An Autistic Wife with Down Syndrome and Her Husband

Charlotte is an autistic person who has Down syndrome. Her husband, Riley, is also autistic. The two plan to one day have a child. They are currently in college so that they can provide their future children with a safe and stable home. Charlotte and Riley describe love as "a feeling of connection even when you are not together, you just feel it in your heart".
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[@AUNZAnon]

""Because I'm married to the woman who's right for me and I have a good life", said with a wholesome grin and from the heart. God bless them both.

[@rachmunshine9474]

This that and also that she is her normal and just their joy ❤

[@gratefulgrace8023]

Pure, innocent, unconditional love. What a beautiful couple.

[@MrsKyleAbbott]

May we all be so blessed to love and live this simply and completely.

[@TashiTV813E]

I know

[@chericandream]

sWORD Spirit and Truth. Yahu'Ah= Spirit= AbbA Creator Father. Yahu'Sha Hebrew Anointed SonShip= sWORD and Head(ROCK) to body(stones) of congregation covenant loyal (be)living IN earth, that adhere TO His voice: (Yashra'Al) ...The Most High Ahb Yahu'Ah sovereign saves. Emet ❤️

[@Jasminzzs]

I’m autistic but only 13, I was really sad because I thought no one would ever like me. This gives me hope that everyone’s the same even if we have Autism or anything else. Thanks so much everyone you’re all so kind! Yes I’m 13, I have had my account since 2014s it used to be my fathers.

[@MountainJohn]

I have autism and my wife has autism. We both work, we both have our own apartment, we both have friends and have our own hobbies, both 23. We plan on having our own kid within the coming year. Don't let autism stop you from being you!

[@topcat5233]

thats exactly why i love this channel so much

[@shivakrishnarama]

You're young, you could RETRAIN your mind to the point where people might not notice you have Autism.

[@briannenurse4640]

You are infinitely likeable and you will find the people who will see you and celebrate you exactly as you are. It may take some time, but please don't give up on yourself. You'll get there.

[@808bboarder]

There’s definitely someone out there who will love, appreciate, and respect you. Take care and enjoy the journey of life! 💛

[@danielclemence3689]

Imagine how pleasant planet Earth would be if everyone was as nice as them. Lovely.

[@YoMomma80]

Keep dreaming bud.

[@31topor]

“I don’t like being tailgated. I don’t like people zipping by too fast.” You and me both.

[@adamv4951]

These two are more normal than most others in today's crazy world. Gorgeous couple.

[@travis6221984]

Agreed!!

[@oneofmany1087]

unlike the cocaine flop white house!

[@yourfriendlyneighborhoodghost.]

Stop the cap

[@grantv2313]

Was thinking the same. They’re happier than the rest of us who are deemed normal.

[@suzs3770]

Absolutely 💜 beautiful couple

[@kanio7720]

My respects to the parents who raised these wonderful human beings

[@oGrasshoppero]

Oh that is such a true statement. The parents did an absolutely amazing job!

[@melissalungu1637]

Absolutely! As a parent, it’s our responsibility to ensure we give our children the tools they need to survive and cope in a world regardless of any disability they have. My eldest is autistic and although not diagnosed, hardly anyone would know he is on the spectrum because we’ve taught him how to speak to strangers, how to hold a conversation, what people expect in social situations, and he can cope now. He used to get so anxious but that is now just a memory for him, not his actuality now. It’s all about highlighting their strengths and giving them tools to cope with the areas they are weaker in. I love these guys because they compliment each other so well!

[@morbidmanmusic]

do you know that they had parents>?

[@SoulSisters862]

​@@morbidmanmusic Let's quit reading comments based on our own perspective but rather, based on the situation that obtains.

[@karensamilow4409]

​@@beaverboykrunkprojecting quite a bit there corpulent sad troll. Get over your envy.

[@385nol1]

They understand marriage and relationship on a level far greater than those without their disabilites. God bless them and keep them.

[@AneXineohp]

Indeed, what a sweet point. Yes, because they're not trying so hard to abstract its purpose and what such a dynamic does to their overall emotions. They mentally are better off in that way, to not have such a need to mindlessly abstract and make a song and dance about marriage and relationship as if it requires some artistic or poetic interpretation or overachieving, Olympian nature. This is why this channel is so great, it showcases how beautiful, curious, and/or livable life can be with varying perspectives of how it works.

[@Nunya7211]

What a great point. The way they can explain their decisions is amazing. Its a better understanding than the average person has. They traded some common abilities for some very uncommon ones. They are just different. Even his understanding of the benefits of being tall was so wise hahaha

[@Whitekasl]

I have a son who’s 6 weeks tomorrow! He has Down’s syndrome. I worry about him finding love every day but after seeing this I feel soo much better we will help him find the love my wife and I have

[@charlotteheleneakacharlief8879]

Congratulations from Charlotte & Riley

[@Tia-gw1sm]

He will

[@VividYouth]

❤he will

[@tomorrocat]

I grew up with a Down's syndrome uncle, for which I have always felt very grateful and fortunate, and I want to say that you are too ❤. My uncle was not high functioning enough to live independently (though many are of course!), but was always a joy to be around, for everyone who knew him, and had a very happy life! I have always gravitated toward Downs people since then, volunteering at the local special needs agency just to get to hang out with them . May you and your family have as fun and rewarding an experience with your new blessing as my family did with ours ❤️

[@hannahbanana7834]

"I'm married to the woman who is right for me and I have a good life. I didn't always, but I do now." I don't know why this was so touching to me, I wish these two the best

[@Pluviophile73]

It was lovely to hear 🥹

[@cassandra5516]

"After I met her I felt like I had someone to be successful for." 😢 oh my goodness.. what a great husband ❤

[@johnconnor7958]

that is the goal of every husband, it comes natural for us, even if the wold hates men nowadays.

[@cassandra5516]

@@johnconnor7958 I believe you! It's certainly true for my husband, he works hard for our family 😊

[@Nikki_with_the_blikki]

So pure ❤

[@MonochromaticBlues]

They’re great for each other

[@Yggdrasill8]

@@johnconnor7958 That's if they manage to get the motivation for that goal. Unfortunately less and less people are losing faith in current politics and economics.

[@John3.16-]

I can see Riley has that 'astounded with delight' feeling about Charlotte every moment of every day.

[@mandymawson9121]

“When I didn’t have a girlfriend, it was because I had to find myself before I met her.” 👏👏👏👏 Go Riley! These two are so sweet! It was so brave of Charli to move to the US. I hope they have a wonderful life together. ❤

[@heiditaylor6206]

100%

[@thelullinthestorm]

“When I met her I felt like I had someone to be successful for “ That’s it ❤

[@me77ki]

That's how my husband got sober. He found me, and said he finally had a reason to get sober. That was 17 years ago, still going strong

[@lucinejhal7413]

What a nice video ! I wish you all the best. Je vous souhaite tout le bonheur du monde....❤

[@ruthwells2447]

❤❤❤

[@Threemore650]

My heart just swooned at those words. He’s done some really deep thinking about the world and himself. His joy in no longer being lonely is palpable.

[@devotae]

A loving wife that trusts, supports, and encourages her husband to the best of his abilities.❣ Something many modern woman struggle with and wonder why they are still single. 😂

[@julievanderleest]

Your channel has broken the stigma of people who have disabilities, facial disorders, etc… they are just as important as everyone else in the world and they are people too who have real feelings, hopes and dreams.

[@Stringz]

Well it would be stupid to think anything otherwise. I don’t know where people would think in terms of that stigma you suggested in the first place. Why would a disability make someone not have feelings or hopes or dreams? Why would that make them any less important than anyone else???? That makes no sense.

[@aliengreeter]

You are so right, wonderfully put.

[@sarap5015]

I feel like this channel helps people understand disabilities that they might not have experienced life. I know I feel more confident talking to someone with a disability after watching them. Before I would worry that I could annoy them by introducing myself or asking if they need help. Now I understand as long as I'm respectful most people are happy to have a conversation.

[@bicylindrico]

If people will just watch, it will help them to keep their own lives in proper perspective. I share these with my children too.

[@Samahra01]

​@@Stringz take it easy...they are being kind:) Despite the fact that you understand this and I understand it, the world sometimes does not! It's okay to admit this. It doesn't discount the fact that we know the truth...we are all different and equally unique and beautiful souls. It's good to show people GRACE and not think that the worst of what people do and say but to think the best. God Bless🙏❤️

[@DKTrickster]

Can't believe how adorable they are. They are truly good-looking people. It's not even a "good-looking compared to having diagnosis". Just a beautiful couple. So sweet. If everyone were as innocent and pure as these two, heaven would be on Earth.

[@vampirejett]

seriously charlotte looks like a doll with mohair (goats hair,it’s ideal for dolls since it’s very beautiful and soft) and riley could be a model

[@vampirejett]

@@Jayess-c we are??

[@vampirejett]

@@Jayess-c either way they’re being nice? why are you so mad at them being nice? they said they’re a beautiful couple and they are!! would you rather someone be mean?? i mean i understand being babied is annoying and treating disabled people like they’re “less than” is bad but this comment wasn’t meant that way?

[@vampirejett]

@@Jayess-c if they were my friends i would’ve said the same thing,that they were a cute and adorable couple.

[@vampirejett]

@@Jayess-c and in fact i would love to be their friends,they seem like amazing and inspiring people

[@H.R.H-Amina_Bin_Shafiq-SHAKTI]

He's EXTREMELY handsome. AND they're SOOOOOO sweet together. They're compatible and you can tell that they truly ADORE AND LOVE EACH OTHER! THEYRE SO HAPPY TOGETHER

[@danielpacker6750]

Extremely handsome?😂😂😂😂😂

[@charlotteheleneakacharlief8879]

​@@danielpacker6750envious overweight troll eh?

[@loganeggleston9744]

@@danielpacker6750bold comment for someone without a pfp

[@Jxlsc]

​@@danielpacker6750nein aber nlch 100000x als sie und er hat immerhin keine Behinderung 😂

[@nabiladalilla380]

🎉​@@danielpacker6750 he has a lovely smile

[@pliskind]

A perfect marriage is just two „imperfect“ people who refuse to give up on each other and support each other.

[@SimplyElisa79]

Amen!

[@EZ-IZZY1995]

Lol who says they're imperfect? I know you meant well and didnt mean any harm, but honestly society could learn to adopt their mindsets on life.

[@benjaminfrancisgonzales8431]

@@EZ-IZZY1995 Nothing imperfect about this two wonderful people. They should be perfect model for every couples out there.

[@fortcrafterbossbehold9027]

​@@EZ-IZZY1995 Imperfection is not referring to their syndromes, it's referring to their personalities and traits which thankfully applies to ALL of us. Most average people have ridiculously high expectations of complete perfection from themselves, their partners, or their whole relationship which is just not how real relationships work. You may have weak spot in the way you act after a tiring day of work, or your partner may take jokes more seriously than you anticipate. No one has a perfect personality, and those who expect one are only going to draw a fat blank.

[@aliengreeter]

True, my ex was the epitome of imperfection. And I hope she rots in hell, by her own choosing of course. I personally don't care what she does; I only imagine she'd want to rot in hell because it's where her mother and friends will be.

[@HP66856]

They sounds like they have a marriage most other couples would be jealous of. Such pure hearts 💕

[@babytv0523]

@@zedrickgo4519why? They are perfectly happy and very much in love with each other.

[@walbaum1813]

@@DrivableNote kranke Menschen haben es sowieso nicht leicht, und dann will sie noch ein Baby?

[@PrisTvv]

nice

[@paupa007]

its a little sad, cause if they have kids their kids have a high chance of also having down syndrome/autism

[@lexdocampbell970]

@@catcradle2532I agree

[@TheBeefSlayer]

I love this man right away. I feel People would be lucky to have a friend like this guy. I bet he’s never done anyone wrong on purpose in his entire life. He seems like someone with a pure heart of gold. Prayers.

[@mistybailey]

They have more sense than normal couples

[@tracy9157]

​@@mistybaileythey are a normal couple.

[@gwine9087]

My grandson is Asperger's and the challenges are many. I so admire this young lady with a double "challenge". She is an inspiration.

[@Haplo2006]

Find yourself someone that looks at you the way these two look at each other.

[@mad7138]

It will be wonderful, it's a love that not everyone has it.

[@redblueeboy7559]

Facts!!

[@2gurlsmama1]

Absolutely ❤

[@rhondadavis1483]

Yes 💯 And the way they talk about each other, how they motivate each other, inspire each other. They are an amazing couple and I pray God’s blessings over them and their marriage! What sweet sweet people🥰

[@RobVespa]

That would be nice

[@CarbonI4]

I am quite horribly cynical about the world but these two melt my heart, what a gorgeous pair of people.

[@celestialknight2339]

Seriously! 🤍

[@simonapetrov8885]

same here!

[@funkmasternaste2733]

True

[@SheerMagnetismDarling007]

Love it 😍 💕

[@Italianmami209]

This ❤️

[@riverlandrandy]

I can't believe how well spoken he is, shes a little darling

[@natrod8073]

He has a high functinal autism, as she. That's whats Asperger is. For Down syndr. I don't see the usual facial characteristics, so, 😮she is high functional, also. They project good parenting during development. Best wishes, keep your life private.

[@musingfoodie1041]

Many Aspergers are very well spoken and even hyperlexic. Many learn to read before they can even walk.

[@kotovodkotov6868]

That's so wonderful that there is place on Earth where people with disabilities and medical conditions can live in happiness and safety, without oppression, persecution, humiliations from the side of agressive toxic society.

[@misspapo3444]

Charlotte loves her tall, super attentive husband. That’s how it should be, love it. He’s just straight smitten by her drive and intelligence, their love is so pure.

[@Wooplot]

emphasis on tall

[@robo6118]

❤

[@ingesexton811]

I love how he said, I can reach the top cabinets and thr top of the refrigerator THATS what love is! Find someone that reaches the top of your refrigerator ❤

[@annebritraaen2237]

@@Wooplot Because he can reach the top of the shelves, something I can totally relate to. I went with the first one with a dish-washer. We have been married for almost forty years.

[@jaxthedisintegrator8096]

Okay, those answers are actually Funny 😂

[@emmasdad5426]

I have a high functioning daughter with Down syndrome. This is beautiful and I hope one day she finds someone like this man.

[@dollypalacios3087]

I have a 27 year old son with Down Syndrome who I have the same dream for.

[@emmasdad5426]

@@dollypalacios3087 this is a wonderful couple. A perfect match. Hope your son finds someone like this.

[@Cherryyfairryy]

I volunteer with Best Buddies and my buddy is 34 with down syndrome and has a boyfriend she’s been dating for years. You should see if there’s a Best Buddies for adults in your area! All the buddies are in relationships with people they met in the program, it’s really sweet

[@RED_RUBY_DA_SLEEZE]

@@Cherryyfairryy 👁👁 AWWW.. THAT SOUNDS REALLY SWEET💯💯

[@kawaii_cat750]

I've actually got autism and adhd

[@jimothy2250]

he plays six instruments dude is awesome :)

[@user-cg6ko1zt1k]

I can't believe how unbeliavably sweet they both are. When she said "I always love Riley, mostly like every day" that was amazing. Funny, sweet, innocent. Hope they have an amazing life together.

[@MkUltraViolet]

I LOVE how Chris gave VERY specific directions for telling the story of their meeting “in chronological order and assuming the person listening has never heard it before”. So so helpful for many neurodivergent folks and he is just so tuned in.

[@PalinaZ]

Yes,i LOVED that too. He knows his stuff

[@whimsywee71]

My thoughts exactly!

[@t.n.9720]

He’s really good with working with people with different differences and know how to ask and be respectful, and let people shine and tell their stories

[@hannahwitts1339]

I'm curious, why he gave this specific instruction. Could somebody explain the reason for this?

[@harmony6643]

@@hannahwitts1339 Because a lot of times it can help people, especially with autism, to have very specificly phrased questions or else it can cause confusion or overload be ause many autistic people tend to think about things very much in detail and deeply and thoroughly. For example: A teacher at school sets the assignment "imagine you're on a holiday and write a card home". A neurotypical person might just write some shallow things and use some typical postcard phrases in them without much meaning, a neurodivergent person might be irritated by that task because, of course, what you write in a postcard and how you phrase it depends on who exactly at home you are writing to (grandparent, parent, young sibling, best friend, etc.) and also where you are on your vacation (snow, sea, woods, mountains, city) and how long you are staying there (just for a weekend, a week, several weeks) and for what purpose you came there (have an adventure, relax, meet with a friend who loves away, etc.). Another example: Someone asking "what colour is an elephant" would typically get the response "grey" from a neurotypical person because grey is what elephants are usually portrayed as. An autistic person, however, might think about an elephant in india vs. in africa (where they have different shades of skin colour) or about an elephant covered in mud or even their blue toy elephant and might be confused whether to answer "grey" or "brownish" or "blue" or whatever. Giving specific instructions (i. e. asking "what colour does an elephant have who was born in india and has clean skin) can clear up these multiple options and make it easier to not have misunderstandings when communicating.

[@QueenStarNova]

As someone with multiple disabilities who wants to be married, this makes me incredibly happy.

[@AsTheWheelsTurn]

you will find someone! there is someone for everyone!

[@justanothermortal1373]

I hope you find that special someone

[@YochevedDesigns]

SAME. I often feel like I'm too broken for anyone to want me, and I'd just be a burden.

[@goodmorning2386]

you will find love!! There's someone there for everyone

[@bluelight8664]

​@@YochevedDesignsoh i hope u can heal .many of us feel broken in a way but we are still worthy of love

[@PenelopeHighet]

I met her and had someone to be successful for. Wow what a wonderful husband

[@Missathena918]

The way he smiles at her 😢

[@astrohitter1791]

They have a better relationship than most people

[@helenfong3339]

My first thought!

[@veronicagonzales4781]

❤

[@dianaphillips5631]

My thoughts exactly 💯.

[@elizabethhall2354]

100%! This is true love ❤

[@mr_mack_indenver7807]

A nice, happy couple! Hope they have a long happy life together.

[@billybee9659]

“We’ll, Down syndrome and autism is actually a normal thing I have.” This was such a lovely answer. I’m glad she sees her circumstances as just regular. It’s just who she is. ☺️

[@Skatejock21]

usually they do. I have met a few with down syndrome and one of my friends has downs. They dont think like we do. Its not that she sees her circumstances as regular. They dont know any different. They do not compare like we would. That is the difference. To them, that is how it is.

[@user-qt2kd9cy8b]

😊out

[@Rod732]

yes but when she was asked what she would say to kids with autism she did not understand the question - they must be respected but they can't look after a baby what the heck

[@karensamilow4409]

@@Rod732 Actually cretinous troll, Charlotte was asked what advice she would give people with Down syndrome.

[@charlotteheleneakacharlief8879]

​@@Rod732Yes WE CAN BE QUIET TROLL

[@lipstickhippie5008]

These two seem to have a better sense of love and caring a lot better than others without disabilities

[@musingfoodie1041]

How wonderful the way she describes him… Sweet, kind, generous and a great sense of humor!

[@Deauxp._]

Riley’s definition of love is so perfect! “It means being connected; it’s something you don’t just see, you feel from the heart” What a genuinely beautiful couple 🥰

[@Deetroiter]

Am I the only person who couldn't stop smiling the whole time listening to these two amazing people give their story?

[@lauraswann5543]

No. I was smiling too.💖

[@sharinmythoughts2510]

Nope, my heart felt so happy that they love each other and are confident. It was so beautiful to watch! If every relationship could be this beautiful when people found their mate, what a wonderful place this would be ❤❤❤

[@Threemore650]

Throw in some weeping and I’m with you.😂

[@iitickle6510]

I caught myself smiling big when they spoke, especially about each other.

[@BrassyBrunette]

My face got tired from grinning so wide

[@mitskiluvr420]

their enthusiasm for their relationship and pride for each other just exudes from them both. i wish them both the best, such a sweet couple

[@imdoneplus]

My girlfriend and I are both disabled. She’s a stroke survivor with aphasia and an auditory processing issue with oral speech, and I have PTSD, HPPD, anxiety, chronic depression and suspected adhd/autism. Our issues are very different but often that’s what makes us good for one another. I mention this because I think a lot of people think life is over with a disability, it’s not. There is someone out there who will love you for you.

[@RiccardoLifeCoach]

I think there is. But I also live in Italy😅

[@jarkachalmovianska7812]

Love it guys, great mindset and yes its true, that mostly there is somebody for everybody, we just need to be openminded and openhearted, no prejudice❤

[@luchirimoya]

My partner and I are also both disabled! He is partially blind and I have several chronic illnesses. Life is different for us, but it just goes to show that disability can present itself in many different ways, and disabilities are not all the same!

[@idid138]

@Derpie McDerpenstein I agree 👍 great name! Ha!

[@imdoneplus]

@@luchirimoya exactly! People often think I’m “normal” and sometimes people see my girlfriend and think the same. Many disabilities are invisible, and disability can happen at any age. It’s important for the public to understand the disabled folks come in all shapes, sizes, ages, etc. I’m so very happy to hear that you and your partner have found a good fit. It’s important to celebrate positives but especially in love! ❤️

[@ysvleis]

“I had to get to know myself before I could find her” - yes sir. What an absolutely beautiful couple.

[@PEACEinYESHUA-oj7vc1pk7w]

I loved that too❤

[@bella-bee]

Such a mature and sensible understanding

[@MorningDove]

Why is it that the divorce rate is so high all over the world, yet this beautiful couple stay true, loving, kind, loyal and respectful to the one they love? This happiness is what love is meant to be 💙

[@cristinamorenolamin3217]

What a beautiful articulate couple you almost don’t see the “disabilities” because they are extremely “able”. Love them both.

[@gillianjohnson876]

They are wise, self-aware and so sweet. I pray Riley and Charlotte have a long happy life together.

[@brahdleessr]

Me too

[@kaskahea1274]

👌🏽 right! a prosperous life!

[@lilchewoodarkoblivion9314]

​@@kaskahea1274судя по красивой и благоприятной обстановке их дома, их жизнь очень благополучная.

[@rozalina531]

Amen 💕 🙏🏻 💕

[@MarianR1111]

Charlotte is right! Riley is amazing! Handsome, kind, articulate. What a great couple. They really demonstrated that autism is irrelevant in regards to love and friendship.

[@1766584]

And don’t forget tall.

[@user-zq1ki5fb2i]

​@@1766584 thats the most important😂

[@whatever3145]

​@@user-zq1ki5fb2i yall need to calm down

[@1766584]

@@user-zq1ki5fb2i yes! 🤣

[@user-zq1ki5fb2i]

@@whatever3145 Nuh, I mean it's actually cute and sweet of her:) Every girl want their man to be tall, isn't it?

[@royfr8136]

I've always hated the idea of marriage - And now I know why = These are the happiest and most genuinely happy couple I have ever witnessed.If I had witnessed more married people like them, I would have got married years ago...

[@Nunya7211]

That is how I saw it too. I hated marriage for a lot of my life until I saw some good marriages. It put all the bad ones in perspective too

[@Rompastompa71]

Couple Of the Year Award!

[@batacumba]

I’m really impressed by how driven and independent Charlotte is. She must have lovely parents who are really proud of her. Riley is a delight too, they both seem like such sweet people. I’m so glad they found each other.

[@emmalouie1663]

imagine if she had terrible parents though... where would she be I wonder

[@jarkachalmovianska7812]

​@@emmalouie1663 in mental institution probably completely cut from real life and pleasure and all good things

[@batacumba]

@@emmalouie1663 you don’t have to wonder, there are already plenty of news stories you could peruse about the awful things that happen to disabled kids who don’t have good parents. Not sure why you’d even need to posit such a question, we already know just how terrible the world can be. Why not just be happy for this instance where a lovely young lady has clearly come from a great home with great parents?

[@Katrinaantonius]

Right?! She's amazing!

[@emmalouie1663]

@@batacumba Oh, so you mena KZbin only shows the ideal stories about the most fortunate.

[@Smoshy16]

I have no idea how or why this came up in my feed. I'm a 50 year old recently single man and this made me cry with happiness. These two have such beautiful souls and I can only wish them the best together.

[@karenlittleton6073]

Smosh same here tears of joy beautiful souls.Wish I met my soulmate.God bless

[@sweetest-of-memes]

It came up because you were meant to see it and be reminded of what love can be, I wish you all the best on your journey into this new chapter of your life!

[@grateful7420]

Same. I’m a 54 yr old single woman. These two inspire me to live and live with gratitude

[@charankanoacarson8]

To see these two young people together with a simplicity of how they feel about each other is a truly heartfelt love above and beyond that of which so many of us do not come to ... they do not have a lot of clutter in their thoughts to bog them down with too many questions or what ifs and maybes...it is just there in their hearts and minds as they look at each other with a smile on their face and ... YES...a twinkle in their eye... It is an enormous amount of contentment and assurance that the other one is there even if they are NOT in the same place...a quiet joy...very serene and calm... Precious moments... Thank you, Charlotte and Riley for letting us hear your story... It is truly a beautiful thing...May God Bless you as you live and love

[@RobinFlysHigh]

And wishing the best for you in your newly single life. The fact that this brought you to tears shows your own compassion and humanity I think

[@celticpridedrums]

sweetness, tears, wonderment...my goodness, there's more to life here than what's on tv --humanity is around us.

[@woodanemone9758]

Representation is so important, I am glad they agreed to this interview.

[@hannahpirozzoli6203]

My dad has untreatable paranoid schizophrenia and my mom is a Korean immigrant. They didn't speak the same language, but they fell in love with each other. My dad is non-verbal now due to several strokes from complications with his medications. My mom and dad have loved and stood by each other for almost 30 years. I have witnessed the meaning of love as connection, empathy, sympathy, joy, and respect. Now I'm a psychiatric nurse and I have my own son.

[@queenofswords6463]

Charlotte and Riley are the epitome of how a healthy relationship should be.

[@tinkerbella4605]

Give me a break.

[@mindflowmotivations6575]

Definately

[@ThaMobstarr]

​@@tinkerbella4605bitter

[@nataliealice05]

Healthy? When one person has genetic disorder and mental disability? Absolutely not healthy.

[@theskyisfallingtom]

​@@tinkerbella4605 what does that mean, "give me a break?"

[@PaulaAndreaGaviriaMarmolejo]

“ I want to prove that I’m capable of doing what I’m supposed to do” 4:13… this is very relatable! There are a lot of misconceptions around this and people assume neurodivergent folks are immediately less capable of achieving things. Taking a mental note for myself! ❤

[@sowi-reeikuddye5732]

That's why I prefer the term differently abled as opposed to disabled. Just as capable as anyone, they merely get there by a different route than "neurotypicals".

[@AA-cw7ql]

I am mentally ill and wish I could find a good husband. I am happy for this couple.

[@andreeacosma6843]

❤❤❤be strong!

[@posarandposer]

I’m expecting my first child and she has Down syndrome, I keep thinking to name her Charlotte and call her Charlie. I loved when Charlie said, “having Down syndrome and autism is a normal thing.” This is a wonderful interview, I like this couple very much 💕 they make me happy.

[@pegs1659]

I think Charlotte/Charlie is a beautiful name. God is giving you a wonderful gift. I know you already know that. Stay blessed.

[@CurdBros]

Congrats on your first child! Charlie is a beautiful name.

[@andrewjames2617]

I agree with the other comment. Charlotte/Charlie are both beautiful and sweet. Blessings to you and your little one

[@RobVespa]

Congrats!

[@sarahmorton1699]

There is a beautiful book out there called Chosen for Charlie by Jen Forsthoff. It really helped me out when my baby was diagnosed with DiGeorge Syndrome ❤️

[@neytiriavatar140]

These two beautiful people are far more well adjusted and respectful to each other than millions of couples without down or Asperger. They must have great parents

[@cindycardoza4717]

I cannot agree with you more your absolutely correct on this I love it❤️❤️

[@katofuntato466]

💯

[@Carmen-.-]

Yes! They have true genuine authentic love for each other! What a blessing these two are to one another and to everyone around them!

[@chrisgarrett601]

From a person who has a Learning disability and also was diagnosed with a disease that causes tumors out on the skin and inside. I am 50 and worked 25 years and had to leave work because of issues. These kids are awesome. I am glad now days they got more things for these kids. I am also Autistic.

[@cabelas777]

My goodness, what a wholesome and honest couple. Loved watching this.

[@DulcetNuance]

I love how Riley had a smile plastered on his face the entire time. Both of them being so happy was quite contagious to watch.

[@soup6646]

Riley is so sweet, well-spoken, intelligent, and stoic. What a wonderful husband to have.

[@FabulousSquidward]

His smile while tells the story of how they met melts my heart

[@lucystoner]

He seems to love her very much.

[@Am3lia77]

I don’t think he’s stoic tbh but he does seem like a wonderful husband

[@samanthalena3917]

He’s very intelligent! He also carries a conversation well!

[@Rainxiety]

​@@Am3lia77 I'm reading a book on stoicism. It's very interesting. Anyway, I think he's closer to being stoic than most people

[@user-qe4ym4tc7p]

Какая замечательная пара! И это чудо, что они нашли друг друга и смогли понять, что вдвоем им будет хорошо ❤❤❤

[@user-kr9ko4jr5x]

Пусть живут, но не плодятся

[@charlotteheleneakacharlief8879]

​@@user-kr9ko4jr5xThe same for you, please don't reproduce alcoholic trollsky.

[@oceandream6572]

​@@user-kr9ko4jr5xэто их дело, они не глупы, всё проверят, когда решатся на этот шаг.

[@user-nm9ph8pi3j]

Парень всё правильно говорит.А вот девушка иногда не в тему,или так переводят

[@lavina3896]

@@user-kr9ko4jr5x Слава богу, не вам решать, жить им или нет. Несложно догадаться, из какой вы страны.

[@user-ch2tr7kb5o]

Замечательные люди, добрые, умные, а самое главное такие счастливые и любящие жизнь счастья вам!

[@user-yf1cv7vx5o]

Привет! Добра тебе! Есть мыслеформы которые объединяют людей и восстанавливают ДНК! Набери невиновность человека в мироздании кармы не существует, она навязанная . все пазлы сложатся

[@tonylin9639]

I love them two, as a dad of autistic child, I hope my son turns out just like him.

[@SilverCreekHomestead]

yes!

[@Taniapin43]

Same here❤

[@tonylin9639]

They just so innocent, not a bad though in the world. So straight forward living everyday fully. Beautiful couple.@@Taniapin43

[@aquafina2u]

I worked with a young man with Asperger’s Syndrome. His mind was brilliant.

[@nicoleymacaroni]

Autism is from heavy metals and parasites do a cleanse , google it.

[@beautyonabarnbudget]

I had an elderly down syndrome patient who was at the end of her life. She was a mother and grandmother. She was a GREAT mother and grandmother! She opened my eyes sooo much, and i would absolutely never question parenthood for anyone with a disability. Edit: This was 17 years ago at the beginning of my career. When I 1st read her chart, I thought it was mistaken. I wrongfully had preconceived notions and judgment. It was ALL erased immediately when I saw her interact with her children and grandchildren! She taught me some very valuable lessons. I'm so glad I got to witness her love and care for her family first hand!

[@nevadadan4113]

We would all like to know of some examples as to what made the biggest impact on you by meeting her... thank you in advance. :)

[@darkworlddenizen]

How was she a mother? People with down syndrome are infertile.

[@user-uq2gc4ms3g]

Разве у людей с синдром Дауна могут быть дети? Возможно вы имеете ввиду приемных детей?

[@a.lissan]

​@@user-uq2gc4ms3gвполне могут. Гораздо чаще у женщин с СД. Мужчины практически всегда бесплодны

[@SamsungGalaxy-nm5qt]

Thank you for this! I had thought that downs people didn't live long enough to become elderly.

[@ProveAllThings1Th-5-21]

One word sums this up. PRECIOUS. I pray they have a long life together.

[@Pinup_Panda]

I'm autistic. It's too late for me at 43, but my son is 13 and i pray he will find his own Charlie one day. ❤

[@luzdaryrestrepo4913]

Nunca es tarde si confías en Dios y pones la fé en Él...

[@davidmenke7552]

I LOVE that Charlotte's advice for other kids with Down syndrome is to find a really tall attractive man!!!! Girl not holding back whatsoever! I loved this whole entire interview!

[@morganstaker4928]

That was absolute favorite part of the interview. Realist advice 😂

[@jeanroeder5534]

I would love to see a follow up on this. They are such a sweet perfect couple.

[@dealwolfstriked272]

That made me laugh real good :)

[@bonsummers2657]

Discrimination against 'non tall' guys. Report this vid!!!!!!!

[@sissarons8558]

@@bonsummers2657 I like your sense of humor. My significant other would agree with you...LOL BUT, that authentic, crystalline love between Charlotte and Riley is amazing to witness.

[@odalissk]

Charlotte's speech to the UN was so amazing I am glad she found a tall man who can reach for the stars with her. Congrats you two

[@kiuhkh]

this is so beautifully said!!!

[@naoiseleane7489]

Wow she is really really high functioning with both diagnoses.. It comes across that way atleast. Fair play to the both of them. This is beautiful

[@donnaedelen1199]

Precious couple. A lot of non disabled couples could learn a lot from them!

[@melissamcdaniel3659]

I’m a 51 year old autistic middle School teacher. I also have an autistic son and mother. Our lives are full and happy. I am so happy for you both.

[@Ane127]

Get a homeopath.

[@Jaggerbush]

You're super cute. If you're single HMU 😊

[@SirSelby]

@@Ane127 Why would you say that? What does psuedoscientific “medicine” have to do with anything this person said?

[@awp-erator4525]

you're allowed to teach with autism? how does that work 😂

[@laur_lauryn]

@@awp-erator4525the same way any teacher is hired

[@KingUnity22]

When Riley said "I'm married to the woman who's right for me and I have a good life" TAKE NOTES BOYS THAT IS HOW YOU DO HAPPINESS!

[@Nikki_with_the_blikki]

RIGHT! It's so simple!!

[@justhadtosay680]

Exactly this pair is very lucky!

[@lednevnik]

​@@Nikki_with_the_blikki ikr just be tall and somewhat handsome so you can get a girl with down syndrome😂

[@yajbeats3420]

alright but im not special needs so my options are way more open chill

[@vampirejett]

@@yajbeats3420special needs people can date neurotypical people. they’re just saying that what he said was very sweet and a lot of people don’t know how to treat their partners

[@MattCantSpeakIt]

That is a WONDERFUL couple!!!

[@ThomasForthewin]

There was so much electricity in the air for the whole interview, it's so sweet and wholesome to just listen to a couple that just purely enjoy being together ❤

[@downwithfaith]

I don't have Down's syndrome or autism but I envy your beautiful relationship. Aging alone can be very lonely.

[@RobinFlysHigh]

🙁💞

[@YosemiteLee]

Sending hugs from California Aging here also❤️🙏🏼

[@roxybuell9898]

Sure can. But, Very Happy for them.

[@SaharaColeman]

I almost cried when he said “Im married to the woman who’s right for me” lord please 🙏🏽😭🥺

[@lindakynokephalos7827]

Lucky people and a beautiful story.

[@miguelacosta8244]

This is the sweetest story ever!

[@glenmckenzie3243]

Riley is so eloquent now, it is so hard to believe that he ever felt inadequate socially. It is lovely to see two people who are so in tune together.

[@mary-janereallynotsarah684]

Nah I can see it. He's pretty awkward and anxious which is normal. Being on camera probably makes him more anxious. Also it's edited. I feel like he talked about the lighthouses a lot but they edited it lol. That's just my guess but I really wanted to hear about the lighthouses. It's not my special interest but I am fascinated by them and have always wanted to live in one.

[@kathleen5296]

@@mary-janereallynotsarah684I’ve always wanted to live in a lighthouse, too! We have a lot in my state (Michigan), so it’s nice to visit them.

[@zilness]

I’m most happy about how in love they seem. You can really the kindness in their eyes for each other.

[@patb9463]

@Repent and believe in Jesus Christ REPENT YOURSELF AND GIVE IT A RESR!

[@Witchezcat]

@Repent and believe in Jesus Christ No 😊

[@dacrib5350]

Riley looks genuinely happy and the line " I have a good life, I didn't always ,but I do now." really hit. The guy plays 6 instruments! And I love how simple his interests are, I love making pasta too, man, so good hobby to have! Charlotte seems like a sweetheart too. What a nice couple.

[@nancyminui9108]

Not to mention they're both college educated and have high goals for themselves and each other! They are both remarkable individually and together.

[@carolecochrane8173]

They are a really lovely astute couple, very best wishes to them 😀

[@robinw.8083]

As someone who currently does not have a good life, it's nice to hear someone say what he did.

[@PrisTvv]

Yea

[@rosiewhitfield123]

The make an amazing couple. They’re both very lovely people and suit another. I’m friends with several people who have different issues and they deserve to be respected no matter what the issues are.

[@bluerose717hs]

She's absolutely gorgeous. And he's so handsome and they are just as beautiful In the inside. I'm sooooo happy for them . They get to experience REAL TRUE LOVE most of us will never get to experience

[@Ones2Cents]

This has got to be the most innocent and sweet couple on the internet. Blessings and Happiness to them both, and great Fortune!

[@GinasWorld_]

My son is autistic. Sharing this means the world to me. Gives me hope. Thank you so much xx

[@PEACEinYESHUA-oj7vc1pk7w]

❤

[@pidu4588]

Women are less desperate. They wouldn't want to date an autist.

[@yyg4632]

beautiful i hope he finds love as well!

[@MostBlackmalesaredownlow]

​@@dualismdeeperlaws2430only to the unworthy who know they will self destruct and ruin the marriage

[@shredd5845]

you son is not female. So he never find girlfriend

[@sherb1750]

Someday I want a love like this! And SBSK has further affirmed my belief that I, as a disabled person, can and will find that for myself someday.

[@skulliomax]

You're worthy of love!

[@bri5155]

You will! Your perfect person just hasn’t been put in your path yet! I have chronic health issues and ADHD, and I found my soulmate. I can be ALOT, so if I can Find my person you will too. But it’s true what they say, it does happen when you very least expect it. You are deserving of kindness and love! You’ve got this!

[@lulumoon6942]

You truly can, be your best person every day you feel up to it!

[@kawaRCC]

I feel exactly the same

[@hannahpirozzoli6203]

As the daughter of a disabled person, I became a nurse. My disabled parent was my super hero and I wanted to help people due to this. My non-disabled parent loves my disabled parent so much. This was also a very good model of love growing up. I hope you find the one for you some day. It look my disabled parent 43 years to find his love (my mom).

[@rrrrrrrrreeerrrrtyuii]

Me, russian, I admire this People and Your society that makes people happy whatever they are. The freedom as it has to be. This video makes me cry of happyness. Sorry for my english. Best regards from Moscow!

[@captainshiner42]

They're super cute together. You can tell they have wonderful, caring people in their lives as well. I wish them nothing but the best.

[@marinatrofimova9974]

The most important is that they are happy ❤

[@francoislauzon7716]

They look happier than lots of "normal" people. Really heartwarming.

[@deborahwhit118]

They LOOK

[@MAMorelli]

Hi there, we like to use the term “neurotypical” instead of “normal.”😊

[@exploreshare7925]

Of course, they get a lot of support when „normal“ people are on their own to survive this stressful world.

[@Leslie_Knope]

​@@MAMorelli People like to call women "chest feeders" instead of mothers, I don't care about your language. I'll say what I want to say. I'll just say normal. 😉

[@mashpotatosauce3566]

@@Leslie_Knope You could also just be respectful and not alienate autistic people. 😉

[@ae86fiend]

They achieved what most people struggle to attain...... happiness.

[@priceandpride]

I hope he doesn’t let himself go and get fat

[@TheMinecraftArtist859]

@@priceandpride Unnecessary and rude comment

[@gillianjohnson876]

Very well said!

[@wotaykamara9203]

For people who judge idk y I mean she speaks better than most people!! She just looks a little different THATS ALLL I mean damn, even good style. I swear these people aren’t given ANY CREDIT. God bless them! ❤

[@nijitraganta9188]

Love ❤️ has no boundaries, it’s just between the two people who are in love ❤❤❤❤❤

[@taylor_straub]

Being afraid of tailgaters is 100% legit fear, brother.

[@jennmartin5199]

my thoughts exactly everyone has that .

[@ix8750]

Dude Riley is so lucky, they both are but hearing him say "she brought the motivation out of me." Im so happy for you dude.

[@charlenemack7040]

What a beautiful happy couple. May you stay married forever. 😊💖💙

[@sharyemarx]

This is awesome

[@DS-bg9fl]

As a Mama of a daughter with autism, this gives me great hope. Blessings on these two people!

[@joeb134]

My cousin lives in my household and has autism. At first I was kinda mad because I didn't know this has autism too. Thought he was taking advantage. This is wholesome

[@Ane127]

Get a homeopath.

[@veggielove84]

​@@Ane127 would you be able to explain this comment please ?

[@Thatricanrose81]

Same my 16 year old has autism and just knowing that he can go out into the world and find someone to love and that loves him back and he can have a great life being married, is all I’ve ever wanted for my son to be OK in the world. ❤

[@meljohnson2852]

My 21 year old son is high functioning autistic. He has the most beautiful relationship with his girl friend, who is fully able bodied and a graduate of an Ivy League college. She loves everything about him and vice versa. I strongly believe when we are able to see the beauty in our children’s differences, others will as well. 🫶🏻

[@yaladdin86]

They are happier than many couples out there. You can feel their love for each other. It's so sweet!

[@nicoledickerson9516]

@@sneksteppy so when did feelings become scientific 😂

[@user-cq8fs7yr6w]

​@@sneksteppyдовольные,пока не родили.. риск

[@evanselvis-nzerogu6176]

To people who are normal, you could really feel the love between them!

[@kellygomez4029]

well there is a reason to it and its pretty explanatory, if they did not have these disabilities they would deff be a different couple and have problems. god bless them

[@mightychondria3552]

This is so sweet and really touched my heart . They are such a beautiful and loving couple. I am so happy to see and to know that they are very happy and love each other . They are so precious and intelligent in many ways! God bless their lives together . ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@whatrtheodds]

Wow they must have such supportive parents. Their love for each other is radiant. Im both heart warmed and jealous. ❤💚