Escort interview-Heather

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[@throughtheeyesofdj]

She came into the dispensary I work at today wearing a Soft White Underbelly shirt. When I made a comment about it she told me she'd done an interview with Mark. Pretty crazy. She was really nice

[@ladybug1188]

Why am I just now seeing this ?!!!!! I remember you !!!! Thank you so much for watching and commenting !! I’m just a regular person !!!

[@lynnlakotich6331]

​​@@ladybug1188 I'm just watching this now. I enjoyed your interview. I actually live in Oak Lawn.

[@bfox402]

What's up cousin, this is Brandon in Omaha. Your story is incredible and I learned a metric shit ton listening to you. You carry yourself with grace. I have spent my entire life misunderstanding you and I'm embarrassed by that now. I look forward to seeing you the next time you're in town. Be well.

[@ladybug1188]

Cousin.... you just made me cry, I love you dearly this means the world to me !!!!!!

[@fluerii4201]

@@ladybug1188 hey ..I really admire your entire demeanor clear thoughts and strength. Wishing you nothing but the best xx

[@graciecoon2875]

her daughter. hurts hearing “no regrets”.

[@zuzanadubois1218]

Mark is an amazing photographer, but the photo does not do her beauty justice.

[@stylecred]

@@graciecoon2875 Ladies “show grace” that im just now in this moment understanding. ✨

[@mimimeowmeow444]

Interviews like this on your channel have taught me that there is so much beauty to be found in seemingly the most unlikely places. Despite how much pain a person has weathered. She speaks gently but there is so much conviction behind her words and her story. Heather has fought through this life with so much grace. Thank you for what you do Mark, your videos continue to teach me how much we have to learn from one another.

[@grannywilgers1487]

How beautifully written. I also Thank Mark, It's a dark world out here, My hope for these Ladies is that they find JESUS quick. I promise you if you turn to him, he will help you. Repent all the bad stuff that you have done, to JESUS, and he will start the. Process with and for you. How do I know this my sister's, cause I use to be you.

[@marylougeorge9890]

@@grannywilgers1487 Amen. Truth.👍❤️

[@_dreamscape]

Yes!! The fact that she left a 12 year abusive relationship alive is amazing to me

[@janetwarren2686]

You know how to use you're word's so poetically!

[@9roselove9]

You don’t even know her lol how do you know she’s had grace?

[@PhantomOfThePsy-Opera]

Her smile is mischievous & devious.... I can tell she was a knockout at some point.... But she definitely shows the wear and tear from her lifestyle.... Still a beautiful woman!.... I hope she finds peace.....life can be so tragic

[@brittaolson6550]

Still a knockout!

[@jessicajoy2903]

Wym shes flippin GORGEOUS

[@sfwatxyo2162]

She's more sexy than beautiful, but that's ok because sexy ages better than looks do.

[@PhantomOfThePsy-Opera]

@@sfwatxyo2162 I agree with you totally, she has a sexiness about her that is not going away any time soon....looks fade, but she has that special something about her that stuck around... I get exactly what you're trying to say

[@PhantomOfThePsy-Opera]

@@jessicajoy2903 You sure are🤗......lol... And I never said she wasn't beautiful, you can just tell the lifestyle has gotten to her... She's 41 years old and def couldn't pass as a woman in her late 30s....but she has that spark of sexiness that ain't ever gonna go away.....I wish her the best, and I wish you the best....stay blessed, healthy, and whole......Merry Christmas

[@kimnicoliello6285]

I like her demeanor. She seems very confident and has a great smile. She's well spoken too.

[@currybase]

Heather does have a beautiful smile- even a smile that would comfort me. If I met Heather in person and didn't know Heather's back story I wouldn't know from her beautiful spirit.

[@ladybug1188]

Thank you!!!!!

[@ladybug1188]

@@currybase thank you !!!

[@currybase]

@Dorando Cavallacci Yes...yes I do.

[@jessicarichards913]

I absolutely agree 💯

[@4eyes2sea]

Love bless you. I could quote Heather all day long. "Feelings go in your pocket" so beautiful to realize. Addiction to money, having to believe in polygamy, the abandonment results in not knowing what love is. "Never a loss, always a lesson". Another brilliant piece of art, Mark. *hugs*

[@ladybug1188]

Thank you 😊 💓

[@brittaolson6550]

@@ladybug1188 Are you the woman in the interview? If so, I can so relate to you. I got back in the game after a divorce, folks and all. What a lot of wisdom in this interview…one of the best!

[@SoftWhiteUnderbelly]

@@ladybug1188 Morning Heather…😘

[@ladybug1188]

@@SoftWhiteUnderbelly Good morning Mark. 🙏

[@kpeezyforsheezy]

@@ladybug1188 you’re absolutely delightful. What a special energy you have. Calm, poised, insightful, mysterious, feminine… just beautiful. I hope you come back for more interviews.

[@chelseyrader]

I really like her demeanor. She's made her own way, without any rolemodels she did the best knew how. You dont know what you dont know

[@brittaolson6550]

So true! That’s one of my favorite sayings. A lot of people used to ask me why I didn’t tell on my sexually abusive relative. Cause I didn’t know every grandpa didn’t do that. Or why I did “crazy” things rather than getting mental health treatment. (Cause crazy people don’t know they’re crazy)! If only we COULD know what we don’t know. Then we’d know what help to ask for, when. Fortunately, I’ve learned a lot since then and am working on a counseling license to (hopefully) help others more. I had the really good fortune to meet a counselor who really helped me. A lot of programs/placements didn’t. What works for one may not work for another, but unconditional love and acceptance and a refusal to judge other is a good start. You seem like one of those who gets it!

[@wesleyAlan9179]

@@brittaolson6550 great comment 👍

[@damnbadger8242]

She really did her best to poop out kids and not being a mother for them! Give it up for mother of the year!

[@marylougeorge9890]

@@brittaolson6550 Well said.👍❤️

[@marylougeorge9890]

@@wesleyAlan9179 Hey, guy! Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones.⛄🎄✌️

[@simphiwem9674]

These videos are proof of how much love matters to kids...rich, poor or in-between, humans at their core need love

[@heide-raquelfuss5580]

What i discovered is...men do not search for love. They want a home slave, sex doll, respect at all times, not being alone, maybe even a trophee. Not love. Everytime i gave love, affection they saw me as weak and to human, so it went allways downhill, not respecting me, but wanted respect at all times, even when treated poorly and so on. Women want love, not men.

[@simphiwem9674]

@@heide-raquelfuss5580 your personal experience isn't enough to know what every single man wants, have you considered the possibility that you might have chosen the wrong guys?

[@beckythatgirl1578]

“It’s who you pay” “ It’s who controls you” put a literal lump in my throat & a knot in my stomach. I sincerely hope Heather can find her way to a healthier happier space.

[@Truthof.thestreets]

“Your feelings go in your pocket, when you get hurt for 12 years that sounded good” WOAH. She’s very well spoken and has plans. “When you’re in it you need to think about what you’re gonna do, cause if you don’t you’re not it in for the right reasons” “This is a young persons game” Man I can quote so much from this interview! Awesome work Mark ! Sending love and light Heather

[@ladybug1188]

Thank you!!!

[@AnneAndersonFoxiepaws]

She is, and probably was even more, gorgeous and speaks intelligently and I could listen to her for ages. I hope her life works out well and that she gets to settle down and feel loved again by someone special.

[@becky3410]

Heather is not like any I’ve seen on here! Her demeanor, the way she looks at everything is amazing. I’ll never judge another woman for the choices she’s made. It’s her life and it’s her that has to live it. She’s mature, but she’s still has a way about her that makes her stand out from the rest! I hope Heather finds what it is she’s looking for! Thank you Mark for another amazing interview ♥️

[@ladybug1188]

Thank you Becky

[@ritamccomas9271]

Not the typical run of the mill prostitute but a high end call girl!😊

[@mynameis999]

Mark is so good at interviewing. He knows what they are not saying but gets them to open up and say it.

[@HeebieKikeberger1025]

Idk, his interview skills are ok and don’t completely lack empathy but, sometimes like the questions he was asking in the beginning can be presumptive and he can come off as patronizing more often than not. I’ve been watching for years and have mixed feelings about his true intentions but I’m leaning toward the belief this channel and his website exist purely for profit.

[@clairelumiere2901]

@@HeebieKikeberger1025 Mark’s been losing money with this channel since he started because YT demonetizes his videos due to mature content. Yet Mark believes that this channel will make a positive difference in the world by raising awareness of the societal problems illustrated here. For that reason he has continued to fund it with his earnings from his work in advertising photography. Although Mark hopes his new SWU subscription channel will turn the financial tide for him, profit is not his main motive and he would just like it not to be his “money losing channel”. You can hear him describe more on this situation in his interview on the Koncrete channel: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qpKQaat8nJV_Ztk.

[@Grahamt978]

Right and he still just calls himself a photographer, crazy! He’s a Humanitarian!

[@marylougeorge9890]

@@clairelumiere2901 Excellent explaination. Merry Christmas, Claire! ⛄🎄❤️✌️

[@marylougeorge9890]

@@Grahamt978 Mark Sure has Proved That! 👍👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️

[@mddell58]

So, so happy that she completely kicked heroin addiction! Thankfully, she speaks well, & is intelligent. That, makes her easy to listen to. Merry Christmas, everyone. 🎄 ♥️ 💚

[@conibergmann5895]

Great interview. Soft spoken, no fluff. Just real, raw, and thought provoking. You are worthy of true, wholesome love. Keep digging your way out... and you'll achieve your goals. I know you will

[@mclassie6366]

This lady radiates something. I can see how she would be a great alternative therapy practitioner. She has a soothing, knowing way about her and this even flows on video ♥️

[@belladivision9320]

Sex work can be an alternative healing therapy for some clients.

[@jujujouet7944]

Although she probably doesn't appreciate being categorized, she reminds me of Lauren Bacall when she was more mature, as she's sultry, subtly sexy, especially her soothing voice. Loved that she took responsibility for her own choices, which is why she's so forward thinking and has the ability to invest in her own future. She loves working as it probably keeps her in physical and mental shape, rather than being a housewife.

[@Alexandraincognito]

@@belladivision9320 So true

[@ladybug1188]

@@jujujouet7944 thank you !!!

[@ladybug1188]

Thank you!!!

[@ashleyyy1]

I appreciate her honesty ! Wishing her all the best

[@jennyoung7997]

This wisdom coming from her is mind blowing! What an incredible mind and perspective! I feel like everyone can learn something from her! Personally wouldn't mind having her on speed dial so I could call her when I need advice on anything!

[@brittaolson6550]

💯

[@ladybug1188]

Thank you

[@skyking228]

Apparently there is a big difference between a father and a dad. Always interesting, thanks!

[@merseymay]

What causes it is also coldness from a mother. Most complex trauma at its root is emotional neglect. Other trauma is more visible but the one common factor is feeling unloved unworthy and disconnected from caregivers. Not a hand or voice needs to be raised to do that to a child and fuck em up.

[@wildnregaltv1610]

100% true

[@evilorelei9809]

Very well said, I relate

[@rebekahhaliburton9442]

This woman is a goddess. We NEED an update on her. Beautiful story and great job again mark with the awesome interviews

[@ImANiceSprite]

@Dorando Cavallacci if you can watch this video and not feel the ethereal beauty she gives off you're a sad soul

[@ImANiceSprite]

@Dorando Cavallacci this entire response reflects the hatred you have for yourself

[@brittneyx3]

@Dorando Cavallacci you proved everything sprite was saying by the way you responded. yet again. why are you trying to get validation from a perfect stranger on the internet? it's weird.

[@pambeforethestorm9784]

@Dorando Cavallacci Thank you for your service and by the way, I agree with all of your comments here. People can twist the things they want, but Goddess really does Not fit her. Attractive, yes 💯❤

[@roderickcortez138]

A goddess??? Did we watch the same video?

[@ootenyafoo6935]

One of the best interview subjects I've seen on this channel. She is frank and honest about her feelings and the environment that confronts her. A very pragmatic person with a not insignificant amount of ennui .

[@ladybug1188]

Thank you!!!

[@kimpierce2844]

Wow. Another great interview Mark. I watch EVERY morning with coffee and my feelings in my pocket. Lol. Heather loved your story. Happy Holidays ! Best channel on You Tube.

[@rctecopyright]

I think you get a unique perspective from someone who entered the life later on, super interesting. Also peep how similar the job description matches being a pro-athlete. Fast money, glitzy lifestyle and attention, but it doesn't last and it wears on your body and mind, then eventually you're replaced by the new star. Working in entertainment must be a real trip

[@patrickgriffin6369]

Great observation.

[@thematriarchy2075]

Glitzy lifestyle?? I really don't understand what picture some people have of a sex worker that works for a pimp. Glitzy?? Scking sweaty blls of strangers, and danger lurking around the corners.

[@marylougeorge9890]

@@thematriarchy2075 Total truth. 💔

[@thematriarchy2075]

@@marylougeorge9890 Hi my friend 🥰😘

[@rctecopyright]

@@thematriarchy2075 glitzy as in what the work affords. Clothes/trips/fine dining etc. You're zeroing in on the difficult part of the equation which is the "work".

[@debbiecobb7195]

Heather is amazing ,I couldn"t put my laptop down, her voice and her comments were Real. Stay safe Heather and Bless you!!

[@ladybug1188]

Thank you so very much ❤

[@pastogzz7167]

These the best interviews on the tube

[@lauraanderson4256]

Heather, I really admire you. You escaped an abusive relationship, which my mom wasn't able to do... you kicked heroin, which alot of people are unable to do... and you have such grace and are so down to earth. I hope you do write a book. I would love to read it. You are so thoughtful and genuine. Glad to hear you have a full-time job. It sounds like you have alot of knowledge and skills to take your life back and be independent. I hope you can find some healing and peace. I hope we get an update on you. I would love to see you find peace and happiness. 💖💖💖🙏

[@missmo-be7636]

This lady holds herself with an air of sophistication and there’s a wisdom that flows naturally. I hope she finds her way to a lifestyle way more fulfilling.

[@ladybug1188]

Thank you

[@Cherrydagasman]

She's right. Love is situational and seasonal.

[@ronchism6435]

My jaws get tight when I think about that. But then, I look at how my life has gone, and the TRUTH smacks the SH*T out of me. I had two pimp friends--just buddies. One of them used to say, "Man, you got THE GAME in you! I can SEE it!" I'd go, "C'mon, man, let's just play the drums." He was an excellent drummer, and I didn't want to hear any of his Game sh*t. I didn't consider what he'd said a compliment. What he was saying is that I virtually HAD no emotions--I mean, with respect to holding on to "love." And he was right. But there was a reason: Every TIME I TRIED to hold on to it, it would end up leaving--and in an abrupt, hard, COLD way. You know, like, I'd be thinking, "What the F*CK???!!!" I'm told that I CLING, because I'm Cancer. I never been into astrology. But, I know this: If you love easily and deeply, AND you cling, you can almost be certain to end up being as cold as the "love" that dropped yo ass because "the season" had ended. I had it happen to be recently, with a friend--FEMALE friend (again). And I ain't talk'n about somebody 20 or 30. Try 50. I've returned to my writing, leaving "love" alone.

[@aria759]

It's not that way for me. The feelings never go away, honestly. Even if that person treated me terribly and I'm not with them anymore, I still feel love for them. Once I get that feeling, it never goes away, as much as I wish it would because they mistreated me. It still doesn't kill it. It depends how loving of a person you are.

[@meljc2823]

@@aria759 that's so true for me as well. Some people love harder than others.. I'm like that with my family as well.

[@ronchism6435]

@@meljc2823 I saw your response to my post. Hope I didn't discourage you. You're young. Don't be discouraged (Try not to). 😊 I'm much older. In short order, I'll end up LAUGHING at my pain. Anyway, stay up!!! 😊

[@meljc2823]

@@ronchism6435 I Believe in lust and friendship.. l think romantic love is far to painful and disappointing.. And as for how I used to show love to my family.. These days I'm protecting myself from them as well.. Showing love and care but not putting as much energy into others as I used to.. lv been so drained by others.. Its time to protect myself and focus more on what I want to achieve and experience before I die. Thanks for being kind.. ☮️🌈🙏🏼😌

[@sherman1280]

I always come away from these interviews feeling sad, but also more thoughtful and aware that literally every person on Earth has a different life journey. I try to carry that with me and keep it in the forefront of my mind when I interact with others. I hope it makes me a kinder person. Heather, I hope you are able to finish your education someday. Good luck on your journey ❤️

[@Cindy.P]

She's sooo smart & still has a light to her. I hope one day she can see that, too. Thank you for your honesty & bravery, Heather.

[@carynmartin6053]

I love this interviewee, she's so honest and open about how she looks at what she's doing and why, and she's right about what she said about how the workers feel about their clients; as an ex stripper, we all felt that same way about ours

[@meetmaxdream]

Incredible perspective from a beautiful lady. She has gotten really wise thru all the tough situations she's had to navigate past in life & I have nothing but respect for that. I could probably listen to her for hours and she would still have me captivated by her takeaways from the situations she's found herself engaged in. I can only imagine and I know it was a super hard path but I think everyone's is in some way.

[@jasminemariedarling]

So interesting that someone can be "addicted to money" but give all the money away, immediately, to the pimp.

[@cherisew]

She’s a go-to-smiler. 🙋🏾‍♀️takes one to know one. Even if she’s not in the best mood, her go to face is a smile. She will have a smile on her face when she takes her final breath. But she is just absolutely so regal. Wow. Not what I was expecting by just looking at the thumbnail. Never judge a story by the thumbnail on this channel. I think that’s what I love about these vids. You just never know what you’re going to get.

[@MarthaMcCrum]

I love your entire comment Cherise. Beautifully expressed and seems so true to me.

[@cherisew]

@@MarthaMcCrum thank you! 😊

[@elizabethecarlisle1045]

She's a beautiful woman, and I definitely feel you when you said she's regal, Cherise. She's a naturally elegant woman. My heart breaks for her though. I so want to throw my arms around her and hug her back to life.

[@cherisew]

@@elizabethecarlisle1045 yea I know. Because someone that regal shouldn’t be a lady of the night. No matter what the reason is. She’s better than that.

[@Brynowyn]

The wisdom she has at her age is awe inspiring. I wish she could be a mentor or in some way help those girls that want to leave the game or be self employed. Heather, you are an incredible woman and I wish only that you succeed in your life's goals. Great interview Mark

[@ladybug1188]

I actually called mark panicked and desperately looking for resources for females in my situation he advised me to sleep in my truck and get a job so I did get a job and still learning day by day the way to live withdrawing from that life I appreciate people like you My goal is to open up centers for us girls I also shared that with mark not thinking a thumbs up means shit at this point. I searched mark out I orchestrated the interview flew from one side of the us to the other and caught Covid I thank you fr

[@ambernash8149]

She reminds me of many women i have met in my life, not by situation or circumstance, but by a glamour spiked with some self-preservation. some of her responses seemed a bit guarded or restrained, but that may be perhaps due to fear of who may be watching her interview. If she did indeed write a book, i hope she could be a bit more open with the written word. its likely to be a story I personally would love to read.

[@cdcdogs4961]

🌹 Heather I know you don’t see it from where you’re at, probably because of the nature of “The Game” but there are a lot of really good men out there that don’t cheat on their wives. You’ll never meet them where you’re at if that’s what you’re looking for. You’re a beautiful woman, you have so much to give, you have a lot of wisdom and life experience to share with others. I really hope for your success in finding your way out of “The Game” and finding true love. 🙏🏽🥰

[@RedefiningBodybuilding]

Wow you can tell when she was younger she was the quintessential blonde Midwest girl next door American beauty. And it's wild to see how someone can turn out years later, but she still has the quality in here that I can't quite explain. Prayers and strength to her.

[@roymaddocks3184]

she still is beautiful

[@house8660]

I actually love her vibe. I just hope she can find what she is looking for. She deserves a wonderful life. Get that realistate license!

[@MFJoneser]

Mark, man.. youve grown so much. I am proud of and inspired by you. Thank you for everything. Respect and love to this classy, wise woman.

[@thatgirlcharlee2368]

Abandonment hurts the worst! Not being loved from your parents and taught your precious. Selling your body means you don’t see your worth.. we’re so much more than the trauma we inflict on ourselves.

[@christophergonzalez1454]

Heather, there is something so interesting about you. The way you carry yourself, the way you speak. God bless.

[@oliviaquinones8516]

This woman used to come into the hotel I used to work at,she was always so kind

[@_J_E_A_N_I_N_E_]

There’s something so captivating about her…this is one of the few SWU interviews I was able to watch the entire video without stopping and taking a breather.

[@annbednarczyk1006]

Not all women in this industry are from trauma ridden backgrounds. I am one of them. But I was also trafficked so it pisses me off when everyone always says oh you had to come from a fu**ed up background to be in this lifestyle cause that’s not always true.

[@brittaolson6550]

True. The game does not need damaged women to exist. It needs a demand for services, and women smart enough to know what’s good for us, despite others’ judgment. Sometimes it IS the best opportunity. If people want to say somebody’s f’d up, they should start with those who perpetuate income inequality, like greedy corporations and corrupt politicians. Women are not stupid. We are not all out here looking for Daddy. We are looking for money and opportunity, plain and simple.

[@annbednarczyk1006]

Britta it’s not about the need it’s just not a true statement that everyone is damaged that ends up in that life. I was kidnapped and sold. I escaped in California but was taken from Minnesota. I come from an upper class family and had a wonderful upbringing.

[@annbednarczyk1006]

@@girlofthealpines I’m talking about why people sell their bodies. For some it wasn’t a choice but it was a forced act! Not because I came from a fucked up background.

[@Jay5-0]

@@annbednarczyk1006 Wishing you peace and happiness. It is so scary what happened to you. I'm so glad you made it back.

[@cvx5422]

Beautiful lady. Heather I hope you get your real estate license, you would make a ton of money. You know how to read people, adjust yourself accordingly so they are comfortable and you know how to negotiate. Go for it !

[@offgridphilosophy7959]

When she said that her line of work is "a new trauma everyday", that really opened my eyes. 13:40

[@glitterinmyeyes333]

She's absolutely a beautiful soul. I hope she one day finds someone to love her authentically, for her, and that she realizes her real worth. ❤

[@brittaolson6550]

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with her self-esteem. I think there’s something wrong with how the larger society devalues women in the game. She’s very smart.

[@glitterinmyeyes333]

@@brittaolson6550 worth and self esteem are not the same. 💋

[@brandoncaldwell5242]

Really

[@timmccoin7818]

@@brittaolson6550 well if society should not devalue ppl in the "game" then what would that mean to the institution of marriage? would cheating be acceptable? r we to push and encouage mass open relationships? what would be the impact of that to children? Will sex and sexual experiences cease to be a private and intimate relationship? Will it be as equivalent to shaking one's hand? I'm not into status game, but such persuasion only blurrs what was ones clear and redefines morals and replaces it with hollow emptiness under the mirage of do as u please, and let's not judge others....how about NO, how about calling spade a spade, right as right and wrong as wrong

[@producertheology843]

I don't think her finding someone to love her is the problem with her. There are men that would be attracted to her personality and accept her past. Would she accept that "square" type of love long term? A man could give her everything material, emotional, and spiritual but she has to be ready and most times the things these women experience damage their ability to pair-bond, trust, and believe in love.

[@Supergirl-oo5lr]

You need a more comfortable chair !

[@sabrinawhiting5167]

Doesn’t make sense to have a nice chair when half the ladies have a bare ass lol

[@lisakrieg3076]

There is an oddity about her.. she talks in a peculiar way. She is secretly very unhappy, you can tell. I hope she can get it together….🙏🏻

[@s.d.mitchell9505]

Another wonderful interview with an insightful bright lady! Good luck Heather.

[@tajimganga4378]

Appreciate how you align with all of these interesting people, every vid is drastically different but the roots are similar ... Abandonment, abuse, resentment.. and so on ... Break these generational curses

[@lumiya_lumos1423]

This woman is so poised and full of wisdom. Even though my life has lead a different path, I relate so much to what she has said. She is full of beauty and grace and so many of the things she has said have made a deep impact on my heart and will stick with me for the rest of my life. I hope she experiences nothing but blessings after all she has lived through. Thank you for sharing these beautiful souls Mark.

[@swendave]

Your interviews are compelling and clearly show that parenting has completely collapsed over the last 6 decades.

[@danab333]

This lady is amazing. Bless her beautiful soul. I love her

[@Rain3z]

Each and every one of these videos makes me hug my sons a few seconds longer, express gratitude and love towards my wonderful parents, and look my husband in the eyes to tell him I love him. We can think all we want that we would be better than escorts, prostitutes, addicts, anyone of those categories in similar situations; truth is, we are 1 event away from them. 1 prescription away from addiction, 1 divorce away from being an escort. Never say never. Do your best to not look down on anyone because you don’t know what your future holds. The future is a finicky thing-God lurks in the gaps.

[@zodglubby]

Such a raw look into the reality that is the relationship between men and women. 80 % of men are just invisible, not to he respected, or canaon fodder. The only men that count, "you better believe in polygamy " such honesty, thank you

[@greenie75]

Why are men seeing a woman like this? It's hard to respect polygamous men.

[@billj4525]

I agree, all relationships are not polygamous at all. Although i'm sure a lot are, but their are without a doubt tons of relationships that people are faithful to each other for many years all the way up to their whole life, and I know of many relationships like that in my family. I mean when you deal with escorts and certain types of negativity and people you are much more likely to run into polygamous people. You need to be around more average types of people, and really want to have love with just one person, which a lot of people do. I hate to insult any specific groups, but their are certain types and relationships that are more polygamous. It also tends to happen in relationships where the people don't truly love and care for each other, and have a family together. I just hate the attitude that we are all polygamous strictly because I know for a fact it's not true from my experience.

[@You_Tuber_Premium]

I like it when people are honest and genuine. It makes it easier to watch. On the other hand, when people are arrogant, and act like the world owes them, those are intolerable to watch

[@Calverts399]

Great interview Heather, glad you have a way out. Also it's nice to see someone of age and sober. Merry Christmas 🎅 🎄

[@wt460]

Seasons. That is something I have never thought about. Very smart and thoughtful coming from her life.

[@TheMissstarr777]

Her words helped more then any doctor or therapist she a genius..just how she expresses her self is immaculate...

[@BrittneyGiselle]

Heather is such an intelligent woman, I wish her nothing but the best in her future!

[@dante5622]

2:30 she is 43. She has been doing this for 8 years at 35. She had her first kid at 16.

[@goldensgreensandblues3858]

I now understand my addiction to waiting tables. Expensive degree and I went back to "being of service" for that hit of tips and smiles and immediate gratification. Thin line.

[@macifacezie]

The one thing I think mark is missing from all of these videos is real life experience. I feel like you can tell he has never known this level of heartbreak. He asks all the wrong questions

[@keirasmith5706]

She’s very self aware. Very smart. I hope and pray she is ok and safe. I hope she finds love.

[@sandife4nandes365]

For those of you that are geeks like me for documentaries, there is one called Chasing Heroin by Frontline. It shows addiction at various levels. The mother that leaves her kids, the rebellious teen and the father doing his best to stay clean.

[@megflemming2660]

So sad people need to comment on her looks rather than her message. She has a lot of wisdom from all her experiences. Write that book, you are beautiful inside and out and you still will be when you "age out" of the game.

[@antoinelyons5323]

I agree with you

[@lynetterice8413]

🙏🏾💯🙏🏾💯💯 one of the realist points on here!!! I most definitely agree

[@ladybug1188]

@@lynetterice8413 thank you

[@ladybug1188]

@@antoinelyons5323 thank you

[@lilyrose3145]

This woman is so brave to sit and tell her story.She is a strong woman who has survived .God bless her.

[@stanislouse4168]

Never a loss, always a lesson. Good one.

[@ladybug1188]

Live by it ❤

[@sandife4nandes365]

Heather is intelligent, beautiful and eloquent. I hope she gets out and finds monogamy in a loving relationship.

[@sandife4nandes365]

My great uncle used to smoke cigarillos. I didn't know they were still sold in the US.

[@ladybug1188]

@@sandife4nandes365 I’m smoking a blunt of weed

[@SammysMysASMR]

Seconds into watching this I knew I liked her…despite challenges faced, she seems incredibly empowered and exudes strength nonetheless. Seems to hold her head high and rightfully so! Pretty too with a beautiful smile! Her speaking about having to isolate was interesting in that she has to lay low and watch what she communicates with others in order to protect her income given the jealousy and competitiveness in the name of survival. Your bringing light to ones ability to adapt to the game differently because you are a product of abandonment hurt pain etc is an interesting perspective too and I believe there’s some truth to that. Thanks for sharing your story and wisdom with us Heather. I hope you accomplish all you set out to do…you can do it. Love and hugs Heather 🙏🏽

[@desiandy21able]

I like Heather too, kind of a kindred spirit I suppose. Anyway, did you notice how beautiful her leg are when the camera panned down? Tina Turner better look out, Heather's got legs, lol!

[@MarthaMcCrum]

Heather has such warm, beautiful smile and gentle vibe to her.

[@ladybug1188]

Thank you so much ❤

[@chasnfireflies317]

Admit it Mark. You're going for a Doctoral Thesis! It will be about the effects of abuse of children and the power of forgiveness. All my best Heather! I wish you peace and love. Thank you for sharing.

[@dr.doolittle5617]

She has the air of a refined lady. She belongs in a country club with the other wives talking about their children in college and worldwide vacations.

[@christyjackson4835]

How do you know where she belongs ? She made her choices. She belongs right where she is until she decides to love herself more. Fk a country club. She can become somebody without a country club. Let me guess. You are about...18. Lol

[@edwardcarrington3531]

Cringe

[@Star3marie304]

@@Phor0phor 💯💯

[@amygalvin1799]

Or running the country club herself talking about all the husbands cheating on their wives.

[@Supergirl-oo5lr]

This woman is so beautiful and strong. Only love and respect for her ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@evelynschau229]

A beautiful lady . So down to earth and real . She has a lovely voice. I wish her the very best in life . God bless .❤️

[@Lovereignsupreme]

We are all replaceable. With that said being said, having a unique perspective and drive greater than the rest ,is what gives you an edge. How could you submit and trust after all that? She is cool and attractive, smoking that cigar all smooth.You are a wise woman,l believe in you .

[@hjjjjk8399]

Your dreaming? She only attractive after a gram of coke. People need to start speaking truth rather than being polite just to make people feel better. What she is doing is destroying her soul.

[@Lovereignsupreme]

@@hjjjjk8399 perspective and being attractive is more than surface,it's presence as well. I don't do coke,just my opinion. She is trying to dig out of the hole,every step is a step forward. I've never kicked heroin ,so l think she may be more capable than you think

[@hjjjjk8399]

@@Lovereignsupreme She would be more attractive of you was not a hooker. Also I mentioned coke because most of her clients are proberly drug users. Only a drug can lower inhibition's enough to make individuals go and have sex with prostitute's. Stop supporting wickedness just because it is a women.

[@Lovereignsupreme]

@@hjjjjk8399 I am encouraging her out of that old mindset . Mary Magdalene washed Jesus' feet according to the bible,did he kick her away?

[@ladybug1188]

@@hjjjjk8399 no coke sir just cannabis if you listened to the interview I told you all I have been clean off prescription narcotics since the day my first pimp picked me up. March 13 2014

[@multitablez]

I watched the whole interview. Very smart lady. She is beautiful on the outside and inside. I wish she can get good help and meet someone who cares about her. Though i hope she can get through her addiction. She is smart and she knows she doesn't want this life.

[@jasminepeyton9892]

heather, love is not a fairytale, it does exist. you don’t have to be paid for it either.

[@solodeah76]

She is the most humble person I have seen in these interviews... Beautiful & kind soul & I hope she knows this & finds peace within herself ❤

[@3jsofficial]

What an amazing spirit. Honest, authentic, so beautiful and so real.

[@pascalelandry8630]

As a woman I will never understand a woman who choses a violent, loveless relationship over their child. Never.

[@damnbadger8242]

As a man, I will never understand how these women poop out children like it's a bag of chips and give them away like it's nothing.

[@sj9410]

@@damnbadger8242 well cuz the babies come out of the vaginal canal, that's why.

[@alidelatierra]

Me neither. For that we should consider ourselves lucky. It kills you to see the ones you love the most choose that there’s no way to make sense of it

[@pontiacman78]

Just because you get pregnant doesn't mean your ready. A child needs a lot and some times a woman may feel she doesn't have enough to give. Even if they choose to have the child that means that child was needing that life.

[@damnbadger8242]

@@pontiacman78 There is a thing for that you know; it's called 'abortion'. It was thought out for irresponsible women like this one. It's something that saves these damaged kids, and the taxpayers a whole lot of crap.

[@k_xxo]

I could listen to her all day, very interesting.

[@deborah3071]

"Seasons"... I understand that. I can relate to you in so many ways. ❤

[@melissawaugh420]

I find it interesting that none of the girls mention the kinks, that was the killer for me. So much sexual deviant behavior, no one asked for "normal" sex like you have with you wife. Plus you always get payed more for the hard kinks. Some John's just cheating is their kink, they have to tell us their married, like we care or want to know anything about them. They're just a number just like we are to them. But just know what some men really desire sexual, I can't wear a low top in public now because of all the things I know he might be thinking makes me want to puke. Not being sexiest just saying he's and she's from my prospective. I would feel the same if I was a male escort too I am sure.

[@juliettezea9507]

Exactly, so many sick people

[@kimberlyanne434]

Thank you Heather, I found your life story interesting.

[@irairod5160]

There is light emanating from this lady. I hope she finds a way to move into a life that is more rewarding and less dangerous, and that she gets to experience unconditional love---for herself, for others, and from others.

[@ladybug1188]

Thank you so much it’s been a real battle understanding the new norm

[@irairod5160]

@@ladybug1188 Sending you love!

[@letraylor1841]

So very well spoken, insightful and beautiful!

[@tinalindsey1598]

Heather, I hope your children have happy lives. They are the innocent ones. They deserve the best. I hope you let them know they are not to blame for anything you’ve chosen over them. Best wishes to all of you.

[@lisajohnston6907]

Finally someone is bringing up the kids that she only brouggt up one time in her whole interview

[@ladybug1188]

My children are grown. I gave them the best and excluded myself.

[@ladybug1188]

@@lisajohnston6907 the interview wasn't based on my children... although we could do a whole interview on them this one was about being a escort . Not parenting.

[@sharonparris2997]

Mark thank you so much for trying to help people the way you do! This story is so sad it breaks my heart into a million pieces. I'm like you I believe it stems back to child hood eventide you ask about it Rebecca claims up an refuses to talk about on drugs or without drugs. I'm so afraid that I'm going to click on one of videos one day an your gonna say something has happened.

[@markoembarko9045]

In the game of a pimp and a trick, the only one that seems to lose is the sex worker. Just an observation from educating myself with these interviews.

[@greenie75]

Very true.

[@JamesJohnson52990]

Yea cuhz nobody, man or woman is supposed to be selling their body, like nothing whatsoever comes good out of prostitution. If it doesnt affect you now, it definitely will later.

[@godislove4604]

Pimps hated me in NYC because I didn't work for none of them

[@cali-sun7727]

Refreshing to see her insight. She knows what it is, realizes it’s an addiction at this point and she is not benefiting from this one sided situation even though the game manipulates you into believing so. How many girls casually explain how their nails stay done, brand new outfit everyday and want for nothing. Anyone outside of the game is baffled how that works for them. But these street dudes are so good at what thy do the women literally start preaching their gospel. 💜💜

[@cmickie3296]

“I believe in seasons”.

[@desineece8554]

Heather I really enjoyed and appreciated listening to you, You are a very intelligent, brave woman, I loved when you said You don't have any regrets and they hold us back, wish I could learn that, wishing you all the best. :)

[@ladybug1188]

Thank you !!!!!

[@dimplesp4046]

Wow, she’s beautiful inside and out. She’s very wise as well. I live in NW burbs of Chicago, thanks for showing the Midwest.

[@brittaolson6550]

Minneapolis baby!

[@dawnnicholson6703]

She reminds me of Tawny kitan but different. It shows you that the beginning of the childhood is super important. Sad she seems articulate. I feel she is giving up herself for money so I feel she is not gaining for the payoff for money. I thank her for being honest and truthful.

[@BuddhatheRockstar]

She seems very grounded and honest about who she is. I hope her plans and ideas about her future are fulfilled.

[@lovearttherapyalways]

maybe, but you cannot be fully grounded when you invalidate your own feelings and that is what they have to do in order to do this profession invalidate themselves increasingly to the point of self destruction .. sad, tortorous, slow self destruction.

[@bumpers17921]

My heart goes out to these people but there often seems to be a disconnect when Mark asks how their childhoods were. Many say, “my childhood was pretty good” and then it comes out there was abuse, neglect, etc. I can’t see how anyone could end up in these places in life without severe disfunction and abuse. In one interview Mark jokingly said sexual abuse is a prerequisite for anyone who walks into his studio for an interview.