The Science Of Getting Girls

pick up chicks using science and psychology! All these tips if followed correctly are guaranteed to help you, but its important to keep the last tip in mind and let it go if it doesn't work out.
i have Instagram now too! i'll probably just be throwing some behind the scenes stuff on there :D
/ basically_him
sources:
gain loss theory: psycnet.apa.org/record/1976-2...
proximity MIT study: dspace.mit.edu/bitstream/hand...

[@ysuf3125]

Mf first explained bluetooth and now he is fixing my life goddamn

[@Rops1423]

Me too 😂

[@Marween]

Gad damn right.

[@angingis5922]

Same jajaj

[@alandeutsch9987]

i'm here for it

[@dice4572]

fr

[@willrouton184]

If you're watching this, it's too late

[@prakhargupta3949]

It never began...

[@rawnessonthemax]

@@prakhargupta3949it never began with that name

[@Razor-gx2dq]

You are assuming that we ever had the chance

[@mrjuicejunior]

no way it's drake

[@maartenswiggers6674]

Dont have to do me like that

[@luks1207]

Got it, stalk her, but take a shower first and look confident while doing it

[@jamiemb17]

Exactly

[@kavguy]

be nonchalant and mysterious too thats mandatory!

[@ItsVasl]

every indian man's misconception ever

[@sambhavsongara3087]

officer this one right here officer: dont forget to put 200 dollar clognes

[@mezenes9120]

Correct

[@travv88]

"it has nothing to do with genetics" "now onto part 6. believe it or not it almost always comes down to genetics" lmao

[@BlueFusion2910]

Normie gaslighting moment

[@gaelr.s7123]

But le vvomen aren't superficial broooo just get 500 showers and a hair cut brooo

[@ericxue3244]

He means it doesn't have to do with genetic trait which is visible

[@travv88]

It does though. It's not everything but it's not nothing.@@ericxue3244

[@maheshkumar-sk1kc]

step 1 : say hi

[@thc4825]

Me: "hi✋😃" then walks away Girl: "ok wtf"

[@adampauling82]

assuming you know them already.

[@emanuelmaldoileacont8253]

Nah,he say hi to strangers girls then walk away​@@adampauling82

[@yeetboi268]

Have you tried being taller?

[@AssassinIronMan]

@@yeetboi268😂

[@AssassinIronMan]

Yeah I’ve never understood this tip lol

[@TerrorFreak]

THIS content is really innovative, no flashy editting just pure knowledge and entertainment

[@Bobjpeg-fo3tr]

We need more of this, learning not just entertainment

[@josephmueller3752]

it's what PUA used to preach for 2 decades before incels ruined them. Now that incel lingo (lookmaxing, mewing) has become mainstream this basic PUA content that was considered manipulative and unethical is surfacing back. Btw it's all BS

[@IStMl]

its what YT used to be 10-12 years ago

[@billusher2265]

@@josephmueller3752 they didn’t ruin them, puas got banned and shadow banned and blackpill and redpill filled the vacuum

[@MysteryDoorStudio]

Innovative? Bro, this is pick up artist 101. It's very good, but so obvious for a PUA. Social media censured this information in the last years

[@monticellidavi]

Lesson 5: looksmaxx now.

[@whavfx]

@theorb519 Priority number 2: Realize you dont have perfect genes and surgerymaxx

[@NutsDerk1]

Tip 4: Edge in class EVERY day.

[@Saujas]

Brooo whatt? ​@@NutsDerk1

[@fuzzypanda1684]

You should do it for yourself, but it won't make nearly as much difference with girls as you think it will.

[@monclerpaint]

5 years too late nephew

[@ItslagIswear]

bro took overthinking it to a whole other level

[@andrewdrewandy]

its so over

[@aheendwhz1]

The only advice you'll ever need: Don't overthink it and don't give too many fucks. Try to live a good life for yourself, and one day, someone will want you to share it (even if not, then you still had a good life for yourself). It's not the man's responsibility to manipulate every aspect of a situation only to "get" a girl. If she wants you and you want her, you'll find a way.

[@shariyarshajid]

completely agree with. Just working on ourselves will suffice.

[@thethe2279]

Someone isn’t the brightest bulb. It’s called just be tall and good looking. Not your bluepill cope

[@Emilizier]

THISS!!!

[@justonexone]

@@thethe2279as a 5’7, i completely disagree. I can attract a lot, just gotta be confident and good looking. Being tall is just a +, not a must, and anyways girls that take it as a must genuinely turn me OFF

[@Caschrono]

​@@thethe2279man... I don't know about you but I've seen some people that are physically 5/10 that have managed to pull 7+/10. Mind you, most of the ones I've seen are middle class. Let's say the relationship won't last long, but in the end, who tasted her? Definitely not you. But all that doesn't matter. If you have time to focus on these trivial things, then you're likely living an easy life.

[@grimmitachi]

1. You are something to be pursued or lost forever(mindset) 2.Proximity 3.Ask for favors 4.Looksmax 5.Luck 6.Scent

[@mariusskrupskis2042]

observe pupils, that's the most important part xD

[@tesfayeheegstra733]

you forgot gain loss theory. Let her win u over

[@thethe2279]

Over for sub8 jfl. Just be chad honestly is the point of this video.

[@alanxo1759]

looksmax 😭😭

[@Dimebag-wx2rs]

​@@alanxo1759why laugh?

[@user-uy2ok2ti6m]

Don't chase the butterflies instead build a beautiful garden. They will come to you themself.

[@pantsnjacket381]

Underrated comment! So truthful.

[@Never_GamePlayZ]

how the fuck do I build a garden.

[@TheOfficiaITristam]

@@Never_GamePlayZ garden = wealth

[@macdonald2k]

@@TheOfficiaITristam No, garden is heightfidence and faceonality.

[@alexr1632]

I genuinely think the important part of this process is just being happy and content with yourself. nothing is more pleasant to anyone than a person who is happy, easygoing, and fun to be around. doing this weird bullshit of trying to manipulate the situation to make someone more attracted to you just makes you a pickup artist. you're not going to 'get a girl', you're gonna make yourself nervous and anxious with trying to follow all the steps. just be happy and things will work out.

[@omkarthorat9651]

Noo but i can confirm this actually works. I've followed these steps and it worked. While i agree with u on the points u made but no if u r very clear in mind what u have to follow u can actually breakthrough the nervousness which is what we call confidence

[@Nihilist_Waltz]

Cope

[@NJ-lu6wu]

This stuff works I’ve done all the stuff in this video (not on purpose), and I ended up getting the girl even though all the other guys in the group were the ones chasing. Girls want a guy that’s somewhat “unattainable”, you need to put yourself in her reach but not so easily so it’ll pique her curiosity and attraction. For my situation I was just so focused on my business and career that even though I thought she was cute I just didn’t prioritize her.

[@ARINOXMUSIC]

No its not you can only hold a facàde for so long before they catch your bullshit ​@Nihilist_Waltz

[@reirei6292]

This is true being comfortable in your own skin will make you express yourself more easily and will make not only getting a girlfriend but approaching anyone very straightforward and easy.

[@lucky81970]

This shit is better than anything any so called "dating coach/expert" has ever put out.

[@mateossr]

Just look good bro

[@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226]

BODY GAME And natural masculinity.

[@mateossr]

@@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226 nö

[@FloppaTheBased]

​@@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226heightfidence and faceonality

[@-SimonRiley]

​@@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226 what's natural masculinity? Besides “just be a leader bro” “just take decisions bro”

[@user-nf6qz9yp9l]

I've watched almost all your videos, I love your humor and way of explaining things! But this is just... Chef's kiss.

[@maximagne]

dude this channel is probably one of my favorites ever I remember when you have a couple thousand or whatever glad to see you got the recognition the channel deserved

[@SwornSon]

I once disassembled and reassembled the entire engine bay of an abandoned car and had it run smoothly afterwards only with common sense, Reddit discussions, and KZbin videos and I guarantee that was far easier than this.

[@cattysplat]

My dad was an ugly, annoying, shy dork. He got a higher education with a well paid respected job. Girls were throwing themselves at him. My dad is still this guy today, he never had to try, they came to him.

[@SwornSon]

@@cattysplat Must be nice

[@azaanhussain1724]

@@cattysplathow can someone be annoying and shy

[@aryasenaputra3226]

​@@azaanhussain1724by being awkwars my guy

[@mcpartridgeboy]

Yep, very good amature chess pplayer here, can confirm for me that beating some profesional masters at chess is much MUCH easier than getting a date, and i have evry advantage in the book, im very good looking and still cant get even a date !

[@SolepsusYT]

so 1. be friendly say hi when you pass by (try to increase proximity; better if u dont be creepy + next step) 2. present yourself as someone who takes care of themselves (posture, hair, clothing, skincare, looksmaxxing in general) 3. do favors for her and ask them for favors (also gives you chances to interact) - post dating 4. good first kiss (practice kissing on your closest bros, its not gay i swear)

[@JDub3799]

instructions unclear, in a love triangle with the bro now

[@xerxes4real]

​@@JDub3799At least you found your passion!

[@exquiilz]

brainrot

[@pasalasaga]

Now being serious. You can practice kissing with your hand. Put It like a fist, and then do that.

[@skimsakj642]

5. Stop playing Roblox and finish public school

[@josueramirez7247]

The presentation of the video was very good. I liked the words and images you used.

[@alexlovehall7796]

This is the guide that I needed fr. helped put a lot of things in perspective

[@iamfuckingcringe]

WE GETTIN OUT OF LONELINESS WITH THIS ONE 🔥

[@revolutioninc7081]

First step, change your username

[@vklnew9824]

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[@iamfuckingcringe]

@@revolutioninc7081 Nobody knows about this channel fr

[@AlaReDuS]

@@revolutioninc7081 Yeah bro, positive self talk and all that ftw.

[@FloppaTheBased]

Second step, be born tall and attractive

[@Brother_In_Christ]

Don't worry guys. I've just looked into MHC molecules and apparently, a man with dissimilar MHC molecules just smells nicer to women, that's it. And that nicer smell might help with attraction. However, a less nice smell is not going to stop a woman from being attracted to you. Worrying about such things and being in your head instead of being present will make you less attractive.

[@aheendwhz1]

I think especially the kissing thing at the end of the vid will make you less attractive. How are you going to have a "good first kiss" when you have to worry that the kiss might ruin everything? Also, that's bullshit. Most first kisses are bad as how are they going to be good if you don't even know each other.

[@Jwellsuhhuh]

The MHC thing is negligible, if not completely BS. Wedekind, zhou, and other pheromone studies have failed to be consistently replicated, and are extremely artificial in nature. The density of pheromones in the cloves mixture (zhou) or in the tshirts (wedekind) is absurdly high compared to someone’s ambient scent when standing right next to them. And that’s assuming no extraneous factors like BO. Hint: the slightest presence of antiperspirant, deo, or bacteria eating sweat will immediately mask whatever pheromones are being excreted.

[@waltervelasquezgwt]

MHC ? Use a good perfume, works great. !

[@zafuro]

@@aheendwhz1holy cope chad instatly melts any girl away when he kisses them

[@RR-et6zp]

they date up by default. read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper

[@RutinLaun]

Great video Sir! I would like to mention a book that you haven't mentioned and its for Insecure Americans. Ebook is called CrushAnyGirl, so on its for finding a girlfriend as Insecure American. After reading, you will have a better perspective on girls and find your gf in thirty days guaranteed Highly recommended to read

[@godishere4]

😂😂 why does this have no comments

[@LoganBai-gv5ys]

This has 6k likes so it must be credible. 30 days is pretty fast

[@godishere4]

@@LoganBai-gv5ys probably bot bro

[@LoganBai-gv5ys]

@@godishere4 yeah it looks like an ad and this comment was only 2 days ago. so unless 6k people liked it in 2 days despite the video being somewhat old then something is wrong. Also this comment has so few replies under it as you mentioned

[@neutral_10]

Bot nice try

[@vishalpazzo]

i was surfing on the internet for my research work on streaming platforms the KZbin suggested me this channel and i found it is really an engaging channel with good quality of content in it, I appreciate the knowledge you are transferring to the public in such a humorous way. i am enjoying all your videos more than a comedy show or a serious science show, but its a combination of both. Thankyou for making such an amazing, entertaining and educational content sir.

[@rushbso8920]

while youre here, dont take everything here with such fact. its mostly entertainment

[@hhh-nj9xc]

this is so freaking awesome dude!

[@user-ui9lj2dn7r]

Ok but I’m ugly💀

[@ryatt1]

Same *but* in that case you need to rely on personality pretty heavily. If you're extroverted and easy to talk to then it's better. In the case of me and being socially awkward and not knowing how to talk to women, because you didn't have a mom growing up, then you kind of wait for fate to do its thing.

[@heydani6678]

Girls don’t care what you look like nearly as much as you think dude. A woman’s attractiveness is based almost 100% on her looks but for men it’s less than 20

[@IamMortui]

@@heydani6678 They definitely do. Men see looks more than women, but women saying women don't care for, or care for way less than men is completely false.

[@heydani6678]

@@IamMortui women care wayyyyy less. To the point where it’s almost irrelevant past the introductory phase. Women like dudes that make them feel good.

[@IamMortui]

@@heydani6678 They do like dudes who feel good you're right, but they also consider looks similarly to men. Not as much as men, but It's not that far off. This goes for all three of the categories. Below average, average, and above average. You get away with a lot more when you're above average in looks in some or multiple ways. Even more so of women approaching YOU. Bottom line is people who say looks don't matter or matter less are not very experienced because looks is the first impressions. If she turns you down from the get-go from looks, you will be aiming at a wall trying to "make her feel good".

[@master-oh6zn]

Steps -don't give them attention -see them often -make them think you don't like them -make them think you started liking them -make them do favors for you -have luck -have kissing skill

[@PushYourEdge]

the first two sound paradoxical but just for clarification, don’t give them excessive attention outside of physically seeing them: don’t text them all day, don’t watch every single one of their stories, limit your non-sexual attention as much as possible.

[@alexm.6533]

These only work if you’re physically attractive

[@voxer94]

Steps -Be tall and handsome -Be not severly mentally ill

[@FloppaTheBased]

-be tall -have attractive facial features

[@alexm.6533]

@@FloppaTheBased I’m tall but I ain’t got the attractive facial features

[@shavoniilloyd7825]

love your vid continue posting more. Funny enough when i watch the first one i had to subscribe 😂

[@yash9688]

keep up the great work!

[@guilokoh9971]

How to get girls 101: Step 1: Be attractive Step 2: Be attractive Step 3: Be attractive Step 4: Be attractive Step 5: Be attractive Step 6: Be attractive Step 7: Be attractive Step 8: Be attractive Step 9: Be attractive Step 10: Be yourself

[@LevSeven_]

you missed about half of the video mate

[@Julia25120]

I want a man who looks like 90s Tom Cruise. 😂

[@richardparsley2538]

Step 1: buy white van Step 2:

[@FoodIsGood753]

@@richardparsley2538 naaaaaahhhhh we getting crazy with this one

[@JohnDoe-nm5le]

Blackpilled.

[@nicom9476]

The way your incorporating actual psychological evidence from experiments done in each of your points is so original and makes the video so much better. Please upload more psychology videos like this where you go in depth into the why and how. I love these types of videos. and your editing is onpoint!!

[@RR-et6zp]

they date up by default. read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper

[@spacecooqie6873]

They aren't tho, lol. They are citing single studies without any context or lit review, which is useless and unscientific. Additionally, the studies they are citing are out of date and all of their claim aren't supported by a big part of the literature. For example, we don't know if there are any sexual pheromones in humans.

[@RR-et6zp]

yeah most psychology is BS. but brain scans show each gender is different + hardwired behaviour @@spacecooqie6873

[@ashleydsilva9284]

bruh i've watched a ton of dating advice videos, but this one blew my mind away 💥

[@millysmanifestations]

From a woman’s perspective I guarantee we are far more attracted to men who look happy or smile or who carry themselves in a positive and open demeanor than those who are closed off, cold, looking down all the time or don’t possess warmth. It makes you 50x more attractive no matter your physical features

[@alekpoko2655]

Лол, нет. Вообще, счастье детерминировано и для того, чтобы открыто улыбаться нужно родиться красивым

[@alekpoko2655]

@@Dimitris_Balf Ты либо красив, либо туп

[@danielallen8702]

I certainly appreciate you sharing.

[@crenshaw46]

Stop the cap. Women are drawn to 3 things no matter what they "think" they are attracted too: 1) Height 2) Looks 3) Status. That is literally all there is to it.

[@millysmanifestations]

@@crenshaw46 as a woman, i disagree… maybe that’s other women but not ALL of us🤷‍♀️ those aren’t my personal priorities

[@Maxecute]

I dont just wanna get girls. Exspecially not through psychological manipulation and playing games. All I want is to find a good partner with just being myself. Is that possible?

[@hothdog]

why yes, it is.

[@FloppaTheBased]

if you need "game" and tricking women into liking you it's already over. None of the people in relationships did this cringe, it all happens naturally. If it doesn't happen to you then be luckier in the looks department next time.

[@thefinalroman]

Beta

[@americandream9473]

​@@FloppaTheBasedin next life😂😂😂

[@rando4998]

Find your purpose in life. However, your purpose shouldn’t be simping for women. Thus, when you find your purpose you are dialed in. So, whether women like you or not you are happy since your purpose gives you meaning in life.

[@gabrielnobrev]

Confidence is a huge factor too. If you're afraid of talking to women or afraid of rejection, a good way to solve this problem is by practicing exposure to your fears. Go talk to random women in public (not in a creepy way, of course). Choose appropriate places to talk, and appropriate situations, for example, when you go to a party with a lot people you don't know, or a big event.

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

lmao "Just be confident, bro!!!!'

[@dreamdesigns8514]

no confidence for a recessed face

[@dynamicflashy]

“Choose appropriate places and situations”. Knowing which are appropriate is the issue.

[@dylanm3181]

A good way to practice is to sometimes chat up retail associates or someone waiting on a line to get into a venue. This happens all the time in big cities. And who knows? That same person you chatted up may then decide to want to add you on Instagram or get your contact Edit: notice how I didn't mention anything romantic? The more natural you are, the more people will relax around you

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

@@dylanm3181 you watch too many movies, son.

[@matinsalehi7578]

Have watched this a while ago and might watch it again soon because I need help and watching it twice isn't enough!

[@sepantakhorasani5022]

this man is one of the best KZbinrs out there I learn here more than school

[@juancruzlives]

very great video. taking away the over-seriousness and making the format funnier really helps you enjoy more the learning process

[@TheOutlierToday]

Dating is just a game, isn't it? I'm not playing.

[@Blurro]

Playing these dumb games is unfortunately how you have to go. What's your alternative? Because eventually if you do meet a woman you consider your perfect match, intelligent and all, chances are she's still likely playing the game and you'll be disqualified real quick. There isn't really a winning move where you 'break' the game, like make her aware of it and she realises "wow that game is silly, and you're so smart, I'll date you!" that aint gonna happen. Only guys get real nerdy over this shit and recognise it as a game anyway, and you keep that to yourself

[@cattysplat]

@@Blurro If you think this is bad, women having even more insane rationalisations to what they do.

[@bro918]

@@Blurro The only winning move here is to simply wait a decade or two for AI/Robotics to get good enough and then just buy a robot GF

[@lekhajiitjzargo2437]

@@bro918 Exactly + curing aging for playing longer and more choices in life.

[@TON-vz3pe]

​@@BlurroIt aint worth it. Relationships, Sex are way too overrated. I am glad to be single than to play all these shitty games.

[@TactiBEAR]

this is the one video that is guaranteed to have 100% retention

[@skepticofficial2574]

best video ive ever seen thanks for that

[@Empyreanis]

I like how the video is presented in an informative but casual manner. Like a friend giving you advice. Videos with titles similar to this are usually presented in a manner like a sergeant briefing his soldiers before going to war lmao.

[@elbergalaxia9783]

Man, i just discovered your channel, this video is a gem. I laughed so much, and the content is really high quality. Subscribed, keep 'em coming!

[@Rand0mCommenter]

Respect for making the vid less than 8 mins so no adds mid vid.

[@bullydog105]

thx soo much man i needed this :9

[@beckett746]

This is probably one of the best videos I've ever seen on this topic, and brought up a lot of things I have never seen anywhere else that make a lot of sense and seem pretty valid. Hugely underrated

[@celinritter1385]

The only thing that is inaccurate is that at a party there are groups of guys surrounding a girl, if that is so these are likely her friends and to say hi and walk a way is a bit wierd. Say hi to her when shes relatively alone and u can have a conversation with her and let a friend yell out ur name so u have to go. NOOO pick up lines !!!!! But if u stared a conversation already and she dosent seem uncomfortable and happy to talk to u just talk to her like a normal human being would and ask her some questions about her that she feels comfortable answering. Ask for insta not her number girls are more comfortable giving guys her insta. Im from germany please excuse the mistakes. Dont follow her around all evening like i said find an excuse and go

[@this.science]

This is amazing advice

[@christophewells3918]

Really solid respectable advice. Thank you, friend.

[@Jorge-np3tq]

"Like a normal human being" means nothing. Your boss, your mom and your friends are all human beings and you treat each in different ways. If you just focus on making her comfortable the fz is your fate and you deserve it. Insta can be gotten earlier than number but is way weaker as a lead. If you get her number it's to arrange a date and continue, if you get her insta you're just another follower to make number bigger and feed her ego. Look at naturals. See what they do and learn from them. Most people have some friends who are naturals. Go with them and don't cringe or get jealous, just learn. See how they tease the girl, joke around with her, act like the prize, ignore her tests, escalate...they do everything instinctively. Are you here to have polite conversations or to give women an attractive man that they'll actually want to have sex with? Women hate nice guys who think just doing the bare minimum will get them into their pants because they were so friendly and polite. You want something, actually build attraction.

[@vklnew9824]

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[@giftzwerg7345]

I disagree on insta, most people arnt active or care.

[@user-xy3jk9nq9n]

5th Lesson fixed all of my issues, very kewl video 👍thank you a lot

[@mpamphs_trupas]

I may or may not just watched all of your videos while avoiding going to bed... No regrets

[@akuuttii]

Just be attractive and stop coping like this.

[@semmoney5686]

Straight to the point no BS realistic advice given here bro. Thanks for making this content, Instant new sub !

[@bitten1406]

this video's thumbnail is otherworldly! this guy is damn good

[@werinter]

1. Be attractive. 2. Be lucky. Literally those are the two things really matter. Good looks and luck.

[@Razor-gx2dq]

Dude I know got super lucky, thing is he didn't even try, she came to him, guess we can't all be winners

[@dboijahskush1251]

you forgot money

[@normified]

your comment tells me you're just as attractive as your profile picture and it's yo own fault lmao terrible mentality

[@sadscientist9995]

Money matters too

[@user-is9yv2gl3n]

​​@@sadscientist9995nah, if she's choosing you for money, then it's not genuine and a man wouldn't get much joy out of such a relationship. At least I wouldn't. I literally would be physically disgusted at a girl who liked me because of money

[@Otism.]

pro tip: be attractive

[@AssassinIronMan]

Or get plastic surgery lol

[@_Devansh.Dixit_]

​@@AssassinIronMan that I will do i.e septoplasty I have very deviated nasal passage(if you know you know )

[@AssassinIronMan]

@@_Devansh.Dixit_ I don’t know 💪🗿

[@_Devansh.Dixit_]

@@AssassinIronMan then use chrome to get it known rather then using it for something else 🗿

[@AssassinIronMan]

@@_Devansh.Dixit_ I’m better off not caring 😎

[@hassanmash07]

This. is amazing! You just earned subscriber. I started with one of the video, now I am in depression that you have only 8 videos in total! This. is not acceptable...

[@zayedemon7924]

Just subscribed, i have feeling this channel is gonna be something in time, as videos are so unique and balanced.

[@fredcastor1]

lesson 7, it's over

[@maya_gabriella]

Wth.. why do so many men have this mindset?

[@smokinj0e]

@@maya_gabriella Coz you'll never know what it feels like being a guy in the dating world.

[@IAmWatchingAYoutubeVideo]

​@@smokinj0e*being an ugly and guy and below 6ft is hard

[@maya_gabriella]

@@smokinj0e your mindset is the most important thing when ur dating. If u think u think you’ll never succeed you’ll never try and then you will never actually have a chance. U miss 100% of the shots u don’t take.. If guys are referring to their looks when they say “it’s over” or “it never began” girls aren’t as superficial with looks as guys are.. My first boyfriend i didn’t even think he was special at all but then we became friends and I found him more attractive everyday just getting to know him and how cool he was. Guys these days are getting these stupid incel opinions and views on girls from the internet and it’s just not like that in real life. Girls are human and lonely too just be friends and talk to them..

[@smokinj0e]

@@maya_gabriella Right, coz it works so well for you 🤣

[@bustavonnutz]

Only two rules to dating: 1) Be attractive 2) Don't be unattractive Simple as. Attraction is non-negotiable, so honestly every other strat is just minmaxing. When I like a girl & she likes me back there is minimal guesswork & everything just flows. That's why when a girl starts acting wishywashy, cattish, or hard-to-get I almost immediately start to lose interest. There's just no point pursuing a girl who won't make up her mind or wants to spin plates.

[@fruitybaby3332]

skipped this badly friend 5:26

[@AkiRa22084]

@@fruitybaby3332 That one is BS. And weight is partially genetic and just confirms bustavonnutz's point.

[@ShiroganeABA]

@@AkiRa22084 So of all the things he said in that section all you retained from it is the "weight" part?

[@AkiRa22084]

@@ShiroganeABA No, you misunderstand. All of the section is BS, but the weight one is not true even by his own standards.

[@fiat_ow7876]

True. Bad personalities become amplified and good if your attractive, and good personalities become amplified and bad if your ugly.

[@deadpersonisepic7618]

The videos are great bro your gonna be big for sure, keep working hard (:

[@this.science]

Thanks :)

[@sigataros]

I already give up

[@Just_google_404]

7:34 checkmate ✔️

[@citrus3719]

beauty video mate, was shocked at sub count when I saw ur dreaming video, keep it up and don’t listen to the people fretting over a spelling mistake

[@this.science]

Thanks :)

[@dondonnysson4973]

So genetics don't matter but also matter the most? Good video dude.

[@thepastarat]

you didn't listen very well did you?

[@c.mirashi]

More on this, this are life savers ofc they help me feel a little bit control over my life

[@huntergregory44]

bro this is absolutely genius thanks so much

[@giucas18]

Ok let me tell you something... it's the first time ever that, discovering a new channel from 0, I've gotten so involved. It's amazing how you put together such a well done channel in less than a month. Best of luck, you deserve all the success that will come.

[@Percival-kl9yy]

*I've red-flagged this video as BS designed to trick gullible people - as 30 seconds in, the video-poster lies about the reason nice guys finish last - the majority of women don't reject nice men and flock to abusive men that will knock their teeth out and/or kill them "because they make themselves more available" - that's BS and I am calling on all who read this to be cautioned that this video is a gaslighting attempt to trick you from knowing the real reason most women choose men the way they do.*

[@Percival-kl9yy]

*I've red-flagged this video as BS designed to trick gullible people - as 30 seconds in, the video-poster lies about the reason nice guys finish last - the majority of women don't reject nice men and flock to abusive men that will knock their teeth out and/or kill them "because they make themselves more available" - that's BS and I am calling on all who read this to be cautioned that this video is a gaslighting attempt to trick you from knowing the real reason most women choose men the way they do.*

[@Percival-kl9yy]

*I've red-flagged this video as BS designed to trick gullible people - as 30 seconds in, the video-poster lies about the reason nice guys finish last - the majority of women don't reject nice men and flock to abusive men that will knock their teeth out and/or kill them "because they make themselves more available" - that's BS and I am calling on all who read this to be cautioned that this video is a gaslighting attempt to trick you from knowing the real reason most women choose men the way they do.*

[@Monochromatification]

What about "the science of keeping a healthy relationship?" All these videos on breaking down the dating process are great for some, yet they mostly focus on the getting in process as though that's the bulk of the work and the rest of a relationship will just work itself out. It effectively turns the process into a game where the reward is that you "get" a girl and that somehow means you've won something. Yet hardly anyone thinks of what follows, and all the self work that needs to be done (on healing old wounds/bad communication patterns or taking on feedback without defensiveness or understanding personal responsibilities and negotiating to have everyone's needs met) to create a good relationship environment. I believe more men need lessons in how to be good partners than in how to succeed at initiating relationships while doing little work on themselves and their potential issues. But maybe that's material for another video.

[@this.science]

I think that’s also very important, arguably more important, I just decided to make this video because I’ve noticed a lot of my classmates who are generally good and handsome dudes be completely petrified to initiate and sort of interaction with girls they like, i figured a lot of guys probably feel the same way and that there’d probably be an audience for a video concept that could help build a little confidence. I definitely get your point, and i plan on doing many more videos on human interaction and will definitely try to integrate stuff like that :)

[@hanifsulistiyo3559]

exactly

[@christophewells3918]

This very much so. I agree with what you're saying. As a 32yr guy, I've seen it and lived it. It's horrible to see what happens to people when there isn't a mature understanding of how to be considerate, reciprocative, self-respecting and adaptable. You don't always get closure with relationships that wouldn't last either, but it would give so much awareness to both people in a relationship too if afterwards they could have a mature communication of what went wrong, what they liked and what they disliked about the relationship to better prepare both to not make the same mistakes in the next and see what they can improve themselves, not only for the next person but also for themselves. Not to mention it can build comradery rather than resentment between those who have been intimate with eachother.

[@mikemondano3624]

Yes, it's important to pretend convincingly that those other things matter, too. Acting is an oft-forgotten part of the needed skills. Sometimes, if you are good enough, you may even fool yourself.

[@gaberoyalll]

# 1 is simple its just focus on to talk less and in deep voice when u do but idk

[@Serjo777]

Damn dude, just one month ago you're happy about having 100 subs and now you're already at 290.000? And with only 9 videos on your channel? That's insane. Plus the video was pretty well-made too, aside from that one part where you tell people to just randomly say "Hi" and nothing else, that's kind of a weird thing to do ^^

[@luimahsmalsi]

Watching this even though knowing that it won't work just like the other yt videos I have watched and implemented irl.

[@johnpaul2402]

You deserve much more subscribers this got me laughing so hard😂

[@Luke_SkyWalker2187]

Dude I’m just binging your videos cause they’re so high quality. Dang man please keep going your stuff is so good!

[@Enjoyerofenjoyment]

This made me cry. Bravo!!

[@_Hasboa_]

Most helpful video ever made. Gonna use it for life

[@RiverHeights]

Can't believe you actually thought you would only have 500 subs by 2024. This channel is Gold

[@bee0_081]

I like this channel, it always proves its claims with studies and evidence and the videos don't bore me, it's actually entertaining to watch.

[@KorisnickoIme84]

I'm not scared of aproaching (maybe a little) but later down the line when they realize that I'm depressed and low on energy with no goals in life..

[@benjaminmontenegro3423]

Then don’t focus on partners brother, focus on finding that spark there is to life again

[@stopautoclick688]

needed something to listen to while doing ap chem homework at 11 at night

[@vanwagon]

Thank you for this, I'm so tired of all the incel ideology bs that's been thrown around in the self-help community about how men struggle with attracting women because of looks. It is definitely partially true that looks do matter, but I think a lot of men don't know that they're approaching dating wrong, and blame it on the beauty standards women have for men, instead of learning from their mistakes. This is one of the first videos I've seen that also really understands the problem with the approach of the "nice guy" archetype

[@nikobellic9140]

u dont know the reality

[@cattysplat]

It's basically the same thing red pill says, just politely.

[@dreamdesigns8514]

jfl at you. if you’re getting no girls it’s because of your looks and not because of muh personality and muh confidence. cope harder

[@dreamdesigns8514]

If you’re watching this video and thinking your dating life will change = it’s brutally over for you

[@Corvolet5]

On god, incel has turned into such a buzzword to use on men who have already been through enough.

[@ButchersNailsEnjoyer]

Back in my parents day it was literally just saying hi and you wanna get something to eat. Now there’s a whole science and playing 4D chess and pursue then pull away just to maybe get her number 💀

[@cattysplat]

Because there is an illusion of choice. People believe because they can send a message to Chad and Stacey on dating apps then they are worthy of more than their own status. People would rather be lonely and hoping for the impossible than settle for a mediocre reality.

[@bro918]

@@cattysplat Most men arent even getting matches, let alone with a 'stacey' lmao

[@TheOGRokma]

I like your videos, hope you'll get a million in 2 months

[@symbolz6369]

w video so much in only 7 minutes felt like I got a documentary analysis

[@cinephilia1252]

1: scarcity principle 2: Gain loss theory 3: Proximity 4: Ben Franklin effect (favors) 5: Discord Mod effect (look good man!) 6: Luck(pheromones (MHC) + Kiss good)

[@TheTruZadrot]

Ty for summary.

[@bro918]

7. Be tall

[@cinephilia1252]

@@bro918 factss

[@kelechi_77]

people in our generation will do anything but actually go outside and just talk to women

[@revolutioninc7081]

@@kelechi_77cuz it’s deemed creepy

[@cedric8872]

I can confirm with personal experience that the majority of this video is 100% accurate!

[@FloppaTheBased]

just be tall and handsome bro

[@justingibson1150]

60% of the time, it works every time.

[@youfuckinknowit]

@@justingibson1150 DAMMIT! You beat me to it. First thing that popped in my head when I read this comment. 👊🏽

[@aqiel509]

@@FloppaTheBased it began for confidenttheorymaxingcels

[@pianopanther9147]

KZbin has been recommending this for the past few weeks Maybe it's trying to tell me something

[@IsAnInstrument]

thanks for the free psychology lesson!

[@martinshoosterman]

I think the best take away here is to just try and make friends with women. First of all, the friend zone doesnt exist. Or atleast, not in the way people think it does. It is possible to become friends with a girl who isnt attracted to you. But that doesnt mean becoming friends with someone causes them to be unattracted to you. On the other hand, becoming friends has the benifits of both proximity and favours. (You will naturally ask favours from your friends). combine that with luck, pheremone compatibility, and generally taking care of yourself and you'll have a great relationship. And if it doesnt work, you have a good friend who can help you find someone else.

[@samedifferentuser3225]

Female confirmation: received👍👍

[@tommygertcher2747]

So you're saying girls aren't less attracted guys because they're too friendly?

[@samedifferentuser3225]

@tommygertcher2747 If I may, I think it depends on what kind of level of friendliness we're talking about. Just being nice is different from paying special attention to her. If you're only nice to her at first, it may make her jealous if she sees you suddenly being nice to other girls (if she has that kind of 'romantical' awareness around you). On the other hand, many girls love nothing more than receiving a special kind of attention from a male. To be precise, ask her about her feelings, opinions, and take her interests seriously. Note: There are some kinds of girls that are just not into nice guys, but those are mostly complicated ones. Please don't try to change your personality for these ones, I guarantee you, there are girls out there who will treasure you with all their heart for your kindness! Good luck ^^

[@martinshoosterman]

@@tommygertcher2747 I've never seen that be the case. What people don't realize, is girls who aren't attracted to them after they were nice to them, wouldn't be attracted to matter how they were treated.

[@grahambrown1980]

@@tommygertcher2747If you’re too friendly and appear fake about it, she’ll assume you just want to get inside of her. The million dollar question is how friendly is appropriate to the situation and any intel on a particular girl you may know anything about? 🤔😏🫠🤥😈

[@IridiumTurtle]

I have always tried to develop a friendship naturally, and therefore increase proximity. The smell thing is really a letdown, we can do better than animals who rely on pheromones. I've never understood the culture of pretending to hate them at first, why is that effective?

[@Blake-pn6xm]

Bro if she doesn’t like you forget about her and move on. Simple as that. Eventually you’ll find a good one.

[@brett103]

I love how the last thing literally says the things before it don’t matter compared into it lol

[@liamortolano]

I've watched and read plenty of things on how to pull. This was surprisingly the only one I've ever understood.

[@christophewells3918]

You are promoting some good healthy understanding, my friend. Keep up the good work.

[@Dslayer62]

I'd also recommend simply doing what you love in a crowded place. I became a karaoke regular at my local pub and after a couple months I started pulling girls (usually the semi-regulars) because I was a familiar face who was friendly and start conversation with everyone. I wasn't asking for their numbers, I was just happy to talk to someone between songs and make them feel welcome. What I realise I was doing is that I WAS making myself scarce. I didn't persue girls overtly because I wasn't there for girls. I was there for the karaoke and a good time.

[@DarkAioL1666]

My experience is similar. Do what you love in a social environment where you are at ease and confident. You become attractive instantly.

[@mcpartridgeboy]

that sort f worked for me in the gym, the only problem is when i did ask someone out who clearly liked me i was rejected, so you still have to have the pick up skills to time it right avd to know how to ask properly ! or she will still say no every time

[@maxjohnson8659]

Advice unclear, I was arrested for indecent exposure.

[@Dslayer62]

​@@mcpartridgeboy Don't let 1 rejection convince you it won't work.

[@claimingagate]

i had to be sat down by a few friends explaining that im single because im stuck in my own little world and forget to talk to people who im in the company of

[@dehanbadenhorst1398]

Ive been doing the 'hi' and walk away thing without realising lol. Explains a lot

[@STR1XMMM]

just be handsome

[@Mental_Abortion]

The shortest and correct answer to this video

[@cbussey4676]

not how it works chief

[@Forsica_]

@@cbussey4676it just makes everything easier

[@thepotatotaxi2430]

If that worked I'd have a gf I assure you. But maybe I just need a haircut

[@lucavalentim1917]

Not the only thing that matters, being handsome but having no game and being akward and wierd wont do shit. If you are mid/bad looking and have good game you have more chances

[@nategrenade8695]

An easy tip to get passed the MHC and pheromone smelling problem is by wearing excessive amounts of axe body spray, ever since I've started every girl I've seen has been too embarrassed to even talk (or look) at me!

[@themagiccookie2614]

This greatly helps the information crisis, finding our mates is serious milestone in our lifes and the fact guys don't study up on such an important event makes want to laugh in their face while their girl cheats on them with the guy at the foam cannon party.

[@pengufen6403]

By far the best and most comprehensive video on getting girls.

[@matttate920]

Excellent work!

[@this.science]

Thank you!

[@Gutians]

The proximity is the hardest when you’re out of college ..

[@YaBoiElyyyy]

This is like school. Learning something youll never use

[@mahirhossain4050]

I really appreciate this.