3 months sober … a week watching your podcasts. A blessing
@GettingSoberAgain25 күн бұрын
That's awesome! So happy you're part of the community! 🙏
@Travel2Vibes27 күн бұрын
Had my 47th birthday last week. First birthday sober in over 20 years. Thanks for the insperation
@HoustonShutterCenter26 күн бұрын
I’m about to be 48 in December I’ve made a year and half sober this December … havnt been this sober since late teens early 20’s
@rondipotter27 күн бұрын
I made the whole month and I'm going to keep going!!!
@ericmoore676927 күн бұрын
Hell yeah! I did it last year, with the promise of a Halloween Relapse, but I felt so much better, I happily stayed sober until now, my second sober October in a row. Leave the brain poison on the shelf at the store where it belongs. Your life matters.
@rondipotter27 күн бұрын
@ericmoore6769 definitely😊
@gwillis0126 күн бұрын
Congrats on your sobriety.
@Girl-gh5gv26 күн бұрын
Had to come back to say that I started my journey here- and literally for months this channel was the ONLY thing keeping me sober. I’m happy to announce: TODAY IS MY 1 YEAR ANNIVERSARY! Thank you sooo much for getting me started! I cannot begin to tell you the changes. Actually I can. So here goes. I got back my family My friends The love of my life A place to stay A career job Savings in my acct more than 10k A car My drivers license My peace of mind Lost 60lbs (now and am perfect bmi for my height) Lost friends that I only had alcohol in conmon with Parted with the mornings waking up not remembering anything Took on new hobbies Traveled Showing up for life every day is the SINGLE. BEST. DECISION. I have EVER made. My hairdresser told me the way she knows I’m sober is that I actually keep all of my appts. I live by two things: -do what you say you’re going to do -do the next right thing. THANK YOUUUUUU!!!!!!!!!
@LadyHawke7826 күн бұрын
Happy Soberversary!! We all find our own ways, but we DO recover. Here’s to many more!! ❤️🩹👍
@GettingSoberAgain26 күн бұрын
👆👆👆!!!!THIS♥️THIS ♥️THIS♥️THIS!!!!👆👆👆
@gwillis0126 күн бұрын
Congratulations on your sobriety. I am glad that you will get married soon.
@gwillis0126 күн бұрын
I am glad that you are happy that you have chosen sobriety. Keep up the good work.
@Girl-gh5gv26 күн бұрын
@@gwillis01 thank you so much! Best decision ever. Just got back from celebratory lunch with mom during my actual lunch hour for the actual career job that I have KEPT. I’m very pleased and the results are now my why!
@danhuerta848827 күн бұрын
I did the hole month. Ready for sober November
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep the positive momentum going!! Keep. striving to improve
@theduchessofhexham73727 күн бұрын
Keep going, it gets better 😊. I quit August 2023 for 1 month or so I thought, here I am 14 months later still sober. The best thing I discovered, apart from all the health benefits and weight loss & financial gain was Time. Time to spend on more productivity, time not spent worrying if I could drive a car the next day etc. Enjoy every day, even the not so good ones, Time is precious, we never know when it's going to run out, spend it wisely🙏
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
@@theduchessofhexham737 Keep the positive momentum going
@Perryscope12327 күн бұрын
No Booze November, bring it on!
@jodidinkin359227 күн бұрын
Started September 25. Still sober. Thank you for all you do
@dwiggles127 күн бұрын
I made 4 months sober on my 44th birthday October 23rd 2024. Probably my only sober birthday since I was 19 years old. It felt good.
@gwillis0126 күн бұрын
Congrats on your sobriety. Keep up the good work.
@tami259526 күн бұрын
Yes!! I was sober in September and October! I'm definitely celebrating a "no drink November"!! 🎉 We win! We are worth it! 😊
@cko864327 күн бұрын
30 days sober, not a lot of days...BUT...210 light beers LESS!!! I love it!!!
@ajbrown524727 күн бұрын
That's a lot of money, and a lot of health benefits!
@cko864327 күн бұрын
When I averaged days x drinks I nearly fainted when I totaled it up. I just never thought about it like that. Good grief!
@ajbrown524727 күн бұрын
@cko8643 I'm right there with you! My bank account has grown so much this month!
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Congratulations on embracing sobriety
@Art-2-Recovery26 күн бұрын
It's not about how many days, like everything else, it's quality over quantity. My first real attempt at sobriety, that wasn't imposed on me with my trips to the county jail, I had around 600 days and lost it without a thought. Which told me that the quality of my sobriety was lacking. Celebrate every day sober if you want to keep it. Keep up the amazing work
@jayrsmitty27 күн бұрын
Made it through all 31 days and feeling strong to keep pushing on
@angelamercedes513627 күн бұрын
Well, I made it through October! 112 days sober today! This was a big month for me because I finished outpatient treatment at the beginning of the month, so now I have to put my sobriety tools into practice.
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep the positive momentum going!!
@fortythreenorth251826 күн бұрын
I made the decision a week ago to stay sober and never pick up another beer. I had been going hard on the beer daily to where I was feeling a lot of pain and I felt so sick. I am feeling better today by the grace of God (as well as Tylenol and water) I want to get back to where I was a year ago. Enjoying life and being outdoors. Not blotting out my existence with poison to fund the government and big brewing. I am a much better person to be around when I am sober and it feels good to be in control of my actions. Amazing how we lose any rational perspective when we are in our cups and enslave ourselves to self destruction. Our addiction wants all of us dead.
@Perryscope12327 күн бұрын
It's now my 40th consecutive day of being Sober...again
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep up the good work. Keep the positive momentum going!!
@juiceloose10027 күн бұрын
I didn't actually quit because it was October. It was just a coincidence.. I'm currently 19 days sober and going strong! My pallet is forgetting the taste.. The burn and acidity of dry alcohol.. it's a great feeling. Sometimes my mind goes back to it from habit, but then I remember where that goes.. There's so much strength in acknowledging your weaknesses. I have finally reached a point where I know that as strong as I am, I was alcohol's bitch! It's always been all or nothing for me, so now I choose nothing! ❤
@derekhath38027 күн бұрын
Day 672 sober. 57 years old. Super stoked to be sober. No unicorns and orgasms to get sober. Thankfully my friends and family did intervention then went to detox, rehab, AA, therapy. All worth it! Now at ideal weight with 45 pound weight loss, consistent daily workout, clean diet, 7+ hours of nightly sleep. Also day 278 nicotine-free and 68 day porn-free. All starts with surrendering my will to God's will for my life every morning and second, minute after that to remain and grow on this journey to be the best version of me I can be.
@asoker27 күн бұрын
Oh boy, did the whole month. Have'nt been sober for this long in years. Started going to gym 3-4 days a week, lost 3kg. Sleeping better, having more energy. Had a few moments where I was on the edge of breaking but managed to stay strong. Thank you for this month, lets keep going!
@brutalplanet7BoonesOverstock23 күн бұрын
I had two regular drinks on three days in October. I say regular because in the past my drinks could have very high alcohol content. This weekend, I was really at risk to abuse. Tempted to drink, but did not. I cannot say I thrived, but I can say I made it! I am making progress. I am not hung up on perfection. My weight continue to goes down and I am exercising daily. I am getting healthier.
@elizabethbruce922927 күн бұрын
I love how you say “practice makes progress.“ I started off with one- day stints, moved up to one -week ones, and then did a couple of 30 -day sober months. Right now I have been sober since April 1st of this year, and that streak started as a seemingly impossible 90 -day challenge to myself. I didn’t tell a soul, in case it failed. After the 90 days, I saw no reason to go back, as my brain was working again😊 At nearly 7 months sober, things have continued to improve, especially the brain fog & anxiety. I’m learning a new language, getting my business going again, & generally doing things that alcohol prevented me from doing. Your videos are motivating without being pushy. ❤
@davidp678027 күн бұрын
Made it all 31 days. And so many times I thought about giving up, I remember that progress is what I’m after, and then I keep going.. almost six months with two small asterisks. Thanks J
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep the positive momentum going!!
@JC-no1zt26 күн бұрын
I have been sober for 169 days. Hope it will be for the rest of my life.
@Yves-i5s27 күн бұрын
216 days without alcohol for me and im never going back. i like your videos man
@gwillis0126 күн бұрын
Keep that positive momentum going!!
@zeekay994127 күн бұрын
Been sober since mid-September. October may be over, but my sobriety journey is just getting started.
@gwillis0126 күн бұрын
Keep up the good work
@katiemae410827 күн бұрын
I stayed sober the whole month. Until tomorrow, the 31st, I’m breaking my fast. I plan again to do sober January as well. Best to everyone on their personal journey!
@JHFett1126 күн бұрын
I did it!! 😃 first Sober October and with high hopes to keep it going. Thank for the support and inspiration!!
@NilsExp27 күн бұрын
Made it 20 days minus 3 beers 😂 plan on being permanently sober soon
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep striving to improve yourself
@brianthomas345127 күн бұрын
Oct-sober
@GettingSoberAgain27 күн бұрын
Sober-tober 😉
@truthoversubmission423727 күн бұрын
Middle child of seven and started drinking because it made me not shy in social settings. So for my own children I want them to learn confidence through other means and be able to enjoy activities without drinking.
@Sherry-t5r27 күн бұрын
I made it the whole month with no cravings or feelings of deprivation at all! I feel great and wake up feeling awesome. It’s like you said Jae, I’m sick and tired of feeling sick and tired and since I decided no more I am finding this to be a sound and confident decision for myself. No more blackouts and I feel confident about that. My spouse still drinks so there’s always alcohol in the house and I had no problem! We even went to restaurant/bars twice and I didn’t want to drink at all. I live near the ocean and always when going out in the boat was a huge trigger but I’ve done that too 3 times and no craving. None whatsoever so I can’t believe I thought 30days was so hard before and failed so many times. I guess I just wasn’t wanting it enough but now….I’m ready to start whatever you are calling November….? Your videos and all the comments I read are so helpful. So happy I found yours. Thank you! ❤
@GettingSoberAgain27 күн бұрын
No Drink November 😸
@Sherry-t5r27 күн бұрын
@ , yep! lol I paused the video to comment so hadn’t got that far! lol 😂
@marvel4life42927 күн бұрын
I still went to the bar but drank mocktails and n/a beers. Those helped so much!
@brokenfinn959424 күн бұрын
I'm a heavy drinker and I decided today to stop drinking. I'm tired of being tired , I have too much to do!
@ALE4Dale26 күн бұрын
My first full sober October!!! 🎉
@Californialiving83127 күн бұрын
Started September 30th, One month Sober 🙏
@DaphneSeherrie27 күн бұрын
I made it through 10 months of sobriety today. Everything went well untill a month ago when I started to feel really flat, fatigued and depressed. I almost slipped up yesterday thinking what the point of being sober when I feel like like shit. I really thought about having a drink just to make me feel better.😢 But then I thought of all the work I put in to stay sober for so many months. So I went to the dr yesterday to find out that I have C-ptsd. From a 30 year abusive marriage. So I will go for therapy soon. I am really proud of myself. ❤
@monaaubry327227 күн бұрын
@@DaphneSeherrie hi I'm same I have left a 30 yr. Relationship as well. He was very mentally abusive. I've been on my own about 1 1/2 year now. I packed up my little dogs and stayed with sister till I got my own place. Very hard walking away from my home of 30 years but I was only a shell. I'm now figuring out who I am. Rebuilding myself working on me. Alcohol wasn't answer. I'm just starting a weight-loss journey which seems harder then stopping drinking. But I'm not giving up on me. I'm tired of hiding from the world. I wish you luck and confidence in your journey don't give up on yourself. ♡ Mona
@juliacoggins729227 күн бұрын
Sober all through sober October, 13 months sober now :)
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
One rumor that I have heard is that adopted children feel better when the mother says. "You are the special chosen one. I have chosen to give you my love and care. "
@jimbojv7526 күн бұрын
...again 5 days in. Makes me think of that old quote "When at first we don't succed, try try again"
@CathyRegnier-n5z26 күн бұрын
Props to everyone on their successes! 31 days for me. More to come. 😊
@desmondcook199327 күн бұрын
I am Desmond and I am a South African living in New Zealand, and I have not had my family with me for some time but thanks to this community and this channel I have been able to stay sober for over 4 months and feel confident that I won't drink again in my life. It was tough being Halloween as I normally go out on this night but this one. I also watched a live band and managed to have a better time them ever with a glass of water. I want to say that to all those that did Sober October, I want to say that I am proud of you all.
@luke-b8k27 күн бұрын
that is great to hear desmond........one day/one step at a time
@theduchessofhexham73727 күн бұрын
Well done Desmond 😊
@ydoicare200027 күн бұрын
Good job!!
@cutter225827 күн бұрын
Zero alcohol all October and still going strong 💪!
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Congrats on your sobriety!! Keep up the good work
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
It helps in starting a sober life to have a positive, glass half full attitude. Having more sober days than drunk days in a month is a. good start. Twenty sober days out of thirty is a good start because you were sober more than sixty percent of the time.
@truthoversubmission423727 күн бұрын
“More sober days than drunk days”. Yes, thank you for that perspective. Maybe I am making progress.
@monaaubry327227 күн бұрын
I made it! I'm going to keep going! Thanks so much for caring Jae. I wouldn't have done it without this channel to lean on. ❤
@Bingo1233127 күн бұрын
Still got one day to go before end of October here in UK, but on course for completing the whole month. AF since 11 May. Well done to all taking part in Sober October 🎉❤😊
@davidodonnell180727 күн бұрын
Made 19 days and hoping to do more in November
@sethbraley408827 күн бұрын
I had a few beers fixing my buddies car one day, and my grandmother gave me some whiskey in coffee on another day while congratulating me on some accomplishments I've made recently. Which was good and I don't like whiskey. That being said, it didn't send me spiralling into a bender, which I have been known to do. The last few months have been a huge improvement compared to where I was last year. I was drinking a bottle of rum a day and now....all I know is I'm not there anymore.
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep striving to improve. yourself
@missylowcarb27 күн бұрын
This is my second sober October!I have managed to keep this sobriety thing going 15 months now.A lot of the things you said really rang true for me.The excuses we make to continue on that horrible path.I enjoy your videos so much, you are a great support and inspiration.Thank you for all you do.
@gwillis0126 күн бұрын
Keep the positive momentum going!!
@Mambaross2427 күн бұрын
I’m 45, only child as well… Been an athlete all my life 🏀 Started casually drinking at 19-20… I started 9/27/24… I didn’t slip up once… only had one day of bad cravings on day 17… I attended 3 get togethers and was perfectly fine… I’ve increased my workouts and recovery… lost about 10 lbs… regained the confidence in myself… got reintroduced to my 25 year old self🙏🏾🙏🏾 I feel free and cured from what seemed like spell that was casted on me… I don’t drink and I’m blessed in every way! Thank you for all your help and support!! Can’t wait to hit 60 days!!
@mattjohn473127 күн бұрын
That is an inspiring description. Blessings to you
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Congratulations on choosing sobriety
@Sherry-t5r27 күн бұрын
@@Mambaross24 yes! Congratulations! I feel very blessed as well and going back to exercising as well!
@Sherry-t5r27 күн бұрын
@@mattjohn4731 Blessings to you as well! And yes, I feel very blessed!!! 😊
@janinebaldi554627 күн бұрын
Yesterday was the 25th anniversary of my Dad's passing. Usually I would over indulge in his favorite drink, a gin martini. I didn't and feel good physically and mentally. I think he would be proud
@sylvialindholm275827 күн бұрын
Thanks for this channel, you are doing a great service. I’m on and off. I’m stuck in a situation (Supporting a son with family and feel guilty for not wanting to continue. I’m so much debt but feeling weak and stupid because I don’t put them out of my life). Anyway leaning on my faith to overcome depression and remain permentally sober. Thanks for your help.
@1dayatAtimeking27 күн бұрын
Drank one day in all of October. They say there was only one perfect man . I'm going to keep going
@Bda2859027 күн бұрын
31 days, Once recoverd from this cold. Back to the gym.
@ajbrown524727 күн бұрын
Bad news: I slipped up 4 times this month, though only one of them was more than 2 or 3 seltzers. But the good news is I'm gonna keep going.
@GettingSoberAgain27 күн бұрын
@@ajbrown5247 if your record was a major sports team, you'd be in the playoffs with 26-4 😁
@ajbrown524727 күн бұрын
@GettingSoberAgain I like that! I didn't beat myself up because I recognized it didn't take away my successes.
@brindagannon764327 күн бұрын
Great points. I think especially Gen X downplays trauma. We are the 'suck it up' generation. I'm 53 and only the last few years started actually acknowledging true trauma that I've experienced. I also lost my 23 year old daughter 4 years ago and have been processing that as a drinker (not heavy but consistent). Sober October made me face a lot of raw emotions. What I've learned so far is I definitely like facing life and issues without the alcohol.
@monaaubry327227 күн бұрын
@@brindagannon7643I'm really sorry you lost your daughter. ♡
@nancydevlin6527 күн бұрын
@@brindagannon7643depending on where you grew up, but yeah, I think especially emotional support, on anything, was lacking in the Gen X early years, you just got on with it.... I'm 59, long list of losses, including 2 teenagers to cf, drinking "eases off the pain a bit and levels out my thinking", to paraphrase a song.... In the end it doesn't help though....
@jakeatkinson346326 күн бұрын
Good luck on your journey mate
@dogman61527 күн бұрын
I haven’t stayed sober in October but I did eventually find my stride and just hit 10 days today. It’s a daily pledge but I’m finding my footing, one day at a time. Thanks for the videos as always. 👍
@jacobdefalco372727 күн бұрын
Man, sober Jun 29th 23...Drinking is not a option, I tried a non-alcoholic beer while eating lunch a while back almost threw up and that was a reason I quit. I would be having lunch and tell my girl why can't beer taste like sprite, lol. Well it does now because it is sprite. Who would thought, 😅
@nancydevlin6527 күн бұрын
Woke up on August 14th knowing my alco journey was over..... Still dry, not a single thought of alcohol and I'm going to remain this way! ❤ I know for me it's for Life now, I can't have just the one without being back on a bottle a day 2 weeks later..... I've no seasonal associations with alcohol, depression possibly, or anxiety, but that happened any time of the year....
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep the positive momentum going Nancy!!
@ldeanjr227 күн бұрын
Started alittle late, sober since the 5th. Went to a few halloween parties and was able to not drink which was proof i could have fun w/o alcohol. november might be harder w my bday,Thanksgiving and loved ones heavenly birthdays.
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep the positive momentum going!! Onwards and upwards to new achievements!
@Kevin6412325 күн бұрын
I’m less than 3 days away from 4 months no alcohol.I do smoke for medical reasons.I hope this channel doesn’t frown on this.Yall have been a big help for me.Thanks!!!
@bak138627 күн бұрын
I didn't set out to do sober October. I just happened to quit drinking hopefully forever on Oct 6. Still going strong and feeling a small percentage better each day. I feel like I've gotten thru the worst part of the physical addiction and now I can focus on the real work that lies ahead. One day at a time
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep up the good work. Onward and upwards!!
@calaco58527 күн бұрын
58 days sober and going strong!! sober October down next up, no drink November! 👍🏾💪🏾🚫🍾#goharder #soberoctober
@gwillis0126 күн бұрын
Congrats on choosing sobriety Things will become better day by day
@calaco58526 күн бұрын
@gwillis01 thank you!
@max05147226 күн бұрын
Stayed sober and gonna keep going!
@tinanevitt100327 күн бұрын
Day 68 for me❣
@lydiadeetzzz26 күн бұрын
Celebrated 90 days on 10/27. Still sober.
@jameslast319227 күн бұрын
Been sober for over seven months so far. 🎉 October was more difficult as it’s spring here down under so although I’ve been thinking about drinking again recently, conversely I can’t think of one genuine good reason or gain to drink again. I only have positives not to drink and negatives in store if I do! Thanks for you supportive Chanel.
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep up the good work! Alcohol has no redeeming features!
@RinoSchiavoCampo26 күн бұрын
1 year today. Thank you Getting Sober Again... You have been a huge part of my journey. I look forward to many more years of growing together.
@GettingSoberAgain25 күн бұрын
🏆 LETS GOOOOOOOOOOO 1 YEAR YESSSSSSSSSS!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
@gfellman127 күн бұрын
I began the month facing just one potentially derailing thing (being 6 months into a 12 month separation en route to a divorce 🙃) then 10 days in, I was dealing with the death of my father. Despite these huge life challenges, I made it all 31 days without drinking any alcohol. (Okay, I had one sip of wine at communion.) I'm not gonna lie, it was very hard when everyone around me was toasting my dad. But thankfully I have some very encouraging and supportive family members who made me feel good about my choice. I'm going to try carrying on as long as I can. My ultimate goal is to simply change my relationship with alcohol. If becomes more than that, so be it.
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep striving to improve yourself gfellman1.
@benjamintrahin957127 күн бұрын
Sober almost 13 months
@aleksandraziva15727 күн бұрын
still sober 14 weeks on the 31st
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep up the good work
@aleksandraziva15726 күн бұрын
@gwillis01 thank you same to you 😊
@davidboudreau405427 күн бұрын
I did my first sober October and I got a B+.....yes I drank on 4 days in total, but that means I didn't drink on 27 days. So I was sober 87% of the month. And actually if I want to get super technical, the amount of hours I spent drinking on those 4 separate days only adds up to just about 24 hours in total. Which is only one day. So with that in mind, I actually earned an A, because I was sober 97% of the total hours in October. Like Jae suggests in this video, don't be hard on yourself if you have a slipup or two. Because you can adjust your view and make the negative into something more positive. Like I just did with my grade I earned for Sober October. I am looking forward to No Drink November and Delightfully Dry December. Perhaps I will earn an A+ in those months. Thats my goal and I believe I can do it this time...
@jacobgarner559327 күн бұрын
I only did on week sober for October but so far that’s my record ‼️
@rkp31727 күн бұрын
Looking forward to No Beer November-my OLD choice. 13 days sober woohoo
@hankscorpio3327 күн бұрын
Other than the cold medicine I didn't realise was 7% alcohol 🤦♂️ I got through it no problem. Thinking of keeping it going for November too.
@Knightcommander6927 күн бұрын
I’m back from a brutal relapse Jae. Went so broke my membership got cancelled. Will re join after I fix the chaos I made. God bless you Jae
@GettingSoberAgain27 күн бұрын
I look forward to hearing about your brighter days ahead!
@Art-2-Recovery27 күн бұрын
I have been sober through 3 Octobers, but I can still remember my first one and how difficult it was. Getting and staying sober is tough, and it took many tries to finally get sober. I say that to say this, if you gave this challenge a try and did slip, don't beat yourself up. I wish you all the best. Thank you for all your information,I do get a lot from it.
@mattjohn473127 күн бұрын
Sober the whole time. It's been a weird time. I'm helping a neighbor whose son self-deleted on 10/4. And I lost my medicaid and got forced off zoloft! But guess what- I'm staying off it! I knew there was a huge risk something would interfere with my supply. As it turns out, zoloft ain't what it's claimed to be. It stops working after a few years. I do Not recommend it, except to people who are very old or terminally ill. Blessings everyone, we support your sobriety!
@dianemcmahan515927 күн бұрын
God bless you Jae. 👍🏼👍🏼🌿🕊
@crestfallenraven27 күн бұрын
I made it through the month, but with a handful of "agitation" episodes, like an unscratchable mental itch. I do feel a bit guilty that I relied on Kratom every day to get through, because it indicates still having a perceived need to be buzzed in the late afternoons or early evenings :( But what you said about "not being perfect, but making progress" brings me some relief. Love your perspectives and encouragement
@quintingoldie927627 күн бұрын
Just completed my 3rd Sober October. 2years 1 month Sober let’s hope I make many more.
@jackhobbie430526 күн бұрын
Well as i sit here at 12:45am November 1st, i can say i did it! Thank you for all the videos and words of encouragement. I set out on this journey with no real plan, i now have one. I plan on keeping going without drinking. Thanks again!
@GettingSoberAgain25 күн бұрын
I look forward to hearing how your journey continues! 🫂
@going4sober27 күн бұрын
Great advice! this time of year is challenging on many levels!
@rico.productions27 күн бұрын
This is my first time commenting here I'm glad I found this channel, never really subscribed to the AA thing but still needed the support. Started watching videos about alcoholism or stories from other people who reached that dreadful point of realizing there's DEFINITELY a problem. I'm 42 from Denver, CO...been binge drinking for years and always told myself there's no problem because I typically only did it on the weekends, but those weekends I would knock back an entire handle of liquor every day for 3 or 4 days straight and wake up in a parking lot or in the ugliest of situations... just last weekend it happened again I blew a whole bunch of money on booze strippers and prostitutes and I don't have much to begin with, don't know how I completely lose control of myself like that, the shame is overwhelming. I said enough is enough I am sick of this behavior and as we speak I am looking forward to a different future. Thank you for creating this channel
@GettingSoberAgain27 күн бұрын
No scarier feeling than heading to the STD clinic the next morning
@GettingSoberAgain27 күн бұрын
And btw...alcohol hits DIFFERENT in that altitude. the first time I drank in Denver, I thought someone roofied me
@alexanderalvarez433327 күн бұрын
I’m newly sober from alcohol, for a long time it took over me I got sober and beat it, but then started having bad anxiety and turned to the bottle again only making things worse,. As of today I’m officially 21 days sober and I feel amazing! Still not where I want to be but I’m going to do everything I can to get myself there
@GettingSoberAgain27 күн бұрын
You got this!! 💪
@BreakawayHolidays27 күн бұрын
15 days sober now feeling amazing never go back to posion again thnks jae no axnity more energy clear skin like i am new born in this world ist 4 days was hell be strong 💪💪💪
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Things will get better day by day. Keep the positive momentum going!
@BreakawayHolidays27 күн бұрын
@gwillis01 thnks ♥️
@gwillis0126 күн бұрын
@@BreakawayHolidays Always willing to post a message of hope and encouragement
@sylmanyeki932327 күн бұрын
Hi! So far so good! Ive been on this journey since October 1st. It’s not easy, but Im committed thus far. It also helped that I moved out of state. Where I used to live was literally next door to the liquor store
@gardenenlightenment27 күн бұрын
I did January but then my “1or2” pledge became many. Took the leap again at the last new moon (2nd). This month has been hard. What really got me going was my increasing belly fat. I didn’t realize how all those strong hoppy IPA’s pack on the calories. I’ve enjoyed listening to these and other videos and had never heard of Sober October but it’s perfect. So is 90 days around New Years. I’ve been thrilled with my receding waistline and really impressed with my evening energy and productivity. My wife is thrilled as well. I’ve been able to go out with friends, go to bars… thank goodness for NA beer (Trail Pass!) and ginger beer. I’m in it through the cold moon and likely for good. Learning more about the chronic health dangers has really helped. Thanks Jae!🤗. Next up: wife’s birthday and Thanksgiving. I have high confidence and determination!
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep the positive momentum going!!
@kerriy.934726 күн бұрын
I made it for most of Oct. Only 3 days I wasn't sober. I liked the practice so much that I want to try no drink Nov.
@kingneptune812027 күн бұрын
58 days and doing no drink November
@gwillis0127 күн бұрын
Keep up the good work. Congrats on 58 days sober
@jest427 күн бұрын
36 days! 💜
@amyd677827 күн бұрын
I just found this channel on Monday but your videos and advice have really been helpful. Today is my 4th day sober... again, and will probably be my 1st Halloween sober in many years, but I will keep going. Thanks for all you do!
@raphaellopes490626 күн бұрын
2 weeks so far , I’m glad I found your channel to keep up , thanks !
@GettingSoberAgain25 күн бұрын
We're so happy to have you here!
@tonymaiers170227 күн бұрын
I made it all month! Feel real good about it. I Need to be careful when everything is going great is when I can get in trouble. Thanks for your video.
@reneefriedman185827 күн бұрын
Now that I’m 150 days plus, I feel like I have a block when trying to engage socially. I’m not going back to drinking again but I’m really understanding more of why it was so difficult to walk away. Now I’m working on how to be a better conversationalist without the alcohol.
@bet646727 күн бұрын
I didn’t make the whole month- but you described me perfectly in the beginning- kids/spouse- all that. It’s HARD.
@sjnop150827 күн бұрын
It will be about 90 days here next week. I went from never having a streak of sobriety longer then a week from age 13-39, to 30 days, then 54, then 35 now 90. I gave up for a bit this summer but my previous streaks made me that much more aware about how it was affecting me. Last 90 have been the easiest yet.
@jars896926 күн бұрын
I made it to!!! I'm going to continue 😊
@tabby7452123 күн бұрын
I stopped the weekend before October began. My partner convinced me to have a few that next Saturday. I reset my sobriety calendar back up when I had finished my last drink. On day 29 now! I’ve got a lot of time on my hands now. It feels good to not be anxious in the morning and trying to piece together what might have or might not have happened the evening before. Afraid of checking my phone. Thank you Jae and the community for the videos and comments! It has been very helpful! ❤
@jesselovesyah27 күн бұрын
Happy Sober October! Got a 30 day streak! Feeling good and looking stronger! I got 4 guys to try sober October with me but they all fell off pretty early on. Excellent work to all who made it!👻
@jackiee41027 күн бұрын
Hi Jae....Love your videos, thank you for making them....227 day sober! Woo hoo. I'm shooting for my first year sober for many, many years. I'm 63 and feel better than I have in a long time. I'm looking to be a beacon of hope for a few of my family members that could use to be sober too. Thanks again for all you do. (Ps-I'm an only child too I can totally relate the eye rolls when people find out...hahaha) Go us!!
@GettingSoberAgain27 күн бұрын
More snacks for US 🤣🤣🤣
@jackiee41027 күн бұрын
@@GettingSoberAgain 👍😂
@mitchellanderson306825 күн бұрын
Dropped the ball pretty bad on Sober October, so now I’m doing my best to have a No Drink November
@GettingSoberAgain25 күн бұрын
@@mitchellanderson3068 what does your "best" sound like?
@sylviatheune663423 күн бұрын
Thanks to your channel i had the confidence to face my negative feelings instead of numbing them. In august i started a New job and stopped drinking. New positive experiences without alcohol made me feel very good Now, 90 days sober feels great! Im planning to stay sober the rest of 2024!