fr won my heart like crazy

[@tsion3267]

The background music😁

[@thecoachingengineer]

1st one doesn’t work in Spanish!! It has quite the opposite effect! ¿Me podrías pasar el salero? 😊 ¡Tú crees que yo soy sirviente tuyo! 😤

[@jamesbrooks3259]

I think you're amazing you have made me become a better person 😘

[@mehakchauhan6619]

Liked the last one.

[@youdonotknowmepeasants]

Guys it actually works!

[@Rose..13..133]

BRO I SEARCHED UP “HOW TO GET SOMEONE NOT TO HAVE A CRUSH ON YOU” 😭😭

[@Callm_edarcy]

Hey! I'm Hanna and i loved your videos you're so helpful thank you so much i appreciate you 😊.

[@PercyJackson-Dam]

“Do you like the weather?” “…….I…I….I don’t really like the rain”

[@paytonsways]

Tree3️⃣ Not making fun of you! Love your videos!

[@Benita_bestie]

3: ❌ Tree: ✅

[@CoolAxoly]

''Call people by their name's Gives me younge Sheldon vibes

[@LEAFUzuri]

My guy bsf does all three things to me and it irritates me so much because I told him I prefer to be called by my nickname and also my parents ask me favors 24/7 so I got a lot of stuff to do and then my friend asks me for really big difficult favors and expects me to get it done in two days. And also if he takes too long to reply I’ll literally overthink everything and might not hear what he says, then I ask what he said and he’ll reply “forget about it, never mind” Also sorry for ranting btw, just wanted to prove the tricks don’t work on everyone.

[@Daisylynn_21]

*them* “hey, did you like me gift? **waits a couple of seconds so it seem like I’m thinking** *me* “No-“

[@none4964]

"Hey, how are you?" *Waits 10 seconds* "What did you say?"

[@monke532]

But remember not to overdo 1 or 2, because İ have a classmate who does so and İ kind of hate her; always commanding me to do things and using my name every sentence. like if I’m tired and just want to eat lunch since İ didn’t eat anything the past few days, i ran up/down the fastest ị could 18 flights of stairs having a heart condition, also 3 lapses around my society with so many houses inside, that only being running lapses ị walked even more, exhausted with studies and annoying benchmate (just those two people in my class really bug me), having gone through such a long line for the washroom to get my hands clean which btw i shouldntve cos ive got ocd over wash my hands and it’s the driest reddest roughest most pigmentated thing, barely slept last night, i don’t know why my friend or crsh is mad at me after months even an year of clear ground, and likewise much more stuff,, could you -not- ask me to turn off the fan as you’re right next to the switch and even the person next to yous feeling bad (just let (me) eat, poor kid) cos again you’re right next to the swwiiittttccchhhh? Favours are fine but it’s not hey excuse me if you don’t mind could you -- it’s hey, do this!! now!! name! pencil! totally here -GIVE IT BACK NEXT TIME???-

[@Petraisbatman]

“Hey what’s 2 + 2?” (Pause) “4..” SO ATTRACTIVE OMGGG

[@faizalam4793]

can you please make a video on 'how to make everyone respect and fear you '

[@MrMoneyBagz_International]

48 laws of power ..n many books

[@alexandradaniil7980]

exactly .. very nice 🥰

[@ril3yy_8888]

"mom, can i have a napkin?" "you have arms and legs, get it yourself" "RILEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" "oh fuc-" *doesnt respond after a few seconds* "WHY ARENT YOU RESPONDINGG"

[@KALABUR]

Most people seem agitated when you take your time replying, not that it has anything to do with you obv

[@ElenaNoorbakhsh-f6p]

Omg no way I did NOT know that I was supposed to be called by my first name I thought I was supposed to call people and get called by my last name!!!!