The Science Of Getting Girls

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This.

This.

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@ysuf3125
@ysuf3125 Жыл бұрын
Mf first explained bluetooth and now he is fixing my life goddamn
@Rops1423
@Rops1423 Жыл бұрын
Me too 😂
@Marween
@Marween Жыл бұрын
Gad damn right.
@angingis5922
@angingis5922 Жыл бұрын
Same jajaj
@alandeutsch9987
@alandeutsch9987 Жыл бұрын
i'm here for it
@dice4572
@dice4572 Жыл бұрын
fr
@quinjones4914
@quinjones4914 4 ай бұрын
i misclicked i swear
@78_FN
@78_FN 3 ай бұрын
CAPPPPP
@MiloDuch
@MiloDuch 3 ай бұрын
😂 Me too bro , i also misswatched the whole video
@Baris_of_sicily
@Baris_of_sicily 3 ай бұрын
​@@MiloDuchmy phone fell down and tied me to my bed to watch this stupid video, i swear
@RickityGrimes
@RickityGrimes 3 ай бұрын
I didnt misclick, but i wont be using anything he said, i just like knowing some of the facts he uses in his videos
@Abvideos481
@Abvideos481 3 ай бұрын
Let's just ignore that
@charalambosloizou6621
@charalambosloizou6621 6 ай бұрын
At this point learning quantum physics is easier than doing all this for a girl
@annabethchase4568
@annabethchase4568 6 ай бұрын
knowing quantum is actually very affective too
@TiagoWolf
@TiagoWolf 5 ай бұрын
Doing everything but simping for women's attention is better.
@orsonchankenzie5323
@orsonchankenzie5323 5 ай бұрын
What is photon
@xerxesyerika
@xerxesyerika 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@kczingx1992
@kczingx1992 4 ай бұрын
Big facts😂 be yourself
@grimmitachi
@grimmitachi Жыл бұрын
1. You are something to be pursued or lost forever(mindset) 2.Proximity 3.Ask for favors 4.Looksmax 5.Luck 6.Scent
@mariusskrupskis2042
@mariusskrupskis2042 Жыл бұрын
observe pupils, that's the most important part xD
@tesfayeheegstra733
@tesfayeheegstra733 Жыл бұрын
you forgot gain loss theory. Let her win u over
@thethe2279
@thethe2279 Жыл бұрын
Over for sub8 jfl. Just be chad honestly is the point of this video.
@alanxo1759
@alanxo1759 Жыл бұрын
looksmax 😭😭
@Dimebag-wx2rs
@Dimebag-wx2rs Жыл бұрын
​@@alanxo1759why laugh?
@aheendwhz1
@aheendwhz1 Жыл бұрын
The only advice you'll ever need: Don't overthink it and don't give too many fucks. Try to live a good life for yourself, and if you're confident about it, one day, someone might want you to share it (even if not, then you still had a good life for yourself). It's not the man's responsibility to manipulate every aspect of a situation only to "get" a girl. If she wants you and you want her, you'll find a way as long as you're both honest about it. Edit: I know myself that confidence doesn't grow on trees, and so doesn't the ability to express your emotions about someone (especially if it's attraction). I know from my own experience that if you don't feel comfortable about being attracted to someone, it might be uncomfortable for both of you, turning the other person off. So my point is, try to make the situation comfortable _for_ _yourself_ . If anxieties get in your way, seek for a therapy. I wasted too many years trying to optimise the way women would feel about me, but only when I stopped caring about that and started feeling comfortable with myself (after some years of therapy), I found my girlfriend and we hooked up.
@shariyarshajid
@shariyarshajid Жыл бұрын
completely agree with. Just working on ourselves will suffice.
@thethe2279
@thethe2279 Жыл бұрын
Someone isn’t the brightest bulb. It’s called just be tall and good looking. Not your bluepill cope
@Emilizier
@Emilizier Жыл бұрын
THISS!!!
@justonexone
@justonexone Жыл бұрын
@@thethe2279as a 5’7, i completely disagree. I can attract a lot, just gotta be confident and good looking. Being tall is just a +, not a must, and anyways girls that take it as a must genuinely turn me OFF
@Caschrono
@Caschrono Жыл бұрын
​@@thethe2279man... I don't know about you but I've seen some people that are physically 5/10 that have managed to pull 7+/10. Mind you, most of the ones I've seen are middle class. Let's say the relationship won't last long, but in the end, who tasted her? Definitely not you. But all that doesn't matter. If you have time to focus on these trivial things, then you're likely living an easy life.
@NeerajBohra-bb9uk
@NeerajBohra-bb9uk 6 күн бұрын
screw this, I read a book called charmflow secrets and learned what's real seduction
@Horzinicla
@Horzinicla 3 күн бұрын
Go sell your gay books elsewhere bot
@thc4825
@thc4825 Жыл бұрын
Me: "hi✋😃" then walks away Girl: "ok wtf"
@adampauling82
@adampauling82 Жыл бұрын
assuming you know them already.
@emanuelmaldoileacont8253
@emanuelmaldoileacont8253 Жыл бұрын
Nah,he say hi to strangers girls then walk away​@@adampauling82
@yeetboi268
@yeetboi268 Жыл бұрын
Have you tried being taller?
@AssassinIronMan
@AssassinIronMan Жыл бұрын
@@yeetboi268😂
@AssassinIronMan
@AssassinIronMan Жыл бұрын
Yeah I’ve never understood this tip lol
@1OfAKind-e9q
@1OfAKind-e9q 2 ай бұрын
The fact that nobody talks about forbidden books on Revandles is so crazy
@Subedi_Sujan
@Subedi_Sujan 2 ай бұрын
Zero comment, lol
@BeYourselff2
@BeYourselff2 2 ай бұрын
I checked this site because of this comment and bought a book, so far it's great thank you very much, I hope I will overcome my fear of women
@TheWealthWave-x5l
@TheWealthWave-x5l Ай бұрын
This website was a great find! I purchased a book that’s already making a positive impact on my mindset. Fingers crossed it helps me overcome my fear of approaching women.
@ianntmy
@ianntmy Ай бұрын
I think this is a bot
@BeYourselff2
@BeYourselff2 Ай бұрын
@@ianntmy I am not bot just want to help people what I find for my self
@TerrorFreak
@TerrorFreak Жыл бұрын
THIS content is really innovative, no flashy editting just pure knowledge and entertainment
@Bobjpeg-fo3tr
@Bobjpeg-fo3tr Жыл бұрын
We need more of this, learning not just entertainment
@josephmueller3752
@josephmueller3752 Жыл бұрын
it's what PUA used to preach for 2 decades before incels ruined them. Now that incel lingo (lookmaxing, mewing) has become mainstream this basic PUA content that was considered manipulative and unethical is surfacing back. Btw it's all BS
@IStMl
@IStMl Жыл бұрын
its what YT used to be 10-12 years ago
@billusher2265
@billusher2265 Жыл бұрын
@@josephmueller3752 they didn’t ruin them, puas got banned and shadow banned and blackpill and redpill filled the vacuum
@MysteryDoorStudio
@MysteryDoorStudio Жыл бұрын
Innovative? Bro, this is pick up artist 101. It's very good, but so obvious for a PUA. Social media censured this information in the last years
@travv88
@travv88 Жыл бұрын
"it has nothing to do with genetics" "now onto part 6. believe it or not it almost always comes down to genetics" lmao
@BlueFusion2910
@BlueFusion2910 11 ай бұрын
Normie gaslighting moment
@gaelr.s7123
@gaelr.s7123 11 ай бұрын
But le vvomen aren't superficial broooo just get 500 showers and a hair cut brooo
@ericxue3244
@ericxue3244 11 ай бұрын
He means it doesn't have to do with genetic trait which is visible
@travv88
@travv88 11 ай бұрын
It does though. It's not everything but it's not nothing.@@ericxue3244
@maheshkumar-sk1kc
@maheshkumar-sk1kc 10 ай бұрын
step 1 : say hi
@ItslagIswear
@ItslagIswear 10 ай бұрын
bro took overthinking it to a whole other level
@andrewdrewandy
@andrewdrewandy 9 ай бұрын
its so over
@Greatgoku4
@Greatgoku4 5 ай бұрын
Nah he knows. And broke it down to you. To some it comes naturally so they don't have to break things down empirically and understand why. But for many it's needed to understand. I've gotten more girls in my life especially my 30s than I can count or ever remember without being that attractive or very tall nor was I super popular. But I always kept my level and standards to a tee, never let myself down and was insanely strong mentally. Always stuck to my ways. I agree with almost every single point in this video coz I thought about it and my life. It really does come down to those few things. Of course money helps increase the sample size but even then there are plenty of losers with money who can't get any and have to rely on paid services. So to be with someone happily there are two ways. Either get lucky and live happily ever after while staying blissfully ignorant OR understand this world and yourself first. What you want, who you are and what's needed for your long term happiness. Each person differs during this assessment but once they understand themselves they'll know what they want. After that they need to understand what girls wants and is drawn to. Each girl is also different with their wants so find someone who wants those similar things and of course understand their partners inner workings as well. There's many layers to life. It's not something I can summarize like that. I don't know about your life so I can't comment on that but I'm glad this video may help a lot of dudes out there suffering who probably needed a hint or a direction to walk towards instead of giving up on themselves and life. I've seen too many cases
@tucky3580
@tucky3580 3 ай бұрын
@@Greatgoku4 Thats kinda rare but reading your thoughts/opinion made me think about stuff and helped me motivating myself to try out different things for example getting out of comfort zone. I must say thanks to you!
@Greatgoku4
@Greatgoku4 3 ай бұрын
@@tucky3580 cheers brother
@Greatgoku4
@Greatgoku4 3 ай бұрын
@@tucky3580 cheers brother
@ThaitinhThaitinh
@ThaitinhThaitinh Ай бұрын
It’s surprising how people are only scratching the surface and don’t take the time to read Flirtosphere Seduction. Go out of the rabbit hole guys
@luks1207
@luks1207 10 ай бұрын
Got it, stalk her, but take a shower first and look confident while doing it
@jamiemb17
@jamiemb17 10 ай бұрын
Exactly
@kavolic
@kavolic 10 ай бұрын
be nonchalant and mysterious too thats mandatory!
@ItsVasl
@ItsVasl 9 ай бұрын
every indian man's misconception ever
@sambhavsongara3087
@sambhavsongara3087 8 ай бұрын
officer this one right here officer: dont forget to put 200 dollar clognes
@mezenes9120
@mezenes9120 8 ай бұрын
Correct
@SwornSon
@SwornSon Жыл бұрын
I once disassembled and reassembled the entire engine bay of an abandoned car and had it run smoothly afterwards only with common sense, Reddit discussions, and KZbin videos and I guarantee that was far easier than this.
@cattysplat
@cattysplat Жыл бұрын
My dad was an ugly, annoying, shy dork. He got a higher education with a well paid respected job. Girls were throwing themselves at him. My dad is still this guy today, he never had to try, they came to him.
@SwornSon
@SwornSon Жыл бұрын
@@cattysplat Must be nice
@azaanhussain1724
@azaanhussain1724 11 ай бұрын
@@cattysplathow can someone be annoying and shy
@ros3m4ries
@ros3m4ries 11 ай бұрын
​@@azaanhussain1724by being awkwars my guy
@mcpartridgeboy
@mcpartridgeboy 11 ай бұрын
Yep, very good amature chess pplayer here, can confirm for me that beating some profesional masters at chess is much MUCH easier than getting a date, and i have evry advantage in the book, im very good looking and still cant get even a date !
@alexr1632
@alexr1632 Жыл бұрын
I genuinely think the important part of this process is just being happy and content with yourself. nothing is more pleasant to anyone than a person who is happy, easygoing, and fun to be around. doing this weird bullshit of trying to manipulate the situation to make someone more attracted to you just makes you a pickup artist. you're not going to 'get a girl', you're gonna make yourself nervous and anxious with trying to follow all the steps. just be happy and things will work out.
@omkarthorat9651
@omkarthorat9651 Жыл бұрын
Noo but i can confirm this actually works. I've followed these steps and it worked. While i agree with u on the points u made but no if u r very clear in mind what u have to follow u can actually breakthrough the nervousness which is what we call confidence
@Nihilist_Waltz
@Nihilist_Waltz Жыл бұрын
Cope
@NJ-lu6wu
@NJ-lu6wu Жыл бұрын
This stuff works I’ve done all the stuff in this video (not on purpose), and I ended up getting the girl even though all the other guys in the group were the ones chasing. Girls want a guy that’s somewhat “unattainable”, you need to put yourself in her reach but not so easily so it’ll pique her curiosity and attraction. For my situation I was just so focused on my business and career that even though I thought she was cute I just didn’t prioritize her.
@ARINOXMUSIC
@ARINOXMUSIC Жыл бұрын
No its not you can only hold a facàde for so long before they catch your bullshit ​@Nihilist_Waltz
@reirei6292
@reirei6292 Жыл бұрын
This is true being comfortable in your own skin will make you express yourself more easily and will make not only getting a girlfriend but approaching anyone very straightforward and easy.
@gardenmi4850
@gardenmi4850 2 ай бұрын
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Flirtosphere Seduction on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
@TheStoicBeacon-TGG
@TheStoicBeacon-TGG 2 ай бұрын
It’s interesting you mentioned that; sometimes the most thought-provoking ideas remain in the shadows, either because they’re too controversial or overlooked. What about Flirtosphere Seduction stood out to you the most? Do you think its principles align with or challenge what this video is discussing?
@jydogen
@jydogen 2 ай бұрын
@@TheStoicBeacon-TGG are you a bot?
@ethanbrunt7755
@ethanbrunt7755 9 ай бұрын
Limiting your attention to a women is amazing advice and also reward a woman’s compliance (when she actually has to move to do something to or for you)
@The_sword_God
@The_sword_God 3 ай бұрын
Damn I hope this could work with guys too
@TheStoicBeacon-TGG
@TheStoicBeacon-TGG 2 ай бұрын
I agree that focusing your attention is key, but I think it’s also important to approach relationships with mutual respect and understanding. Rewarding someone’s effort is great, but what do you think about the balance between giving and receiving in relationships? How do you ensure both sides feel valued and respected?
@monticellidavi
@monticellidavi 11 ай бұрын
Lesson 5: looksmaxx now.
@whavfx
@whavfx 10 ай бұрын
@theorb519 Priority number 2: Realize you dont have perfect genes and surgerymaxx
@NutsDerk1
@NutsDerk1 9 ай бұрын
Tip 4: Edge in class EVERY day.
@Saujas
@Saujas 9 ай бұрын
Brooo whatt? ​@@NutsDerk1
@fuzzypanda1684
@fuzzypanda1684 9 ай бұрын
You should do it for yourself, but it won't make nearly as much difference with girls as you think it will.
@monclerpaint
@monclerpaint 9 ай бұрын
5 years too late nephew
@lucky81970
@lucky81970 Жыл бұрын
This shit is better than anything any so called "dating coach/expert" has ever put out.
@mateossr
@mateossr Жыл бұрын
Just look good bro
@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226
@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226 Жыл бұрын
BODY GAME And natural masculinity.
@mateossr
@mateossr Жыл бұрын
@@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226 nö
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased Жыл бұрын
​@@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226heightfidence and faceonality
@-SimonRiley
@-SimonRiley Жыл бұрын
​@@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226 what's natural masculinity? Besides “just be a leader bro” “just take decisions bro”
@John_Headon
@John_Headon 3 ай бұрын
If you're attractive, it's flirting. If you're ugly, it's harrassment.
@Peanutty1230
@Peanutty1230 3 ай бұрын
Fr
@poultry1019
@poultry1019 3 ай бұрын
Ong
@aaronfaganstarr3942
@aaronfaganstarr3942 2 ай бұрын
Pretty sure it's all harassment unless she's given you indications she wants to be flirted with.
@abeycee7427
@abeycee7427 2 ай бұрын
complain complain
@kateezzi
@kateezzi Ай бұрын
As a girl, if you do it correctly and are ugly we don't care we go low
@willrouton
@willrouton Жыл бұрын
If you're watching this, it's too late
@prakhargupta3949
@prakhargupta3949 Жыл бұрын
It never began...
@rawnessonthemax
@rawnessonthemax Жыл бұрын
@@prakhargupta3949it never began with that name
@Razor-gx2dq
@Razor-gx2dq Жыл бұрын
You are assuming that we ever had the chance
@mrjuicejunior
@mrjuicejunior 11 ай бұрын
no way it's drake
@maartenswiggers6674
@maartenswiggers6674 10 ай бұрын
Dont have to do me like that
@SolepsusYT
@SolepsusYT Жыл бұрын
so 1. be friendly say hi when you pass by (try to increase proximity; better if u dont be creepy + next step) 2. present yourself as someone who takes care of themselves (posture, hair, clothing, skincare, looksmaxxing in general) 3. do favors for her and ask them for favors (also gives you chances to interact) - post dating 4. good first kiss (practice kissing on your closest bros, its not gay i swear)
@JDub3799
@JDub3799 Жыл бұрын
instructions unclear, in a love triangle with the bro now
@xerxes4real
@xerxes4real Жыл бұрын
​@@JDub3799At least you found your passion!
@exquiilz
@exquiilz Жыл бұрын
brainrot
@pasalasaga
@pasalasaga Жыл бұрын
Now being serious. You can practice kissing with your hand. Put It like a fist, and then do that.
@skimsakj642
@skimsakj642 Жыл бұрын
5. Stop playing Roblox and finish public school
@nicom9476
@nicom9476 Жыл бұрын
The way your incorporating actual psychological evidence from experiments done in each of your points is so original and makes the video so much better. Please upload more psychology videos like this where you go in depth into the why and how. I love these types of videos. and your editing is onpoint!!
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp 11 ай бұрын
they date up by default. read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper
@spacecooqie6873
@spacecooqie6873 11 ай бұрын
They aren't tho, lol. They are citing single studies without any context or lit review, which is useless and unscientific. Additionally, the studies they are citing are out of date and all of their claim aren't supported by a big part of the literature. For example, we don't know if there are any sexual pheromones in humans.
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp 11 ай бұрын
yeah most psychology is BS. but brain scans show each gender is different + hardwired behaviour @@spacecooqie6873
@thedark_lord514
@thedark_lord514 5 ай бұрын
If we're watching this, it js means that we're cooked
@jvoges
@jvoges 5 ай бұрын
someday man someday
@austen9748
@austen9748 5 ай бұрын
​@@jvogessomeday 😢
@anderstermansen130
@anderstermansen130 5 ай бұрын
cooked as in cooked on a stove?
@player_566-1
@player_566-1 4 ай бұрын
you have already lost if you are watching it, just give up
@jvoges
@jvoges 4 ай бұрын
@@player_566-1 NEVER BACK DOWN NEVER WHAT
@PrasaiNischal
@PrasaiNischal 10 ай бұрын
Don't chase the butterflies instead build a beautiful garden. They will come to you themself.
@pantsnjacket381
@pantsnjacket381 8 ай бұрын
Underrated comment! So truthful.
@Never_GamePlayZ
@Never_GamePlayZ 8 ай бұрын
how the fuck do I build a garden.
@1___________________1-n6i
@1___________________1-n6i 8 ай бұрын
@@Never_GamePlayZ garden = wealth
@bobby.2
@bobby.2 6 ай бұрын
​@macdonald2kI know you are joking(at least hope so), but I want you to know I had a great laugh. Thank you!
@yashaswikulshreshtha1588
@yashaswikulshreshtha1588 6 ай бұрын
Exactly, forget the video. Be a high value person, wiser, intelligent
@master-oh6zn
@master-oh6zn Жыл бұрын
Steps -don't give them attention -see them often -make them think you don't like them -make them think you started liking them -make them do favors for you -have luck -have kissing skill
@PushYourEdge
@PushYourEdge Жыл бұрын
the first two sound paradoxical but just for clarification, don’t give them excessive attention outside of physically seeing them: don’t text them all day, don’t watch every single one of their stories, limit your non-sexual attention as much as possible.
@alexm.6533
@alexm.6533 Жыл бұрын
These only work if you’re physically attractive
@kayakoubenier
@kayakoubenier Жыл бұрын
Steps -Be tall and handsome -Be not severly mentally ill
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased Жыл бұрын
-be tall -have attractive facial features
@alexm.6533
@alexm.6533 Жыл бұрын
@@FloppaTheBased I’m tall but I ain’t got the attractive facial features
@guilokoh9971
@guilokoh9971 Жыл бұрын
How to get girls 101: Step 1: Be attractive Step 2: Be attractive Step 3: Be attractive Step 4: Be attractive Step 5: Be attractive Step 6: Be attractive Step 7: Be attractive Step 8: Be attractive Step 9: Be attractive Step 10: Be yourself
@LevSeven_
@LevSeven_ Жыл бұрын
you missed about half of the video mate
@Julia3455-r5l
@Julia3455-r5l Жыл бұрын
I want a man who looks like 90s Tom Cruise. 😂
@richardparsley2538
@richardparsley2538 Жыл бұрын
Step 1: buy white van Step 2:
@FoodIsGood753
@FoodIsGood753 Жыл бұрын
@@richardparsley2538 naaaaaahhhhh we getting crazy with this one
@nicelypenn
@nicelypenn Жыл бұрын
Blackpilled.
@lAMLlAR
@lAMLlAR 8 ай бұрын
dude this channel is probably one of my favorites ever I remember when you have a couple thousand or whatever glad to see you got the recognition the channel deserved
@Brother_In_Christ
@Brother_In_Christ Жыл бұрын
Don't worry guys. I've just looked into MHC molecules and apparently, a man with dissimilar MHC molecules just smells nicer to women, that's it. And that nicer smell might help with attraction. However, a less nice smell is not going to stop a woman from being attracted to you. Worrying about such things and being in your head instead of being present will make you less attractive.
@aheendwhz1
@aheendwhz1 Жыл бұрын
I think especially the kissing thing at the end of the vid will make you less attractive. How are you going to have a "good first kiss" when you have to worry that the kiss might ruin everything? Also, that's bullshit. Most first kisses are bad as how are they going to be good if you don't even know each other.
@Jwellsuhhuh
@Jwellsuhhuh Жыл бұрын
The MHC thing is negligible, if not completely BS. Wedekind, zhou, and other pheromone studies have failed to be consistently replicated, and are extremely artificial in nature. The density of pheromones in the cloves mixture (zhou) or in the tshirts (wedekind) is absurdly high compared to someone’s ambient scent when standing right next to them. And that’s assuming no extraneous factors like BO. Hint: the slightest presence of antiperspirant, deo, or bacteria eating sweat will immediately mask whatever pheromones are being excreted.
@waltervelasquezgwt
@waltervelasquezgwt Жыл бұрын
MHC ? Use a good perfume, works great. !
@zafuro
@zafuro Жыл бұрын
@@aheendwhz1holy cope chad instatly melts any girl away when he kisses them
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp 11 ай бұрын
they date up by default. read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper
@Afrologist
@Afrologist Жыл бұрын
Only two rules to dating: 1) Be attractive 2) Don't be unattractive Simple as. Attraction is non-negotiable, so honestly every other strat is just minmaxing. When I like a girl & she likes me back there is minimal guesswork & everything just flows. That's why when a girl starts acting wishywashy, cattish, or hard-to-get I almost immediately start to lose interest. There's just no point pursuing a girl who won't make up her mind or wants to spin plates.
@exuvie1
@exuvie1 Жыл бұрын
skipped this badly friend 5:26
@AkiRa22084
@AkiRa22084 Жыл бұрын
@@exuvie1 That one is BS. And weight is partially genetic and just confirms bustavonnutz's point.
@ShiroganeABA
@ShiroganeABA Жыл бұрын
@@AkiRa22084 So of all the things he said in that section all you retained from it is the "weight" part?
@AkiRa22084
@AkiRa22084 Жыл бұрын
@@ShiroganeABA No, you misunderstand. All of the section is BS, but the weight one is not true even by his own standards.
@fiat_ow7876
@fiat_ow7876 Жыл бұрын
True. Bad personalities become amplified and good if your attractive, and good personalities become amplified and bad if your ugly.
@M_Ak332
@M_Ak332 4 ай бұрын
We’re so cooked
@Stayedreal
@Stayedreal 4 ай бұрын
Brother put the phone down and talk to girls (I don’t)
@greenland_shark_2009
@greenland_shark_2009 3 ай бұрын
bro as a lesbian i'm not sure half of these will work but I'm gonna try anyways
@gambasfritasconcorbata5936
@gambasfritasconcorbata5936 Ай бұрын
Omg no way you too? I sure fricking hope I learn something here
@arnavjain.
@arnavjain. 3 ай бұрын
you know its bad when you end up here
@arshya289
@arshya289 3 ай бұрын
Fr
@dylanj777
@dylanj777 2 ай бұрын
Im just tryna watch bro😭
@Thatshirtguy-g2d
@Thatshirtguy-g2d 2 ай бұрын
Real
@Nezalez
@Nezalez Ай бұрын
It's def the other way around.
@IsadoraVega-d2l
@IsadoraVega-d2l 24 күн бұрын
[new to you] 😭
@Taj-Frei
@Taj-Frei Жыл бұрын
pro tip: be attractive
@AssassinIronMan
@AssassinIronMan Жыл бұрын
Or get plastic surgery lol
@_Devansh.Dixit_
@_Devansh.Dixit_ Жыл бұрын
​@@AssassinIronMan that I will do i.e septoplasty I have very deviated nasal passage(if you know you know )
@AssassinIronMan
@AssassinIronMan Жыл бұрын
@@_Devansh.Dixit_ I don’t know 💪🗿
@_Devansh.Dixit_
@_Devansh.Dixit_ Жыл бұрын
@@AssassinIronMan then use chrome to get it known rather then using it for something else 🗿
@AssassinIronMan
@AssassinIronMan Жыл бұрын
@@_Devansh.Dixit_ I’m better off not caring 😎
@gabrielnobrev
@gabrielnobrev Жыл бұрын
Confidence is a huge factor too. If you're afraid of talking to women or afraid of rejection, a good way to solve this problem is by practicing exposure to your fears. Go talk to random women in public (not in a creepy way, of course). Choose appropriate places to talk, and appropriate situations, for example, when you go to a party with a lot people you don't know, or a big event.
@seventhkeyomegasghost8233
@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 Жыл бұрын
lmao "Just be confident, bro!!!!'
@dreamdesigns8514
@dreamdesigns8514 Жыл бұрын
no confidence for a recessed face
@dynamicflashy
@dynamicflashy Жыл бұрын
“Choose appropriate places and situations”. Knowing which are appropriate is the issue.
@dylanm3181
@dylanm3181 Жыл бұрын
A good way to practice is to sometimes chat up retail associates or someone waiting on a line to get into a venue. This happens all the time in big cities. And who knows? That same person you chatted up may then decide to want to add you on Instagram or get your contact Edit: notice how I didn't mention anything romantic? The more natural you are, the more people will relax around you
@seventhkeyomegasghost8233
@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 Жыл бұрын
@@dylanm3181 you watch too many movies, son.
@Maxecute
@Maxecute Жыл бұрын
I dont just wanna get girls. Exspecially not through psychological manipulation and playing games. All I want is to find a good partner with just being myself. Is that possible?
@hothdog
@hothdog Жыл бұрын
why yes, it is.
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased Жыл бұрын
if you need "game" and tricking women into liking you it's already over. None of the people in relationships did this cringe, it all happens naturally. If it doesn't happen to you then be luckier in the looks department next time.
@thefinalroman
@thefinalroman Жыл бұрын
Beta
@americandream9473
@americandream9473 Жыл бұрын
​@@FloppaTheBasedin next life😂😂😂
@rando4998
@rando4998 Жыл бұрын
Find your purpose in life. However, your purpose shouldn’t be simping for women. Thus, when you find your purpose you are dialed in. So, whether women like you or not you are happy since your purpose gives you meaning in life.
@ReaperGoji
@ReaperGoji 2 ай бұрын
You know your cooked if you didn’t even search this up.
@dgxkeyboards4535
@dgxkeyboards4535 Ай бұрын
Never to late to love.
@IsadoraVega-d2l
@IsadoraVega-d2l 24 күн бұрын
😭💔
@cinephilia1252
@cinephilia1252 Жыл бұрын
1: scarcity principle 2: Gain loss theory 3: Proximity 4: Ben Franklin effect (favors) 5: Discord Mod effect (look good man!) 6: Luck(pheromones (MHC) + Kiss good)
@TheTruZadrot
@TheTruZadrot Жыл бұрын
Ty for summary.
@bro918
@bro918 Жыл бұрын
7. Be tall
@cinephilia1252
@cinephilia1252 Жыл бұрын
@@bro918 factss
@kelechi_77
@kelechi_77 Жыл бұрын
people in our generation will do anything but actually go outside and just talk to women
@revolutioninc7081
@revolutioninc7081 Жыл бұрын
@@kelechi_77cuz it’s deemed creepy
@YaBoiElyyyy
@YaBoiElyyyy Жыл бұрын
This is like school. Learning something youll never use
@DaveRobert-cd3mo
@DaveRobert-cd3mo 7 ай бұрын
guys, as a a married man with 3 kids the best advice i could possibly give is to honestly just be yourself
@thelawyer95
@thelawyer95 6 ай бұрын
So be average looking and only 5'9? I already did that for 29 years. Isn't working.
@LifeStyleMaxxing
@LifeStyleMaxxing 6 ай бұрын
Married guy why are you watching this 😂
@biggay
@biggay 6 ай бұрын
​@@thelawyer95 man 5.9 is like 177 centimeters right? u seem quite high to me..
@kevizzotheone
@kevizzotheone 6 ай бұрын
Asking the right questions 😂😂​@@LifeStyleMaxxing
@henrymcdaid6507
@henrymcdaid6507 5 ай бұрын
I don’t like myself but hopefully someone will😅
@Empyreanis
@Empyreanis Жыл бұрын
I like how the video is presented in an informative but casual manner. Like a friend giving you advice. Videos with titles similar to this are usually presented in a manner like a sergeant briefing his soldiers before going to war lmao.
@celinritter1385
@celinritter1385 Жыл бұрын
The only thing that is inaccurate is that at a party there are groups of guys surrounding a girl, if that is so these are likely her friends and to say hi and walk a way is a bit wierd. Say hi to her when shes relatively alone and u can have a conversation with her and let a friend yell out ur name so u have to go. NOOO pick up lines !!!!! But if u stared a conversation already and she dosent seem uncomfortable and happy to talk to u just talk to her like a normal human being would and ask her some questions about her that she feels comfortable answering. Ask for insta not her number girls are more comfortable giving guys her insta. Im from germany please excuse the mistakes. Dont follow her around all evening like i said find an excuse and go
@this.science
@this.science Жыл бұрын
This is amazing advice
@christophewells3918
@christophewells3918 Жыл бұрын
Really solid respectable advice. Thank you, friend.
@Jorge-np3tq
@Jorge-np3tq Жыл бұрын
"Like a normal human being" means nothing. Your boss, your mom and your friends are all human beings and you treat each in different ways. If you just focus on making her comfortable the fz is your fate and you deserve it. Insta can be gotten earlier than number but is way weaker as a lead. If you get her number it's to arrange a date and continue, if you get her insta you're just another follower to make number bigger and feed her ego. Look at naturals. See what they do and learn from them. Most people have some friends who are naturals. Go with them and don't cringe or get jealous, just learn. See how they tease the girl, joke around with her, act like the prize, ignore her tests, escalate...they do everything instinctively. Are you here to have polite conversations or to give women an attractive man that they'll actually want to have sex with? Women hate nice guys who think just doing the bare minimum will get them into their pants because they were so friendly and polite. You want something, actually build attraction.
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 Жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJmTmZ1vj6lsfLssi=cwwc6iXY1eTClvl3
@giftzwerg7345
@giftzwerg7345 Жыл бұрын
I disagree on insta, most people arnt active or care.
@dondonnysson4973
@dondonnysson4973 Жыл бұрын
So genetics don't matter but also matter the most? Good video dude.
@thepastarat
@thepastarat 10 ай бұрын
you didn't listen very well did you?
@user-vx3wc8yc9v
@user-vx3wc8yc9v 5 ай бұрын
@@thepastarat He still described genetic traits but just worded them as if they aren't lol.
@atropin3502
@atropin3502 8 ай бұрын
How to get girls: 1. Be attractive 2. Be rich 3. Don't be unattractive or poor
@kevlarplays8451
@kevlarplays8451 7 ай бұрын
Bud, with that mindset. You will not get girls, trust me.
@giucas18
@giucas18 Жыл бұрын
Ok let me tell you something... it's the first time ever that, discovering a new channel from 0, I've gotten so involved. It's amazing how you put together such a well done channel in less than a month. Best of luck, you deserve all the success that will come.
@Percival-kl9yy
@Percival-kl9yy Жыл бұрын
*I've red-flagged this video as BS designed to trick gullible people - as 30 seconds in, the video-poster lies about the reason nice guys finish last - the majority of women don't reject nice men and flock to abusive men that will knock their teeth out and/or kill them "because they make themselves more available" - that's BS and I am calling on all who read this to be cautioned that this video is a gaslighting attempt to trick you from knowing the real reason most women choose men the way they do.*
@Percival-kl9yy
@Percival-kl9yy Жыл бұрын
*I've red-flagged this video as BS designed to trick gullible people - as 30 seconds in, the video-poster lies about the reason nice guys finish last - the majority of women don't reject nice men and flock to abusive men that will knock their teeth out and/or kill them "because they make themselves more available" - that's BS and I am calling on all who read this to be cautioned that this video is a gaslighting attempt to trick you from knowing the real reason most women choose men the way they do.*
@Percival-kl9yy
@Percival-kl9yy Жыл бұрын
*I've red-flagged this video as BS designed to trick gullible people - as 30 seconds in, the video-poster lies about the reason nice guys finish last - the majority of women don't reject nice men and flock to abusive men that will knock their teeth out and/or kill them "because they make themselves more available" - that's BS and I am calling on all who read this to be cautioned that this video is a gaslighting attempt to trick you from knowing the real reason most women choose men the way they do.*
@TheOutlierToday
@TheOutlierToday Жыл бұрын
Dating is just a game, isn't it? I'm not playing.
@Blurro
@Blurro Жыл бұрын
Playing these dumb games is unfortunately how you have to go. What's your alternative? Because eventually if you do meet a woman you consider your perfect match, intelligent and all, chances are she's still likely playing the game and you'll be disqualified real quick. There isn't really a winning move where you 'break' the game, like make her aware of it and she realises "wow that game is silly, and you're so smart, I'll date you!" that aint gonna happen. Only guys get real nerdy over this shit and recognise it as a game anyway, and you keep that to yourself
@cattysplat
@cattysplat Жыл бұрын
@@Blurro If you think this is bad, women having even more insane rationalisations to what they do.
@bro918
@bro918 Жыл бұрын
@@Blurro The only winning move here is to simply wait a decade or two for AI/Robotics to get good enough and then just buy a robot GF
@lekhajiitjzargo2437
@lekhajiitjzargo2437 Жыл бұрын
@@bro918 Exactly + curing aging for playing longer and more choices in life.
@TON-vz3pe
@TON-vz3pe 11 ай бұрын
​@@BlurroIt aint worth it. Relationships, Sex are way too overrated. I am glad to be single than to play all these shitty games.
@Shome2049
@Shome2049 Жыл бұрын
1. Have good genes. Height is most important. 2. Be Rich. 3. Be fake and mean.
@piggysew797
@piggysew797 Жыл бұрын
Pretty much, although you can simplify it into one step 1. Choose good parents
@c0nvict_pleb174
@c0nvict_pleb174 4 ай бұрын
God, not it doesn’t none of those are not what is needed to get a partner?
@1helderpinto
@1helderpinto 3 ай бұрын
☝️🤣🤣Step one: Don’t be unattractive
@rishi057
@rishi057 Күн бұрын
this is by far the greatest and the best video on this topic on youtube
@Monochromatification
@Monochromatification Жыл бұрын
What about "the science of keeping a healthy relationship?" All these videos on breaking down the dating process are great for some, yet they mostly focus on the getting in process as though that's the bulk of the work and the rest of a relationship will just work itself out. It effectively turns the process into a game where the reward is that you "get" a girl and that somehow means you've won something. Yet hardly anyone thinks of what follows, and all the self work that needs to be done (on healing old wounds/bad communication patterns or taking on feedback without defensiveness or understanding personal responsibilities and negotiating to have everyone's needs met) to create a good relationship environment. I believe more men need lessons in how to be good partners than in how to succeed at initiating relationships while doing little work on themselves and their potential issues. But maybe that's material for another video.
@this.science
@this.science Жыл бұрын
I think that’s also very important, arguably more important, I just decided to make this video because I’ve noticed a lot of my classmates who are generally good and handsome dudes be completely petrified to initiate and sort of interaction with girls they like, i figured a lot of guys probably feel the same way and that there’d probably be an audience for a video concept that could help build a little confidence. I definitely get your point, and i plan on doing many more videos on human interaction and will definitely try to integrate stuff like that :)
@hanifsulistiyo3559
@hanifsulistiyo3559 Жыл бұрын
exactly
@christophewells3918
@christophewells3918 Жыл бұрын
This very much so. I agree with what you're saying. As a 32yr guy, I've seen it and lived it. It's horrible to see what happens to people when there isn't a mature understanding of how to be considerate, reciprocative, self-respecting and adaptable. You don't always get closure with relationships that wouldn't last either, but it would give so much awareness to both people in a relationship too if afterwards they could have a mature communication of what went wrong, what they liked and what they disliked about the relationship to better prepare both to not make the same mistakes in the next and see what they can improve themselves, not only for the next person but also for themselves. Not to mention it can build comradery rather than resentment between those who have been intimate with eachother.
@mikemondano3624
@mikemondano3624 Жыл бұрын
Yes, it's important to pretend convincingly that those other things matter, too. Acting is an oft-forgotten part of the needed skills. Sometimes, if you are good enough, you may even fool yourself.
@gaberoyalll
@gaberoyalll Жыл бұрын
# 1 is simple its just focus on to talk less and in deep voice when u do but idk
@TactiBEAR
@TactiBEAR 10 ай бұрын
this is the one video that is guaranteed to have 100% retention
@juancruzlives
@juancruzlives Жыл бұрын
very great video. taking away the over-seriousness and making the format funnier really helps you enjoy more the learning process
@rolexus7061
@rolexus7061 6 ай бұрын
Is it patched yet?
@SpaceX-1
@SpaceX-1 5 ай бұрын
next update
@smurf88
@smurf88 5 ай бұрын
They’re bundling the patch with Half-Life 3.
@necronicles
@necronicles 5 ай бұрын
Not yet, but it does have a high skill ceiling.
@sh.walker
@sh.walker 5 ай бұрын
​@@necronicles Not getting girls was a skill issue at the start....i hate these devs
@Popcornisawesome
@Popcornisawesome 5 ай бұрын
They nerfed it many many times but if you are skilled you can still make it work
@WeristRiCK
@WeristRiCK Жыл бұрын
I can confirm with personal experience that the majority of this video is 100% accurate!
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased Жыл бұрын
just be tall and handsome bro
@justingibson1150
@justingibson1150 Жыл бұрын
60% of the time, it works every time.
@youfuckinknowit
@youfuckinknowit Жыл бұрын
@@justingibson1150 DAMMIT! You beat me to it. First thing that popped in my head when I read this comment. 👊🏽
@aqiel509
@aqiel509 11 ай бұрын
@@FloppaTheBased it began for confidenttheorymaxingcels
@xuchilbara21392
@xuchilbara21392 Жыл бұрын
"the most attractive feature is NOT genetic" - yeah please tell that to a 5'3'' balding guy with bad physiology thanks to genetics. Just because on average, not many of us will experience such a fate, it does NOT mean that genetics does not play a role
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased Жыл бұрын
tell that to any average guy basically. Average dude today is not really different from 5'3 balding dude for women, they're all ugly.
@DumplingDoodle
@DumplingDoodle Жыл бұрын
well clearly you don't have the right attitude either, which isn't doing you any favors. not saying you're wrong, just that you're only making it worse by giving your insecurities power.
@treymiddleton
@treymiddleton Жыл бұрын
It’s really not bro I see short men all the time get hotties. I’m 5’9 so average height but it’s really about your personality and charisma
@LOLxUnique
@LOLxUnique Жыл бұрын
i know a balding guy punching way above his weight. he works out, smells nice and is super confident. people dont care about your bald look
@xuchilbara21392
@xuchilbara21392 Жыл бұрын
@@LOLxUnique is he also 5'3?
@Lo-to7zh
@Lo-to7zh Жыл бұрын
Bullshit the most attractive feature are genetics, height and face
@Fourtune1
@Fourtune1 Жыл бұрын
This. It’s not complicated. This video would’ve been useful in the 90s and before but not after.
@MaxJusth
@MaxJusth 3 ай бұрын
​@Fourtune1 And why do you think that is? Precisely because people have more access to videos claiming to explain the "nature" of women or men, when socially we are so varied and complex. Instead of accepting that, we focus on supposed rigid rules that apply to all women, many of which are not inherently biological but are partly socially shaped. We end up distorting our own reality, and not for the better, which is why we're doing worse and worse in relationships and dating. We have a very misguided view of men and women because we’re constantly trying to rely on biology alone and believe we have to act in a certain way to get what we want. If you went out and discovered how different reality is from what’s often portrayed on the Internet, you’d realize that there are women who value things beyond superficial characteristics.
@jankompos2330
@jankompos2330 3 ай бұрын
you forgot inteligence aka brains
@ychng.
@ychng. 3 ай бұрын
everyone watching this video is cooked😭😭
@HoussemBekh
@HoussemBekh 3 ай бұрын
I'm not
@Vinit_Gambhir
@Vinit_Gambhir 3 ай бұрын
cooked means?
@ychng.
@ychng. 3 ай бұрын
@@HoussemBekh yuh tell yourself that
@jankompos2330
@jankompos2330 3 ай бұрын
i believe the term is called a sucker
@vishalpazzo
@vishalpazzo 8 ай бұрын
i was surfing on the internet for my research work on streaming platforms the KZbin suggested me this channel and i found it is really an engaging channel with good quality of content in it, I appreciate the knowledge you are transferring to the public in such a humorous way. i am enjoying all your videos more than a comedy show or a serious science show, but its a combination of both. Thankyou for making such an amazing, entertaining and educational content sir.
@rushbso8920
@rushbso8920 8 ай бұрын
while youre here, dont take everything here with such fact. its mostly entertainment
@beckett746
@beckett746 Жыл бұрын
This is probably one of the best videos I've ever seen on this topic, and brought up a lot of things I have never seen anywhere else that make a lot of sense and seem pretty valid. Hugely underrated
@TheStoicBeacon-TGG
@TheStoicBeacon-TGG 2 ай бұрын
I completely agree! It’s refreshing to see such unique insights that go beyond the typical advice. What do you think is the most valuable takeaway from this video that could really change someone’s approach?
@hassanmash07
@hassanmash07 Жыл бұрын
This. is amazing! You just earned subscriber. I started with one of the video, now I am in depression that you have only 8 videos in total! This. is not acceptable...
@Sunil-ne8mx
@Sunil-ne8mx 3 ай бұрын
I have better chance of studying rocket science and building a spaceship in my garage than understanding this. LOL
@martinshoosterman
@martinshoosterman Жыл бұрын
I think the best take away here is to just try and make friends with women. First of all, the friend zone doesnt exist. Or atleast, not in the way people think it does. It is possible to become friends with a girl who isnt attracted to you. But that doesnt mean becoming friends with someone causes them to be unattracted to you. On the other hand, becoming friends has the benifits of both proximity and favours. (You will naturally ask favours from your friends). combine that with luck, pheremone compatibility, and generally taking care of yourself and you'll have a great relationship. And if it doesnt work, you have a good friend who can help you find someone else.
@samedifferentuser3225
@samedifferentuser3225 Жыл бұрын
Female confirmation: received👍👍
@tommygertcher2747
@tommygertcher2747 Жыл бұрын
So you're saying girls aren't less attracted guys because they're too friendly?
@samedifferentuser3225
@samedifferentuser3225 Жыл бұрын
@tommygertcher2747 If I may, I think it depends on what kind of level of friendliness we're talking about. Just being nice is different from paying special attention to her. If you're only nice to her at first, it may make her jealous if she sees you suddenly being nice to other girls (if she has that kind of 'romantical' awareness around you). On the other hand, many girls love nothing more than receiving a special kind of attention from a male. To be precise, ask her about her feelings, opinions, and take her interests seriously. Note: There are some kinds of girls that are just not into nice guys, but those are mostly complicated ones. Please don't try to change your personality for these ones, I guarantee you, there are girls out there who will treasure you with all their heart for your kindness! Good luck ^^
@martinshoosterman
@martinshoosterman Жыл бұрын
@@tommygertcher2747 I've never seen that be the case. What people don't realize, is girls who aren't attracted to them after they were nice to them, wouldn't be attracted to matter how they were treated.
@grahambrown1980
@grahambrown1980 Жыл бұрын
@@tommygertcher2747If you’re too friendly and appear fake about it, she’ll assume you just want to get inside of her. The million dollar question is how friendly is appropriate to the situation and any intel on a particular girl you may know anything about? 🤔😏🫠🤥😈
@Dslayer62
@Dslayer62 Жыл бұрын
I'd also recommend simply doing what you love in a crowded place. I became a karaoke regular at my local pub and after a couple months I started pulling girls (usually the semi-regulars) because I was a familiar face who was friendly and start conversation with everyone. I wasn't asking for their numbers, I was just happy to talk to someone between songs and make them feel welcome. What I realise I was doing is that I WAS making myself scarce. I didn't persue girls overtly because I wasn't there for girls. I was there for the karaoke and a good time.
@DarkAioL1666
@DarkAioL1666 Жыл бұрын
My experience is similar. Do what you love in a social environment where you are at ease and confident. You become attractive instantly.
@mcpartridgeboy
@mcpartridgeboy 11 ай бұрын
that sort f worked for me in the gym, the only problem is when i did ask someone out who clearly liked me i was rejected, so you still have to have the pick up skills to time it right avd to know how to ask properly ! or she will still say no every time
@maxjohnson8659
@maxjohnson8659 9 ай бұрын
Advice unclear, I was arrested for indecent exposure.
@Dslayer62
@Dslayer62 9 ай бұрын
​@@mcpartridgeboy Don't let 1 rejection convince you it won't work.
@christophewells3918
@christophewells3918 Жыл бұрын
You are promoting some good healthy understanding, my friend. Keep up the good work.
@SPACEDOUT19
@SPACEDOUT19 6 ай бұрын
this is delusion
@axepor615
@axepor615 3 ай бұрын
Now all I hear is "nice guys finish last" by green day in my head
@youlikejazz232
@youlikejazz232 3 ай бұрын
Real
@thatguy5233
@thatguy5233 Жыл бұрын
meanwhile Tutorials for girls: make an eye contact with him, but try to not make it obvious. make him question if you even did that on purpose. if he does approach you, try to seem uninterested. don't EVER let him know your intentions
@chiragchoudhary1253
@chiragchoudhary1253 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@adatirei
@adatirei Жыл бұрын
i think most of the video is already a good step for getting a girl already, getting girls isnt that much different between males and females
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 Жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJmTmZ1vj6lsfLssi=cwwc6iXY1eTClvl3
@lAMLlAR
@lAMLlAR Жыл бұрын
stop 💀
@kaeji_namitsua
@kaeji_namitsua Жыл бұрын
@@adatirei Eeeeh. Its night and day.
@citrus3719
@citrus3719 Жыл бұрын
beauty video mate, was shocked at sub count when I saw ur dreaming video, keep it up and don’t listen to the people fretting over a spelling mistake
@this.science
@this.science Жыл бұрын
Thanks :)
@vanwagon
@vanwagon Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, I'm so tired of all the incel ideology bs that's been thrown around in the self-help community about how men struggle with attracting women because of looks. It is definitely partially true that looks do matter, but I think a lot of men don't know that they're approaching dating wrong, and blame it on the beauty standards women have for men, instead of learning from their mistakes. This is one of the first videos I've seen that also really understands the problem with the approach of the "nice guy" archetype
@nikobellic9140
@nikobellic9140 Жыл бұрын
u dont know the reality
@cattysplat
@cattysplat Жыл бұрын
It's basically the same thing red pill says, just politely.
@dreamdesigns8514
@dreamdesigns8514 Жыл бұрын
jfl at you. if you’re getting no girls it’s because of your looks and not because of muh personality and muh confidence. cope harder
@dreamdesigns8514
@dreamdesigns8514 Жыл бұрын
If you’re watching this video and thinking your dating life will change = it’s brutally over for you
@Corvolet5
@Corvolet5 Жыл бұрын
On god, incel has turned into such a buzzword to use on men who have already been through enough.
@LifeDiarys
@LifeDiarys 2 ай бұрын
i don't know what i will do in my life without a girl 23 years of loneliness is so traumatic enough
@flazerflint
@flazerflint 2 ай бұрын
same bro
@josueramirez7247
@josueramirez7247 Жыл бұрын
The presentation of the video was very good. I liked the words and images you used.
@bee0_081
@bee0_081 Жыл бұрын
I like this channel, it always proves its claims with studies and evidence and the videos don't bore me, it's actually entertaining to watch.
@purp1e01
@purp1e01 Жыл бұрын
0:52 I wonder if the guy in the picture is watching this video thinking: "do I really look like an average jerk???"
@RihoKouda
@RihoKouda 2 ай бұрын
This deserves way more attention excellent job
@Gutians
@Gutians Жыл бұрын
The proximity is the hardest when you’re out of college ..
@semmoney5686
@semmoney5686 Жыл бұрын
Straight to the point no BS realistic advice given here bro. Thanks for making this content, Instant new sub !
@yesnt9523
@yesnt9523 Жыл бұрын
bro your videos are so entertaining I won't be surprised if you hit it big soon
@this.science
@this.science Жыл бұрын
Thanks dog 🤞
@yesnt9523
@yesnt9523 Жыл бұрын
@@this.science i fuckin knew it was gonna happen never doubted it
@this.science
@this.science Жыл бұрын
@@yesnt9523 😂bro is a true og
@ułttimate
@ułttimate 7 ай бұрын
There is no science, please do not act like X, Y or Z, just be yourself. If you act and pretend then you’re just living with a mask on, from my experience, the best way to have a relationship is just by being by yourself, before I had a relationship I got asked out by 3 different girls (at 3 different times obviously) and I didn’t do anything to “win them over” I was just myself, and that’s how my partner also liked me, I was just myself around her, she was just herself around me, until we started to catch feelings, there’s no “tricks” or “science” just be yourself and whoever that will like you, will end up liking you for who YOU are, not for you being someone else, good luck to anyone reading this. Edit: Oh also, looks matter, don’t let anyone lie to you, me and my partner talked about this after we dated and we both admitted that if we were bad looking, then we wouldn’t have dated each other, of course I’m not saying only looks that matter, but both your looks and personality matter significantly, some people don’t care about looks at all thought (rarely) but looks do indeed play a role here.
@IslandMashup
@IslandMashup 5 ай бұрын
If looks also play a role here, then I don't think I can win that sh*t.😢😢😢
@ułttimate
@ułttimate 5 ай бұрын
@@IslandMashup You may not look pretty to someone but to someone else you might be the prettiest one, everyone views you differently
@IslandMashup
@IslandMashup 5 ай бұрын
@@ułttimate I mean you got a point.
@IslandMashup
@IslandMashup 5 ай бұрын
@@ułttimate But the question is, how will I know? I don't think someone has the courage to say that in front of me because no one did.
@ułttimate
@ułttimate 5 ай бұрын
@@IslandMashup You will know if you’re close with that person, if they feel comfortable enough in telling you, they would. If it was someone random that just walked across you, then they obviously won’t say anything, but if it’s someone you know, and they felt confident a bit and comfortable enough, they’ll let you know
@geckowss
@geckowss Жыл бұрын
1. Face 2. Height 3. Neurotypicality Your welcome
@FloppaTheBased
@FloppaTheBased Жыл бұрын
also dick size
@Yeoungie
@Yeoungie Жыл бұрын
How to do This (Without Thinking About it) 1. Just groom yourself: learn how to dress, and skin care, workout 2. Be a Rarity: Have hobbies and focus on yourself, hangout with friends (women included) when you need a break 3. Talk to Women?: go to a club and frequent places that have a good ratio 4. Don't be a creep?: stop talking to women because you want to date them. Just be interested in who they are as a person and learn their story. People love you when you get them to talk about themself, so be interested. This means ASKING WHY AND NOT WHAT. This means, say you're at a party, "so you like x?" The answer will be a yes or no and the conversation ends. Make it open ended, instead say, "why do you like x?", "oh really?" "I think this about x and y, how do you feel about that?" Be curious. Get them to start monologuing, you may need to jump around a couple subjects, until you find one they just won't 5hut up about. In all, to not be creepy is to see women as another bro. Next time you see a girl just think, "that's my bro right there," and don't sexualize them. If they are beautiful, love that for them, and be a bro. You can enjoy their presence, learn to separate sex. (DOGS ARE CUTE, BUT YOU DON'T xxx DOGS). Bring that mentality. The more female friends you have the better, don't push the relationships, just be friends with everyone and enjoy their company and their story. 9/10 one of those friendships turn into something more. You have 1 female friend low chances, lets say you have 20+ good female friends, the odds are higher. It's not about your eyes on this one guys, that can be the ultimate decider, let the lovers of your life fall into your lap and choose you. The feeling of knowing that another person likes you and you both know it, but won't say it, is the best feeling ever. ------- Most importantly don't overthink it and be yourself, and if being yourself isn't working, it might be time to re-evaluate your life, like, is Fortnite and TikTok making me a better more interesting person, or a loser. Protip: when they vent, validate their emotions even if it's crazy, and say stuff that feeds their delusions. They just want to feel heard and appreciated, and don't want solutions. You are giving them support, so they can then turn around and solve their own problems.
@jojo75688
@jojo75688 Жыл бұрын
Well said man , this is how it's supposed to go normally
@Samurai-ss5qs
@Samurai-ss5qs Жыл бұрын
👏
@DeepakJAT0007
@DeepakJAT0007 Жыл бұрын
Lol, my loser friend started playing PUBG in 2020 and in 2 years he had more than 20 numbers !
@PSR91
@PSR91 11 ай бұрын
Perfect guide be in the friendzone forever. Being friends with girls has almost no benefits as a grown man.
@necoluga7950
@necoluga7950 8 ай бұрын
i once was talking to this girl and it was like as soon as i told her what i really think about exitance and my metaphysical philosophy and shit she became colder to me almost as if i wasn't there friend anymore 😢 guys dont yap to much people in general don't want to hear the ins and outs of the typology of ontological groupings and elements within said ontological gropings aka the p(n) system (my metaphysical philosophy). they also don't want a full lecture on geometric algebra outa nowhere. i really think it was my views on how depression isn't real and she called me closed minded and wanted me to see it from her perspective. i am going to argue the infallible truth and there is no other that is justified. if an individual disagrees they are misguided and you can only pray for there enlightenment. another thing is is that i use super complex topics as general conversation and i have nothing to say to anyone otherwise. id rather talk about the human will and my own reason for existing than whatever frivioulus topic other than. there is no value doing anything other than cultivating the prowess of the mental field and if your conversation is some garbage that doesn't empower ones sellf you must stray away from that and nuture a true bond based upon intelligent discussion within another with your relationship.
@RutinLaun
@RutinLaun 9 ай бұрын
Great video Sir! I would like to mention a book that you haven't mentioned and its for Insecure Americans. Ebook is called CrushAnyGirl, so on its for finding a girlfriend as Insecure American. After reading, you will have a better perspective on girls and find your gf in thirty days guaranteed Highly recommended to read
@godishere4
@godishere4 9 ай бұрын
😂😂 why does this have no comments
@LoganBai-gv5ys
@LoganBai-gv5ys 9 ай бұрын
This has 6k likes so it must be credible. 30 days is pretty fast
@godishere4
@godishere4 9 ай бұрын
@@LoganBai-gv5ys probably bot bro
@LoganBai-gv5ys
@LoganBai-gv5ys 9 ай бұрын
@@godishere4 yeah it looks like an ad and this comment was only 2 days ago. so unless 6k people liked it in 2 days despite the video being somewhat old then something is wrong. Also this comment has so few replies under it as you mentioned
@neutral_narr
@neutral_narr 9 ай бұрын
Bot nice try
@DeanHadi
@DeanHadi 10 ай бұрын
I know for a fact that this video won't change a thing about my life but I gotta appreciate KZbin's sense of humor for recommending this to me, just after waking up from a dream about the girl I used to love
@ModernConversations
@ModernConversations 3 ай бұрын
I tried this. I said "hi," and I ran away, and I never saw her again. I rizzed the f**k outta that girl.
@Fightanddie
@Fightanddie 3 ай бұрын
sounds special ed
@millysmanifestations
@millysmanifestations 10 ай бұрын
From a woman’s perspective I guarantee we are far more attracted to men who look happy or smile or who carry themselves in a positive and open demeanor than those who are closed off, cold, looking down all the time or don’t possess warmth. It makes you 50x more attractive no matter your physical features
@aleksklyar
@aleksklyar 10 ай бұрын
Лол, нет. Вообще, счастье детерминировано и для того, чтобы открыто улыбаться нужно родиться красивым
@aleksklyar
@aleksklyar 9 ай бұрын
@@Dimitris_Half Ты либо красив, либо туп
@danielallen8702
@danielallen8702 9 ай бұрын
I certainly appreciate you sharing.
@crenshaw46
@crenshaw46 9 ай бұрын
Stop the cap. Women are drawn to 3 things no matter what they "think" they are attracted too: 1) Height 2) Looks 3) Status. That is literally all there is to it.
@millysmanifestations
@millysmanifestations 9 ай бұрын
@@crenshaw46 as a woman, i disagree… maybe that’s other women but not ALL of us🤷‍♀️ those aren’t my personal priorities
@KorisnickoIme84
@KorisnickoIme84 11 ай бұрын
I'm not scared of aproaching (maybe a little) but later down the line when they realize that I'm depressed and low on energy with no goals in life..
@benjaminmontenegro3423
@benjaminmontenegro3423 10 ай бұрын
Then don’t focus on partners brother, focus on finding that spark there is to life again
@somber087
@somber087 6 ай бұрын
Bro focus on yourself before you focus on others
@deadpersonisepic7618
@deadpersonisepic7618 Жыл бұрын
The videos are great bro your gonna be big for sure, keep working hard (:
@this.science
@this.science Жыл бұрын
Thanks :)
@stuartross4540
@stuartross4540 29 күн бұрын
Or 1) Get to know yourself, 2) accept that and be comfortable with yourself 3) then be yourself. By showing your true self will mean you will don't have to pretend and therefore can be more relaxed, happier and they will accept or reject the true you. But you will be with someone who suits the real you.
@DianaSmith-k7e
@DianaSmith-k7e 29 күн бұрын
Hi there I'm guessing you're fun to talk to I'm a single woman looking for a man reply under this let's get to know each other
@STR1XMMM
@STR1XMMM Жыл бұрын
just be handsome
@Mental_Abortion
@Mental_Abortion Жыл бұрын
The shortest and correct answer to this video
@cbussey4676
@cbussey4676 Жыл бұрын
not how it works chief
@Forsica_
@Forsica_ Жыл бұрын
@@cbussey4676it just makes everything easier
@potatotaxi
@potatotaxi Жыл бұрын
If that worked I'd have a gf I assure you. But maybe I just need a haircut
@lucavalentim1917
@lucavalentim1917 11 ай бұрын
Not the only thing that matters, being handsome but having no game and being akward and wierd wont do shit. If you are mid/bad looking and have good game you have more chances
@Emilizier
@Emilizier Жыл бұрын
Amazing video!! But also just wanted to point out that this video mostly tackles the topic of attraction, and from a very scientific materialist perspective. Which is great! But also remember that attraction and love are two differing things! You can get the girl to be attracted to you (which is the first step), but being in love and someone being in love with you is entirely another thing. Imo creating a life you enjoy living and working to connect authentically with those around you will just naturally lead to you attracting and finding someone you’ll fall in love with (and hopefully they’ll fall in love with you too). This way you will end up have a fulfilling life and also can introduce this special person into this life. I think a lot of value is placed on romantic relationships, but personally I think it’s important to remember that there are other things that are important too! Like being your authentic self, friends, family and cultivating a fulfilling life! And if getting into a romantic relationship means sacrificing any of those, I don’t think I’d be very happy in that relationship long term.
@Steve.Nguyen
@Steve.Nguyen Жыл бұрын
True!
@va_valentin_
@va_valentin_ Жыл бұрын
This!
@qujie8212
@qujie8212 Жыл бұрын
Although I agree to all you've said it's really not that simple (at least for some of us 😂) Based on experience I can say that just living your life is always a good thing to do but it won't help you find girls, it just makes it so that you're happy nonetheless 🤷‍♂️
@billusher2265
@billusher2265 Жыл бұрын
what is called romantic love is just lust + oxytocin
@dreamdesigns8514
@dreamdesigns8514 Жыл бұрын
Plastic surgery is the only option for finding a soulmate if youre not good looking
@KanavVashisht
@KanavVashisht 8 ай бұрын
I've watched almost all your videos, I love your humor and way of explaining things! But this is just... Chef's kiss.
@Farehaven
@Farehaven 4 күн бұрын
Scarcity doesn’t equal attraction, serial killers are scarce that doesn’t make me attracted to them.
@elbergalaxia9783
@elbergalaxia9783 Жыл бұрын
Man, i just discovered your channel, this video is a gem. I laughed so much, and the content is really high quality. Subscribed, keep 'em coming!
@alexandersmith7982
@alexandersmith7982 Жыл бұрын
Very well informed video I'll say. I will say one thing; I don't care if a woman is attracted to me or not at this point in my life. I'm a 30 year old autistic introvert who has never had a girlfriend ever in my life. Throughout my 20s I've tried so many wrong ways to get women but now in the last two years of my 20s and from now on I intend to live life how I see fit. Yes, I shower, exercise, and have my own hobbies, but none of that matters in attracting a woman in my life(mostly). I've remained single for so long that if I were seeing the same woman over again through my routine of work/life/hobby etc., if she one day were to come up to me and asked "I keep seeing you here I never know your name" or tries to get me to open up and obviously she's very nice and wants to know me(I mean she's interested) I'd just tell her off; "No." My heart longs for a long term relationship that will lead to marriage and offspring, since I was 13 in fact. I'm no longer playing any games woman play, nor do I want to show off any sort of "rizz" for me to stand out. I have none of that. I'm just myself and I always will be myself. If no woman wants me because I'm being myself I don't care. I believe that things happen when they least expect, however, I do have a suspicion that if the right woman were to stand before me I'd still turn her down. I now have plans in place to be single into my 80s if it comes to that. It may not be as fun or fulfilling without someone to share life with, but sill a life for me. Let me know your thoughts if you managed to read this far.
@dreamdesigns8514
@dreamdesigns8514 Жыл бұрын
Take the blackpill, brocel
@bro918
@bro918 Жыл бұрын
Im approaching your age and am in the same boat... no experience whatsoever. Do you at least have a good career that you enjoy? I think thats what I need most
@eindeutscheriminternet7130
@eindeutscheriminternet7130 8 ай бұрын
This is gonna be my future
@chaitanyagupta6668
@chaitanyagupta6668 3 ай бұрын
It sucks. But it isn't like the old times. Now women are attracted to chads, no matter what they say. If you aren't one, you have the same lifestory as this guy. I've been with a woman as a friend since childhood. Going to the same college and seeing how much life was different for her and me in dating was the day I learnt some hard truths. Both of us were average and not much talkative, yet somehow she changed 2 boyfriends over the course of our degree and I don't even have a girlfriend. It was just by default difficult for someone like me and now videos are filled with explaining me that not getting a girl is not anything but on me. Somehow I am to blamed for my failures when I tried during my college years. Maybe if I was born with a better(extroverted) personality and was taller and better looking. I now know I am not what women are looking for in a boyfriend. And knowing their preferences may change when they start looking for a husband and I may stand a chance then fills me with nothing but feeling as a failure in terms of evolution.
@keithgumbo
@keithgumbo Ай бұрын
😞
@sanatanism660
@sanatanism660 Жыл бұрын
Rule 1 have status Rule 2 have money Rule 3 good physical traits Rule 4 don't die for one.
@dhruvabashte
@dhruvabashte Жыл бұрын
This. 💀
@rudhra5957
@rudhra5957 9 ай бұрын
This is certified how to get women.
@BigRickk
@BigRickk 2 ай бұрын
As the chick magnet I am, I’ll say one thing. It all comes with practice, you learn new ways to get girls as you experience getting different girls
@RonoDynamics
@RonoDynamics Жыл бұрын
Your mind works differently 😂😂😂The video would have ended at 7:50 but because you included one of those meaningless but very funny endings, it didn’t
@user-Camjja
@user-Camjja 5 ай бұрын
?
@RonoDynamics
@RonoDynamics 5 ай бұрын
@@user-Camjja ?
@spencergibbs6646
@spencergibbs6646 4 ай бұрын
Wdym?
@user-Camjja
@user-Camjja 4 ай бұрын
@@spencergibbs6646 I think it’s his mind that works differently
@megafiremario12volt
@megafiremario12volt Жыл бұрын
I love that luck was added here cause you could be doing everything right but still have bad outcomes and vice versa. But its still good to work on yourself regardless cause luck is also when preparation meets opportunity
@gabrielpadilha8193
@gabrielpadilha8193 Жыл бұрын
I paused at 0:01, takes a long breath and...you know.
@jipvandergoot9836
@jipvandergoot9836 5 ай бұрын
Damn so real.
@TheUnshapedMantis
@TheUnshapedMantis 5 ай бұрын
6:15 As a university student and researcher in biological sciences, I find it crucial to highlight that, despite the long-standing theoretical existence of human pheromones, no concrete identification of them has been made in research to date. This is a significant area of study that often gets misrepresented, and it's important to keep this in mind when discussing the topic. I liked seeing mention of the importance of the olfactory recognition of markers for genetically dissimilar haplotypes at the Major Histocompatibility Complex (MHC), which has been proven to play a significant role in relative measures of attractiveness, though. You really did your homework!
@francookies8032
@francookies8032 Жыл бұрын
There’s this girl I really like at the university. She just broke up with her boyfriend because he was annoying. I like her since I was a freshman and now I’m a senior. I will try to create proximity now! Thank you for the tips, I really needed this.🙏❤️😊
@sashellwisdom6038
@sashellwisdom6038 Жыл бұрын
All the best!
@bossman7579
@bossman7579 Жыл бұрын
W rejection
@rudhra5957
@rudhra5957 9 ай бұрын
How bad ?.... Was the rejection 😂
@sadscientist9995
@sadscientist9995 9 ай бұрын
“Just be a nice guy” this whole video
@SPACEDOUT19
@SPACEDOUT19 6 ай бұрын
men need to take the blackpill already, the delusion is insane these days. Its all about looks.
@IridiumTurtle
@IridiumTurtle Жыл бұрын
I have always tried to develop a friendship naturally, and therefore increase proximity. The smell thing is really a letdown, we can do better than animals who rely on pheromones. I've never understood the culture of pretending to hate them at first, why is that effective?
@Blake-pn6xm
@Blake-pn6xm Жыл бұрын
Bro if she doesn’t like you forget about her and move on. Simple as that. Eventually you’ll find a good one.
@Dang_ole_Boomhaur
@Dang_ole_Boomhaur 2 ай бұрын
I told myself 2 years ago that the day i purposly look up one of these videos is the day i've reached rock bottom as far as my confidence and self esteem around any girl i find attractive. 😕💀
@arkstef6449
@arkstef6449 2 ай бұрын
Bro that's 😂
@Dang_ole_Boomhaur
@Dang_ole_Boomhaur 2 ай бұрын
@arkstef6449 rock bottom damnit
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