Social Alphas vs Sexual Alphas

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[@devohnmitchell]

Sexual Alpha=Sexually Dominant Social Alpha=Socially Dominant

[@RomWills]

That's it in a nutshell.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

It's about being a leader in any form or shape. You don't act as a leader they are born. I'm blessed and i love it.

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@mudaddy1]

People are alphas in their specific groups. When you branch out and travel, you WILL find others more successful and above. Good video

[@RomWills]

That's why I always said it's relative.

[@aaronbrutus2654]

I've noticed that only women who are an 8 or higher will make eye contact with me. A 7 or lower will completely ignore me. a 4 or 5 will actually be borderline rude to me EVEN if I try to flirt with her. Even if I find a 4 or 5 attractive she knows I am out of her league and won't entertain my advances. This game is CRAZY. . .

[@RomWills]

Very attractive women tend to be more direct as a group which makes it easier for men to deal with them.

[@aaronbrutus2654]

Rom Wills I'm about to go to another level. I wonder if you know what I mean. If I walk into a room or a workplace where it is obvious I'm the dominate male above other males the highest rated female is aware of my presence AT ALL TIMES. Day and night. She'll never joke around or be comfortable with me like she is with the other males. I'm a very serious dude. If I walk into the same room as her she corrects herself as if she's standing at attention. If I address her or even look in her direction her response or demeanor is like she's saying "just bend me over already and fuck me."

[@100footsie]

Thanks for response and for addressing that issue. As always you bring real insight and clarity to this thing we call life. Hope you keepem coming big bro. Peace.

[@RomWills]

It's an important issue. I know of situations where a woman will have a highly paid man who has all the material bells and whistles and yet cheat with a man living in a roach infested apartment sleeping on an air mattress.

[@Normanhamiltonbnb]

THANK YOU for putting this out! The social element does not fully transfer into sexual realm!

[@RomWills]

It's two different worlds.

[@GokuBlack-sn5dr]

this is why I'm bulking

[@RomWills]

Put in the work.

[@targetegrat]

I have to agree with Rom with the importance of working out. Im 5 6 on a good day but these women have been checking me out since I starting working out. One even asked if I was personal trainer and could I train her.

[@RomWills]

Muscles do it.

[@gorjusgorillawitz2459]

Uncle Rom...maaaaaaaaan....youre a breath of fresh air...Ive been noticing changes in society and have for a looong time and couldnt put a finger on it or a word on it. Although internally I couldnt find myself rolling with status quo and because really I cant against my nature I kept wondering am I getting old or GOING CRAZY....and I dont know how I came along your page but DAMN....THANKS... I aint crazy and not alone...CONFIRMATION...you remind of the cats I grew up listening to down in NORFOLK....THANKS...and I have to say Im 42 so Id probabaly should say BIG BRO....

[@RomWills]

I'm old school. We lost a lot in the last forty years as far how to deal with women. I'm trying to keep some things alive.

[@kelvinrice7872]

On Point Video Rom! I totally agree with the things you're saying in this video! Every man is capable of being an alpha or a beta regardless of your financial situation whether you have a lot of money or little money or no money at all! Goes back to what we've been saying all the time, having money is good but it will only get you so far when it comes to the world of women. Now you may be fortunate enough to take it to the next level with that woman because of your financial status or other status outside of that but does that make her physically attracted to you, No! A lot of times, most of the time, women we'll get with those kind of men which are considered masked men like you said who may not be sexually or physically appealing to that particular woman in no shape form or fashion but they'll still hook up with that man for resources and beneficial reasons! That's why you'll have a woman with a lot of money or a woman who has a husband with a lot of money, either or neither one may not be that physically or sexually attracted to man but willing for those specific reasons, will deal with another guy on the side because that guy has the physical appealing aspect to that woman! Even though you'll have some women that'll just go straight for the man with the money and resources but they're going to always lust for that man who has that physical body and sex appeal even if he hadn't won the genetic Lottery regardless of his financial situation ! See when you have that physical body and sex appeal, you have a better chance of being successful with women on both sides of the fence with a lot of money or a little money because you have the kind of sex appeal and body that women lust for. To be honest, it's a plus to have the whole package, the money, the sex appeal and the body! That falls under the category of the genius Bruiser like you mentioned before and done a video on! You have those kind of men out there who has it going on on all ends of the stick which is a damn good thing. So that's why men need to understand that it just having the money, it just don't stop there! If you really want to have that relationship and be really successful at dealing with women on a sexual level, you want to work on having that whole package! Put yourself in that position to become that genius Bruiser. Once you develop yourself and get that whole package as a man, then it won't just be about your money and resources, it'll be about you as well, if not more because you have that sex appeal and physical body intact that turns that woman really on as well. Guess what, if things get a little rough for you financially, by you turning that woman on with your physical appearance and sex appeal as well as pleasing them sexually too, they'll stick around and might help you get back on your feet if they able to especially if they're really into you like that , either way, they're going to stick around because they know your potential from your past achievements and accomplishments! Hands down!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@RomWills]

You summed up things very nicely.

[@The_Equalizer23]

Good morning, this vid is vital for men to digest and implement. This is why men MUST be their mental point of origin (health, mission, purpose). Women truly are passengers in our individual journeys. Also, the ONLY women who have a legitimate chance with a healthy masculine man/superior man. Are women who are young, feminine, submissive, healthy (mind, body, emotionally), supportive, physically attractive and knows how to take care of a home. That means 95%-97% of women seriously need to wake up because they aren't up to par (female equivalent to men firing on all cylinders). It is what it is... No free lunches!

[@skinfanjay]

Agreed. Brutha

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@MegaPsycho84]

salchih Yes sir

[@premehpbm4096]

salchih 💯👏💒👌💥✊🐃🔥

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up Big Rom, Coming from a woman my mother told me self preservation first and everything else will fall in order live by code die by the cold and my father demonstration showed me that's how I related.

[@RomWills]

You got great advice.

[@SikkDiggy]

"He wears a mask, and his face grows to fit it." - George Orwell. It's important to know that a woman will view a man in one way and one way only. That being in the context of how a man "fits" in her life. Or what role(s) she has him playing. It denies the man his humanity. In fact, very few women will see a man as a human being. As in there is more than one side to him. Instead he's viewed in one way: how she perceives him or what she projects him to be. Great video, Uncle Rom. Speaking about people wearing masks, what can be said about the mask woman?

[@RomWills]

You know I need to do a video a Masked Women. Thanks. I'll shout you out in the video.

[@SikkDiggy]

I appreciate that. Still, what's important is the people are given the information and made aware of the mask woman as well as other important concepts. Do the video justice, Uncle Rom.

[@premehpbm4096]

SikkDiggy good *GAHD DAMMIT* that George Orwell quote is 🔥 _hawt fiya_ 🔥

[@deadstar44]

It's the ladder theory. But yeah, the mask analogy works. If you've got the sexual mask, she will pigeonhole you as a sex boytoy, not boyfriend material's mask even though you try to wear it. It's a waste of energy trying to switch masks.

[@JJ-es9cg]

Once again you nailed it brother👊👌👍

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@mrbarlow7128]

RIGHT ON POINT ROM! Example the movie casino. Robert Dinero was a Straight up Alpha as far as legal gambling and business Wise , He was a alpha dog, but when it came to ginger Sharon Stone Character. He was a SUPER SIMP...

[@RomWills]

That's the real.

[@keifx2126]

Another smash hit. Thanks Rom.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@UM2636]

I'll be honest this video didn't make sense till the end when u mention trying to do both cause that what I was thinking of... but than again most your videos leave me lost till u bring everything back full circle, great video

[@RomWills]

You know how I flow.

[@nupe1931]

Great fuckin video Rom. Man you keep me grounded and balanced. I been through it the past 5 years in a marriage that I shouldn’t have gotten into..especially at 29. Man I wish I knew then what I know now. I’ve always been a sexual alpha..but my finances were very shaky. Gettin it together now

[@ACTIONJACKSON-rq3vx]

GOOD CONTENT BROTHER

[@johnnycage8327]

Good video, bro. Do a video on why some girls just can't stand guys who look better than them. I've had girls straight up hating on me because i got long/thick eyelashes (looks like i have mascara) & so called "fleaky eyebrows".

[@RomWills]

Check out my archives. I've addressed this issue in several videos.

[@Masterteacherofattraction]

Women say the same thing about my eyelashes

[@johnnycage8327]

Platinum Hustle i joke around alot, that's a part of my charm, to quote what girls have said ;)

[@KtotheG]

I came to the conclusion years ago that manhood as we know it in the western hemisphere is defined by 3 basic cues: sex, money and physical dominance. Usually, when a man lacks in one area, he compensates in one or two other areas. The lame who may not be that good with the ladies will tend to focus on attaining monetary success or intimidating other men to attain a social cache of manhood, usually in hopes of attracting the ladies that way. The weak guy who can't fight or engage in physical combat with other men will focus on getting money or being a ladies man. The broke guy who is too lazy or too stupid to acquire wealth will focus on being a ladies man or physically intimidating other men. The goal appears to be to have all three mastered, so you can be hailed as the ultimate alpha or master in all domains. Nobody wants to be a loser in all three, otherwise, what would be the reason for living? Of course, this is just a rudimentary explanation of the basic roots or markers of manhood, because we as a civilized and enlightened society want manhood to be more than those three identifiers... i.e. the family man, the man of God, the man of honor or principle, the enlightened man, the builder, the teacher, etc. But it's like if those three basics aren't in place, then we just don't feel like men. Because it seems that manhood is basically about power and conquering.

[@RomWills]

Well said fam. You need to be doing videos. You have some great and insightful comments.

[@KtotheG]

Rom Wills Thanks, man. I've been told that before, but I don't know. I've got a lot going on in my life right now. I might give it a go once I get situated.

[@KtotheG]

ca music Life is not static. These things are usually fluid. You can be on top one day and on the bottom the next, and vice versa.

[@adrianthomas373]

Amazing video, I honestly felt I've lost a woman or two due to me not being that Corporate/Economic Social Alpha, so I've been really focusing on that aspect of my life.

[@RomWills]

Many women get past the chasing Mr. Goodbar phase and focus on the Money Man.

[@azoladder]

This video fire...Rom does it again.. if Men would have learned this game at an earlier age including myself so much time and money would be saved....thanx once again....

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@Masterteacherofattraction]

Good video Uncle Rom

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@AntonioWolfpack]

I remember at an old job at aretail store. I was a janitor. There would be opportunities to talk and check them out.. One chick saw me.cleaning bathrooms. She came around me and I said hi. She sent some signals. Another girl was sending me signals when i got into work one day. But Once she saw me put on my uniform she said "oh... Your a janitor" lol.

[@aye-c-dee7857]

Good video Rom. I began listening to a few of your videos recently because Alan Roger Currie mentioned your name a couple of times in his videos. You and Alan seem to think alike in a lot of ways when it comes to social alphas vs sexual alphas. Alan’s term for social alphas is beta males with alpha traits, which means they can be alpha in the social world and business world because of their money and status, but totally beta with women. I think many men need to understand this. Because I know men who can fight real good and are even bullies with other men because of their fighting skills, which would make them viewed as alphas by other men, but some of those same guys are total pussies with women and let their women boss them around. Of the few videos I’ve watched of yours, I have enjoyed them and will continue to watch more. You and Alan and probably the top advice givers here on youtube, although I agree with Tony Maceo that Alan comes across as more egotistical than you do. lol

[@RomWills]

That's what's up fam. You've seen what I've seen. It amazes me when I see Goons following a woman around.

[@AlanRogerCurrie_ModeOne]

LOL @ aye-c-dee .... well, at least you did not refer to me as *both* "egotistical" AND "arrogant" like you did in my comments section. I ain't mad at you though young brother. And yes ... it is very true that a man can be very "Alpha" when it comes to his level of career success, financial success, or even his boxing & fighting skills ... but at the same time be incredibly *Beta* when it comes to dealing with women. #fact

[@aye-c-dee7857]

lol It's all good brother currie! I was wrong for calling you arrogant, but we both know you have a huge ego!! lolol

[@loveincorporated9658]

The body is certainly the foundation

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@YoungIssyCartel]

“ they go for the status not their essence “

[@sjoerdvermeijden]

Good info!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@sjoerdvermeijden]

Is that business channel up and running?

[@BreanaDenise]

Speak on it Rom!

[@RomWills]

Thanks sis.

[@kevinjones9127]

Hey Bro Rom this Kev another awesome video i have a question about body types that women would find most sexually attractive in terms of a ripped body like say boxer build or sprinter versus a bulk build like a middle linebacker or elite running back just want your take since you have a background in physical training and you know what real deal is for most part

[@RomWills]

The sprinter body is the most loved by women. It's because he looks like he has endurance.

[@CharlesGilmore3]

Excellent.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp]

I am neither but its very easy for me to be a social alpha. Its the sexual side I am working on to combine the two. I must say, you helped me a lot dealing with the pressure as a black man to be a "Monster Mandingo". I heard "10 and 12 inch" stories from girls as a teenager which had me anxious for years. Now I know you have to work on her mind and body to make her tap out. Can't wait to get your book.

[@RomWills]

Just work on being the best you.

[@mr.nutinherminkz101]

YOU THE OG I NEVA HAD I FUCKS WIT YA KING

[@nupe1931]

You gotta be a little bit of both. I’m a Libra so I’m all about balance.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@tajhlee6134]

I wanna be a sexual alpha but it seem like every time I work out I see no results

[@RomWills]

Stay working out for your own health. It's the foundation. You still need other things though.

[@dawntecollins]

count your calories sounds like you need to burn fat to reveal your muscle youve been building.....diet is the key

[@hemeothunder]

this topic has to be on television..... I can sense you have a lot of experience in dating world......man this...topic...is too....straight...😎✌️ anyways it's combination of face and body....

[@RomWills]

Too much experience. I would love for a woman to show me something new.

[@hemeothunder]

Rom Wills women are always new.....😂 in a strange way....✌️😅

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

+hemanth kumar do indian men prefer to be approached especially if you're non asian?? just asking for future reference.

[@hemeothunder]

bronzed beauty yes

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

+hemanth kumar ok thanks. this guy that works in the same building as me i met him a few days ago and we stiked up convo and he's de attractive to me and wouldn't mind getting to know him more being only if he's single.

[@andretownsel2989]

Hey Rom your on money with this one cause right now I'm in a friendly competition with this social alpha at my job. Because he likes this woman that I like as well but this woman already chose me I just didn't act upon it. So now this Social Alpha who's one of the Bar manager just promoted her upstairs so I think he's trying to turn that promotion into marriage. What's your input on this.

[@RomWills]

He's trying to keep you away from her. I've had managers on jobs tell me to stay away from a woman and then go for her themselves.

[@spartacusjackson9653]

Great video Uncle Rom but I would love to hear you talk about that social alpha who is also a sexual alpha. Lol! I know you have content for that subject. The Men's Imprint is real.

[@RomWills]

That's my thing. Men need to strive to be all things.

[@PutYourselfOn100]

💯

[@premehpbm4096]

And thanks again Mr Rom for reinforcing the need for brothers *TO GET THAT BODY IN CHECK* . And truth be told We don't need a 6 pack or be hella ripped. Just having *a masculine SHAPE to us* will do. Often times just a good shoulder to waist ratio is more than adequate. Get some arms & *IT'S ON* Gents. You can even get away with having a mild belly or some mini man boobs. *BUT..... if you can fill out a fitted shirt...* you'll find that ladies always Always *ALWAYS* find a way to _discreetly_ sneak their hands onto you 😈☻ *#iSwearDeyDo*

[@RomWills]

That's the game.

[@user-nb7ve6vt4y]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

I've never met a sexual alpha in nyc ... lol

[@RomWills]

You might have to move sis.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

rom+ didn't i tell you ain't shit here!! lmaooo and also will you do be doing a mini vid on what characteristics a asexual alpha has to easily point them out!??

[@EdwardNigm]

Come to ATL like I said.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

+atl steelo lmaooooooo!! only if you find me a groom !

[@kencabinson9720]

bronzed beauty Thats because NY dudes are too busy trying to get it and all about upward mobility...