Someone Is EMOTIONALLY DANGEROUS and God Wants You to Avoid Them If . . .

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ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger

ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger

2 жыл бұрын

What are the signs of an emotionally dangerous person? How will you know when God is telling you to avoid someone? What does the Bible say about emotionally dangerous people that you should avoid? Here are 3 strong indications that someone is emotionally dangerous and should be avoided.
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@mouseytiffany3579
@mouseytiffany3579 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus saved me I wanted to give up! Im a single mother with two children. I’m so ashamed to even speak of this, but it’s the truth, after I was fired for not getting the vaccine I fell into a deep depression. The fear of not knowing how I was going to take care of my children was killing me. There father has been deceased for 5 years. I have no family! But it was Jesus that saved my life when I thought I wasn’t worthy! Still looking for work but I’m ALIVE! Praise him! He is the truth and the light of the world!
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
God is good!
@Jeweliedear
@Jeweliedear 2 жыл бұрын
Praying for you! 🙏💜
@tiffyd5010
@tiffyd5010 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽❤🙏🏽
@ldwoods3237
@ldwoods3237 2 жыл бұрын
Angela Tiffany you are cherished and loved by God. Stay strong for your children 🙏🏽
@thesearchwithin6008
@thesearchwithin6008 2 жыл бұрын
Angela, my heart reaches out to you because I am a single mom as well of 2. I did not receive the vaccine either and currently unemployed. At times I feel truly lost but the one thing I can assure you is that the lord will never ever abandon you nor your children. I believe in him wholeheartdly. I love the creater and his only son he sent to die for our sins. Keep your head clear as much as you can and speak to the lord frequently. Please stay strong. Remember you are a superhero :)
@justinwalker2460
@justinwalker2460 2 жыл бұрын
How many of us are realizing that we are the narcissist? LORD FORGIVE ME. I see that I became a narcissist because I felt abandoned and overlooked as a child. Trying to control my happiness as a result so that I would not feel abandoned anymore. I release this narcissistic behavior today.
@monetstallion9363
@monetstallion9363 2 жыл бұрын
I really want to give you kudos for your transparency. I hope that you have been successful on your journey of healing!
@maggiesalle2256
@maggiesalle2256 Жыл бұрын
If you are asking the Lord for forgiveness, you are probably not the narcissist.
@katherinesmithey2499
@katherinesmithey2499 Жыл бұрын
You can portray narcissistic tendencies from trauma. Like Maggie said, if you are questioning if and repenting of being a narcissist, you're more than likely NOT a narcissist. If you are healing form childhood trauma, those tendencies should also heal.
@Chrisbrinkley9248
@Chrisbrinkley9248 Жыл бұрын
@@maggiesalle2256 Sometimes the Lord will let us see things about ourselves maybe we didn't realize, ways we acted, so we can submit them to Him for change. They're just habits, not demonizing people or ourselves, but I love the Lord and He allowed me to see I was acting very controlling and just out of His character. I may not be a full blown narcissist, but those behaviors weren't ok, and so I repented and asked for help too. Jesus came to save sinners, not the self righteous. We all got stuff 💁‍♀️
@leandroramirez6879
@leandroramirez6879 Жыл бұрын
Maybe not narcissistic, but not necessarily a good partner either.
@srichdway
@srichdway 2 жыл бұрын
I fully agree to a point. However, if someone is abusive, apologizes, abuses again, apologizes again - that is classic abusive behavior. So yeah, people mess up, but if abuse followed by an apology is a pattern, then that person is also emotionally dangerous.
@AlishaArlene
@AlishaArlene Жыл бұрын
THIS!!! Thank you! 🙌🏻
@Hayley_N
@Hayley_N 7 ай бұрын
Yes, if there is no attempt from them to change their behaviour (repentance) 👍
@abundance3148
@abundance3148 2 жыл бұрын
I dated a guy that totally depended on me emotionally. He shared with me how low he felt when we began dating about himself. Well once I encouraged him and he started feeling better about himself, he went back to his ex. Lol Man's rejection is God 's protection. I thank God everyday for removing people from my life that is not to be in it.
@artskiwendy
@artskiwendy 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds all to familiar... but he told me I was TOO SMART FOR HIM..and went back to the pot smoking x
@abundance3148
@abundance3148 2 жыл бұрын
@@artskiwendy Does sounds so familiar. Mine went back to his ex who smokes too. Now he tries to contact me every and any way he can (because he is blocked) He wants me to build him up after she tears him down. That is not going to happen.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@bellag2864
@bellag2864 2 жыл бұрын
This just happened to me too.
@crystaldawn6963
@crystaldawn6963 10 ай бұрын
Amen. Praise God for his many blessings.
@curtistinemiller4646
@curtistinemiller4646 2 жыл бұрын
Don't be misled Bad company corrupts good morals.....
@rosettemarshall3024
@rosettemarshall3024 2 жыл бұрын
A healthy person will not twist it's not twist someone's words around. We might misunderstand what was said , but we will not twist another person's words around on purpose
@user-yv1fh3fc8y
@user-yv1fh3fc8y 2 жыл бұрын
The most gentle method for addressing narcissism is to walk away (ghost).
@neomiadams160
@neomiadams160 Жыл бұрын
So if someone ghosted you does that mean they're a narcissistic?
@catchthewind8563
@catchthewind8563 2 жыл бұрын
I used to be one of those dangerous people. I still have issues, but God is helping me work through them and I believe He wants me to be single during this time. So, I am enjoying my singleness and my time with God right now. I am 36 years old and I am in no hurry. I have always wanted a family since I was younger, and I struggle with my singleness, but I believe and I hope God has someone out there for me, and I hope this encourages those who may be going through a similar situation. Take your time and allow yourself to heal, and spend that time with God. You will not regret it 😁.
@GoodLifeTalkss
@GoodLifeTalkss 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@jeskahaley9616
@jeskahaley9616 2 жыл бұрын
Comforting to know that we all have issues. And those being led by the spirit in maturity can check themselves and work on it.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Amen! Sanctification is a process!
@alexnoussi1146
@alexnoussi1146 2 жыл бұрын
Someone made me feel like (No. 2) over and over. And by God's Grace, I've been able to step out of it.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
amen, so glad you are out
@user-bd9uo8dw3j
@user-bd9uo8dw3j 2 жыл бұрын
💯 Mark. So glad God saved me from this type of relationship. Test the spirit. If they don’t see any flaws in self that’s a HUGE REDFLAG. If a relationship is wishy washy, back and forth, run toward God. He will heal and restore you. 💟✝️
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Amen, God is good!
@reinaequina6588
@reinaequina6588 2 жыл бұрын
It’s trauma. Trauma does this.
@ModernPeopleAreEvil
@ModernPeopleAreEvil Жыл бұрын
Seems like I was the unhealthy emotional one 😪. I’m in a season of doing a a lot of reflection and accountability but it’s almost to the point of self condemnation. Having to find that balance
@uriahg4222
@uriahg4222 2 жыл бұрын
Wtf! This literally has been me the last 5 months and only a month ago I found out the girl I was taking to was previously raped and it's just been a whole roller coaster. And it really has unsettled my well grounded faith. She completely shut me out after opening up about her past. I was doing everything to help and she didn't want it. This has definitely been challenging and I really have just been trying to give it to God and let Him heal me from the hurt that this has caused me.
@STRENGTHFROMABOVE
@STRENGTHFROMABOVE 2 жыл бұрын
Just know that God loves you and he has a great plan for your life, your blessings are out for delivery. Amen
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
God is good!
@ceesevenhundred
@ceesevenhundred 2 жыл бұрын
Dependence upon the HOLY SPIRIT firsthand, then interdependence upon each other.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus is Lord! God bless!
@RS-ww8jo
@RS-ww8jo 2 жыл бұрын
Married to a man for 33 years who I didn’t realize was narcissistic. The older he got the worse it got. The last two years he’s been in two different relationships and I filed for divorce. He ruined us financially and the divorce is finally over. Still struggling with the finances can’t wait to be completely free of this nightmare
@godandsarah1306
@godandsarah1306 Жыл бұрын
Prayers for you
@krissyhall2838
@krissyhall2838 2 жыл бұрын
My mom is definitely a narcissist(didn’t know that term till recently)and I always feel unstable and get anxiety around her.I distant myself from her and felt like I was in the wrong for not trying to act like everything is ok or not acknowledging the hurt she causes without thinking she needs to be responsible for her actions because somehow everything always makes it out to be my fault.Currently working on getting away because the mental breakdowns be so real I thought it would be better when my faith in Christ grew but tbh only made things worse. I learned you can’t change these type of people is like they don’t wanna acknowledge their wrong doings or humble themselves to other peoples feelings.I’ve learned I’m gonna have to love from a distance.Thanks for the video Mark!
@naeluvsGCH
@naeluvsGCH 2 жыл бұрын
You're not alone in this. God will guide us through this and protect us.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
God bless Krissy as you seek the Lord's will!
@alexs8202
@alexs8202 2 жыл бұрын
@Krissy Hall: Wow that's a pretty mature conclusion you have come to there. I'm glad you are able to find a way to break free from the cycle of pain they are causing you! Some people (including myself) are never able to grasp what is going on enough to ever figure out what the mechanism behind things are. They never are able to break free. Keep up seeking after God as he will expose more and more things to you as he gives you more wisdom and discernment.
@ruthiefrost
@ruthiefrost 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate. Thank you for sharing.
@ibelievetruth282
@ibelievetruth282 2 жыл бұрын
I have a narcissistic mother too and nothing hurts more than knowing it's too dangerous to have a relationship with your own mother! May God bless us all who have to live with this pain. What comforts me is that God has shown me He has been Mother and Father to me all along and she was only a vessel for Him to put me on this Earth.
@positivevibe7684
@positivevibe7684 3 ай бұрын
I thank God I am able to take responsibility for my actions. If you point a finger at someone, three fingers are pointing back at you. I have to check myself many times. And grateful for it. None of us are without some sort of flaws. ❤❤
@Ricardo-kv5tk
@Ricardo-kv5tk 2 жыл бұрын
Was in a relationship like this every day was a battle I questioned myself daily and never felt so alone..best thing I done was to break up with her as I think a very under looked part is your mental health in a relationship like this the words they say and actions will bring you to an all time low.. I thank God for saving me from that mess and I pray for anyone stuck in a similar situation to be set free
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
God is good!
@Anita-tl7hn
@Anita-tl7hn 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, very stressful and traumatizing. More peace without it
@anursetomotivate
@anursetomotivate 2 жыл бұрын
Similar to an Dismissive Avoidant, which is caused from childhood trauma and abandonment. Dated someone with this attachment style, and I have nothing but sadness for him. I pray the seed that was planted allows him to heal and allow God to work on him 🙏🏾. God bless.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
That's true Dionna, I was just learning about Dismissive Avoidant attachment styles. I might do a video on that at some point
@dirtcop11
@dirtcop11 2 жыл бұрын
I think part of spiritual growth is introspection. We need to examine ourselves and correct what is not in line with God's Word. We also need to be strong enough to accept correction. I will say that some people try to judge you when you are following God's teaching, they are in the wrong. That is when Bible study and prayer are needed.
@vhviki
@vhviki Жыл бұрын
How did I end up married to a person like this? Was so good at the start. I would give my right arm to go back to the good times 😢
@nunyabizness2411
@nunyabizness2411 2 жыл бұрын
I just left this girl’s house that I’ve been seeing for a few months. I left really frustrated. First KZbin video on my feed is this. I hear you God loud and clear. Thank You Lord!!!
@ShelbyFarrow
@ShelbyFarrow 2 жыл бұрын
Are you still with her? Do you love her? I think it would be hard to stop seeing someone if you love them.
@nunyabizness2411
@nunyabizness2411 2 жыл бұрын
@@ShelbyFarrow I dated her 25 years ago and we reunited- she’s a totally different person- it’s hard because our families know each other
@kasieksmasiek7253
@kasieksmasiek7253 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I've been going through and for some time I thought I was going crazy. Fortunately, God's been leading me out of it. It's super hard but He knows just what I need and when. Thank you Mark! God bless! 🕊
@TheBrierose
@TheBrierose 2 жыл бұрын
You're not the only one going through this journey. I'm also dealing with this and I could have written the same thing. Stay strong, God bless.
@kasieksmasiek7253
@kasieksmasiek7253 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheBrierose In a way it's good to know I'm not alone in this but I truly am sorry you're going through this. I know how it is. I doubt myself, even as I type this I'm thinking is this real or is it just in my head? It can really mess you up. I wish you healing and blessings. I'll keep you in my prayers. 🙏 🌝 🕊
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
God bless!
@treyichabod5840
@treyichabod5840 2 жыл бұрын
Can a narcissist change? In theory, yes. In real life, no. Never. If you get involved with a narcissist, don't wait for them to change, just run! Don't WALK away, RUN!
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
It's possible but it rarely occurs. God bless!
@franceshaggitt3104
@franceshaggitt3104 Жыл бұрын
I walked. It was awful..
@eleanorjordan3404
@eleanorjordan3404 2 жыл бұрын
Isa 26:9-11 "With my soul, have I desired thee...for when thy judgments are in the earth, the inhabitants learn righteousness. (But) let favor be shown to the wicked, YET will he not learn righteousness: in the land of uprightness, he will deal unjustly, and will not behold the majesty of the Lord. When thy hand is lifted up, they (refuse) to see, but they WILL see, and be ashamed for their envy at the people; yea, the fire of thine enemies shall devour them.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
God bless!
@Heardjustine16
@Heardjustine16 2 жыл бұрын
On time literally 💪🏾😭🙌🏾
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
So glad this was helpful!
@12dordor
@12dordor 2 жыл бұрын
I pray God, to have the courage to move out of this relationship. A narcissist that always feel right about everything he does and always blaming other
@jdawg980
@jdawg980 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! This nailed exactly the relationship I was in! God removed her from my life and I didn’t understand at the time why. I ignored her behavior for a while and when I brought it to her attention she turned her anger back on me. Thank you Mark!
@thechelseachannel794
@thechelseachannel794 Жыл бұрын
Yes, unfortunately this is most definitely my mother. She’s been like this my entire life. I can’t have a relationship with her. She abused me as a kid and I have so much hatred to her and it’s so hard to heal from everything. It affects my daily life, and I’m trying to move out. I have such a dissatisfying life living here. Yes she also does think she’s perfect all the time and she’ll say things that’s wrong with me but when I do that to her she denies it. Tells me the type of Christian I am and that I’m not as good as her. Ridiculous. I really need healing from God from all of this.
@jennhawkins5356
@jennhawkins5356 10 ай бұрын
I have been married to a man who has done this to me daily for 14 years and I’ve had to do counseling and seek the Lord to survive, just to be honest.
@88ashleylynn
@88ashleylynn 2 жыл бұрын
I think people should be cautious about point 1 and 3. I was in a relationship that I was constantly manipulated and lied to, I was told one thing and the person would do the opposite. This caused me to be paranoid and confused. I didn’t know if I was forgetting things or going crazy, or this person was using their manipulation on me like they did everyone else. I kept getting told “I would never do that to you, I love you!” And when my emotions got out of hand because of all the lies and I didn’t know if I should believe what I actually saw happening or what the person would tell me I saw happening I’d lose it and then I was the crazy one. Manipulative people have a way of causing point 1 and 2 to happen. I was never a paranoid person before this relationship, I never forgot things I said or heard on a daily basis, things kept happening and he’d just tell me “it’s satan trying to tear us apart!” It was Satan alright…. Right in front of me!
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
It sounds like you are describing gaslighting which was in point 2 :)
@franceshaggitt3104
@franceshaggitt3104 Жыл бұрын
I hear you
@jj1593
@jj1593 2 жыл бұрын
My former therapists was super imbalanced and distrusting of me. She became psychologically abuse and i have trauma symptoms now.
@7lamb
@7lamb 4 ай бұрын
This is so true and clearly explained. You are correct, these people are dangerous!! Pray for them but get out as fast as you can. Thank you for sharing with others what to look out for.
@samanthabeaty4578
@samanthabeaty4578 2 жыл бұрын
Man, once again: TIMELY teaching. I have a friend who has found himself in a situation where he's staying with very dangerous stranger. He genuinely believes that this is the "provision" the Lord has given him and that there's a reason he's there ... I'm not so sure about that. I feel sick in my spirit having met this man and I'm concerned for my friend's safety. I don't know that the Lord is calling my friend to put himself in a situation where someone is trying to control and manipulate him. He seems very violent and easily belligerent. I know sometimes the Lord will lead us into situations that are out of our comfort zone and maybe even dangerous but this seems like a snare.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
So glad it was timely!
@devotedheart
@devotedheart 2 жыл бұрын
This vid reminds me of someone who I used to care about. I thought he truly loved me at first but as time passes, the more I realized that he's been hurting me emotionally due to his instability in making decisions. As much as I wanted to make things work, the problems grew worse. Slowly but surely, my eyes were opened to grim reality and I recalled certain things which he said that triggered my emotional pain. It will take time for me to recover, yet I am doing my best to distance myself from him.
@davinadel8450
@davinadel8450 2 жыл бұрын
My in laws were like this & my sister in law 😵‍💫 I’ve cut ties now because there narcs & I feel like this convicts me also because I spent so much time with them I really picked up a lot of bad habits 😢 I’m glad I’m very self aware and apologize genuinely when i need too . Thank you mark timing ⏱ video 🙏🏻♥️
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
So glad this was timely!
@elisebang2500
@elisebang2500 2 жыл бұрын
I prayed a long time but a point is you should also at one point stop praying and give it all to God. That is part of self-healing too.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Amen, I agree with that. Eventually we have to let people go
@Shayvette
@Shayvette 2 жыл бұрын
This was my ex it scared me & I had to leave 🏃‍♀️ -I also felt God telling me leave as well
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you had clarity on what you felt God saying to you
@franceshaggitt3104
@franceshaggitt3104 Жыл бұрын
I left
@theMusicNotes5
@theMusicNotes5 13 күн бұрын
When I tell people there is more to life than smoking and drinking... **ATTACKED**
@XDkameoDX
@XDkameoDX 2 жыл бұрын
Floored Again!!! With your timing. Right now, I am dealing with exactly this type of person in my ministry now. I have been praying about whether I should attempt to "restore" her, again, or let her go from the ministry. The first time I tried to address the issues with her, very lovingly, two hours later I had whiplash. She turned everything around on me and I ended up apologizing for all my weaknesses and my concerns about her were never addressed. She never apologized, yet I did endlessly. She then was great for a while, though a little "false", and suddenly struck again, outvof the blue, interpreting a Blessing to the ministry as "control" over her. It has been the most difficult situation I have faced in ministry so far. I'm pretty new. I am literally addressing this within the next 4 to 5 days, so I fully believe this is God telling me it's time to draw the line. Thank you so much. 💞🙏
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
So glad this was timely Laura! God bless as you seek the Lord's will!
@LifeAboutToya
@LifeAboutToya 2 жыл бұрын
So your tellin me I have to avoid myself LMAO
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
lol
@theremnantrising
@theremnantrising 2 жыл бұрын
This convicted you! Hallelujah! The Lord is calling you higher, to talk with Him more closely. He loves you just as tou are Toya, but way too much to leave you that way
@LifeAboutToya
@LifeAboutToya 2 жыл бұрын
@@theremnantrising ah yeah I totally agree Thankyou sister
@LifeAboutToya
@LifeAboutToya 2 жыл бұрын
Wow that’s true I tried to be gentle to my brother and he turned it on me …
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that
@michellesanchez9052
@michellesanchez9052 2 жыл бұрын
Mark I have truly been praying about this in a specific relationship and felt off and a part of me felt a huge urge to give myself space and now I just came across these videos and all of these signs contriubute to the feeling I had and I couldnt figure out why... Thank you Gods been hearing me!
@JohannaL306
@JohannaL306 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! I just had a friendship end with a person who was exactly as you described in this video. This message came at a perfect time.
@candywilkins386
@candywilkins386 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking this truth Mark!!! They should teach this in middle schools! This was my whole childhood with my dad being an alcoholic who couldn't self reflect!!! My mom was and is trauma bonded and she believes that he is the victim! I was married for 31 years to a covert- narrisst! I'm now divorced and disabled from ex husband. I have to live with abusive parents who gaslights me and makes everything my fault. No matter what you do you are always wrong. It's a very confusing situation to be in! The the conflict, confused state and the devil keeps you stuck in this situation for years and even decades! I'm so thankful that God saved my life! This is a demonic spirit! My ex husband commited perjury in court and tax fraud and insurance fraud and walks around saying if God is for me who can be against me!🤢🤢🤢 he is only fooling myself!!!
@sharonmitchell841
@sharonmitchell841 2 жыл бұрын
I got one romance and he's awesome and he's Christian he loves God that's the romance I've got in my life not nobody else.. I love him so much and he loves God..
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
God bless Sharon!
@Lucylu723
@Lucylu723 2 жыл бұрын
This message was a God send. I literally had this very experience where I told my ex-friend that she was the commom denominator that was attracting bad people in her life to which she started to attack me and say I didn't know anything even though I was there for years and she told me about all the friendship breakups🤦🏾‍♀️ I have never seen her act this aggressively towards me and it suprises me how well she was able to keep up an act of maturity until the truth was said about her, to her. Thank you for the video, it's affirmed my decision of letting the friendship go. God really used you to be a confirmation to me thank you😊🙏🏾 and God bless
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad this was helpful to you Lucy
@melindaveress6982
@melindaveress6982 2 жыл бұрын
Lord help me, it's 3am and I just got on KZbin...this is first thing I see, I'm dealing with this as we speak.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
God bless Melinda as you seek the Lord's leading and strength!
@courtneykirk478
@courtneykirk478 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Mr. Mark. God Bless you, and your family.
@irenageorgieva8011
@irenageorgieva8011 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect video! Easy to understand difficult issues
@MM-of5po
@MM-of5po Жыл бұрын
I was once this unbalanced person & I truly don’t appreciate you calling anyone unlike this and yourself “normal” as a comparison. Trauma & a lot of pain inflicted on individuals causes this & it isn’t our fault. Your disparity between the two is hurtful, unloving & unbiblical.
@Lazarusrizing
@Lazarusrizing 2 жыл бұрын
Man, this was so necessary and so rare. I really appreciate that you injected compassion. Because someone may be angry and we gossip and influence others to hate them.
@natewwc2741
@natewwc2741 2 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos you’ve ever done, Mark…. And you’ve got a lot of great ones! Balanced, insightful, wise and scriptural. Thank you!!
@vhviki
@vhviki Жыл бұрын
I’m getting comfort through these words
@Kim-bt2vh
@Kim-bt2vh 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mark, Just ended a 12 year relationship with this type! God Bless You!
@healed-alive2363
@healed-alive2363 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, mark, for this message. What u described here, is what I am living. I trust in God that He will bring me thru to accomplish fully, what He has for me to do. 🙏💜 ~peace, love, harmony~
@daniellamantia7324
@daniellamantia7324 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your relationship advice MAT God bless you
@lvas1929
@lvas1929 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. This is spot on. God knew I needed to see this.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Amen! So glad it was timely!
@meshai6242
@meshai6242 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video Mark. I need this so bad. I totally agree with you. Praise God
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, so glad this was helpful to you Mishaela!
@christianshivers3713
@christianshivers3713 2 жыл бұрын
I want to ask for prayer!👍🙏 almost everyone in my daily life is in the last category.. we are to "love our neighbor as we love ourself " & that one has more clarified meaning for me as I live in a retirement park & am a new widow & everyone who "loves" me needs assistance! Anyway.. thank you for your faithfulness to our God & His Word! I value what you have to say! God Bless you! Grace & Peace ☮ 💜🦋🛐✝️
@vhviki
@vhviki Жыл бұрын
You’re the best preacher on the internet Mark
@feruneeziahr7651
@feruneeziahr7651 2 жыл бұрын
I really needed this word at this very moment🙌🏾🙏🏾♥️ Thank you Mark🙌🏾
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
God is good, so glad it was timely!
@dee0731
@dee0731 2 жыл бұрын
Great information thank you 🙌🏻☀️
@franceshaggitt3104
@franceshaggitt3104 Жыл бұрын
A single mum here and had two narcisstic relationship s..... Sick of enemy......pls pray
@ladom6315
@ladom6315 2 жыл бұрын
This helped me. Thanks for the video & content!
@SweetSweetFireOfLove
@SweetSweetFireOfLove 2 жыл бұрын
24 Make no friendship with an angry man, And with a furious man do not go, 25 or you may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared
@lubacalculli
@lubacalculli 2 жыл бұрын
a timely and life-transforming message.. thank you so much 🙏❤️
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
So glad it was helpful Luba!
@delnitap
@delnitap 2 жыл бұрын
Everything you mentioned I just had a conversation with that person. I’m taking your words to heart and thank you God for these words🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 your always on time Mark 😊
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
So glad this was useful to you Delnita!
@tedschmitt178
@tedschmitt178 2 жыл бұрын
Mark, this video is spot-on. All three items are quite familiar to me. I only wish that I had known all of this in 1980. I would have avoided a 31-year marriage to an emotionally unstable lady.
@mik7564
@mik7564 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mark for this. I needed to hear this one.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
So glad it was useful!
@Emeri__Danielle
@Emeri__Danielle 2 жыл бұрын
your anointed forreal, God Bless you. & those people with Demons. need deliverance. speaking from experience.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
All glory to God!
@frannyfran7157
@frannyfran7157 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mark. I needed to hear this. I appreciate your channel and Biblical advice.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
So glad the channel has been helpful!
@repentorperish6414
@repentorperish6414 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you, like so many other commenters, this was right on time 👍. To God be the glory
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Amen, all glory to God!
@kJ-wd9wk
@kJ-wd9wk 2 жыл бұрын
Glory be to God! Thank you Mark for your obedience to Christ and for this message delivered right on time
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Amen, all glory to Jesus!
@crystalgirl6272
@crystalgirl6272 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing xoxo
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
God is good!
@loressavargas2020
@loressavargas2020 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent said brother bless u an your family in Jesus mighty name
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Loressa, may the Lord bless you too!
@Jeweliedear
@Jeweliedear 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Validating and comforting today. 🙏 Appreciate the healthy Biblical model examples.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@Franzifii
@Franzifii 2 жыл бұрын
This video helped me realize that it's not my fault my grandmother punched me, thank you!
@jesuschristfollower3867
@jesuschristfollower3867 2 жыл бұрын
Going through hard out spiritual warfare with my brother he does exactly what your talking about, but yup he doesn’t ever think he does anything wrong!!, verbally abusive to me then in a click of the fingers he’s asking if I want to have a cuppa or stay for dinner?!?,
@soyempatica5406
@soyempatica5406 2 жыл бұрын
I can so relate with this topic I was just in a narcissistic relationship and had to end it before I lose myself totally. It was a torturing feeling for the last 6 months Tried to help him to be a better person but it just didn't work. He's an atheist which I think explains why Thank God I am now free, no contact for 2 months now but still in the healing process. Must admit I was at fault too letting him back to my life for the second time.
@durranpotter3248
@durranpotter3248 4 күн бұрын
I have subscribed to many channels on Utube, but iam impressed by yours in a large way, how did you come to find yourself to be able to recognize these issues and explain them so well, I find your videos very educated and helpful.
@fedorafoxPRIME
@fedorafoxPRIME 2 жыл бұрын
Very good video bro? Thank you
@yesterdaysover247
@yesterdaysover247 2 жыл бұрын
Hair cut looks good bro!!
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Nick, I was due for a trim!
@bartholomew8042
@bartholomew8042 2 жыл бұрын
I LIKE THIS ONE ! Thank you Mark and god bless :)
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
So glad it was helpful!
@Air_lobo
@Air_lobo 2 жыл бұрын
Mark! Thanks a lot for this video. I know I caused a lot strife in my relationship but after a while I knew I had to trust Christ. Then I started learning about behavior and realized I was getting gaslighted by a narcissist. As a result, I don’t longer tolerate their obnoxious behavior and I walk away.
@JoeySavage
@JoeySavage 2 жыл бұрын
You have help me be a better man I'm focused on my Career thank you I Appreciate it keep up the good work #blessings
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear it! All glory to God!
@stepup2358
@stepup2358 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.. I really needed this encouragement of God's truth right now on this specific topic for it has tortured me emotionally for months. May God bless u and protect u and ur own in our Lord Jesus Christ for ur good works in Jesus Christ amen 💝✝️🕊️
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
So glad this was helpful! God bless!
@Mandooze
@Mandooze 2 жыл бұрын
I have been doing this flip flop imbalance thing but I know that im doing it and I feel sorry about it afterwards. I pray for healing everyday.
@vhviki
@vhviki Жыл бұрын
Best video ever. Needed this
@lermabalbon7219
@lermabalbon7219 2 жыл бұрын
Amen, praised the Lord and hallelujah
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
God is good!
@LukeT-
@LukeT- 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much 😢 I have young children with a woman narcissist
@chavasrisailaja9948
@chavasrisailaja9948 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much JESUS 🙌🙌 Thqq Mark again u r on time 😇God bless you abundantly Love from India 😍🇮🇳
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
God is good!
@MCharlerySmith
@MCharlerySmith 2 жыл бұрын
Good and timely video, Mark. Also good to see you doing a video with very little cuts away from your friendly face! 😄 You'll be doing theatre next!
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
LOL! Glad you enjoyed it!
@justicedc9454
@justicedc9454 2 жыл бұрын
Love You Mark !!!!! ❤️🙏🏾
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! All glory to God!
@kgodsgirl
@kgodsgirl 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately this is my son. It’s very hurtful.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
so sorry to hear that
@jillwylie9175
@jillwylie9175 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately they have Destroyed my life. But will not admit to the damage caused.
@MrDarshD
@MrDarshD 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the heads up, Mark! These are all traits that we often see but ignore because we idolize that person or desire a relationship more than peace... Love the new background and I can feel the improvement in camera too! Superb quality! Audio is clear as always! Keep up the good work!
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the feedback! God bless!
@tutagalevaos
@tutagalevaos 2 жыл бұрын
Just say it as it is… the Devil has a stranglehold on them through SIN
@franceshaggitt3104
@franceshaggitt3104 Жыл бұрын
Yes. I had ex like it.....made r feel trauma in body
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