Sneaky psychological tricks to make people instantly like you 😉 - Part 6

[@sbella6719]

Sincerity and genuineness gets me every time. If someone says my name too many times, it makes me think they're trying to manipulate me.

[@lynncasey4372]

Yeah, I don't know why people always say calling a person by their name repeatedly is good advice.It's awkward at best...creepy at worst.

[@MatejUmnik]

If someone is constantly calling you by your name, even when you two are texting, they are being patronizing towards you.

[@magdamihgo]

Hey! I often call my friends name

[@alishak4061]

As a flight attendant who wears their name on their wings I agree with you wholeheartedly!

[@efgirra8799]

I have the same, I hate when someone uses my name too many times in one conversation. It assures me that this person is manipulative.

[@gaganpreetsingh4055]

With all due respect, nothing works better than being genuine, positive, respectful, and loving others from our hearts.

[@hotcheetosqueen5841]

I've been that my entire life yet I've still been ignored, looked at weird, and abandoned

[@Holly_Rose.]

That didn’t work so that’s why I’m here 😅

[@frenchgirl5878]

Popular people are not the nicest people so I don’t believe that. It’s not that simple, it’s a mix of being genuine nice and mastering social skills.

[@johnedwardcandia7307]

Didnt work for me i allways done it and they used me they never gave me respect

[@Emirī-z7r]

I,m subbing this is literally the truest thing I ever heard in my life

[@hoodrat.jayseee]

"Hey can you grab me a paper?" " *No.* "

[@Lillyd6731]

If u add a please and real quick (so can you please pass me that piece of paper real quick) ppl will feel more compelled to actually do what you’re asking

[@scarletoverkilllol8462]

@@Lillyd6731” *No.* “

[@Bellas_Vibe]

@@scarletoverkilllol8462that’s wild 💀

[@User_32456-x]

​@@scarletoverkilllol8462nah💀

[@gracidrizzy3151]

Teacher: calls my name* Me: 💀

[@RunieTunie0]

"Lorreta,can i go out with my friends?" Mom: "The fuck did you say to me?"

[@tfmynwa]

😂😂

[@kuyajuswa]

🤣🤣

[@magicalsyt1060]

LOLL

[@user-tl6lo9fl7w]

lMAO

[@villanelle2.0]

But then why would you want to trick your mom into liking you 😶

[@S1ACXR]

"HELP IM CHOKING" *Waits a couple of seconds* "Do you like me now?"

[@shona4817]

lol hahaha

[@wanzacharywanisa5762]

“Hey nice to meet you what’s ur name” *waits a couple of seconds to make it seem like I’m thinking through *

[@Respectless20]

𝕃𝕠𝕝

[@rebelourhell]

Lmao

[@liarrr810]

😂❤ relatablee

[@ThatGirlBria21]

When people do that to me it makes me feel like I’m not being heard

[@Hobbydude785]

🤣🤣🤣

[@barkross5120]

Also SAY THANK YOU after they do that small favor trust me it works so well

[@LunaLovegood745]

FINALLY SOMEONE WHO ACTUALLY POSTS GOOD TIPS

[@eeeeeeeeeeeeeeels]

After the small favor, you can also add “thanks, you’re the best!” or “omg ily so much” for a bit more important of a small favor (like if the food is too spicy or you need something across the room when it would be very inconvenient for you to have pause what you’re doing/get up)

[@Artemis_the_gremlin64]

I feel like the girl who sits in front of me in math class watched this vid. She dropped her pencil and then asked me to pick it up for her (since it was near me) and then she asked what name I preferred, and then CORRECTED someone on it when they used my deadname. 10/10 interaction she was so nice

[@AshBaby123-ufx]

Me: waits a few seconds until reply Girl: are you ignoring me?

[@LostAlien88]

😂

[@marcintarnawski980]

Women

[@logical582]

​@@marcintarnawski980 women ☕

[@squidge4728]

@@marcintarnawski980 men ☕️

[@Bombasticsideeye009]

​@@logical582 men ☕

[@fallingfriguy3259]

"we love hearing our names" Me when someone calls my name:😵‍💫

[@keerthikaapyouwanasanmoe8927]

I was about to say the same thing 😂

[@yennis_world]

True lol

[@lrrich8023]

The name thing is HUGE, it is very true. Someone's name is the first gift they get in life and they like hearing it. Read the book how to win friends and influence people it teaches this point very well.

[@Dino_Nuggiessssss]

Thing is I don’t want to *make* my crush like me.. I want him to like me for me.. not making him think he likes me…

[@IcecreamgerlAdriana]

The detective: WHERE WERE YOU ON JANUARY FITH AT 8:55??? Me: *waits a few seconds*

[@Summerflower94]

My great grandpa always wait at least one to two minutes before he would respond and I thought he couldn’t hear me because he had bad hearing that he would give the most philosophical answer ever and I still always cherish all the memories I have of him giving me really good responses to things that I was going through in life he was so wise I miss him so much

[@flowery_crafts]

I am so sorry. But wow!

[@content_splash_flow]

ok. he asks, "am I annoying?" so I wait a couple seconds before answering

[@Cristina-nj2gy]

I absolutely and instinctively hate when people use my name without any need to do so (if they already have my attention, if we're in a 1:1 chat/call). It feels extremely manipulative to me and fake.

[@Its_VXLK]

Today at my new school this boy called me by my name and I was like dang he knows my name I was so happy❤

[@jadas8686]

For some reason I get a little anxious when some calls me by my name except family and friends

[@ItsYummyCupcakesOfficial]

Teacher: Luna, answer my question please! Me(Luna): NOOOO(I absolutely hate getting called on)

[@Rl-artz]

“Hey can you pass the glue (insert her name) tysmm bestie :)”

[@RobloxPlayer20027]

Ok wth this is so true.. When me and my girlfriend was still just friends and she had a crush on me, she started to call me by my name and that fr won my heart like crazy

[@longtikus2433]

I have never studied psychology but I do all the things taught about psychology using my own logically to other people

[@MrMoneyBagz_International]

When she check out my degree's

[@cachorrovinagre2979]

From my empirical experience all of this won't work if a person don't look good like you.

[@-KaedeCornerStore_]

I strongly dislike it and get uncomfortable if someone calls me by my name 😐

[@dopestuff1714]

ok sugarbun

[@yennis_world]

same and that's why I prefer a nickname, it may be because I used to get made fun of because of my name in childhood though 😅

[@dwcushman1]

Love all the funny people weighing in on this. Hilarious!! But I did think about that for a few sec first. Seriously, you have hit the nail on the head again. Because I am a clinical outpatient therapist I am well aware of the vast majority of what you talk about. But I am much older than you, and when I was your age, I would not have been able to articulate those concepts nearly as well as you do!! I really enjoy listening to you. 😊

[@Nahcuzimmewing]

Teacher : Olivia! You got 3/100 in maths! Me : Thinks couple of seconds* suddenly remembers she used my name* INSTANTLY FALLS IN LOVE ✨

[@le3582]

That guy in the bus: “Ocarina, you forgot your water bottle.” Me: *Yo that’s kinda hot* Edit: guys after I switched schools my friend messaged him on snap and he said the n word so 💀

[@dtitopia]

LOL ME JFXFXFHFLFZUDZHRS

[@user-gx9dg5xb3z]

Nice pfp

[@le3582]

@@user-gx9dg5xb3z You too buddy

[@le3582]

@@Karinaaaa15 nah my name is my last name

[@starlightbright]

Lmao but same

[@Thery_The_Cat]

me that waits a couple of secs when my crush asked something to me. damn im stil so skared to tel him😭😭😭

[@Bokertko]

I've always hated when people say my name to me. I like my name it just feels awkward and weird if someone calls me it while talking

[@-Psycho.cat-]

Help, when my old friend texted me (he’s not my friend anymore he ghosted me and I totally didn’t spend nights crying about it.) whenever he responded late or didn’t reply fast, I thought “oh he’s not interested in this convo” “I’m so boring” “how was he supposed to answer that” or “he definitely doesn’t like me” (as a friend) I really miss him. He was the only person I could talk to and the only person I did talk to.

[@Ashley-oq7jh]

1. I'm lazy 2. It's annoying when people call out my name (well, kind of) 3. I'm not patient

[@desislavatrifonova6440]

This is my new favourite channel, popped just on time. Thank you 😊

[@essidrovital6397]

If youre shy like me, it might be hard to say their name after saying "hey" or "hi". Especially if youre not friends. Make it a small win to say "Hey, name" every time you greet someone. Always reciprocate when they ask "how are you". its better than saying "Im good" and thats all . What i learned from this video: always say "hey name" if you need to get someones attention. For example, "Hey name. could you pass the rice". I taught myself to say "thank you" with a smile instead of "thanks".

[@cloudcampos4555]

The name thing is absolutely spot on. My best friend and I were talking about it and we thought we were psychos because we could almost developp à crush for à guy who would say our name at random moments . Guess we're not insane haha

[@Elle_Elephant]

Thanks totally gonna try them

[@VITHUSHANUTHAYAKUMAR]

MAM CASUALLY DROPPING SUPER AMAZING TRICKS....I REALLY APPRECIATE IT MAM❤

[@muhammadalihanif9153]

Make so much sense. Thanks for sharing

[@theclockmax]

The last past isnt because they’re thinking of what to say to you, yet the person who asked is more likely to want your approval since you act like their question isn’t worth your time. So they want to try harder to get your attention. The more you do it, the more they want to get your attention

[@no-hl4vp]

3 comes naturally 😎 (i’m js slow)

[@melissamoonchild9216]

I have never in my life thought i liked someone because they were asking me for a favor

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

I HATE IT when someone asks me for a favor as if we were close. I can see it from a mile a way that they want to feel I am serving them and I give them a nasty LOOK!

[@Person7382H]

Ok one thing about people saying my name…. If someone says my name I get so nervous that they are just talking abt me. But if they say my name to my face I think they are abt to have a deep conversation I don’t wanna be apart of… UNLESS it’s my crush abt to ask my out so he says my name… I’m cool with that

[@Nebulaplayzz]

When i did the last thing, i was called slow

[@LEAFUzuri]

My guy bsf does all three things to me and it irritates me so much because I told him I prefer to be called by my nickname and also my parents ask me favors 24/7 so I got a lot of stuff to do and then my friend asks me for really big difficult favors and expects me to get it done in two days. And also if he takes too long to reply I’ll literally overthink everything and might not hear what he says, then I ask what he said and he’ll reply “forget about it, never mind” Also sorry for ranting btw, just wanted to prove the tricks don’t work on everyone.

[@Jk_boii]

Me:"Calling my crush with his name and surname" Him:What did I do this time?

[@miss_Ilayda]

For number 3 it can also be like u don’t even care about them

[@unstableratdog4179]

i was at a party once and was trying to boost my social skills so i was just going up to random people to talk to them, and on my first try, i made eye contact for a couple of seconds without saying anything, went in for an unprompted dap up, did it wrong and ended up in a minute long handshake with the guy while making intense eye contact the entire time with blank expression on our faces. i don’t think i’ve ever seen someone mess up so bad before

[@flamingocore3766]

Damn, I can really feel the akwardness, but for real, I'm still proud of you, 'cause I think, that just every social interaction gives us more conversation skills, especially the hard ones

[@Laradomacoa]

i HATE my name being called because its mostly used in bad things. thats why i hate when people say or use my name

[@Rachel-594]

I HAVE A QUESTION✋ Ok so there’s this guy I like He’s the PERFECT guy He matches my personality and everything I’m weird so I saw him doing this like cute funny king fu move?And right when I looked at him he stopped and got nervous!? DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS(there were other signs)❤❤

[@piretkivi3218]

Number 2 only works in the countries where names are used in a conversation. In other countries the effect is opposite. It tends to irritate me somewhat if I hear my name too much.

[@villanelle2.0]

So what do they address you as when they need to call you? "Hey you in white shirt in that corner"?

[@piretkivi3218]

@@villanelle2.0 Then they use your name. They don't repeat your name all the time when chatting with you.

[@lily2119]

Me waiting 3 sec to respond My friends : bish u so slow !

[@lindamejo]

IKR 😂😂

[@michaelsalazar1665]

You need better quality of friends.

[@glitchant]

Don’t wait too long. I met this girl who legit took 5 seconds to respond and it made me think she was judging me or something, it was really annoying. That trick doesn’t work.

[@villanelle2.0]

Don't your friends like you already? Why would want to trick them into liking you?

[@villanelle2.0]

​​@@glitchant yeah... It mostly works on interview questions.

[@PreppyShrek-ngl]

“Ask him for a small favor” My mf a$$ be like “hey can you carry my suitcase to the 2 floor thanks” 💀💀

[@Natt2cool4u]

My crush uses my name to call me out like say smth embarrassing abt me 😢😅 like not personal tho but still 😂😢

[@stevehaas9515]

Frances. I really love your videos.

[@SaniyaSachinm]

Thanks for this video it will help me.

[@DSmith-ix1xf]

Great short! Thanks for these good manner reminders.

[@Lucyy.loakeee]

“Hey, what’s ur age and ur name?” *pretends to think for half an hour straight until they leave the date* I BET HE LIKES ME

[@CamilaPelier-ti7mr]

Them: “Hey, what’s the time?” Me: “……………..” It’s currently……………10:27 Them: already on their way to their next class

[@stxr_edits_12]

okay but i genuinely get confused when someone tells me something, so i wait a few seconds to try and process if what i heard what was right.

[@ItsLiterallyLexiiii]

The only time I don’t like hearing my name is when I teacher calls on me and I’m not paying attention

[@OmeraKhalid]

Ty so much that really helps

[@Ra-rg1vk]

Ignore the funny trolls and focus on the 👍🏻 comments. Humor is fun but not on a psychological tips site. You are giving good advice Franscesca🎉❤I am a psychoogist. I practice in India

[@IamSunil017]

That made my ears tuned to you girl, good tips..francesca..😘

[@CoolAxoly]

''Call people by their name's Gives me younge Sheldon vibes

[@Benita_bestie]

3: ❌ Tree: ✅

[@ElenaNoorbakhsh-f6p]

Omg no way I did NOT know that I was supposed to be called by my first name I thought I was supposed to call people and get called by my last name!!!!

[@_Vlogsshorts]

Girl, that’s what one of the teachers in my school did to me today😂😂😂

[@DiamondTulip45-ql7gd]

Not me searching up this video on the day before school starts😂😂😂😂

[@tsion3267]

The background music😁

[@mireilledargham9634]

my crush being sat next to me and i m just looking at him the WHOLE TIME HELPPP

[@aniketb3513]

Stop speaking with that accent I'm falling in love ❤️🥵

[@Just_me_adam40]

Totally

[@Thereallazyegg]

no bc im tweaking bc the other day my crush was like staring at me in my advisory and he asked “emma can i have a piece of gum?” and i literally tweaked bro

[@fintechip96]

It’s so easy, as a woman to become a dominant actor in society. This is because there is no great burden of achievement placed on women. So they can learn a few psychological tricks, and they are already at the finish line. A man has to accomplish SO MUCH just to be given a modicum of respect. This is UNREAL!

[@youdonotknowmepeasants]

Guys it actually works!

[@Ms.Emerald]

I think the “Benjamin franklin effect” works mostly on guys while “being helped out” on girls. It’s a way for you to make a guy’s day and make him feel like a hero. They like it😊

[@hhh.462]

ok so I have this habit of calling people by their names but when somebody calls me by saying my name i hate it.. i don't know why.. it's like why are they saying my name, it's annoying and uncomfortable for me... But i didn't know that calling people by their name is a psychology trick.... i will try my best to stop this habit...

[@chardeberry3045]

I had a friend who I had a crush on say, “Chardé, what are you doing tomorrow?” I was instantly like 🥰🥰🥰, he said my name? It’s funny because I hadn’t realized how infrequently he said it.

[@thetorontogirl]

My ex-coworker tried these on me. I saw right through her. Turns out, she was a snake🐍She complained about everything and everyone behind our backs and she ended up getting fired. When being nice comes from a genuine place and not acting manipulative like using these tips, people can tell.

[@waykee3]

1: People don’t want to even do something for me because they know subconsciously they have to like me to do it. 3: Does not necessarily work. It’s just make others feel listened but that doesn’t mean they will like you because of it. They might even feel that you are rude and not interested in them for replying late.

[@munchkin75]

2nd one is Truth I have did it several times and it worked

[@KALABUR]

Most people seem agitated when you take your time replying, not that it has anything to do with you obv

[@Rose..13..133]

BRO I SEARCHED UP “HOW TO GET SOMEONE NOT TO HAVE A CRUSH ON YOU” 😭😭

[@Ascenzijski_vodic]

I always do that without knowing

[@satsukiyatouji4720]

In Benjamin Franklins house in London they found a room in the basement full of skeletons and 6 of them was from kids. 1200 bones from 15 bodies.

[@joon6485]

Pink suits so damn well

[@TryTheseApps]

i hate hearing my name. But i love nicknames for my name❤

[@Literally_Cupid]

The bully: Hey, I heard Little Timmy is weird. Little Timmy: My name!:) Anyways thx for telling me these lol, I’m so single

[@ironmaiden3204]

U don’t have to do anything to like u. U r beautiful

[@madiuhhh]

YAYYY TY SOOOO MUCH IVE BEEN DOING THIS FOR A COUPLE DAYS NOW ON MY SISSS SHE LIKES ME WAY MOREEEE TY TY TY!!

[@Notkdenben]

I thought the trick about asking someone for a small favor meant they felt invested in you

[@priscilla2462]

No cos when i was a kid and people called me by my name instead of like heyy or something, my heart used to start pounding so much because I thought I've done something bad but I'm getting better

[@YesSmartyBoy1m]

Step 1: Be Beautiful girl 😍

[@danajones3818]

I think my teacher been using these on me. I’ve become obsessed with him.

[@Callm_edarcy]

Hey! I'm Hanna and i loved your videos you're so helpful thank you so much i appreciate you 😊.

[@Alidoesediting]

‘ *Wait a couple of seconds* ‘ My friends: HURRY TF UP

[@PeguyFaour]

Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of him. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.

[@OsamahMinnis]

It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

[@PeguyFaour]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?

[@OsamahMinnis]

he is Owen Abiola, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@OsamahMinnis]

His name is Owen Abiola, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@PeguyFaour]

Thank you for this valuable information,i just looked him up now online. impressive

[@renatopangan4082]

I am Taurus. Full name : RENATO CRUZ PANGAN DATE OF BIRTH: may 16, 1971

[@gabelossus]

Francesca out here having everyone bring her coffee