Sole survivor: Brenda Lin's harrowing story of betrayal and murder | 7NEWS Spotlight

On July 18, 2009, the battered bodies of newsagent Min Lin, his wife Lily Lin, their sons Henry and Terry; and Lily's sister Irene were found in their North Epping home. Brenda Lin was the only family member to survive - saved only by a school trip to New Caledonia. After making pleas for public assistance to solve the case, Min's brother-in-law Robert Xie was charged with their murders in 2011. In 2017, Xie was found guilty of murdering all five members of the Lin family and sentenced to five life terms in jail. In February 2021, Chief Justice Tom Bathurst and Justices Robert Allan Hulme and Robert Beech-Jones rejected Xie's appeal and found Xie didn't suffer a miscarriage of justice. This story originally aired in 2017.
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[@jayleigh_bee]

Brenda please know this: your father knew you loved him. He knew. Hugs.

[@jparko4944]

Had that exact same thought. Nicely written.

[@quirkya909]

Had that same thought as Brenda spoke of herself and how she didn’t saw anything to her father. I cried and said he knew baby he knew

[@xxyes8879]

Also if her parents never said stuff like that to her, then saying stuff like that would be really alien for her. The other kids were hugging and kissing their parents because their parents taught them that from birth most likely. So in no way should she harbor any guilt.

[@ParisXII]

@@quirkya909; With respect for the family. - .There is an error in your comments.. i.e. "She didn't SEE anything", Nor "SAY anything to her father". :(

[@masukamagambo4236]

@@marvelheroes4829 no need to be insensitive. I’m sure if she was there she’d hug her. That’s the point of the comment.

[@livetajanutyte3917]

One of the worst lessons I learnt in life is that those that are closest to us can cause us more harm than a stranger.

[@a.konadu4010]

So so sad but true

[@noomwa]

Yep, so true.

[@nickialaskanyogi]

It almost always someone close to you, or knows you. That’s the creepy part. You never know!!

[@lauryniti1807]

yup sadly.

[@shukriabdi4271]

Sometimes. I have to believe that it is sometimes.

[@lilyyyy5502]

The part towards the end where she's just walking with her dog makes me think about how many people pass her by and have no idea the horror shes been through and who knows maybe even the people passing by have been through horrific events too , reminds me to be kind to everyone no matter what. You have no idea what the person next to you has been through/going through. God bless!

[@malimalou751]

So true!

[@juliersawyer7047]

That's the real horror of the horror!

[@daniellelopez3342]

Yes a lot of people see a pretty girl and think "their life must be so easy"

[@jeanchow6948]

Agreed. I will be kind to everyone no matter what.

[@chloeuntrau4588]

Luckily they don't know! The worse is to be pitied!

[@robbiehall9958]

Her principal is like a loving, empathetic mother and her friends seem like sisters to her. I am so grateful all the support and love she has received.

[@andrewburkinshaw1446]

Dear Brenda. I am a father. I know for a fact that your dad knows you love him. I am sure he is proud of the amazing person you have become.

[@queenmommy2756]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@skatingcanuck9837]

Beautifully stated. I also like how you (like Brenda) used present tense.😊

[@missywaterlilly8775]

First time I cried while started this video is when i read this comment. I swear u must be sending her a message from the heavens so beautiful

[@sarahmats1136]

A very kind message to Brenda❤❤

[@premasivasubramaniam6621]

❤️

[@mcvibe5812]

The fact the kids woke up during the attack and fought for their lives further adds to the horror for me, what a monster for real

[@marissamorales3273]

I know that’s so dam sad dude 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@beautyeyes7365]

So depressing

[@__eganista6372]

That's what I was thinking. What the hell did they feel? terror, fear, couldn't protect themselves. At the hands of a vile monster :-(

[@luciac9123]

My thoughts exactly!!

[@czanneian]

I can't help crying when knowing those kids fought for their life... The pain they felt at the verge of dying.. They died too soon,,, my gosh it is so deppressing to watch..

[@Emily-lh6em]

This documentary was respectfully done. It didn't sensationalize the gruesome details or show too much of the crime scene. It focused on the survivor , a lovely young woman whose gonna share kindness and hope wherever she goes in life. You can tell by the way she speaks of them that they were wonderful people who deserved better. She smiles when she thinks of them even though its bittersweet for her and she cries. The uncle is where he belongs and he's gonna rot in there and be forgotten. Her family will continue to be remembered by her and her parents are proud of her. They know she loves them.

[@JenJ2023]

You mean the part she suggested she may be to blame? Super tasteful.

[@f7e8t9i3]

I too feel they are probably looking over her and I’m sure they knew and know how much she loved them and how much she misses them.I’m sorry she had to go through something so traumatic and life changing at such a young age.

[@tomahawkprime4719]

The Principle’s empathy is astonishing, her commitment to Brenda’s recovery and ability to instil love and hope is tragically too rare a gift. For both she and Brenda, I hope her wishes for Brenda’s future come true.

[@AriPicard]

Poor thing she looks spiritually, physically and emotionally exhausted. May she find peace and love in her life

[@underworldringside]

She never told her family lol

[@mariarusso826]

What pain and suffering.... God bless you and may God give u strength..... GOD'S love upon you.

[@rosanagutierrez1640]

@@mariarusso826 what

[@nadiashireensiddiqi]

Australians are gorgeous, Brenda, her friends, her principal; the interviewer, news anchor, all so healthy and glowing. Sara B’s “Brave” aw; the murderer is behind bars and confessed on candid camera, but it could be survivor guilt… Brenda wasn’t home, has an alibi I think she looks quite peaceful and put together and has a kind loving 🥰 support network. Has seen both the worst and best of humanity

[@hilaryc3203]

@@underworldringside What about that do you find funny?

[@Greenpower2]

That school principal is a genuinely good hearted person.

[@conniethurin7014]

Yes

[@user-pampam70634]

Yes

[@ivana92ify]

We need principals like this in America.

[@seattlerain8655]

I believe he may be innocent. Asians behaving differently in a white culture get harmed. Standing too close, speaking too loud, don’t look like a nice person (are all ugly people bad? Most would say no. But when it comes to judgment time, it’s much easier to convict people who don’t look like us. Especially unattractive bald short Asian male with a weak chin like uncle Robert Xie). I think the police framed him with the guide of that Principal. Another example of xenophobia.

[@YanLT]

@@seattlerain8655 in Chinese culture, when something like this happened, people will be nicer than what they used to be. But they won’t stand soooo close to a 15 yrs old girl, usually will keep a distance that’s chinese propriety. Robert is the murderer, he is not innocent.

[@RawkClaws]

Ugh, the pure grief in her voice as she describes her last moments with her father. Just breaks my heart into a million pieces.

[@user-nq1ok8cz6s]

only vocal fry in her voice

[@PureXLR8tion]

My heart broke when Brenda was feeling guilty saying she didn’t tell her dad she loved him as she was saying goodbye to him prior to going on her trip. Brenda, if you’re reading these comments, know that your dad knew you loved him. Parents know…they really do.

[@mencot89]

I have a lot of tears watching that scene knowing many of us had the same thought especially when we part ways or even just reminded of our loved ones and wondering if it was the last time you’d ever see them again. Very sad what happened to her. The family seems to be so wholesome and happy.

[@JadedBelle]

​@angeleyes-bk7unA what?

[@nononino7383]

😥🥹

[@reni5242]

The loneliest people are the kindest. The saddest people smile the brightest. The most damaged people are the wisest. All because they do not wish to see anyone else suffer the way they do. Keep shining you beautiful girl. What defines you , is your light. Your family would be so proud of you.

[@womensarmycorpsveteran2904]

What a lovely, kind and insightful thing to say. I lost my grandfather, mother, father & brother in a car accident caused by a drunk driver when I was 10.

[@jackie31933]

@@womensarmycorpsveteran2904 I’m so sorry for your loss❤️

[@mariaevans7811]

Wise words!!! 😁🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

[@cindypersaud8805]

Beautifully said; it resonates.🙏

[@cindypersaud8805]

@@womensarmycorpsveteran2904 What a tender age....Extremely sorry for your loss.

[@alwiyaalawi7936]

Are we going to ignore the host ? She was very compassionate and respectful towards Brenda's limits . 👏 Good job !

[@elavke5441]

Very much so.

[@lovelyscorp79]

But isnt that her job??? Like being a parent or a doctor. No kudos. A simple thanks is appropriate

[@DM-we8ej]

@@lovelyscorp79 i think the point is most hosts don’t do this

[@sharnistevens1428]

Actually this host has a reputation for not being compassionate nor respectful... so its a nice change.

[@lovelyscorp79]

@@sharnistevens1428 yikes! That cant be good.

[@arlscent]

This is why it’s very important for the parents to teach their children not to keep any secrets especially when someone is abusing or threatening them. Praying for Brenda’s peace and strength 🙏🏼

[@annamarielewis7078]

Absolutely true. No truth is worse than the lies told to “protect “ us.

[@freespiritable]

One thinks they don't want the kids have anxiety. You don't really want your child to live in fear.

[@ThanaBrunges-mx7ji]

Amen secrets can be lethal! 😅

[@sleepyearth]

Also the stigma and culture of shaming victims just because "family ties", "family face", "family pride" and also respect the elderly.

[@marlissfern2710]

Her principal Susan is stellar. She’s lucky to have her in her life. Not all school administrators are so involved or caring about the students and community. She’s a wonderful example of of excellence in education. God watch over Brenda. She looks like she’s headed in the right path to healing. Much luck and love to her.

[@berniceopare9405]

Growing up, I used to think that my grandma was crazy because she didn’t allow some family members around my sister and I. After she passed away I found out the truth. She was protecting us from the evil in her own family, her sister’s kids.

[@SobrietyandSolace]

I'm so glad she did. My mother and grandmother exposed me to terrible men. To some people, saving face and projecting the image of a happy family is more important than saving their children, with the older generation usually being especially set in their ways.

[@Tr0ublezz]

Yup my mom would never leave us alone with any men in our family it was always family gatherings but no one even babysat us, my mom worked nights to take care of us and I never knew why she was so strict, until I grew up and realize what the world was like and also she told me about her experiences as a child ...I hope kids reading this appreciate their parents and why they want to protect them

[@charnewyngaard9598]

My grandma did the same (bless her soul). I was a teenager when she died and if she was still alive today, I would have thanked her each day, after I was old enough to realize why she actually did what she did. I do the same with my daughter now.

[@khouxiong7187]

Same with mine and I am doing the same with my kids.

[@quintillabatts9472]

My husband and i we did the same with all 4 of our kids, we both worked but we never had a babysitter for our kids, he worked nights, i worked days, if i had to work nights he would work days. Until they got old enough to keep themselves, tgats how we were raised, and thats how inraised my kids, and its how my grandsons were raised. People are crazy, and very perverted, its so very sad, and they are getting worse so much worse.

[@lburns7952]

When she was telling the story about leaving and not telling her father certain things, I wanted to go through the screen and hold her. Poor baby. She is still so raw and hurt.

[@SlimKeith11]

It always warms my heart when I read a comment like yours. It makes me feel good there are such understanding, kind people in the world. Some are so judgemental...

[@eileenpritchard9154]

@Brandy Sutherland THIS IS SO SAD.

[@gnatjoy1722]

I wanted to comfort her so badly. At the age of 20 I found out my uncle had been murdered via a news report. My family had to tried to contact me first but were unsuccessful. Then at 42 my mother died whilst I was overseas. I was so distraught that i didn't get to see her tell her I love her. Watching this courageous young lady has really put things in perspective for me. My story pales in comparison. What an amazing young woman. 🙏❤🙏

[@miriammcdonnell8239]

@@SlimKeith11 ok see let us help in this message and all that I

[@sainimitchell4224]

She had a beautiful family and she's a lovely young lady. It's wonderful to see her friends, principal, and many others that have taken her under their wings and love her. Ah my heart breaks for her. But, she has incredible poise and has shown strength just by doing this interview. God bless, keep, and use her for your glory!

[@patty4709]

How does one ever get over loosing an entire family? A nightmare from hell. Bless this young girl and ease her heart. ❤

[@robertjones1528]

The uncle seemed like a pretty obvious person of interest from Day 1, and there seemed to be a lot of circumstantial evidence against him as well as physical evidence if they only looked. How did it take two years before his initial arrest? That seems like pretty lackadaisical police work. Meanwhile, that poor girl was forced to live with this monster during this time and endure sexual abuse. And the evidence of sexual abuse was suppressed at the trial? WTH kind of messed up legal process is that?

[@elsielukiv2410]

I agree with you robert Jones that part is very sad and sloppy police work

[@fairiesflame1345]

Not only that, but it took about 4 trials and until 2017 to put Robert Xie in prison.

[@Angelstar7774]

Sometimes defense lawyers will argue that certain facts would prejudice the jury against them, especially if its just her word, like not proven at that point.

[@cstempleton]

its the ozy cops dont expect too much unless your not wearing a mask then they will be all over it, there is a huge wealth of evidence of ozy cops fucking up and being corrupt, they really are the worst

[@wendyqallab6906]

What a monster too bad it took so long.

[@tryphineshumba1181]

That school principal is the type we wish to principal.ALL our children..What a lady..More life , more blessings to her.

[@lily2011uk]

I couldn't agreee more. She has a heart of gold. We need more principals such as herself as role model for the young generation

[@amybrenneman9421]

As stated above, I agree with everyone. Especially wish all school Principles were as special and devoted to inspire a better life for our future generations as she is. God bless you all.

[@carolepuleo1307]

God bless her Principal! Too many are in this field only for a paycheck......❤️❤️

[@tryphinedzimbanete9616]

I couldn't agree more 👍

[@tryphineshumba1181]

@@tryphinedzimbanete9616 .....sazita heeeeeyyyyy🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️

[@blackicex1622]

The principle lady is just a wonderfully compassionate lady. When she said she wants to be there when Brenda gets married, has her first child, and has a family again, it almost made me tear up.

[@dakelei]

I find it sweet but also a tad sexist. Why does she assume Brenda will marry and have kids?

[@SUPERSPAZD]

@@dakelei Seriously, dude? 😂 Adjust.Your.Focus.

[@dakelei]

@@SUPERSPAZD Shut up. It's called having an opinion. I'm allowed to. I live in China and teach at a university here. Chinese culture is very sexist. I experience it every day. I have reasons for thinking how I do. It's bad enough when men act like chauvinist pigs. It's worse when women buy into it. Did you notice that Brenda herself has said she's not sure about marriage and kids? Should she also adjust her focus?

[@SUPERSPAZD]

@@dakelei So.Feisty. 😁 Chill TF Out. 😂

[@Zireael83]

@@dakelei what´s wrong with you?

[@carolinehoughton3685]

She’s been through an unspeakable amount of pain and trauma. She has every reason to hate the world, but instead wants to make it a better place. Her strength to move forward is extremely admirable. She deserves to live a very joyful and fulfilling life. On another note, her uncle deserves to never see daylight again.

[@KaleHello]

I am so proud of her, she is in law school now and going to spread her kindness with her kine of work.

[@urahotmess]

When the principal stated she witnessed him yelling at Brenda, I could only think he was trying to get her to sign over the family's business and money to him. I'm glad the principal introduced her to a lawyer that could fight for her!

[@GRASHA1524]

the pricipal here is Brenda's angel guardian sent from heaven--

[@awarenessvillage]

@@GRASHA1524 Most definitely!

[@mytoesarecold5555]

He was trying to convince her to move in.

[@joannelee4875]

When you know you know so listen to yourself

[@atonement7232]

Brenda was too in shock and pain to know anything. I’m glad the teacher listened to her instincts and got her a lawyer

[@adaoramadike3543]

Her principal is a very caring woman with strong maternal instincts, she was able to tap into the confrontation she witnessed between Brenda and that evil man and knew that he was a very dangerous man, what a remarkable woman, at that moment she was not a principal but a mother protecting her offspring. She is a fantastic lady, God bless her.

[@corneliawissing7950]

Yes, she is: no teacher could have done better.

[@adelesimmercy5492]

YOU 💯💯 Right - God bless you Former Principal. The world needs more people like HER.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@kathieshaffer9641]

@@adelesimmercy5492 lk

[@rabiatullee3127]

Yes. God bless her

[@Kira36k]

Amen

[@cynhwon]

I was a student living around the neighbourhood at that time. I remembered passing by their newsagency and always got my bus tickets there, and my host family's daughters also went to the same school with Brenda. Absolutely heartbreaking when I heard the news >< Such a warm-hearted man her father was...

[@bonnylouwho76]

Oh my word, you were there mourning in that school and that community. This must have been so frightening for you.

[@harrypotter-mc1sq]

They seemed like lovely people. I'm glad this has been conveyed and it's not all just focused on the crime.

[@voyaristika5673]

I have 3 daughters and this touches me deeply. Thank God Brenda has some incredible people around her. She is the epitome of "a survivor" and it's amazing. I'm so glad she has her dog! Anyone who's loved a dog knows of their unconditional love and their uncanny ability to stabilize one's life. Bless you, Brenda. And don't cry because you didn't tell your dad of your love for him. He knows, he really does know.

[@lanetterung4463]

Anyone watching this please. Never be afraid to report sexual abuse. No matter who the person is abusing you!

[@feliciaowens1104]

Yes yes yes because with that 1 secret so many other things are attached to that evil li this and also transcends generations when that secret is kept

[@katyap.8404]

Yes, that is so true!

[@mitchand9]

Easier said than done.

[@cedricksamaniego9146]

Even after telling a trusted family member that doesn't believe you!

[@MommiDonni1]

I should have reported my abuser but I didn’t because I was just a kid myself. He was later arrested for sexually abusing his young step daughter. It was around that time that I realized I was a victim but I still kept the secret. 😞 It makes me sick till this day.

[@danalee5279]

I don't think that principal has enough credit for what she did in speaking out and stepping up for Brenda!! So much compassion

[@seattlerain8655]

I believe he may be innocent. Asians behaving differently in a white culture get harmed. Standing too close, speaking too loud, don’t look like a nice person (are all ugly people bad? Most would say no. But when it comes to judgment time, it’s much easier to convict people who don’t look like us. Especially unattractive bald short Asian male with a weak chin like uncle Robert Xie). I think the police framed him with the guide of that Principal. Another example of xenophobia.

[@twus6]

I have many Asian friends professionally and friendships, I totally have much respect for all cultures no matter where your from. We are entitled to our own views but to judge others I too would be judged. If the evidence was stated clearly then I would say that's your verdict. It's a whole family taken for no apparent reason but obsession or jealousy of success.

[@seattlerain8655]

@@twus6 I don’t know the story in full but neither is the public at large. But the evidence cited here seem extremely weak to meet the legal standards to convict someone for such a serious crime. Four trials? I think they were really trying hard to get him!

[@twus6]

Absolutely agree, and this young lady needed all the support she could get through this ordeal after loosing her whole family. Thank the lord she had her school principal who reached out to her. ❤️

[@twus6]

Thank you Dana Lee, for expressing your view regarding the school principal 👍 totally in support of not enough recognition. What state of mind would Brenda be in if she did not have that moral support 🌻

[@courtneyfrost915]

Hands down, this is the worst case of betrayal by a family member that I have ever seen! I am amazed by this girl's strength.

[@Sarah-ty5ev]

I love that she got to go see her parent’s home. That’s such a beautiful way to honor their lives.

[@hongkongmomslife]

The interviewers in Australia are so respectful, considerate, and kind. I appreciated how they handled this interview instead of forcing and probing

[@passedoutsober6322]

Lol no she has a reputation of not being respectful 🤣🤣 you guys believe anything

[@dangerislander]

Hmmmmmm I dunno about that...

[@daschund7680]

Lol maybe then you should see the ones in Asia lol

[@ImaniDMoses]

@@dangerislander before I read your name I saw "DUNNO" and knew you were an islander.

[@dangerislander]

@@ImaniDMoses lmaoo 😂 you right

[@1GR8LMFT]

“People become bitter or better”. What a beautiful young woman!!

[@chinchinchokhlei]

I am trying to become better thank you!!!

[@rosihantu1]

With Australians, you can't tell. Even better sounds like bitter.

[@chinchinchokhlei]

@@rosihantu1 Australian are good!!!

[@LickyTee]

You can see the pain in her eyes. I wish her all the best life has to offer

[@nette2144]

Last year I lost my sister to a brutal homicide at the hands of her brother in law. In her home, 4 years after she lost her husband to cancer. The pain I feel is beyond words can explain. This young lady must be experiencing 100 times more what I'm feeling because she lost all if her family! I pray that she will one day be able to just fully live! She seems to be surrounded by people who love and support her.

[@FeezFBaby]

I’m sorry for ur loss but u ain’t lying tho, her pain must be unbearable & unimaginable and that’s not to say that ur pain was any less ya kno? U lost ur sister whereas she lost her whole freaking family, that’s just insane. I’m terribly sorry for ur loss again my friend & u have my deepest condolences 🙏🙏🙏

[@BaBa-kf7tn]

The school principal is a very responsible and kind woman.

[@bidensucsbigdickskalmadrin6877]

she is a dope

[@matthewmcalister2165]

How is she a dope?

[@phajeb001]

Principal is a true hero

[@chempanda6388]

God bless her. She stepped into the role of that almost like a mother or an aunt.

[@plainjane7276]

She has incredible intuition.

[@mae388]

She's been abused most of her life without anyone knowing. She's used to putting on a smile to hide her pain. I hope she lives a calm life

[@atonement7232]

And a happy life with her family that she adds too ❤️💖❤️

[@melissae.8031]

Yes!!! People don't understand this is a way for self preservation!!

[@debbiepink7640]

God bless you always

[@jennbeth1]

She smiles her way through the interview. Her way to cope, but also hide the horror from outsiders.

[@qazedc3]

You think her parents abused her?

[@millicentprettymillzjordan7443]

Seeing the grandparents in so much hurt and pain just broke my heart

[@JacobieShean94]

This has to be the saddest story I've ever listened too yet the most inspiring

[@prog3142]

This girl is so strong. She’s been through a lot and still radiates so much positivity. If you are reading this, keep saying strong. You will have your own family one day and find that love again you once had.

[@Food-Dharma]

Thank you for that loving message.

[@gee7simply76]

@@Food-Dharma 💞

[@amybrenneman9421]

I agree wholeheartedly. Brenda, you are an amazing woman and I hope only the very best for you and you will find love one day, if not already! Because you truly deserve it and have SO MUCH TO GIVE. There is one incredibly lucky person out there who will get your love and beauty inside and out! Much love and best wishes to you Brenda, your parents are looking down from heaven and are so incredibly proud of you!

[@vasilisakrusteva3072]

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[@gee7simply76]

@@vasilisakrusteva3072 ??

[@masukamagambo4236]

The way the school and community galvanized for Brenda.......so heartwarming to see. Sad sad tragedy

[@joememphis1571]

The school and headmistress (Australian English for principal) were pure class personified.

[@amybrenneman9421]

I agree strongly that the good in people is most always there, sometimes you have to ask for it and asking for help when you need it is so difficult! At the end of the day, the true good in people is amazing and never fails to inspire me to be the same way. I would rather give than receive. To see the smile on someone's face for the smallest act of kindness given them is priceless to me. Our world would be a better place if we all could show love and kindness in any way, big or small, it doesn't matter, it's the thought that counts, always!!!

[@joememphis1571]

@Blunder 143 I’m a English professor so technically you’re right but headmistress/headmaster is British, Australian and Canadian English for principal.

[@joememphis1571]

@Blunder 143 🙄😐👍👍

[@virgenrodriguez9405]

@@amybrenneman9421With of all the pain and suffering our country is going through at all times every time someone is victimized there are many more people around to help, love and support.. There is much more love and kindness in this world than evil....

[@Government-EconomicsTeacher]

As a teacher I feel for that principal. We genuinely love our students and want to shield them from hurt and loss. They often don’t understand the depths of our hopes and wishes for them. This young lady is a strong, beautiful person and I hope she lives life to the fullest extent. As a parent also that is what I would want for my child… to live happily and know that her parents loved her with every fiber of their being.

[@pqiptesdana8890]

He even gives off them creepy vibes just looking at him & listening to his interview.

[@chi6281]

Exactly

[@loganlin6109]

To anyone questioning why she’s smiling a lot it’s because she is stronger than you people. Instead of letting the trauma destroy her she is trying to remember the things she loved about her family members. Do you seriously not see the way she is smiling specifically when she is talking about her memories of her family members and complimenting them, she is remembering them fondly and that is why she is smiling, she probably has tried to push the traumatic part out of her memory, so that she can go on living. Instead of reliving the trauma she is clearly trying very hard to think about her family members when they were alive rather than their death, that’s why you see her smiling in the tears because she is trying to fight through her traumatic memories by recalling the good ones. Also she may naturally just be a person who smiles nervously when she is put on the spot. Especially in an interview about a very personal trauma for millions to see. By that same logic you could say the interviewer is a psychopathic murderer because she is smiling throughout the video while talking about an unspeakable murder, get over yourselves🙄🤮.

[@moralmentecorrecto7032]

Some people cope with hard issues or nervousness by smiling, its sort of automatic way of coping, that happens to me all the time when am nervous.

[@pnwadibie]

Spot on

[@mistyrious1111starseed]

OOOHH I didn't see any comments saying that! I would have ripped them a new one like you did!!

[@ifynwamma]

Well said!!

[@megan1445]

Spot on. People can be the most ignorant judges. They watch a 45 minute interview and a few clips around the time and think her smiling equals 24 hours of blissful happiness every single day of her life. If people weren't so self centered they would be able to see through a smile to the sadness in someone's eyes.

[@kaybee22]

Both the interviewer and school principal expressed incredible compassion towards Brenda. She was able to provide a glimpse into her life-her family tragedy-without judgement, and without being hurried. Her spirit is incredible. Bravo.

[@awarenessvillage]

I agree. She's lucky to have the principal in her life. And the reporter was so compassionate and respectful. I appreciated them both.

[@daisydd1709]

susan the high school principal is so lovely. the world needs teachers like hre

[@hurricanehubbs9459]

hearing Brenda describe her parents made me think about this in a different perspective: just made me think about how I felt about my own parents and just makes me appreciate and love them more, a reminder that this should never be taken for granted. I can't even imagine what it must have been like to experience what she did, but I'm glad she shared her incredible story

[@Alexa-dm8wm]

The principal is extraordinary human being. She is a real role model.

[@NehaKarim.]

Very very true ❤

[@julieli5381]

i dont think she is a principal at that school anymore.

[@leahallen8420]

@@NehaKarim. she was my principal

[@leahallen8420]

@@julieli5381 yes she retired

[@NehaKarim.]

@@leahallen8420 such an amazing soul and beautiful person inside out.

[@PC-oi8hk]

Can’t help but cry at the sadness she is feeling. How could such evil exist on this earth.

[@stressmuffin]

It’s heartbreaking & pisses me off that money is the root of all evil.

[@salmontanio212]

@@stressmuffin Jealousy and greed.

[@phyllismagunde5844]

God, I pray for your continued presence in Brenda's life. It's only You Lord who can heal her broken heart.

[@allengina1091]

Correct

[@kimdavidoff6618]

Crying for days

[@elsjemassyn8921]

Too many bloody fathers and uncles that sexually abuse their daughters and sons. The world is sick

[@squirrelywrath07]

I can’t imagine the amount of grief to not just lose one member of your family but all at once. Not only that but the only relatives that could look after and comfort you, could do such horrific things. My heart goes to that poor girl and am amazed at her strength.

[@MommiDonni1]

Uncle Robert is a despicable creep. My prayers for Brenda for healing.

[@potterj09]

I've lived around Cabramatta the majority of my life, most my friends are either Chinese or Vietnamese. Despite being white I know the body language, facial expressions, I know enough to bargain for a TV. this guy hadn't even prepare himself to lie & he tripped up so much just by this.

[@charlottekakooza9663]

Bless you Brenda! Thank you for sharing your story and being an encouragement and role model to others and showing us that there is light at the end of the tunnel. May God richly bless you and have a fruitful life! Amen!

[@Lilyium]

In Asian culture, it's actually quite common for children to not ever tell their parents 'I love you' and vice versa, mainly because of being brought up in generations of traditional and conservative rules. Instead of words, it's shown through actions instead. Poor Brenda...

[@twilightingX]

It's more of a formal respect for elders culture rather than conservative rules.

[@mika1928]

So true. I've never told my parents this either. I wish Asian families didn't hold back this sort of conversations. I hope this changes.

[@judil3294]

@@mika1928 It's not just an Asian thing. Until a couple of generations ago it was a British and Scottish thing too.

[@mika1928]

@@judil3294 for sure but for my language/culture there is no vocab to even say i love you in my language. Only language is how to say i love you to a lover.

[@yanifree114]

It's not only Asian culture..others as well. My parents, may they RIP, were from Ireland. We're not a demonstrative race either. When a culture is decimated and genocide (Mao?) has taken place..trauma carries on into future generations.

[@kellyfalletta1949]

Heartbreaking. I admire how strong Brenda is. And bless her friends, including her school principal, for being wonderful and supportive.

[@ThanaBrunges-mx7ji]

School principals can be so wonderful and compassionate and play such essential roles in the development of young peoples minds hearts and spirits! ❤❤❤❤😊

[@cela9852]

Why did the other judges dismiss her sexual abuse in court when it was clearly relevant to bring it up especially with him being a main suspect.

[@cela9852]

@@sespurinchechu6369 but wasn't she a minor when it began? How can that be looked at as an affair by the courts?

[@songyi5706]

Her aunt is also a monster. How can she stand by the very person that murdered her own brother, sister-in-law, and two nephews. This is so disheartening and makes me sick to the core.

[@FallenJanettv]

And denies sexual abuse of a child

[@nyahmanismommy]

She's delusional

[@sydniesyannthomas6131]

She felt the same way about them he did

[@cmariah80]

Omg your absolutely right

[@fanaticforager6610]

Could be Grating Pride ; in how wrong one's judgment can be ⚠️ Exhibit A ; he admitted that he had sedated her...🚻

[@smnvo1129]

The principal had 6th sense, strong intuition about the killer.

[@lolwealego6951]

Teachers are trained watch dogs

[@shlee5675]

Most empath can feel very deeply and figure out emotions quite accurately.

[@honestly679]

Very sweet of Brenda's school principal being so concerned about her student. So very motherly. Brenda herself seems so soft & disciplined. How much courage she should have to face all that she has.

[@kirstencon]

I want to adopt her the fact she thinks she will never have family is heartbreaking 💔 she will make an amazing family when she’s ready

[@thetruthseeker8841]

Oh man, seeing just one coffin of a family member is devastating enough, but seeing 5 ? I can't imagine...

[@robinmcinarnay7827]

That part had me shook. I am devastated for her. I knew her Aunt would take his side tho. But logically, what other motive or story makes any sense, besides the truth? That lady will die in denial I guess.

[@lecannet]

And one greedy low life caused it all and ruined that poor young ladies life..abusers of all types r pure evil..they walk among us...

[@tennyo120]

the fact she still talks about her family in the present tense and smiles fondly while remembering them really shows how much faith and love she harbors for them. god bless you brenda 🙏

[@garymonaghan7196]

I got that as well!!!

[@MintyVL]

I immediately noticed when she started talking about how hard working her dad IS. I felt the love and how she’s keeping their memory alive.

[@KellyBellyz]

Smiling can be a coping mechanism for some people dealing with grief so she's not really smiling when she was smiling & crying at the same time😔

[@JJ-qc9ld]

I'm 100% sure she'll be a great wife & parent, a strong spouse/mom anyone would be lucky to have in their life. That day will come, Brenda.

[@bannanna.]

I hope every principal is just like her. She loves and cares about her students.

[@babyramses5066]

Ikr when brenda was talking about her aunt being the substitute mom the real substitute mom was the principal. This is all awful but at least she had that kind of person to suport her.

[@hezsurnarcissus1460]

My nieces elementary school is like this. Incredible people. They notice when the girls are probably sick for instance, just because they'll be quieter than usual and we'll get a phone call. When they misbehaved as well, the school would call and say, "is something going on at home? She hasn't been herself." And what had happened was two of us had recently moved away, so their little world was a bit confusing to them! When I would see the principal at the school, the kids would run up to him and surround him, talking away like crazy too and some even giving him hugs. I don't think he hugged them back- I think they just genuinely loved him and felt comfortable enough to grab onto him.

[@lisale9896]

Bludgeoning is such a horrible way of murdering, it's so personal and close compared to shooting someone. It's horrific the boys woke up, the fear and pain they must've felt in their last moments is just so cruel. Rest in peace to this family.

[@dorasyiem4010]

😭😭😭😭😭 RIP

[@poachh2061]

Hopefully they were in shock so they didn't feel much pain

[@atonement7232]

I think it happened very very fast. It had to have. Try not to dwell on the actual murder. That is the last thing Brenda needs

[@SUPERSPAZD]

I agree. 😞

[@Amaya_]

Couldnt stop crying😢 Such a strong, beautiful & amazing young woman

[@Laura-wb2se]

Brenda’s friends are impressive. They understand the importance of treating her no differently. Her desire to focus on the good and not choose bitterness is not only wise but is obviously proving to have a powerful affect on her life.

[@jenrutherford6690]

That school principal is a gem

[@feliciaowens1104]

Yes

[@roseoliveira4534]

My thoughts exactly

[@DebbieW1965]

I agree 100%! There are so many school officials that only care about getting a paycheck. That principle truly cares about her students and goes above and beyond her job title. I think God put her in the place she needed to be so she could give the girl the love and support she so desperately needed to be able to go on with her life. She also knew from the very beginning that the girl’s uncle was guilty of the murders. God Bless everyone affected by that horrible tragedy!

[@bellezapo3567]

She has really good instincts. I think it was very good that she shared her suspicions with the police..it was a good call. Sometimes its the small details that can start the lead to solving a case

[@billmeriwether605]

I am a father and one day you will know that regardless of what you did or didn’t say at a certain time to your Dad. HE KNOWS that he has a daughter who loves him ... As parents, the fact that you are young and growing as our revered children is a miracle we enjoy so immensely - we as parents are NOT looking to prove out “if” you are emoting and professing your love properly ....that isn’t the goal - We Know you Love us - it’s understood. - You will “understand” someday and it will be overwhelming- there are GREAT things in your future. You WILL get there ...AND you will reunite w/ your family someday - until then - Prayers and blessings to you

[@12235117657598502586]

😢 TRUE!

[@beautyscolary1743]

This words are a caring hug. So warm...

[@lovedove2661]

Beautiful ❤

[@kartikaadhityati7870]

Thank you..

[@Oyuki-Mayonesa]

Yes. I am a mom and this is how it is. ❤️ love is unconditional.

[@purvapawar2107]

Brenda is such a strong person i have ever seen! I really can't imagine what she had gone through when she would have received the tragic news about her family.I wish her a happy life and she really deserves all the love! Also her principal is really a wonderful person! The way she considered every child hers is really amazing which is so rare now-a-days.Also her friends are amazing. The way they all gave her support and love is incredible!

[@robinsiciliano8923]

Oh Brenda. My heart and love are going out to you. Watching this tiny glimpse into your life journey and how you are moving forward in life is encouraging me to keep moving forward too after experiencing traumatic loss. Thank you so much for sharing your most difficult time with us. It has helped me more than I can adequately explain at this time. My heartfelt condolences are severely inadequate for your loss but I am sending them as well. Respect, love and support from America. ❤️🌺❤️

[@ivana92ify]

Imagine being able to smile and stay noble after such tragedy. She is so, so strong. And has become my new idol.

[@Nerdtacularcolombian]

Absolutely same. I haven’t witnessed such strength in a long time, my heart is broken for her.

[@Kumutuna]

I wanted to comment something and i didnt know what to say. And you said it well

[@bettykhuboni8758]

I think i could have taken my life 😭😭😭😭😭

[@brendawehkamp3396]

Her uncle confessed to the murders and giving his wife sleeping meds. So why the confusion over his innocence. I highly respect Brenda and her teacher/principal. 🙏🏻

[@jessfrancis434]

Phew for a second I thought you said you SUSPECT Brenda and her teacher, I was like WHAT?! hahaha never mind 🤦🏼‍♀️ but I whole heartedly agree with what you’ve said. Why his innocence is speculative is beyond me!

[@divawendy]

i think they did it together i really think his wife was involved

[@lily2011uk]

@@divawendy I think so too. It does not make any sense his wife is so protective of him. Poor Brenda and his grandparents. No words to describe.....very very sad

[@cynthia587]

I guess the truth is unbearable, she has to denial it in order for her to continue to live

[@divawendy]

@@lily2011uk, hope she will have her peace one day and her own family and a man that really loves her 🙏❤️

[@maix139]

Tears rolled down my cheeks watching this documentary and listening to Brenda talk about how she felt. I pray that she keeps healing from this horrible event. I'm happy she have good people in her life, her principal and friends that look after her well being 💖

[@azianchick3529]

Bless Brenda's high school principal 🙏 and her genuine, loving friends. 💌

[@LokiHiddlestone13]

Her friends and the principal make me believe the world is good. Real angels.

[@MrRisingapple]

What does the uncle make you believe about the world?

[@joyachie8491]

I would never be the interviewer I would be on the floor crying instead of actually talking 😭😭😭

[@atonement7232]

I know, I wouldn’t be able to stop hugging her to interview her.

[@camillevote7901]

Me too

[@trannylam8174]

That Good For Her Speak Out

[@ruskov5685]

True

[@amylamcf52]

I was deeply betrayed by my father and my brother on their business issues and I understand how hurt it could be to have somebody who are your close family members had been taking on your advantage and ditches you when your used, it's really hurts

[@patriciamoffat1542]

Absolutely heartbreaking, a loving family murdered and their young daughter devastated at the unnecessary loss of her dad, mum and her two little brothers.

[@NehaKarim.]

The principal came into her life as an Angel. Such a role model, Hats off to you Principal.

[@lunaopenyourmind7554]

I’m so proud of Australia 🇦🇺 for supporting this poor girl in her worse time in her life, thank you 🙏🏻

[@poihp25]

It is just sooo horrific to see 5 coffins in 1 funeral ceremony. For me to see it is heart wrenching. I really can't imagine being there and having to say goodbye. The reality of the entire situation is just so unbelievable. I'm so sorry for this young woman. I hope that one day, the truth of everything finally comes out, as closure for everyone affected. 😭💔

[@Sparkle345jk]

Hope she has her own family one day. She's a very courageous person and deserves that x

[@sassiebean9052]

That principal is such a warm, loving, compassionate, human being! We need more like her❤❤

[@melissatejkl7169]

Her high school principal is a rock star she saw through him immediately She is working at the job to save this girl That was God I do believe

[@videoettaceo8900]

You're right.

[@kumaralockwood3172]

No that was a real person. Give credit where credit is due.

[@delinasemere911]

@Starman lol you need to f***ing chill, wow. go troll another comment section.

[@noelalexisshaw-nas-noz5142]

@Starman that is your belief...others believe different.

[@crookedhead3075]

God showed up AFTERWARDS? Grotesque.

[@nlcrme]

I have just witnessed grace, beauty, strength and love in this wonderfully courageous woman named Brenda Lin. She experienced such a severe tragedy in her life at such a young age and to lose her entire family after being sexually abused by the uncle that murdered her entire family and yet she has the strength and grace to face it all. If I had experienced such a trauma I do not believe that I would be able to show the grace and dignity this amazing young woman has shown. I am so grateful that she had such devoted friends and faculty from school to rally around her and give her the anchors that she needed to get through what I can only imagine were the darkest days of her life. I admire her strength and her willingness to share what she can with everyone in hopes that it helps others who are experiencing dark days be strong. She will always be in my heart and I will wish only the very best that life has to offer her and her lovely fluffy baby husky named sky. Of all the companions she could have chosen she selected the most wonderful friend to have on her life journey. Huskies are amazing animals and are notorious for sensing their owners emotions and helping them lift their spirits in their time of need. They are quite chatty too and have the most adorable expressions. I was lucky enough to have two lovely huskies in my life and they were so incredibly unique and loving.

[@malimalou751]

All dogs are amazing !

[@raydiaz2772]

P

[@transgenic40]

I love the principal… touched and cried when hearing the school principal…. She is so kind!

[@WilmaNevarez]

My heart broke when she said she wanted her parents to be proud of her. Brenda, they’ve always and will always be proud of you.

[@jennifers4528]

...loved her dearly and they knew that she loved them.

[@claravela3330]

Yeah sweetheart. God bless you.

[@sharingmyusaexperiences]

Every school in the world needs a Principal like her..

[@julianakleijn9254]

PREACH

[@kunshan23]

heart breaking interview, the smile she put on her face, to me, it means the well education and kindness this lady is. May God bless you

[@lisehrby2565]

This heartbreaking story brought me in tears. The horror you had to endure and at such a young age leaves me speachless. But also the love and support from friends and your principle. I wish you a beautiful life with much love from the deepest of my heart ❤

[@bheenachoytooa1604]

Brenda, the whole world cry out all their tears in front of such huge suffering. We love you.

[@alysskennedy8661]

Facts.

[@dushooter]

Bheena, you said it for me!!!

[@Lk19895]

I watched while crying...from her voice she hasn't healed.... hugs wherever you are ❤️

[@igitha..._]

Healing is a journey not a destination - it will take time

[@factsoverfiction7826]

Sorrow is there and brokenness ... but Brenda's soul is complete. Evil did not win this one.

[@chikochiringa7247]

How does she heal😥😥

[@senoritamaminah9634]

Sometimes it never really heals, we just learn to live with it.

[@droopypie]

It's very difficult to heal from something like this... will take a lifetime

[@charleys7611]

Shout out to her high school principal and friends that helped and supported her through the most hardest times of her life ❤️❤️ what a beautiful strong woman 💖xxxx

[@lovejoy7065]

Brenda is an extraordinariiy strong young woman and very blessed to have such a loving compassionate principal and friends.

[@winonahdemars8861]

The interviewer was wonderfully compassionate. Didnt push when Brenda didnt want to talk about things. Her facial expressions emoted kindness and compassion.

[@brittanysalud332]

There’s NOTHING I’d like to see happen more, than to wake up one day in the future to see a news piece about her wedding day with her principal at her side, as well as the entire community there as the biggest support system. She deserves THE WORLD, and I’m praying so much that she gets all the love and good in it from now on ♥️

[@care4animals114]

Nice🙏💕

[@thequeen4999]

Very touching story really couldnt stop my tears and that wonderfull lady who supportes her all the way through this very difficult times means the world for Brenda i can't imagine how someone can feel in this situation I love Brenda's spirit she is a very sweet and kind lady ❤RIP her family i hope the monster who took their lives will rot in hell i hope he will suffer a lot in prison 🙏 😢

[@billybobhaystraw4067]

Yes. So well said!!

[@nayoungkim5534]

So beautiful!!

[@ricardomoseley]

If those are Brenda’s Desires. I would Love to hear About It If ever made public.

[@ashleypaddison2735]

This young woman is amazing. Her family live on through her. I wish her so much luck and happiness for her future.

[@shulazungu6805]

She speaks from the sacred place of nostalgia, a feeling that only those that have lost their loved ones know well. May the Creator in the seventh heaven continue to envelope her in His mercy and grace. The school principal teaches us how to be decent in our everyday dealings. Angels do live among us