Ex Spa Worker interview-Tiye

Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Tiye, a former spa worker from North Carolina.
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[@miduv82]

Most of these stories have one thing in common. The parents not doing their job and it pisses me off.

[@jennerb7059]

Miduv82 your right, I want to say all it takes is strong positive roll models to show the children the way but maybe its not that simple but still someone is gonna meet the shit end of my stick if they ever try to get my kids to do anything!

[@lonitakia4535]

Right!!

[@jennerb7059]

@NVSx16 your just smarter than everyone. Im 31 with no kids and Im starting to feel like I missed the train.

[@islander959]

In most situations and circumstances in life, theres always more than one element that affect the end results. What do you tell the parents that did their best, was there all way, and their kids still took the wrong path? What do you say to the kids whose parents was never the best, struggled to grow up, but they made it and are great people in society?

[@hanshawybloc]

Factssssssss

[@shanemaple4582]

These men she speaks of are doctors, teachers , husbands , fathers. Crazy world

[@zarianebo9217]

george evans why did those men pay to cheat and pay to do lewd acts?.... and why don’t u mind ur business? All good questions

[@christinescreationsespinos8062]

@george evans I used to have a horrible drug habit and dealt with sexual abuse and trama during my upbringing, I've been clean for a few years now. Done a lot of things I'm not proud of but I'm not going to pretend like it never happened, made me the person I am today. I dont feed into drama so I'm not going to keep responding to negativity but this is my 1st and last comment have a nice night I got my kids and family to tend to goodnight:)

[@zarianebo9217]

george evans no it’s really not ur business ur just bored and feel like judging someone negatively. What she does has no affect on ur life in any way at all. But ur nosey and bored so here u are.

[@zarianebo9217]

george evans ur not perfect and I bet u do a lot of fucked up shit in ur life. And in gods eyes there’s no greater sin. So I bet you’ll be a lot happier if u mind ur business and not judge ppl.

[@nini6794]

george evans have you owned your own shit?😂😂

[@seanoregan998]

When she broke down speaking about how she missed her mom and seeing her father treating the other kids better than she was treated, it broke my heart. I could barely watch it. She hid her sadness pretty well up until that point. We never know how badly ppl are hurting. The loss of the close family unit is such a tragedy. God bless this woman.

[@sleeplessentertainments]

Delusional. This is her own version of the story. No one else is here to give there own version. Most of it sounds like a load of bullshit to avoid taking accountability for shity lifestyle and poor decisions.

[@mrD66M]

"The loss of the family unit" wtf you mean? Didn't you hear her saying her father was abusive?

[@seanoregan998]

@@mrD66M did you fail reading comprehension in school?

[@mrD66M]

@@seanoregan998 what you said does not fit the context of the video. If you're talking about something else then say so instead of insulting ppl

[@itsallgravy7]

I agree with you. The mother probably had no means to support her children so she let them go with their father. It was probably the worst day of her whole life. The loss of a family unit that they all hoped for crushed by the father making thoughtless choices 😢

[@straightcashhomey1261]

I’m 45 years old now. Between this channel, dating some very damaged women, and certain shows on Netflix, etc…I have a whole new awareness of how truly screwed up and awful human beings can be to each other and, more specifically, to children. Very grateful for the childhood I had and the ability to provide for my children.

[@anonymouszero9422]

I'm the same age as yourself, but where you messing up is trying to date and have relationships with these women. You use and pay these women that's what they are about. Don't become a SIMP and have feelings. They for fun

[@192OOIDJJ3]

❤ All we can do as humans is keep pushing forward and also enjoy life

[@muxlimah786]

I feel like fathers don't realise the impact their infidelity has on their daughters perception on men and relationships. It creates SUCH DEEP TRUST ISSUES.

[@jokeur6996]

what about mothers'?

[@hue008x]

They don't care.

[@marvinhagler4721]

Some dont some do...The funny part is most guys i grew up with who used to play women ALL had daughters, hell my cousin had 4 and his oldest was just like he was but with males.Hes a grandfather now.I have a daughter ,it CERTAINLY keeps you in check.Shes a teen and watches me like a HAWK..LOL

[@nicksterp2805]

Very true

[@waitwhat564]

Hear , hear

[@myamontgomery7719]

To a lot of y’all who keeps saying she’s a liar, doing this for attention, etc. Please leave your comments to yourself and leave with your close minded self. That’s my sister and I know the pain she went through. When she talked about her baby sister, that was me. Everything she went through with our father, I went through the same thing too and so did my oldest sister and brother. We all did differently on survival mode, but I understand every single thing and y’all should try too, but I guess some of y’all were so privileged, you can’t see the struggles some people go through.

[@viscious_uv2]

You and your siblings are SURVIVORS of Narcissistic Abuse! I am glad that all of you survived.

[@SoftWhiteUnderbelly]

None of my uploads are complete until some commenter says its a lie. There have been so many stories I know to be completely truthful that get comments accusing my interviewee of lying. I believe it’s just the nature of social media and anonymous commenting. Jealously, racism and hate are alive and well, at least on KZbin.

[@viscious_uv2]

Americans have been programmed to think that ALL Sex Workers are dysfunctional and are victims of the sex industry. Some women enjoy sex work and have empowered themselves through it. The truth is sex work is mostly illegal because the men do not want women to be empowered without them...

[@Fan-sl6de]

You’re making it up too

[@therip660]

@@SoftWhiteUnderbelly Very much alive on KZbin, very.

[@afonsotatiano8221]

"...I'm used to just turning off the switch... So I just do it..." Really felt that

[@gldflcn]

Crazy that she’s been through everything she’s been through, yet still has that great personality and charisma about her! I hope she’s doing okay

[@samuellp1146]

yeah she's masking her feelings of pain to move forward.

[@samuellp1146]

​@@panzerdriver I disagree with your take. They all are into it, money is the primary driving force. If they weren't into it or sold on doing what they were doing they would be out of business. She wasn't into after her daughter was born and she left the business. Delusions of telepathy? I don't see that in her.

[@haczabim]

she's dead inside

[@nefc2112]

On camera…. This chick is crazy trust me.

[@real_exodus]

@@haczabim EXACTLY!!!!

[@totallyshannell5302]

She needed to talk about this badly.. I'm crying

[@lmylemuel]

I feel u...

[@AmberSumerall]

Do you feel this way?

[@rebekahdavis879]

You ok baby girl let it out ❤️

[@flirtwd]

She’s been turned out.

[@sir._.losius._.1765]

No one listens

[@augustvirgo26]

Parents, PLEASE stop comparing your kids to other kids. It seems harmless at first, but it really messes with your kid. When she was talking about her father wishing she was like them, that broke my heart.

[@ninjablack4347]

My did it all the fucking time. "Your cousin is getting straight As. If you would try better you'd get that too" My cousin had parents who paid for tutors, took the time to go to counselors and ask what classes their son could take and paid attention when their son was depressed.

[@Tibchy91]

@@ninjablack4347 Same here. I am strugling with anxiety disorder since primary school, been through some bad decissions and I blamed myself for it, just to realise some 20 years later, where my problems are rooted.

[@ninjablack4347]

@@Tibchy91 I gave GAD, which my family decided the best way to treat was by ignoring I had a problem. Fun times

[@Tibchy91]

@@ninjablack4347 I feel you. I'm still going to therapies every 2-3 weeks, so... sweaty palms n feet, gagging... all that stuff still pop up at times, so yeah. I can relate

[@lixinblade126]

my mom does that

[@danos5181]

She's great in everyway! Through her own personality, sense of humor, and resilience she'll finally break the cycle of family dysfunctional and abuse. lots of luck to her!

[@calisongbird]

*dysfunction

[@danos5181]

@@calisongbird Thanks for the correction :)

[@timdark4733]

Great in everyway?! You idolize hoes?

[@loolikmarco]

I think her childhood killed her faith in loyalty and that's the big "switch" that got her to be okay with all of that, and accepting it as normal. (People cheating, her boyfriend's cheating and she still calls him a good guy) and off course having such low standards for the way people and life treat her, and being ok with that. You deserve so much more Tiye, you too deserve to be treated as a princess

[@StephanieAjibola]

It’s so crazy how normal she appears on the outside and then she starts talking about her trauma😨 people really do be going through some shit

[@macthesmac]

Same reason why we should approach each other with care

[@Bubzietown]

Looks are deceiving. Learned that a long time ago.

[@ajibolaalibaloye4497]

Hi same name

[@kaba_me]

This woman is perfectly normal... The people paying for these things are not. I'm a guy, and even I don't understand why so many men pay for sex... never mind all that weird stuff.

[@armoriya]

My ex-girlfriend was like this. Beautiful and nice on the outside/Brokenness and trauma on the inside.

[@karenflrz]

You barely had to ask her questions she does a great job at telling her story

[@Carvel0]

Self snitching

[@thestanlee1534]

Probably is just reciting it at this point

[@codihart5113]

She needs to write a book

[@elanawilliams6148]

She definitely could write a book!

[@paulbligen907]

Go away

[@shanbraz6011]

This is sad. She said she was upset that her boyfriend wanted other prostitutes and not her but at the same time she was sleeping with other women’s husbands. It’s a vicious cycle. What’s even worse is how she was treated growing up though. We can’t be shocked that people do certain things when their parents put them through hell. I pray for her healing, salvation and success. I’m so glad she is transitioning into a healthier phase of life 💕

[@edobwoy]

We have a choice to do good or bad. It's not an excuse to do drugs or prostitution because of a bad upbringing. Do you know how many people grow up in bad situations but choose not to.

[@thewatcher4552]

I don't know how to feel disturbed, sad, sickening, or just plain compassion. She is so broken. All I know is I'm going to hug my daughter a little closer tonight! 😭❤️😢

[@coolmix44]

Amen!💯

[@gamedog7236]

Your daughter ain't her.shes beautiful!not saying your daughter isn't but everyone is different

[@jeffgray6291]

She's not broken she's involved with consent. She likes it.

[@markrobby7136]

yes she's lost her value and her dignity

[@lidiagizaw3828]

fuck outta here . u just mad coz she's strong and got all her money and got out of it

[@cabr3ra]

It broke my heart when she said she wanted her mom. I worked in a crisis clinic and we had a 12 yr old who was suicidal with this exact same story and she said she would rather go to a foster home than with her dad. Same story! Is so sad. You wish you just take them home! 💔

[@leeleemee]

Ms Cabrera Yeah, that broke me down (into tears).

[@EmpressofChrist]

I know smh

[@Hoodwaze]

Well exactly 2 min before she said she wanted her mom, she said her dad used to ask her did she wanna go back to Durham with her mom. So....

[@heyhellohi_]

A lot of people smile and laugh while talking about actual traumatic events. It’s often an unconscious defense mechanism.

[@kiwipink6721]

Facts

[@bryantcrump4887]

That’s true I do it all the time when discussing traumatic events

[@chrisg2662]

Bull shit that's called being a pussy trying to hide from the truth

[@mikhelatuesday]

@@chrisg2662 i dont fully disagree but the way you said it is harsh ptsd is real

[@SimpleManGuitars1973]

This is extremely sad to hear a person just talk so nonchalantly about selling themselves for such debauchery.

[@rojbalc77]

I'm in awe of how bright and bubbly Tiye is, considering everything she's been through. To deal with all those years of trauma phsychologically and emotionally is an incredible feat. I hope her sense of self worth continues to grow.

[@canelareina3795]

She chose to be a prostitute.

[@Yo-yo-dt5ze]

These stories on soft white underbelly be having me crying because I can relate to some of them had a wild and crazy childhood a lot of the things I went thru I swept it under the rug because it was so hard for me to talk about it without being judged and now I’m 41 I sought out for help through a therapist to help me get through the most toughest areas in my life it’s definitely not easy opening up to a stranger I sought help before it was too late kudos to tiye for coming out and talking about her past it’s never easy

[@IsaidwhatIsaid2222]

I can relate to her... I worked in a club...got addicted to coke... Sex... Money.. Dominatrix work... Omg I got out of it at the beginning of the pandemic after my sugar daddy paid for me to go to nursing school... I graduated ..now I'm out the club for good and i am now a full time nurse!! My calling... It is hope.. Trust me!! From the club to scrubs!!

[@lani5287]

God bless!!!! Be safe out there!

[@blaze031gshine]

You finished nursing school in three months? 🤔

[@serenityfreedom3096]

Me 2...college gave me wings...I left stripping, abusers & now nursing is my jam. I have done the therapeutic work to give me understanding. I hope she takes classes & becomes free too. All the glam I had stripping is still mine now with the ocean & so much peace. I hope she joins us.

[@2K23E]

That was quick

[@waitwhat564]

@@blaze031gshine probably aged care. 3 months here in Australia. Maybe same in US?

[@journey2zee]

If you read the comments sweety, please buy a good camera/phone, a ring light, and a computer. Start a KZbin channel just talking about yourself and your life. You’re beautiful, charismatic, and intelligent. I promise you it will Blow up and you won’t have to work menial jobs ever again. I’ll be your first subscriber.

[@toristory6597]

I will sub too! She spoke volumes in this one interview...not pausing for a breath. She’s a strong young lady.

[@erie3596]

I was thinking this the whole time

[@kelcibee1648]

Or only fans

[@stacyyoust]

AND follow your passions

[@teresaj.4103]

Great advice and encouragement.

[@rachelrr3963]

Very brave and strong minded to share her story like this. Struggles teach you life lessons and I give a lot of respect to people that are vulnerable like this. Having a voice matters and I am happy she uses hers from going through what she has been through. We need more videos like this to bring awareness on these topics. You definitely can learn from listening to this channel. Very proud of what she has overcome and thank you for sharing.

[@BeyerEfendi]

Love how unfiltered and raw and real this channel is. No posturing, no attempt to make reality seem more palatable or Twitter-mob friendly, just straight life.

[@xoxomyah]

shes is SO beautiful and well articulate. praying she will stay strong, for LIFE. such an angel.

[@aaronlynch4397]

That's kinda...if she was a white girl, would you ever use the word "articulate"? Nope...

[@HH-gm9nz]

@@aaronlynch4397 your last name is lynch and you're the only one saying racist shit and accusations. You are the racist. You played yourself.

[@HH-gm9nz]

@@aaronlynch4397 good job deleting your other racist comments. Let it be known that you're a racist. At least you know it's wrong, though.

[@zinnagreene5102]

@@HH-gm9nz i don’t think he can control his last name bud

[@zinnagreene5102]

@@aaronlynch4397 i think she was referring to the fact that being well articulate is somewhat rare on the channel

[@sibahlemvuyana9089]

People should stop having kids period, have a kid when you emotionally and financially ready.

[@zennaturalist2543]

THIS!!!!!

[@PuffOfSmoke]

I think you're in the wrong channel, bud. This is not Disney. This is real world TV.

[@ericrobertson2595]

Amen. The world is so clueless especially in cultures like the Phillipines. Story after story of the men making babies and then deserting the woman and the kids they make. The culture has to be reprogrammed that this mindset wrong.

[@sibahlemvuyana9089]

@@PuffOfSmoke nope I am not, this happens in all countries. Drugs and people having unwanted babies is a common problem. I have watched a lot of stories in this channel many of the ladies have kids. I know that this one in particular has never mentioned one.

[@PuffOfSmoke]

@@sibahlemvuyana9089 I'm not sure if you're still clueless or dumb... People here in this channel represents the ills of society. Like how the creator of this channel says, it shows the destructive side of human beings. If these people live a Disney kind of existence, then they wouldn't be in channel, would they? You can't be so condescending and say, 'They should have kids until their financially and ready...' Duhhhhh....

[@michelleselman8004]

Tiye, your insight and honesty was courageous and so inspiring, I pray that you continue to heal.

[@Malachiasz1983]

It was absolute pleasure seeing and listening to Tiye. She has such positive energy to her that it is almost magnetic. Im rally glad that she is not traumatized but rather empowered by her experience in those SPAs.

[@yanicyoda4762]

Yes .She has Angels protecting her.

[@PkUili31]

The fact that she didn’t blame her “step-siblings” becuase they didn’t know better. She so strong.

[@lashayhunt3574]

@UMN Mode why does she has to be ashamed of being a sex worker ? desperate times causes desperate measures and just because she’s not miserable about having to what to do doesn’t make her not strong.

[@shadowmoses5347]

@@lashayhunt3574 she also has a std

[@lashayhunt3574]

@Cosmicty Randolph because desperate times cause for desperate measures. no one WANTS to be there. but mostly FORCED to. wether it’s money problems or they have a pimp.

[@lashayhunt3574]

@JESUS IS LORD333.AMEN. JESUS333.AMEN. you have to stop using sins to shame people. for you will be judged the same way you judge people and all sins are equal. she’s doing no worse than you do everyday.

[@lashayhunt3574]

@JESUS IS LORD333.AMEN. JESUS333.AMEN. i never said she should be proud of it i said stop shaming her. stop using the bible to benefit your point.

[@bodhicittafoundation9473]

I'm glad she got out and is not on drugs. She seems ok compared to alot of people in these interviews. Take care of you girl ox You are worth alot.

[@EmpressofChrist]

I know I hope well for her

[@pinkpugginz]

Agree. She needs to dump that loser bf too

[@emilycheek1899]

So did amanda and she totally fell off. I hope this girl gets help quickly

[@ronleblanc4518]

She is a beautiful lady who has been through some major trauma. I hope she finds happiness and heals 💗

[@Vic_The_Hitman]

Her story is CRAZY & she’s a good story teller

[@NoLineNoWait123AbC]

She knew exactly what she was doing. Trying to blame it on the drugs.

[@Clairedog12]

Really articulate and Psychologically perceptive, a new take on sex work. Great ideas like shutting off, new name,new person etc I just do not understand what she gains by doing the vid? Do they give you 50 grand or something?

[@caramelkimmiekim8272]

Exactly she's trying to sound so perfect

[@slideforsanrio3629]

@@NoLineNoWait123AbC are you insane

[@NoLineNoWait123AbC]

@@slideforsanrio3629 , would u ask a stranger that in person? Now go look at urself in the mirror and ask u what u asked me.

[@brinrose6140]

It hit me when she started crying for her mom. God forgive me for taking mine for granted

[@brinrose6140]

La Chatelaine things can always turn around, that’s beautiful

[@jasminethomas7128]

Boyyyyyyyy😂😂😂😂 @zert teyyy

[@alegrasneed5163]

I lost my mom when I was 12 and I am now 29 and I still cry for my mom at times😕 it’s the worst growing up without a mom especially bc I have 3 daughters and wish she was here to see them grow😭😭 it’s very hard !!

[@zzid9110]

@@alegrasneed5163 same but i am 25 now. The worse for me is the feeling I never really knew her.

[@doraymeandyou]

I only started appreciating my mum when I became a mum. But she already had dementia by that time.

[@laraoneal7284]

Childhood abuse is common denominator with all these people.

[@dankmeee2730]

And your ignorance is what makes this world burn

[@Th3FuNkMan]

DANK MEEE how is that ignorant that’s a fact?

[@Princessusch]

@@dankmeee2730 what

[@OhHeyItsAlexx]

@@dankmeee2730 You're right. Its not always an abusive childhood. That's like stereotyping. It is extremely likely. But I know people, including myself that got mixed up in some real bad shit, and had a NORMAL childhood. For some people you either had an outstanding childhood or you didn't have one at all... Its kinda sad that no matter what people find ways to generalize

[@Carlos-nq7up]

Emotional abuse also!

[@elle_aye112]

I relate to her story. I'm glad she's in a different chapter. She is so bright and smart. I wish her nothing but success.

[@Otto45]

Notice how she will call all her customers 'weirdos' yet she happily took every dime that they were offering.. At some point, you gotta let the trauma go and take responsibility of your life. Damaged goods, damaged mentality all due to her father failing her.

[@farrasmit5486]

She never let herself be a victim, even though circumstances totally made her one. She's a truly beautiful person. She's got some serious strength.

[@josepacman1]

A victim in what sense..cause it sounded like she willingly did all those things and not forced..

[@nnhk0056]

She has antisocial personality disorder. As charismatic as she is, she's probably a pretty bad person.

[@viorelrusu3321]

She likes what she does... :)))

[@bombshellbambina]

She never let herself “be a victim” but decided infact to work for a FEMALE pimp.. you feminazis have to stop pulling shit out of your ass and deeming everybody with this “amazing strength”. I have been binge watching Soft White Underbelly for the past two days and this girl was one of the one’s that showed the LEAST amount of strength in comparison to some of the other actual warriors on the channel. Yall are some pansies and it shows stfu.

[@cgptony11]

To the young lady featured in this video I am a 60 year old man You’re story is very inspiring The end listening to you speak saying you will not allow anyone to talk down to you made me so proud of you I have two daughters and I would never want them to take any bullshit off of anyone for any reason You’re still young You have the rest of your life to define yourself Wish you all the best

[@DonjiKong]

The people who get on this stage and tell their story, their truth, are so brave

[@keithingram3428]

Such a great example of how important it is for parents to be there for their children wake up mom and dad somebody needs u

[@charlinehenderson4996]

The current boyfriend needs to go. Anyone that talks down to you about your past doesn’t have your best in mind. Find someone that will respect your past struggles and how far you’ve come and. Not barked you for them

[@iylenethibeaux8907]

Right i went through that bring you up then put you down and use your words and past against you.

[@ChandlerWorthen]

Yeah if it's that bad to him, he should just leave her be. Why beat down on someone?

[@jlang7975]

@Gus Bus exactly! His thirsty ass

[@dandaddavi]

Sadly, women like this pass up on good men who will treat them right way too often because it's not normal for them. They find good men to be weird.

[@biglarry6183]

Charlie henderson a womans past has everything to do with her future he has every right to bring up past on a beta male would not bring that up

[@doraymeandyou]

The only reason her dad took her with him was to hurt her mom. This happens all the time and it makes my blood boil.

[@FreedomofSpeech865]

A classic narcissist

[@radmilamilinkov]

Nah...guys do this to maintain the lie that they're not cheating because you have to be really low to take your child to your side bitches house. My own father did it and swore me to secrecy.

[@michaelbentt3018]

Ummph.... Indeed, totally agree. It's all about "power and domination", something that society or Mom or Dad doesn't make they're children aware of.

[@doraymeandyou]

@@radmilamilinkov oh, that yeah. I was talking about after they split up and he moved to a different city with her.

[@doraymeandyou]

@@radmilamilinkov I’m sorry you had to go through that.

[@JacksonCaesar]

My mother was a stripper, in fact she was one of the best in the area. My mother was so open with me, when I got older, she told me so many stories about people being into so many weird things... To be honest it did spark my curiosity and then my career (as a musician) led me into that world but it was a bit late and I had too many good morals to allow it to take over. But I can see how vulnerable people are. I believe everything she's said.

[@jiujitsu94]

One of the best in the area? Lol

[@hvyvyvjhuvu44]

@@jiujitsu94 lol that bit took me out

[@zephyrrrrrrrrrrr]

Never heard of you Jackson💀

[@championredd]

Watching these interviews makes me realize how evil the world is

[@SymphonyTaylor]

I swear 💯💯💯

[@youwatch2muchtv]

The world isn’t evil, people are

[@tjdetroittheysaythetruthhu6190]

I lived with a lot of people with very similar backgrounds. Everything is so real.

[@Warsign01]

There are more good people than bad.

[@mrcoolmilli5724]

World is good. For the love of money some people do evil things. Demons.

[@mike12345807]

The part when she said and cried about "she just wanted her mom". Some kids are really struggling. Some kids cries about a ps5 or material things but some kids cries about the absence of love or a parent

[@WillChil466]

Efucational. I figured just happy endings via skilled hands.

[@dreammachine5014]

Maybe some kids want material things because of the absence of love of a parent.

[@sonanvatsal900]

Some people shouldn't bother bearing children at all. Like if you gonna physically your child or emotionally abuse her, taking her to meet another woman and kiss that lady in front of your child, that's fked up. That dad was crazy as hell, prolly sadistic too.

[@dusan5012]

Yes, but the kid that wants PS5 maybe doesn't know what suffering is, mom and dad are there and the kid has no idea...so unless the kid is exposed and introduced to emotional abuse or material crisis how the hell would he know to say..oh I don't need anything I'll just cherish minimalism

[@richmoroz9704]

Sometimes you wish you never knew your parents..

[@ambergerhamburger]

Her wanting her mother broke my heart. And being in a family where your siblings are treated so differently than yourself - been there - it really messes with your self esteem- takes years to unlearn that

[@nataliefoss5629]

Everything this young lady said was spot on ! Im a recovering heroin addict and retired dancer . Ive danced sober and using. Two very diffrent worlds . I kept it professional inside the club only ..but even still without the right mind set itll break you down ! I've had to take time off from dancing to get my head right every few years. It could definitely make you jaded in life. However, I've seen many dancers and escorts make a great life for themselves in and out of the game. However, many don't make it out physically or mentally all together..... it can dark real fast .... once your in deep or lines a crossed ... theirs usually no getting out . This girl is extremely wise. Im happy she's out and made a better life for herself and her child. I wish her all the best ! For 24 she's so mature and smart . She should be proud of how far she's come. I agree sex work can be empowering and teach you a lot ...if you don't let it break you. Some of my best years was when I was dancing . Some of my worse as well. Its all what you make and how you let it affect you. I woukd say doing it sober and treating it as a real job kept me a lot safer than when I was sloppy on drugs. I have friends many great money as escorts in Vegas. They seen to be living their best life . Personally it would break me. My drug addiction took me to lows Im ashamed of . My mind set is not strong enough. But ...mad respect to her. She got in and out out all in one piece.

[@lifewnyy3777]

Before any man could hurt a female their daddy be the main one that done all the damage to them

[@quneshiahunter3555]

So true

[@mantulotto6254]

Real shit

[@Zen-cx5tc]

💯💯

[@thequintessential5503]

True! That’s why it’s more important to watch who we are raised by or with before people on the streets

[@nicolebrooks6521]

Period. 😔👏

[@simplynessa15]

So many of these girls have such similar backgrounds/experiences that I’ve had (father /mental health). It’s so heartbreaking to watch. I hope you post an update on her

[@voidplugs2004]

love you

[@St4yfaded]

🌽 🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽

[@abird8254]

Cervix

[@abird8254]

Vaginal fluid s

[@abird8254]

Reproductive organs

[@M3GRSD]

Wow. That is an incredible story. How this occupation gave her a voice, and taught her to speak up for herself. I am incredibly happy that she made it through, and is stronger today because of it.

[@diyakhan3126]

She is so charismatic....i loved her honesty...she dint advice other young girls to do what she is doing...she is very articulate in processing the difference between normal and traumatic situation...you brave girl..i wish you best of luck

[@estherhastime777]

This interview had me engaged the whole time. She is intelligent and can articulate her story very well.

[@solidice242]

This is the first one that I ever watched to the end

[@DEMediaDrive]

She's ok. I wouldn't say award winning.

[@user-hc4ib1yg2i]

Because she doesn’t use drugs

[@mirandabisnou1307]

Judging her???? WHAT ABOUT THESE MEN THAT WERE WITH HER??? PROFESSIONALS!!! Doctors, teachers, MARRIED MEN, ECT. Yeah, these are the PEOPLE we look up to!! SHM. How about judging them????

[@VirginiaDowdy777821]

PREACH IT!!!!!

[@RTRRT]

Best comment! #FACTS

[@brandiphillips5775]

I feel disgusting by her clientele and pity for her. She is so low that she accepts this.

[@AhChoua]

Who’s judging her? I wouldn’t..shoot she’s been through a lot but still seem so nice and down to earth ❤️

[@deeperthengrafftv640]

Right

[@kburton531]

Beautiful young lady who did what she had to do when she had to do it. People who come from broken homes deal with their trauma differently, and until you walk in their shoes people should not pass judgment 😢

[@euclid47pha]

I'm born and raised in Durham NC and live in Charlotte NC. This story hits home. Beautiful woman. I hope her life is on the right track.

[@Jessicuh214]

She’s beautiful, smart, and strong. She’s very admirable. She left the system and didn’t let it ruin her completely. I’m so glad for her, I wish the best for her and her daughter.

[@liggmabawls5634]

lol you said smart. She almost got raped at the job then went back for more. Cant make this up

[@morganzoeclanthem2847]

@@liggmabawls5634 She has an ATM...

[@liggmabawls5634]

@@morganzoeclanthem2847 what?

[@morganzoeclanthem2847]

@@liggmabawls5634 She said she has an ATM between...

[@y.k.9705]

We don't know how ruined she is from these 10 minutes. Most damage comes years later. Will manifest in so many different ways. For all we know she may start doing heavy drugs or start drinking. We just can't tell. How do I know? I've met many women like that in my life.

[@babesway4559]

you never know what people go through man, if I saw this women I would’ve never guessed her life

[@marjorie_muiruri]

You would have thought she's from a privileged family and went to the best of schools.

[@dominicbrogsdale3348]

Never no thats why we cant judge. There people who i thought that where happy and next i hear the kill themsleves. My friend of the counselor and he tells me some super crazy stories and he even wondered if you people can be healed people asking crazy lies a lot of it starts from childhood

[@jasminethomas7128]

THATS WHY U NEVER EVER EVER EVER JUDGE CUZ YOU REALLY DON’T KNOW.

[@rainbowafrica3897]

Dont mention it , it is impossible to accept the truth that life had installed in many of us!But by Gods grace! we are victors

[@MsFlamingFlamer]

Yeah, just by looking at her I would just assume she was a college girl with great parents.

[@adviceforyoungpros]

Amazing woman and glad she got out of it. She was so honest, and definitely didn’t glamorize it - but also didn’t degrade it. Just told it like it is. Praying for her, and I hope she can stay out. Looking forward to the update. Thanks for sharing this Mark! And excellent interview, as per usual.

[@nikkivivian3502]

Wow this one has really struck something in me. Tiye is such an amazing, strong, clever woman with so much self awareness. To go through that childhood, work in that industry and come out so determined and level headed is incredible. Tiye you will go far with your outlook and you will teach your daughter to do the same.

[@timzhou3650]

I went to middle and high school with her. Shes such a genuine person. Full of life. Hope youre doing well Tiye

[@thisperson2505]

That’s cap

[@saiikou9300]

@@thisperson2505 😂

[@Mo_Real_Official]

What a cap

[@turtleneckferret]

Bullshit

[@korerima6585]

I dont get ppl like this, how much of a loser do you have to be to take a time oit of your day and comment that you went to school with a bunch of girls on here. I have seen 3 already smh

[@shay2467]

She’s a very good speaker. She could do TED Talks. She’s so brilliant and beautiful. I wish her the best in life ♥️

[@Imfrommars444]

I don't

[@shay2467]

@@Imfrommars444 so get off the page? bye

[@shay2467]

og haha a feminist with 3 University degrees you mean :)

[@adamgomes538]

Heres another example of people wanting to be perceived in greater way. But what's gets me is it KZbin not the real world.

[@cwr8618]

Interesting how she casually calls all these guys weirdos, as if she just heard about these disgusting sexual stories second hand. I mean, she literally did all those things with those men. She's just as twisted

[@soyandoat4106]

Best wishes to Tiye! Thank you for having this interview

[@EINRAMODRON]

If you muted the video, you'd think she was talking about something wholesome and happy, wtf

[@user1927]

It's common, people are numb

[@johnytawanamaker4169]

@@NarutoUzumaki-xg9et then don't. Why watch someone's story to judge the validity of it? You weren't there and you do not know her coping mechanisms. Gross af to judge someone you don't even know.

[@khoneyy4637]

Trauma doesn't have a look....

[@tyannajanae8805]

@@khoneyy4637 yeah they’re just saying how it’s crazy how people can hide it

[@Dannniellleee]

Dissociation. I’m sure she still doesn’t understand the level of trauma she’s experienced 😔

[@rikkisolovely6263]

When she cries about wanting her Mom... Every mom watching this had a moment.

[@morganlytle5511]

I wanted to hug her 😥

[@girloctober2613]

As a mama my heart breaks. I would give her a hug🙁

[@MzClementine]

Yes... sure did... 🤭😢

[@rockydog7150]

💔💔💔

[@basicallybabs]

I'm crying. It makes me so sad. 😥

[@jamesmcguffey3569]

It's truly sad she had to go through such hell at a young age but she didn't have to choose sex work. Now she's ruined for life

[@zmcg17]

Great spirit. I can relate more than most people would know and I think her honesty allows a lot of us commenting to feel that.

[@Beiskraft]

Hope she's ok mentally. She's obviously very charming.

[@citytrees1752]

She seems like she is on the verge of cray-cray.

[@jarektank4415]

Probably not but it looks like she talks about it enough that it comes out fluently for her. But since she’s young money is the only thing she likes but she has to live with this for the rest of her life while the money is only temporary

[@pheemer]

She obviously functions better than 99% of the people I encounter on a daily basis.

[@Beiskraft]

@@pheemer Yeah, a being in true nirvana right there, giving and taking, it's all good for her.

[@JennyT101]

It is impossible not to like this woman. She seems really smart and emotionally mature for her age, and she hasn't allowed life to grind her down after all that. I wish her all the best.

[@TruthOverFact]

I dont agree with your first sentence... she is accepting of her past and thankful for it. She smiles as she describes such gross, deplorable, disgusting acts that shes committed. I saw NO shame or disgust in her eyes. I do however agree with your last sentence.

[@larkaiio3376]

@@TruthOverFact ew, literally she was coping and trying to survive, you dont know if she was disgusted and even if she wasn't she didn't really know any other way. Right now she is telling this story from a much further perspective, but you dont know how it was like for her. How dare you judge someone like that? Arent those interviews meant to help us see how hard life sometimes can be and most of the times people who we like to judge just had really hard situation to go through?

[@TruthOverFact]

@@larkaiio3376 we'll just agree to disagree...

[@Spartan-Of-Truth]

@Unknown Herd mentality EVERYWHERE. So many useless souls.

[@JustHereToWreck]

@@larkaiio3376 lmao shut up

[@CourtneyinSF]

I admire Tiye, she keeps it real. Someone I would love to be friends with. I hope that wherever she is now, she is happy and doing well.

[@thegoldengatesound]

What a badass. I hope she’s happy, being respected and remembering how smart she is. Probably a great mom

[@georgiawalker4320]

This is one of your best interviews. This girl is a good communicator and young enough to still have a zest for life. Good luck to her. Hopefully she will stay out of demeaning relationships and jobs for the rest of her life.

[@harlonda40]

She so good she did her own interview .. I’ve never seen someone command his interviews

[@Sigma2HisAlpha]

Sidebar: her saying that the boyfriend she has now makes comments about her being less of a woman for working there in the past? Girl, get rid of him. They will definitely creep back up in the future

[@Gunny713]

she is less of a woman..

[@swappedoutZ71]

He dumb for wifing her if he has that opinion of her its kinda ass backwards on his behalf and dumb on her behalf to take that shit as well

[@j.rlouis3756]

Shes no less of a woman but her experiences as a sex worker are going to clash with "square" men who have never lived anything close to that lifestyle.

[@swappedoutZ71]

@@j.rlouis3756 women will have an opinion of her too, not just men. Women DO bash other women ya know. Just tired of the context that only men will speak negatively on her.

[@j.rlouis3756]

@@swappedoutZ71 Women do do that but that wouldnt be a relevant reply to the original comment made.

[@craigwahab1]

blaming your past or other peoples mistakes in your life for your fucked up choices is just a trend now in the west , it's mind blowing and so so sad

[@djgotti161]

Loved this interview, she has such a great energy about her. Many blessings for the future.

[@estarateta]

Girl I was dating told me she had sex with her psychologist when she was in her teens. If I ever had kids I hope I can be a good father so they can avoid predators like that.

[@KidsWithGuns1992]

That’s severe man, a therapist is a highly trusted person. Abusing that is beyond psychotic

[@SO01j20]

sasholsuma are you okay

[@billybrown8919]

That psychologist should lose his license!

[@pashon4percushon]

girl i was dating told me she had sex with the military priest while she worked at the building as a cleaner. she said she led him on and loved it. this was after we started dating and she didn't work there no more.

[@milascave2]

@sasholsuma Probably not only did he not pay her, but her parents paid HIM a lot.

[@anthonytucker9922]

She remembers sooo much from her childhood and is deeply affected. I hope she can heal

[@alexanderreid2875]

She still young tho so she should remember

[@curtismorris8126]

Such a naturally pretty, well-spoken girl. Hope she finds true happiness.

[@Illuminated7]

This series has taught me that the first thing to assess at the beginning of any relationship is mental health issues through any of the big four: 1) daddy issues 2) mommy issues 3) childhood molestation 4) rape

[@connerross612]

This is the kind of interview where I listen, and it changes me. For the better. Thank you Tiye for making me a better dad, because I listen and I hear the things I've done as a father and reflect and resolve that I Will do better. Thank you

[@mistervertigo678]

Puke.

[@kpeezyforsheezy]

@@mistervertigo678 yeah! Fuck people who assess their own shortcomings and are trying to change for the better! Losers.

[@infotheballlastonline8139]

Every time I watch the videos on this channel it makes me reflect on the immense priviledge and good fortune I was born into. It's a weird feeling of gratitude for my own situation and sadness for the people in these videos. I hope Tiye has peace and happiness.

[@sportsdaily6036]

Sadism

[@sportsdaily6036]

You feel happy because of someone else’s pain

[@infotheballlastonline8139]

@@sportsdaily6036 my comment in no way indicated what you interpreted it as. In fact, if you reread, it is quite the opposite.

[@wge621]

@@sportsdaily6036 you clearly don't know what that word means if you think gratitude for your own situation is sadistic. I don't think (nearly) anyone here wants people on this channel to go through what they've been through

[@DH-uw3us]

@@sportsdaily6036 Reading is fundamental. Comprehension is even better.

[@shawn_anigans]

There’s something oddly wholesome about her energy.

[@sandraholliday6632]

I like testimonios like this. She rise above it all. Continue doing what you need for you and your child

[@01sapphireGTS]

Lemons into lemonade? Twenty four, crazy attractive, drug free, employed, understands money management, not letting her past ruin her future. Great job.

[@BEE-od3li]

Yes it is all about your mind if doing this is keeping her mind free if it is supporting her and allowing her to do the things that she needs to do in her life to better herself providing opportunity for herself she wasn't dealt much of a choice

[@nejm612]

Just needs better folks

[@bostonbrills6126]

Is she biracial ?

[@puttinGod1st]

Boston Brills she said she’s black

[@richardcranium5862]

Don't believe everything you hear.

[@SpcyYt]

This is one of the few videos on this channel that didn't make me feel totally like shit after watching the whole thing because a strong, intelligent, beautiful black woman actually turned her life around against all odds. Thank you ma'am for the inspiration and I hope you are able to climb even higher on life's mountain.

[@deidramartin6762]

How did she turn her life around?

[@RobertRoach808]

@@deidramartin6762 she works at golden coral and has a kid. Sounds like she turned her life around to me. Lol

[@deidramartin6762]

@@RobertRoach808 oh ok 👌🏾

[@angelicadickson8666]

@@RobertRoach808 Sarcasm right?

[@jamesw9250]

@@angelicadickson8666 bro right I can’t tell.... like if they payin decent shit it’s a pandemic !

[@afonsotatiano8221]

I really hope she heals from all these experiences and helps other people. I hope she raises a daughter to know better.

[@evaphillips2102]

People tend to forget that going to see a “therapist” doesn’t guarantee you’re going to get help. Some of these people are legit predators.

[@scv1]

she has it all. dealt with the rough stuff, sheds a tear when she needs too, then is as pleasant as the day is long. awesome human.

[@rustyvessel5086]

What are you talking about? She was a prostitute

[@afellowamericanafellowamer5317]

$pencer crypto: She exploits her body being a whore. I'm not sure id call her awesome. Guys always like the idea they might have a chance to hit that so she gets a lot of mileage out of that.

[@DannySullivanMusic]

you're right. 1000% true man

[@AdamJWM]

“As pleasant as the day is long.” That statement is incredibly Relative . Most small business owners complain about how short the day is. So not sure what was meant but this statement?

[@Mr.Oct___]

The total package huh....

[@pixelaipixelai]

She could be an actress or a youtube personality shes so beautiful and I can feel that shes a kind person. Also I didnt follow the timeline pretty well, so after moving in to washington, when did she come back to north carolina and start working jobs?

[@samg6158]

If your current boyfriend told you that "you're less of a woman because of what you did", he should be your current ex.

[@YourFavoriteCuzzo]

I agree. Everyone has a value given to them from God. Nothing you can do to take that away

[@nejm612]

That's the real reason why many women have a "pimp" - most guys can't stomach that, can't tolerate such a profession for their partner. She needs an ex-pimp that turned his life around, that understands everyone has a past and isn't threatened by her past, present, or potential. She has a head on her shoulders, and a hole in her heart

[@pubzman69]

She farted on dudes !!! Lmao

[@doomguy9049]

you should want to be with someone who will tell you the truth

[@xylin3683]

@@doomguy9049 Her being less of a woman because of what she did is not the truth though

[@rachelbailey8113]

I’m so sorry your dad put you through so much, and your Mom wasn’t there, but you’re beautiful. Inside and out..baby, find something you love and run with it because you deserve it 🫶🏼

[@misubi]

She seems like a good person with a bright soul.

[@miapdx503]

"I just remember I wanted my mom so bad!" This is where she broke down. My therapist calls it "mother hunger." Moms, please, put your children first. They only get one childhood...

[@savetrump1088]

Her dad took her away from her mom.

[@cherisewilson1577]

such a gorgeous woman , with a gorgeous spirit having to deal with life’s bullshit .. I wish her, her daughter , & family the best!! hopefully she reconnect with her mother .

[@joeminor_702]

I’ll never understand how people don’t care for their own children. I can’t be away from my kids too long or I have a panic attack. DONT HAVE KIDS IF YOU TRULY DONT WANT THEM

[@s.w.1512]

So intelligent, well spoken and has a innocent elegance. Sooo much potential.

[@tdog1983-v6c]

Fuck off!

[@manfredieboyd2071]

T-bone right she don’t want to be saved 😂😂

[@tdog1983-v6c]

Manfredie Boyd the bitch was shitting and pissing on ppl! Gimme a break

[@hihhgdfg6224]

Ain’t nothing innocent about this women bless her though

[@tdog1983-v6c]

Joe hahahahahaha!!!!!! U damn right

[@theoniway2323]

At first I felt like...is she for real, because she’s literally the girl next door type, natural beauty and a sunny disposition. But as the interview went on I felt her; especially the love she has for her daughter. We want to give them the world and shield them from all the shit we were not protected from. Wish you peace Tiye 🌻

[@Mercurychyld1]

Wow, I thought I was gonna hate this chick, but I ended up loving her. Want to hear more from her if possible. Hope she finds her way. She sounds very bright and full of great potential…and her life made her strong.

[@calisongbird]

Why did you think you were gonna hate her???

[@BigMoney23223]

People need to STOP HAVING KIDS cause they think it’s what you’re supposed to do, if you can’t sit down for 5 minutes and look into the future for the child or yourself…. YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS HAVING KIDS, people always screw kids up

[@MiracleIsMyName]

It’s crazy how mindful and aware she is about herself... “Mind you I come from an abusive father and abusive relationship- so I’m used to this.” Crazy! She’s a sweetheart, and I’m going to cover her in prayer and love.

[@devaughnchristopher]

EVERYTHING you said is 100% spot on.

[@dgillian183]

I’d like to cover her in “love”! The offer stands for you as well! ❤️

[@y.k.9705]

@@dgillian183 Ewww. After a million dirty dudes? Never I would touch her.

[@dgillian183]

@@y.k.9705 lol I was joking

[@kratosjunior817]

@@dgillian183 Lmao you're nasty but..... I came