Gas lighting is way more subtle this is just straight up bullying
@criticality8522 Жыл бұрын
I don't know, I don't really think gaslighting is a thing, I think you're just trying to make me look stupid.
@SReginaSmallo-0 Жыл бұрын
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@TheMatrixofMeaning Жыл бұрын
@@criticality8522that's gaslighting 😅
@criticality8522 Жыл бұрын
@TheMatrixofMeaning i don't think that's what it means, please stop manipulating me into thinking that's what it means
@MCognettaable11 ай бұрын
Exactly! Really good manipulators and abusers are very subtle, it’s hidden and insidious, because then when you even start to catch on it has so much plausible deniability baked in that you will question yourself..and duh, that’s the goal! If someone just calls you useless it will be much easier and quicker for you to see and leave 🤦🏻♀️
@US11518 ай бұрын
He’s gaslighting us with this video 😂💀
@jessenceq32505 ай бұрын
Haha I just wrote that before I saw this comment. Wit ftw!
@lydiarouse82414 ай бұрын
Exactly lol
@jemmaab33834 ай бұрын
I think so too 😂😂
@BeautyLoves884 ай бұрын
HONESTLY!!! lolllll!!!
@Doctor.Dentista3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@ReconstructMe-sp9qo10 ай бұрын
Gaslighting is when they play dumb to make you question your reality. This is just being verbally abusive. Gaslighting is a lot more confusing and passive aggressive.
@rommellynmariano42713 ай бұрын
😢
@gangstalkingsimulation1319 Жыл бұрын
Somebody need to do some more homework on gaslighting
@angelac.23849 ай бұрын
😂
@yltnaillirb44389 ай бұрын
A LOT more homework.
@thecornucopiasystem9 ай бұрын
Yeah, this is just staight up devaluation. Gaslighting would be denying the devaluation ever occurred
@conversationswithadrianne9 ай бұрын
Right. Anything for views. They just took a word and ran with it.
@Enlight-the-burbs8 ай бұрын
The content isn’t gaslighting but the entire post is…
@pabloescobarschanclas11 ай бұрын
this isn’t gaslighting, this is just straight up degrading behavior.
@renepcj40174 ай бұрын
Actually, it’s not he’s calling her out because she made excuses she’s not that busy. She’d either still have been busy or should be too tired to be that happy and you’re excusing it because enabling that kind of behavior gives you a reason not to be a better person.
@natela_mk4 ай бұрын
@@renepcj4017you need help 😂
@DC5-DRO4 ай бұрын
Naw he’s right .. hoes are to emotional got to be blunt and tell them .. otherwise they will tear you apart
@Skinny_Pimp4 ай бұрын
Wrong it's the truth. She home and not doing Her job
@renepcj40174 ай бұрын
@@natela_mk well if true then you need to be in a mental hospital for engaging with me
@zzalmond7 ай бұрын
“You’re useless” is a wild statement to make 😂
@Liberalcali15 күн бұрын
Does she stay at home all day? How hard is it to heat up a can of vegetables and make mashed potatoes from a box and put something frozen in the oven
@blessyangs48096 күн бұрын
My Baby daddy said that to me. Turns out, he was just trying to brainwash me so that I'd never be confident enough to leave his violent self. I bless the name of the Lord for delivering me from that hell
@aninatalia9 ай бұрын
Gaslighting is far more manipulative and less straightforward than this ‘by far’…
@btavz14 Жыл бұрын
Not even close to gaslighting. Gaslighting is more like leaving the victim question their reality and what they did wrong, and when the victim tries to confront the abuser, he'll just avoid or deny he said that. Maybe if the clip had a follow-up like this and the abuser says "Wtf are you talking I never said" or "I never meant that it was just a joke" then it would be more accurate.
@joshuafoubert84749 ай бұрын
I still have ptsd from my narcissistic mother who would do this all the time. She gaslights everyone and doesn’t care about anyone’s feelings. She will make your life a living hell and know it’s her causing the hell but gaslight you so hard you are left thinking maybe she isn’t doing anything wrong and she really loves you
@cannabistalk41648 ай бұрын
Busy all day lies and crap
@galaxyqueen88356 ай бұрын
@@joshuafoubert8474 she will never change! Save yourself and leave her. Don’t even call her back or buy her presents. She probably won’t even appreciate them anyway. Run as far as you can from her. Life won’t get any easier for you if you stick around. She’ll manipulate you and try to make it out that everything in her life that went wrong is because of you. Believe me, I lived it for 36years with my mom. 😢I’m now in my 40’s. Still can’t get over that witch.
@languagemitrasyedalveera84715 ай бұрын
@@galaxyqueen8835i understand.... But sometimes she acts like she cares... Making tea & then usual stuff goes " u see, no one can be like mother... "
@BeautyLoves884 ай бұрын
🎯
@WolfgangDoW9 ай бұрын
Gaslighting would be more you tell her not to cook dinner then when you get home yell at her for not cooking "But you said not to" "i never said that!"
@user-jp5ou6jx5l3 ай бұрын
Exactly!! 💯 Perfect example.
@nattie91120 күн бұрын
Bingo!
@jujumama17 күн бұрын
No its not. @user-jp5ou6jx5l
@jujumama17 күн бұрын
Gaslighting is more like youve cooked dinner many times and didnt one day, and then he tells everyone in your family you dont cook everyday when you only missed one day, and tries to dramatize how hungry he was to them to make them gain irritation towards you. Now everyone thinks you dont feed your man right
@user-jp5ou6jx5l17 күн бұрын
@@jujumama I think that also falls under #victimcomplex and if u yell back it's #reactiveabuse ! I hate ittttt bc most of the time when peopleee #reactiveabuse and then narc plays dumb/innocent so it's like now youuuu LOOK like the problem but still not
@pamelagarrett37549 ай бұрын
That’s just straight up abuse. When you have a partner that is gaslighting you, it’s so subtle that you start questioning yourself because they turn everything on you. Gaslighters play the victim and no matter how you try to explain that they are in the wrong, they will argue in a circle until you feel like you’re crazy. It is usually slow and can go on for years because it’s so difficult to recognize.
@datdudedeonte94246 ай бұрын
Somebody didn’t read the definition to gaslighting 😂
@yadavkomal11 ай бұрын
That's not gaslighting. Its bullying and verbal abuse with projection of negative labels onto other people!
@Rosemary468409 ай бұрын
Not that deep lol
@TheBigblumonkey4 ай бұрын
Thats not abuse, you're just weak minded
@lambchop685611 ай бұрын
Her: Sorry. I'm so useless. I'm at work all day and didn't have time to cook you a 5 course gourmet meal. You deserve a proper wife who will work, make 6 figures, look like a supermodel, cook, clean, do your laundry, iron your shirts, carry your slippers for you. Let's get a divorce so you can find that perfect wife. 😂
@misbahailia33458 ай бұрын
Now when did she say that?
@RodTheAce3 ай бұрын
REDRUM😈
@margueritedrya98072 ай бұрын
This is an ideal answer for an abuser, after which you get out and leave forever...
@mentallysic9 ай бұрын
babes, this isn't gaslighting... this is arson 💀
@jadesheppard77034 ай бұрын
Gaslighting is making someone feel crazy, not verbal abuse like this video depicts
@IllisiaAdams Жыл бұрын
That's not gaslighting. It's just abusive.
@Unbekannt_187 Жыл бұрын
Insulting not abusive
@bananamawnyt6307 Жыл бұрын
abusive cause he called her useless lmfao
@TheSweetie223 Жыл бұрын
@@bananamawnyt6307yes verbal & emotional abuse.
@bananamawnyt6307 Жыл бұрын
@@TheSweetie223 if she called him useless is that abuse?
@Bojannna44 Жыл бұрын
But gaslighting is abusive as well tho..
@TheLarryj18 Жыл бұрын
That escalated quickly lol
@sladegaming66257 ай бұрын
Ong🤣🤣🤣
@EnriquetheSquirrel5 ай бұрын
It jumped up a notch.
@Shante112XO9 ай бұрын
Usually men like that learned from Their dads or they have underlying hate for women and maybe even themselves. They want to lower your self esteem so you never leave them and can continue to feel in control. A vicious cycle that rarely ever gets better. Once they’re done with you because you start putting up boundaries or once you leave they just look for the next supply/victim.
@nickjones3860Ай бұрын
You don’t understand men at all
@Shante112XOАй бұрын
@@nickjones3860 tell me at one point in my claim was there a fallacy in my assertion and professional opinion? Just because you’re a man does not mean you understand psychology. However, maybe you can shed light on the egregious behavior of the actor in the original post from a masculine perspective?
@Chironhealing8 ай бұрын
This isn’t gaslighting, he’s just insulting her. People throw around terms like gas lighting or narcissistic abuse before doing their homework.
@wingedinfinity6715 Жыл бұрын
This is not gaslighting. Please research what the definition really is. This is just verbally abusive.
@LTD5384 ай бұрын
Womp womp
@simplysaiige11 ай бұрын
Gaslighting would be if he claims you had promise him a 5 course meal upon his return home and you never did. 😅
@iAquarius2029 ай бұрын
Another example would be if she actually did promise him a 5 course meal, in front of a group of people that also chimed in on the conversation, he then comes ready to dig in and everyone apart of the initial conversation all relentlessly deny the conversation ever happened to begin with but they all know it did. That’s a more elaborate type of gaslighting but the purpose is to make the target question their sanity and reality.
@d1nonlybaby364 ай бұрын
That's not gaslighting thats just straight up bullying
@Ginger111119 ай бұрын
That’s not gaslighting. That’s flat out rude and disrespectful.
@user-yu1wi1mb4p29 күн бұрын
That's what narcissists usually say
@Mindyourbusiness48 Жыл бұрын
Definitely abuse and not gaslighting.
@debradela-nougerede7104 Жыл бұрын
My ex husband was in the merchant navy on oil tankers. He'd be away months on end. When he returned home (to a spotless house) ,before even asking how I was, he would run his finger along our mantle piece, and check it for dust. Mind you, I saw him for what he was and asked him if he thought I was some kind of a retainer. This was the VERY least of his abuse. I won't depress everyone by listing his faults and abuse. Suffice to say, I left him within 3 years and 2 babies later. He's now a multi millionaire, but a sad and unloved by anyone old sod. Contacts me often from the other side of the world wanting to see me (as if! 😂). Whereas I'm certainly not wealthy, but I AM loved and needed, and know that people care about me for ME, not my money. I enjoy reminding him of what he lost. Revenge is best served cold 😊
@Ghost_ed1823 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you were indeed the problem , if you know how a man likes things why not just do it to pls him , thats right because most of you women are selfish af.
@sunset2.009 ай бұрын
What the worst did he do?...
@candy84658 ай бұрын
Sounds similar to me... when my 2nd child was a baby and I was SAHM He came home and picked up the kettle to check for dust underneath and said "oh you've been cleaning all day? this says different" All while yelling it at me. I was heartbroken, my daughter stopped day naps real quick and I struggled as she cried alot and wanted to be fed alot and was just so demanding, complete opposite to my son yet I still kept the house beautiful and had cooked meals etc This was one of thousands of incidents.
@patriciaevans59065 ай бұрын
Job well done….
@wadehigh79085 ай бұрын
Sounds like a perfectionist, or a mysophobic. Sometimes such people actually mean no harm. No matter what, if it makes you uncomfortable, leaving him is the right thing to do.
@theREALESTrealistUNPOPULAR8 ай бұрын
Spoken like a person who has never been gaslit 😂😂😂😂
@TtrellstheElephant9 ай бұрын
Gaslighting is when someone makes you think that your reality is a lie. They try to change the truth. Then they play like you’re crazy because you rather believe the truth.
@richiestarks6163 Жыл бұрын
There is a gas stove, that’s it.
@natevic186710 ай бұрын
Don’t even question it. And certainly don’t laugh it off. The minute an insult comes out his mouth you simply tell him to leave.
@Soldruid9 ай бұрын
Unfortunately in most circumstances she lives with him and can't leave or has no where to go lol. It's a sad ordeal but it happens
@martiffanyfeatherstone370410 ай бұрын
That's when you heat up the grits, but those aren't for dinner 👀 😂.
@leeboriack80548 ай бұрын
This couple is unqualified to demonstrate this issue.
@DD-ry4mm10 ай бұрын
Some guys does this and laugh and you say WHAT? The cowards say "I didnt say antyhing".Dont let them create WINGS cut them out QUICKLY and SHARPLY.Thats a real RED FLAG right there.
@tinaterry128010 ай бұрын
That was literally straight to the point. I wish i had that honesty instead of wonder for the wasted years. With passive aggressive abuses.
@UhuruMaat10 ай бұрын
It’s often waaaaay more subtle than that
@yxj520410 ай бұрын
Just break up with them, calling them anything and there’s a whole ass term that says that’s not okay. Just BREAK UP if they are actually just straight up useless.
@angelac.23849 ай бұрын
😂right
@donthatemeforbeinghonest29610 ай бұрын
I see a lot of folks don't know the actual definition of gaslighting.
@motherhoodsbeauty9279 Жыл бұрын
“I’m useless?!”😂😂😂
@Yaokl9 ай бұрын
Lmfaooo that’s not gas lighting that pure honesty 😂
@Fandomsoffffffffffffff10 ай бұрын
This man is playing 4D chess trying to gaslight us into thinking this is gaslighting 😂
@commiezombie247710 ай бұрын
Usually its the woman that would calling the man useless. Doesnt even sound natural comming from him. 😂
@YahLotus Жыл бұрын
It is so frustrating being apart of the culture that creates new meanings to already defined words. 😫 This is not gaslighting! It's insulting.
@bufficliff89784 ай бұрын
That's NOT gaslighting. That's verbal abuse.
@GregSkinner8 ай бұрын
the way he keep lookin at that imaginary pot on the stove
@Mom.3 Жыл бұрын
Literally just went through this. Even though I am fussed at for touching anything in his home. And if he misplaces anything it’s my fault and announcements are made saying “I’m not CRAZY! I know you do stuff! When I found out who somebody getting their ass beat” But in my home.. we’ll it’s ok to break everything, holler until the cops are called bc he’s saying things like he will “kill” me, I’ve never put him out my home however he enjoys pleasure in now throwing me out his home after conning me to come over and giving me a key. For this very reason , tonight 2am, myself and my to little a were thrown out like trash during a thunderstorm. I have ruined his life, I offer nothing, and I’m a bum. Despite the fact up until now he stayed with me rent free, took care of his kids when he felt like it, and despite whatever I’ve never called the police, and when the police come I never say anything that would get him in trouble bc I would never want to do that to him.
@yakeishaallen5343 Жыл бұрын
Please please dear sis, you HAVE to care more about your well being and that of your children than this low life man who has no right to abuse you and treat you like this. You are valuable in the sight of the Lord, but must reframe your focus on Him and seek Him to lead your path and give you an understanding of your identity and worth. From the bottom of my heart, I implore you to muster the courage to GET OUT and DONT LOOK BACK! This will end in total destruction…seek the Heavenly Father while He May be found and pray on your knees for His wisdom and help and He will hear from heaven.
@debradela-nougerede7104 Жыл бұрын
LEAVE HIM AND TAKE YOUR KIDS.
@lovelyloner9 ай бұрын
It’s been four months. Please tell me you have moved on or at least held this man responsible for his actions. If not, I hope my comment is a reminder , just incase he love bombed you into staying, or you lost your strength. You deserve better and it’s not okay. ❤️🩹
@AnovaLisaDragonfly9 ай бұрын
There really is no reason to stay with him. Not one. You can do this. One day it will click and you’ll realize this, and you’ll leave.
@margueritedrya98072 ай бұрын
Hello, ma'am. I read your comment, and I couldn't refrain from answering. I have gotten myself into a very similar situation as yourself, with a very abusive and manipulative deceptive man who treated me exactly like you' re describing, and more... He took pleasure of getting me to tears with severe bullying, gaslighting, and nervous breakdowns... I couldn't figure out what is wrong, and thought he was genuinely sorry every time, but his aggressive outbursts became unbearable. I found the strength to leave, even though feeling like a shell of my former self. And I hope you leave too... It is a not ok, you and me, we deserve better. They'll never change... Peace be with you, sister. I hope you get away from this dangerous man.
@turtlej0nes Жыл бұрын
Man…he’s about to lose a real one.
@EnriquetheSquirrel5 ай бұрын
Thats not Gaslighting that's just speaking the truth.
@sigmawolfvlog8 ай бұрын
they won't say it directly. they will make you feel it.
@kingjamesis7830 Жыл бұрын
I thought he was about to communicate. He just crushed her🎉
@TheOneWhoLaughs218 ай бұрын
I think he’s letting u know how he feels lol🤧
@AlonzoDuncan-nz9ne7 ай бұрын
Yes cuz if this is a repeated pattern she obviously doesn't respect her man foh talking bout gas lighting lol
@ki24769 ай бұрын
This was an AWESOME discussion. What does a man body count say about his morals, background, and decision making really stood out to me because women don't seem to ask this question. It has always been on my mind and should be on every woman's mind before sharing themselves with men. Because I consider this when it comes to me taking a man serious and respecting him.
@Ladycreedd7 ай бұрын
Gaslighting is when someone is invalidating /disregarding your real feelings,responses,or reactions to their or someone else’s bad behavior towards you.
@BbyAriesASMR10 ай бұрын
Gaslighting would be like “I thought you loved me? You know i love food so why wouldn’t you make it? I know you were busy all day but I thought you said i was the most important thing in your life? You’re such a liar.”
@mimio0086 ай бұрын
That's not gaslighting. What you're describing is manipulation, more precisely emotional blackmail. Gaslighting is also manipulation, but you wouldn't come out as strong. The gaslighter never fights. He always makes the victim get angry while he remains calm.
@buchrisss6 ай бұрын
@@mimio008 Ding ding, emotional blackmail. Thank you - amazes me how many ppl in the world ohhh sooo INCORRECTLY assign personal drama/false examples“gaslighting” Muddying the waters & devalues how incredibly serious, harmful & traumatic gaslighting behavior is.
@mariamimi8497 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t see how it’s gaslighting but now I see it. She said she didn’t Make the food or whatever cause she FORGOT , then when he told her “I knew it would happen” and she asked “why”, he said “cause you’re USELESS”. He changed her words, and he invalidated the actual reason why she didn’t make the food.
@corcat86089 ай бұрын
It’s worse when they act like they are joking after they say it.
@musicalpicasso4 ай бұрын
This is not gazlighting, this is funny 😂😂😂
@sayedabbas5987 Жыл бұрын
That's not Gaslight that's just pure facts
@DodingDagaGaming Жыл бұрын
hahahahahahha
@nataliaramirez1290 Жыл бұрын
Wow you're so edgy being sexist in the year 2023 wow the edge
@gustavusadolphus4344 Жыл бұрын
OH SHIT
@kenesealo7982 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@crucial0072 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@Hardawayfits10 ай бұрын
😂 Well damn. I would call my dad and tell him exactly what he said...before I respond 😅
@SassyST20 күн бұрын
Add in him chuckling and saying, “Oh, quit getting so defensive. You take everything so serious.”
@Autumn-zd9nq5 ай бұрын
Gaslighting is telling a person that they’re making things up in their head or not recalling an incident correctly to get them to doubt their own judgment and memory.
@MdMahmudulHasan-vn4ny Жыл бұрын
This is called " Countering", a type of gaslighting
@V0idFace10 ай бұрын
Wrong, this isn’t gaslighting at all.
@GyanAddict Жыл бұрын
What you're seeing here is like the LEVEL 50 of gaslighting and abuse. The LEVEL 1 was something like... :"I thought you said you're making something I love" :"But you love chicken right?" :"I never said that" :"Okay tell me what you'd like to eat. I'll make it in an hour" :"It's okay I just lost my appetite"
@V0idFace10 ай бұрын
Nope, this isn’t any level of gaslighting…because this isn’t gaslighting.
@GyanAddict10 ай бұрын
@@V0idFace Thanks for the demonstration.
@V0idFace10 ай бұрын
@@GyanAddict except this wasn’t a “demonstration,” because you are objectively incorrect. Telling an incorrect person they are incorrect isn’t gaslighting. If you don’t know what you’re talking about that’s fine, dude, just sit quietly.
@GyanAddict10 ай бұрын
@@V0idFace Again, thanks for your opinion. The way you're talking, with that arrogance, says a lot about your personality and IQ. There's a fine line between a discussion and just blabbing out words and calling others wrong without any explanation. So, kindly take your own advice. Dude.
@V0idFace10 ай бұрын
@@GyanAddict except I’ve already explained. If a toddler says “one plus one is chickens” all I need to say is “no, it isn’t, that isn’t how numbers work.” Whether you think I should explain further is irrelevant. Again: you’re objectively wrong. Then, when called out for being objectively wrong you doubled down on your wrongness. I don’t think you want to talk about the intelligence of anyone else, son lmao
@chelacanela70664 ай бұрын
He’s useless for not taking his girl out to Dinner!
@bonnymoore83364 ай бұрын
WE WOULD BE DONE THERE IS NO COMING BACK FROM THAT!!!
@emzzzzz0998 Жыл бұрын
I’ve started recording my husband and in a few months I’m going to let him hear all the recordings…so he can hear how ugly he is to me…and how bipolar he sounds. So maybe he will go get some help. I’ve offered to go to counseling and even help him get help with his anger but he refuses so now everytime he starts having a tantrum…I just turn my recorder on and I’m saving them. This morning he had a meltdown because he left pens in his work uniform and they busted in the dryer. Guess who got up and cleaned the ink stained dryer and found the little baby a new uniform??? Yup me. All while being called an a**hole and my voice being made fun of. If I had the financial backing to leave I would but I don’t and honestly I want him to take anger management and work through this because it can be fixed…it’s just hard being treated this way and having to do this.
@yakeishaallen5343 Жыл бұрын
You absolutely don’t deserve this and I encourage you not to let this man destroy your self-worth or believe any lies spewing from his mouth. You must not expect anyone to change unless they themselves first acknowledge and recognize there’s a problem and seek to get help. He may never change and are you willing to live this abusing and tormenting life that your children are witnessing? I am in a similar boat and I’ll tell you this, enough is enough and financially being in a position to do what you must do for the protection and mental stability of your family , is of the utmost importance. You can do this girl! Find online opportunities, search for ways to build passive income and hustle to find a way out of that is what may need to happen. Above all else, pray and ask the King of Heaven (Yah) to guide and lead your footsteps and open the doors to help you. Trust and seek God as He is our only hope. I highly recommend this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/f6vEc5yXr62Kf8k
@ParmyJan Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a narcissist
@juliethomas352310 ай бұрын
Don't be surprised, he will probably still deny. Recordings aren't going to help sadly.
@EYE_GOTCHA Жыл бұрын
“You’re useless” is not gaslighting, it’s a rude insult. Please delete this and make a correct video.
@MCognettaable11 ай бұрын
Ppl don’t get it 🙄 covert abusers will never be obvious ! Their goal is never so you can blatantly see or understand what is going on…calling someone useless is very obvious! They need to create plausible deniability baked into these interactions so they will make you FEEL useless in subtle ways and gestures etc but there will always be an “out” so that you will second guess yourself that you were over-reacting or misunderstood something…this is why this kind of abuse is insidious and takes years for someone to leave…calling ppl overt names and put downs I’m sure happens but I guarantee most ppl will be out the door or at the very least KNOW what’s going on and happening to them! 🤦🏻♀️
@Somali_pirate7 ай бұрын
To these experts commentators below me, he pays the bills she’s home all day, can’t even make food for him?
@deezknitz8 ай бұрын
Gaslighting would be denying he ever said that when faced with the consequences
@samuelmmmk1812 жыл бұрын
Bruh no one's going to say their partner is useless unless this happened regularly 😐
@someone31952 жыл бұрын
Unless what happened regularly?
@samuelmmmk1812 жыл бұрын
@@someone3195 Having to work and come home and do the household stuff too. Whoever stays home all day and doesn't work should look after the house.
@someone31952 жыл бұрын
@@samuelmmmk181 No dear 1. Either agree on smth or divorce, u don't get to call ppl useless. 2. U don't know whether she is working too or not. 3. Then I guess she can call him useless too if he earns too little.
@V0idFace2 жыл бұрын
@@someone3195 everything you just said was wrong, and you also completely misrepresented and missed their point. Fail.
@someone31952 жыл бұрын
@@V0idFace Sjsjs why dear? Care to explain?😂 Can't call a man useless when he earns too little? Why not?
@valhallabound3938 Жыл бұрын
If she stays home all day and he works...the least she can do is have dinner ready when he gets home. He wasn't gas lighting...he was being honest.
@faithledbetter56649 ай бұрын
My husband says i had a feeling this would happen when i tell him every day im going to be able to leave him one day bc of his abuse but he turns it around on me like im the villian for wanting to dump him😂
@MyName123.3 ай бұрын
He better be paying 100% of your expenses girl if he's asking for cooking.
@robertdimarcantonio35808 ай бұрын
She has no consideration for being together. Find a Passport Wife. Leave her.
@jojojohnson2273 ай бұрын
No a passport hookup that cook clean stfu
@jojojohnson2273 ай бұрын
Lol
@anunsashtray82448 ай бұрын
+option 1 “Im tryna see what you made for dinner” “you told me not to make dinner, that you were bringing some home” “No I thought you were making dinner” Later on…. *checks text to confirm he asked what she wanted for dinner earlier, after she asked how his day was going* +option 2 “My day was good, my coworkers and I were talking about how only useless women don’t cook dinner for their man today” “Oh, that’s interesting, I’ve been busy all day working too, my coworker and I-“ *he cuts in* “Let’s talk about it over dinner” “Where are you taking us out to dinner?” “I knew this would happen” “What?, you’re the one who brought it up.” “Yup, and this is what I was talking about” *leaves room without finishing conversation//gets on game//the phone and talks about you* = here I fixed it, choose your option
@josephrogers57117 ай бұрын
What if it was dirty dishes and a dirty home. And the husband works away for two weeks at a time. Supports his wife and children, but has to come home to a filthy house. So if he says after walking into the house, “ hmmm I already knew the sink would be full of dishes and the house filthy” and this hurts the woman’s feelings. This makes the man a Gaslighting abusive partner?
@sweett8214Ай бұрын
Gaslighting is subtle and makes you question things about yourself.
@ashleybellerose71046 ай бұрын
Then when you get mad they called you useless all the sudden youre the bad guy
@TrishAngel39 ай бұрын
Gaslighting can look like this and it can look like gifts or gestures of love but none is sincere. Narcissist don’t have empathy so they don’t feel anything except for your energy! Self-Love LOVE GOD TRUST ❤❤
@user-li2vx7lu4s5 күн бұрын
Someone told me I gaslight, but she wore the same jeans seven days in a row😂
@KaciPayne-nj8wb3 күн бұрын
Good one 😂
@carolyncoppola9743 ай бұрын
This was my marriage but it felt more like verbal and emotional abuse.
@user-dc7iw3fu4e2 ай бұрын
With Gaslighting you don't know you're being insulted until you've had a chance to process what was said or done
@EOd-is8dm9 ай бұрын
To be fair, if you're sitting there all day. And he's out working . You are useless not to have dinner for him
@ameliadeanVA277Ай бұрын
Change relationships to self esteem and thats what's I go through in a panic attack😂
@danabrown276Ай бұрын
This is why it’s so important to know your worth and value and not rely on someone to affirm your worth and value.,
@annt7384Ай бұрын
My brother said I was useless. He never said why. I don’t recall ever asking him for anything, except a ride to church once.
@BIGMatt-uu9kh9 ай бұрын
But here me out 😅..how many times has that man came home to hear "I totally forgot" a good man work hard he deserve a meal prepared when he get home. If he doin his part an you not your Useless 👀
@DennisWilliams-nf2gn26 күн бұрын
My guy couldn't stop looking at the bare stove!!!!!😂
@alyssahavens93083 ай бұрын
Yknow what it’s actually really sweet that you guys can’t act this out realistically. Always remember to appreciate that.
@fifiooh5 ай бұрын
He outrightly insulted her, he didn’t gaslight her
@keira4277 ай бұрын
That’s not gaslighting. That directly demeaning.
@tyardovdabulldht23408 ай бұрын
Ladies...RUN! ✌🏿
@WhichTheChickenOrTheEgg14 күн бұрын
That's not gaslighting. He told her like it is 😂
@zizaklove10 күн бұрын
When you tell someone to relax but when you finally get a chance to relax, they make you feel like you're being lazy.
@reisuke_60307 ай бұрын
LMFAAOOOO THE CUT OFF IM SO DEAD 🤣🤣🤣 “IM USELESS???😰”
@MurderElite3 ай бұрын
This is honesty, not bullying or gaslighting. She needs that honesty to improve and do better next time.
@AgentAO77 ай бұрын
I’m a gaslighting expert.. and this isn’t gaslighting but straight up savage! 😂
@Eddyeden1110 күн бұрын
Some people actually accept this type of mess in their relationships too. To anybody reading this, please don't let anyone, man or woman, talk to you this way.
@lisakukla4599 ай бұрын
That's not gaslighting at all. It's a dick thing to say, but it's not gaslighting.
@user-hm3jj1co2d9 ай бұрын
I see him speaking his truth. This is not the first time that she isn’t keeping her word. This comes from telling someone “Okay honey… I’ll have dinner ready for you.” And then, given her expression, this was not (or is not) her first time in letting him down. She is shocked that he called her out on her lying.