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Hi my loves! Back with another sit down video with one of my favourite creatorsss - ‪@MyLucyBenson‬ We discuss things social media has made common that really aren't and our personal views on it. I also caught my live reaction to hitting 100k subscribers - spoiler alert I CRIED lol. Enjoy!
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F A Q
- Where are you ?
Lagos, Nigeria.
- How old are you?
I’m 25 years old, my birthday is on September 26.
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For my main videos use the Canon M50 and I vlog using the Sony ZV1
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[@treasureagomuo1376]

It used to be peer pressure, now it's social media pressure. This is the combo we needed. Thanks Kamsi

[@ess789]

fr!

[@UnapologeticArewaBabe]

thisssss

[@homewithese]

I agree with everything except the one about sharing your faith. Like you rightly said people are different and for some this might be a way people evangelise. For example I love Mazino Malaka because of the subtle way she shares her faith and it’s inspiring for me. Just the way people watch lifestyle influencers on maybe ways to improve their physical fitness, wellbeing and so on. They can also watch / follow these Christian influencers on how to grow in their faith or spiritual journey because Christianity is a way of life after all. Anyway congratulations on 100k 🎉 you deserve it

[@voiceofvaino]

Please could you share her link? I don't seem to find her

[@nietah325]

No wayss !! Two of my favorite truth tellers !! so glad Lucy is on here..

[@kamsinnamani]

🤭🤍🤍

[@user-px7pe8yh4v]

I mean 😩😩❤️❤️❤️

[@maryhughie4070]

Lol If you’re a Christian and Lucy benson is your favorite truth teller then hun u need to rethink things🌝. Someone who’s shaming and finds Christian content cringe shouldn’t isn’t a truth teller. Wisdom will always be profitable to direct💕.

[@kamsinnamani]

Hi loves! Back with another chitchat video with my good sis - Lucy Benson (check out her own video on her channel too).Hope you watch till the end and grab a tissue too🥹🫶🏽

[@hassana_xo]

The end🥹💃🏽

[@Janederryo]

🥺🥰

[@Chisomm]

As one who is married and works in tech... I agree with everything that was said in this video 😅😂. Like i couldn't agree more. I'd say this tho, I think we definitely need more christian content but as Lucy said, we dont need to know everything that's going on between you and God, we just need people that pretty much speak of the goodness of God in their lives, their struggles, etc. The devil is utilising social media very well in our days and we need childred of God to speak up as well. Nice video as always Kamsi. 💓

[@kamsinnamani]

True true true🫶🏽

[@fenixcam9366]

I couldn’t agree with you more very well said

[@ngofashekinah6110]

Kamsiiiii. Omg. that part where you mentioned living with a man who you're not married to like resonated with me sooo well. I see it everyday and infact they progress from just living together to being influencers together when they are unmarried and still living together. I can never ever understand it. I also see some where they start to have kids and call themselves partners and I'm like whatttt????? I can never understand it and yes I feel like the woman is not gaining anything because girlll those are actually not your in-laws and according to the law, that man is nothing more than your boyfriend. Then also the part where you said the kids start to have a different last name from the lady but she still be in the equation. Like girlllll. I honestly can never get it.

[@ogbeneokoh]

Moral of the story TIKTOK IS A CRAZY PLACE SOCIAL MEDIA IS NOT REAL and HAVE A LIL BIT OF SHAME PLEASE🙏🏽 Congratulations again Kamsi🥺❤️...Lucy just got a new subscriber cos I couldn’t agree more❤

[@theinfluentialprincess]

The 🔥 Collab we didn't know we needed 🥳🥳💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

[@worthyyoung]

Yesss

[@kateelfridaodeh]

You girls are right, a friend of mine got pregnant after cohabiting and now they are separated. The girl has been lying they were married. The guy embarrassed her by saying he never paid anything on her head . Now she’s depressed

[@rebeccaobewu5980]

every lady who really wants to level up should read this book "why men love bitches" everything kamsi and lucy are saying are in this book and even more. When you read that book you really understand how men act and why they do so and how to be a high value woman to attract high value and better men.

[@pameladiagne1580]

Yea please you are right

[@rebeccaobewu5980]

have you read it?

[@DimmaAjax]

Hi I would love to read. Can you share if you have the soft copy?

[@rebeccaobewu5980]

Yes i have it but i don't know how to share it here on youtube@@DimmaAjax

[@nkirupriscanzekwe2894]

I have read the book and I had to go back and keep reading

[@yhudiejamesvlog1935]

Not Kamsi getting me to tear up too with her reaction to 100k. Congratulations girl… you deserve it. I am so so proud of you❤🎉

[@ofeimuanna9563]

Walk with God is trending?? Wow that’s bomb! That’s the trend that should last forever! It’s better than any other trend that should exist! So please if you want to share your Christian walk online pleasesee do! Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good works and glorify your father in Heaven. Math 5:16

[@maryhughie4070]

Another soldier Of Christ has spoken👏🏾. Remember Jesus did say that many will reject him, however as you did not deny him in the presence of his creation, so will he not deny you in the presence of his father in heaven. God doesn’t overlook such things and you chose to speak up for him so therefore, get ready because within the next few months he is going to stand up for you in a situation. I’m assuring you. Stay blessed 💅🏾

[@sarahscorner08]

Aww I just love that Kamsi is becoming so comfortable around us to even share her raw feelings, Omg love the vulnerability ❤

[@ofonasahaakpan]

You deserve this and more Kamsi. Congratulations dear. I agreed with all your opinions except one; sharing your relationship with God. A short clip on prayer time and bible study is not bad. It acts as a reminder to some people to stop and Pray or Read the Bible. A true christian will not video her entire prayer session; its a sacred moment between her and her CREATOR. However, In-depth personal stuffs with God should be kept personal; all depends on the individual. My true opinion.

[@NoraChisenga]

I love this video, i agree with every opinion except one; sharing your relationship with God. My personal opinion in sharing your christian journey is like sharing your facial routine, what you do in order to have your face look so good? But the way your routine works for your skin will not be the same way it will work on mine. Some compoments i will have to do away with because my skin is different from yours. But you putting out that routine is to inspire someone to take care of theirs and not neglect it. Someone sharing their christian journey is not trying to impose that on you but to inspire you to pursue God in all that you do, but like the skin care, the routine i share with you will not be the same as your routine at the level of intimacy you have with God. It is just there to inspire you to actively seek Him in the lifesfyle you have chosen to pursue. Sadly there are some youtubers that have chosen to make this a trend but God can never be a trend, for the fruit beared will determine that which is being natured in the secret place with Him. And also while men slept, the theif came and throw tares into the field containing the good seed and non could tell which was good and which was not. They grew together. But weeds have their roots at the surface.

[@maryhughie4070]

You said it all Nora and I’m promising you big time that for speaking up for the King of Kings, and have stood out amongst all the ass kissers in this comment section, Jesus will speak up you this year. Mark my words😇. You will be amazed 💅🏾.

[@Asmauu_Ahmed]

Tbh, when people become in tune with their faith, its hard for them not to bring it up all the time. It becomes like their glasses by which they view everything and they can't stop talking about it. Kamsi is right. Everyone's different. I feel you didn't agree with that point 100. With the way she asked you the question, she hardly gave you room to negate.

[@_womaninpower]

I don't think there's anything wrong with sharing your relationship and growth with God to encourage others to build that relationship. A relationship with God is a lifestyle and sometimes it just reflects even without you going into details about it. Testimonies are important to build faith. For context, we would not know anything about building a relationship with God if the disciples and apostles in the Bible did not share. But, we should draw the line at sharing your personal, intimate relations with God (prayer, fellowship, devotion etc). Somethings are intimate and sacred and should never be shared.

[@maryhughie4070]

If the apostles were alive today in this era of social media and basically online things. And If Peter and the other disciples were online do you believe that Peter will “limit” his messages, devotions etc while doing the work of Christ? 😇 just wondering

[@_womaninpower]

No. Why will you limit your message because of social media? That's absurd. What is not absurd though, is choosing to keep intimate things intimate, and not putting a camera in your face to record private times of devotion. That's normal. Will Peter and the apostles teach us how to build a solid devotion? Yes, it's all over the Bible. They sure wouldn't desecrate the intimacy of their personal devotions with a camera. Let's tell ourselves the truth 🤣🤣 In the OT, when the High Priest went into the Most Holy Place he had to go ALONE because of the sacredness of the place- that is what our devotion is like in the new covenant.

[@stepp-uppwithnecol4381]

Its the back ground for me, it makes me relaxed! The conversation is definitely something to address, bc the world we live in, peer pressure, or social media has taken over. This causes people to want or desire to live a lifestyle they may not be able to afford. Now let me add to that, you can become a business owner, or be an influencer, or if you can sing or have other talent, cooking etc. I do feel you can achieve on those same levels in life with consistency and platforms and other resources. The point is being content with where your at, but while working to get in a better position, you do not have to settle but dont be so hard on yourself if you dont reach your destination or purpose as quick as someone else. Focus on yourself, self love, self-awareness, is very important.

[@EJIMANnenaNgozi]

I love this video! I literally agree with all these points. Social media has us confused. Why I limit my time on IG and it’s the only social network I use! I can’t keep up lol. Another unpopular opinion is you have to own a home or your “wasting money”. Renting does not mean your broke! Social media glamorizes so many unrealistic standards. Y’all are both so real and classy, I love it!

[@DeborahIssa]

This can't end here😭! There is absolutely too much to be said on this topic, we need a part 2! Also congrats on reaching 100k subscribers🥳I'm so happy for your growth!

[@emmanuellaaire9849]

I agree with every single thing you guys said.💯💯💯 Being a high value woman isn't just about you appearance or the way you speak ... It's also about being aware of things you can and cannot share..... Kudos kamsi Amazing video😍😍

[@Deiraaraa]

I’m in love with this video honestly please tell them the truth… LETS BRING BACK SHAME 🙏🏾 and your opinion is your opinion thank you

[@doggbosssoul1206]

Living with a guy is not a bad thing, it becomes a bad thing and icky when she is so dependable to the brim😒.. Its not seeing a person everyday that makes one looses interest.. Its what one does with their lives..not just cooking for him, cleaning up after him, those things are naturally imbedded in a woman.. Its the VALUE A PERSON GIVES THEMSELVES..... because even when you dont still see him everyother day see finish can still come in.... Its all VALUE...loads of love ladies... ❤❤

[@maryhughie4070]

You’re have a lot of valid statements. I don’t know if you’re a Christian or not so I don’t want to assume. Yes you’re right it’s about value. But women need to value themselves more. Moving in With someone is a big deal. When the guy has had everything he wouldn’t see anything more special. Yes see finish can happen in marriage too but it’ll be on the fault of both partners because you both made a vow. In this case, Boyfriend and girlfriend is not enough such make such decision🌝. As you only have his words to bank on, not his commitment and vow. I could go and on but it’ll be too long to read which no one has the time to obviously. Stay safe💕

[@winnie4_real.]

So proud of you, kamsi.

[@ThroughBrookesEyes]

You’re remarkably lively now. My two faves in one video. Thank you for this video. Girllllll, it means a lot to me to know that I’m a “normal girl.” Like, how can I be sweating like this cos I feel my KZbin videos don’t have a background other than a white wall. Like, I literally feel it’s not enough. But damn, I needed to hear this.

[@kamsinnamani]

So happy to hear🤍

[@JENNYUK]

9:35 living with my partner before marriage is a NO NO!!!!!!!!! It’ll never make sense to me tooo 😂😂😂😂😂

[@temibillions_]

I'm so glad we still have realistic people out there!❤

[@sinaimulamba3252]

I agree with a lot of what was said except the "sharing your faith" aspect. Everyone is different like you said, and we must also take factors like environment, age and generation into consideration. Nowadays with Gen z's, a lot want to share about their faith, to help other Gen z's and continue to be a "light". With the rise of wicked things going on, on social media, especially Tiktok, this can be a way for young Christians to take up space. Additionally, some people are "madly" in love with God; some may have never had a trace of Christianity in their families and when they encounter "Truth" they want to share it with the whole world. Also, I don't believe all who do share, share "everything". Ultimately, the rise of this "trend" has helped many become less ashamed of their Faith, which is a positive thing. There's actually a lot more advantages to this than disadvantages, so I don't believe that this should even be considered a "turn off". However, I'm glad that you said that these were just opinions. Good video, overall! Congratulations to a 100K!🎉

[@maryhughie4070]

Hehehe nahh Lucy messed up by bringing up sharing faith. It shouldn’t even be something of “everyone’s opinion”. God wants his message to reach people, and if Christians make vlogs, blogs etc about it then good. And whoever is doing so with social attention will have the most high to answer to. But no way should it be something that is to be shamed. Beauty vlogs and day in the lives deserve attention but Gods problem and his message doesn’t? Lol it is well💅🏾

[@AliceBethel-rb5ub]

I agree with everything you girls said, everything but for faith, I believe God CAN instruct you to share your story in an aspect but of course, things should always be done in moderation.❤

[@cangitob1392]

Omg! Lucy bensonnnn is here. I’m literally screaming. Love herrr❤😊🥰🥰

[@pato]

I knew Benson's channel through watching kamsi. At some point I thought to myself these ladies must know each other somehow somehow! Boom they are here today

[@kamsinnamani]

Lol awww🤭🥰

[@chichichidiobi]

Congratulations again on 100k gurl!!! Way to 200k

[@kamsinnamani]

Thank you so much 🤍

[@emajjamarie]

I have a condo with floor to ceiling windows and mirrors because I get depression and natural light helps. I also work from home as a consultant so I spend most of the time in my home. Also, my perfume collection is less than 12. 3 winter scents, 1 fresh scent, and the others are a variety of florals. I also will never live with a man I'm not engaged to. It's a no.

[@RosemaryEkele]

OMG that screammmmmm 😭😭😂😂😂. I can’t get tired of saying I’m super happy for you. Praying for grace to put in the work like you and get to 10k before the year ends.

[@mbiarrah8925]

The combo🥺 ma favs❤❤

[@nataliesniche]

Why I’m I crying as well like I was the one that got to a 100k followers as well ❤ the ending was so emotional cux we see how hard you work Kamsi 😍 You deserve it and more ❤

[@cococow3695]

Finally someone spoke about cohabitation.They’ll be talking like of you don’t live with the person then there’s a looming disaster.

[@owenikponmwosa7315]

“Tone it down” 😂😂 the way lucy said it was so personal 😭😂😂.

[@ChukubaShekwonya]

Kamsi love this is not me attacking you. I so love you bet me you've really been a motivation to me. I'm presently in own apartment and is all because you thank you so much. My own opinion concerning sharing personal experience or Relationship btw one and his God is very okay. Though there things we shouldn't share if the Holy Spirit is not leading. I see that as also a content where one shares the gospel. Much love ❤❤❤❤

[@D.Youngest.Youtuber]

Someone please let's talk about the fact that Kamsi's Birthday is in a few days🎉🎉🎉🎉 Secondly, this combo 👌🏾🤞🏾

[@hopeemjiee]

I love this conversation; so unfiltered and real.

[@oluwatomilobaakinwale3950]

9:13 -14:39 Slayeddddd!!!!!!❤‍🔥

[@Janederryo]

The genuine love between them ❤the joy when she check 100k subscribers congratulations!!!! Babe

[@theroseofsirene]

if people like, let them press Kamsi's and Lucy's neck. they spoke FACTS! I agreed with almost 99% of their unpopular opinions.

[@AbbysBandwidth-ABW]

Yesssss my two faves hitting my screen Godd I'll not cry 😭😊🫣

[@me_sheila]

Been on your Instagram for long but this is my first time watching your KZbin. Love this so much!!!!

[@kamsinnamani]

Aww welcome🤍

[@Omahukwu]

Congratulations on 100k subscribers, I needed to hear this. Just opened my KZbin channel yesterday 30th September on my birthday

[@chikangel8]

Seeing Lucy here makes me soo happy! This collab was long overdue

[@damilola732]

I think tiktok kinda broke that perfect house aesthetic stereotype. People shoot entertaining contents in their “trenches” homes and still get a lot of engagements. Your target audience will find you. I hear there’s trenches tik tok, rich kids tik tok etc. Tik tok is a like a different world on its own sha, I love it!

[@winifredegwame5832]

True this

[@kamsinnamani]

Yes but I find it’s the extremes that seem to do very well on there. It’s either your house is absolutely gorgeous or it’s the complete opposite. There are still a lot of people caught in the middle and blame it on their home not being aesthetic enough. So this was just a reminder to do it anyway

[@AdeolaObilana-or6hi]

This was so fun to watch, my God. Had a really good time and didn't want it to enddd Congrats on 100k, many more to comee

[@kamsinnamani]

Glad you enjoyed it!🖤

[@Beautybygath]

Nice video! Just like people influence for businesses we need people to influence for God too, so showing spiritual life on social media is not bad, some people have been reminded about God through that, some have been reminded to pray and all, u must not go to church to be reminded of God or hear it from a pastors mouth always, let the youth influence the youth for God

[@maryhughie4070]

Well said. You’re the real one amongst all the ass kissers in the comments lol. May God stand up for you and you stood up for him. Amen 💕

[@Beautybygath]

@@maryhughie4070 amen 🙏 thank you ❤️

[@maryjane7043]

Having friends you share the same beliefs with..❤

[@TaluuTV]

Wow that was pure joy😢❤❤ Congratulations on reaching 100k🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Asspace428]

Lol I watched the end repeatedly and cried with you. Congratulations Kamsi, you really inspire a lot of us and you deserve every 1 subscriber you get, your hard work is second to none. Weldone 🎉 ❤

[@chinazomogudebe4205]

Awwwwwwnnn!!!!🥰🥰🥰....Kamsi love & Lucy sweetheart......love u both!!!!!

[@vickieogb1262]

🎯🎯👌🏽👏🏽👏🏽 This was a lovely watch ، Love to see young people still have standards, there are actually loads that do thankfully, the internet is just a wild place! 👏🏽👏🏽

[@mmesomacynthia5026]

Lucy looks like 5 different people. Love her already ☺️

[@jemimahakange]

The collab I needed😍😍😍 Jeeezzzzzz😍😍😍

[@Josephine_Agbogidi]

Really enjoyed it❤ But i have issues with the christian content issue.. I mean alot of persons make content about what they stand for. Personally Christian contents have helped me as a Christian so why tune it down when we are in a noisy world. Believers need to loud their convictions on social media..

[@maryhughie4070]

Jesus did say many will reject him. Now the children of God who have more confidence in sharing his words, messages, growth and presence is now seen as a burden and should be shamed. Kamsi going out, making her hair, telling people to pay for her content class, starting a pajama business is more important and not seen as burden than people making videos about God. It is well😇

[@faithiegold8178]

The two people who I love watching their sit down videos are in one video? Love this 😊

[@theinfluentialprincess]

I love love seeing you 2 togetherrr 😭🤍

[@oliviaogali9058]

Tell me a better to end a "MONDAY" thank you kamsi we love you, I LOVE YOU 😊

[@obehi_valor4833]

These girls are definitely my type of babes 😂❤❤ Love you guys ❤

[@missyjay3960]

It’s good to know there are still very realistic people on social media

[@LifewithBenny50]

The duo l always waited for❤️

[@SuppleChicTV]

Congratulations again babes seeing all hardwork pay off priceless!!

[@owenikponmwosa7315]

My two all time faves 😭😭💕 it couldn’t get any better!!!

[@nneasokaihekweaba4353]

I wish I could like this video a million times BECAUSE!!!!!!! God bless you for being you Kamsi.

[@kamsinnamani]

🥺🖤

[@the_creative_star]

I truly agree with not getting a house together with your partner before getting married. Love that you spoke about it❤️

[@owenikponmwosa7315]

No!!! Why did it have to end 😭😭 please we need a part two. Congratulations Kamsi 😭😭🥹 we love you!!!!! What an emotional ending ❤❤.

[@NosakhareAkioya]

100k bestieeee! So happy for you 💛💛💛

[@okaforchisommary8564]

Awww 🥰… see me crying at the end of your vlog 😢. I so much love your videos and congratulations 🎈 for hitting this big milestone 🎉, more to come soon.

[@AliceBethel-rb5ub]

Okay okay okay I love these ladiess

[@oyinosikoya]

The end🥺 so happy for you Kamsi you deserve every good thing!!

[@favemoments]

Omgggg the end tho 🥹🥹🥹 Congrats dearie. I’m so proud and inspired by you 🤍

[@Uwakk-J]

I totally agree with your points. People normalize alot of things these days and make you feel weird for not doing that same thing. I suggest we need to bring back shame.

[@maryhughie4070]

Not for Christian content or the sharing of it tho🌝.

[@Koksyyyyy]

I love love love this conversation. I can't overemphasize this unpopular opinions. People need to see things and say things the right way. Social media has done things Sha....

[@Susan_adike]

✨this Collaboration JESUS We ain’t even readyyyyyy🥳💜

[@nataliesniche]

My two favorite self development babes in one video 🔥 The internet is about to crash for sure cuxxxx WHAT 😍 love it ❤

[@Lizbethefe]

My 2 favourite youtuber in one videoooo!!!! I'm literally screaminggggggg. I wasn't expecting this collabo 😍

[@kamsinnamani]

Aww thank youu 🤍

[@eniola6082]

Congratulations kamsi ...u inspire me so much ❤❤🎉🎉, I'm so happy to see Lucy!!!🤭😁😂....i love her😩

[@chiamakaenansofor4660]

Kamsi be making me a cry baby on this channel. So good to see this growth. You will continue to grow girl!!

[@Esther_Chioma12]

The Collab we didn't know we needed 🔥🔥☺️

[@Daraax]

I agree with everything you both have said.

[@thepeacyunique]

D fire 🔥 got me drooling

[@momentswithadi]

Am so addicted to your channel

[@Ovokeroh]

26:05 so happy for you!! Congrats babe!

[@Susan_adike]

✨Everyone is NOT INFLUENCER Majority of the things they envy about these folks were GIFTED but you’re beaten yourself up UNNECESSARILY 🤦‍♀️ The madness that goes on TikTok is crazy hence why I’m always there for cruise😂

[@iheanachondioma4415]

The way kamsi says Girl!!!! It hits me everytime. ❤

[@kamsinnamani]

😂🤍

[@Asmauu_Ahmed]

Moving in is commitment without commitment🥴... true the guy is the one gaining.

[@owoeyejesulobagrace5092]

This was such a beautiful video! Kamsi! I’m so happy for you ❤❤❤❤ Lucy is such an amazing soul. Like her energy is pure and lit! Everything you said in this video >>> ESP Let’s bring back shame!!!!! Love it! Love you!

[@kamsinnamani]

🥹 love you too🤍🤍

[@Onyiedeh]

You guys are so spot on

[@janechukwuegbo3981]

I literally cried at the end of the video with kamsi😭😂

[@mmelichukwuojukwu5816]

Love Love Love this! 😍

[@tianantese6451]

Lucy is one of my favorites on this space.❤

[@Estherworld-i1u]

I love you both I just saw this notification I just run here to like it I will come back to enjoy the video❤

[@jobjemima9736]

Congratulations on a 100k mama , I celebrate you

[@user-px7pe8yh4v]

Guys, I'm literally screaming right now 😱😱😱😂 not my two favorites doing something together😩😭😭❤️ I mean it's long overdue 😩😩❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Jessicaokolie]

I always enjoy Kamsi's shutdown videos. E dey sweet

[@taraville]

Awww congratulations on 100k😅😅ur reaction finding out was everything 😅😅😅