He Was Clueless, But She Didn't Stop Trying! | In Love or Not

Rohan and Aria may or may not still be together. Hear the story of their relationship and decide... do you think they are still in love?
Tell us what your vote is in the comments! Why did you make that choice? Was it body language or a look in their eyes? Or was it something they said and the way they spoke to each other? What clues do they give off?
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[@karshaps7648]

it is funny that almost none of the Indian chicks in the comment section find the guy good looking.. (i see one desi chick who commented that he is ugly..) . They seem to be noticing other things (like "I feel bad for the gurl".."the girl is pretty".."still in love"..etc etc..") .. But chicks from other ethnicities seem to think he is fine AF . I have seen sooo many brown chicks going gaga over an average looking latino/Arab/White dude ! Grass is always greener on the other side...lol

[@glorydays3378]

Hey I really find him good looking tho

[@robbiehernandez8019]

He's better looking from afar.

[@nishisaxena4831]

karsh aps you r right ... I’m desi but I’m only into write Arab hotties ... kinda bored with desi guys tbh

[@SK-hd1yk]

Maybe because he is normal to them? They see desi dudes daily so what does this guy have that sets him apart from the rest of desi guys for them to ‘have to’ comment something? You’re looking into it too deeply, I’ve not seen what you have seen in the comments and tbh this is a stupid argument I don’t know why I’m entertaining it.

[@SK-hd1yk]

nik141991 i don’t know where you got that from. I’m sorry but Indians in the west are not the same as Indians in India. In the West they teach us about gender equality and how you should and should not be treated. Do you even blame them for not wanting to marry into a culture that might suffocate them?

[@aintnothingchanged2697]

you can tell she loves him

[@a7med58]

but he is not

[@ameliacave3839]

Mhhhhmmmm

[@mukmin01]

because he wants blonde

[@Theohybrid]

I'm sure they'll figure it out eventually and have stories to tell their children. loll

[@ROSEBRICK]

This is a completely biased comment. They are both technically Asian based on U.S. census measures, although we all know many people consider East Indian to be a stand alone culture, as each country's culture is different. I honestly think to say " don't expect too much" is just as bad as saying " all men are dogs", both are huge generalizations.

[@sheilalucanas]

Middle of the video and if this couple ain't in love . . . . Urg

[@unconformingtruther5496]

Sheila Lucanas the question is who do you love

[@itsanewday5219]

The boy is definitely handsome and cute in the same time.Also the girl is so cute.

[@srinivasarao7145]

Today love at first sight. Tomorrow diverse at second fight.

[@zenith_lal]

I always believe that you can find love only in one person

[@tinateews9494]

She's very articulated and pretty. I can see the pain in her when she said "we're just close friends."

[@elsadavidson160]

Good looking Indian guy 😊

[@OmPrakash-pu7zn]

I think both of their anger and ego end's with Break-up 💔

[@indickarma]

India and china at the border: war India and china in a third country: this video

[@muralisaripalli164]

Damn! The border tensions got to him

[@ramasjk8641]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ethanallen952]

U nailed it dude😂😂

[@revantpande1813]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙏🙏🙏

[@ashilyjustin4748]

Hahahaha ❤️

[@sourishchandran5744]

@@ashilyjustin4748 lol

[@TheSMCSS1234]

An Indian guy does not realize he is from Asia too...calling her an Asian girl hahah

[@sasidharvivek5817]

He was saying indian girls too. Girls basically are not that good at driving. Fact

[@rocalvo6588]

@@CherieShrimpzzz So, him being sexist means he should die? Or following your logic never have been born? Now that makes you an even bigger "douchebag". Yeah some people are racist, sexist, biased somehow or something, not saying it´s a good thing, but should they die because fo that?? I highly doubt it. Seems muricans nowadays get offenden by everything and anything..

[@rocalvo6588]

@Shivan Anirudhra & ​ Emperor Spriggan It doesn´t matter what Amercans think of when hearing or saying Asia. Asia is Asia and India is a part of it.. If most muricans think of something in particular that's their problem and certainly a topic that would need to be addressed at schools or, well somewhere..Being uneducated or foolish doesn´t justify altering stuff to fit your own world view.. Most western people... Really, how do you know that? Have you asked most western people what they think of when talking about Asia? At least where i come from people know pretty well that India is a part of Asia.

[@monikaverma8008]

@@sasidharvivek5817 says who 'a sexiest moron ' .

[@mayaout7808]

Sasidhar Vivek that's what wrong with this world when you put someone down based on their gender. Make sure you let your views known to the girl you gonna date or marry..

[@kahoshewotsa5165]

U cannot find another girl who could love u like she does.

[@ragamuffinhooligan4019]

Old folks in my national origin would say, 'it's not who you like, it's who like you' or 'the gyal has to like you more than you like her!'

[@Charlotte-oe3hl]

I don't believe that. If he is not inlove should he force it? He will not be happy for the rest of his life.

[@ni3070]

@@ragamuffinhooligan4019 it's interesting, because the reversed is believed in many other places......like the guy has to be in love more

[@whocares3132]

@@Charlotte-oe3hl believe me it is easy to blend in.

[@rahmahdalhat8484]

@@ni3070 i believe this

[@SWIFTzTrigger]

Dude at the start said he saw his father always shower his mother with love whilst his mother barely responded with affection. I think deep down he has a fear of commitment because of how he perceives the dynamic of his parents. If he does express his love he feels like she will be apathetic towards him so he decides to be apathetic first to protect himself. At least from my very arm chair psychologist view.

[@nitinnishant7783]

Meanwhile, she never deeply connected with her family, leaving a hole in her as far as familial bonding goes. The first person she could connect with so deeply was this guy. So it is obviously going to be difficult for her to let go of the first genuine bond she's made in her life.

[@sarahjong7977]

classic case of an insecure avoidant type pairing with an insecure resistant type

[@claravasconcelosss2003]

I think he's acting like his mom in this case, I don't know why, and she's trying to keep inside her feelings for him, it's probably like the top comment here, he doesn't like her that much and so doesn't want to get in a relationship with someone he doesn't feel in love

[@moodoffgirlop6402]

See chanakya ,a great ancient Indian scholar told ..."to make a good society....u must remove the immoral and bad habits of the women of that society first.... otherwise the entire society degenerates "....I read it somewhere in the shrimad bhagvat Gita as it is by prabhupada....I think now how intelligent our scholars were....

[@kalakatana503]

He's avoidant she's anxious attachment. Those types attract and repel each other after connecting

[@uh3442]

SoulPancake destroyed my whole knowledge of human nature. How should I ever trust myself again?

[@Participant]

Haha happy to be of service.

[@lalremkimi3759]

U H Lol

[@khalil1711996]

Trust urself dont worry she is madly deeply in love with him

[@shkilmshkil1792]

J Kim

[@taracheng345]

Lol

[@debbieomi]

I'm sad and you can see and feel their sadness at the end. It just seems that they are in love but their definitions are more than they need to be. Does that even make sense?

[@itsmrsjones]

yes!!!

[@Participant]

Interesting!

[@vitayudhani6982]

debbieomi couldn't agree more..

[@Venezuela305]

Agree. I believe that LOVE is the only thing in the universe without an explanation. If you're able to make sense of it, is not love. Love is a choice, yes. But the sometimes illogical force inside you that makes those decision, that's the inexplainable part. This relentless desire to make the other person happier than they were 5m ago. Specially when things go south. That's Love.

[@olivendikum126]

That's so true. I so agree with ya!!

[@daniellesewitt5484]

She is like the most perfect looking Chinese girl I've ever seen

[@merladyneptune3908]

Danielle Sewitt Yes! And so well spoken

[@plantecsmiths1622]

Not even close to me

[@Mr.Eminem]

They all look same

[@mgirl8g]

She seems pretty average to me...

[@Growvloggiepolkadots]

I guess you havent seen then😂😂😂

[@Chimarkgames]

i guessed correctly because the way he looked at her, there was no love in his look of his eyes speaking with her. Also she sounded strong woman which i sensed she had her heart broken but she moved on.

[@ameliacave3839]

chiMarkgames that's exactly what I saw

[@beyondallcontrol]

I felt the same way. I even wondered if he ever truly was in love with her. Meaning, I am sure he cared about her but she had to chase him and he was just kinda like, "Alright, I guess we can kinda date." But he never felt comfortable saying I love you. I feel like deep down he doesn't see himself with her but she is nice to have around so they stay in each other's lives. Unfortunately, I feel like she keeps hope alive that he will one day realize he is in love with her and come back. I feel sad now...

[@anamateurmakes]

+beyondallcontrol or maybe the guy is not so much comfortable in front of camera ! you know most of the people find it hard to utter the right words in front of camera , they are wanting to say one word and speak out the other in real !

[@beyondallcontrol]

Look at 2:44 she says that she can't remember every being able to easily say, "I love you" and before that he said he has always had a hard time expressing strong emotions like he needs her in his life. They have known each other for years and they still have uncertainty about how the other feels (which is what they have said) is a red flag. At 5:30 he says that he goes in an out of love, that is not love. Those are warm fuzzy feelings. Frankly, people will save themselves a lot of grief if they just live by this rule: If he or she has been with you for years and can't with certainty that they love you, MOVE ON!

[@lilacfunk]

Man, I feel exactly this case in my relationship. He says he loves me a lot but can never move it forward. I think deep down he's never let himself truly think that I'm it. That's why I absolutely had to breakup with my boyfriend last week.

[@RohitSharma-tj4mx]

Dammm she is in love with him. The way she said " close friends, very close friends". Her facial expressions were screaming out loud that I STILL LOVE HIM. I wish someone can look at me like she was looking at him.

[@somabiswas2020]

Bhaii bahar chale jaa...wha bandiya pat jaegi...chinta mat kar

[@arterisdewberry9467]

Who cares? She's my woman now!

[@arterisdewberry9467]

@Heiwajima Shizuo She will be mine one day.

[@arterisdewberry9467]

@Heiwajima Shizuo too bad because I like asian women

[@nomiak6150]

@@arterisdewberry9467 why do white men like asian women so much?

[@sundarj8174]

Dude , you’ll miss her when she is gone. You’ll regret it. Its hard to find someone who loves you. When you do, hold on to them. Don’t let them go. Most likely you won’t find another who loves you as much as she does

[@sylow1357]

it is what it is but, its his choice

[@salaskusina]

It's not always the case. When someone loves you so much but you don't feel the same feeling, you cannot force yourself to love him/her back the way he/she does. You can try but you'll get tired. In the end, it's always better to be alone but genuinely happy than staying in a relationship for the sake of saving the "relationship" but you know deep in your heart you're not really happy.

[@ForteExpresso]

Its a misconception that you can't find another person who would love you like someone already does. Because people with similar personalities (16 in total) are similar and would end up with the personality they like if they chose their heart. Its not that hard to love someone you genuinely like. And its not like people end up liking few people. People are always looking out for better partners even while being in a relationship.

[@sugatasamajder9399]

Bro...she is Chinese...few of the Chinese students in US are spys... Security ka sawal hay yaar...socho thora

[@mrsupershotgunn]

I'll say what a stupid brain dead guy. Leaving a goddess like that for some stupid arranged marriage

[@kratos218]

i thought my life was complicated but damn son, these 2 take it to another level.

[@kratos218]

probably his indian parents won't agree with this.. why else would he pass on such a good thing

[@megaprimegamer1184]

Banks93 nah. he's American. so, technically it shouldn't be a problem. But damn, I bet he's cheating cuz that girl fine as hell.

[@saiswaroop47]

Banks93 😂😂😂lol

[@sams517]

MegaPrime Gamer so why would he cheat if she’s fine as hell...

[@rationalhuman5338]

his indian parents and relatives wont accept it

[@Cheeky_Mouse]

They spoke mostly in the past tense, so I figured their relationship had been over for a while. The fact that they were so comfortable in each others' personal space told me they were most likely in love at one point. The video is bittersweet. It shows how the end of something can make you grow as a person. A breakup does not need to be ugly. I love that they still respect and care for one another.

[@radbrad8150]

He broke up due to Chinese aggression. He is a nationalist 🤣😂

[@ritishakapoor1513]

Based

[@immortal__-__2994]

😂😂😂😂

[@engineeriumm]

anti ccp cop

[@adithiarjun6764]

Based😂😂

[@nishantahvan]

🎉❤😂

[@KingKnight16]

The eyes Chico, they never lie

[@mhatter5740]

.....where did I hear this? oh God this will bother me.

[@AhhYouPooped]

M Hatter scarface

[@DaleyC94]

HAHA ur a legend for this comment, thought the exact same thing.

[@stxfdt1240]

Noah Williams What did she mean by pushing buttons btw

[@stxfdt1240]

rajesh raj Bhai it's called joking and acting like a normal male person .So tell me if I tell that she's ugly would you be happy.Reality is that because of guys like u everybody feels ashamed; hindering everybody's freedom of speech.I did not say anything that offensive.You can interpret it in anyway u want.I was just complementing her from a different point of view.P.S. If I say that in America they would really consider it as saying something positive about them

[@DestiB1]

I was wrong....I got that she was still in love with him but him not as much as her

[@minilme]

because he never was. You can see that she pursued him and he just went with the flow for the sake of it. He was never in love with her. He just loved the attention from her. He got tired of it. What a hole!

[@Chibi_003]

Destiny Bennett I know a guy in my friend circle and he's the kind of guy who'd take whatever comes, but never chase what goes.. but with guys like him it's hard to figure out what do they even want because he really loved this one girl and still let her go

[@solveigstir9844]

minilme: hahah, you just can't make assumptions like that, you don't know anything about their situation other then what they've told us..

[@jennyksslr]

Destiny Bennett I was wrong too. I feel like they made a really good couple.

[@irishvarshaiyyadurai5305]

PietreADI, what is your problem dude? Why do you bring stereotypes into this? They were together for 5 years and it doesn't sound like he harmed her like that.

[@najeesha326]

I am an Indian and I absolutely find the guy Handsome.. They should have been a couple

[@JAHIDxJD]

Najee Sha I think he’s just worried about it changing into the relationship that his parents have

[@Ricarica981]

I am dating an Indian guy here I. The Philippines. He is hard to figure out. Maybe he is in an arranged marriage

[@19cmgang]

@@Ricarica981 u r dating a married guy?

[@borgir8889]

@@Ricarica981 wait you are dating a married guy

[@haguhishu4544]

@@borgir8889 I think she wanted to say that her bf is "into" arranged marriage.

[@BHAGWATIPRADHAN]

THE GUY IS IN LOVE BUT IS AFRAID OF COMMITMENT, THE GIRL IS IN LOVE TOO & IS WAITING FOR HIM TO LET HER IN, IN HIS LIFE & HEART.

[@himanshu-ol7wq]

Exactly...it seems..

[@elat9635]

Commitment is very scary for me too

[@jay2610]

because Indians and chinese are very suspicious of each other

[@foxskinn]

Bunty Pradhan can someone love someone if they don’t commit??

[@introvertedlass6355]

wow apko pata hai lol

[@808JuJu]

She still loves him, he doesn't. I could see that from the first 10 seconds of them talking

[@nobitadoremon6094]

Yea.. I agree

[@besmabibicha2194]

that's exactly what i thought !

[@abdulrazakshaik2106]

Maybe he is not in good mood. Uncomfortable At that time

[@litlife3113]

She plays along just so that she can at least keep the friendship and communication going on. She is certainly in love. One can make out from the facial expressions and body language.

[@Food_india_smile]

because Chinese products have no guarantee 😂😂😂

[@chinmayyt6461]

Nobody gonna talk about how fine the guy is?.

[@arjunnair6023]

Coz he's NOT! lol

[@iitnakanpur..]

@@arjunnair6023 pervert spotted😂😂

[@comradeleppi2000]

@@iitnakanpur.. do you even know meaning of pervert?

[@comradeleppi2000]

@@arjunnair6023 he is handsome

[@iNeed2.p]

Average looking

[@Ma28navMB]

Dude why ? She's amazing ! Most men would kill to be with a woman so in love. You can tell the entire story just by observing how she looks at him. Those eyes have a lot of love but hurt as well.

[@goofygoofy6098]

He seems to be a arrange marriage guy. Mummy nahi mani sayad. Isliye most girls are not comfortable of dating an Indian guy, no commitment from the guys side.

[@mohanr7274]

@@goofygoofy6098 shut up

[@thendino1]

@@goofygoofy6098 you are confusing yourself with Pakistani and Chinese guys...

[@amitjose3739]

@@goofygoofy6098 not every ones a simp, no ones that desperate, maybe he doesnt like her.

[@itsanewday5219]

Yeah

[@chandinimohan2795]

poor girl...... i really feel her love even in her stares

[@BabanTudu]

Chandini Mohan yes

[@RDCFemmes]

Same here

[@aznn9205]

PietreADI that's just not right man

[@ars2485]

lol yea true

[@NiftyConceptStudios]

me too

[@VasReds]

She’s so beautiful. Them cheekbones and dimples. Oh my heart 😍

[@HAlimabushra123]

What cheekbones 😂 she has a flat face

[@1211jinx]

@@HAlimabushra123 she's cute.

[@HAlimabushra123]

ペラテルエレン she looks like every other chinese girl to me

[@hibye-op3fl]

Halima B hater you jealous of her

[@MaryK02]

@@HAlimabushra123 Where are you from? You can't be Indian.. This from what I've seen South Asian, middle East women like to put down other women the most.. And it's funny you think having east Asian features is ugly?!! Racist much... idk this girl but I can bet she's 10 times less vain and not superficial like you

[@saltandpepper2889]

You just can't tell if the girl still loves him... He not so much! Kinda makes me sad😢

[@Participant]

So interesting! Some people have been saying the opposite, that he's more in love than she is. Was there body language or an interaction that made you think that?

[@saltandpepper2889]

Soul pancake I'm not sure, probably because he seems more careful with his words, not putting all out... On the other hand She is more vocal, looks more comfortable and when she looks at him she smiles, he just avoided making eye contact, he was focused on the camera! Maybe is just me!

[@maggieg2972]

that could just be their natural body language i'm not sure

[@fffuckyouspielberg]

I totally agree with you, in the end her smile was kinda unnatural, it was sad, while his face was indifferent

[@Chibi_003]

Kira yes the way she looked at him was filled with affection or maybe the friendly way you see someone and when he said we're not in love but I'm in love even through other things he was holding himself ... I mean I don't have exact words to put here of what I actually felt while watching the video but ...

[@justinezey]

you could tell by the look of his face instantly

[@sheetaljain8125]

justine mckinzey skme people are just very vary of the camera.. i cud talk for hours.. but put me i front of camera.. ill talk like i have a gun pointed at myself..

[@justinezey]

sheetal jain good point, but he just looked a lil bummed out

[@LetUsSee001]

I'm the same way. I think it's an Indian thing. We're just awkward and shy.

[@bijetapaul491]

He was never in love with her. He was just infatuated to her and overtime the infatuation was gone. Meanwhile you can tell she really loves him after all this time. It's my biggest fear, to love someone who will never love me the way I will. Also I think it's good they separated. I hope he finds someone in his live who he will really love and I hope she finds someone who will love her as much as she does.

[@sanjithmuddam319]

how did you know they separated

[@OkOfficial400]

She's married 😂

[@TheGuitarpro3]

He looks like an Indian version of John Mayer.. Lol.

[@daGOAT81]

IraqUpBeaches hahahha you are right on

[@HELL0NESSA]

Yes!!!!!

[@shermaynebrown5165]

Now I can't unsee this hahahhahahahhah

[@kunalnagarkoti4409]

But different race

[@leann4265]

Oh my god can’t unsee

[@Ram-Deep]

He is god of friendzone...

[@introvertedlass6355]

Ram lol yeah. I would never want that kinda man

[@saywhat5034]

Introverted lass to be friends with?

[@daddy3663]

U meant to say he is your god right ?

[@Mr.Eminem]

@@introvertedlass6355 don't worry . You never will

[@arnabsom3251]

He is God of sakt launda

[@olisa633]

Speaking from experience, I'd say that most of us from Africa and Asia have this unique challenge about marrying someone from outside our race and tribe. The problem with it is that we sometimes end up with people who are nowhere near making us as happy as the 'outsider'. It is really sad. Rohan will probably marry an Indian girl in the end to please his parents - but there is no doubt in my mind that Aria loves him very much. And would have made a great life partner for him.

[@danreed1105]

I wonder how their future will be. I have seen the same situation to two Indian/Chinese couples, when we were all in our 20s. That was 40 years ago

[@Udayteja-o5s]

Best comment , I totally agree with you 🙏💜 , what you said is really correct

[@klppdc]

You are wrong. Many Indian men end up marrying Chinese and Japanese women. Lately Korean as well. If you travel to East Asia you will find many mixed race couples with Indian grooms. That’s because Indian men are open minded and Asian cultures share many similar values. Indian men with Chinese women is the most common mixed race couple in Hong Kong and Singapore etc.

[@olisa633]

@@klppdc You win!

[@cherrysimon]

I agree

[@ApplesareDopeable]

Omg what.. They're so cute tho!!

[@sawanarora2627]

Melissa Zeng Word!

[@ninhbac04]

being a "cute couple" doesn't mean two people should be together.

[@pankajtiwari6775]

Melissa Zeng u r cute!!

[@ninhbac04]

you could impress her more if you didn't say u r

[@henryfung9725]

he is not white...i thought asian women were obessessed with whtie men

[@heatengine9283]

The guy came straight out of some anime/manga.

[@gautamshivam530]

Chad from bleach

[@senrabetrollin]

@@gautamshivam530 don't disrespect lol. Man's Kishibe Rohan From jojo

[@denisemoyer1729]

From the second they sat down together, I felt like they were, "Oh boy, here we go". Then when they talked about being together through their twenties and how you "learn so much about yourself," I figured they learned that they were not right for each other. Even with their friendship, I feel they are just hanging on out of history for each other. Once either of them meets someone else, I feel they will move on and apart from each other.

[@Participant]

Wow, really interesting perspective!

[@KiKi-ne8hg]

Denise Moyer or maybe once they meet someone else , they'll realise that they were more comfortable when they were together as a couple ,but then u never know !

[@lionessprowess3581]

Denise Moyer: why did they sat closer to each other in the middle of the vid when they started to have fun...?

[@denisemoyer1729]

LionessProwess: I think it's just the history thing. When you start talking about all the fun you had together and your face-to-face with a person you had deep feelings for (they were together 5 years), I think you temporarily (at least) put any difficulties aside. The did have and on again off again relationship.

[@denisemoyer1729]

Rob: Sweet! Thank you.

[@Lilyevangeline]

What he says at the end about falling in and out of love kinda upsets me. Love is much more then just a feeling. At the end of the day love is a choice. You can tell they do care about each other, but they didn't choose to make that commitment to each other. So many people go into relationships with the mindset of what they can get out of it for themselves, not with the thought that relationships are to help each other grow as people and to be each other's rocks through life. And with that comes up and downs, but that doesn't mean we should just give up when it's hard to love that person.

[@astrokidd9372]

Well love is different for everyone. When people fall in love, how they fall in love, when they know they fall in love, and how they know the fell in love and the same with feeling love. It's all different for everyone. Everyone also has their opinions on how they want to be loved and how they want their partners to act.

[@alicemarie5761]

Lily Evangeline I can understand what he is saying though. love is technically just a chemical reaction in your brain.. attachment is a bond that lasts much longer but "love" as a feeling wears off after a few years at most.

[@Lilyevangeline]

Alice Marie that's not really "love" tho it's attraction

[@alicemarie5761]

Lily Evangeline ok but attraction is what makes you "in love" with a person rather than just love

[@alannajohnson5043]

Lily Evangeline agree. thanl you for clear it that up. I'm 22 in 3 days and ive never been in a relationship so it's hard to understand what a romantic kind of love is. therefore his viewpoint was really confusing me. But tjam you for explaining it. I agree with you 100%

[@imviiku]

So apparently.. India & China Got Together In US.. So Ironical if you think Politically 😂😂

[@AA-rv3yc]

vivek sharma a socialist Country boy , a Communist country girl in a Capitalist country .

[@ryana-6762]

bahaha I thought China hated India and had land disputes?

[@prajwaljadhav8984]

@@AA-rv3yc we are not socialist we believe in mixed economy

[@AA-rv3yc]

Prajwal Jadhav we are Still socialist country according to the Constitution though we have practically mixed economy of socialism and capitalism.

[@trishshimmer9766]

lol you are funny

[@808JuJu]

The hottest love has the coldest end.

[@ernestmofokeng3963]

RyZe JuJu ...wow, you just said the most amazing comment. . I was at that situation, it ended exactly like that... hmmmm love! :-(

[@ernestmofokeng3963]

PietreADI hahahahahahaha

[@SunnySingh1]

PietreADI, the pakistani dude with the name Farzad is a india hating bigot who's spamming the whole comment section. www.nationmaster.com/country-info/stats/Crime/Rape-rate India is 94th in rank in this international report on rapes per capita so shut your hole Farzad

[@bradleybrad398]

Thats not true, dont say that. It just didnt work out.

[@soljashet5692]

Lol drake

[@808JuJu]

I think the hardest part of losing someone, isn't having to say "goodbye", but rather learning to live without them. Always trying to fill the void, the emptiness that's left inside your heart when they go.

[@srisruthitangirala]

RyZe JuJu u definitely nailed it!

[@harrietkorir5088]

RyZe JuJu well said. Moving on can be really tough. Knowing that person is no longer the first person you tell whenever something happens.

[@solidn6]

@RyZe JuJu I'm going through it right now and it hurts like hell, I miss her so much. It's essentially dealing with death because there now dead to you and you will never speak to them again.

[@lanjicucksmoke3034]

solidn6 how you keeping up bruv?

[@solidn6]

@folatomi akeju I'm doing much better now. Being away from her has made me realize she was very toxic, manipulative & controlling. She reached out to me a few times was stupid excuses to belittle me, and make me feel bad. I'm seeing a new side to her and slowly falling out of love with her. I know I can do better than her.

[@Cateater123]

He is kinda shy , typical indian male trait 😂. However I've noticed foreign women tend to appreciate a good body , face and hair over skin color . Indian women prefer light skin dont matter the body type or hair 😂. Even today he wont be considered attractive in india . But the guys who are considered attractive in india just because of whitish skin wont be considered that attractive because chubbiness and stuffs.

[@dollartreeshark6786]

Not true, with his well chiseled face, he will be considered attractive. It is not always skin color, but with all things same, the preference in India is white skin whether there is the “glow” or not

[@darlingmkxo]

It's so obvious he is NOT in love, but she is totally still in love. She f***ed up by pursuing him. He wasn't clueless, he just didn't like her. His love for her is solely because she loves him, not because he feels it. If someone really loves you but you don't return the same feelings you feel bad because they are a good person that loves you. So you feel you owe them something. You don't. She needs to move on. He won't love her the way she loves him ever.

[@Gauravkumar-jm4ve]

Malini very correctly said

[@dilhararukshaniliyanaaratc5728]

Malini so true

[@suzie5813]

Malini I hate how he straight up says he wasn't into her at girst, in so many words and she just dismisses it...:/ehehe

[@tiaussardar8192]

well, here I got the expert advice...........thank you...........

[@andremotivation6561]

Malini most women want what they can't have

[@jaswinderpalsngh]

That sighing at the end...she's still hoping...

[@mabz12ify]

50 years from now, they'll meet each other and admit if it wasn't as complicated as what they made it out. You only live once, don't keep your feelings to yourself.

[@rifqim9485]

She's definitely not okay with 'only friend'

[@ЛарисаИвановна-л1р]

damn this guy is gorgeous

[@rajavarma3894]

express451 white are jealous

[@rosymaharjan2924]

Yes

[@bibeksewa1612]

@Shivan Anirudhra that is a misconception....

[@IBelievenevermind]

express451 you're a ugly triggered virgin kid

[@IBelievenevermind]

Natalia reply me lol

[@unrealsamurai2023]

Hard to find girls who love you as much as this girl loves him

[@linmutum6986]

the girl is crying inside

[@khilangajjar]

yepp

[@patriciaselwyn799]

Yes, and should cut the relationship off!(before she is badly hurt) The boy knows how attractive he is and is waiting for his mum to get a proposal!

[@rakeshkoul92]

so true but the guy does not see it, he does not see the writing on the wall. may be there are more important things in life than love but are there i ask ?

[@ArunSKasrk]

@@patriciaselwyn799 Don't stereotype Indian guys. All Indian guys don't wait for their family to bring the proposal. And he grew up in the USA so i dont think he'll go for that arranged crap.

[@mohanr7274]

@@patriciaselwyn799 what the hell with the stereotyping? This arranged marriage thing is so passe` even in India

[@DK-wl2om]

she's so pretty

[@chriztafa]

for an asian

[@loguchennai]

Sabh Restman Indian girls are also Asian ..

[@surplustrident1073]

JUSTin 😂😂😂😂

[@daschund7680]

Sabh Restman HAHAHAA says the insecure singaporean girl ? AWWW pats yourself on the shoulder

[@joelfernandes9793]

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, so what's attractive to you may not be attractive to others.

[@aksheygupta6237]

the border tensions got to him, he is a true nationalist jai shree ram bhai

[@indiemind1716]

😂Ram Ram bhai

[@dblanco77]

I like her voice :-)

[@eli0613]

dblanco77 Me too

[@oyemate8647]

Me too, its really nice

[@oyemate8647]

P R 1. She’s from china 2. Her voice isnt that deep xD

[@Tiger74147]

I thought the same thing!

[@Tiger74147]

You got some issues legionary

[@vivek86mybad]

Yeah ...he's really pissed becuz of doklam :-)

[@msa8370]

Omfg I burst out laughing🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@gyaneshwarsingh6786]

🤣🤣🤣

[@navya.8281]

😂

[@oldgmailaccount988]

Lmao

[@vivek86mybad]

@Tsering Chosphel After galwan they're on a break ...

[@imviiku]

He is So Confused that Whether he Should Do Love marriage or Arranged Marriage 😂😂

[@Gauravkumar-jm4ve]

😂

[@glenncoco8840]

Lmao

[@bountyhunter6722]

😂😂😂lol

[@anushkapradhan4398]

😂😂😂😂😂...right!!

[@gajendrasinghpatel6068]

Kyun bhai sbhi jagah launde hi commitment dikhaye kya laundiyon ka firj nhi bnta kya.tumhare jaise strawberry vale laundon ko barbad kr rhe.

[@samanthacampbell375]

I guessed no. I could tell by their body language. and eye contact. I could tell the care deeply about one another, but not in a forever kind love.

[@biswarajkarmakar9650]

Samantha Campbell - Ur comment is interesting...bt how U define ' forever kind of love ' ?

[@rahilk5139]

What is the forever kind of way body language and eye contact should look?

[@ItsMeToYou]

Bull! Indians grow into love! He's marriage is probably already arranged anyway 😏

[@aravindsai8978]

Do you know about 'Leftover Women' in China? Obviously China considers women who are not married beyond 30 as something as Incapable of producing a Child. Can't Blame China they were trying to reduce Population.The same American Feminists kill you for being different.You don't matter. Might and Power maters not being Politically Incorrect as you do.

[@kkhyojin18]

You know in their culture, they do not make eye contact much. And I gotta be honest with you shes got big ass chin.

[@vidyarani3353]

Sad 😭.She is in love still, he is not and never been, but tried. Sad

[@bubujooestes1499]

Indian guys marry the girls their parents pick for them.He used her.

[@Nico.Robin7]

So do chinese. It's an Asian thing.

[@rahulvp9184]

May be they love each other cause of difference then the same reason cause their break up. But generalising and stereotyping is something only stupidds or assholes do. U know what i mean right

[@penpithmind1941]

@@bubujooestes1499 Not 100% true. Love marriage are normal too in Indian community.

[@Monica-lu6gb]

He is soo good looking

[@ruggsparch2787]

Wtf?? Indians don’t usually get attention, what’s going on??

[@teenypi6960]

@@ruggsparch2787 well looks like the tables are turning now

[@frankocean6676]

@@teenypi6960 im indian i can say he is basic

[@teenypi6960]

@@frankocean6676 and there are guys like me 😎

[@frankocean6676]

@@teenypi6960 wow r u indian?

[@thesouroppe4460]

This happens when their is no Doklam stand-off.

[@vishwassharma7882]

sou chak he still boycott her 😂😂

[@robertmitchell8630]

sou chak rofl

[@priyankadevlekar8951]

Awsm man😂😂😂

[@justfun9971]

Dam man

[@piyushpandey8509]

just spilled water off my mouth after reading this comment ....rofl

[@maruti_rakshit9867]

they are in love, but they want diffrent things from love, they have different goals actually. thats keeping them away from accepting their love for each other.

[@lazybeastz182]

its not they want different things the indian dude is no longer attracted to her

[@shampersaud2763]

The guy looks more in love with the girl, look at their body languages. But there seems to be inner work need to be done with both of them. They seemed really kind and caring towards each other But communication blocks need unlocking .This relationship can survive go very long. If only they get done to the psychological and emotional issues.

[@the_pr3d4t0r8]

The guy doesn't seem to be in love at all. Why are so many people just imposing forceful love on the guy side. When it is clear he is not in love at all.

[@IncognitoGirl112]

What I feel is she's always and still is into him.. very much. But he isn't. Either he doesn't know what he wants or just not that into her in that way. Idk that's how I see it.

[@Ngawanghardy]

They looked so disappointed when they said they were close friends.. as if they wanted more.. sad 😢

[@Dona_maria]

I feel though ✌🏻

[@charmander777]

The guys face: I think I better go back to studying now

[@adhithyanal908]

@@charmander777 😂😁

[@shocker20111]

Bro looks like a brown Ashton Kutcher

[@safzafar6651]

Robert Oppenheimer you are everywhere

[@fmartin59]

Robert Oppenheimer you really don't have a life?

[@robertmitchell8630]

is this Robert Oppenheimer dude a jealous Pakistani

[@haley2121]

#popchips

[@alvinmah6148]

Ashton’s brown poop

[@sams517]

He looks just like the Indian actor Arya. Which is pronounced basically like how her name is said lol

[@bestofinstagram502]

Sam S haha ikr

[@UnknownGhostK]

Sam S more like the anorexic version of him lol

[@Ri9e]

EWW this guy looks better then the actor. Im indian, and idk that actor

[@prettypadma3409]

exactly 😂😂

[@sams517]

Kishan Sri well yeah, a young version of Arya obviously but their facial features are definitely very similar

[@plsnh]

He is a arrange marriage guy...his mum gonna decide dont worry guys

[@neptunians]

@@wickramasinghenishshanka137 just what I thought.

[@ananyagummadi1145]

Omg this made my day 😂

[@jajaja7394]

A number of hindu ppl marry outside thr religion but cant say that for sikh ppl! They are communists and dont marry outside thr faith! That's sick!

[@dididisun]

lol

[@chellecruise7016]

Exactly!!! Mum knows best hahahaha

[@zouhourayachi3375]

that " very close friend " is quite disturbing xD

[@rauufbajrai]

she more than loves him. he's afraid of commitment. the one pulling them both back from a deeper relationship is him. here's the thing, you gotta love your significant other every single day for the rest of your life. it's work in progress.

[@isshiloveshua]

Some of the comments are so toxic smh. People calling him ugly like tf he may not be 'attractive' according to your standards but he surely ain't ugly (ngl he's fine af) and some people (mostly guys) preaching about how women should always be more infatuated towards the guys or that the guy shouldn't show too much of 'love' like that's just some fucked up misogynist mentality

[@mohanr7274]

what are you smoking? most comments acknowledge that he is good lookings

[@isshiloveshua]

@@mohanr7274 there's certainly a difference between the words MOST and SOME. anyway this is half a year old so im not gonna go hunt for the comments that i had come across that day. nice day!

[@tony-pc4kd]

According to Indian standard he is average

[@isshiloveshua]

@@tony-pc4kd well.....not to me ig🤷🏻‍♀️ (and im an indian living in india)

[@smnnightangels4764]

Not everyone is open minded I guess or people cant accept that everyone has their own preferences/tastes. Many do but still stick with their own thinking..

[@princessjoules]

Story of my life.

[@Tiger74147]

Chasing the wrong dudes all the time?

[@teenypi6960]

Tiger74147 lol

[@rohitvarmabhupathiraju5238]

PRINCESSJOULES LoL omg sry

[@100lvlmaster8]

STFU!

[@DUDULALALALALALA]

Only simps defends the fake

[@oliviabrierley4334]

He’s so handsome:))

[@nujacordep1686]

Damn she was aggressive af to get him lol

[@kunalm15]

She definitely wanted him to be her man.

[@prajwalhegde9083]

we want more Indian Chinese couple

[@khushboobhardwaj6358]

Prajwal Hegde you could say 'Chindian' couple 😋

[@rafaellodzhavanioli8635]

Khushboo Bhardwaj , why do I keep seeing a lot of you in the comment section?

[@abhisekdas435]

yaah we are the majority of the World's Population

[@ctynwbraygalm]

Im chinese my wife is punjabi

[@vishalgaware3432]

halfvolley11 just like your mother?

[@Samuel115s]

indians and chinese are both asian but they look extremely different.

[@Sunflowers_220]

Samuel115s and so are arabs !

[@Samuel115s]

TheJazzlover94 yeah your right. Arabs look nothing like chinese. They look either indian, white or mixed.

[@MegaCadette55]

duuhhhhh!😐

[@romanslays3317]

There are Indians which look mongoloid. They live in Northeast India. There is a lot of diversity in India where u will see fair, dark and Indians having mongoloid features.

[@saeefa]

Arabs dont look Indian, very different

[@tashinorbu6303]

Go for it bro... She really love u man

[@Nanancay]

It looks like he was always unsure and he didn't actually LOVE her, but he felt pressured to love someone? IDK it just looks that way to me, maybe he WAS in love but his body language and the way he talks about the past is just unfavourable.

[@RAMIC-tv1ye]

he is just the kind of guy who takes things in life too seriously ..he wants to be in love with her yet not so sure about if he is certain ..it would be better if the part off..

[@beyondallcontrol]

Point blank... if you have to keep making the moves on a guy and he keeps having to study, he is just not that into you. If you have been dating for a while and he can't get himself to tell you he loves you, he is just not that into you. It is easy to see this when you are a third party but it is hard to see when you are in the girl's place. Been there and I totally get it. I hope they both can find happiness and love soon.

[@lionessprowess3581]

beyondallcontrol: based on your line of logic, my boyfriend is not into me either.

[@Esterabides]

That guy was SOOOOO HOTT

[@melissamalcolm1399]

Yep, Indian guys are so fuckin hot and exotic.

[@Animemaniaclover]

STELLA 13 come to India, we have a lot more here

[@karoline8524]

The Sniper Hairy ? Yeah Humans in general have hair on their body . And a real man obviously has more hair ! Don't know about manginas ! Stinky ? Well , India has a huge population & pollution . So , with the crowd & hot temperature , people sweat more . It's about any tropical country near equator. Nothing specific to India alone . I think you're really jealous of Indian men for their hotness & good looks ! huh Which crap country are you from ?

[@sams517]

Katkit Kirti lol its not objective that they look better than Indians. When they both look so similar, what's so different that makes one better looking than the other? Just because some more pakistani's are more light skinned? And all pakistani's are not terrorists nor do they all have as many wives as bin laden smh. Divorce rates would skyrocket in India if it wasn't so taboo, the majority of Indian couples are miserable in their relationships. India's literacy rate itself is really low because of all the poverty so idk who you are to point fingers at some other country that also deals with its own share of poverty and communication. So much superiority complex in one comment jesus

[@jojotanify]

The Sniper wtf maybe u do 😂

[@Blessindisguise]

Man it's SOOOOO refreshing to see a unique mix of people like that! No matter how we look like or where you are from we #weareone

[@lovegorgeoushair]

they would make beautiful babies

[@nationalmixvideos3698]

lovegorgeoushair like a bit yellow and dark

[@ayrtona.k3376]

wtf hahaha

[@nrg8763]

Yellow and brown !!.....hmm... Orange.....

[@doctorbaker505]

Like light brown xD

[@immortal__-__2994]

Chindian

[@KerriCz]

He's super attractive, and so is she! But beyond superficiality, I'm sorry they're not together anymore. I hope they can figure out whether they love each other and want to be together or, if not, find someone who they are in love with. But from what I see in this video they make a great couple...

[@uttblackboard]

The real reason they broke up is because she is a Chinese Spy.

[@rose_blue1]

💀

[@aizo3171]

lol

[@psycho-sv1fw]

😂😂🌚

[@OCz4Life]

Guessed it right because from the very start when they walked in they seemed distant, him especially. It simply looked like they are no longer together. During the video I wasn't that sure, but then again at the end I still went with not in love

[@SubhadeepPatrahere4u]

They should be in Love.. They are a good match. But the problem is Love is love.. It's not a complicated thing.And as per my thinking, they are not in love because they think too much about being in a relation. Also, i don't agree with the guy's point of view. Love never shifts.. "It suddenly comes and goes away"I mean How? is it an engine or something? lolz. If they would take it as normal and easy.. may be they would be a good match. Life,love.. everything is easy. We make it complicated. that's the problem.

[@lionessprowess3581]

kiwibrown: One of the best comments I have found on this video!

[@ashokekumardhole9354]

Love is blind. Be it Chinese or India or any part of the world I find hundreds of inter racial couples be it Indian girl or Indian boy married to different races in utube. These marriages don't often breakup due some reason or other.

[@mangopudding5979]

There are hardly any videos of Indian women married to non Indian men on youtube.

[@sauravmondal4342]

@@mangopudding5979 south korean man and chinese man youtube channels

[@VISHALNZ007]

i don't why people makes things so complicated, they always thinks they will find a better person than the person they already have in their life. Its human nature-in every relationship we tend to feel to good in the beginning but in the end we loss interest, so don't fall prey to your emotions, make yourself aware of things that is happening around you and enjoy life

[@laughtertherapy4570]

puchu kumar most realistic comment in this feed

[@xw6475]

puchu kumar You are soo Right!!! Spot on👏👏

[@krishnasuresh2080]

Well said

[@KASANITEJ]

2 most fertile ethnicities dating together.. 😂😂 good for them

[@KingElrosTarMinyatur]

Bhanu Tez Congo and Sudan is most fertile

[@avijitdey992]

Panchami Shetty no India and China tops fertility. It's not about population.

[@karshaps7648]

@Voldemort : my Lord ! please..! for fucks sake..google before commenting. Fertility rate of India and China is nowhere near Africa and the middle east !

[@wiiliskaako5875]

hhhhhhhhhhh lol you made me laugh so hard , cant breath

[@dr.robingeorge5605]

You just reminded me of the Russel Peter's joke which he pulled out regarding his gf in a show :D

[@Deira854]

Indians are 100% asian, especially when Indians culture is tied to south asian cultures like from Thailand, Combodia, Indonesia etc..

[@beinghuman8827]

Love in America sleeping together lol love in Asia respect

[@queenofmoderation7668]

Being human love in India: Rape

[@samy6833]

+Biatch Please per capita numbers are way higher in US & Pak

[@goodguy7830]

Biatch Please Rape statistics per 100000 population (wiki) 132 - South Africa 63.5 - Sweden 27.3 - USA 17 - UK 28 - Pakistan 1.8 - India China - No statistics ( because commie government don't reveal anything) India have large population that's y more no. of cases , anyways u fkn factory worker working for 7$ per hour won't understand .

[@undna]

How many America costs?

[@pankajraisharma1333]

just because sex is an open topic in a certain country doesnt means people there dont have emotions, thats very arrogant and rude of you to preassume something. As an Indian I am very disappointed by the way of your thinking

[@jadebroadnax3352]

Rohan has the most beautiful skin

[@sneha9890]

bruh big log appreciate rather than bringing random ppl in here

[@supersagarsagar]

dont let the white boys catch you saying that

[@ArchEnemyNemesis1]

Skin? Wtf you talking about? No. Rohan has the most beautiful horses.

[@danielaalzateduque9852]

I actually thought they were in love just because the way she looks at him, like she might still be in love with him. He being so static and kind of uncomfortable with the whole thing made me realize they were not together anymore

[@ranjithramesh8332]

5:50

[@priyalpatel4250]

No...i don't think...that.... it's because he is a reserved guy...shy guy .. whatever you wonna....call that

[@the_pr3d4t0r8]

@@priyalpatel4250 Nah, he is done no need to force it on him. As of the chick she might have moved on, but think she still hopes that he would come around.

[@chrisylthemissile26]

The only reason they're together is because of her. He's so indifferent and passive... it drives me insane when guys are like that.

[@VoltPercival]

What's wrong with that? Love is unpredictable. He should've let her know that he isn't interested. Would've saved each other time.

[@leesteal4458]

He acts the way the anime characters act. Wait, is that Sasuke? Lol.

[@PermanentHigh]

That's how it should be. If the man shows too much eagerness the girl will naturally be repulsed. The woman must always be more infatuated with the man

[@borgir8889]

Its not his mistake tho he wants to live single life i think

[@worldview730]

Don't critique and pass judgement over one video, would you want somebody to do the same to you? or have they ?

[@2PLUS2FIVE]

lol!!! indian men seriously need dating lessons are honest and nice guys bt really really shy!!!!!

[@kikit7262]

Exactly the way he look at her at the begginning.

[@suryateja1713]

This is the maximum you can expect from an Indian. Because, talking to a girl in public is almost to committing a crime or murder. So we are thought at the small age itself to stay away from girls and not to talk with them at anywhere. Things can be different, if parents are kinda liberal.

[@ashishkhaitanvlogs1025]

Women can shift from one relationship to another within a small time period men on the other hand have difficulties overcoming a breakup , Maybe Rohan didn't want his heart to be broken and so he maintains a distance.

[@subhadramahanta452]

I read somewhere that it's opposite, like in an article or something maybe

[@klppdc]

Women can move on at a drop of a hat.

[@vishnukvv]

absolutely correct

[@vishnukvv]

@@subhadramahanta452 If that is the siutation ...many arranged marriages wont happen in Indian subcontinent at least ...leave about others

[@IamDanish99]

@@subhadramahanta452 can you share that article link

[@alannajohnson5043]

Omg awesome video :) love interracial ♡♡♡

[@alannajohnson5043]

Omg nevermind ...what the heck... I don't like that they're not in love. that sucks .

[@lionessprowess3581]

Alanna Gonzalez: thx for the update on your reaction. Exactly what everyone feels

[@rajeshsharmajaipur]

And then they fought over Doklam , Aksai Chin, Laddakh and Arunachal 😁

[@lakshayv3272]

Lol

[@abhinandannuli9835]

lmao :D :D :D these sort of comments have to be there, to feel the completeness

[@humanbeing2722]

To say the truth, China's communist so maybe it wouldn't be good to blame the citizens of China.

[@shubhpatel2547]

Human Being no one's blaming. It's just a joke.

[@kimjongun3097]

And you were happy to see it comming.

[@jimbojimbo6873]

Comment section needs to grow up, guy is handsome and has options

[@gracenazi9724]

the woman loves the man way more than he loves her. i feel her .loving someone too much can be tough especially if the other doesnt love you back as much