ASMR | A Ramble About My Week So Far (Soft Spoken)

This week has been crazy, so I'll ramble about it a bit. I'd like to say I've had a restful, relaxing two-day break, but that's not at all how it worked out. It'll get better eventually!
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[@samhithadwarakanath7745]

We need a Keeping up with Mary's life and her neighbours! Now that's a show I wouldn't miss an episode of!

[@twiggystardust9573]

I've been saying that since Dudes In Trucks! We need this!

[@zebreprincess777]

Speak your mind Mary you are a Queen!!!!! Thank you for all you do!

[@heatherfugere]

Twiggy Stardust you shoulda been here for her old upstairs neighbors stories!

[@mothermoon3936]

Yes a 1000 times yes

[@edfrydlewicz]

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[@kellygirl8327]

I had to pull over to write this. Wtf, is wrong with some people. Are you trying to get Mary to quit KZbin (whoever’s being nasty and mean)? I mean, do you really think she’s playing in the dang toilet. Of course not! I hope the rest of your week goes better Mary. I’m sending you a hug 🤗 and support wrapped up with a little love to go along with it. I’m sorry it’s been a rough time. Take good care.

[@jackiep2948]

I watched it three times and my son and Grandson, 😆 Lol..I loved the water sounds💦 I loved it because it was outside the box. Different ❤️ Mary please keep doing what your doing. I love it!🥰

[@julieb5745]

I second all of this. If you don’t like something don’t watch it. If you can’t say anything nice don’t say anything at all. I saw that and immediately thought oh that’s he mom’s Tupperware bowl. Frankly it sounds like you’ve somehow attracted the attention of some pot stirrers looking to create drama. I was so mad at that comment about the underwriter. Underwriting isn’t supposed to be an emotional thing. Oh well looks like it was for the best it steered you another way, all those roadblock were a just warning signs and you ended up with a better deal. Best of luck in new job!

[@chariclo2998]

I had a thought of it looking like a toilet as a joke but if people are oaf being asses about it that’s just dumb

[@h_o_l_l_y]

It always feels like Mary is your best friend and you can trust her with anything and talk to her about anything! She tells us everything too! 😍❤

[@margaretforsey7763]

Holly Agreed. I always feel like she is a big sister or cool aunt. 🙂

[@h_o_l_l_y]

@@margaretforsey7763 Yeah exactly! ☺💗

[@stikkinixx]

I wish she was! Mary rules.

[@h_o_l_l_y]

@@stikkinixx She does! ☺❤

[@ss-qq7oc]

I usually don't comment but did want to let you know that your channel is a source of happiness and comfort for many ❤ Hoping you and your family are happy, healthy and safe. Take good care of yourself :)

[@christmasina]

I was in the dollar tree yesterday and I was in the baby isle... I stood there and straightened the shelves, the whole time hearing your voice In my head. I said a little prayer for you. I hope you end this weekend on a good note. :)

[@Jan_118]

This is so sweet

[@amandam1054]

I’m the same with the sleeping. When I know I’ll have a big day tomorrow I wake up multiple times a night. I hate it

[@ynz3713]

Take care of yourself Mary.

[@mgmtblurb]

Mary you need a podcast, I could listen to you talk about anything for hours!

[@twiggystardust9573]

We appreciate your smartassery, Mary. For the record, if Mary were to reply to one of my comments with snark, I'd be like "...well played, dude. Well played."

[@satenikel-rawi3378]

Cheers to you and your creativity! Some folks just haven't been blessed with witt or creativity and they need a little help in that direction. .. I read a quote that said " Let your smile change the world, but don't let the world change your smile." Please don't let them rob you of your humour and creativity, those are your tools of healing! Peace, love, and blessings

[@karengarner2687]

Mary, at our age now we come to realise there will always be those people that no matter what u do or what u say they will ALWAYS have something to say, something to complain about and so on! That's their issue tho, just pity them & rise above, up higher where you my friend belong!! Sending you love & positive vibes from rainy Blighty xx

[@Dana-rn8se]

Well, it's troll season, isn't it? 🙄 Just ignore those people, your sassyness is honestly one of my favorite things about you. You make me laugh with your comments about things in videos all the time! It always brightens up my day.

[@MsKittyGirl2010]

*Suck-It Mortgage* now that's a phrase that needs to be on T Shirts.

[@karenkayser6248]

Ericha....now that is a great idea!

[@dennismullins4660]

Are there people that just sit and wait for something to complain about. I guess so.anyway your loyal subs like you just the way you are

[@spencerallegra]

It really does feel that way doesn’t it? I personally think people would benefit from getting a damn life

[@callum2862]

Yep 🥺🥺🥺

[@misscleo378]

I’m not sure why people feel compelled to watch an asmr video, then complain about not liking it. If you don’t enjoy it, find another video to watch.

[@aitanacadenas2928]

Mary! I just wanted to stop by here in the comment section to tell you that I appreciate so much all the work do you do for us and all the effort you put into making all these videos. You take all the time you need to sort everything out and feel better, we’ll be waiting

[@emilies.]

I hate that feeling of being so stressed out that I wake up all the time and constantly dream of work! You'll be so relieved when the week is over

[@kristinafaye4386]

I love these rambles! ❤️😊 I would love to hear more about your childhood stories. Can you please do a ramble of Childhood stories? ❤️

[@gillianwray9051]

Crikey! That's a lot, hun. The lamb cake shirt offended someone? How ridiculous! The washcloth video does not look like a toilet, for heaven's sake. What planet are these people on? I didn't see the comments so don't know if they were snarky, but heck, go ahead and be as snarky as you like if people are dimwits. Good luck with the new job!

[@HausofElvira]

What is this lamb cake shirt that offended people? I'm so confused

[@amydicaprihoe6491]

@@HausofElvira the shirt said "Let's bake shit" 🤣

[@gillianwray9051]

Mary did a video in which she made a cake that looked like a lamb. The t shirt she wore in the video had a slogan on it.

[@clairevaughn6406]

I love these!! Thank you! Makes me feel like I'm listening to an old friend. Very comforting🤗

[@Corkoth55]

Never stop being you! I'm at a hard point in my 20s trying to find myself. It's so good to "know" someone who knows what they're about. You're a queen, Mary.

[@luciaochoa4527]

I think people watching expect every KZbinr to act smiley and nice even when people are being annoying!! It’s normal for everyone to get irritated over “small things” but we don’t know what others are going through, so who are we to say something was rude or not, this is your channel. I’m so glad you took a break Mary because your consistency is rare and very appreciated. I also hope you are able to relax soon because you deserve it!!

[@chriswhitt6685]

I'm stressed and exhausted just hearing what you've been doing. It's both impressive and mind boggling. You're honesty is so refreshing. I'm sure it will all settle down. In the mean time take care. xx

[@wiggbrig]

Congratulations on the new job! The fact that you were sought after speaks volumes!

[@dariamitchell9293]

You have absolutely no reason to apologize! You have a very full list of things you are doing! I would like to tell you that I really enjoyed your cemetery videos. I find wandering and researching a gravestone very satisfying 💜I hope you and your family have a good weekend. Daria🙂

[@summerraine3934]

I love when you do these videos. It's like I'm sitting down talking/gossiping/venting with a friend.

[@Scvye]

Mary, you are a legend. Don't ever change x

[@britneykay3740]

I love you Mary! Your smart & sassy remarks are my favorite thing about you 😂

[@sharonmurphy567]

What is wrong with some people, if you don't like a video don't watch...simple. People need to learn to keep their comments to themselves. Your videos are amazing. Your voice is so relaxing. I need your videos every night to relax. So know you are appreciated more than the idiots who have nothing better to do than troll.

[@ameliavegga]

exactly! well said, do not burn bridges behind you, you never know who comes back in your life or if you don't have to ask to hire you again. it's better to always make polite closers ❤️

[@deejackson7936]

So glad to see this video. Please don't stop doing what you're doing, love your channel 😊

[@AngelinaHardy16]

"at 7am because I'm *I N S A N E E* " 😂😂😂

[@owlseyetarot]

I just wanted to say I appreciate you, and your channel. 💛 Thank you, Mary.

[@charliesimmons2312]

Mary, don’t change one bit. I absolutely love who you are! Congrats on the new job!! Yes please on the outfits of the week. I love those.

[@Sarah_Pratt]

My heavens, how I adore you! This week has been so flippin’ weird for every single friend I know...family too. So happy for the refinance!!!! 👏👏👏

[@velvettrance3173]

I absolutely love you Mary! ❤ Keep being sassy! You are an absolute delight and you always crack me up (and I need the laughs!). I swear you are getting me through this awful pandemic time with your AWESOME videos! Please keep making the outfit of the day videos! They are so much fun, just like everything you do. It makes me so mad that you have to deal with trolls and rude idiots.Please know that you are a treasure and we appreciate you so much!!

[@PhoenixVenus]

Its your channel, you can decide what you want to do in it! Give them your snarky comments if you want xD we absolutely love the way you are. Ignore all those negative people. They do this to everyone, so ignore them (or give them snarky comments haha xD)

[@twiggystardust9573]

I come from a family of smartasses. It's basically how we show affection. So when someone accuses Mary of being a jerk, I'm like... yeah, y'all have never had an older brother throw you a box of tampons and say "weren't you looking for these?" in front of your date. I don't know how thin skinned people survive.

[@briannac882]

Mary is my favorite channel! Don’t let those awful people ruin your mood! We love you !! 💕💕💕

[@michaelabear8685]

Mary i don’t know how to tell you this but your videos literslly have gotten me through everything past few months and every night. your videos are entertaining and you’re like the best ASMRtist. Truly talented! as an 18 year old girl i’m very introverted and i like the comfort of hearing people’s life stories and entertaining things that have happened. thank you for helping me!

[@michaelabear8685]

In conclusion, you’re my favorite youtuber and i hope you never quit youtube.

[@Gorillatagslothie7]

Sounds like my week. Not much sleep included here too. Good luck with your new job! Your true fans are always here for you! ❤️

[@ellec6668]

Glad to see you smile despite so much going on. Tell the haters to piss right off. We are so grateful for everything you share with us. Have a restful weekend Mary! 💙❤💙

[@abbywelker-HaciendaHomemade]

💕 Mary, you are so incredibly wonderful and SO loved!!! Thanks for all you do - your personality and sass are one of the many reasons why I adore you!!!!! Sending lots of love, prayers & hugs to you!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@JordanSmith-bn3zp]

I love your sass Mary, don't change for anyone. I hope this week ends soon, lots of love from me. See you soon.

[@jillian5829]

The outfits of the week videos are the best, please keep them going Mary 💕 Good luck with the new job and good luck to the boys with school too! I just started college and I’m so grateful that your videos have been helping me fight the stress lately

[@kazbar7611]

Good luck with your new job Mary 🤞. I'm so happy you are still going to be doing your outfits of the week videos, I just love them. I hope you manage to get some rest/sleep.

[@KCAdams-kr7ow]

Dang! Identity thieves don’t require that much. Hoping that Suckit was a legit company and not doing something evil with your submitted paperwork. Congrats on the refinance, finally.... and the job! Ignore the one sided haters. Life is too short and you are amazing! 😁

[@margaretforsey7763]

I am so happy that you took a break for a couple of days, Mary. Self care when life is nuts is so important! Also, you look great. Love those earrings.

[@margaretforsey7763]

Also, you never ever seem rude or hateful to me. You are sassy sometimes, and it is awesome! I am sorry that sometimes people’s KZbin comments get you down. It must be so hard. Please know that for every obnoxious comment or complaint you receive, there are probably 10x more people who find great comfort in your videos, and think you are awesome. 💕

[@Mandy-The-Millennial]

That company definitely sounds shady. We refinanced a few months ago and we did it over the phone (1 or 2 days) then they sent someone out to our house to close. Super easy. Glad you got it worked out.

[@carry_on_4eva830]

I’m a smart ass too. Those are my favorite kind of people. Mary you are great! Don’t let anyone on here drive you away. When you are doing good people will always try to bring you down. I’d also love if you kept doing your outfits of the week videos! They are my favorite. ❤️

[@riv7100]

I look forward to your rambles Mary! We love you, don’t let the haters get you down ❤️

[@bridgetteambris6983]

Dang, you have so much going on in life. I don't know how you keep up. I struggle with just work and making dinner. 😒

[@ayannaoman]

Mary i guess i’m going to have to take a nap this afternoon. 😂🤣🤣🤣

[@Kororocket]

Mary, one of the best parts about having Southern parents is they always multiple tools and almost always have extras that they can give you 😂 made me think of my dad and grandpas always giving me tools and teaching me how to do handy work

[@cecilielarsen1752]

I rarely comment but every once a while I feel like I need to express my appreciation for you and your videos Mary! I personally have never thought you have an attitude problem! You're just a woman who doesn't just take everyone's crap and I try to channel my inner Mary when that happens to me. I hope your week turns out better in the end. Mine most certainly has, seeing your video. And please keep making outfits of the week!! They're my favorite, it doesn't matter if you wear it or not, just looking at your pretty clothes and hear your thought process in picking them out is great! There are so many people you help every day by just being you ❤

[@Erin-im5bk]

I’m sorry that people are such jerks. You had every right to correct them and speak your mind! You were NOT being a b****. I hope that your week gets smoother, Mary. You deserve some rest. Also, congratulations on your new job! It is a change that can be scary and rocky at first but it is definitely all worth it. 💜💜

[@siobhankelly8309]

Just went to look at your baking video to look at the shirt and I'm dying 😂😂

[@amberfaulk4975]

Its an awesome shirt! She's worn it before several times

[@rosiebratz]

Glad to see you back Mary..you are such a lovely person and you really do make my days better!

[@codered0280]

Hey Mary, glad to see your back!

[@AlexisSchlueter]

I absolutely still would love to see your outfits of the week. Even if it's a tshirt and yoga pants for sitting downstairs. I love those videos!

[@brittanybrown1134]

People are idiots... who is putting there hands in a toilet?? Don’t worry about those people, they aren’t worth your time

[@knomsie2070]

Mary, you are amazing! Going through all that stress and pressure ... many would have crumbled. You are appreciated so so much ❤️🇦🇺

[@kellycrouse9995]

Also you should dispute the credit pulls! They should never pull your credit more then once especially when it’s on them that it took too long.

[@sarahb9386]

Yes, your outfits of the week videos have been some of my favorite videos from you lately! If you still feel up to doing them, I’m sure I’m not the only one who would watch them (even if you don’t actually wear them 😉) Keep your chin up Mary, you are loved by so many!

[@ashleygates4454]

I loooooove your outfits of the week videos. Please keep doing them ❤️

[@karebearshay]

I just want you to know I appreciate your videos. I have touble sleeping and your calming voice helps me fall asleep. And I enjoy your stories and sense of humor. Don't let a few salty trolls get to you. They have this mental health issuet that makes them mock and/or put others down to make themselves feel better, it's not really about you.

[@alison12171]

I truly don’t understand how you get so much done. I can barely work full time and still get the dishes done. Your work ethic is awesome. Also I love your “let’s bake shit” shirt, it made me laugh.

[@kenneythekoala]

i love that you enjoy your day job, its so refreshing and normal of you. Normal is something we are sorely missing on youtube nowadays

[@Soulful_luv]

Omg Mary your so authentic! I love your energy. That’s actually how I am. Don’t ever change who you are. ❤️❤️❤️

[@mossncloverdiy299]

Thank you for all you do! I look forward to seeing what videos you put out for us! 🥰 you take so much time and make such an effort , don’t let negative idiots stop you from this! 🙏🏻

[@marybethbauer3389]

Have enjoyed watching your channel for some time, but first time commenting. You are so talented, genuine, and funny. Tell all those complainers to stick it where the sun don't shine! All the best with your new job.

[@user-sr5hq8pm9b]

We love that youre a smartass! Some people need some snark thrown at them! Thank you for your videos, starting my first serious job on Monday and moving and your videos are getting me through the anxiousness

[@canadiangirl2839]

I love your channel because you are sassy and smartass. You speak your mind and say things like they are. This is your channel, you do you! Those who called you the B-word are low class citizen. You don't call someone the B-word when you made a rude comment in the first place!

[@amywebb8284]

love your videos Mary! You are so down to earth and I love listening to your stories! ❤️❤️

[@angelasmith0817]

It didn't look like a toilet to me. I'm guessing some folks might be shitting in bucket's 🤢😂

[@RachASMR]

*Mary I feel you on the irritation with youtube and people’s comments. I was asked to do a video, I did it and was scrutinized. And I’ve had it. So now I’m just not doing story times anymore on youtube. I’m done with peoples crap! So I hear ya!*

[@Loveinthemist11]

Good luck! You totally have this. Know you aren’t the only one with some intense stress. It will soon be behind you!

[@alexlin9565]

Now you can pick whatever you want for Outfits of the Week. They don’t have to be layered for the meat locker. And I’m a smartass too. That’s why we love you so much, because you’re hysterical! Keep on being you, Mary.

[@lor5272]

glad you are back! hope you are doing well

[@eliseplunkett398]

Yesss! Please do the outfits of the week videos, I absolutely love them!

[@Beauty_816]

Your voice is so soothing thank you for doing asmr videos and relaxing people you are appreciated.

[@rachell7318]

Outfits of the week are my fav!! You are so good at putting them together :)

[@noahthallon6651]

congratulations on your new job Mary! Sending love and support to you, Hopefully people leave you the f alone as your channel brings so much happiness and relaxation to so many. xx

[@MegaBrownie19]

Someone reported that shirt!!! LOL. These people need a life. I appreciate your videos! Thank you!

[@galrod21]

I feel you ! Right now I have so many things on my plate, it’s very overwhelming but I think a calendar helps so much, it keeps my anxiety down D:

[@jennahospodar931]

Mary, you always have a way of making me feel like everything is going to be ok ❤️❤️

[@yummymochii]

Bored, sorry, dumb ppl always have things to say cause they are jealous. We are so thankful for you mary. You have made my week sometimes even month. Your supporters will always have your back. Hopefully with the new job you will still be able to do outfit planning I love those! We love you!

[@TheUniqueHistoryChannel777]

Love that you share with your subscribers.

[@bethmeyer5177]

Congratulations on your new job! You got this, Mama! ❤️

[@alexsmiiles]

omg I get that too when I'm stressed I just have nightmares that I'm late and wake up throughout the night I feel ur pain

[@elielliso]

Yay!!!! So glad you’re back, that you took a break, and that you have some light ahead. ❤️

[@ariesgirl4994]

I’m here for it! ALL of it! Snarky, smart ass, human! Strong women seem to frighten a lot of people. Good luck with your new job, Mary!

[@Gempopsicle]

You are such a trouper, Mary! I literally don’t know how you juggle it all. Hope you manage to get some rest over the weekend x x

[@raine3823]

Not gonna lie, since this corona stuff has happened and social distancing I haven't really been active as much as I'd like. So this video was kind of relaxing and felt like I was having just a 1 on 1 conversation with someone and just listening to what they had to say. I would totally be down if you were to make another one of these in the future :)

[@emilybosworth9049]

I’m glad to hear I’m not the only one having a wild, stressful week💓💓

[@moonqueen2037]

I don’t have many friends in real life. It’s nice to have nice people like Mary ❤️ rambling with you. I know it sounds silly and all but like I to grab a cup of tea when watching these videos and pretend like sitting there and catching up with a friend 😅🌹

[@silentwhisper8633]

I love you just the way you are Mary. People are going through a lot, we have to forgive each other when we 'lose' it🥰

[@stephpick]

The weekend is here! You made it through the week. A new adventure starts tomorrow. Although its nervous starting a new job, its also a time to expand our knowledge, met new people and friends. It will be so much easier for you with working from home and the boys home schooling. You will feel much more lifted. Use your time off to explore the outdoors so you are not in the house 24/7. I listen to all your videos while working. I have just changed job role from manual to admin desk. The office is so quiet you could hear a pin drop, so having your voice gabbing away about your life on my head phones is such a lovely feeling, like catching up with a friend....a friend across the pond. Your sarcasm would fit in great in the UK. We are a dry humor bunch. haha. Stay safe, keep moving forward and good things come to those who are good to others. Much love to you and your family. Christmas and New Year is on its way, we can make it.

[@mia.nickel]

i loved the magic towel video and thought it was so relaxing. i love your personality. i hope your week gets better 💕

[@kayla.6099]

yes please continue outfits of the week! i love those!

[@lugner3522]

I hope you are okay, sending love from Spain. Difficult times for everyone but never give up, you got this❤️

[@sarahmorris2057]

Thank you for taking the time to let us know how you are Mary. You have absolutely nothing to apologise for, we all appreciate the time you give us and I'm sure the vast majority of us were saddened by those few who felt able to criticise you so unfairly. Good luck with everything especially your new job xx