SPENDING HIS MONEY | The Slumflower Hour podcast

[@xxfaithyxx1]

Chidera have you heard of Kamanda here on KZbin? She did this exact thing. She had a roster and then married the highest bidder - now he finances her entire life and she ACTUALLY likes him and finds him attractive. This doesn’t have to be in extremes. Simply choose who is best for you.

[@LoneWulf278]

Yeah. There’s nothing wrong with being compensated for what you’re sacrificing. The opportunity cost of sex, marriage, and motherhood is well-known at this point. 🤷‍♀️ If they’re dating someone who doesn’t understand that, then they can’t complain when they end up struggling.

[@mabelbank]

I really find your videos so valuable. Thank you for being unapologetically honest and raw. We need to hear this truth ❤

[@justiceforthe3972]

Her sex work is her choice. Unlike the average woman she is upfront about it instead of wasting years of your life before feeling resentful for her own choices that lead the man to a predicament he really never wanted to be in, and then taking half of everything he worked for because the grass is seemingly greener on the other side.

[@leahcox6055]

I totally get you. Aim for the stars or stay in the mud. im 43 hoping it's not too too late...may your 40s be fabulous!

[@skamgodt964]

It's never too late to spend a man's money. Do you think it's over for Chidera in 13 years? No.

[@KingdomofKinship]

lmfao its definitely too late. Women are going to delude you and shower you with compliments nobodies looking for a 40+ year old woman to spoil.

[@saulsaul6492]

@@skamgodt964 She is spending far more of her followers money. Who do you really think is paying her more, her followers or men?

[@catchabbie]

​@@saulsaul6492 Both and we love that for her.

[@baepy]

I always make it a point to allocate some of the money men give me towards my retirement annuity. Even if they disappoint me, I know they are paying reperations way into the future

[@anartsyaries]

you were SPITTING this episode!!

[@ball-rf6zf]

She’s making this shit up. She must be. It’s good that she’s found the right audience/minions for it though😂😂

[@Christallion77]

"Sweet nothings"...Ahhh the clarity!

[@Svga0006]

This was right on time for me🕓

[@prettycindybindy]

❤❤❤ Wealth of self esteem! #1 Self improvement! (Constant) Enjoy the moment until it expires!

[@evbogbaievelynalozie7598]

Well done chidera❤......

[@svlrji]

You really went into turbo mode from 45:00 on. Go off sis

[@saulsaul6492]

Who do you really think is paying her more, her followers or men? Who's money is she really spending? Mugs!

[@plumenommershpadoinkle7575]

its only fair she be compensated for the work shes doing. shes never claimed to be running a charity

[@saulsaul6492]

THE DAMAGED GOODS PODCAST

[@wonderfulwigswomen]

36:18 yes so long as they follow up the words with actions

[@jeahluna2385]

well im actually spending it sometimes on other women i love it i need one who be happy for that its a form of help and make them think shes doing it right but still single.lol men who make sense doesnt need to have this explained convenience is offered most right away when they want you. a broke man beats around bush.

[@Ngozi-q8e]

She is not good

[@Nubia88]

Pure foolishness

[@ldervan726]

she is just average looking and not getting any younger would suit a rich 60+ year old man who accepts he is being used. keep on taking her advice 🤣🤣🤣

[@wonderfulwigswomen]

It’s not always the Uber hot women who get men with money to pay for things so stop being mean for no reason .

[@Fakus-x2z]

@@wonderfulwigswomen I was going to ask her to sell me one of her wigs and then you came along

[@femiolotu6482]

So much Delulu 😂.

[@ChiddyAnn]

Oh of course you'll say it's all Delulu, didn't expect much from a Femi 😂 A man with money won't have time to watch her videos and drop comments like this.

[@wirralh770]

Not the ideal daughter in law

[@111earthangel5]

Boo 🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅

[@catchabbie]

Yeah, the ideal daughter inlaw is one who would let my son use her till she shrinks😢 what's wrong with women these days.

[@johnnymonge8987]

@@catchabbie Or just someone who isnt a misandrist perhaps?