Sneaky Ways Narcissists Get Their Narcissistic Supply

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Exposing the Narcissist

Exposing the Narcissist

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@shawnadeyo
@shawnadeyo 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve realized over the years that the more you love a narcissist the more they hate you. The more you hate the narcissist the more they “love” you. They are literally backwards. They’re disgusting.
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 4 жыл бұрын
Well Said! That is so true!
@johnsmith23ist
@johnsmith23ist 3 жыл бұрын
They are not attracted to people who are interested in them
@sigia5352
@sigia5352 3 жыл бұрын
Narcs are actually very stupid because they themselves can tolerate abuse thinking it's love..they are very easy to manipulate.its a projection because they act like they love others and it's all usually fake..so when you actually love them they think it's fake as well...
@exquisitecouture8559
@exquisitecouture8559 3 жыл бұрын
So true wow
@halohalo576
@halohalo576 2 жыл бұрын
yeah. This is how exactly koreans act
@Latinna072
@Latinna072 4 жыл бұрын
They are so phony! It’s repulsive how badly they treat someone who cares about them
@gametimewithtailsthefox
@gametimewithtailsthefox 4 жыл бұрын
And it’s only the people who care about them
@Psalm1101
@Psalm1101 4 жыл бұрын
People are like that its not narcisist it mean people stay away from them
@marciaheadley9933
@marciaheadley9933 3 жыл бұрын
Oh, Yes! Sick and evil souls these demons are. Blessings to you
@martynapk4314
@martynapk4314 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously
@samuelsurbrook1428
@samuelsurbrook1428 3 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@marciaheadley9933
@marciaheadley9933 3 жыл бұрын
Now I see why ignoring these demons are so vital!
@margiestephens8977
@margiestephens8977 3 жыл бұрын
Just WALK A W A Y
@clincpb8903
@clincpb8903 4 жыл бұрын
Even an argument is supply for them.
@kwekuacheampong1464
@kwekuacheampong1464 4 жыл бұрын
I wish I'd learned that much earlier.
@solice8844
@solice8844 3 жыл бұрын
Especially an argument with lots of your emotions and energy.
@VeronicaHernandez-hd3pk
@VeronicaHernandez-hd3pk 3 жыл бұрын
Wow this comment helped me so much
@inerfyr
@inerfyr 3 жыл бұрын
Yep, my wife literally told me she argues with me because she knows she has all my attention when she does.
@chocolatecandy3077
@chocolatecandy3077 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@dontbelongherefromanother
@dontbelongherefromanother 4 жыл бұрын
Empaths build the narc's ego, and narcs specifically target them for narc supply
@eduardmanecuta5350
@eduardmanecuta5350 2 жыл бұрын
That explains a lot.
@craig3714
@craig3714 4 жыл бұрын
They need us we don't need them !
@marcincalus1022
@marcincalus1022 4 жыл бұрын
Your absolutely right they need us why coz delussional narcs cant stay sane on their own coz they drive their family crazy drama chaos
@craig3714
@craig3714 4 жыл бұрын
@Chris Mine I don't do one sided relationships or double standards .
@7773-i1u
@7773-i1u 3 жыл бұрын
If a narc compliments me I usually respond with something like " Really? I don't see it that way" and play it down. If you are aware of what they are doing it is easy to do and it will show the narc that receiving flattery has little influence on you and that you don't care much for it perse. They soon get tired of trying it on you.
@shawnadeyo
@shawnadeyo 4 жыл бұрын
The way my narcissist ex would get attention was to tell everyone on Facebook that I was “abusing” him.. he played the victim to a T. So he would get all this attention from all his “people” on Facebook by lying about me. It was like he was killing two birds with one stone. He was getting attention all while smearing my name to the world. He was in heaven when that was working for him. After I finally figured out exactly what he was and what he was doing, it was all over for him. Thank god I found out what a narcissist was and I learned everything I could about this disorder. By the time I was done learning I practically knew what he was thinking before he did lol. He will NEVER be able to get to me again. EVER! I can see right through him and it absolutely kills him! NO CONTACT is the only way to be with these disgusting creatures from another planet!
@EmiliesPiano
@EmiliesPiano 4 жыл бұрын
The narc in my life would fake situations in her life so she could “request prayer” at church. Lol the service would suddenly be all about her and her “predicament” and we’d all find ourselves surrounding her praying for her before we knew what hit us. Unfathomable yet hilarious!
@bethhurst6231
@bethhurst6231 4 жыл бұрын
LOL...yikes!
@chocolatecandy3077
@chocolatecandy3077 3 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂
@m.asammy3049
@m.asammy3049 3 жыл бұрын
THAT PISSES ME OFF.
@jayjay1443
@jayjay1443 3 жыл бұрын
My narc egg donor faked an entire birthday just so she could try to receive attention on the same day that my child was born. I found all this out because the place that she used to work at has a completely different birthdate than the one that she's been telling people that she is born on for YEARS. Like, how do you lie about the date you were born on?!😩
@shannonzittlow8462
@shannonzittlow8462 4 жыл бұрын
They don’t believe in charity unless they get recognized for it confidential donations
@kaymuldoon3575
@kaymuldoon3575 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. My narc ex-friend is what they call a communal narc. She can be the nicest, kindest, most generous and giving person in the entire neighborhood, but I know now she does it so she looks good and everyone will love her. But she also has a dark, ugly side to her as well. That’s the narc coming out.
@exofnarccop
@exofnarccop 3 жыл бұрын
Their need is a selfish need. To want to be needed , desired and loved is not selfish when it's shared.
@dontbelongherefromanother
@dontbelongherefromanother 4 жыл бұрын
Also, narcs can be very ingratiating and kind to others to fish for compliments. Typically, these are the covert narcs who have low self esteem and seek out others to boost their confidence.
@latenightinsomnia1917
@latenightinsomnia1917 4 жыл бұрын
Don't Narcs have anything better to do than bother and harass people I still don't understand
@marcincalus1022
@marcincalus1022 4 жыл бұрын
Let me be first to tell u their games is all about drama conflict observe they are in denial whole time turn story on them coz they talk too much n if u do this teqnique u insert confusing into their subject and act all crazy y coz thats how brocken they are they wanna play mind games and need u right easy way out say to them lets agree to disagree this sets them off on a tamper tantrumcoz u not accepting their vision and say good luck if all to this narcs are dead b4 they existed act 1 isolate them from other and start getting people to join u and see them humiliate them self
@SilentFigure1
@SilentFigure1 4 жыл бұрын
@@marcincalus1022 I have witnessed 4 seperate people very high in selfish self serving enviuos behaviour actually going crazy because they cannot get enough supply. These people love chaos and being center of it and the Covid is taking them out of the spotlight.
@marcincalus1022
@marcincalus1022 4 жыл бұрын
@@SilentFigure1 yes their onlypeople play offense defense if it help call them out and i know ur mother isnt mature why did she have u ur emotionally abusive they disregard it this is their defensive behaviour fact observe they say im perfect means im fucking stupid on crack cocaine. They cant say anything like stupid why coz its hard for them loom how brocken they are.
@latenightinsomnia1917
@latenightinsomnia1917 4 жыл бұрын
@@marcincalus1022 exactly that's how my Narc and I didn't last in a relationship. The thing is I never asked her out or anything. In fact I don't even know how we ended up dating I can't remember. All I remember was she was calling me this and calling me that. She was calling me a player when I was still liking another woman at the time who didn't care for me the way I did for her.
@marcincalus1022
@marcincalus1022 4 жыл бұрын
@@latenightinsomnia1917 yes well i act like i dont care its not an act they make it up as sob stories injuice confussing and propaganda is biased defination if u wanna know they talk it as they happy but its a game call them out and say lets agree to disagree ( i cant force u to be right) i turn table on my narc right she gone in rage but its a problem they have no other person does tgis in relationship fact it works by agree to disagree u not placing them on paddlestool just leave them in same child.
@pippipster6767
@pippipster6767 4 жыл бұрын
Good video. Yes, it’s all so subtle, complicated ... and sneaky. And like you say, once you have the knowledge - very, very predictable. Only way to deal with a narcissist is to completely remove from life. As if they don’t exist (which in a sense they don’t.)
@heart3752
@heart3752 2 жыл бұрын
I have decided to ignore my husband totally, I know he’s insensitive, insecure and selfish. Now he’s puzzled by my behaviour but I’m learning from your videos and trying hard to do everything you say. Everything I have is tied up with him. Very difficult to leave
@katarinatibai8396
@katarinatibai8396 4 жыл бұрын
The first phishing for compliments tactic is simular to humble braging.
@scotttully8572
@scotttully8572 4 жыл бұрын
That pep to their step only lasts about half-an-hour, after half-a-day of scheming. What a wasted life! 🤢
@janicemurphy4373
@janicemurphy4373 4 жыл бұрын
You should be a psychiatrist, you really know people!!!!! Everything you have said is so true!!!!! I have experienced so much from some people !!!!!!!
@worldtraveller1900
@worldtraveller1900 4 жыл бұрын
Spot on , Clarice. ALL these traits apply to the narcissist who discarded me after devaluing me for some time.
@scotttully8572
@scotttully8572 4 жыл бұрын
You're lucky!
@deeevansnola8178
@deeevansnola8178 4 жыл бұрын
You winning then!! It,s like the trash took itself out!
@TheNikki284
@TheNikki284 4 жыл бұрын
Clarice, I feel like I say this on every video but I swear you are a mind reader. Last night, as my sister was going on and on (and on) despite knowing full well that I had a migraine, a thought popped into my pounding head: "I am her unpaid therapist. I have been for years."
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 4 жыл бұрын
Well hopefully that all ends today. Let her find someone else to boost her ego.
@TheNikki284
@TheNikki284 4 жыл бұрын
Exposing the Narcissist Exactly. Someone else will have to pitch in to take the heat off me, like one of our three other sisters. It can't always be me getting saturated with her hatred.
@TheNikki284
@TheNikki284 3 жыл бұрын
Mary Carroll They might pretend to care about others but it's a facade. When it really comes down to it, it's their needs over anyone else's every time.
@TheNikki284
@TheNikki284 3 жыл бұрын
Mary Carroll it really is. I hope you're feeling better soon! Stay strong!
@knoble1985
@knoble1985 4 жыл бұрын
My ex narc is a li·ai·son & im like U don't deserve to work with kids i know how truly cold & impatient you really are but she just fronts in public & post on social media look at me and the good im doing but meanwhile behind closed doors im dealing with freddy Kruger
@kynathomas4809
@kynathomas4809 4 жыл бұрын
That's how they are.
@dannysze8183
@dannysze8183 3 жыл бұрын
that is why narcissist like to target empath. they gain supply from empath kindness and generosity. covert narcissist is very dangerous. you can detect them only if you live with them everyday.
@getrudemwaura946
@getrudemwaura946 3 жыл бұрын
They really Suck your Energy. No need Being around them. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕
@JJShalashaska
@JJShalashaska Жыл бұрын
And this is how I became friend with a narcissist! In the beginning she submerged me with love and compliments about myself, my character, my appearance. I just didn't care about it before knowing her. And she used to say bad things of herself, like being ugly, invisible, ecc (she's very beautiful and attractive) so I was there to cheer her up. While today she's just a ghost and I keep falling into this trap. And now I'm sure she is behaving with someone else now like she once behaved with me. Who knows if she'll remember me when I will be gone.
@dontbelongherefromanother
@dontbelongherefromanother 4 жыл бұрын
I wish there was a cure for unhealthy narcissism, but there isn't it. However, cognitive behavioral therapy could help narcs alter their irrational perceptions, but most narcs never seek therapy. They simply believe others are the problem and not them. Narcs use others as a form of therapy to boost their inflated ego. Love your vid. Great Insight!
@iaindcosta
@iaindcosta 4 жыл бұрын
check Sam Vaknin
@judddarguedarbyshire1977
@judddarguedarbyshire1977 4 жыл бұрын
well that has solved a mystery for me! it's a while since the discard now but i couldn't work out what the complements were all about, " you're beautiful " you look really attractive in that outfit ",, etc, because i've long been aware that there was meaning to everything they say and do. thank you Clarise
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 4 жыл бұрын
You are very welcome🌷
@holographicc6974
@holographicc6974 4 жыл бұрын
They need. Need. Need. Lol
@persistentlydriven9390
@persistentlydriven9390 4 жыл бұрын
More more more !!!’n
@markfromtinder9616
@markfromtinder9616 3 жыл бұрын
Especially the female narc. It's never enough!!!
@clarkkent3730
@clarkkent3730 4 жыл бұрын
apostates predicted: "these are grumblers, complainers, walking according to their own ungodly lusts: they mouth great swelling words, flattering people to gain advantage"....Jude 1 nkjv
@fordgt402
@fordgt402 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing only Clarice talks about the self depreciating narcissist in youtube.They do this to bait for supply .Their conversation will be like this , " My mental functions are not so good but you must forgive me".This is done after quarelling with an elderly staff over a medical appointment as the ederly needs to take time off from the job.
@allennmickk3705
@allennmickk3705 Жыл бұрын
Hello Clarice Did anybody else do that with Anthony Hopkins voice 😂
@kypie8
@kypie8 Жыл бұрын
😂
@stellar52
@stellar52 3 жыл бұрын
I told my covert narcissist ex quite early on that I surely see when he does good stuff, but that I won't pamper his ass. Man....if I had known that I'd pay for this for two terrible years.....I left totally depressed and suicidal
@dreambeliever3652
@dreambeliever3652 2 жыл бұрын
I am right in the middle of what you’re talking about. Thanks again! Great video
@sonofgod2412
@sonofgod2412 4 жыл бұрын
What about the narcissist the fight for singing power... I'm traumatized since childhood and now I'm afraid to sing without thinking my sister will hear me.
@DAT415
@DAT415 3 жыл бұрын
god. same. but it's with a friend. are you on fb reddit or what?
@sonofgod2412
@sonofgod2412 3 жыл бұрын
@@DAT415 Facebook @Prince Nate
@AkumuShi
@AkumuShi 2 жыл бұрын
Omg both my ex husband's put down my singing!
@stefanghabooli6483
@stefanghabooli6483 2 жыл бұрын
Singing is from the heart. Put the music on loud and belt it out! Sing it loud and proud with the heart and soul God gave you. Use it, don't be afraid of your own voice. Love yourself. NOTHING hurts a narc more than you being your best you! Don't let their rage, spite or silent treatment dim the light that is you. Shine. Be an inspiration to yourself, don't be bullied out of self expression by a big fat Mardy ego that swings it's tantrums and coughs trash on you because theyre afraid of joining you in opening your heart. Be yourself anyway. Don't lose your pocket money to school yard bullies of the mind. Laugh while you sing. Do a little twirl, and give a royal middle finger in your mind to any sourpuss, spoilsport bs from the permanent down putter in your life. All the good stuff comes from love. If they can't love you you NEED to love yourself. You're the closest one to the job!
@13Babeloe
@13Babeloe 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos are so helpful and informative. Thank you.
@axelwrench2119
@axelwrench2119 3 жыл бұрын
Help me understand how they get supply in and by increasing an argument? I can tell by the overreaction, gas lighting, anger, desperate need to keep the argument going by devaluation and manipulative cruel words in response to my kind, loving, humble, disarming words and actions, that they NEED this argument to keep going. It’s quite confusing and stressful to recognize the vast difference in our dispositions and it makes me feel so crazy wondering why are they resisting my kindness so much and so stubbornly insisting on staying mad and countering me with painful hurtful unnecessary words. Ones that I either have to swallow for the sake of another attempt to resolve, or try pointlessly to clarify my non-ill perspective against their hurtful accusations.... what’s going on in their minds? Why do they do this? How is this feeding them? As I see their ego/power/grandiose entitlement just growing by the second in these situations. While completely dismissing and putting me down.
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 3 жыл бұрын
Narcissists feed off of our pain, suffering and confusion as well. Please don't miss Sunday's video. You will benefit from it.
@mylittlekittens
@mylittlekittens 2 жыл бұрын
There is someone in my past that had opposite views as me on very important topics. I would either keep quiet or bicker. He could never see my point of view and enjoyed telling me I was wrong. I always wondered why he doesn't hang around like minded people? Glad I'm not dealing with him.
@iraqiimmigrant2908
@iraqiimmigrant2908 2 жыл бұрын
They’re demonic.
@m.f.richardson1602
@m.f.richardson1602 3 жыл бұрын
Gotcha this is so true. Thank you.
@aporue5893
@aporue5893 Жыл бұрын
they don't actually like you. It's all a game to them. This is why they have no real friends.
@1Jesusislord
@1Jesusislord 4 жыл бұрын
So needed to hear Great video!
@jodiburnett6211
@jodiburnett6211 3 жыл бұрын
The constant performance is exhausting to be around.
@PinkGirlTeaches
@PinkGirlTeaches 4 жыл бұрын
Great video!
@fayceedat670
@fayceedat670 4 жыл бұрын
Yess. My narc helps out with security work. But will tell everyone how much he does. Does it only for show..and praise..
@MrBlackretreat
@MrBlackretreat 3 жыл бұрын
I’m getting Hoovered now.... they don’t know i know who they are ....lol
@supermichaelssecondchannel4342
@supermichaelssecondchannel4342 3 жыл бұрын
Keep up the good content.
@LoganlovesgmaRobinson
@LoganlovesgmaRobinson 4 жыл бұрын
The grocery store is his favorite flavor he prefers. .got to have food right? ...then stands there and looks at me and says he's the victim. .is there something in eye contact with other women I'm need to b3 aware of ...please advise so I can put on the full armor. ...evil and wicked
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 4 жыл бұрын
Narcissists love to stare. It can mean a few things but just continue to ignore/avoid him as much as possible.
@darrylyusko8615
@darrylyusko8615 2 жыл бұрын
The early red flags I ignored were; how the children of the aging female narcissist looked at her & behaved around their narc-mother. No hugs, no kisses for grandchildren, no gifts, avoidant body-language, & basically; no compliments whatsoever… Another is “vanity” (over the top make up, hair coloring, fake eyelashes, & constantly commenting on other women’s make up, weight, and accused other women as being fake… ). Even commenting “my boobs are too perfect for this place…!” Not Normal right? Video?
@nryane
@nryane 2 жыл бұрын
After a few years, I would smile and say to the now-ex: “What do you want now?!” If I remember correctly, he seemed surprised, but didn’t get angry. That came later, after I had learned to “grey rock” him and NOT smile, not have ANY emotion. THEN he would walk away, sometimes muttering, sometimes stomping his feet like a little kid. One question that irritated me (and I hope it didn’t register on my face) was: “Do you like me?” This question came especially after he had been drinking wine, his preferred alcoholic drink. He was always smiling when he asked, kind of like when we were having fun in the “good old days” of love-bombing. Much like a playful kid which, in reality, he was - a kid, that is. (When I think of that, I wonder if he acted like that with his abusive mother, when he was little. She was a nasty woman to me. Since she seemed to hate men, I can imagine her poor boys longing to get her love and attention.) Thanks for this video, Clarice. Lots of good information. Blessings!
@laughingas8276
@laughingas8276 4 жыл бұрын
Demons in human form.
@sheilablanton4894
@sheilablanton4894 4 жыл бұрын
They are true users..
@therealsongstress
@therealsongstress 3 жыл бұрын
Yes he wanted me to praise a different outfit he was wearing …
@joeroberto5367
@joeroberto5367 4 жыл бұрын
Mine came like a friend to support me during a struggle with my marriage. Thank the God of my understanding that I put up the boundaries during the idealization phase. Now my wife, with all due respect, is no saint. But this person, Id be switching seats on the Titanic. I'd rather be with my true Self
@jayjay1443
@jayjay1443 3 жыл бұрын
Have you ever seen the so called self aware narcissist? 🤣🤣 Their channel is called mental healness. They claim they want to help other narcissists but it's like... He doesn't really care about anyone. He's enjoying the attention he is getting from posting his videos and people are commenting
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 3 жыл бұрын
Oh yes I have. I don't know why people keep giving these Narcs Narcissistic Supply. With Narcissists it is all about what they can get from you and more views mean more money. That is why they usually resort to publishing videos everyday so that they can make the most money they can. If you ever wonder if someone who talks about Narcissists is a Narcissist look at how often they publish videos.
@ChristinaFromYoutube
@ChristinaFromYoutube 2 жыл бұрын
The subscribers even say stuff like "you are so rare" "you are very special" I can see why they're repeatedly victimized as mean as it is to say. Im sure his wife loves the 100k women telling him he is special and has redeemed himself.
@n0426
@n0426 2 жыл бұрын
@@ChristinaFromKZbin lol
@lisarochwarg4707
@lisarochwarg4707 4 жыл бұрын
They could take all that energy they put into securing validation and use it to build a rocket ship in their back yard.
@carib_feet69
@carib_feet69 4 жыл бұрын
Heeeeehhhheeeeeyyyyy😜💫
@lisarochwarg4707
@lisarochwarg4707 3 жыл бұрын
@Mary Carroll That was my next thought
@barbaraannhenderson9049
@barbaraannhenderson9049 2 жыл бұрын
They should fly away and never return
@luked.4131
@luked.4131 3 жыл бұрын
We dont like to manipulate. I hate this shit. I'm tired of being fucked up. I just want to learn different.
@johnkalweit1778
@johnkalweit1778 4 жыл бұрын
Always great advice.
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!🤗
@juliepollard2649
@juliepollard2649 2 жыл бұрын
Omg that's exactly what she did when I first met her,I said I like your hair I used to have hair like you,I MENT LONG!,to me it was just a passing comment,I wondered why she is permanently tossing her around hair since,she's never done her hair since,she's done all the others too,no wonder she misses me I haven't spoke to her for over a year,it's killing her!
@holographicc6974
@holographicc6974 4 жыл бұрын
They need Magic bc they lost it
@SilentFigure1
@SilentFigure1 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Clarice. The Covid hoover with children is causing me to bend over backwards and not agitate a person who so desperate to oppose you and cause contention. I do not want her to take out anything on them and mention my name. 18 months parental alienation. Now crying she has no support?
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 4 жыл бұрын
It's a difficult situation to be in. Most likely she has been speaking negatively about you to the children. The audacity of this narc talking about no support after alienating you😣
@SilentFigure1
@SilentFigure1 4 жыл бұрын
@@ExposingtheNarcissist yes son in law explained I was talked about negatively. He could not understand after his parents never did that.
@ta6531
@ta6531 4 жыл бұрын
QUESTION? When ever i am with my adult son I feel like I am in jr high. Do I restate his comments back to him? I have stayed silent soooo long! He talks down to me all the time and I am not allowed to say how I feel or I will be cut off from my grandkids. He says things little snide things to hurt me deeply. Then he love bombs a week later. So very tired..
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 4 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't have to tolerate that disrespect. Narcs always use children as a weapon. You need to decide if it is worth it. Is there mother in the picture? Is there anyway she can mediate?
@ta6531
@ta6531 4 жыл бұрын
@@ExposingtheNarcissist Thank you... No way, she is never around at those times and he has already made it clear I am to not inform her of any areas of feelings.. Its so painful... Thank you though
@mariankeller5852
@mariankeller5852 2 жыл бұрын
Narcissists have an overwhelming insecurity over not feeling loved or valued as a child because of a critical overbearing parent ..this is not anyone's fault but the offending parent..Narcissists tend to take it out on everyone else..my son had a terrible relationship with his Dad..he asked me constantly why his Dad didn't love him....and I tried to reassure him it wasn't true.....after his Dad passed away he has transfered his resentment and anger onto me.... Lesson learned--- first learn to accept.. forgive.. love and trust yourself before you can love someone else..Narcissists have never learned that lesson...you can't make someone love you or want to be with you..you can't blame yourself for another's behavior..and if you don't love or trust yourself enough to seek help don't blame it on everyone around you..I love my son with all my heart but I cannot undo whats been done...and I can't go back and change what happened to his father through no fault of his own when he was a child..its horrible what some parent. do to their children... I not only lost my husband but also my son...
@Ednamaka
@Ednamaka 2 жыл бұрын
My stepson 32 years old and his very healthy big person close to 6 years he didn’t want to go to work he likes staying home and destroying the house lived dirty my husband supplied him food bills paying for everything if my husband said I’m tired son can you please find a job every time stepson said oh daddy I really appreciate what you doing I love you I’m stupid I don’t know how to get a job and cry he’s very sneaky and using his dad for his laziness I really appreciate you if you can do video about this
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 2 жыл бұрын
I did do a video on the issue of Narcissists being lazy. It also has a lot do with entitlement kzbin.info/www/bejne/joHLlZlvj7p3edk
@akstylez_ak5037
@akstylez_ak5037 3 жыл бұрын
Great video. It makes sense
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!💖
@terrihenry8219
@terrihenry8219 2 жыл бұрын
Please address on an upcoming video,my husband took and locked all of my dead parents keepsakes and put me to the street,and I found no relief in the court system. That was 1 year ago,I have not been able to get anything back,,does the narcissist feel any same? I would love some insight. Thank you for letting me post.
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 2 жыл бұрын
Narcissists have shame. What they do not feel is Guilt. kzbin.info/www/bejne/Zl6yaXZ9Z5VgnZI
@michelinelanglais8786
@michelinelanglais8786 4 жыл бұрын
soso true always needed to be complemented
@funlovinbloke6266
@funlovinbloke6266 4 жыл бұрын
Now afterwards I know better and I realize even more what a immature person my covert narcissist ex partner really is. For example. My ex has beautiful long hair but she also had her hair very short in the past. I know that because she is a colleague of mine and I saw that already when I had no relationship with her. During our relationship she asked me once what my thoughts were about a short haircut for example for her. I told her that I don't find that very attractive. She had long hair and that is what looked good on her. So what do you think that happened as I ended the relationship with her and I saw her again weeks later at work. Yes, she had a short haircut. Just to show me: "see what I did"! As if she wanted to punish me. I didn't respond to it. It only showed more and more what an immature person she was. As if you had to deal with a little child.
@concerned1
@concerned1 4 жыл бұрын
If that’s the worst your ‘narc’ did then I envy you.
@AEHudg
@AEHudg 4 жыл бұрын
So she did what SHE wanted to do regardless of your opinion and this hurt you? 🤔
@Tony-dh
@Tony-dh 4 жыл бұрын
Mine did similar, had long silky straight hair but curled it which i dont like, only because her new part in her triangle liked it. Makes her look fat.
@emiliagarza8198
@emiliagarza8198 4 жыл бұрын
I had a friend, well I thought she was a friend, she got upset because I made new friends and she only wanted us to hangout. Next thing I know she starts texting me things like " I'll only be ignored long enough, well you'll find out what happens" then she sends a friend request to the guy I was seeing, and blatantly admitted that she only did that because she knew it would bother me(she has never met him or know him) she pretty much ruined my relationship with him. Then she says " You hurt me I hurt you" I'm like how did I hurt you? Then she tells me I'm sorry you're hurting but I told you to let him go along time ago. I blocked her from everything social media, contacts, messaging. This lady is 60 years old and posted crap about me that of course wasn't true, then cries to a mutual friend that she wants me to call her. Ummm yeah NO!! come to find out she's not only a covert narc she wanted to make me her gf. I'm sorry, like I told her I don't get along with females I will kill a bitch, that's why God did not give me a sister. I can't stand females, they're not foul, plus I get bullied by them constantly. I went no contact. There is nothing she can say or do that will ever make me change my mind about being her friend again. She's Immature, a liar, and dramatic as hell. I Literally logged off of my social media.
@IsraelWillBeFree
@IsraelWillBeFree 2 жыл бұрын
Mine always fishes through proclaiming what a piece of shit he is as he puts it. Eventually I started responding, "well if the shoe fits!"
@Walsh25
@Walsh25 4 жыл бұрын
They are the snakiest PIS HAVE ever seen 😡🤮🤢
@therealsongstress
@therealsongstress 3 жыл бұрын
Yep that happened to me …
@marciathomas1625
@marciathomas1625 3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@lulu-qw8xy
@lulu-qw8xy 4 жыл бұрын
Very good, ty ♥
@rosettagilbert5604
@rosettagilbert5604 4 жыл бұрын
Think you SO much
@con1709
@con1709 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you x
@m.asammy3049
@m.asammy3049 3 жыл бұрын
My mother used a young woman's loss of HER mother to play on that woman's sympathies, so at her OWN mothers funeral she took the time to tell me that I shld be there for my mother who just wanted to terrorize, control and own me and my own family. I came close to making it a double funeral til I realized they're going in different directions😉, so that's God problem. But I was in awe at the lack of empathy it took to do such a thing.
@m.asammy3049
@m.asammy3049 3 жыл бұрын
Great video. More on point and detailed about their movement physically and mentally. 👍👍👍
@frankcrawford416
@frankcrawford416 3 жыл бұрын
When I was walking in the wilderness I had alot of What If Senarios. All this for my trust issues in God. Would he be able to save me if I was, or did xy and z. I seeked counsel alot from my wife, so yes I was like a narcissist. Slowly Jesus brought me out of the wilderness and I did not die in that desert. Luckily my wife would just say- Get Over It. I had to stand on what I approved and not on her approval. I guess my narc wife was being used to help me in this by God. I have had many ups and downs, but getting stronger in The Lord. And didn't Moses heart get tested in the desert and didn't Jesus have time before He started His ministry. Yes! Jesus preserved my life in the wilderness to go onto great things. Thank you Jesus. He can help you too and you will know it the more you trust that He will never leave you or forsake you. And 1000's of other verses written to you in the Bible.
@eduardmanecuta5350
@eduardmanecuta5350 2 жыл бұрын
So a lot of Instagram models?
@mattwertin
@mattwertin 2 жыл бұрын
oh my god, i was her councilor too
@MsPunk56
@MsPunk56 4 жыл бұрын
My narcissist husband is cheating but when he leaves the House he is unkempt and doesn’t groom himself he’s a tractor trailer Mechanic! What gives? Please!
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 4 жыл бұрын
The fact that he's someone else's man is a turn-on enough! Sad but true! And who knows what he's saying to her.
@therealsongstress
@therealsongstress 3 жыл бұрын
Damn every minute of the day ????
@christinehaigh9807
@christinehaigh9807 4 жыл бұрын
the cycles of abuse....Manipulator.
@syedasultana333
@syedasultana333 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly..
@rainbowneal4603
@rainbowneal4603 4 жыл бұрын
... very helpful videos !!! ... might u have anything on re-building one's abused & damaged self-concepts? ... l'm doing my self-care, healing work, but am new to your channel ... thanks, & may God bless u ... (-_'l
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you find my vids helpful.. Please check out my other channel re: healing and self-love after narc abuse kzbin.info/door/ruPG6tnLLqFC9M-FpY66IQ
@rainbowneal4603
@rainbowneal4603 4 жыл бұрын
@@ExposingtheNarcissist ... thank u ... will do !!! ... (-_'l
@excluisvestars
@excluisvestars 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an empath and my momma is. We don't HELP YOU
@MrHappyNappy
@MrHappyNappy 3 жыл бұрын
Charm is deceptive and beauty is vain. But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart. And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart. As a jewel of gold in a swine's snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion. But thou didst trust in thine own beauty, and playedst the harlot because of thy renown, and pouredst out thy fornications on every one that passed by; his it was. Though hand join in hand, the wicked shall not be unpunished: but the seed of the righteous shall be delivered.
@bonheik5134
@bonheik5134 4 жыл бұрын
How are you supposed to deal with someone like your mother who has all these problems and has managed tovsteal all your children and now us damaging them as you watch
@ExposingtheNarcissist
@ExposingtheNarcissist 4 жыл бұрын
We could only hope that your children come to see the truth. As for your mother don't let her get a reaction out of you. Try and be a light in the darkness.
@Pneumarose
@Pneumarose 4 жыл бұрын
You don't. No contact, period.
@anthonycastellano7555
@anthonycastellano7555 4 жыл бұрын
I. I. I. It is always I.
@patjones4250
@patjones4250 4 жыл бұрын
I,I, me,me, my. Yep!
@pennyrunning6140
@pennyrunning6140 4 жыл бұрын
There crazy😜
@yellowbird9132
@yellowbird9132 4 жыл бұрын
This is scary.
@TheIkranRider
@TheIkranRider 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone should avoid Fanfictiondreamer at all costs like the plague, as well as her flying monkeys too. She does get narcissistic supply mostly on Reddit as she actually gives advice whether right or wrong, or even being induced in conversations with her fandoms, or even her stories such as The Ultimate Story, The Ratchet and Kim Possible Chronicles and the Fayelons Story which the latter is a play on Mass Effect & magical girls!
@marcincalus1022
@marcincalus1022 4 жыл бұрын
Yes their coping mechnism is blame others its exactly eg shut them down right say to thems lets agree to disagree means fuck off in the nice way
@bip-someandnone8698
@bip-someandnone8698 4 жыл бұрын
👍
@Shanaevaz
@Shanaevaz 2 жыл бұрын
Um my own best friend I Just know I don't have a mom An she's a narcissistics An when she's nice she will be it's just a trap to dust me over again It makes no sense getting mad or anything Because as a narcissistics do they will always come bk When They are mean aka discard you They no longer need you until they do again then they are nice Smh So don't get upset try not too That just boost they ego and they genuinely don't care They only care about they needs not urs
@cyberborg4767
@cyberborg4767 3 жыл бұрын
Pulig Dubravko do this
@clarkkent3730
@clarkkent3730 4 жыл бұрын
"hello Clarice!".....dr. Hannibal Lecter
@aporue5893
@aporue5893 Жыл бұрын
lovebombing is so insidious.
@philiciaarnorld2240
@philiciaarnorld2240 Жыл бұрын
Ook
@13Babeloe
@13Babeloe 3 жыл бұрын
They noticed I cut my hair and they both commented on it. At a graduation really.
@aporue5893
@aporue5893 Жыл бұрын
they are a lie.
@gurglejug627
@gurglejug627 2 жыл бұрын
This could be any one of say 60% of women...
@dreadfohreality1331
@dreadfohreality1331 4 жыл бұрын
Why do people make so many videos about narcissists? If all they want is attention then just ignore them.Are you jealous of them thinking highly of themselves? The fact that you spend your time to make videos about them says a lot about you and nothing good. It's not the end of the world because someone over exaggerate how amazing they are. For God sakes get a life
@whatistruth1155
@whatistruth1155 3 жыл бұрын
You get a life and get off this post if you don’t like it bar!!!
@thinkerstvchannel
@thinkerstvchannel 3 жыл бұрын
This is a Narcissist…Clearly
@thinkerstvchannel
@thinkerstvchannel 3 жыл бұрын
Look at his Demonic UnGodlike Skull
@phoenixrising5088
@phoenixrising5088 3 жыл бұрын
This video is about Narsaccist supplies. I assume you are a narcissist and don't like what you're hearing about yourself? Once an Narc. Always a Narc. Adiós
@n0426
@n0426 2 жыл бұрын
@@thinkerstvchannel lol
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