Snog Marry Avoid Did NOT Age Well

Today we react to Snog Marry Avoid.. the british tv show in which contestants are judged on whether people would snog marry or avoid them..
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[@CamKirkham]

I can’t believe I used to watch this show as a kid.. wtf was this 😭

[@h.khxnaa]

used to watch this with my mam we were miniature pods 😂

[@Pastorisrealwalkgodspath]

Love your videos man they are brill plus your fit can't say I mind

[@michellemorningstar6610]

Aww baby emilyboo

[@K_MCreations]

The woman who hosts the show is the voice of pod btw

[@elenawilliams32]

Emily Boo still has a KZbin channel. She's a laugh, good value.

[@squeakatu1981]

What I found weird is the fact that the producers got grown men to decide if they'd snog or marry a 17 year old girl!!

[@Synnystershy]

FBI OPEN UP!!!

[@sophie.9317]

It’s a British show the age is 16 here not 18-19

[@seikoshinobaka9139]

@sophie.9317 and in some countries the age of consent is lower, it doesn’t make it less weird for grown men to be going after girls still in school

[@Saturnm0ss]

@@sophie.9317doesnt matter its gross and weird

[@ZeeA0705]

@@squeakatu1981it’s wrong for men to look at women as sex objects regardless of age I understand the concept that natural beauty is beautiful but this show in it self should have got axed and taken off air the reason being is because they have fully grown ass men rating women on looks

[@ajf9258]

She has a KZbin channel called Emily Boo and she’s such a sweet person in her videos, she talked about her episode a few times and I’d suggest people to give it a watch to understand what was happening outside of the show, happy watching everyone x

[@niamhjones3628]

The woman who described herself as ‘the queen of charity shops’ was a supply teacher at my school for a while - she showed us her episode in class once 😂

[@valalava1]

How did she look in class? Like what style did she have?

[@cass8277]

the sad thing about the goth couple was he was NOT a nice person, the girl has a video about her experience with him and the show and its awful for her

[@LaLaSimpkins]

I came to the comments to see if anyone brought this up!

[@cass8277]

@@LaLaSimpkins makes me so sad cos every snog marry avoid video i see shes in the thumbnail or atleast in the video

[@user-fu1vd7rd7c]

link?

[@cass8277]

@@user-fu1vd7rd7c kzbin.info/www/bejne/aarXZKGpprqYb5osi=Ndv_A4F_k-yeoGLY

[@lilyoliver174]

What’s the video called

[@markpavlidis6464]

Even if they looked bad before, the makeover they give them makes them look very old and weird and takes away their uniqueness

[@DanielNeale382]

It’s genuinely quite refreshing to hear you say and that they’re happy and confident and that why should they change if they’re happy? Another great vid Cam! Keep em coming 😎

[@ZeeA0705]

Having a make under there is nothing wrong with it natural beauty is better but like if there happy that way than yet let them be I think this show should have been axed cause they get fully grown men rating women

[@estqxlla]

this man’s mother raised him right.

[@JohnBait-eb6ki]

TRUE

[@Villeful]

It's really worth checking out the girl with all the piercings, Emily Boo - she has a YT. Her husband at the time, shown in the video, was abusive and manipulative as fuck. Thankfully she's now in a much better place in a much happier marriage, but her story is so sad.

[@katie_cant_compute]

2000s-2010s British TV was so judgemental for no reason🥲🥲

[@h.khxnaa]

cam defending the contestants against the public is sooooo funny and kinda wholesome love you cam ❤ hope you’re feeling better x

[@Art-st1yi]

I’d love a reboot of this show where the contestants WANT their style to be altered a bit, where the public opinions are honest but not rude asf, and where the “make under” stays true to their style, but with a few tweaks, instead of dressing them in a default outfit

[@chloewilson3655]

Only halfway through this video, but I remember watching this as a young woman when it was being aired on British TV and it seriously fed into the most distorted perception of myself and encouraged me to partake in destructive tendencies in order to attain the unattainable beauty standards set for women - ED's included. I can't begin to remark how damn refreshing it is to see someone like Cam feeling the same outrage watching this back as I do, especially in regards to the scathing comments made by male members of the public about the appearance of these already beautiful and oftentimes unique women, especially when they're no oil painting themselves and are likely commenting on a girl HALF THEIR AGE that they wouldn't even dare to approach even if it wasn't an arresting offence. Thank you, Cam, for the great content as always, and for highlighting this show as the toxic, patriarchal criticism of powerful, independent women that it always has been. I commented weeks ago about binging the channel whilst on bedrest when pregnant with my first child. Now, I am watching this with my newborn daughter, and I am happy that there are people in this world, men too, that see through this kind of misogynistic spiel. It makes me glad that my own daughter is growing up in a more evolved and morally advanced society where we can view this kind of content as being insidiously damaging to women whilst being portrayed as 'empowering'.

[@blurrberry7910]

One of the people on it there is emilyboo, as far as im aware she has talked about it. But its safe to say she like kept her sense of style. The outfits pod gave everybody were pretty hideous.

[@empettersson3140]

i dress emo/goth and ppl are so rude to me on the street it’s insane! i’m not even as “extreme” as the ones in the video but ppl yell at me, laugh take pictures of me and so on it’s scary and shocking. i get that ppl stare, i can live with that but random groups of men coming up and throwing insults at me when i’m alone bc of the way i dress and present myself is terrifying

[@desdemona6834]

I had a right reality check when I got with my partner a few months ago - I dress fairly alternatively but my partner stands out a LOT. Despite being just 20 they’re heavily tattooed, has large stretched jewellery including a big septum ring at 6mm, blue hair, and this plus being 6 foot 4 makes them a relatively intimidating looking person. Yet people still take the piss. Photos, jokes, following us, yelling at us, I’ve never seen anything like it towards myself, and if these skinny short men feel comfortable throwing insults at my partner who looks like they could easily beat them all up I fear what could happen to me if I looked that way too. Before we met they even said they’d been jumped before which made them tone it down which is terrifying to think about. It’s an unfair world out there man

[@jellycat3888]

The girl with all of the piercings actually has her own KZbin channel now and she is so sweet ❤

[@lilyoliver174]

I found it weird how they got public to say weather they would snog or marry a 17 year old

[@erinroselewis]

nah this show was mental and like 95% of the time they looked better before the ‘makeover’😭😭

[@CamKirkham]

AGREED

[@mikedaveggie9955]

Nah, only if you’re attracted to syphilitic drag queens.

[@sarahlund-nt3kw]

So true. ❤

[@CamKirkham]

What shows would you like to see me breakdown on the channel? Lmk below x

[@jellyfishl]

there's one where they have baggage and they have to choose a person based on their baggage, the person picking then gets their baggage aired at the end. Also the badness (?) of baggage gets bigger over time and it's usually pretty wild. I can't remember the name of the show but i think it was just called 'baggage' from MTV in the 2000s/2010s

[@epic_noodles]

in for a penny was abit mad

[@BoBnotThat1]

Little women of LA, or any little women on TLC

[@LaLaSimpkins]

So glad you asked! 😂 Man, there are so many things that I’d love to see your reactions on! 😂 Trading Spaces Changing Rooms What Not to Wear (UK) Wife Swap Pete’s PA (Pete Burns was TV gold) The Osbournes Toddlers & Tiaras Kitchen Nightmares Next Room Raiders (Or any dating show from MTV in the 2000’s lol)

[@pari3dixon]

benidorm plsss

[@leonmellor6056]

This and sun, sex and suspicious parents was prime bbc 3 😂

[@CamKirkham]

What an iconic show this was

[@leahcrowley1656]

Please do a video on sun, sex and suspicious parents!

[@bossedtheory]

Also Bizarre E.R and Coming of age

[@TaruOwO]

One of them just turned into a possessed 1600s milkmaid

[@ChampagneKanyon]

You complimenting donatella made me “awe” out loud okay no homo but it was not expected and I love that kind energy.

[@StrawberryCakeStudiosYT]

Same here, that compliment was so sweet, like men and women can be so harsh on women for aging.

[@futuristic.handgun]

Aw, love you so much Cam! You're such a sweet sweetie!! This is a great video and you're absolutely right. Everyone should dress how they want to dress and in whatever makes them feel comfortable in their own skin. Love yourself and know you're beautiful just the way you are. You shouldn't change unless you want to! 🥰

[@aliciapitt6391]

It’s actually extremely refreshing seeing a man voice this viewpoint 👏🏼 well done cam, you’ve done good

[@RJaybirdy]

This show would have been so much better if they just did a refined version of their actual style and didn't dress them all in the same bland clothes

[@ZabaTheFrog]

But this show encapsulated the way people felt about beauty at the time. Sadly, this was genuinely what was felt by most people. It's hard to understand. You have to have lived through it.

[@ZabaTheFrog]

I'm so so so glad things are changing ❤

[@abimangum]

Just another example of ‘people are happy- we must destroy that’

[@ryan10057]

i used to chill with a couple people with lots of piercings, the staring shit is very real lmao

[@Art-st1yi]

5:01 yes, I’m a UK college student and have a septum piercing and a nose stud. Some (not all) of the construction b-tech students are known for making fun of piercings and lgbt+ students. I’ve been called a bull whilst leaving the vape shop, shopping in primark, and whilst in greggs Most people are chill, but I’ve def had people glance at me a few too many times or make comments on the bus or walking down the street

[@rubesm_111]

the way they strip all the character from these people then make them look 20 years older is so strange 😭😭

[@katie_cant_compute]

I lesson I try to live by more recently is very applicable to this show. “Don’t make yourself so palatable that you lose your original flavour”

[@FuzzballSupreme]

I used to have *one* facial piercing, and received the same treatment from strangers that couple does.

[@Scarlett59319]

This video is proof not every guy is the same. Cam is such a nice person, and you can tell he’s not just saying this stuff, hes actually genuine, whereas every other guy would probably be saying negative things about the girls.

[@Summer21.]

Unfortunately, he said things about the guys and their opinions when there was nothing wrong with their appearances, which weren’t funny. It was just unnecessary. 😲 Some of the ladies didn’t need to wear as much makeup, nor any fake tan, nor as many accessories as they were genuinely natural beauties deep down. 😃

[@RacingAtHome]

The song playing under the Goth couple is Joy Division's Love will Tear Us Apart Again. Also known for Leeds are Falling Apart Again.

[@user-jy2sj4ed4i]

19:14 "not being loud" haha i feel called out

[@foxii542]

5:00 yes this absolutely happens, i don't have the piercings but i do have a similar dress sense - i catch groups of people giving me looks pretty much every time i go outside lmao, you can absolutely tell exactly who'll give you the looks and the laughs after a while, too

[@daisypearl8684]

Snog Marry Avoid was so wild! I used to watch it as as young teenager and I'm pretty sure it's partly responsible for me being a basic b that was too afraid to express myself and dress how I wanted. Luckily I have recovered from basic b syndrome and wear what I want

[@willowmoon3461]

“The Wolf of Wigan” sent me over 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@liliththeblack]

The girl with all the piercings is Emily Boo she is so amazing and kind And yes if you wear stuff like Emily and have loads of piercings you do get those sorts of stares etc I've been beaten up before just for my outfit and piercings 😢

[@sarahlund-nt3kw]

I know. I always see people staring at goths, as if they're from another planet.

[@bdmango764]

I love when Cam gets slightly irate, his voice turns into Sarah Millican's

[@caitlanwalton5195]

This is the nicest and fairest reaction to the show ❤

[@98Brave]

Cam that jumper looks so comfortable

[@jjjones7982]

Horrifying

[@spookyboironnie]

As an incredibly alternative person, those descriptions of what happens is absolutely accurate. I get people gasping at me, laughing in my face, shielding their kids eyes, stuff chucked at me, barked at, called slurs, yelled insults, have people say "what the f". I could go on. We get treated like shi by more people than you'd think

[@desdemona6834]

I had a right reality check when I got with my partner a few months ago - I dress fairly alternatively but my partner stands out a LOT. Despite being just 20 they’re heavily tattooed, has large stretched jewellery including a big septum ring at 6mm, blue hair, and this plus being 6 foot 4 makes them a relatively intimidating looking person. Yet people still take the piss. Photos, jokes, following us, yelling at us, I’ve never seen anything like it towards myself, and if these skinny short men feel comfortable throwing insults at my partner who looks like they could easily beat them all up I fear what could happen to me if I looked that way too. Before we met they even said they’d been jumped before which made them tone it down which is terrifying to think about. It’s an unfair world out there man

[@spookyboironnie]

@@desdemona6834 yeah it honestly sucks and you never know the extent until you experience it firsthand, I had no idea how terribly I'd be treated but my experiences aren't comparable to the experiences of others who are very different.

[@blackened_ashes]

As someone with a decent amount of piercings and an alternative look similar to the gothic couple. Yes, people absolutely stare at you. I also think I haven't had a single time where I left my home without some child calling me nasty names for how I dress. Some people give really positive reactions though- Those stick with me way longer!

[@DaniCal1forn1a]

I don't have all my piercings in anymore - even though I realistically haven't had loads (nerve pain & sensory issues meant I took quite a few out bc my body suddenly decided it couldn't stand certain ones anymore, even though they'd healed & I'd stopped noticing them 🙃. Been slowly getting more again/tapering old ones now I've got more of a handle on that 😅)... But people would stare at my vertical labret and my septum in particular 😳. I tend to wear gold & opal/clear gem jewellery bc I like it and it suits my skin tone so it wasn't as easily noticed on me as silver, but I would still notice people staring at times, and some even telling me I'd "ruined my face" 💀. Its like... did I ask for your opinion??? 🤔 my last piercing was my other nostril and now I'm wanting to add some more to get a constellation type thing going on (space permitting 😅) - and with every piercing certain people notice it's the same damn thing about putting holes in my face & ruining it... at this point I just tell them I've never truly regretted a piercing, even the ones I've taken out and have "holes" leftover, besides which, it's _my_ face to ruin if they think that way 🤷🏼‍♀️. Same with my gauged ears... even though I only got to 5mm before I lost the jewellery (going to get back on it and get up to 10mm ish though soon) - despite the fact that I literally can't wear normal earrings 99% of the time, let alone my beloved witchy dangling ones - which are only possible for me to wear through tunnels 🙄. My aesthetic isn't really like the gothic couple, but it's definitely more alt/gothic leaning in some ways, I love all black outfits as much as I love my brightly coloured and patterned stuff, and I always try have flame coloured hair... I just don't feel myself in loads of makeup nowadays and need to be comfy & not feel too heavy... I guess my style is post‐emo/scene kid who grew up to become outdoorsy & fell in love with warm tones 🤣. Either way, I only ever take a proper look at someone with your style because I'm admiring the body mods & outfit... but I reckon the double nostril piercings, orange hair, and bit of spooky/edginess tip you off to us being kindred spirits haha 😅

[@RepulsiveArtichoke]

What’s the worst thing about this show is the goth girl on the show it said she was 18 and she made a video on KZbin a while ago saying she was actually 15/16 and the guy she was dating (possibly married to I can’t remember) was like 30

[@Laurawr1989]

Your eyes look like they've got piles 😂😂 and that dad was definitely creepy! 😂😂

[@jaskper]

I can tell im tired cause when i saw the CB on your shirt i genuinely for a moment thought it stood for "Cam Blirkham" 💀💀

[@ishirutaekakura308]

When I was younger, I was goth and had lot of piercings and crazy hair and all that, I got stared at a lot even made fun of, it didn't bother me though, clearly it bother those who made it a big issue 😂

[@LaLaSimpkins]

16:39 this one always throws me off a bit because “homely” means “unattractive in appearance” in the US lol.

[@BoBnotThat1]

The thing is you're looking at this with 2023 eyes, not 2008 times when WAGS, spray on tan was a big thing. I remember this when it was on. Can't really say more than that. 🤫🙄🤭😎🤯

[@kinggeorgeiii4977]

Spray on tan is horrendous 😭

[@ishirutaekakura308]

I personally think if they're not hurting anyone, it really shouldn't matter, but if it's something like they do to feel the need to impress people? I can understand the make under, although my best advice would be to not try to impress anyone, they should value themselves and their happiness and if that involves either dressing differently, who cares! It's what makes them happy.

[@SoSewCheeky]

You’re so witty and enjoyable!😘

[@veeandness]

The producers DEFINITELY cherrypicked the answers from the public for the show

[@drwfigureadventures]

A woman: Feels confident, likes to try and look good. Men: Oh she’s totally up herself, so vain. We need to do better man…

[@TheDoctorDavey]

As a guy who was 18 when this was on (i know im old) a lot of these girls styles were common, the fake tan, the suped up glamour. However i agree with just dress how you're comfortable

[@dianescott3766]

This voice of Pod was Rosie Bray. She was a producer. Quick Google brings up lots of pics of her!

[@moss1765]

As someone with a face full of piercings, I can tell you that almost every single person you walk past will laugh, or make some sort of degrading comment- To be fair though, since I have been working in retail and people have to have a conversation with me before judging me straight off the bat, most will tell me that I have got a really friendly face, or a lot are "fascinated" which can be a bit uncomforting but I can appreciate that people aren't used to seeing it. On the contrary, I have had all sorts of rubbish hurled at me just when I'm walking to the shop or work, this could be anything from plastic bottles, to the chicken bones people have finished eating- Adults and children can either be as evil or as lovely as the other and there isn't really any in-between. I'm kind of very much over it all now, and I'm so used to it that I mostly just laugh in response to the childish behaviour as there's nothing I can do about someone's entitled opinions. And I also just wanted to say a BIG THANK YOU Cam, because I think we need more people with such a normalised view on being unique or different to typical "societal norms". Great video, keep up the beautiful work. :)

[@desdemona6834]

I had a right reality check when I got with my partner a few months ago - I dress fairly alternatively but my partner stands out a LOT. Despite being just 20 they’re heavily tattooed, has large stretched jewellery including a big septum ring at 6mm, blue hair, and this plus being 6 foot 4 makes them a relatively intimidating looking person. Yet people still take the piss. Photos, jokes, following us, yelling at us, I’ve never seen anything like it towards myself, and if these skinny short men feel comfortable throwing insults at my partner who looks like they could easily beat them all up I fear what could happen to me if I looked that way too. Before we met they even said they’d been jumped before which made them tone it down which is terrifying to think about, and it’s so sad how when it happens they just shrug it off because it’s so common. It’s an unfair world out there man

[@deannarugless8169]

Cam, nobody eats bran flakes 🤣🤣

[@ZabaTheFrog]

Genuinely, thank you for this video, rhis is really wholesome and lovely. This is actual female empowerment ❤

[@doveydoos]

i'm absolutely proud of Cam for encouraging the unique and expressive styles of these women; take notes lads!

[@schneewittchen9000]

I love you cam, you're so wholesome 😂❤

[@Devious_29636]

Best KZbinr ever ngl

[@CamKirkham]

Too kind

[@Devious_29636]

@@CamKirkham It’s true tho

[@mikedaveggie9955]

@@CamKirkhamon par with Alex possibly………..😉

[@user-jy2sj4ed4i]

19:48 "i really don't like your hairy head" where does she want the hair to be? And Alice Cooper is 🐐

[@alannah1356]

Love you for this. So much respect

[@isabellarevilo5068]

One of my stepmams close friends went on this and he says it's one of his biggest regrets. It's Olivia Dean if anyone's wanting to watch it.

[@boronda420-7]

Hahahahaa they give the metal detector a heart attack😂😂😂😂😂

[@adameagleton5717]

Need more beatboxing spiderman around here

[@Willowcollectstcgs]

First video ive seen of yours and im crying laughing 😂😂😂 cant believe i used to watch this

[@cathunter3874]

Really interesting looking at your perception of this show. For those that dont know, this was aired at around the time the pubs were emptying, so you were supposed to be drunk and just in from a night out when watching it. The idea was not to 'correct' interesting looking people or tell them to care what other people thought, it was all about first impressions because people used to go out a lot more back then. They revisited quite a few of them to see what they chose to do long term, and very few chose to stay ordinary for any length of time. It is hard to understand post social media that people used to directly interact a lot more than they do now, and they cared a lot less about other people's opinions.

[@pamboe2004]

Yo hi cam love the vid, you made a great clothing advertisement because my friend now bought the jumper as it’s just a whole comfy vibe in it’s self thanks my dude.

[@taliats]

That goth couple When I see people like that, I am usually taken aback but then I just get on with my day, they are usually not bothering anyone.

[@jessicawhinn2717]

I only have both nostrils pierced and my septum, and I do get stared at but what I think is worse is when I get barked at….literally barked at by people 😂

[@localloserjanna]

Oh my god, same! I got my nose pierced and some teenagers barked at me like???

[@jacksonstockbridge8920]

Love your take on this show. Here’s hoping the people who took part watch this video!

[@AsylumsDarkPresence]

As a goth with many piercings, I used to experience a lot of verbal abuse and stares from others. However, I realized that it was more about body language. When I stopped slouching, started walking with my head up, a smile on my face, and greeted other people, even if they didn't greet me first, I found that people were more open to talking. I received fewer random verbal abuses and instead heard people say things like "I like goth, it's cool" and received compliments on my piercings. It's all about body language. When you present yourself as unapproachable, you invite negativity, but when you give off an approachable energy, people seem to be fine with you.

[@dazmiller88]

You're missing the point that they all claimed to be lonely and nobody took them seriously. So confidence was nothing more than a shield against the world

[@LoreleiCatherine]

“Does this actually happen?” Yes, yes it does lol 😂😂😂😂and I only have 5 facial piercings lol

[@smoodius3600]

i used to have 25 piercings on my face and the amount of abuse i’d get at work and walking through the street was ridiculous. not from teenagers or kids, from full grown adults. i worked in a bowling centre and a family came in and the dad told me to 💀, because of the way i looked, he was with his wife and kids!

[@bojandimitrieskimilenkovic9226]

Ah...that was really refreshing mate, I was in a bad mood before watching this but now it's fine. 👋

[@Undertheshark]

I don't even have that many piercings and people still look at me weirdly

[@skylarkwhy]

Love this video and love ur takes sm, so so refreshing! in response to u asking about the goths and do people actually stare? yes. they absolutely do. my mum is a goth with some facial peircings and the amount of comments and judgemental looks she gets is wild. when i was like 10 we were out and someone shouted at her "its not Halloween yet!". she was Christmas shopping one year and as she was at the till waiting with a full trolley, the women in front of her hid their bags as if to insinuate that my mum would rob them. when i was very little she even had the social work called on her because people thought her being goth was mentally damaging to me (7 at the time) and my brother (15 at the time). So again, thank you cam for being so kind in this video. Legitamatly, if someones look doesn't actually affect you, why do u care? Another banger cam k vid 😎

[@gothixhex2275]

as someone who’s goth and has piercings, people absolutely do stare, people bark, yell and walk across the road

[@ianmeredith7969]

You are funny! Subscribed. Gotta say though, I was addicted to that show and the specific example you chose was Soooooo not the typical! I like people that raise some conservative eyebrows but most on this show were serious fashion car crashes. Total wtfs!

[@emziilouuu]

Every video I watch of yours increases my respect for you. You are absolutely spot on in everything you said!! You also make a valid point, our generation had this influencing us, so is it any wonder there's so many issues with confidence, own appearance etc. I hope they never make a show like this again!!!

[@Elliiotot]

Another banger video cam keep em coming

[@Offbeige]

Lol ah you sound like Victoria wood and it makes me so happy 😂

[@fallen6745]

Another banger Cam 🙌

[@ughmoo_]

i cant believe more people haven't made videos about this, i think about it all the time

[@brittlebonez666]

That thumbnail is quite uncalled for tbh

[@allkindsofgroove]

The third girl looks like she's a huge Cindy Lauper's fan lol

[@StRaWbErRiEs213]

This is so funny I use to love this show as a kid 😂

[@lucymay446]

I forget how brutal 2000s uk TV was lmao

[@CatBrash]

I love this show, i wish they would bring it back with POD

[@Summer21.]

I love this show as well as wishing they could bring it back. 😃😊

[@Poultry_ma]

Dude cams sweater game is next level

[@kaunisnauris]

21:21 Y’ALL THINK ABOUT IT… isn’t it a LOT more creepy for someone trying to imagine what a woman looks like from an area she’s purposefully covered, versus looking/thinking about what she’s WILLINGLY showing..???? The difference between these two is literally consent n being comfortable or not comfortable with something, omg i cannot-

[@aliciapitt6391]

Don’t I was 6-10 when this show aired but bbc three was always on at my house. Reruns continued playing well into my teens too and it gave me such an unhealthy view on appearances if that’s the right way to word it. I like blending in cause that’s better then being told I’m ‘scruffy’ or like I’m a drag queen 😅

[@Synnystershy]

1:49 Kickstarter to help Cam feed his dog.

[@katymbeke8400]

I remember watching the show as a kid, and there were times I would be so confused when the men said they would avoid certain girls. I get that their makeup and style is a bit out there, but they don't look bad or anything. They would at least snog, I'm sure of it.

[@renesmecullen212]

“she looks like she’s fallen through a children’s fancy dress shop” That’s just proof that she’s wearing things that make her happy, instead of dressing to fulfill these random men’s fantasies. I like to dress like a doll too when I have the energy, it’s so fun

[@bigdonza08]

You guys should watch the circle next

[@MsHoneyBBQ]

man.. this is SUCH a deep topic... but i largely agree with what you've said about this british tv show. I'm glad that we are increasingly living in times where people are feeling more and more capable of expressing their uniqueness thru their fashion regardless of what other people say. I personally love seeing all the different ways that people express themselves thru fashion, etc., even when it's something i wouldn't wear myself. But I am always curious about the mental states that create some people's fashion statements. sometimes, people dress certain ways because they feel unworthy or inadequate in some way, and this is the thing that i hope we get better at acknowledging as a species. Wear what you want becuase it's fun and let's you express yourself, but maybe also consider WHY you want to wear certain things. if you find that your fashion is an overcompensation of an aspect of your life where you feel deficient.. maybe that's a place that you can work on things for urself. we are ALL worthy and deserving of all the things we want in Life. Including Love and Acceptance. Anyway, just my two cents. thank you for this video. Sending 💖

[@ZabaTheFrog]

Yes.. what you said is true.. But I think generally if someone just looks at something and thinks "that looks nice" that's their gut decision And who is the best judge of that? Apart from the individual themselves!

[@Wheely1200]

Hi cam I just found you on KZbin and your my favourite KZbinr btw who is Chloe