So you want a Cockatoo???

[@MelissaWalker82]

Thank you for giving turkey a good home even though he is a bit difficult ❤️

[@CockatooG2]

He will always have a great home with me and he is very well taken care of 😄 he also loves the camera and is a ham!!! Lol seriously it's a huge commitment and changes your life!

[@donaldchase6163]

I agree with you that parrot ownership is not for everyone. My wife and I have been raising parrots for 40 years. Our current bird is an Umbrella Cockatoo named Angel who we got at about 6 month old and has been with us 24 years. Yes parrots can bite. That is why it is important to learn how to understand what your bird is telling you through their body language and vocalizing. All animals communicate this way and if you don't learn these communications, things can go bad between you and your animal. Especially if the animal is capable of inflicting serious harm to you, which many of them can, dogs and cats included. Because birds are much smarter than a cat or dog, they are a much more complex creature, much more like us humans. And as a result we can do things to cause them to become agitated or angry or sexually exited that will cause this biting behavior which is perfectly normal behavior for them. The answer is to learn as much as you can about parrot behavior and to pay attention to them all the time and learn what it is they are trying to tell you. Also because of their high level of intelligence, it is possible to teach them that certain behavior is not acceptable. We have completely broken Angel of his biting and the only time he is a danger is if someone becomes a threat to one of us, which he makes very clear by doing a full flair and hissing like a snake. That makes anyone even thinking of harm, back off immediately. Did I mention that Cockatoos make good watch dogs?

[@CassieSmart365]

Donald Chase ur comment is right on!

[@a1959girl]

How did you potty train your bird. I am home all the time. So I would have the time with the bird. I have watched show on working with the cockatoo. You are not suppose to rub lunar their wings. Only suppose to rub the head. If not then they become sexually interested. I know that you have to be real careful about how you rub them. I think that they are beautiful. I have cats, they kill birds. I'm not sure how they would repack with a bird I the house. My black is very jelious of the other 2. She grew up around them. I am with them all the time. You are right about them. They can be very dangerous . My black cats name is Babies. She is beautiful and shinny. She cleans her self all the time. She loves me so much, but she will also hurt me. Somatic as I think that I have her in a place to where she will not hurt me. She got me over the weekend, but this is the only time that the didn't have her claws out. I use a bottle of water to spray them with if they are doing something that they are not suppose to do, then they get sprayed with a bad kitty bottle. It's just water. I have spent a lot of time drawing my 3 cats. They are not allowed on anythi ng I. The kitchen. Not the tv either, or the computer. Or the printer. You would not believe how good that they are on not getting on these items. I keep a blanket down for them on the furniture. You can train any animal I thi k. Like you said it takes a lot of time, and k ow the doos and don't helps a lot. Like I said Babies is so jelious over Spaz and Nipper. Nippers is her mother. And Spaz is the alpha. He lets both girls know. I take them to the vet. They go out in the daytime. And they have rules. They have to come in at night. I do not feed them outside. We have a huge yard and I walk them. There is a big space that is on a bit of an incline. They enjoy their walks. In the mean ti e they are looking all around, just lookingfor snakes or anythi g that might harm me. They take care of the hand that feeds them. I have never had a bird, but I do watch a lot of videos on the and their behavior. I think that being with more than one owner can make it hard on them. I think that if you get a bird when they are little, then it might be easier to train them. I might be wrong. Someone had your bird before you, and it is possible le that they didn't know how to train them. I was watching a video on train I g them right in the beginning will help them not to be mean. There is one on you tube name pebbles. She swares real bad. This happened with the first teenager who she was around. She thought her to do it. She has had 10 owners before she ended up where she is. Tho it is by my to listen to her, the fact is that she does this, and might always do it. Thanks for reading my message. I hope that your bird does better for you.

[@thelob5429]

a1959girl ok

[@terielynne9331]

I've always said my cockatoo makes an excellent security their beak pressure is 225 Lbs. You get a cockatoo as a baby that's wonderful but like myself I rescued mine and I have heard she's had four or five homes before mine. My cockatoo can talk quite a bit and she lets me know often that she wants to fly. and as I've always said if I thought she could survive I would let her go today but I know she probably can't because she trusts his people and she trusts his animals and she's not used to looking for food. I know a couple people that have cockatoos and keep them caged at all times they have to be in front of a window they need sunlight. Plus keeping a bird caged at all times is really horrible. But if they're out you got to watch them like a 2-year-old child because they will eat all the wood in your home. I've had my bird almost 6 years I'd say for anyone who wants to buy or rescue a bird I would not take a cockatoo unless you've owned a cockatoo prior.

[@benjaminthebestbird]

@@a1959girl One thing to note about potty training - whatever spots are chosen as "acceptable" for droppings, are spots they must have access to all the time. Birds have digestive systems designed for frequent elimination to keep them as light as possible, as required for flight. If they are unable to defecate, they can wind up with a ruptured colon. Just something to note in training. 🙂

[@bmst6162]

Thank you for caring for Turkey for all these years and never give up on him. I have had cockatoos for 20 years and everything you say is absolutely true.

[@CockatooG2]

Awesome! Your Cockatoo is very lucky to. So many get rehomed over and over. Thank you so much for your comment! 😀

[@LindaSelle]

@@CockatooG2 They are truly like our children, except they never grow up. We have to love them just as they are and accept their idiosyncratic nature.

[@CockatooG2]

@@LindaSelleyes we do. Perfectly said.

[@bmst6162]

Thank you for being so honest. I’ve had birds for almost 20 years. They are all rescues from a sanctuary. The two cockatoo girls have been with me for 10 years. Everything you have said is completely true and I appreciate that you giving people an honest account of what it’s really like to care for and live with a cockatoo. They are not meant to be in captivity most definitely. I spend much effort trying to keep them happy and entertained. Its just never enough. There is no cage big enough. But like you I will never abandon them. They simply have nowhere else to go. I love them to pieces though. 🥰

[@CockatooG2]

So nice to hear a like hearted comment! I try my best and as rotten as he can be I love him just as much! Couldn't imagine giving him up. I think people need to know it's not all sweet cuddles and I wish they would stop importing birds

[@KenDelloSandro7565]

I have a Goffins Cockatoo for over 20yrs now. I've had him since he hatched . It is a lot of work. He stopped biting when he was about 3-4 yrs old. He's the best bird and just wants to play and be loved. I'm glad turkey has a great home,he deserves it. Keep up the good work, from one Goffin lover to another.

[@srwajaaf817]

i own a goffin cockatoo to she the most loving animal ever but I have only owned her for 1 year I brought him when he was 4 moths old

[@karenpaxton]

I wish everyone wanting a bird would hear this. It is true, they should be able to fly free, forage, chew, mate.

[@AnnSwanson-xu6wd]

F.Y.I. They do, & they are in their Native country of Molucca, & other various parts of the world. They were put on thus Earth, for us/anyone/everyone who wants to have them as a pet, that can afford them, first of all. . . & also their $800.00 plus cage, also all the toys they need, & (*all the attention, they require, to *stay healthy. From what l have heard, on different Cockatoo owners channels. They do require a l o t, of attention, regardless, of what species you buy. ((Just some friendly advice, not my opinion.)) Thanks so much, for sharing this w/us

[@CockatooG2]

@@AnnSwanson-xu6wd thank you for the comment. Yes, very expensive. Turkey ate thru another perch yesterday which is about $25 or more! Yes, they require a lot of attention and I find it sad they can be wild caught. 😀

[@Theicetundra7854]

@cockatooG2 Wild caught?!! That’s terrible 😮😢

[@SoniaBerger-o3x]

Turkey is very lucky to have you, many people would have given him up. They are very demanding.I have lots of respect for all the owners who have rescued Birds and have gone on and forged a relationship with them and hung on in there. As much as I would love to have such a bird I couldn't take him on board and do him justice - I will stay a bid admirere here on KZbin. Good luck and God bless all the owners who do such a good job with these wonderful Birds❤❤❤❤

[@CockatooG2]

Thank you so much! They take a lot of devotion and you are so wise to just watch, my life revolves around him and there is a lot of ups and downs 😀 I appreciate such kind words and your appreciation of these birds 😃😊 they have no choice in the direction their lives take.

[@SoniaBerger-o3x]

@@CockatooG2 Take care and good luck!!🤗❤️

[@SoniaBerger-o3x]

Hi there!! It's a year ago thatI saw this clip about Turkey and I just wanted to ask and see how you are getting on ? How are things going 1 year later?.I hope things are good. Have a lovely day ❤❤❤😊

[@CockatooG2]

@SoniaBerger-o3x we are good. As he ages he is more stubborn and nippy. He is with me to the end but I still advocate for birds to be wild. If you get a bird I believe it should be from a rescue. I still have the same beliefs. Overall Turkey is happy and way too spoiled. Hope all is well with you and thanks for checking on us 😊

[@michellekurtiscole9407]

I’m so glad you did this video. So many people see the cute, fun videos but don’t realize that’s not the whole picture. I can’t tell you how many people relinquish their birds and how long the waiting list is at the sanctuaries. If someone does want a bird, adopt don’t shop and be prepared for a huge life change.

[@CockatooG2]

Thank you and yes yes yes! I am Turkeys third owner and it has not been an easy road! I feel very sorry for him now. He has missed out on a whole lifetime of natural habits. I was ignorant at the time and thought it was a great life in captivity they didn't have to worry about foraging etc! Birds in captivity I believe is so wrong!

[@bondoson88]

I know exactly how you feel. I have an umbrella cockatoo named Stanley. I've had him over 20 years. Stanley is so cute and he's funny but he is a PIA. He is so demanding and requires so much attention. And he will be sweet one second then he try to bite you. And a cockatoo's bite is a 3 point bite, he recently bit me on my cuticle on my thumb and I lost my nail. You would think that it gets easier to take care of him but it actually is getting harder. I also have to watch out for others around him, the noise he makes, the chewing ,etc..If I had it to do over again I wouldn't have not got him for a pet and at the same time the thought of giving him up makes me cry. If I had a wish for Stanley, I'd wish he was back in the jungle, in the trees, flying around with all his buddies , having a girlfriend and being loud and vocalizing and just being a cockatoo like he was meant to be.

[@CockatooG2]

Gail Adams My sentiments exactly! I just wish more people knew how it really was, I feel really bad for these birds. Sorry about your nail. I have had lots of really nasty bites to 😬 Stanley is very lucky to have you, Cockatiels have the highest rate of loosing their homes!

[@stevielloyd6519]

Oh Gail, you are mirror imaging my time with my goffin cockatoo Monty. We got him from a rescue in 2000, love him to bits but my goodness what a trip. Monty is 28 years old and I swear his behaviour is getting worse, if I could guarantee it would work I would invest in a behaviourist to see why he is attacking visitors, our other rescue parrot and all round behaving badly. Moral of the story should be let them have their lives as they should have flying free. Stop paying vast amounts of money to rob these animals of their natural lives and coo over them in their gilded cages.

[@deannaporter783]

Gail Adams• beautifully said... although owning a bird can be fun and rewarding it is unnatural..and at times very dangerous, those beaks are strong! So many variables to consider it would make the most seasoned bird owners head spin. This post will help people make good and better choices when it comes to owning Cockatoos...as well as the comments below. Cheers!

[@Zipmegolden]

Thanks for telling it like it is. Birds are cute, yes, but loads of work, patience, and time with them are needed. Dogs and cats love to have your attention, but, parrots demand it! There's a big difference.

[@CockatooG2]

Yes Yes and Yes!!! Thank you!

[@JawadKhan-dn8ip]

Not really lol

[@LindaSelle]

I know what you mean, I could never give mine up either. She is so easy to care for now, guess I trained her well, I’m her only owner since she was 8 months old.

[@CockatooG2]

You are very lucky. Your bird sounds very sweet. I love Turkey no matter what.

[@audedelilaland7591]

wow 40 congrats!! he seems in pretty good health !! i have adopted a severus macaw she is 16 month and i'm agree with you parrots are very demanding and people should'nt adopt them whitout reflexion

[@annathomson3072]

i live with the same bird for 25 years: goffin cockatoo. i feel your pain. I've been bitten many times: don't let it near your face. My wife found him in the street and took him in thirty years ago. NOBODY can live with this animal and that's how he ended up with me when my wife split(something I've got in common with the bird). These animals should stay in the wild: they are not domesticatable. It's sad to see him in a cage but he couldn't survive outside. I let him out sometimes but i'm very careful. When you see him do all that funny stuff they do, all that singing and dancing shit? It dosn't mean thery're happy: it means they're stressed. STOP THE TRAFFIC OF EXOTIC ANIMALS: BUY A GUITAR OR LEARN TO PAINT OR GET INTO POLITICS: ANYTHING BUT THAT!

[@CockatooG2]

Thank you!!! Yes only someone that lives with one truly knows how it is. It is very sad to see birds captive. Your bird is very lucky to have you, there a lot in captivity that go home to home and are abused.

[@randyjohnson7734]

great to hear honesty. and to see humanity i know once they been in a home you cant just release them they wont make it. but if there wasnt a market people would stop taking them out of thje wild...buy a guitar or do crochet or whatever youre right

[@CockatooG2]

@@randyjohnson7734 Thank you Randy! That's why I made this video. When I got Turkey none of these things ever crossed my mind. 😁

[@stevielloyd6519]

Totally and utterly agree with you, we have 2 rescues birds, goffin cockatoo and blue crown conure, cannot be let out together because the cockatoo tries to kill the conure. The screeching from them has become relentless but we will not offload them because they have been thrown away so many times, we are the cockatoos 5th rehome and the conures 3rd. I so wish people would rescue and not pay breeders and pet shops outrageous sums of money and then offload to a rescue or worse open cage door and let free.

[@CockatooG2]

@@stevielloyd6519 Amen and thank u. I totally understand you!! And yes buy from rescues!!!! Stop the importing and breeding.

[@marilynbergemann6808]

I think that before anyone gets a bird, they should watch Mr.Max TV. Dan can tell you all about his cockatoo, Max.🙂🕊

[@lucythecat529]

Wow, I never knew they could live so long. I don't have plans for a bird. I have 2 cats. We feed the wild birds and enjoy seeing them in our yard.

[@CockatooG2]

Lucythecat That's great that you feed the wild birds! I feed Hummingbirds! Yes, Turkey is pretty much a life long pet!🦃

[@oliviabranch7907]

MouseLilly Orchids I saw another video that said that one of the main reasons for aggression in birds is allowing them to sit on your shoulders or head, or even having their perch on the same level as your shoulders. He's not recognizing your authority, be it with attacking you and your hubby or on the pups, which he knows you hate. They say you have to reclaim your authority by consistently keeping him lower than your shoulders. I hope that this helps.

[@Brownycat]

Olivia, that's not true actually. Yes, if they are on your shoulder accidents can happen but normally it doesn't change how they act towards you. Birds like to be high up if they don't know you yet and you aren't bonded since normally it's saver for them to be higher up.

[@rocker-barrel4786]

Thats what i do feed the wild ones in my garden.

[@modexx6295]

So true... I have one Ducorps` cockattoo for a 18 month. He is 31 years jung and he ist kompleately destroyed... physically and mentally...He was very scared of everything and everybody. He doesn't accept any other Cockatoos... 18 month and many working hours later, we made him to a happyer bird. He is feed tame, he ist still bald, but he is not so scared anymore. Now he plays sometimes and makes nonsence, but he ist not typical cockatoo. I love him 😘 And I will never give him away. So, birds are not toys! They are personalities with character and feelings -think for a thousand times before you get one ;)

[@jackiebinkley4391]

This is such a smart video and if people would give more thought to any pet they get there would be a lot less in the shelters. Well taken care of pets live a long time and require a great deal of committment.

[@CockatooG2]

Jackie Binkley Very well said! There is a lot to it and people don't know to much about birds. Cockatoos are one of the most given up birds! They are extremely smart and needy. I have helped a few people to make the right decision in the past and I really want to open people's eyes up. Wish that everyone thought like you did!

[@vanessamorgan3939]

Thank you for your honesty. That's exactly what I was looking for.

[@catherinedoyle1194]

Thank you for expecting to me,how it really is,with living with these birds! Your video so far is the most interesting and the best one I have seen on youtube so far. Thank you for being really honest about life with these birds, thanks

[@CockatooG2]

Thank you. I wish more people would post the reality!

[@SoniaBerger-o3x]

Hi Pam, I'm glad you are all good! . Yes I guess with age, just like us humans, animals and birds get set in there ways and we/they get a little more agitated... Turkey is so lucky to have you!! You are a kind and caring person who accepts and accommodates Turkey for how and who he is ❤. I quite agree, its always best to adopt than to buy. There are so many birds and pets looking for a good home, it is not necessary to buy and encourage a breeding market to spread. Keep up your good work - I know you will !!! and I wish you, your family and Turkey a lovely, festive time. Take care dear Pam ❤❤

[@peteyleewheatstraw6093]

I wanted a Cockatoo but videos like this have helped me decide I don't want that kind of commitment. I had already heard they were a job in itself. Thank you for this video...many people need to watch this to help them in their decision process. I will stick to small dogs that don't need constant attention.

[@blessamerica6315]

I was thinking of getting an umbrella cockatoo. Thanks for your honest account!

[@CockatooG2]

Your welcome! They are definitely a way of life changer.

[@bilquiswadoodi7854]

Thanks for posting. I really want a pair of birds. But your video reminds me that I need more training. As for calming your bird, I heard that Boston lettuce has a milt white substance that comes from the lettuce heart that will calm a bird. Boston lettuce is not a meal but it will calm a bird down. Good luck with your bird.

[@houriaouldaly892]

Thank you so much for making this video people always wanna take everything and sell it for money it was never about the care of the bird or anything you can be the greatest bird keeper EVER and still that will never be equivalent to them being free mating, eating, and flying in the wild. You are such a great person here a cookie!🍪

[@joanray1552]

You have the patience of Job....You;ve done a great job of lovingly looking after this cockatoo. It'a a beatiful and healthy bird....I sure hope you don't get bit again. Glad you shared. I will not get one.

[@CockatooG2]

Thank you!

[@tylove7992]

Are you being held hostage? Blink twice for yes.

[@youngcontrarian8532]

Right. Her mouth says "I love this bird" but her eyes are like "Ugh, I'm so done!!;". The husband prob has the real tea to spill on that bird.

[@abdullaali7399]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hippycouple2]

We have birds and I agree with every word that you said! Thank you so much for this true and serious sharing!

[@anyalaASMR]

I have a Cockatiel and they're nowhere near as much work as a Cockatoo, but they're still a lot of work. It shows how much these animals really need to be nurtured and cared for. They need lots of attention every day and I'm glad you put up this video so people can be informed before adopting.

[@Mara12186]

I don't believe Cockies should be caged either, to see the noisy buggers every day in all their glory in the wild is good enough, they're smart buggers but these guys are definitely not meant to be caged.

[@CockatooG2]

Tamara D Thank you that is what I truly believe! They are meant to be free! 😁

[@KibatheMalinois]

Thank you for sharing this. It was very informative. Lots of people assume that birds are just cute and cuddly, while being that they also can be moody, feisty, stubborn, hormonal, needy and the list goes on. It takes a very special type of person to meet their needs and requirements. Most people myself included watch YT videos and think this would make an awesome pet but those are the picture perfect moments of having them and not the full picture. In a lot of those cases whats not shown on the videos is the hours of work put behind making those little cuties doing the things they do so well. I know this video is like two years old but if you still have your feathered baby, I'd recommend watching BirdTricks. They are professional bird trainers and stage performers who use birds in their show and they have lots of informative videos of parrot training and ways to stimulate your bird and ways to deal with aggression and unwanted behaviors through different methods of training. I especially found the clicker and target training to work quite well in my cockatiels and African red belly parrot and the best part is it doesn't matter how old the bird is because they show you how almost any bird can be trained despite its age, physical handicaps etc. Truly the best way to just really engage with the bird keeping him happy while also training them at the same time. This type of training has also been shown to effective with most other animals like dogs, horses etc. My respect to you though, I know that cockatoos are not an easy to keep animal and applaud you on your commitment to caring for him.

[@Orangina345]

Thank you for this video. Well said! I have a 9 year old Goffins . I wish this could go viral.

[@CockatooG2]

Thank you so very much! 😁 I wish everyone knew how to stop the bleeding if need be, it’s very dangerous as they aren’t able to loose a lot of blood. Say hi to your Goffins, i love hearing from fellow Goffin parents 😀💜☀️

[@SamanthasOrchidDogDiaries]

Turkey is so adorable! I was amazed at his age. Had no idea he was that old. But thank you so much for your honesty. Very helpful!

[@CockatooG2]

Samantha's Orchids Yes, he has been with me a long time and I am his third and final home! Sometimes it's very difficult and I hope to help people to make that decision before they make the commitment. Give them something to think about to see if it's really for them😁

[@Tsubakiee]

It's a life commitment. I thought long and hard before getting my parrots (all rescues except for 1) for a few yrs actually. I was at a steady job, steady days off as well as my spouse. My parrots alone time was about 4 -5 hours for 2 days out of the week and quick store trips. Other than that one of us or both of us were home. We are homebodies so it doesn't bother us to not go out lol!

[@caboliving]

I have a Goffin and a Grey. I got very lucky that both don’t bite but they do require a lot of patience and attention. Most people just lock them in a cage and neglect them. So thank you for being such a good bird owner. They are more mature as adults (whenever that is) but regardless you will still lose a bunch of wires, wood furniture, jewelry, etc. Better to adopt an older one than to keep breeding larger birds and parrots.

[@CockatooG2]

Thank u and yes adopt!!! He spends 98% of his time on me when I am home. He was 10 when I got him and never bit me and it’s now that he is so old he is pretty quick to bite. You are so right, I don’t know how much he has ruined thru the years. Sounds like you are an awesome bird parrot mamma. I have always loved the Greys 😃 thank u for your comment!

[@caboliving]

​@@CockatooG2 Usually Goffins' nip when they want something. Its usually either petting or food. Its more often petting. Try to keep petting him when he jumps on you. I also make tons of toys for my birds. From almost anything made of rubber, plastic, paper, cardboard and even metal. Neither of my birds pluck their feathers so it must be working. 🙂

[@CockatooG2]

@@caboliving thanks so much for the tips, will try them. I o ow he is very jealous of my dogs and lost one of his homes due to him not liking the dogs. He was ok when I had pit bulls but did not like it after they passed and we have chihuahuas

[@belle369]

You are 100% correct about them being unpredictable. It’s scary because of their strong bites too. I went to the bird store the other day, and there was a really sweet looking umbrella cockatoo there. The lady said he’s the sweetest cockatoo she’s had in her store, and let me hold him. I was holding the bird, and he bit my arm. It was hard, but I know he could’ve bitten harder. I pet him back in the cage because I was a bit shooken up, and now it’s really scary for me to think that he could’ve bit my face really hard.

[@thedancingsnail9443]

A fantastic and informative video. I agree, people should really think about it before taking on birds, especially those that live for a very long time. My birds aren't cockatoos, but they all have their own individual emotional needs, and get irritated and demanding if these needs are not met. Turkey is absolutely gorgeous.

[@CockatooG2]

The Dancing Snail Carol, so many birds get rehomed. I just want people to think about their decision. I have had small birds to and I never thought as much about it at that time. When you have a bird with such a long life span it's a huge commitment.... also I feel like Turkey really has missed out on how his life should have been in nature with a mate. He is a cutie though, yes!🦃😁💜

[@wanderingelkless]

Thank you for posting this video. So many people see the fun videos then want one but they are like a marriage 24/7/365 a full time job.

[@adiposerex5150]

I agree with you 100%. There should not be an exotic bird trade. When I see birds in cages, it breaks my heart.

[@CockatooG2]

Plant Maven I know. I feel very sorry for Turkey even though he has got everything that I can give him, he is stuck in a cage while I am at work and he is missing out on his whole natural way of life! After having him it has totally changed my views on right and wrong for exotic animals!😁

[@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep]

There are several safe calming things that can be given to birds. Theanine is one of them and many people find it quite effective for birds. It's an amino acid found in green tea. It's given to a wid array of different animals. There are expensive bird formulas that have it also to reduce feather plucking because it is also very good for reducing stress. So you do a search for that I know one product for birds that has it is around 30-40 USD its a powder. Or you can get it at most health food stores and dose yourself. It's very safe and there isnt a reccomended dosage so you can start low and over time just increase till you notice a positive effect. I think avicalm has it but it's probably very low dosage because it's an expensive ingredient so the dosage is probably too low if you are seeing no effect. As in the ratio of active ingrediant to filler in the powder. So avicalm might not be right for you. You might be better off just buying some theanine at the health food store and dosing yourself. There are also herbal formulas like tinctures that you can add to the birds water which might be a good choice too. My health food store in Canada had one for pets even when I lived in Canada over a decade ago so I'm sure that's also an easy to find choice. Hope this helps.

[@shibe1367]

Plant Maven I don't cage mine ☺️

[@thomashynes4042]

wild parrots are for the most part never shipped in...the birds available are from those already in the the usa and are bred by breeders.

[@annalisa14]

There should not be a LOT of human activity on planet Earth. Take the Pangolin, for example; a strange creature which is peaceful and looks a bit like an armadillo. Humans are torturing pangolins and capturing and caging them like African slaves were caged and shipped, back in the slave ship days. They are sold to be eaten ! A horrible fate for a peaceful animal. Cows and beef are also suffering this fate. Also remember the "bush meat" trade and the Elephant Ivory trade. There are FAR too many humans on planet earth, and the majority of them are heartless and cruel and think ONLY of themselves and their money. Mark my words.

[@mone4910]

Great video! I think you even understated how much of a responsibility it is. All the sacrifices you have to make (for example, when have you been last on a long vaccination? ). Also, I also think it is cruel to the bird! The social bond they have with their mate and the huge flock they are part of. Flying for miles and existing in a diverse environment with all its challenges and beauty, even the sounds and the sunshine, wind and rain. Living in house, with a busy human for companionship is not even okay. It’s cruel. Btw, I don’t blame you. We all were young at one point. I used to have budgies thirty years ago. Would not do this anymore. Thank you for sharing!

[@CockatooG2]

@@mone4910 Thank you so much for your words. It’s all true, I wish more people felt this way. Saying it’s so unfair to the birds is such an understatement!! And, yes haven’t been away from home for more than 3 or 4 days at a time in years!! Take care

[@SydneyDragon]

i think he would be a much calmer and less aggressive bird if he had more training and exercise. Check out BirdTricks with Jamieleigh and David they’re great

[@iDislikeNames]

BirdTricks dislikes cockatoos though and made a video about how she would never own a bird like Turkey

[@bevlafave7525]

Oh my gosh!!! I love their channel!!!

[@hippiebits2071]

@@iDislikeNames Yes, but that doesn't mean the training methods they use wouldn't be at all beneficial for this bird. Solve the problem entirely...no, but could still be benficial overall.

[@thethirdchimpanzee]

I am hoping to start volunteering at a parrot rescue soon. I want to own a parrot eventually, it's got to be a rescue, and I want to get some experience. I have raised 5 children, and a wolf hybrid (which required having 10 acres of fenced land)...and multiple stray and domestic cats...so I have a LOT of patience.

[@blacky_Ninja]

WOW, you have the most „baby-like“ looking too i‘ve ever seen. That‘s SO cute! 😍 But yeah, very good and honestly necessary video! 👍 Too many people are just buying those guys because they „think it looks cute“, which most of the time ends bad for the bird. I‘d never get one myself, i‘ll probably settle for cockatiels or budgies if i finally can get pets myself. 😊

[@CockatooG2]

Thank you and he is not always cute. I have had cockatiels and budgies and are much more independent.

[@gijackie81]

I appreciate your transparency. I LOVE cockatoos, but I know they're too much for me. They require constant supervision and entertainment.

[@BlueIdiotPie]

Turkey is adorable. Cockatoos are so much work, even more so than other parrots. They're so lovely if you're the right person for one, tho

[@hildamydear4481]

TY for your honesty!

[@CockatooG2]

Your welcome! I try to give people the reality of bird ownership is really like and they can make their own decision 😀

[@cabbking]

I have had my Goffins’s for 12 years and love him very much. That said, I completely agree with you. The wild is where they belong. Peach does not pluck but I have bad bite scars all over my body. He can be sweet as pie and then fly up to my face an latch on hard. I have worked with him every day and provide all kinds of attention. I am retired now and home allot. He is a chewer and goes through a 1x2 in a day. I cut perches out of them and put them all thru the cage to keep his logger instincts satisfied because every time he was out he would quickly rush to a wooden surface, cupboard, furniture or moldings, and take big chunks out. I love him and will keep him as long as I’m able because I know he will do these same behaviors anywhere and some people would hurt him for it. The bites are serious and painful. Definitely he should never be around kids and other animals. I don’t think it’s meanness, it’s instinct.

[@GardeningatDouentza]

Very interesting and thought provoking, Pam.

[@CockatooG2]

Gardening at Douentza Its my thoughts after 30 yrs. They are not a domestic animal. Love him very much and he is spoiled as hell but he is missing out on what nature intended, that's why he is a picker!

[@senpaicookie3796]

LOOK HOW ADORABLE HE IS I CAN'T EVEN

[@CockatooG2]

SenpaiCookie Thank you, he is a character!😁

[@senpaicookie3796]

He sure is! Can't keep my feelings in hgnnn!

[@chandarussell]

I have three umbrella cockatoos. I’ve had them for over 30 years. One I bought and two I rescued from people who couldn’t deal with them. They are funny, goofy and very intelligent. They are indeed a great deal of work, extremely noisy and very destructive. When they come into season they become very hormonal and have a tendency to attack and bite when you least expect it so it’s important to know the signs indicating they are headed in that direction. I’ve had my ears bitten through and numerous stitches put in from bites over the years. I love them to death but I would never recommend them as a pet. I also have a macaw whom I rescued when he was only a few months old. He was in pretty bad shape when I got him and required constant care from me. The result was he never left my side when out of the cage and wouldn’t let anyone else handle him. It remained like that for 17 years until I moved back to my home town a number of years ago. He met my mother and fell in love with her. Now I can’t get anywhere near him without him biting me. This as it turns out is a little known phenomena that is common in macaws and Amazon parrots and something you are never told when getting one of these birds. They can be wonderful birds for years and then suddenly they’re out to maim and mangle you when they come across someone else they prefer. It also usually occurs when they hit their late teens as it did mine. This is when they usually find their mate for life in the wild. You can take the bird out of the wild but you’ll never take the wild out of the bird, not even ones that are born in captivity. Now I will look after these birds for as long as I can because I love them but I’m in my late fifties now and these birds can live another 30-50 years. It’s going to take a lot of work to find a suitable place for them in the future and that is very worrisome to me. Did I mention one of them loves removing the flowers from my beloved orchids?

[@Bullen_3]

That's one of the traits that make them difficult pets. When they choose a "mate"(, unfortunately in a lot of cases they see that person as such,like they would another bird of their species in the wild) They get extremely territorial of that person and they will attack anyone getting too close to their "mate". And the weird thing is,sometimes they choose babies or cats or dogs...you just never know. That's why I think it's best to adopt and older parrot,bc you he/she chooses you! 💚

[@chandarussell]

@@Bullen_3 the macaw was a rescue too. He was nearly dead with a couple of broken bones and I just had to take him with me. It’s unfortunate that he has become so attached to my 85 year old mother but that’s just part of their genetic makeup. I’ll just have to deal with his attitude

[@CockatooG2]

Your birds are also lucky to have you. I totally understand everything that you say. It's very sad to see birds taken out of their natural environment, never realized it till I lived. it. HaHa yes they do love orchids!!!!

[@janemaslanko5575]

Thank you so much for your video with Turkey. Everything you said is true. Our Goffin’s is 10 and this is his third home. We will never give him up but he may outlive us (which is why he’s in our will). I don’t recommend parrots of any kind for captivity. If you want a parrot, rescue one after studying up on them. So many birds have been given up, they should not be bred in captivity.

[@CockatooG2]

Thank you so much for your comment! We are on the same page. You are fortunate enough to have someone to Will him too. Yes the numbers of people that keep their cockatoos is slim 🩷 thank you so much

[@mandyorchids4938]

An immensely important and eye opening video Pam. Thank you for sharing, I have learned things that I never knew before after watching your video.

[@CockatooG2]

Arlene Ontiveros Thank you and I am hoping for potential bird owners to watch! I periodically get questions from a video on Turkey! 😁

[@lisaaronson283]

Hi Pam, I watched this video today and I want to say this is a great honest video that al potential bird owners should watch. I owned a parakeet for 8 years and he was quite easy to own. But Cockatoos and Parrots are in a whole different category. They are needy birds that require a lot of attention and need selfless owner willing to devote their time and energy to them. They also need a very nutritious diet. Keeping fresh fruit and veggies in your fridge every day is a must. My Grandmother devoted about 40 years of her life to two parrots. She lived in Florida so they had a huge enclosure her husband had built on their covered patio in their backyard. She was like you, a very awesome bird Parent. I think it does require someone willing to basically devote most of their time and energy to owning their bird(s). If you do travel you have to have a plan in place for someone to care for them in your absence. I want to thank you for your frank honesty about how much time and energy these birds require. This is definitely a must watch video before making the lifetime commitment to birds that live as long as we do. Thank you for making this video. Good job on being a great bird Parent!

[@yairakatz6963]

Great video. Down to earth- I appreciate the lack of clickbait.

[@CockatooG2]

Thanks so much, appreciate it!

[@jonathanforsythe5336]

Hi I would love to see what happens if you were to give him loads of forage material in his cage, grass seeds and shoots, sprouts of his seeds in earth or sod so he has to pull them out. And vary the plants, different types of wood, fruit, rotten stuff, etc. Try making big trays of sprouted seeds in earth, and then put them in his cage to eat, can spread his normal food on top so he has to find his food. And only give him natural forage, nothing plastic or man made. And ideally if you were to leave him to sleep with the daily cycle, outside, I bet that would make a difference. I think they love hearing other birds and getting the daily natural change in temperature, the early sun-rise and then the change in light in the evenings. I think they need an outside aviary where they can fly or to basically live free in your house, to be happy and stop plucking.. I do think that your bird must have been abused and left in a tiny cage to make him like that, the more you can do to ensure he spends as little time as possible in a cage, the better I think.

[@CockatooG2]

Jonathan Forsythe now you really have some interesting things to say. Never heard of the sod approach. I do try and give him different things and lots of stuff he doesn't touch. He does like wood! When I got him he was in a tiny cage with a missing bar!!! Lots of different food he won't touch unless I am eating it. You know I lived in a house and it had a huge outdoor Avery and he screamed his lungs out and wanted nothing to do with it. I thought that he would love it. I am going to try some different things like you suggested. Thank you so much for your wonderful advise 😁

[@jonathanforsythe5336]

@@CockatooG2 amazing about aviary! good luck just try natural stuff look up list of the few toxic plants for cockatoos and then just give anything else and mix his real food up with the forage material and leave him he'll figure it out and start messing with the forage I'd say.

[@CockatooG2]

Jonathan Forsythe I am going to give it a try 😃 thx

[@jonathanforsythe5336]

@@CockatooG2 well did you try loads of forage, I see someone else suggested similar? Just curious, I've been thinking about adopting a cockatoo but realise it might be too much of a commitment. Maybe a Galah as they are less long-lived. Was looking at stuff about wild cockatoos, they eat a lot of grass seed and roots etc. I put a big sod of grass with my cockatiels they eat every single blade of grass out of it.

[@jrupton1]

I understand completely. I have a 25 year old Double Yellow Head Amazon parrot that we got as a three month old hand fed baby. It is a life long commitment. He will outlive me and be passed on to my son. To keep them healthy and happy requires a lot of work. My bird also has moods when I know it's best to just leave him alone. I too would not recommend any large bird as a pet.

[@CockatooG2]

Janice Upton Wow yours is old to! You are on the same wavelength. People just don't realize, I sure didn't! Thank you for your comment and I am so happy for your Amazon that he has a good home!!!

[@lagestita]

I totally agree with you. I got a rescue african grey and after 4 years of having him, if I could do anything for him to go being wild I would do it! I'm his best option so I will keep him for the rest of my/his life, but I don't think I can make him happy no matter how many foraging toys or anything I get. I spend my life trying to keep a very intelligent animal entertained and I'm failing. I can't be his mate and spend all day figuring out how to survive (which is what he needs, really). He's way too smart to be a pet. I wish your video became viral and people stopped buying these birds. There aren't enough good homes for the birds that are already here, let alone make more.

[@CockatooG2]

So well said. I am trying to advocate for this. People just dont realize till they get a bird. Its very sad. I love hearing stories like yours and happy those birds have found a good home. Thank you so much for your comment 😃

[@calumhunter815]

Yes, they bite, they destroy your house. The bond is so rewarding, U2's are 100% loyal. On the pooh thing - U2's are clean about where and when. I lost my U2 to a dog - I miss him every day. The natural environment for my U2 was the pub! He loved beer and chips!

[@bsusie1]

This, along with other informing videos should be watched by anyone wanting to adopt a bird. Thank you!

[@CockatooG2]

Your welcome! It really is a way of life change!

[@loopiewho]

was seriously looking for a cockatoo ,but i started watching youtube videos of them and i got lovebirds budgies and finches and a canary and i am happy with them but they are not all easy either but nothing like a cockatoo

[@whoami2461]

My goffin takes Prozac everyday and she stopped picking. There is nothing wrong with giving them antidepressant. Or an anti anxiety medication. Ask another avian vet.

[@es0516]

I’m glad someone addressed this. It depends on what the issue is. It’s perfectly fine to medicate for those things. It’s also true for other types of parrots.

[@serenafanlife4226]

I, just started volunteering at a bird rescue. I, learned that they also have psych issues. I did not know that they can be given anti-depressants. Our rescue place uses the avicalm. Has the Prozac helped calm down your bird?

[@mtrotter325]

Thanks for the honesty! He sure is active..

[@FeliciaCantillo]

I love your honesty. Many people are so uneducated about what it's like to own a border. Thank you for making this video.

[@johncornicello4924]

I have a Moluccan cockatoo 40 years and she is completely correct . Lots of work but worth it!😊

[@CockatooG2]

Thank you!! Have to have one to know how it really is. I find it awesome that you still have your Moluccan, they get rehomed so frequently and they are such awesome smart birds….. 😀

[@naturesoulstudio]

Thanks for telling it like it is. I have parrotlets, cockatiels and a green cheek conure. I love them all but agree, it is a lifetime commitment and a lot of work to keep them healthy and happy. I do my best to give them a happy home and freedom in my place, but believe like you that they should not be kept as pets. They belong in the wild, with their flocks where they can vocalize, mate, raise young, and be free. There is a woman that is doing amazing work with her birds and has developed a program teaching birds how to read, allowing them to be able to communicate with us. I'm hoping that out of that research they will be able to tell us whether or not they choose to be companions to us or be free, and that we will honor their wishes. Ones who have been kept in captivity cannot survive on their own, but hopefully it will stop further breeding for pets. Too many people don't understand the commitment or problems and they end up being rehomed and traumatized. Just not fair to them. Meaning no disrespect to parrot owners or breeders. Just hoping for changes that are in the best interest of our feathered friends. Breeders can change from raising them as pets to raising endangered ones to save certain species, for example.

[@CockatooG2]

Terran Ambrosone So beautifully said!!!! It’s so sad to see birds in captivity and getting re homed and Mistreated. I was Turkeys 3rd owner, he lost all his owners. At that time I thought captive birds were so lucky to not have to forage and have everything handed to them. Living with him all these years we have both went through so much and I have realized what he has really lost... and I feel really sorry for him. I hope this video opens peoples eyes to seeing the reality of a life long commitment is and what the bird looses! Years ago I used to follow Dr. Irene Pepperbrg and Alex an African Grey Parrot she was working with communicating with him. Nice to see like minded bird owners😊

[@naturesoulstudio]

Not sure if you do Facebook at all, but if you would like to see the work being done the name of the page is My Reading Pets: The Learning Adventures of Ellie and Isabelle. Absolutely fascinating. These birds are actually reading, and at a level of about a seven year old child. :)

[@CockatooG2]

Terran Ambrosone I have an inactive page but will definitely check it out. Thanks for the info. How amazing they are reading lime 7 yr olds 😲 Birds are so smart, people don’t realize!

[@J.L.Nelson]

yes, especially with this one. Every time you put your finger to her to step up she puts her head down because she wants it scratched. She also likes to be cuddled.

[@CockatooG2]

Yes, loves scratches and cuddles!💜

[@marygorchidsmore2058]

Good video! thanks for doing this. Some people might think having a bird is all singing ans dancing. I used to have love birds and they were tiny, little cute things but had lots of noise and lots of life changing . People must be prepared to commit their life if they want to keep a pet. Thanks for sharing.

[@CockatooG2]

MaryG Orchids So true Mary! I am hoping people see two sides before making that decision!💜

[@shibe1367]

I have 2 macaws (very old) 1 is a scarlet and the other is a harlequin. I take them to my local park for a good 4 hours (that doesn't really matter its more about quality than quantity) for 4 days a week, and I have made a huge play gym. Thank you for making this video because it just sparked in my mind that it's even if you let it fly for so long it's just not enough as in the wild they fly in flocks for miles. Edit: I don't cage my birds Edit again: I keep made a huge room out of a huge bathroom

[@OrchidsinRoom]

Good video! we have goffin cockatoo too, we save him from ZooMarket he was in bad Shape so we resque him. Yes he scream to loud and sometimes becom aggressive for his hormonal behavior but we love him he is very sensitive and understand when your mood changed and for there little size this birds are very brave and warlike.i have an african gray too and there are big differences between them. i saw turkes photo and then i subscribe to your channel.

[@CockatooG2]

Orchids in Room Oh thank you for saving your baby! You totally know what I mean...so sad that these birds have to endure so much. Turkey was a wild caught baby in Indonesia. Thank you for your story and rescuing your baby!😁

[@revilsdr]

Birds are also flock animals so they cannot be just put in a cage and left alone they need a lot of stimulation they’re pretty to look at but a lot of people do not understand the emotional requirements of these types of exotic animals. And you’re 100% right if at any moment they feel emotionally stressed they will attack their owner. Domesticated animals tend to cower away from their owners if they feel stressed or afraid unlike exotics they have no problem attacking if they feel threatened, overstimulated or stressed.

[@crashq8784]

You're correct, they're a handful and not a pet to adopt on a whim. I've have a galah that was a rescue. His name is Chainsaw (speaks for itself really). Like any rescue I have no knowledge of how he was treated prior to me finding him. As he was abandoned I can't imagine it was a great experience for him. He's a marvellous companion but, like any of the 'toos he can be a bit bitey if he's annoyed or if he gets a scare (other birds mostly). Daily training is a lifesaver. He has breakfast with me and early scritches then it's out onto his day play pen. It's not a cage, it's a 7ft tall set of stainless steel shelves all set up with branches and chains and toys. I have the branches there just for him to destroy so you've got to understand there will be mess and cost as well. He eats greens, pellets and seed, vegetables occasionally. I also love him but know I'm going to get the odd bite - it's stuff they do in the wild when with their flock, which is what we are when we have them in the family. All the best to you and Turkey from me and Chainsaw.

[@CockatooG2]

Awe I love your story and the perfect name chainsaw! I know that Turkey lost his last home because of their dogs don't know the whole story. Turkey lived thru two of my pit bulls and liked them but since I got lap dogs he doesn't like them and will bite them given the chance. When I leave him unattended at all he jumps to the floor and goes after my husband or the dogs! I would love it if he would stay on a tree. Had one a long time ago and he didn't like it. Chainsaw is lucky and living the best life he can in captivity. Love Turkey also and cook him a good breakfast but life would be a lot less stressful without him. Love to u and Chainsaw

[@graceiherron837]

I have 3 birds already all ranging abt 2-9 years old. I agree birds aren’t for everyone, if you live in an apartment remember that their loud and Destructive! My aunt has been preparing me for the past months with her Cockatoo cuz I said that I wanted to get one since it’s been my dream. she’s had hers for about 50+ years.If you ever want children but don’t have a partner to have them with get a bird IF YOUR PREPARED do your research and remember that they’re very active animals and like children need lots of attention and toys. Also remember that they’re expensive, toys cost a lot and the cage it’s self ranges from $300- $1000 and the bird as well is a good chunk of money. Happy looking!!

[@CockatooG2]

very well said.

[@helenrussell5634]

My ex husband is a cockatoo owner so when we got married I became a “step mom” to Toby. When I first moved in Toby (the bird) would not allow anyone to touch him except my husband and my father in law. I slowly started stroking him with a big, soft feather duster and before he knew it I was stroking him with my hand. So we became buddies, however, just like the lady in the video said u never know with them. He got my thumb once really badly, and turned it black and blue. I must say though What bothered me the most was the wrong incessant, loud screaming and screeching! It got to the point that we could not have guests over to dinner anymore because it would set him off. It’s several years later now and I am happy to say that I have divorced them both!😁

[@ReneeandJimmyG]

Aaaw, what a shame. He was ruined before you ever got him. Poor guy. I have a Goffins too. He was missing so many feathers when I got him too. But over time he's relaxed with us and they've grown back. A bird girl told me to rub olive oil on the bald spots, his feet and beaks. They tend to be very dry skinned birds, as I'm sure you've seen with the dust. Good luck with him. You're a good person to tolerate him.

[@pco1157]

Our cockatoo ended up getting a bite from some indoor plant bugs and started picking it. It became a habit so my daughter made a cloak like a housecoat that be wore for weeks. Then we took it off and if he tried to pick we would say no and move his beak away. When he did go back to it when he thought we weren’t looking we would put the cloak back in - he started realizing the connection and stopped picking

[@robynsjewelryideas]

I've had a Goffins cockatoo for 36 years. Everything you have said is the absolute truth. They are highly neurotic. They definitely bite, mine has attacked me 3 times, its scary. And they do pluck, especially during mating season, and thunderstorms and fireworks. On the plus side, they are funny and do have their own personality.

[@CockatooG2]

Thank you and you are so right they have such a funny side too! You are really a lifer with your Goffin too! You have a lucky bird to 😄 thank you for watching and commenting 😊

[@Meriale46]

I thought for a while that I wanted a Cockatoo, my sister has an African Grey, she's very smart and my sister got her as a hatchling. She's roughly 10 now. In the beginning, she gave her bird a lot of attention and the bird responded well. After my sister's divorce and being separated from her ex-husband and being moved around a lot. My sister works long hours and doesn't seem to have enough time to spend with her the way she used to. She's not as sweet anymore...she does attack people and bites them. She even attacked me once because she was jealous of my sister giving me attention. She now plucks out her feathers because she spends far too much time caged and not being handled. My heart goes out to her...being caged too much is like being imprisoned. My sister does love her bird very much and I know she has some guilt for not being able to spend more time with her. If I were her I don't know if I could give the bird to another person being the bird seems to be a 1 person pet. But I do think she'd be better if raised with someone who's got more time.

[@bluscraps]

Anne B. engaged, not caged. find him a home with someone who has more time. hard to do, but its out of love

[@stevielloyd6519]

So many birds live a life like this. So very very sad.

[@Noosic]

The moral of the story: Cockatoo's should not be pets.

[@jmdenison]

I love my cockatoo!

[@subarusown]

I love mine.

[@CockatooG2]

@subarusown that’s awesome! I am really happy for your bird 😀💜

[@0starberry0]

I almost got a Goffin. I did a lot a research but this help a lot. I stick with my little ones. right now, one of my lovebirds is very aggressive and hormonal. pretty scary stage but I still love her.

[@CockatooG2]

So happy that this helped you out! You were very SMART doing your research. I know all about hormonal. lol I love Turkey very much, but had I done my research I would not have made the same decision. He is fun, but he has also changed my life and can pretty much turn the house upside down.💕

[@dottierigsbee1836]

Have two Cockatoos, Umbrella and Moluccan, had them both 30 years, you tell it like it is, thank you for trying to get ALL this info out there. God bless you for your dedication .

[@kathleenshriver7512]

Wow sounds like a cry for help. God Bless you. Even strong people have a limit.

[@Lps1dragonfly]

This is a great video. I've never been a bird person but I have a stepsister who used to breed cockatiels and she still has three of her own. In the last 2 months less actually I have become the proud owner of a cockatoo. A Muloccan cockatoo to be specific. As far as I know she is nine and I am now her third owner and she's great. But yes, she's a lot and she's needy. I don't know anything about birds and I know I'm stuck with her for life. I've typically always been a dog person, but yes I love her to death. She is the sweetest thing. She's bit me a little; not enough to be terrible but I know it's there. She tries to mate with me all the time so you're sexual frustration comments really ring true but I think Savannah is wonderful. And yes I would agree with you on I'm not sure that birds should be domesticated and if anybody wants a bird they should really research it. Super super big and long and read everything and talk to people before they commit to a bird because like you said it is absolutely a lifetime experience. I am not one to give up my animals once I take them in because that's just heartbreaking to have to lose your family just because of who you are. You know what I mean

[@CockatooG2]

Sounds like you have a sweet bird that has been rehomed like Turkey has, it happens all the time. You sound like a very responsible person, please share how it really is with people so they don’t make a decision based without research. Sounds like your bird has lucked out. Please keep researching and I strongly suggest that you give cage time as Turkey absolutely will not stay in his cage when I am home without screaming non stop. In the beginning I let him ride on me all the time and I am paying for it now 😄

[@tinkerbelle143]

Not all birds are that difficult. Cockatoos though are extremely difficult birds and need multiple hours of attention per day. There are easy/beginner birds out there like budgies and cockatiels. People should definitely not start out with a cockatoo, African grey of macaw. They can bite extremely hard. Cockatoos are like toddlers.

[@acacm12]

Delores Lola , even cockatiels are demanding . I don’t know that I would recommend them as “first “ birds . Mine require a ton of attention , make plenty of noise and require a complex diet . Not as much as cockatoos of course but I have seen so many cockatiel owners just leave them in a cage or covered because of the time it takes to tame and the noise level . Birds are not easy pets as some would assume. I love all my birds but wouldn’t recommend them to most people I know lol

[@kiwibirdy2468]

Delores Lola i would not suggest cockatiels for a first bird they to are quiet demanding if i were to suggest one bird and one bird alone 100% a budgie, although lovebirds can be good to if tamed well.

[@theholybuttfungus5911]

Delores Lola Cockatiels are usually labeled as a “beginner bird” but they really aren’t of course that will depend on the temperament, personality, and if the bird even tames up to you. Although they are relatively not as loud as other birds for someone who’s never had any sort of parrot it can be pretty ear piercing.

[@paintlover2775]

I think that you can have one of these birds as long as you know the care and what you are getting into, I did 2 years of research before getting my galah cockatoo (my first bird) and I met up with a few to see how they react and everything, I even got bitten a couple of times. I knew I would have to spend money, I knew I had to have time on my hands, and I know they are such intelligent birds. My galah is happy I have a good vet and everything! My opinion is if you are gonna get one of these birds do a lot of research, meet some people who might have these birds. Research is always helpful!

[@iphigeniaaz]

I don’t really believe in the whole “beginner bird” thing unless you’re a teenager or something. If someone is a grown adult with the means (ie. time, money, education and research of birds, love to give, stability) then there’s nothing wrong them getting whatever bird they want.

[@cheekybeaks]

Love everything you said. I also have a female Goffin, who is 22 years old. Love her to bits but I also agree they should be left in the wild. I have also gotten some bites and there is nothing personal in her attacks it's that she is a bird. Males will bite their mates to the point of drawing blood. One of the hardest things for me is her yelling. She talks up a storm but yells just as much.

[@CockatooG2]

Thank you and I hear everything you are saying too 😃 they defenitely change your life!

[@SomebodysGrandmother]

I have been in the 'bird business', would raise and train birds help and find the unwanted ones homes, I will honestly tell you that Cockatoos are the most neurotic and needy of any I have ever been around, and yes they are vicious to humans and other birds and animals. Sorry you had to go through this.. I always recommend cockatiels, so sweet and humble, there will ALWAYS be a market for birds, it is what it is and will be. Many Blessings!

[@MrsRedOnTheHead]

I have 8 birds. 4 are Cockatoos, 3 are Cockatiels (the smallest in the Cockatoo Family), and one is a Hybrid Amazon. 2 of my Cockatoos are Goffin's, one Umbrella, and a Lesser Sulphur Crested. I prefer Cockatoos over all parrot species. They are the most amazing exotic birds ever. Goffin's are very jealous and they tend to be big bullies. They are a handful but they are worth every bit of it. Some bird people are not fond of Cockatoos because they are loud, destructive, they have powerful bites, and they have strong personalities.

[@shibe1367]

Mrs Red On The Head Cockatoos are best because they are loud!!

[@keepthefaith6656]

Thank you! I have an African Grey. I will always love her unconditionally. I want to make a video like this. She is allot of work. She drives me crazy allot. I feel like I need a support group. BUT I knew this was a life time commitment & I won't give up because that would be like giving up on my child.

[@kathybeaton1328]

I agree... I have an umbrella Cockatoo and she’s a handful. She wants to be on me constantly and it’s like having a toddler but she’s my baby and I love her. I do think they belong in the wild not in captivity.

[@prmeli1114]

For your husband have him give the bird treats and be the person to change food and water. That way he socializes you’re husband with positive things. Glad you made this video bird ticks isn’t fond of cockatoos bc they know they are hard birds to have however they have great tips and tricks for any bird! Like you said though birdtricks doesn’t think cockatoos should be kept in captivity like you said.

[@stevehammel2939]

Cockatoo's are a lifetime commitment and when their flock dies they need to be placed in a loving home to live out their life in happiness

[@nataliablumke5608]

Hi Pam. It is a great video. I hope a lot of people watch it. You provided information that people don't usually get when they consider having a bird and sales people will not tell you that.

[@CockatooG2]

Natalia Blumke No sales people will not tell you that. I would like to see the demand for exotics go down. So many birds get re homed their entire life and many suffer abuse! I hope that this video helps some people out😃

[@kerriecobain4807]

Get a different vet. Even if we all agree exotic birds should not be pets, millions already are. Is living in a house and being medicated worse than living in the wild? Yes. Is living in a house so frustrated and unhappy you pick your feathers out and attack everyone in it better than not being medicated? No! You can't replicate the wild. His situation is what it is. Assuming it's better for him to be neurotic and miserable, because medication would make him a "zombie" is rediculous. They can give him just enough to make his life as pleasant as it can be in the situation he's in, just like they do people. He shouldn't have to be miserable, because we're uncomfortable with the idea of medicating a wild animal. He has to live in the situation regardless of whether he's medicated or not right? So make his life as good as it can be and if that means a little Prozac, well there are worse things in life than being "too chill." Like plucking all your feathers out and all the other behaviors you described.

[@CockatooG2]

Kerrie Cobain I totally agree with you 💯 percent! Thanks for the wonderful comment!

[@brendaleverick3655]

I think your Cockatoo is stressing you out and that you would be calmer and happier if you found yet another home for your bird.

[@lynnwebber6395]

And who, pray tell, would be more qualified?

[@smagliaro9988]

I have a 21 year old goffin. They are omnivores and love a variety of foods. The routine and expectiation of meals makes my goffin much happier. Your bird looks like he isn't getting the right protein types. They need a lot of dark at night to reduce hormones. My goffins loves children's wind up toys. They hold a grudge. Say hello and goodbye when you leave the house. Look at your bird, make an emotional connection and talk to him telling him truths about what you like about him. They also love dance parties to Beyonce type music (keep bird in cage until aggression subsides while dancing). Also, withhold sunflower seeds or very favorite seeds and only give as rewards for excellent behavior while giving praise.

[@joelweidenfeld471]

bird's need to fly, bird's who fly dont pick...every cell in EVERY organ in every structure is modified for flight, if you can't fly a bird dont own it

[@shibe1367]

Joel Weidenfeld I take my macaws to the park 4 days a week and take them to a huge hand made play gym every other day so...

[@MelissaWalker82]

This is just not true. Even some delighted birds in captivity continue to pluck. It’s a very complex issue.

[@richardeasther2569]

Put him in a big cage stuffed full off willow branches and leaves so there is no room for him almost they spend the next day or three cutting wood mine loves it and it keeps him so busy I do it every week ,willow is free down by the river here in New Zealand but wherever you live there will be something to use

[@CockatooG2]

Now this is the most interesting idea yet!!! Stick perches freak him out but I am now very interested. Will have to see what I can come up with. I live in the city! Love this idea, thank you 😄

[@spoudaois]

Im a medical doctor not a vet, but given the intelligence of these birds It seems like trying prozac first and if not effective haldol would be humane and may work. I think benzodiazepines would sedate but not be helpful because they are addictive and lose efficacy. You would have to research and find a vet that is sympathetic.

[@annaemilia2505]

but normally you have to have at least 2 parriots, cocatoos etc. right? Because in their Australian habitat where they live - they live in big swarms of many birds......and to get pariots, cocatoos etc. as single birds also can cause problems right?

[@CockatooG2]

@@annaemilia2505 No you don’t need two. Though I think it would be great to have another of the same kind. I was told when I got Turkey that they had two but were not bonded. I never seen the other one she was already sold. From the net as follows: No, you usually don't need to have two cockatoos as pets because most cockatoos are loners and don't enjoy company. In fact, a cockatoo might see another bird as a rival for your attention. If you do get another cockatoo of the same species and they bond, they might not want you as a companion anymore.

[@kevins9242]

Thanks for posting this honest video. You are an amazingly patient person! I agree; flying birds in particular, should remain in the wild. This video will hopefully cause some potential pet owner to thoughtfully consider the decision to own any exotic pet. Green iguanas can bite unprovoked as well.

[@benjaminthebestbird]

Hello Lilly! I have to ask, is there any way to give your bird free run of one closed room? A room of entertainment for him? I imagine he could burn off a lot of energy that way. These birds seem to love throwing things - perhaps have bowls and buckets and boxes filled with paper to shred, and things to throw like buttons, sewing thread spools, wooden nickels, poker chips, plastic bottle caps, along with a million things to chew on... And while I haven't tried it myself, I hear that having a lavender oil diffuser in the room can really calm them down. Lavender is supposed to have great calming effect on animals (and people). He is absolutely adorable, but I agree that he seems a bit neurotic. Your vet is wrong about providing some kind of calming supplement or medication. It's ridiculous to call helping a bird malpractice. Sometimes, you only have to give it to the animal for a short while, and it allows them to break out of whatever is causing their issues. You can't tell a bird to take 3 deep breaths... But you can help them by slowing them down for a while. Like you said, they are not domesticated animals. They are wild creatures who are trying to live in ways that go against their DNA. Helping them cope with their situations is not a bad thing. One of my favorite quotes about bird ownership says that we are not the people who plucked them from their natural environment, but we are the ones who have to help them deal with their situation. I say try another vet - one who actually understands birds in captivity. Kudos for hanging on as long as you have. I hope you find an answer to help your adorable bird, and consequently yourself. You both deserve every moment of happiness. Thank you for posting this video. I hope the next time I see the two of you together you don't look like a hostage, and he doesn't look like a terrorist. I hope instead you are full-time snuggle buddies.

[@milliethecockatielbirb69]

I just feel grateful and happy to be owning cockatiels! ❤️❤️

[@CockatooG2]

Cockatiels are great! I have had 7 of them 😀

[@leahlemieux]

I am SO GLAD you made this video! I also have a Goffin's cockatoo who's original owners gave him up because they simply couldn't handle him and like so many captive cockatoos, he is also a feather plucker. After nearly 20 years I can honestly say 95+% of people are in NO WAY capable of giving a cockatoo a life-long loving home and of attending properly to all their needs. Its simply too demanding. Would you consider taking in a chimpanzee into your home? Probably not! Cockatoos are more like feathered primates rather than over-sized canaries. They are incredibly intelligent and if they are not provided with enough companionship, toys, foraging and stimulation--there will be problems, including feather picking and sometimes biting. Their beaks are so powerful, they can snip off a finger or the tip of your nose without even trying. Its like a perpetual 3 year old with a pair of shears for a face. Sound good to you? I have been lucky enough to have spent a long time in Australia where I daily observed flocks of cockatoos living their natural lives. Its only when you see the richness of their lives in the wild, that you begin to understand that even the most spacious cage and loving human home falls dreadfully SHORT! They are supposed to have a mate and that special bond lasts a life time (remember they can live up to 80 years or more!) and a flock/community with whom they have complex daily interactions, they are supposed to fly (they are actually skilled and beautiful flyers!) and travel large distances and forage in many varying areas on a wide variety of different seasonal foods. Not being able to do any of these things is why cockatoos so often become neurotic in captivity. Just about all their real needs are not being met adequately. So please, NEVER NEVER buy a cockatoo from any pet shop or breeder. If you have done all your research and decide you are one of the less than 5% who is in a position to handle such a bird--please take in a rescue. There are SO MANY parrots in shelters, given up by people who had no idea what they were really in for. There are so many parrots that could benefit by educated, one on one loving care. With so many in need, please do not support or fuel the pet trade!