A very wise advice your mom gave you. Out of community of property is the best,more especially for someone who already had assets
@sasham81025 ай бұрын
I'm not against partners helping each other, financially, but some women go overboard. A man wanting to marry a woman must prove by working hard to save the lobola. If he can't afford to do that; he is not ready to get married. How can he contribute to household financial needs if he couldn't afford saving money for lobola?
@tholoanasehlabo5 ай бұрын
Lesson learnt
@vectorcrael4 ай бұрын
Girl, you know how to tell a story, Siyabonga shem 👏👏👏
@tholoanasehlabo4 ай бұрын
@@vectorcrael thank you
@sibongilenkosi33945 ай бұрын
Helping a person these days is killing yourself
@tholoanasehlabo5 ай бұрын
Sad truth
@crallo_phades3 ай бұрын
The fact that my name is "Sthe" ae
@sbonelondlovu85495 ай бұрын
Mina the only help I offer people is to give them a glass of water only
@theemapsmash5 ай бұрын
I get your point but don't forget that helping someone is from the genuineness of your heart and it comes with blessing it's not about what the other person will do, if they betray you it's on them. Don't be afraid to help if you feel like doing it bcoz of fear of betrayal.
@sbonelondlovu85495 ай бұрын
@@theemapsmashsorry but I am not Nelson Mandela or jesus.
@Petronella_Mahuma5 ай бұрын
I haven't listened to the whole story yet but yooooooh!!! 😮
@lungiswasogoni59562 ай бұрын
I don't think it's a wise decision to lend your partner money for lobola
@Zanele_Zanny4 ай бұрын
Such a good storyteller ❤😢
@tholoanasehlabo4 ай бұрын
Thank you❤❤
@GodfreyBongumusaGasa3 ай бұрын
Mmmmmmm eish wake wavelelwa mtanomuntu
@masentlejiyane60214 ай бұрын
U married him, it's supposed to be vi Versa
@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof53695 ай бұрын
Bucket of salt😂😂 Sthaaa Stheeee🤭
@tholoanasehlabo5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@zethumgandela-wq4ep4 ай бұрын
Ngowe owamtshatayo nje cc manje awuna value kuye
@StheNhleko4 ай бұрын
Wamunika imali nawe kodwa
@nokulungakhumalo62825 ай бұрын
Everything you did was dum dum
@tholoanasehlabo5 ай бұрын
Is helping a family member a dumb thing to do?
@blessingkhalipha50595 ай бұрын
She is dumb herself dont pay no mind to fools making noise you will drone in the noise❤@@tholoanasehlabo
@theemapsmash5 ай бұрын
I don't that's really her story, she is probably narrating somebody's else's life story. The person messed up the moment she helped her man pay lobola, the guy stopped respecting her bcoz of dat.